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Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 04:53
Okay time for you guys to 'fess up.

How many of you want to be pegged?

How many of you have been thusly loved?

Depends on who is doing the pegging. I'd be willing to try, provided plenty of lube.
Neesika
21-11-2008, 04:58
No thanks. Exit only back there.
Fail.
Not I, and never.
Fail.
Depends on who is doing the pegging. I'd be willing to try, provided plenty of lube.

Win!

This is the thing that is simply sooo unfair.

Anal feels awesome. Awesomely awesome. Intensely wonderfully holy moly that's good wickedly wonderfully awesome. To most women who are willing to try it (and the lucky men who are plugging them).

You men have the prostrate gland, a bloody large g-spot, just lurking, waiting, needing to be touched. I have never had a guy not enjoy me sticking my finger up their ass during sex, or head. It's intense, and might not be something you can handle for long periods of time, but it's not something I've had a guy say 'omg please don't ever do that again' to.

Now just imagine how much better it would be with some deeper penetration. If it's that good for us...imagine how much better it would be for you?

I honestly don't understand why someone wouldn't be into it...other than they tried it, and it felt terrible. That's at least somewhat understandable. Sucks, and someone was doing it wrong, but ah well.

But just being dead set against the idea? Oh tsk, tsk. I honestly think for most men it's a bullshit gender issue. It's okay to stick your cock in a woman's ass, but not okay for you to take something in the ass? Does it emasculate you? Make you gay? I don't get the reasoning.
SaintB
21-11-2008, 04:58
Okay time for you guys to 'fess up.

How many of you want to be pegged?

How many of you have been thusly loved?

I'll just flat our refuse to answer rather than skillfully dodge the question. I'm not going to post directly on to a forum my more kinky things.
But I am usually not hard to reach privatly
Neesika
21-11-2008, 05:00
I'll just flat our refuse to answer rather than skillfully dodge the question. I'm not going to post directly on to a forum my more kinky things.
But I am usually not hard to reach privatly

S'okay, I'm more into open talk.
Gauntleted Fist
21-11-2008, 05:02
But just being dead set against the idea? Oh tsk, tsk. I honestly think for most men it's a bullshit gender issue. It's okay to stick your cock in a woman's ass, but not okay for you to take something in the ass? Does it emasculate you? Make you gay? I don't get the reasoning.That's because I have no reason.
Do I need one if I don't want to do something sexual in nature? Nope. Oh, sure, I could always bullshit some answer, but I really have no reason. :p
SaintB
21-11-2008, 05:05
S'okay, I'm more into open talk.

For the truly curious I am not hard to reach *shrugs* But I have my doubts that anyone is.

I just have a complex about openly proclaiming certain things that any of millions who could view this website might find and stalk me for or something. I'm not being rude...
Knights of Liberty
21-11-2008, 05:05
Fail.

Fail.


Win!

This is the thing that is simply sooo unfair.

Anal feels awesome. Awesomely awesome. Intensely wonderfully holy moly that's good wickedly wonderfully awesome. To most women who are willing to try it (and the lucky men who are plugging them).

You men have the prostrate gland, a bloody large g-spot, just lurking, waiting, needing to be touched. I have never had a guy not enjoy me sticking my finger up their ass during sex, or head. It's intense, and might not be something you can handle for long periods of time, but it's not something I've had a guy say 'omg please don't ever do that again' to.

Now just imagine how much better it would be with some deeper penetration. If it's that good for us...imagine how much better it would be for you?

I honestly don't understand why someone wouldn't be into it...other than they tried it, and it felt terrible. That's at least somewhat understandable. Sucks, and someone was doing it wrong, but ah well.

But just being dead set against the idea? Oh tsk, tsk. I honestly think for most men it's a bullshit gender issue. It's okay to stick your cock in a woman's ass, but not okay for you to take something in the ass? Does it emasculate you? Make you gay? I don't get the reasoning.



The reasoning? Having things up there doesnt feel good. Ive had chicks stick a finger up there when they were sucking me off, and I was not fond of it. Why should I think it would feel any better with a larger object going in deeper:p?


Besides, Im very dominant in bed and me and the lady do a lot of S&M. Me bending over and taking it isnt very dominant:p
Neesika
21-11-2008, 05:11
For the truly curious I am not hard to reach *shrugs* But I have my doubts that anyone is.

I just have a complex about openly proclaiming certain things that any of millions who could view this website might find and stalk me for or something. I'm not being rude... No worries.

That's because I have no reason.
Do I need one if I don't want to do something sexual in nature? Nope. Oh, sure, I could always bullshit some answer, but I really have no reason. :p I can't imagine not being willing to try something. I mean, other than things on my "no way" list. (scat/kids/animals/dead people/non-consensual anything)
The reasoning? Having things up there doesnt feel good. Ive had chicks stick a finger up there when they were sucking me off, and I was not fond of it. Why should I think it would feel any better with a larger object going in deeper:p?


Besides, Im very dominant in bed and me and the lady do a lot of S&M. Me bending over and taking it isnt very dominant:p

See? There's that gender thing. You can't be dominant and take it up the ass? Frick, you can't ever not even once? Can I not be submissive if I peg a guy? I don't struggle with that.
Knights of Liberty
21-11-2008, 05:13
See? There's that gender thing. You can't be dominant and take it up the ass? Frick, you can't ever not even once? Can I not be submissive if I peg a guy? I don't struggle with that.

You completelly ignored the part were I said that putting things in there, for me at least, doesnt feel good.

Some women dont like things in their pooper. Why is it suddently a gender thing when I dont?
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 05:15
Win!

This is the thing that is simply sooo unfair.

Anal feels awesome. Awesomely awesome. Intensely wonderfully holy moly that's good wickedly wonderfully awesome. To most women who are willing to try it (and the lucky men who are plugging them).

You men have the prostrate gland, a bloody large g-spot, just lurking, waiting, needing to be touched. I have never had a guy not enjoy me sticking my finger up their ass during sex, or head. It's intense, and might not be something you can handle for long periods of time, but it's not something I've had a guy say 'omg please don't ever do that again' to.

Now just imagine how much better it would be with some deeper penetration. If it's that good for us...imagine how much better it would be for you?

I honestly don't understand why someone wouldn't be into it...other than they tried it, and it felt terrible. That's at least somewhat understandable. Sucks, and someone was doing it wrong, but ah well.

But just being dead set against the idea? Oh tsk, tsk. I honestly think for most men it's a bullshit gender issue. It's okay to stick your cock in a woman's ass, but not okay for you to take something in the ass? Does it emasculate you? Make you gay? I don't get the reasoning.

I'd only ever be willing to try it with someone that I trusted a hell of a lot, though. I wouldn't be okay with just any woman fucking me in the ass.
Gauntleted Fist
21-11-2008, 05:15
I can't imagine not being willing to try something. I mean, other than things on my "no way" list. (scat/kids/animals/dead people/non-consensual anything)I can, but that's just me. ;)
Neesika
21-11-2008, 05:37
You completelly ignored the part were I said that putting things in there, for me at least, doesnt feel good. I totally did. I chose to focus on the dominant excuse. "It doesn't feel good" makes sense..."it means I can't be dominant" doesn't.

Some women dont like things in their pooper. Why is it suddently a gender thing when I dont?
Same reason a lot of women wouldn't be interested in pegging a man. Silly ideas about who should penetrate and who should be penetrated. And I shouldn't say it's just a gender thing...it's clearly based on gender and sexual orientation :P
Neesika
21-11-2008, 05:38
I can, but that's just me. ;)

I'm not into toes. But if someone asked me to suck on their toes...or asked to suck on my toes because it really really turned them on...why not give it a shot? Etc.
Knights of Liberty
21-11-2008, 05:40
I totally did. I chose to focus on the dominant excuse. "It doesn't feel good" makes sense..."it means I can't be dominant" doesn't.

Same reason a lot of women wouldn't be interested in pegging a man. Silly ideas about who should penetrate and who should be penetrated. And I shouldn't say it's just a gender thing...it's clearly based on gender and sexual orientation :P

Lets ignore the "it doesnt feel good" side of my reason and lets pretend that the reason I dont like it is because it is a gender thing. Why is that wrong necissarilly? If someone doesnt feel comfortable with something, isnt the reason kind of irrelevent?
Gauntleted Fist
21-11-2008, 05:42
I'm not into toes. But if someone asked me to suck on their toes...or asked to suck on my toes because it really really turned them on...why not give it a shot? Etc.I would suppose that I won't know unless I end up in that particular situation. :tongue:
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 05:45
There are some things that people will not be comfortable with. That's fine. As I've mentioned, for various reasons, choking is not something I'm ever going to be willing to do in a sexual context. That would be a problem if my ladyfriend really really wanted that, but fortunately, as far as I know she doesn't.

For KoL, perhaps the idea of pegging is just a turn off, for whatever reason.
Neesika
21-11-2008, 05:49
Lets ignore the "it doesnt feel good" side of my reason and lets pretend that the reason I dont like it is because it is a gender thing. Why is that wrong necissarilly? If someone doesnt feel comfortable with something, isnt the reason kind of irrelevent?

Nah, chill out. I ignored the "it doesn't feel good" argument because it's a good, stand alone, no further explanation needed argument. You made your case with that, and it was clear. I'm not arguing with it, because when it comes to sex, 'what you're comfortable with' is pretty much it, isn't it? No one really needs to explain themselves further.

I'm interested in the hypothetical concept of receiving anal sex being completely antithetical to dominance. It suggests that receiving anal sex is inherently submissive. It further suggests that receiving penetration in any form is submissive, and since females are overwhelmingly the ones who are the ones receiving said penetration, the natural role for women is a submissive one because of that penetration. Which doesn't really make sense. Would an unpenetrated woman be unsubmissive?

I'm not questioning your preferences, just teasing you about them, and exploring the more general concept.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 05:52
Nah, chill out. I ignored the "it doesn't feel good" argument because it's a good, stand alone, no further explanation needed argument. You made your case with that, and it was clear. I'm not arguing with it, because when it comes to sex, 'what you're comfortable with' is pretty much it, isn't it? No one really needs to explain themselves further.

I'm interested in the hypothetical concept of receiving anal sex being completely antithetical to dominance. It suggests that receiving anal sex is inherently submissive. It further suggests that receiving penetration in any form is submissive, and since females are overwhelmingly the ones who are the ones receiving said penetration, the natural role for women is a submissive one because of that penetration. Which doesn't really make sense. Would an unpenetrated woman be unsubmissive?

I'm not questioning your preferences, just teasing you about them, and exploring the more general concept.

Hmmm... interesting. What if the person receiving penetration is on top? Is it still submissive if that penetration is anal? How can it be, when the person receiving is in control?
Knights of Liberty
21-11-2008, 05:53
Nah, chill out. I ignored the "it doesn't feel good" argument because it's a good, stand alone, no further explanation needed argument. You made your case with that, and it was clear. I'm not arguing with it, because when it comes to sex, 'what you're comfortable with' is pretty much it, isn't it? No one really needs to explain themselves further.

I'm interested in the hypothetical concept of receiving anal sex being completely antithetical to dominance. It suggests that receiving anal sex is inherently submissive. It further suggests that receiving penetration in any form is submissive, and since females are overwhelmingly the ones who are the ones receiving said penetration, the natural role for women is a submissive one because of that penetration. Which doesn't really make sense. Would an unpenetrated woman be unsubmissive?

I'm not questioning your preferences, just teasing you about them, and exploring the more general concept.


I know, I am chill, Im now just posing questions.

For some reason, people expect me to be prepetually angry/tense on NSG. I wonder why that is?;)
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 05:56
I know, I am chill, Im now just posing questions.

For some reason, people expect me to be prepetually angry/tense on NSG. I wonder why that is?;)

Because you often have a very aggressive debate style. And you're a known metalhead, which carries some stereotypes and perceptions.
Knights of Liberty
21-11-2008, 05:57
Because you often have a very aggressive debate style. And you're a known metalhead, which carries some stereotypes and perceptions.
:p


The "wonder why that is" was a rhetorical question. I know the answer;)
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 05:59
:p


The "wonder why that is" was a rhetorical question. I know the answer;)

Sorry, I've been doing that a lot lately. It's a habit I picked up from the ladyfriend, who often seriously answers what she knows are rhetorical questions or sarcasm.
Knights of Liberty
21-11-2008, 06:00
Sorry, I've been doing that a lot lately. It's a habit I picked up from the ladyfriend, who often seriously answers what she knows are rhetorical questions or sarcasm.

Fair enough. Ive always been a very self aware person, and Im very knowledgeable that Im vicious:p
Neesika
21-11-2008, 06:01
Hmmm... interesting. What if the person receiving penetration is on top? Is it still submissive if that penetration is anal? How can it be, when the person receiving is in control?
I don't know...is being on top inherently dominant? I'm on top pretty often and I don't feel particularly dominant when I'm doing it...okay yes more in control I suppose.

But I will admit that the idea of pegging a man is a turn on for me because it is indeed a 'dominant' act in my mind, so look at me all buying into the gender stereotypes!
I know, I am chill, Im now just posing questions.

For some reason, people expect me to be prepetually angry/tense on NSG. I wonder why that is?;)

Because NSG is adversarial in nature?

omg, Colbert is having a Christmas special?

I can't bloody wait.
Poliwanacraca
21-11-2008, 06:02
I can't imagine not being willing to try something. I mean, other than things on my "no way" list. (scat/kids/animals/dead people/non-consensual anything)


Yeah, I'm the same way. There are things I am unwilling to try because they actively repulse me in some way, but I don't really understand not trying something just because it doesn't seem like it would be fun. I mean, sheesh, if I'd stuck with only doing things that seemed fun without ever having tried them, I would be a very, very vanilla girl today. :tongue:
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 06:02
Fair enough. Ive always been a very self aware person, and Im very knowledgeable that Im vicious:p

It's funny that I come here, since I don't actually like debating all that much. I don't like being that angry and mean, which is kinda how I get when arguing/debating.
Gauntleted Fist
21-11-2008, 06:02
For some reason, people expect me to be prepetually angry/tense on NSG. I wonder why that is?;)Gee, I wonder. :D
Knights of Liberty
21-11-2008, 06:02
omg, Colbert is having a Christmas special?

I can't bloody wait.

It looks funny. Ill just change the channel when Toby Keith is on.

Anyway, new sex topic....hmmmm.

Rimjobs.
Neesika
21-11-2008, 06:03
Fair enough. Ive always been a very self aware person, and Im very knowledgeable that Im vicious:p

Are you?

I don't notice people who are less harsh than me :p
Knights of Liberty
21-11-2008, 06:03
Are you?

I don't notice people who are less harsh than me :p

Ill show you harsh...
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 06:07
I don't know...is being on top inherently dominant? I'm on top pretty often and I don't feel particularly dominant when I'm doing it...okay yes more in control I suppose.

But I will admit that the idea of pegging a man is a turn on for me because it is indeed a 'dominant' act in my mind, so look at me all buying into the gender stereotypes!


I dunno, being on top seems dominant. But that might be just because in my very limited experience it is. That may just be a perception because that's how my ladyfriend is.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 06:08
It looks funny. Ill just change the channel when Toby Keith is on.

Anyway, new sex topic....hmmmm.

Rimjobs.

That's not new, I already brought up the subject of licking ass.
Neesika
21-11-2008, 06:11
Yup, been there, done that, received, got the t-shirt.
Gauntleted Fist
21-11-2008, 06:13
Yup, been there, done that, received, got the t-shirt....I'm not sure if I should take you seriously or not.
Especially at this point. :p
Knights of Liberty
21-11-2008, 06:16
Yup, been there, done that, received, got the t-shirt.

I havent read the whole thread.


Ok, someone who has, pick a new topic.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 06:20
Hmmm, having trouble thinking of something, so until someone else does, how about Pubic Hair.

Does a lover's pubic hair matter for you? Does your own?
Knights of Liberty
21-11-2008, 06:22
Does a lover's pubic hair matter for you?

I prefer shaved, but Im tolerant as long as I can find the clit without too much effort.

Does your own?

Trimmed and controled. Many of my lovers have told me that totally shaved makes you look like a pornstar and is just laughable. I dont know if thats a common feeling.


In all honosty, in regards to my own, Im flexable. Not like it takes much effort to shave.
Poliwanacraca
21-11-2008, 06:26
Hmmm, having trouble thinking of something, so until someone else does, how about Pubic Hair.

Does a lover's pubic hair matter for you? Does your own?

Not terribly, beyond basic hygiene (i.e. I do not like it if their private parts smell like week-old sweat. Ew). Trimmed is nice, though.

As for my own, pretty much the same - I make sure I stay smelling nice, but beyond that it's mostly up to my partner. I do very much prefer not to shave completely, though, because it makes me feel creepy, like I'm trying to look like I'm 10 years old from the waist down or something.
Knights of Liberty
21-11-2008, 06:39
As for my own, pretty much the same - I make sure I stay smelling nice, but beyond that it's mostly up to my partner. I do very much prefer not to shave completely, though, because it makes me feel creepy, like I'm trying to look like I'm 10 years old from the waist down or something.

Thing is, if Im going to eat a chick out, the smoother the better. It just makes it more pleasent.


"Landing strips" are acceptable.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 06:39
Not terribly, beyond basic hygiene (i.e. I do not like it if their private parts smell like week-old sweat. Ew). Trimmed is nice, though.

As for my own, pretty much the same - I make sure I stay smelling nice, but beyond that it's mostly up to my partner. I do very much prefer not to shave completely, though, because it makes me feel creepy, like I'm trying to look like I'm 10 years old from the waist down or something.

Hygiene is a whole separate issue. Bad hygiene is a turn-off no matter what, pretty much.

But yeah, I ask because a lot of people seem to prefer shaved, which really is a bit of a turn off to me. It just looks... weird, and yeah, kinda juvenile. Of course, I'm used to my ladyfriend not shaving at all down there, so if she suddenly shaved it all, I'd probably feel like a pedo or something, cause she's already kinda tiny.

As for myself, I don't shave or trim anywhere near my junk. I guess I never really saw the point. And I'm lazy. Also, since I'm a total klutz, really fucking clumsy, no joke, I would be nervous about getting something sharp anywhere near there.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 06:40
Thing is, if Im going to eat a chick out, the smoother the better.

I've heard that has its advantages. My ladyfriend's pubes don't bother me when I'm eating her out, though.
Knights of Liberty
21-11-2008, 06:42
I've heard that has its advantages. My ladyfriend's pubes don't bother me when I'm eating her out, though.

Its unrealistic to expect every girl I meet to be shaven. However, the less hair/smoother, the better. Especially near the "lips".


Like I said, "landing strips" are fine. A lot of guys think theyre hot. I never got why. To me, theyre just "there".
Muravyets
21-11-2008, 06:43
I was so chastised by your first post, berating us for talking about sex too much...oh Mur'v I'm just so confused...:tongue:
Good. That's just the way I like ya. :D
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 06:44
Its unrealistic to expect every girl I meet to be shaven. However, the less hair/smoother, the better. Especially near the "lips".


Like I said, "landing strips" are fine. A lot of guys think theyre hot. I never got why. To me, theyre just "there".

*shrugs* Like I said, I'm used to totally unshaven down there. It's never been a problem.
Poliwanacraca
21-11-2008, 06:45
As for myself, I don't shave or trim anywhere near my junk. I guess I never really saw the point. And I'm lazy. Also, since I'm a total klutz, really fucking clumsy, no joke, I would be nervous about getting something sharp anywhere near there.

Yeah, that's also part of why I'm less than keen on shaving - one of the first times I tried, my aim was a bit off, and, well, "ow" would be an understatement.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 06:48
Yeah, that's also part of why I'm less than keen on shaving - one of the first times I tried, my aim was a bit off, and, well, "ow" would be an understatement.

Yeah... sounds like an unpleasantness that I don't really think I ever need to experience myself.
Al-garbh
21-11-2008, 06:49
It's all about you and the people who engage yourself with... if your partner likes being urinated or punched in the back of the head and you feel okay with it... just do it! Better to talk bout these things in advance cause i'm guessing that surprise buttsecks has to awful!
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 06:50
I am shocked and appalled, also.



A little turned on?


Shocked!

Lately it's been taking quite a bit to perk me up

Okay time for you guys to 'fess up.

How many of you want to be pegged?

How many of you have been thusly loved?

getting pegged is awesome and you know how good the wife is with her strap-on.

It looks funny. Ill just change the channel when Toby Keith is on.

Anyway, new sex topic....hmmmm.

Rimjobs.

I'm down with giving and getting those beso negros

Hmmm, having trouble thinking of something, so until someone else does, how about Pubic Hair.

Does a lover's pubic hair matter for you? Does your own?

I'm a fan of fully shaved on both men and women. I don't mind if there is a little hair though.
Neesika
21-11-2008, 06:50
I waxed for a while...oooh that was awesome. Until the ingrown hairs started. So I shave a bit, and trim the rest, and that works just fine. As long as my partner isn't 70's pornstar afro-huge, then I'm generally good with whatever. Though I haven't had a chance to go down on a waxed pussy yet and I'd like to.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 06:50
it's all about you and the people who engage yourself with... If your partner likes being urinated or punched in the back of the head and you feel okay with it... Just do it! Better to talk bout these things in advance cause i'm guessing that surprise buttsecks has to awful!

suhprize buttsecks!!

Unfortunately not as cool as it sounds. Because the surprise part might be seen as ruling out the use of lube... which is kinda important
Neo Art
21-11-2008, 06:53
Yeah, that's also part of why I'm less than keen on shaving - one of the first times I tried, my aim was a bit off, and, well, "ow" would be an understatement.

yeah, but, you enjoy that.
Neesika
21-11-2008, 06:57
Okay, bedtime. Normally I like spreading out in my bed all alone, but tonight I really wish I had someone to snuggle with.

Stupid crappy stupidness interfering with me.
Muravyets
21-11-2008, 06:58
Yeah, I'm the same way. There are things I am unwilling to try because they actively repulse me in some way, but I don't really understand not trying something just because it doesn't seem like it would be fun. I mean, sheesh, if I'd stuck with only doing things that seemed fun without ever having tried them, I would be a very, very vanilla girl today. :tongue:
I have a very active and vivid imagination with full sensory involvement. I pretty much react to just the idea of a thing the same way I react to the reality of it. So I pretty much know what turns me off. I guess lots of people have the experience that, they think something turns them off, but if they let their lover talk them into trying it, they find out they really like it. I have never had that experience. Every time I've tried something I was not interested in, it was just as much or more of a turn-off as when I just imagined it. And when I do try stuff that turns me on in fantasy, it's just as big a blast in reality.

I dunno, being on top seems dominant. But that might be just because in my very limited experience it is. That may just be a perception because that's how my ladyfriend is.
I think it depends on what the person on the bottom is doing. I've been on top but not in charge, often.
Neo Art
21-11-2008, 07:04
I have a very active and vivid imagination with full sensory involvement. I pretty much react to just the idea of a thing the same way I react to the reality of it. So I pretty much know what turns me off. I guess lots of people have the experience that, they think something turns them off, but if they let their lover talk them into trying it, they find out they really like it. I have never had that experience. Every time I've tried something I was not interested in, it was just as much or more of a turn-off as when I just imagined it. And when I do try stuff that turns me on in fantasy, it's just as big a blast in reality.

See, I'm just the same way. Don't tell me "try it, you'll like it" nonsense. I know me, I have a pretty good capacity to imagine, and I'm pretty sure I know what I like and what I don't. And if I'm pretty sure I won't like something, I'm probably right.
Knights of Liberty
21-11-2008, 07:06
See, I'm just the same way. Don't tell me "try it, you'll like it" nonsense. I know me, I have a pretty good capacity to imagine, and I'm pretty sure I know what I like and what I don't. And if I'm pretty sure I won't like something, I'm probably right.

Ive never understood the "try it" plea.

Ive never taken a hammer to my left nut. But Im pretty sure it wouldnt be "hawt".
Poliwanacraca
21-11-2008, 07:06
yeah, but, you enjoy that.

Heh. That was totally not the sexy kind of pain so much as the, "owowowowowowowowowowow I want my mommy WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH" kind of pain. :tongue:
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 07:14
glory holes

great idea

or greatest idea?
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 07:36
for a first date, I mean.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 07:41
I have a very active and vivid imagination with full sensory involvement. I pretty much react to just the idea of a thing the same way I react to the reality of it. So I pretty much know what turns me off. I guess lots of people have the experience that, they think something turns them off, but if they let their lover talk them into trying it, they find out they really like it. I have never had that experience. Every time I've tried something I was not interested in, it was just as much or more of a turn-off as when I just imagined it. And when I do try stuff that turns me on in fantasy, it's just as big a blast in reality.

Hmm. See, my ladyfriend isn't like that. Perhaps because of her sheltered background. She actually was reluctant to try cunnilingus (not sure why) but now can't get enough.
Neo Art
21-11-2008, 07:47
glory holes

great idea

or greatest idea?

depends. What side of the hole?
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 15:40
No I qwould not do a glory hole.

I like to know who I'm fuckin. That's what it's all about to me, the connection with another person.

I been drinkin though. So my answers my be les than eloquent.
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 16:55
It's not me! I'm so sad!

There's two reasons to that self-inflicted pain:

a) You never asked and thus don't qualify

b) You share personal information way too easily - you don't give me the satisfying smack of challenge I crave



It's a damn good thing I don't require possible sexual partners to write me an essay or I'd never have sex!


May I write you an essay? Oh, and is this the right space to confess that I get turned on by people using semicolons (correctly)? Is this where I admit that I've corrected a journal submission re: the usage of her (non-native) English for my supervisor and scribbled on the margin that I'd please love to be her bitch for her superior semicolon skills?

Oh, I guess it isn't. Sorry.

Okay time for you guys to 'fess up.

How many of you want to be pegged?

How many of you have been thusly loved?

While, as mentioned above, I don't particularly derive the greatest pleasure of all from receiving anal myself, I'd abso-fucking-lutely love to try pegging on the boyfriend, but he is very averse to the idea.

Hmmm, having trouble thinking of something, so until someone else does, how about Pubic Hair.

Does a lover's pubic hair matter for you? Does your own?

I like to keep mine very closely trimmed, both for visual as well as for hygienic reasons, but I refuse to shave it completely (as the boyfriend would like me to) because I feel like I tried to look like a prepubescent down there.

I'm very grateful if my lovers of either sex keep theirs under control as well.

glory holes

great idea

or greatest idea?

Never tried it, and I think I'd have sanitary/health issues, but my freak for penises makes me find the idea of "treating" all kinds of offered penises very delightful.
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 17:28
depends. What side of the hole?

either side :p


Never tried it, and I think I'd have sanitary/health issues, but my freak for penises makes me find the idea of "treating" all kinds of offered penises very delightful.

same here
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 17:43
same here

But unless I'm far mistaken, you have the huge advantage of having a penis of your own to satisfy your base penis urges - I don't! I have to rely on the kindness of my partner to lend me his to play with, which sucks.
Glorious Freedonia
21-11-2008, 17:51
My preference is completely smooth hairless pubic area. If there is short but soft (no stubble) pubic hair that is fine. My main turnoff in the hair department is hair on the butt/butthole/buttcrack area. That is not cool. I denied a girl buttsex once because she buttcrack hair. Yuck! That would be like doing it with a man. Nasty nasty nasty.
Glorious Freedonia
21-11-2008, 17:52
Pegging just seems a little gay. I also do not think that my rectum would find it agreeable.
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 17:53
But unless I'm far mistaken, you have the huge advantage of having a penis of your own to satisfy your base penis urges - I don't! I have to rely on the kindness of my partner to lend me his to play with, which sucks.

My penis mostly satisfies my wifes base penis urges; I'm not quite that flexible. Luckily, though, we have friends that can help in that regard. :wink:
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 17:54
Pegging just seems a little gay. I also do not think that my rectum would find it agreeable.

What about a finger? Milking the prostate is an amazing feeling.
Glorious Freedonia
21-11-2008, 17:57
What about a finger? Milking the prostate is an amazing feeling.

I do not think I ever had fingers in my butt from a woman that knew what she was doing. If I met a woman who was a skilled prostate stimulator I would go for it. However, my experiences in that area have been at best uncomfortable.
Glorious Freedonia
21-11-2008, 18:00
I asked my wife about her thoughts on this thread. She gets all of her dating information from those ridiculous dating shows on TV. She could not believe that people would or should discuss any of these topics on the first date.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 18:02
But unless I'm far mistaken, you have the huge advantage of having a penis of your own to satisfy your base penis urges - I don't! I have to rely on the kindness of my partner to lend me his to play with, which sucks.

Penis penis penis.
Neo Art
21-11-2008, 18:11
Penis penis penis.

fantastic Mission Hill reference.
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 18:16
I do not think I ever had fingers in my butt from a woman that knew what she was doing. If I met a woman who was a skilled prostate stimulator I would go for it. However, my experiences in that area have been at best uncomfortable.

it definitely takes skill, patience and dedication
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 18:20
My penis mostly satisfies my wifes base penis urges; I'm not quite that flexible. Luckily, though, we have friends that can help in that regard. :wink:
Well, my penis urges include much more than just having it stuck in various places inside me, you see.
What about a finger? Milking the prostate is an amazing feeling.
Hrmpf. I've been trying to do that for my man repeatedly, but I don't seem to get very far up his ass, let alone anywhere I could feel anything remotely like a prostrate. I get very frustrated by consulting all sorts of (online) advice and hearing you folks talk about it and somehow not getting it done myself. Hrmpf.
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 18:34
Hrmpf. I've been trying to do that for my man repeatedly, but I don't seem to get very far up his ass, let alone anywhere I could feel anything remotely like a prostrate. I get very frustrated by consulting all sorts of (online) advice and hearing you folks talk about it and somehow not getting it done myself. Hrmpf.

If only mine would let me do that to him.:(
Neo Art
21-11-2008, 18:42
Well, my penis urges include much more than just having it stuck in various places inside me, you see.

....now I"m intrigued.
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 18:44
Well, my penis urges include much more than just having it stuck in various places inside me, you see.

Well, so do mine, but to list them would take too long. :tongue:

Hrmpf. I've been trying to do that for my man repeatedly, but I don't seem to get very far up his ass, let alone anywhere I could feel anything remotely like a prostrate. I get very frustrated by consulting all sorts of (online) advice and hearing you folks talk about it and somehow not getting it done myself. Hrmpf.

For me it doesn't take very much penetration with the fingers at all. Two well lubed fingers pressed lightly into the rectum, with pressure going toward the taint (as she gives oral stimulation, or phalangeal) is all it really takes to get me squirming and moaning. Too much finger thrusting and it gets uncomfortable fast. A circular shallow rub is perfect for my needs. I'm not sure about most guys though. Just concentrate on getting positive reactions rather than any specific depth or things you expect to feel. Ignore this advice if it's totally wrong.
SaintB
21-11-2008, 18:50
....now I"m intrigued.

I second that motion.
Hotwife
21-11-2008, 18:51
I second that motion.

Yes, but this thread is useless without pics.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 18:52
Yes, but this thread is useless without pics.

If we posted pics they'd be deleted and we'd be banned.
Western Mercenary Unio
21-11-2008, 18:52
Yes, but this thread is useless without pics.

Yeah, I second this.
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 18:53
....now I"m intrigued.

Well, so do mine, but to list them would take too long. :tongue:

That. I mean, I can honestly think of only very few things I would not like to do with it. I like to hold it. I like to stroke it, squeeze it, twirl it, do anything my hand scan do with it. I like to lick it, bite it, nibble it, do anything my mouth, lips, tongue and teeth can do with it. I'd love to cover it in various things and eat them off it, but he won't let me. I like to let it slide over various parts of my body - well, all, in fact. I like to massage it with my tits. I like to watch it. I especially like to tease it and watch it twitch. I like to.. well, lots of things, really.

For me it doesn't take very much penetration with the fingers at all. Two well lubed fingers pressed lightly into the rectum, with pressure going toward the taint (as she gives oral stimulation, or phalangeal) is all it really takes to get me squirming and moaning. Too much finger thrusting and it gets uncomfortable fast. A circular shallow rub is perfect for my needs. I'm not sure about most guys though. Just concentrate on getting positive reactions rather than any specific depth or things you expect to feel. Ignore this advice if it's totally wrong.

This reassures me. It's hard to get him to talk about/during sex at all, but I will try to force him to give me feedback an doing those things. I'll report back ASAP (keep the threat alive!).

If only mine would let me do that to him.:(

Yeah, it took me quite a lot of convincing too.
Hotwife
21-11-2008, 18:53
If we posted pics they'd be deleted and we'd be banned.

Only after we were entertained though.
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 18:55
I second that motion.

Jesses, folks, give me a break here. I'm technically working!

Yes, but this thread is useless without pics.

You sure you want to see pics of my stubby fingers stuck in the BF's hairy ass? Well, sorry, even if you are suchly deluded, not a can-do.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 18:56
That. I mean, I can honestly think of only very few things I would not like to do with it. I like to hold it. I like to stroke it, squeeze it, twirl it, do anything my hand scan do with it. I like to lick it, bite it, nibble it, do anything my mouth, lips, tongue and teeth can do with it. I'd love to cover it in various things and eat them off it, but he won't let me. I like to let it slide over various parts of my body - well, all, in fact. I like to massage it with my tits. I like to watch it. I especially like to tease it and watch it twitch. I like to.. well, lots of things, really.


Wow. You are awesome.
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 18:59
Wow. You are awesome.

I take this to mean that there are actually guys out there who would let me do this to them, and maybe even without making it painfully felt that they are just humoring me. Hope springs eternal.
SaintB
21-11-2008, 19:01
Wow. You are awesome.

I also second this.
SaintB
21-11-2008, 19:02
I take this to mean that there are actually guys out there who would let me do this to them, and maybe even without making it painfully felt that they are just humoring me. Hope springs eternal.

Are you kidding?
Hotwife
21-11-2008, 19:03
I take this to mean that there are actually guys out there who would let me do this to them, and maybe even without making it painfully felt that they are just humoring me. Hope springs eternal.

You're quite right about this.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 19:05
I take this to mean that there are actually guys out there who would let me do this to them, and maybe even without making it painfully felt that they are just humoring me. Hope springs eternal.

Well that was such a hot post you made... I mean really. Your boyfriend is reluctant to try your suggestions? How?
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 19:06
Yeah, it took me quite a lot of convincing too.

Like, how long? I want to gauge how long it'll take me.
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 19:06
I also second this.

Are you kidding?

You're quite right about this.

So there actually is some hope. So who of you is willing to drop by and lend me their penis for abovementioned activities? I think I'd treat SaintB's application with priority as he a) mentioned an affinity for cuddling maybe matching mine and b) also mentioned a several year-long sexual drought which I'll take to mean that he will not be averse to my affinity for fucking well and often, either.

So?
Neesika
21-11-2008, 19:07
b) You share personal information way too easily - you don't give me the satisfying smack of challenge I crave I have no interest or need in being mysterious.
Western Mercenary Unio
21-11-2008, 19:08
So there actually is some hope. So who of you is willing to drop by and lend me their penis for abovementioned activities? I think I'd treat SaintB's application with priority as he a) mentioned an affinity for cuddling maybe matching mine and b) also mentioned a several year-long sexual drought which I'll take to mean that he will not be averse to my affinity for fucking well and often, either.

So?

*Raises hand
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 19:09
So there actually is some hope. So who of you is willing to drop by and lend me their penis for abovementioned activities? I think I'd treat SaintB's application with priority as he a) mentioned an affinity for cuddling maybe matching mine and b) also mentioned a several year-long sexual drought which I'll take to mean that he will not be averse to my affinity for fucking well and often, either.

So?

threadwin/:D
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 19:09
Well that was such a hot post you made... I mean really. Your boyfriend is reluctant to try your suggestions? How?
Thanks.

I don't know, really. I think it's a mixture of a) a low sex drive and b) low self esteem.

Like, how long? I want to gauge how long it'll take me.

Uh. Several months. Only a few weeks after I talked him into going anal on me, though.
Neesika
21-11-2008, 19:09
My preference is completely smooth hairless pubic area. If there is short but soft (no stubble) pubic hair that is fine. My main turnoff in the hair department is hair on the butt/butthole/buttcrack area. That is not cool. I denied a girl buttsex once because she buttcrack hair. Yuck! That would be like doing it with a man. Nasty nasty nasty.

Yes, totally like doing it with a man. Despite her boobs and vagina.

That's fucking hilarious. In a sad, sad way.
Vampire Knight Zero
21-11-2008, 19:11
So there actually is some hope. So who of you is willing to drop by and lend me their penis for abovementioned activities? I think I'd treat SaintB's application with priority as he a) mentioned an affinity for cuddling maybe matching mine and b) also mentioned a several year-long sexual drought which I'll take to mean that he will not be averse to my affinity for fucking well and often, either.

So?

Teehee! :D
Hotwife
21-11-2008, 19:11
I have no interest or need in being mysterious.

Neesika's complete lack of mystery in this regard is very refreshing in a world full of women who won't, for whatever reason, say what it is that they want.

Or don't want.

Saves a lot of time.
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 19:11
*Raises hand

Good. Unfortunately, your name raises no profile whatsoever in my head (and I shall not wade through the fora and/or this thread to find anything), so you'll have to give me a quick run-through your sexual profile to go with your application.
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 19:13
Teehee! :D

This is no laughing matter! *disciplines* My pain, and sense of being sexually neglected, are very real. Oh, and the lack of penis, of course. Serious matters!


Plus, you've said you're happily in a relationship, so back off.

;P
Neesika
21-11-2008, 19:14
Neesika's complete lack of mystery in this regard is very refreshing in a world full of women who won't, for whatever reason, say what it is that they want.

Or don't want.

Saves a lot of time.

Men are terrible mind readers. I learned this early on. I also learned that you can't always get what you wanna....unless you come right out and ask for it.
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 19:14
Uh. Several months. Only a few weeks after I talked him into going anal on me, though.

Hmmm... I covered that so, perhaps I should pose the question soon. Thanks. :)
Vampire Knight Zero
21-11-2008, 19:14
This is no laughing matter! *disciplines* My pain, and sense of being sexually neglected, are very real. Oh, and the lack of penis, of course. Serious matters!


Plus, you've said you're happily in a relationship, so back off.

:P

:eek:

*Backs off*

:D
SaintB
21-11-2008, 19:15
So there actually is some hope. So who of you is willing to drop by and lend me their penis for abovementioned activities? I think I'd treat SaintB's application with priority as he a) mentioned an affinity for cuddling maybe matching mine and b) also mentioned a several year-long sexual drought which I'll take to mean that he will not be averse to my affinity for fucking well and often, either.

So?

Ohhh if only I could...

I'd likely buy a plane ticket today if it were at all possible. I'd prolly have to warn you that I would at least want to spend several hours getting to know you some first.

My financial situation requires me to sadly decline :(

I'm sure you were mostly kidding anyway.
Western Mercenary Unio
21-11-2008, 19:15
Good. Unfortunately, your name raises no profile whatsoever in my head (and I shall not wade through the fora and/or this thread to find anything), so you'll have to give me a quick run-through your sexual profile to go with your application.

Well, I'm 14 and a virgin. So, what sexual profile?
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 19:15
That. I mean, I can honestly think of only very few things I would not like to do with it. I like to hold it. I like to stroke it, squeeze it, twirl it, do anything my hand scan do with it. I like to lick it, bite it, nibble it, do anything my mouth, lips, tongue and teeth can do with it. I'd love to cover it in various things and eat them off it, but he won't let me. I like to let it slide over various parts of my body - well, all, in fact. I like to massage it with my tits. I like to watch it. I especially like to tease it and watch it twitch. I like to.. well, lots of things, really.

:hail:

So do you like to jerk him off with your feet? :D

This reassures me. It's hard to get him to talk about/during sex at all, but I will try to force him to give me feedback an doing those things. I'll report back ASAP (keep the threat alive!).

I hope it helps you both get what you want out of it. Talking isn't completely necessary though. Moans of pleasure or him pulling his ass away or pushing into your fingers could say it all. As could the stiffness of his cock or lack thereof. I wouldn't take it personally, though, if you don't find something that gets him going. He may just not like it or have something nagging him in his brain saying it's wrong, not allowing him to enjoy it.
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 19:16
:eek:

*Backs off*

:D

Good boy. *pats*

Hmmm... I covered that so, perhaps I should pose the question soon. Thanks. :)

You haven't even posed the question? Well, how can you say he ain't letting you, then?
Vampire Knight Zero
21-11-2008, 19:16
Uh. Several months. Only a few weeks after I talked him into going anal on me, though.

I've already agreed to be as experimental as my lovely lady likes. :D
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 19:18
You haven't even posed the question? Well, how can you say he ain't letting you, then?

I did, like a year ago. He eyed me like I was a giant molusc and remained silent. After that, I've been itching to, alas, he always knows how to change the subject.

Do you have any pointers as to how should I approach him?
Hotwife
21-11-2008, 19:18
Men are terrible mind readers. I learned this early on. I also learned that you can't always get what you wanna....unless you come right out and ask for it.

Combine GoG's linear thought processes with your directness....

I can see where the magic comes from now!
Neesika
21-11-2008, 19:19
Combine GoG's linear thought processes with your directness....

I can see where the magic comes from now!

'Magic' is an understatement. He's like crack, and I'm the addict.
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 19:21
So there actually is some hope. So who of you is willing to drop by and lend me their penis for abovementioned activities? I think I'd treat SaintB's application with priority as he a) mentioned an affinity for cuddling maybe matching mine and b) also mentioned a several year-long sexual drought which I'll take to mean that he will not be averse to my affinity for fucking well and often, either.

So?



So... any plans to visit Las Vegas? :D
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 19:24
Ohhh if only I could...

I'd likely buy a plane ticket today if it were at all possible. I'd prolly have to warn you that I would at least want to spend several hours getting to know you some first.

That's quite alright; I'd want to do the same.


I'm sure you were mostly kidding anyway.

Who knows. I, for one, don't.

Well, I'm 14 and a virgin. So, what sexual profile?

a) Sorry, at 14, you're off limits for me. I don't mean to hurt you, and at your age I lusted for women my age too, but it's a clear no-go.

b) Sexual profile != sexual record. If you're developed enough to want your dick caressed by me, you'll be developed enough to have a rough idea of how you'd like your sex to go.
:hail:

So do you like to jerk him off with your feet? :D

I'd like to do anything at all that gives him pleasure, preferably involving his penis, so - sure. I've never thought about that specific act, though (feet are sort of asexual for me).

I hope it helps you both get what you want out of it. Talking isn't completely necessary though. Moans of pleasure or him pulling his ass away or pushing into your fingers could say it all. As could the stiffness of his cock or lack thereof. I wouldn't take it personally, though, if you don't find something that gets him going. He may just not like it or have something nagging him in his brain saying it's wrong, not allowing him to enjoy it.

Oh, when pressed to give a reaction, he said he liked my anal fingering so far, so I guess he's good with it - but I just wish I could find a way to make it a real booster and not just something he vaguely likes, and reports of prostrate massaging have promised me such. So now I want it! *stamps feet*

ETA: Like nibbling his nipples. The second I do that, he starts squirming and moaning and stuff. It's the only thing that gets such a reaction. I'm glad I discovered it; it's the one way I found to persuade him to please have sex now :]
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 19:25
I did, like a year ago. He eyed me like I was a giant molusc and remained silent. After that, I've been itching to, alas, he always knows how to change the subject.

Do you have any pointers as to how should I approach him?

Maybe just poke him there when you're going down on him?
Neo Art
21-11-2008, 19:25
That. I mean, I can honestly think of only very few things I would not like to do with it. I like to hold it. I like to stroke it, squeeze it, twirl it, do anything my hand scan do with it. I like to lick it, bite it, nibble it, do anything my mouth, lips, tongue and teeth can do with it. I'd love to cover it in various things and eat them off it, but he won't let me. I like to let it slide over various parts of my body - well, all, in fact. I like to massage it with my tits. I like to watch it. I especially like to tease it and watch it twitch. I like to.. well, lots of things, really.

Your boyfriend is very, very dull.
Neesika
21-11-2008, 19:25
So... any plans to visit Las Vegas? :D

Neesika is often in Vegas too :D
Poliwanacraca
21-11-2008, 19:26
That. I mean, I can honestly think of only very few things I would not like to do with it. I like to hold it. I like to stroke it, squeeze it, twirl it, do anything my hand scan do with it. I like to lick it, bite it, nibble it, do anything my mouth, lips, tongue and teeth can do with it. I'd love to cover it in various things and eat them off it, but he won't let me. I like to let it slide over various parts of my body - well, all, in fact. I like to massage it with my tits. I like to watch it. I especially like to tease it and watch it twitch. I like to.. well, lots of things, really.

Yup, those are all fun activities. Honestly, penises are just terribly entertaining; I could play with my ex's for ages without getting bored. :p
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 19:26
Maybe just poke him there when you're going down on him?

He guards that hole like it's made out of gold.:(
Neesika
21-11-2008, 19:26
Maybe just poke him there when you're going down on him?

That's generally what I've done...it's pretty clear right away if they're not into it. Usually they're pushing against your fingers. MUAHAHAHAHAH!
Vampire Knight Zero
21-11-2008, 19:27
I love how kinky NSG'ers are. People of my own heart. :D
Neesika
21-11-2008, 19:28
Yup, those are all fun activities. Honestly, penises are just terribly entertaining; I could play with my ex's for ages without getting bored. :p

Other than riding that beautiful cock or having my cervix pummeled by it, I could give GoG head for hours. Literally. I absolutely love giving him head. Put on a movie and spend the entire time deep throating him. Win win for both of us!
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 19:28
I've already agreed to be as experimental as my lovely lady likes. :D

Your lady is one lucky bitch. Tell her that. And remember to repay all and any trust and energy that comes your way twofold. I wish you two the best :]

So... any plans to visit Las Vegas? :D

I even might, if I were anywhere near. Sadly.. *points to location field*

Also, I'm not into BDSM, so I would probably disturb your regular play a bit. And I'd hold everyone up by not being able to decide whether to focus on Sin or the offered cock(s) at any given moment.
Western Mercenary Unio
21-11-2008, 19:29
a) Sorry, at 14, you're off limits for me. I don't mean to hurt you, and at your age I lusted for women my age too, but it's a clear no-go.

b) Sexual profile != sexual record. If you're developed enough to want your dick caressed by me, you'll be developed enough to have a rough idea of how you'd like your sex to go.


I just put it there as a joke. Oh yeah, I would have just came there, freeloading on a ship. http://assets.jolt.co.uk/forums/jolt/smilies/rolleyes.gif
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 19:30
My preference is completely smooth hairless pubic area. If there is short but soft (no stubble) pubic hair that is fine. My main turnoff in the hair department is hair on the butt/butthole/buttcrack area. That is not cool. I denied a girl buttsex once because she buttcrack hair. Yuck! That would be like doing it with a man. Nasty nasty nasty.

You're like the opposite of me. I like things pretty much natural down there. It feels nice to run my hands through her pubic hair when she's really wet. Big turn on.

And I really don't mind a little buttcrack hair. A couple little hairs aren't going to bother me when there's a beautiful naked woman in front of me.
Neo Art
21-11-2008, 19:32
Also, I'm not into BDSM

tsk, shame
Vampire Knight Zero
21-11-2008, 19:32
Your lady is one lucky bitch. Tell her that. And remember to repay all and any trust and energy that comes your way twofold. I wish you two the best :]

You're very kind. Thank you. :)
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 19:32
I did, like a year ago. He eyed me like I was a giant molusc and remained silent. After that, I've been itching to, alas, he always knows how to change the subject.

Do you have any pointers as to how should I approach him?Maybe just poke him there when you're going down on him?

That's one thing I'd have suggested, but you appear to not be all too positive about it..

I dunno, I sorta just asked, and kept nbbling his favorite places as I nagged for an answer. And I tried to keep it real light and just sort of stroke him in the general area and all before I went for it.
Your boyfriend is very, very dull.

I know. That's sort of the problem.

Yup, those are all fun activities. Honestly, penises are just terribly entertaining; I could play with my ex's for ages without getting bored. :p

A wonderful, most truthful statement, and a semicolon. Just had to quote.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 19:33
That's generally what I've done...it's pretty clear right away if they're not into it. Usually they're pushing against your fingers. MUAHAHAHAHAH!

This is how I discovered that my ladyfriend likes being stimulated back there. I was eating her out and made a tentative poke. Had her reaction been negative, I wouldn't have ventured further.
Neesika
21-11-2008, 19:33
I even might, if I were anywhere near. Sadly.. *points to location field*

Also, I'm not into BDSM, so I would probably disturb your regular play a bit. And I'd hold everyone up by not being able to decide whether to focus on Sin or the offered cock(s) at any given moment.

Meh, Sumamba isn't into pain at all, so his wife just wails on me...and the great thing is you don't have to decide, you just dive right in.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 19:35
He guards that hole like it's made out of gold.:(

He constantly scrunches his buttcheeks together whenever you're giving some oral? Odd
Neo Art
21-11-2008, 19:36
I know. That's sort of the problem.

Truly a shame.
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 19:36
I just put it there as a joke. Oh yeah, I would have just came there, freeloading on a ship. http://assets.jolt.co.uk/forums/jolt/smilies/rolleyes.gif

You're young, and sweet in your naivité. I think this is absolutely the wrong thread to dismiss the possibility of people travelling the equivalent distance of Finland/Germany for some NSG sex. Right? *glances at relevant people*

tsk, shame

I guess so. I'd also never deny the possibility that I'd grow to like it if presented with it the right way, but so far I cannot say I've made experiences that'd point in that direction, nor could I imagine it.
Neo Art
21-11-2008, 19:38
I guess so. I'd also never deny the possibility that I'd grow to like it if presented with it the right way, but so far I cannot say I've made experiences that'd point in that direction, nor could I imagine it.

Possibly, but then again, the term is so incredibly broad, that it's impossible to say that you might like "it" when the term itself doesn't really give an idea of what "it" is. The whole term is really three separate and discrete concepts (within each there are even more sub concepts within) rolled into one term
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 19:39
Meh, Sumamba isn't into pain at all, so his wife just wails on me...and the great thing is you don't have to decide, you just dive right in.

So this means I get to savor Sumamba's cock in all sorts of ways imaginable until his wife's done torturing you, and then I get to lick your wounds as thoroughly as I can? Good, good.
Neesika
21-11-2008, 19:41
So this means I get to savor Sumamba's cock in all sorts of ways imaginable until his wife's done torturing you, and then I get to lick your wounds as thoroughly as I can? Good, good.

See? You are an excellent problem-solver.
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 19:43
Possibly, but then again, the term is so incredibly broad, that it's impossible to say that you might like "it" when the term itself doesn't really give an idea of what "it" is. The whole term is really three separate and discrete concepts (within each there are even more sub concepts within) rolled into one term

Yes, I know, but thanks for taking the time to tell me so nicely. You see, the "problem" is that there's two things I will not have in my sex play, and that's power play and pain. I get immediately turned off whenever I perceive an explicit "power imbalance" during sex (which means that you cannot even tickle me, or pin me down during sex without suffering the dire consequences), and I will absolutely not have any pain involved whatsoever.

If there's any shade/variety of the blanket area of "BDSM" that are not excluded by that, I'd love to be educated.
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 19:44
See? You are an excellent problem-solver.

I know. I am, however, stuck on the part where I get from Germany to remote parts of the US/Canada (and back), and on where I convince more people than just you that they want to take on a 22-year-old woman inexperienced in any such group play.
Neo Art
21-11-2008, 19:50
Yes, I know, but thanks for taking the time to tell me so nicely. You see, the "problem" is that there's two things I will not have in my sex play, and that's power play and pain. I get immediately turned off whenever I perceive an explicit "power imbalance" during sex (which means that you cannot even tickle me, or pin me down during sex without suffering the dire consequences), and I will absolutely not have any pain involved whatsoever.

If there's any shade/variety of the blanket area of "BDSM" that are not excluded by that, I'd love to be educated.

well, pretty much all of it involves power dynamics and/or pain. That's kinda what it's about. Now, again, I think there is a misconception that people have in the term "power imbalance". I prefer "power dynamic" or "role dynamic". Which is to say, I think more people would enjoy some aspects of it, if they didn't have hangups over the idea of "inferior" or "superior" positions, and just realize that they're...different ones.
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 19:51
Oh, when pressed to give a reaction, he said he liked my anal fingering so far, so I guess he's good with it - but I just wish I could find a way to make it a real booster and not just something he vaguely likes, and reports of prostrate massaging have promised me such. So now I want it! *stamps feet*


If you can get him to orgasm with some oral during a prostate massage (btw, prostrate means something different but can be sexual :D), he'll probably be more enthusiastic about it.


Neesika is often in Vegas too :D

:fluffle:
Living in a tourist town has it's advantages. ;)



I even might, if I were anywhere near. Sadly.. *points to location field*

Also, I'm not into BDSM, so I would probably disturb your regular play a bit. And I'd hold everyone up by not being able to decide whether to focus on Sin or the offered cock(s) at any given moment.

:) We are content with non-BDSM play. That is the majority of what we do anyway.


Meh, Sumamba isn't into pain at all, so his wife just wails on me...and the great thing is you don't have to decide, you just dive right in.

Yar
SaintB
21-11-2008, 19:52
That's quite alright; I'd want to do the same.



Who knows. I, for one, don't.

o.O *damns his college bills and the high price of international airfare*


ETA: Like nibbling his nipples. The second I do that, he starts squirming and moaning and stuff. It's the only thing that gets such a reaction. I'm glad I discovered it; it's the one way I found to persuade him to please have sex now :]

I condition easily.. one of my lovers could turn me on by pulling my earlobe, just a gentle little tug. I'm very responsive to tough.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 19:53
*cannot take part in this scenario.*

*is too young for the people involved anyway*
Muravyets
21-11-2008, 19:55
I take this to mean that there are actually guys out there who would let me do this to them, and maybe even without making it painfully felt that they are just humoring me. Hope springs eternal.
This has always bothered me. Why do so many guys act like they don't like their own penises, like a woman being totally into their dick is somehow weird? And why do they apologize for cumming, for fuck's sake? Why do they think I want to fuck them in the first place?
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 19:55
I condition easily.. one of my lovers could turn me on by pulling my earlobe, just a gentle little tug. I'm very responsive to tough.

Dude, earlobes are awesome and an often overlooked bit of the body that can be great. I love it when my lady bites/nibbles my earlobe.
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 19:58
So this means I get to savor Sumamba's cock in all sorts of ways imaginable until his wife's done torturing you, and then I get to lick your wounds as thoroughly as I can? Good, good.

The potential is great :)

Yes, I know, but thanks for taking the time to tell me so nicely. You see, the "problem" is that there's two things I will not have in my sex play, and that's power play and pain. I get immediately turned off whenever I perceive an explicit "power imbalance" during sex (which means that you cannot even tickle me, or pin me down during sex without suffering the dire consequences), and I will absolutely not have any pain involved whatsoever.

If there's any shade/variety of the blanket area of "BDSM" that are not excluded by that, I'd love to be educated.

What about you taking the position of dominance?
Neo Art
21-11-2008, 19:58
This has always bothered me. Why do so many guys act like they don't like their own penises, like a woman being totally into their dick is somehow weird? And why do they apologize for cumming, for fuck's sake? Why do they think I want to fuck them in the first place?

that's hot *nods*
Muravyets
21-11-2008, 19:58
Yup, those are all fun activities. Honestly, penises are just terribly entertaining; I could play with my ex's for ages without getting bored. :p
I love them. They're my favorite toy. :D
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 19:59
This has always bothered me. Why do so many guys act like they don't like their own penises, like a woman being totally into their dick is somehow weird? And why do they apologize for cumming, for fuck's sake? Why do they think I want to fuck them in the first place?

Who apologizes for cumming?
Poliwanacraca
21-11-2008, 19:59
This has always bothered me. Why do so many guys act like they don't like their own penises, like a woman being totally into their dick is somehow weird? And why do they apologize for cumming, for fuck's sake? Why do they think I want to fuck them in the first place?

I have never encountered this. How weird.

I guess perhaps this is a perk of dating dominant guys - they're way more likely to say "Play with my penis NOW, bitch" than "So...um....sorry about having a penis that does penis-things." :p
Poliwanacraca
21-11-2008, 20:01
I love them. They're my favorite toy. :D

I know! They do so many entertaining things. :D
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 20:01
I have never encountered this. How weird.

I guess perhaps this is a perk of dating dominant guys - they're way more likely to say "Play with my penis NOW, bitch" than "So...um....sorry about having a penis that does penis-things." :p

I dunno, I'm more submissive and I don't understand this idea of penis-shame that Mur is describing some guys as having. I like having a penis. My ladyfriend also likes that I have a penis. It helps both of us have some good times. What's not to like?
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 20:02
He constantly scrunches his buttcheeks together whenever you're giving some oral? Odd

No no no. He doesn't scrunch his bum when I'm giving him oral. He just guards himself when I place my hands anywhere close to his hole. I think he doesn't trust me in that aspect, I like giving surprises. :D


SoWiBi: thanks much. I'll try what you suggest.
Neo Art
21-11-2008, 20:02
I love them. They're my favorite toy. :D

I know! They do so many entertaining things. :D

How YOU doin?

Both of you.

At the same time.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 20:03
No no no. He doesn't scrunch his bum when I'm giving him oral. He just guards himself when I place my hands anywhere close to his hole. I think he doesn't trust me in that aspect, I like giving surprises. :D


SoWiBi: thanks much. I'll try what you suggest.

Maybe you should drink with him until you're both plastered? He might forget to guard his precious bum then.
SaintB
21-11-2008, 20:04
This has always bothered me. Why do so many guys act like they don't like their own penises, like a woman being totally into their dick is somehow weird? And why do they apologize for cumming, for fuck's sake? Why do they think I want to fuck them in the first place?

They apologize?! I just get my jollies and then get ready for more... its no fun without more than one orgasm...
Western Mercenary Unio
21-11-2008, 20:04
How YOU doin?

Both of you.

At the same time.

Oh my god! Out, Out! Get it out!*Jumps out of window
Muravyets
21-11-2008, 20:04
Who apologizes for cumming?
I practically have a cum fetish. I love to watch a guy cum, so I often like to let oral and handjobs finish in open air, like my own little lawn sprinkler. And I have had several boyfriends who, reflexively, apologized for making a mess -- as if I didn't cause them to and want them to and as if I'm not clearly enjoying that they did. I blame their mothers for psychologically abusing them.
Vampire Knight Zero
21-11-2008, 20:05
If my lady wants to play with my ass, I 'aint gonna stop her. :D
SaintB
21-11-2008, 20:05
I have never encountered this. How weird.

I guess perhaps this is a perk of dating dominant guys - they're way more likely to say "Play with my penis NOW, bitch" than "So...um....sorry about having a penis that does penis-things." :p

The closets I can ever get to that is "I want you to." I don't like making demands.
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 20:05
Maybe you should drink with him until you're both plastered? He might forget to guard his precious bum then.

Say, that might work. Only problem is, what will he do if he wakes up with a sore bum the next day and realizes I've gone there without his true approval? Wouldn't he feel raped?:eek:
Adorian Order
21-11-2008, 20:05
Dear god I want to throw up. Don't mind me.
Poliwanacraca
21-11-2008, 20:06
I practically have a cum fetish. I love to watch a guy cum, so I often like to let oral and handjobs finish in open air, like my own little lawn sprinkler. And I have had several boyfriends who, reflexively, apologizes for making a mess -- as if I didn't cause them to. I blame their mothers for psychologically abusing them.

Making messes is awesome. Particularly if the mess in question is on me. Mmm. :)
Western Mercenary Unio
21-11-2008, 20:06
Say, that might work. Only problem is, what will he do if he wakes up with a sore bum the next day and realizes I've gone there without his true approval? Wouldn't he feel raped?:eek:

Probably yes.
Muravyets
21-11-2008, 20:07
Oh my god! Out, Out! Get it out!*Jumps out of window
Oh, don't worry, that scenario ain't going nowhere. Poor Neo Art. ;)
Poliwanacraca
21-11-2008, 20:07
Dear god I want to throw up. Don't mind me.

Um...okay. Thanks for letting us know...?
Neo Art
21-11-2008, 20:08
Oh, don't worry, that scenario ain't going nowhere. Poor Neo Art. ;)

oh, you say that now...

You live like half a mile from me, all I need to do is get Poli to boston :p
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 20:08
I practically have a cum fetish. I love to watch a guy cum, so I often like to let oral and handjobs finish in open air, like my own little lawn sprinkler. And I have had several boyfriends who, reflexively, apologized for making a mess -- as if I didn't cause them to and want them to and as if I'm not clearly enjoying that they did. I blame their mothers for psychologically abusing them.

but making a mess is part of the fun...

I prefer oral to finish inside her mouth though. One of the reasons that it's sooooo awesome is that she keeps going when it's basically too much for me and so I'm tempted to tell her to stop because it's sort of painful... but I don't... because it's sooo gooooooooooood.
SaintB
21-11-2008, 20:08
I practically have a cum fetish. I love to watch a guy cum, so I often like to let oral and handjobs finish in open air, like my own little lawn sprinkler. And I have had several boyfriends who, reflexively, apologized for making a mess -- as if I didn't cause them to and want them to and as if I'm not clearly enjoying that they did. I blame their mothers for psychologically abusing them.

I really need to stay away from you Mury. Your thought process is WAY to sexy to me....

Never thought I'd say a thought process was sexy once, let alone twice.. to the same person!
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 20:08
Probably yes.

Yeah, I thought about that too. It might be bad.

I think I would fare better with SoWiBi's advice. :tongue:
Muravyets
21-11-2008, 20:08
Making messes is awesome. Particularly if the mess in question is on me. Mmm. :)
Seriously, right? :D It's like hitting the jackpot on a "one-armed bandit" -- you just want it to go flying all over.
Western Mercenary Unio
21-11-2008, 20:09
Oh, don't worry, that scenario ain't going nowhere. Poor Neo Art. ;)

It's the scenes from Friends which come to my head because of that, what makes me jump out of the window.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 20:09
Dear god I want to throw up. Don't mind me.

If that's what you're into, go ahead. Never understood the appeal, myself.
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 20:10
Dear god I want to throw up. Don't mind me.

Different strokes for different folks. I'm not into that one.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 20:11
Say, that might work. Only problem is, what will he do if he wakes up with a sore bum the next day and realizes I've gone there without his true approval? Wouldn't he feel raped?:eek:

But you'd be as drunk as he was. And it's just your finger, I doubt he'd be sore.
Muravyets
21-11-2008, 20:11
oh, you say that now...

You live like half a mile from me, all I need to do is get Poli to boston :p
No, sweetheart, that's actually not all you have to do. :tongue:

I really need to stay away from you Mury. Your thought process is WAY to sexy to me....

Never thought I'd say a thought process was sexy once, let alone twice.. to the same person!
It's okay. I know you can't help yourself. I mean really, who could? ;) :tongue: *adds SaintB to the collection*

EDIT: Bah, I have to go do the decidedly not-sexy chore of buying cheese crackers and a beverage for that thing I'm doing this weekend. Boring. Later, all.
Neo Art
21-11-2008, 20:12
No, sweetheart, that's actually not all you have to do. :tongue:

Oh, I know, but the rest of the plan I keep to myself
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 20:13
I think I've asked Mur if I could make out with her brain before.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 20:13
If my lady wants to play with my ass, I 'aint gonna stop her. :D

Yeah... with me the lady generally gets to do what she wants, with a couple exceptions.
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 20:14
But you'd be as drunk as he was. And it's just your finger, I doubt he'd be sore.

Calli, I'm ambitious. That's the problem, and I know it.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 20:15
I think I've asked Mur if I could make out with her brain before.

Hot. Mur has a sexy brain.
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 20:17
well, pretty much all of it involves power dynamics and/or pain. That's kinda what it's about. Now, again, I think there is a misconception that people have in the term "power imbalance". I prefer "power dynamic" or "role dynamic". Which is to say, I think more people would enjoy some aspects of it, if they didn't have hangups over the idea of "inferior" or "superior" positions, and just realize that they're...different ones.

So I thought. And no, it's not that I have "rationalized" 'hang-ups' about power imbalances by virtue of some sort of egalistic virtues erroneously slapped onto sex - I'm firmly of the opinion that sexual preferences are beyond the categories we apply to non-sexual behavior and not to be measured or judged by them.

It's just a very personal, emotional reaction - I get all panicky if I sense someone 'overpowering' me in any way, and I would have to force myself very hard to do that to someone else, and lose all sense of pleasure.

If you can get him to orgasm with some oral during a prostate massage (btw, prostrate means something different but can be sexual :D), he'll probably be more enthusiastic about it.

I'll try to get that timing in - but I can only do that IFF I can, you know, reach his prostate (thanks for catching me out on that one), which, again, I don't think I can so far...

... or is the "easily felt" part a myth and I can very well have been rubbing it without realizing?

o.O *damns his college bills and the high price of international airfare*

That's the bane of the (social) internet - you 'meet' people you like, in whatever way, and they are god knows where, totally 'unreachable' for any RL sense and purpose.
*cannot take part in this scenario.*

*is too young for the people involved anyway*

Huh? You that much younger than me? I always thought we were in the general same age group...?

This has always bothered me. Why do so many guys act like they don't like their own penises, like a woman being totally into their dick is somehow weird? And why do they apologize for cumming, for fuck's sake? Why do they think I want to fuck them in the first place?

Spot on.

Though maybe the "apologizing for coming" part stems from some males' belief that the fun is over once they come.

The potential is great :)
Well, I entrust "my" penis further into your care until I might take care of it myself.
What about you taking the position of dominance?
Nah, thanks.

Who apologizes for cumming?

Well, my boyfriend does. As far as I've gathered so far, this is either because

a) He thinks bodily fluids are not so great (watch him clean up afterwards! Great show)

b) He is of the delusion I don't like it (and sticks with it beside my assertions to the contrary - I even make him come all over me from time to time and somehow he still thinks I don't like it)

c) He's afraid to have come "too early"

d) It's equal to "end of sex here" for him, and he's sorry that it's happened before I got all I wanted. Am still in the process of re-training him on that aspect.
SaintB
21-11-2008, 20:17
No, sweetheart, that's actually not all you have to do. :tongue:

I am intrigued, may I subscribe to the newsletter?


It's okay. I know you can't help yourself. I mean really, who could? ;) :tongue: *adds SaintB to the collection*

*celebrates*


EDIT: Bah, I have to go do the decidedly not-sexy chore of buying cheeze crackers and a beverage for that thing I'm doing this weekend. Boring. Later, all.

Well, I could make a road trip and make a sexy chore out of that? Or a sexy activity using crackers and beverages...
Vampire Knight Zero
21-11-2008, 20:17
Yeah... with me the lady generally gets to do what she wants, with a couple exceptions.

What Exceptions would they be, if I may ask?
SaintB
21-11-2008, 20:20
S
That's the bane of the (social) internet - you 'meet' people you like, in whatever way, and they are god knows where, totally 'unreachable' for any RL sense and purpose.


Yep. In a way its fun, in a way it can be not fun.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 20:21
Calli, I'm ambitious. That's the problem, and I know it.

Meaning you'd get too drunk or that you'd end up sticking way more than your finger up in there?
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 20:24
The closets I can ever get to that is "I want you to." I don't like making demands.

You'll have to get rid of that before you ship here. Don't worry - I'll prompt you by asking what you want, and encouraging you to say whatever you feel like trying at whatever point in the process, but I *will* expect you to then spill the beans and *tell* me what you want. And no cheap-ass stuff like "whatever pleases you" or "whatever you do will feel great", okay?
Say, that might work. Only problem is, what will he do if he wakes up with a sore bum the next day and realizes I've gone there without his true approval? Wouldn't he feel raped?:eek:

I suggest that on your first time, you don't do anything so brutal with a single finger that he'll feel it the morning after. Eek!


Also, I heavily criticize any approach that does not take place without full consent. Poking him in the ass when he's drunk when you know he really doesn't want you is rape, and no fun at all. Persuading him, however, when he's not quite as sober, is a totally different thing and gets my stamp of approval.

(As does persuading him when you've got him on the brink of orgasm, where people tend to agree to all sorts of things when teased enough)
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 20:24
... or is the "easily felt" part a myth and I can very well have been rubbing it without realizing?



I think this is probably it.



Well, I entrust "my" penis further into your care until I might take care of it myself.


the best rain check ever...
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 20:25
Meaning you'd get too drunk or that you'd end up sticking way more than your finger up in there?

The latter.:$
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 20:26
I suggest that on your first time, you don't do anything so brutal with a single finger that he'll feel it the morning after. Eek!

That's why doing it drunk couldn't work. :p
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 20:26
What Exceptions would they be, if I may ask?

I've listed at least one, that being choking. I won't do it, or have it done on me, in bedplay. Ever.

A related one is if a bed partner were to ask me to hit her in the face, I'd refuse. Won't do it.

Another is poop and vomit. I hate the feeling of vomiting and I hate the smell. Poop also smells bad.

Yet another is needling. Just no. There are more I'm sure. They tend to be fairly unusual things anyway.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 20:27
The latter.:$

You are so naughty, lol.

Yeah... try just the single finger the first time. Even if he likes that, he may never want half your arm in his rectum...
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 20:28
You are so naughty, lol.

Yeah... try just the single finger the first time. Even if he likes that, he may never want half your arm in his rectum...

Exactly my point. One finger may be pleasent. My entire arm, although small, is too much.:D
SaintB
21-11-2008, 20:29
(As does persuading him when you've got him on the brink of orgasm, where people tend to agree to all sorts of things when teased enough)

MM i got stories about that. Once more, its a more private venue thing.
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 20:34
I think this is probably it.

Okay. So. Umm. You've been really great so far, and I don't want to scare you away, but: Could you please get graphic and explicit here? I mean, as the owner of a male ass, could you please give me a detailed account of how I find out that I've just reached your prostate? You are free to imagine me lying naked on top of you, your cock buried in my mouth and my fingers in your ass - and now the instructions, please.


the best rain check ever...

As a non-native speaker, I just assume this is not drawing on the UrbanDic definition of "rain check" as

To drench ones hot sweaty body in red kool aid and then to shove multiple dildos up ones ass hole.

though this might seem eerily appropriate to the thread.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 20:36
Huh? You that much younger than me? I always thought we were in the general same age group...?
How old are you? I think I'm significantly younger than Sin and Sumamba. My beer drinking just became legal this last February.


Well, my boyfriend does. As far as I've gathered so far, this is either because

a) He thinks bodily fluids are not so great (watch him clean up afterwards! Great show)

b) He is of the delusion I don't like it (and sticks with it beside my assertions to the contrary - I even make him come all over me from time to time and somehow he still thinks I don't like it)

c) He's afraid to have come "too early"

d) It's equal to "end of sex here" for him, and he's sorry that it's happened before I got all I wanted. Am still in the process of re-training him on that aspect.

A) I don't understand. Bodily fluids are great. That's what makes that "sex" smell. Blood is a good one, too.

B) How weird, I would think that you making him come all over you (and from your posting, probably reveling in it) would be clear evidence that you you do in fact like it.

C) The only one that makes any sense to me, since I have a frustratingly long recharge time.

D) Oh no, cumming is no reason to put the clothes back on. No reason at all
Poliwanacraca
21-11-2008, 20:38
As a non-native speaker, I just assume this is not drawing on the UrbanDic definition of "rain check" as



though this might seem eerily appropriate to the thread.

Note to self: never EVER try to reschedule a date by asking for a rain check. :eek2:
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 20:39
SoWibi, I laughed so hard at that definition of "rain check," oh my freakin crap.
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 20:42
I gots a question for the malez of NSG.

Rape role play: turn on or turn off?

Why or why not.
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 20:43
How old are you? I think I'm significantly younger than Sin and Sumamba. My beer drinking just became legal this last February.
So am I; I'm 22. However, I got written reassurance of Sin's that she'd do me anyhow. I can prove it! *frantically digs around NSG and her "Saved Screenshots" folder*


A) I don't understand. Bodily fluids are great. That's what makes that "sex" smell. Blood is a good one, too.

B) How weird, I would think that you making him come all over you (and from your posting, probably reveling in it) would be clear evidence that you you do in fact like it.

C) The only one that makes any sense to me, since I have a frustratingly long recharge time.

D) Oh no, cumming is no reason to put the clothes back on. No reason at all

b) Indeed.

c) As I posted way earlier in this thread, I don't mind him having come because he should know about a gazillion other ways to satisfy me that do not require a rock-hard penis being inserted into me. He takes more than an hour to re-charge, but that's totally okay. I tell him to please not to any of that crazy "recite Goethe in head to try not to come too early, or imagine gross things for same effect" thing one reads of all over the place as an effective counter measure - I want him to enjoy, and not to just make it an effort to keep the dick up for as long as possible.

d) Your word in the Elk's ear. It takes great protesting ("But I haven't looked at it enough yet! I haven't kissed it goodnight yet! I want to hold it some more!") to persuade him to leave the boxer shorts off for a bit longer.
Vampire Knight Zero
21-11-2008, 20:44
I gots a question for the malez of NSG.

Rape role play: turn on or turn off?

Why or why not.

Suppose it would be ok, you are role playing after all. Just gotta try not to be too rough. It is just for fun, anyways.
SaintB
21-11-2008, 20:44
I gots a question for the malez of NSG.

Rape role play: turn on or turn off?

Why or why not.

I don't even need to mention my sexual stuff by saying FUCKING HELL NO, NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER.


I been raped....
Vampire Knight Zero
21-11-2008, 20:45
I don't even need to mention my sexual stuff by saying FUCKING HELL NO, NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER.


I been raped....

:eek:

I take back my previous statement.
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 20:46
Note to self: never EVER try to reschedule a date by asking for a rain check. :eek2:

Huh, what's the turn-off? You prefer pink Kool-Aid? Or is it the multiplicity of the dildos that's keeping you?

I gots a question for the malez of NSG.

Rape role play: turn on or turn off?

Why or why not.

You're being sexist. Boo-hoo.
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 20:47
Okay. So. Umm. You've been really great so far, and I don't want to scare you away, but: Could you please get graphic and explicit here? I mean, as the owner of a male ass, could you please give me a detailed account of how I find out that I've just reached your prostate? You are free to imagine me lying naked on top of you, your cock buried in my mouth and my fingers in your ass - and now the instructions, please.




As a non-native speaker, I just assume this is not drawing on the UrbanDic definition of "rain check" as



though this might seem eerily appropriate to the thread.

Well, my instructions earlier, I think, might have been me-specific since looking at this method I found online has the prostate deeper than what I am used to. Plus, mine doesn't seem very big or easy to find either. My wife has had to ask me if she's on or near it in the beginning.

The prostate is a gland of the male reproductive system. It is not found in women. Its primary function is the production of seminal fluid, and it also stimulates orgasm in males. The prostate gland can be affected by disease, including infectious inflammation or prostatitis, and prostate cancer, the second most deadly cancer among American males. Many people recommend milking the prostate regularly as a preventative treatment against prostate cancer and prostatitis.

Prostate milking is also referred to as prostate massage. It is a fairly simple procedure and you can do it yourself if you want to. Here are the steps to take in milking the prostate on your own:

1. Perform urination or a bowel movement in order to maximize the relaxation of the area.

2. Make sure that your fingernails are trimmed and have no jagged edges jutting out.

3. Clean your body and your hands thoroughly. Then put on a sterile latex glove on your hand. Dab a little water-based lubricant on your fingers.

4. Carefully insert your finger or fingers into your anus. Move them gradually upwards and to the back, along the area of the rectum towards the front of your body. Your fingers should be moving in roughly the direction of your navel.

5. You will feel the prostate gland, which is like a small, round bulb about the size of a large walnut. Gently massage it with a light waving motion along its sides, taking care not to press hard on the central area, where the sensitive nerves are located. Avoid touching the prostate gland with your fingernails.

6. You may experience a disconcerting sensation that makes you feel like going to the bathroom although you do not have to. Try not to let it affect you, and continue with the procedure.

7. After a few minutes, the prostate gland may be stimulated enough for ejaculation to occur. You are also likely to experience sexual pleasure or orgasm. However, the procedure does not always successfully bring about ejaculation.

Prostate milking when used as a preventative treatment may carry a few risks. It is a technique that is not recommended for men who have a disease of the prostate or acute prostatitis, an acute inflammation of the glandular tissue. The problem in such cases is that the act of milking the prostate may cause the infection to spread to other areas of the body.

Perhaps I am just deformed.


Also, I will need a picture of your naked body to proceed with the the imagining it naked on top of me thing. :D


Finally.... excellent definition of rain check.
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 20:48
You're being sexist. Boo-hoo.

I believe in equaly-rape opportunities. I ain't sexist, missy!

Can I do you?:fluffle:
Poliwanacraca
21-11-2008, 20:48
Huh, what's the turn-off? You prefer pink Kool-Aid? Or is it the multiplicity of the dildos that's keeping you?


It was mostly the word "shove" in connection with the multiplicity, although blue Kool-Aid is clearly superior as well. :p
Neo Art
21-11-2008, 20:50
You'll have to get rid of that before you ship here. Don't worry - I'll prompt you by asking what you want, and encouraging you to say whatever you feel like trying at whatever point in the process, but I *will* expect you to then spill the beans and *tell* me what you want. And no cheap-ass stuff like "whatever pleases you" or "whatever you do will feel great", okay?

(As does persuading him when you've got him on the brink of orgasm, where people tend to agree to all sorts of things when teased enough)

And you say you're not into d/s :p
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 20:51
I gots a question for the malez of NSG.

Rape role play: turn on or turn off?

Why or why not.

My rape fantasy is something I would never want to actually happen. It involves me being in prison. I'll stop there.
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 20:52
My rape fantasy is something I would never want to actually happen. It involves me being in prison. I'll stop there.

:eek:
Don't worry, I won't ask.
Gift-of-god
21-11-2008, 20:53
I gots a question for the malez of NSG.

Rape role play: turn on or turn off?

Why or why not.

Turn on. Why? If I start asking myself that, I'll start wondering if I'm sicko. But I'm not. I wouldn't be comfortable if it wasn't roleplay.

Probably the dominance and power. You can do anything. Anything.
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 20:54
Turn on. Why? If I start asking myself that, I'll start wondering if I'm sicko. But I'm not. I wouldn't be comfortable if it wasn't roleplay.

Probably the dominance and power. You can do anything. Anything.

I like you. :D
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 20:54
I gots a question for the malez of NSG.

Rape role play: turn on or turn off?

Why or why not.

I've never tried it. It doesn't sound very appealing to me though. As to why not, well...
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 20:54
SoWiBi - two more links for you

Guide to prostate massage - http://ezinearticles.com/?Guide-to-Pleasurable-Prostate-Massage&id=799577

How to find - http://sexuality.about.com/od/analplay/ht/htprostate.htm
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 20:55
How about molesting your partner while they are asleep? :D
Gift-of-god
21-11-2008, 20:56
Rapestove.
Vampire Knight Zero
21-11-2008, 20:57
How about molesting your partner while they are asleep? :D

Sounds fun, but my lady really needs her sleep. I'd rather not disturb her. No problem with her doing it to me though. :D
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 20:57
I've never tried it. It doesn't sound very appealing to me though. As to why not, well...

If you don't want to elaborate, that's fine.

For me it's a turn on. But as some may already know, I'm a sub and I like to feel the overpowering of my body and senses by my man. I love to feel that pretend humiliation to the point that as I'm writting this, I feel all hot and should stop.

I guess it's the same thing with me and having him on the verge orgasm while I feel his pulse under my lips. Orgasmic!
SoWiBi
21-11-2008, 20:57
Also, I will need a picture of your naked body to proceed with the the imagining it naked on top of me thing. :D


See, that's the part that always gets me: "You'll easily find this fucking huge-walnut-sized lump"... no! Not even a fucking blubeerry sized lump, for crying out loud!

.. and yes, my recent shipment of, umm, playthings included a free digital camera so I might even be able to comply now. We'll see.
It was mostly the word "shove" in connection with the multiplicity, although blue Kool-Aid is clearly superior as well. :p
.. because it makes you poop bright green if you drink too much /self-tested.

..anyhow, gotta run now. See y'all tomorrow! Don't let the thread die!
Poliwanacraca
21-11-2008, 20:59
While I'm not male, rape fantasies definitely aren't my thing, given my sexual history. I'm all for being beaten, humiliated, tortured, and so forth, but if I'm saying, "No, seriously, stop, I don't like this" and he keeps going, that is colossally unsexy.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 21:00
So am I; I'm 22. However, I got written reassurance of Sin's that she'd do me anyhow. I can prove it! *frantically digs around NSG and her "Saved Screenshots" folder*
Awesome


b) Indeed.

c) As I posted way earlier in this thread, I don't mind him having come because he should know about a gazillion other ways to satisfy me that do not require a rock-hard penis being inserted into me. He takes more than an hour to re-charge, but that's totally okay. I tell him to please not to any of that crazy "recite Goethe in head to try not to come too early, or imagine gross things for same effect" thing one reads of all over the place as an effective counter measure - I want him to enjoy, and not to just make it an effort to keep the dick up for as long as possible.

d) Your word in the Elk's ear. It takes great protesting ("But I haven't looked at it enough yet! I haven't kissed it goodnight yet! I want to hold it some more!") to persuade him to leave the boxer shorts off for a bit longer.

Yeah, there are a ton of other things to do even if the guy has cummed. I have hands and a mouth, and I make good use of them.

With me and my ladyfriend, if one of us has cummed, they just get the other person to. If we've both cummed, well then we just kinda bask in our relaxation and nakedness, and also cuddle, because cuddling is even better naked. That can actually be even better yet if we kinda made a mess and have aforementioned bodily fluids on ourselves.
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 21:02
Sounds fun, but my lady really needs her sleep. I'd rather not disturb her. No problem with her doing it to me though. :D

I've woken up before to find my girlfriend riding my morning wood. I'm usually a pretty deep sleeper.

Usually if I start fondling my sleeping wife she wakes up right away but it always leads to sex. My fantasy is to have her remain sleeping or pretend to remain sleeping. Dunno why.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 21:02
If you don't want to elaborate, that's fine.

For me it's a turn on. But as some may already know, I'm a sub and I like to feel the overpowering of my body and senses by my man. I love to feel that pretend humiliation to the point that as I'm writting this, I feel all hot and should stop.

I guess it's the same thing with me and having him on the verge orgasm while I feel his pulse under my lips. Orgasmic!

See, I'm also more a sub, most of the time. That's not the main issue (which I won't go into, as I'm not sure and rather doubt I have permission), but it is one issue.

Edit: Oh shit, 99 pages.

Sex thread to 100 pages! Go go go go!
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 21:04
.. and yes, my recent shipment of, umm, playthings included a free digital camera so I might even be able to comply now. We'll see.



:eek2:

See kids? It never hurts to ask :D
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 21:05
I've woken up before to find my girlfriend riding my morning wood. I'm usually a pretty deep sleeper.

Usually if I start fondling my sleeping wife she wakes up right away but it always leads to sex. My fantasy is to have to remain sleeping or pretend to remain sleeping. Dunno why.

I've done that, remain asleep while I'm being penetrated. There's nothing better than to wake up with a screaming orgasm. Those are, indeed, good mornings. :D
Vampire Knight Zero
21-11-2008, 21:07
I've woken up before to find my girlfriend riding my morning wood. I'm usually a pretty deep sleeper.

Usually if I start fondling my sleeping wife she wakes up right away but it always leads to sex. My fantasy is to have to remain sleeping or pretend to remain sleeping. Dunno why.

That... sounds... so... hot... :eek:

I've done that, remain asleep while I'm being penetrated. There's nothing better than to wake up with a screaming orgasm. Those are, indeed, good mornings. :D

You're not helping! :D
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 21:08
How about molesting your partner while they are asleep? :D

If she was okay with it. I love exploring her body while she's awake, it might be funny to wake her up by eating her out.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 21:09
:eek2:

See kids? It never hurts to ask :D

:eek:

Wow. I am shocked. Not appalled though. Because that would give it a negative connotation.
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 21:11
You're not helping! :D

But it's true. There's nothing better than to wake up by orgasming.
Vampire Knight Zero
21-11-2008, 21:12
But it's true. There's nothing better than to wake up by orgasming.

I'm not doubting that. What troubles me is that this thread is making me aroused again. :D
Nanatsu no Tsuki
21-11-2008, 21:13
I'm not doubting that. What troubles me is that this thread is making me aroused again. :D

Fap-time?:confused:



But this thread will have my attention tomorrow. It's time for me to go home.

NSGers, once again, it was a pleasure to read through this thread. My kudos to you all!! :D
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 21:18
I've done that, remain asleep while I'm being penetrated. There's nothing better than to wake up with a screaming orgasm. Those are, indeed, good mornings. :D

Hawt!

ok funny story time. I woke up during the orgasm of a wet dream to find that the grip on my cock head that probably spurred the dream was my wifes scrunchy. Wife wakes up to my laughter, finding me holding a very messy scrunchy. No idea, how it got there.
SaintB
21-11-2008, 21:20
Fap-time?:confused:



But this thread will have my attention tomorrow. It's time for me to go home.

NSGers, once again, it was a pleasure to read through this thread. My kudos to you all!! :D

Post from home!
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 21:20
Hawt!

ok funny story time. I woke up during the orgasm of a wet dream to find that the grip on my cock head that probably spurred the dream was my wifes scrunchy. Wife wakes up to my laughter, finding me holding a very messy scrunchy. No idea, how it got there.

Lol. Did she keep the scrunchy?
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 21:22
Fap-time?:confused:



But this thread will have my attention tomorrow. It's time for me to go home.

NSGers, once again, it was a pleasure to read through this thread. My kudos to you all!! :D

Noooooooo! Pllllleeease don't leave us!! lol
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 21:22
Lol. Did she keep the scrunchy?

Certainly. Don't you keep your bed sheets? :D
Neesika
21-11-2008, 21:23
I practically have a cum fetish. I love to watch a guy cum, so I often like to let oral and handjobs finish in open air, like my own little lawn sprinkler. And I have had several boyfriends who, reflexively, apologized for making a mess -- as if I didn't cause them to and want them to and as if I'm not clearly enjoying that they did. I blame their mothers for psychologically abusing them.

Being cummed on.....hawt. Better than being cummed in...except for oral. I love the taste of cum.
Western Mercenary Unio
21-11-2008, 21:27
Page 100!
Neesika
21-11-2008, 21:29
Turn on. Why? If I start asking myself that, I'll start wondering if I'm sicko. But I'm not. I wouldn't be comfortable if it wasn't roleplay.

Probably the dominance and power. You can do anything. Anything.

Then you need to remember that 'not in the mood' changes to 'fuck me harder' when you make your rape intentions clear to me, at least.
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 21:30
Being cummed on.....hawt. Better than being cummed in...except for oral. I love the taste of cum.

http://209.85.12.227/11914/116/emo/perv.gif
Neesika
21-11-2008, 21:31
Rapestove.

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v711/sinuhue/Untitled-4.jpg
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 21:33
Being cummed on.....hawt. Better than being cummed in...except for oral. I love the taste of cum.

Today at a party, one of my female friends described "Milwaukee's Best" (a really crappy beer) as tasting like the cum of this one dude.

My immediate thought was "Wow... I hope mine doesn't taste like horrible beer..." For some reason, that just reminded me of that little episode.

It doesn't happen very often, but cumming on my ladyfriend's belly is really awesome, because then it's kinda slippery when she presses up against me.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 21:33
Page 100!

One hundred pages if win and awesome!
Sumamba Buwhan
21-11-2008, 21:34
Then you need to remember that 'not in the mood' changes to 'fuck me harder' when you make your rape intentions clear to me, at least.

Once a hot friend of mine was walking around in a VERY skimpy clothing at her house as I was visiting. She kept being a tease and without thought, out of my mouth came "I am going to rape the shit out of you" (not something I would say to her, had I thought about it, since she had been molested. It was literally like someone else talking through me) and she basically collapsed onto me in a "do what you will with my body" kind of way. So I did.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 21:34
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v711/sinuhue/Untitled-4.jpg

Is that Stalin?
Neesika
21-11-2008, 21:35
.. and yes, my recent shipment of, umm, playthings included a free digital camera so I might even be able to comply now. We'll see.
I've been asking for a pic for years.

While I'm not male, rape fantasies definitely aren't my thing, given my sexual history. I'm all for being beaten, humiliated, tortured, and so forth, but if I'm saying, "No, seriously, stop, I don't like this" and he keeps going, that is colossally unsexy.
This.

I don't even generally like porn that makes it seem like there isn't actually consent or enjoyment.

Usually if I start fondling my sleeping wife she wakes up right away but it always leads to sex. My fantasy is to have her remain sleeping or pretend to remain sleeping. Dunno why.I hate being such a light sleeper, I would love this! I love being woken up by sex, but it would be cooler to wake up after a few minutes rather than immediately.

Hawt!

ok funny story time. I woke up during the orgasm of a wet dream to find that the grip on my cock head that probably spurred the dream was my wifes scrunchy. Wife wakes up to my laughter, finding me holding a very messy scrunchy. No idea, how it got there.

This has always been my favourite story!
Gauntleted Fist
21-11-2008, 21:37
Page 100!Successful thread is successful. :salute:
Neesika
21-11-2008, 21:37
Is that Stalin?

Stalin is Rapestove's arch enemy. That is Rapestove's hot wife, and his son the toaster.
New Wallonochia
21-11-2008, 21:38
I've woken up before to find my girlfriend riding my morning wood. I'm usually a pretty deep sleeper.

My last girlfriend intended to do just that sort of thing several times, but I'm a legendarily light sleeper. I wake up when the neighbors start their car in the morning. I always woke up whenever she did, thus ruining the element of surprise.
Callisdrun
21-11-2008, 21:38
Successful thread is successful. :salute:

Successful thread is very successful. And sexy.
Gauntleted Fist
21-11-2008, 21:40
Successful thread is very successful. And sexy.http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1206/759088242_c56f0ad3f5_m.jpg

:D :p
To be fair, we both deserve that.