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I still don't understand how slapping, spanking etc can be arousing. Pain = bad.

I like it, there's no other explanation. But I guess it's all about the endorphines and the hotness of being dominated by a strong male.

Ou est ton pere? *nods*

Where is your father? Odd thing to say :P

I still don't understand how slapping, spanking etc can be arousing. Pain = bad.

For you. Most people I know aren't into receiving pain, and that's fine as long as some of them don't mind hurting me from time to time:)

Where is your father? Odd thing to say :P

ugh. Qui god damn it.

Where is your father? Odd thing to say :P

Et il embrasse sa mère avec qui sale de sa bouche!:D

For you. Most people I know aren't into receiving pain, and that's fine as long as some of them don't mind hurting me from time to time:)

it can be arranged *nods*

I like it, there's no other explanation. But I guess it's all about the endorphines and the hotness of being dominated by a strong male.

Wild and rough... perfect. You have the same idea as me. :D

Ou est ton pere? *nods*

At work, presumably. Maybe practicing my French on you isn't such a good plan after all. ;)

ugh. Qui god damn it.

That sounds like it ought to be the name of a particularly clumsy Jedi master.

Wild and rough... perfect. You have the same idea as me. :D

No, you're lusty. I just like it wild and rough.

Not that I have a problem with lust or anything, mind you. :tongue:

No, you're lusty. I just like it wild and rough.

Not that I have a problem with lust or anything, mind you. :tongue:

So, you like it when your own man gets wild and lusty? :)

That sounds like it ought to be the name of a particularly clumsy Jedi master.

151 pages later, we have a winner.

So, you like it when your own man gets wild and lusty? :)

But of course. Which girl wouldn't?

151 pages later, we have a winner.

Yay! I win! :D

Yay! I win! :D

Can I lick the gold star and stick it on her chest?

Can I lick the gold star and stick it on her chest?

yes. Slowly. With your tongue. Naked. Both of you.

Take pictures

But of course. Which girl wouldn't?

A valid point. :)

A valid point. :)

But of course.

But of course.

The main course? :D

The main course? :D

Ah, you want to have food off of your lady friend?:D We discussed that waaaaaaaaaaaay back on the thread.

Ah, you want to have food off of your lady friend?:D We discussed that waaaaaaaaaaaay back on the thread.

Oh I knowz - the main course is eating her. :D

Oh I knowz - the main course is eating her. :D

We have us a hungry and horny Brit in our midst.:eek:

We have us a hungry and horny Brit in our midst.:eek:

As always. :D

:fluffle:

As always. :D

:fluffle:

This leads me to a question for the men of NSG. Guys, when you're insanely horny, does fapping helps or does it leaves you wanting more?

*ignores the previous 151 pages*

In my current relationship, we started talking about kinks and what turns each other on about.... ten months before our official "first date", and three months before we officially became a "couple".

It's worked well for us. We had a lot of fun after our first date, too. :D

This leads me to a question for the men of NSG. Guys, when you're insanely horny, does fapping helps or does it leaves you wanting more?

Sometimes if I lose control I fap, other times I try to control myself, for it leaves me with more desire. :)

Sometimes if I lose control I fap, other times I try to control myself, for it leaves me with more desire. :)

Are you a chronic fapper?:D

We have us a hungry and horny Brit in our midst.:eek:

Oh sorry, I'll go. :p

Oh sorry, I'll go. :p

2 British fappers? OMG!:eek2:

Are you a chronic fapper?:D

Well, she's caused me to do it a lot more often than I used to... :D

...But no, not every waking moment. ;)

2 British fappers? OMG!:eek2:

Use English, please. British should only be used when the people in question are from more than 1 of the 3 countries.

use english, please. British should only be used when the people in question are from more than 1 of the 3 countries.

Bri-tish. Bri-tish. Bri-tish. :D

bri-tish. Bri-tish. Bri-tish. Fa-ppers!!!:d

Eng-lish.

Eng-lish.

UK man. Rofl!:D

This leads me to a question for the men of NSG. Guys, when you're insanely horny, does fapping helps or does it leaves you wanting more?

Usually it helps. If it doesnt, I wait 5 minutes and do it agian.


I have a pretty powerful sex drive.

Usually it helps. If it doesnt, I wait 5 minutes and do it agian.


I have a pretty powerful sex drive.

*writes that last thing down*
That happens to me. I can masturbate 3 to 4 times in a row if I'm too hot.

UK man. Rofl!:D

But the UK isn't exactly a country, and Britain is different to the UK anyway.

I can masturbate 3 to 4 times in a row if I'm too hot.

I win, 8.

Usually it helps. If it doesnt, I wait 5 minutes and do it agian.


I have a pretty powerful sex drive.

Ditto. Often it helps in the short term, then makes it much worse later on ...

And yes, I know I'm a newb on the forum, I just have exams on at the moment. And have just discovered the delights of this part of the boards ... fed up with all the election crap lol

But the UK isn't exactly a country, and Britain is different to the UK anyway.

Adu-kun, answer my question. Does masturbating helps or not when you're too horny? This is not a gentilicium thread.;)

Adu-kun, answer my question. Does masturbating helps or not when you're too horny? This is not a gentilicium thread.;)

Yes.

The brits - masters of masturbation. :)

Have we asked the ladies te obligatory spit or swallow question yet? Add to that, spit, swallow, or facial/pearl necklace?

Have we asked the ladies te obligatory spit or swallow question yet? Add to that, spit, swallow, or facial/pearl necklace?

I started out swallowing, began to dislike it rather much after a while of it not bothering me (go figure), stopped. Never did nor got spitting. Whenever he doesn't cum inside me I prefer it he come rather overtly all over me, rather than trying to sort of make it as un-messy and non-eventful as possible.

So yeah, pearl necklace or nice impressionistic paintings on my boobs or similar activities are in order.


Oh, and by the by, I wish to brag about the fact that my slutty, I-have-slept-with-far-more-women-than-I-can-count boyfriend declared yesterday's blowjob "the best blowjob [he's] ever had". So there, bow before me.

What's NSG's views on sexual punishment? And by that I mean, what do you think about being slapped/choked/pinched while being fucked?

No. I used to box, when someone hits me my instincts scream to hit back....

I started out swallowing, began to dislike it rather much after a while of it not bothering me (go figure), stopped. Never did nor got spitting. Whenever he doesn't cum inside me I prefer it he come rather overtly all over me, rather than trying to sort of make it as un-messy and non-eventful as possible.

So yeah, pearl necklace or nice impressionistic paintings on my boobs or similar activities are in order.


Oh, and by the by, I wish to brag about the fact that my slutty, I-have-slept-with-far-more-women-than-I-can-count boyfriend declared yesterday's blowjob "the best blowjob [he's] ever had". So there, bow before me.

:hail:

any tips for the gf? she tries ... most of the time ... there's just 'room for improvement' as she says.

not much room in her mouth, mind you. it's tiny (the mouth, that is ... :$)

Have we asked the ladies te obligatory spit or swallow question yet? Add to that, spit, swallow, or facial/pearl necklace?
If it's in my mouth, I swallow. Since I'm not currently on birth control other than condoms, I really really want to be cummed in, but I can't have it (aside from the obvious). Though I did it anyway a number of times on GoG's second visit and had to take that horrible freaking morning-after pill. Ugh. Hot as it was, the effects of that pill made it not worth it :(

I love being cummed on, as I've already stated.


Oh, and by the by, I wish to brag about the fact that my slutty, I-have-slept-with-far-more-women-than-I-can-count boyfriend declared yesterday's blowjob "the best blowjob [he's] ever had". So there, bow before me.
Always a point of pride. My blowjobs are pretty epic, when I'm actually into it, and while I'm not going to compare myself to anyone else, I am happy with my skills.
No. I used to box, when someone hits me my instincts scream to hit back....I used to box too. I'm very physical and spent a lot of years being very violent. Nonetheless I have NEVER had a problem knowing the difference between wanting to be hit, and not wanting to be hit...my instincts obviously come into play in the latter scenario, but have no reason to kick in when it's the former.

This leads me to a question for the men of NSG. Guys, when you're insanely horny, does fapping helps or does it leaves you wanting more?

I already mentioned... leaves me wanting way too much more.

Masturbation doesn't help me at all. The orgasms are qualitatively different and less satisfying, and no matter how hot I get, masturbation isn't any sort of release. A big reason for that is that I'm extremely penetration-orientated when it comes to my own pleasure, and no, even though you can 'do it yourself' in that sense as well, it just isn't the same. I need actual sex, and I need it more than anyone else I know apparently. Frick.

I used to box too. I'm very physical and spent a lot of years being very violent. Nonetheless I have NEVER had a problem knowing the difference between wanting to be hit, and not wanting to be hit...my instincts obviously come into play in the latter scenario, but have no reason to kick in when it's the former.

Well, I'm over 6 feet tall and have a strong build. I would rather avoid at the moment of passion knocking the piss out of my lover (you know, assuming I ever get layed again). So hitting and slapping are no no's.

Have we asked the ladies te obligatory spit or swallow question yet? Add to that, spit, swallow, or facial/pearl necklace?

My answer would depend on wether I'm in the mood for spit/swallow/facial. Some times I feel like swallowing, other times I feel like spitting it. I do love it when he cums on my tits or ass. The facial's acceptable, sometimes. The pearl necklace is not my fav though.

Masturbation doesn't help me at all. The orgasms are qualitatively different and less satisfying, and no matter how hot I get, masturbation isn't any sort of release. A big reason for that is that I'm extremely penetration-orientated when it comes to my own pleasure, and no, even though you can 'do it yourself' in that sense as well, it just isn't the same. I need actual sex, and I need it more than anyone else I know apparently. Frick.

Nymphomaniac?

Well, I'm over 6 feet tall and have a strong build. I would rather avoid at the moment of passion knocking the piss out of my lover (you know, assuming I ever get layed again). So hitting and slapping are no no's.

Which is fine.

I'm a very small woman, but I know very well that I can really hurt another person regardless of their height/weight, so I keep myself in check when it's appropriate.

Nymphomaniac?

I call that a woman who knows what she likes. *nod*

I already mentioned... leaves me wanting way too much more.

Yeah, that happens to me too.

Nymphomaniac?

Hardly, I just have a high sex drive and no repressive conditioning to mitigate it.

any tips for the gf? she tries ... most of the time ... there's just 'room for improvement' as she says.

not much room in her mouth, mind you. it's tiny (the mouth, that is ... :$)
I feel you ought to be a wee bit more honest here - is it really her who thinks there's room for improvement? 'Cause if it is, and you think they're good, you might want to direct your energy into telling her just that. And if not, you might want to come out and say that actually YOU feel they ought to improve.

And no, I've consumed tons of "educative material" before going down on him myself (you wouldn't believe how many "blowjob manuals" you can find written on the net before you actually try to look for them), and they helped me squat all. I don't really think it's about technique per se, but about adjusting to your lover's reaction and, for the absolutely biggest part, about really liking it. If you can't find much enthusiasm for giving BJs within you, you might as well not give them, I think.

.and my mouth doesn't really fit much of him into me, either - a combination of not too huge a mouth and an immense gag reflex.

Hardly, I just have a high sex drive and no repressive conditioning to mitigate it.

Why should you repress it? It's not a crime to have a high, sex drive.

If you can't find much enthusiasm for giving BJs within you, you might as well not give them, I think. Exactly. If I'm not enjoying giving head, it tends not to be a good bj, and I absolutely refuse now to give head if I'm not into it.

.and my mouth doesn't really fit much of him into me, either - a combination of not too huge a mouth and an immense gag reflex. The gag reflex can be overcome with practice. I'm pretty good at deep-throating, but I still haven't got right down to the base of GoG's shaft consistently, so I'm still working on it.

Why should you repress it? It's not a crime to have a high, sex drive.

I see no reason to repress it, I think that other people have various hangups that control or decrease their sex drive.

I see no reason to repress it, I think that other people have various hangups that control or decrease their sex drive.

I am such a sexual individual. I know some people either find it strange or are intolerant of it. Sex is the best thing we human have. Sex is heavenly so why repress the urge to have sex with a man or a woman if they're consenting to have sex with you? Perhaps I don't have inhibition in that regard and I'll wind up going to hell (if you know what I mean), but I don't care. I love sex.

Well, I'm over 6 feet tall and have a strong build. I would rather avoid at the moment of passion knocking the piss out of my lover (you know, assuming I ever get layed again). So hitting and slapping are no no's.

me too (well, 5'11"). Practice makes perfect :p

Hardly, I just have a high sex drive and no repressive conditioning to mitigate it.

# Do you spend excessive time obsessing about sex or engaged in sexual activity?
# Do you feel your sexual drive and activity are getting out of control?
# Do you have sex with people with whom you normally would not associate?
# Have people you trust expressed concern about your sexual activity?

Perhaps you are struggling with hypersexuality (http://bipolar.about.com/cs/hypersex/a/aa_hypersex.htm). Hypersexuality is an increased need, even pressure, for sexual gratification and is often a symptom of mania.

# Do you spend excessive time obsessing about sex or engaged in sexual activity?
# Do you feel your sexual drive and activity are getting out of control?
# Do you have sex with people with whom you normally would not associate?
# Have people you trust expressed concern about your sexual activity?

Perhaps you are struggling with hypersexuality (http://bipolar.about.com/cs/hypersex/a/aa_hypersex.htm). Hypersexuality is an increased need, even pressure, for sexual gratification and is often a symptom of mania.

This sounds like a cheesy cable commercial. :p

Trostia,

# Do you spend excessive time obsessing about other people having sex or others engaging in sexual activity?
# Do you feel your sexual drive and activity are non-existent?
# Do you have sex only with yourself, and even then don't want to associate with yourself?
# Have people you trust expressed concern about your lack of sexual activity?

Perhaps you are struggling with hyposexuality (http://bipolar.about.com/cs/hyposex/a/aa_hyposex.htm). Hyposexuality is a complete lack of interest in personal sexual gratification and is often a symptom of mania.

# Do you spend excessive time obsessing about sex or engaged in sexual activity?
Define excessive. I have always thought about sex a lot. As in constantly. I'm not, unfortunately, engaged in sexual activity anywhere near excessively.
# Do you feel your sexual drive and activity are getting out of control? No. I'm still quite able to function in all other necessary ways despite my high libido.
# Do you have sex with people with whom you normally would not associate? Very rarely. I generally only have sex with people that I'm friends with, or really click with on some level other than purely sexual.
# Have people you trust expressed concern about your sexual activity? No serious concern, more like vicarious enjoyment or 'shock'.

Perhaps you are struggling with hypersexuality (http://bipolar.about.com/cs/hypersex/a/aa_hypersex.htm). Hypersexuality is an increased need, even pressure, for sexual gratification and is often a symptom of mania.

Probably not.

This sounds like a cheesy cable commercial. :p

I was gonna write that, beaten to it.:)

I was gonna write that, beaten to it.:)

Oh oh oh! I have another question. What do you think about taping your sex sessions? Do it, no? Why?

Oh oh oh! I have another question. What do you think about taping your sex sessions? Do it, no? Why?

I've done it, but for other reasons than most :p

Oh oh oh! I have another question. What do you think about taping your sex sessions? Do it, no? Why?

I don't have sex.

I've done it, but for other reasons than most :p

<.<
Yes... I'm sure. :D

<.<
Yes... I'm sure. :D

hah, well..

I don't have sex.

I won't venture to ask why. :p

Oh oh oh! I have another question. What do you think about taping your sex sessions? Do it, no? Why?

Hmm... thats never even crossed my mind... perhaps it's something i'll talk to her about. :)

I won't venture to ask why. :p

No, it's fine, ask away.

hah, well..

Well?

No, it's fine, ask away.

Why is that you you don't have sex? <.<

Why is that you you don't have sex? <.<

Because I don't have a girlfriend. Simple as that. :p

Because I don't have a girlfriend. Simple as that. :p

Then get out of NSG and get yourself one... maybe... I don't know...

Then get out of NSG and get yourself one... maybe... I don't know...

Lol. I'm gone.

Lol. I'm gone.

With luck he might find someone if he looks. :p

Lol. I'm gone.

Good lad!

With luck he might find someone if he looks. :p

And with luck all you'll recieve is a mere spanking.:eek2:

And with luck all you'll recieve is a mere spanking.:eek2:

Oh, I want more than just a spanking. :D

Oh, I want more than just a spanking. :D

Good for you. I must go now. I have dinner with my best friend, I forgot his birthday was on the 21st of November and he's über pissed at me. Then is onwards to my sweet home and a warm shower. I need to get the Canuck stink off of me.:(

Then, I'm going to masturbate! Ja ne, minna!:D

Oh oh oh! I have another question. What do you think about taping your sex sessions? Do it, no? Why?
When I was teaching, I refused to be photographed or videotaped doing anything remotely sexual, but I no longer care, and I quite like both.
I've done it, but for other reasons than most :p
What reasons other than getting off on it later, or showing it off to someone are there?

# Do you spend excessive time obsessing about sex or engaged in sexual activity?
# Do you feel your sexual drive and activity are getting out of control?
# Do you have sex with people with whom you normally would not associate?
# Have people you trust expressed concern about your sexual activity?

Perhaps you are struggling with hypersexuality (http://bipolar.about.com/cs/hypersex/a/aa_hypersex.htm). Hypersexuality is an increased need, even pressure, for sexual gratification and is often a symptom of mania.

Stop trying to discourage women from having lots of sex.

What reasons other than getting off on it later, or showing it off to someone are there?

showing it back to the other person involved later, which makes her really want to get off to it but can't? :p

Have we asked the ladies te obligatory spit or swallow question yet? Add to that, spit, swallow, or facial/pearl necklace?

The last is the best; I love having his cum on me. I'll swallow or spit upon request, but the only semen I've tasted extensively was that of my Evil Ex, and it tasted kinda like salty dish detergent, so I wasn't a big fan. I hear the taste varies a good deal from guy to guy, though, so I may find I like swallowing more with future partners.

showing it back to the other person involved later, which makes her really want to get off to it but can't? :p

...that's hot.

Because I don't have a girlfriend. Simple as that. :p

What is this strange world were you need to have a girlfriend to have sex?

showing it back to the other person involved later, which makes her really want to get off to it but can't? :p
Ah, of course, I should have realised :D
...that's hot.
How surprising that you'd find it so! :D
The last is the best; I love having his cum on me. I'll swallow or spit upon request, but the only semen I've tasted extensively was that of my Evil Ex, and it tasted kinda like salty dish detergent, so I wasn't a big fan. I hear the taste varies a good deal from guy to guy, though, so I may find I like swallowing more with future partners.I like being told to swallow...in graphic and crude terms :D

I associate the taste with being extremely aroused, so it doesn't bother me, and yes it varies, but not extremely.

This leads me to a question for the men of NSG. Guys, when you're insanely horny, does fapping helps or does it leaves you wanting more?

Sometimes. Other times nothing helps.

Sometimes. Other times nothing helps.

If I had the epicly long heavy metal hair you did, I would jerk it to myself in the mirror.

Ah, of course, I should have realised :D

How surprising that you'd find it so! :D

Shocking, I know. ;)

I like being told to swallow...in graphic and crude terms :D

I associate the taste with being extremely aroused, so it doesn't bother me, and yes it varies, but not extremely.

I like being told to do just about anything in graphic and crude terms. Swallowing is just one of those things that, at present, I wouldn't do if I weren't being told to. :p

I like being told to do just about anything in graphic and crude terms.


*Makes note of this*

What's NSG's views on sexual punishment? And by that I mean, what do you think about being slapped/choked/pinched while being fucked?

I like being bitten, hard. My ladyfriend obliges. Sometimes she bites so hard that at the back of my mind I worry that she'll take a chunk out of my neck, but I'm usually too busy enjoying it to think about that much.

Never been pinched during sexual activity, or slapped. Would be willing to try it though. As I mentioned earlier, choking is not and will never be a part of my sex life. I also probably would not slap or hit my ladyfriend in the face if she asked for it. I'd be reluctant to hit her anywhere (except slapping her ass) but would probably agree if she really wanted me to.

If I had the epicly long heavy metal hair you did, I would jerk it to myself in the mirror.

I lolled, literally.

...that's hot.

sounds like a willing participant...

What's NSG's views on sexual punishment? And by that I mean, what do you think about being slapped/choked/pinched while being fucked?

All about the chocking and slapping as long as Im the one doing it. Being on the recieving end I cant say, never done it, and unless I suddenly stop fucking submissive girls (which I probably wont, especially cause Im marrying one) that most likely wont change.

I don't mind being called "baby" or "baby girl". But I do destest men who, while fucking me, go on and growl "Who's your daddy" shyte. I have a father, can't stand him. I don't want to be reminded of him while getting my freak on.

/le groan

See, for me, when I hear "baby" I think of infants. Not arousing. In fact, detrimental to my arousal.

When I hear the word "daddy" I think of my dad. He was a good man and a good father, but the thought of either of my parents is extremely unsexy. So that would kind of ruin the moment.

Hence, I never call my ladyfriend "baby" and never ask her to call me "daddy." Both gross me out.

*Makes note of this*

You should probably also note, for your own safety, that guys who do such things without my prior approval may get kicked in the balls. I may not be as fearsome as Neesika, but I can still do some damage when I need to. ;)

See, for me, when I hear "baby" I think of infants. Not arousing. In fact, detrimental to my arousal.

When I hear the word "daddy" I think of my dad. He was a good man and a good father, but the thought of either of my parents is extremely unsexy. So that would kind of ruin the moment.

Hence, I never call my ladyfriend "baby" and never ask her to call me "daddy." Both gross me out.

As I mentioned earlier, something about spanking a girl and then having her call me daddy would be...well...ew.

Oooh, Calli-kun's smexy!:D

I do believe that's the first time I've been called smexy. Thank you. :)

You should probably also note, for your own safety, that guys who do such things without my prior approval may get kicked in the balls. I may not be as fearsome as Neesika, but I can still do some damage when I need to. ;)

This is hot.:p

As I mentioned earlier, something about spanking a girl and then having her call me daddy would be...well...ew.

See, that would make me not only think of my dad, but also think of my little sister and one of the very few times she got in trouble when we were children (usually she managed to wiggle out of it or pin it on me). And that thought is even more extremely un-sexy.

See, that would make me not only think of my dad, but also think of my little sister and one of the very few times she got in trouble when we were children (usually she managed to wiggle out of it or pin it on me). And that thought is even more extremely un-sexy.

It becomes creepy and incestious when they moan the word "daddy" all sexy-like.


I have had a girl do this. When she was bent over and I spanked her, she did that. It goes without saying the night pretty much stopped there, and I asked her if she had been molested by her father (and I was completly serious).

showing it back to the other person involved later, which makes her really want to get off to it but can't? :p

:hail:

I do believe that's the first time I've been called smexy. Thank you. :)

You're welcome. I seldom see men like you who seem to be comfortable talking about their sexuality and also willing to try new things. Many guys are so set in their ways.

It becomes creepy and incestious when they moan the word "daddy" all sexy-like.


I have had a girl do this. When she was bent over and I spanked her, she did that. It goes without saying the night pretty much stopped there, and I asked her if she had been molested by her father (and I was completly serious).

That's pretty fucked up dude.

You're welcome. I seldom see men like you who seem to be comfortable talking about their sexuality and also willing to try new things. Many guys are so set in their ways.

Sexuality is one of my very favorite things to talk about. Though my friends tell me that occasionally there are issues of overshare, which is kind of a problem.

And I'm only 21, so it would be pretty sad if I never tried any new things and limited myself to what I've already experienced.

That's pretty fucked up dude.

Him or her? I'd be pretty creeped out if my ladyfriend moaned "daddy" during sex.

Him or her? I'd be pretty creeped out if my ladyfriend moaned "daddy" during sex.

Yeah... me too... :eek:

Some interesting questions that a lady posted on a dating site:

Would it bother you to discover a partner likes to cross-dress?
· Yes.
and
· No.
depending on how much of a fetish/act/melodrama it was. I totally dig gender bending, but I hate melodrama and fetishes.

Which of these most closely matches your definition of "Honesty"?
· Telling the complete truth.
· Not telling any lies.
· Not being misleading.
· None of the above are close.

How often are you open with your feelings?
· Always
· Usually
· Rarely
· Never

If it were legal to do so where you live, would you smoke marijuana?
· Yes.
· No. Because I don't smoke.

Do you often make jokes that offend people?
· Yes
· No
· I'm not sure

An in re phonesex: I also dislike both phone sex and cyber sex. No "shut up and fuck" option in either of those. ;)

Sexuality is one of my very favorite things to talk about. Though my friends tell me that occasionally there are issues of overshare, which is kind of a problem.

And I'm only 21, so it would be pretty sad if I never tried any new things and limited myself to what I've already experienced.

That's a good outlook. Drink, fuck and be merry. Life's too short for us to make it boring. Always love those who love you, but never keep away of a good toss if it's between consenting adults, like you and your lady friend.

I wish there were more 21 year olds like you.:)

That's a good outlook. Drink, fuck and be merry. Life's too short for us to make it boring. Always love those who love you, but never keep away of a good toss if it's between consenting adults, like you and your lady friend.

I wish there were more 21 year olds like you.:)

*Ahem* And 23 year olds like me... :)

*Ahem* And 23 year olds like me... :)

No jealousy, bucko. <.<
I like to bite and I don't need a sexual excuse to sink my chompers in your arms.

Take that as both a threat and a sexual innuendo if you wish to.:D

No jealousy, bucko. <.<
I like to bite and I don't need a sexual excuse to sink my chompers in your arms.

Take that as both a threat and a sexual innuendo if you wish to.:D

Suddenly I feel a lot happier. :D

Okay, finally caught up with all the new questions, so:

Sexual punishment: No, thank you. Pain is a turn-off for me. Dom/sub type stuff is also a turn-off -- it feels very fake and stilted to me, likely because it is totally fake with me (both dom and sub). In the heat of fucking some scratching and bruising is likely to occur, and I'm totally happy with that, but it's not the same thing.

Swallow, spit or facial/necklace/other paint class projects: Oh, sure. :D Like I said ages and pages ago, I'm into cum. I do have a hair trigger gag reflex that also responds to some textures of stuff in my mouth (even some foods; took years for me to be able to drink smoothies), and I find gagging extremely unsexy, so I only swallow sometimes. Also, I like seeing it and playing with it, so I am much more likely to want my guy to cum on me or to spit it out.

Taping sex: Absolutely not. Never. Under no circumstances. Ever seen those scenes in gangster movies where some innocent bystander catches video of a mobster walking down the street, and his henchmen take the camera and smash it? That's what I would be like if I found a camera in my man's room. The most recent photo of me is the one on my current passport, and it's 5 years old. Nope, no videos of Muravyets getting it on, just like there are no photos of Muravyets waving in front of tourist attractions.

Creepy lover names: "Baby" is not a sex name to me, so it doesn't bother me at all. I call everybody "baby" or "babe." I call my brother "babe." I've called perfect strangers "baby." As in "Who loves ya, baby?", a reference to Kojak, not sex. Getting called "baby" or "babe" back is nothing to me. The closest I ever get to calling anyone "daddy" is when I call someone "daddy-o," which of course is not quite the same thing and is also not about sex. To me, "Who's your daddy?" is a joke question, and if some guy said that to me during sex, I might react with a "What, are you trying to be funny?"-Joe Pesci kind of a thing.

However, I also find that whole parent/child/paging Dr. Freud/Dr. Freud stat! sex thing to be extremely creepy. Guys who cop that Victorian daddy thing -- super creep. Women who talk baby-talk in bed -- make my blood run cold. Guys who, even outside of sex, compare their girlfriends to their mothers (like saying that they admire how maternal I am (which is evidence that they hallucinating, but anyway...)) -- that's a quick break-up, let me tell you.

Okay, finally caught up with all the new questions, so:

Sexual punishment: No, thank you. Pain is a turn-off for me. Dom/sub type stuff is also a turn-off -- it feels very fake and stilted to me, likely because it is totally fake with me (both dom and sub). In the heat of fucking some scratching and bruising is likely to occur, and I'm totally happy with that, but it's not the same thing.

Swallow, spit or facial/necklace/other paint class projects: Oh, sure. :D Like I said ages and pages ago, I'm into cum. I do have a hair trigger gag reflex that also responds to some textures of stuff in my mouth (even some foods; took years for me to be able to drink smoothies), and I find gagging extremely unsexy, so I only swallow sometimes. Also, I like seeing it and playing with it, so I am much more likely to want my guy to cum on me or to spit it out.

Taping sex: Absolutely not. Never. Under no circumstances. Ever seen those scenes in gangster movies where some innocent bystander catches video of a mobster walking down the street, and his henchmen take the camera and smash it? That's what I would be like if I found a camera in my man's room. The most recent photo of me is the one on my current passport, and it's 5 years old. Nope, no videos of Muravyets getting it on, just like there are no photos of Muravyets waving in front of tourist attractions.

Creepy lover names: "Baby" is not a sex name to me, so it doesn't bother me at all. I call everybody "baby" or "babe." I call my brother "babe." I've called perfect strangers "baby." As in "Who loves ya, baby?", a reference to Kojak, not sex. Getting called "baby" or "babe" back is nothing to me. The closest I ever get to calling anyone "daddy" is when I call someone "daddy-o," which of course is not quite the same thing and is also not about sex. To me, "Who's your daddy?" is a joke question, and if some guy said that to me during sex, I might react with a "What, are you trying to be funny?"-Joe Pesci kind of a thing.

However, I also find that whole parent/child/paging Dr. Freud/Dr. Freud stat! sex thing to be extremely creepy. Guys who cop that Victorian daddy thing -- super creep. Women who talk baby-talk in bed -- make my blood run cold. Guys who, even outside of sex, compare their girlfriends to their mothers (like saying that they admire how maternal I am (which is evidence that they hallucinating, but anyway...)) -- that's a quick break-up, let me tell you.

So none of this?

http://i372.photobucket.com/albums/oo163/j_reisetter/rope.jpg

Kimchi, you are not being even remotely amusing.

And, no.

This leads me to a question for the men of NSG. Guys, when you're insanely horny, does fapping helps or does it leaves you wanting more?

It can certainly give you relief, if you are really horny and have no other way to satisfy it, the only option is to fap which does help.

Because I don't have a girlfriend. Simple as that. :p

lol I knew this would be your answer but I still laughed anyway.

Him or her? I'd be pretty creeped out if my ladyfriend moaned "daddy" during sex.

I'd be pretty creeped out if a guy stopped sex to ask me if my daddy ever raped me.

I call my brother "babe." I've called perfect strangers "baby."

You have never called me that. :(

Those I suppose you might eventually call me immature.

On the topic of the whole Daddy/girl dynamic, it's interesting to see the responses. Some of the people who were just fine with rape fantasies seem to have a real problem with this. An important parallel to keep in mind is the barring the exceptional case, people with rape fantasies haven't been raped, and don't actually want to be raped...just like most people into the Daddy/girl dynamic haven't engaged in incest and don't actually want to.

Nor are all Daddy/girl dynamics incestuous in nature, despite the 'titles' being used. If the dynamic is a D/s one, the Daddy Dom is generally simply a different kind of Dom...there is some infantalisation going on, but it doesn't have to be extreme, just like a 'regular' Dom doesn't have to objectify his or her sub to any extreme. There's rarely pain involved, and the relationship tends to be more protective/protected in nature.

Then you just have people who get off calling their men 'daddy'...not because they're actually thinking about having sex with their fathers, but because they have a thing for older guys, or that's the way they're comfortable engaging in a 'submissive' role (rather than calling their partner Sir, Master, or something else that might just not feel right to them).

So I'd ask some of you reconsider the knee-jerk reactions you might have had to the whole daddy issue.

I'd be pretty creeped out if a guy stopped sex to ask me if my daddy ever raped me.

Sex would probably stop anyway, for me at least. I'd be unable to continue if she'd said something that made me think of child molestation.

On the topic of the whole Daddy/girl dynamic, it's interesting to see the responses. Some of the people who were just fine with rape fantasies seem to have a real problem with this. An important parallel to keep in mind is the barring the exceptional case, people with rape fantasies haven't been raped, and don't actually want to be raped...just like most people into the Daddy/girl dynamic haven't engaged in incest and don't actually want to.

Nor are all Daddy/girl dynamics incestuous in nature, despite the 'titles' being used. If the dynamic is a D/s one, the Daddy Dom is generally simply a different kind of Dom...there is some infantalisation going on, but it doesn't have to be extreme, just like a 'regular' Dom doesn't have to objectify his or her sub to any extreme. There's rarely pain involved, and the relationship tends to be more protective/protected in nature.

Then you just have people who get off calling their men 'daddy'...not because they're actually thinking about having sex with their fathers, but because they have a thing for older guys, or that's the way they're comfortable engaging in a 'submissive' role (rather than calling their partner Sir, Master, or something else that might just not feel right to them).

So I'd ask some of you reconsider the knee-jerk reactions you might have had to the whole daddy issue.

Sorry. I was just being honest. I'd be extremely grossed/creeped out if a woman called me "daddy" while having sex with me. Total mood destruction. That's all. Though I probably would not be as extreme as KoL and actually ask if she'd been molested by her father.

Sorry. I was just being honest. I'd be extremely grossed/creeped out if a woman called me "daddy" while having sex with me. Total mood destruction. That's all. Though I probably would not be as extreme as KoL and actually ask if she'd been molested by her father.

I mean, if that's your reaction, that's your reaction...I'm just suggesting that it's probably not what you assume it is. There are cultural norms to consider as well...in come communities, it's common to refer to one's partner as 'daddy', or 'papi' etc, and there's no actual confusion about one's relationship to one another. Ditto the other way, 'mami, mama' etc. Keep that in mind if you're fucking a latina :D

I mean, if that's your reaction, that's your reaction...I'm just suggesting that it's probably not what you assume it is. There are cultural norms to consider as well...in come communities, it's common to refer to one's partner as 'daddy', or 'papi' etc, and there's no actual confusion about one's relationship to one another. Ditto the other way, 'mami, mama' etc. Keep that in mind if you're fucking a latina :D

There's a white trash component to "daddy" as well, speaking in a sugar daddy way not in a "this is my parental figure" way.

On the topic of the whole Daddy/girl dynamic, it's interesting to see the responses. Some of the people who were just fine with rape fantasies seem to have a real problem with this. An important parallel to keep in mind is the barring the exceptional case, people with rape fantasies haven't been raped, and don't actually want to be raped...just like most people into the Daddy/girl dynamic haven't engaged in incest and don't actually want to.

Nor are all Daddy/girl dynamics incestuous in nature, despite the 'titles' being used. If the dynamic is a D/s one, the Daddy Dom is generally simply a different kind of Dom...there is some infantalisation going on, but it doesn't have to be extreme, just like a 'regular' Dom doesn't have to objectify his or her sub to any extreme. There's rarely pain involved, and the relationship tends to be more protective/protected in nature.

Then you just have people who get off calling their men 'daddy'...not because they're actually thinking about having sex with their fathers, but because they have a thing for older guys, or that's the way they're comfortable engaging in a 'submissive' role (rather than calling their partner Sir, Master, or something else that might just not feel right to them).

So I'd ask some of you reconsider the knee-jerk reactions you might have had to the whole daddy issue.

Ill consider my response. But it still will probably creep me out :p

EDIT: Who was for rape fantasies but is against the daddy thing? Me and Callisdrun found both unsexy.

There's a white trash component to "daddy" as well, speaking in a sugar daddy way not in a "this is my parental figure" way.

I'm not familiar with this use of the word. To me, "daddy" has always been something a little kid calls his/her father.

On the topic of the whole Daddy/girl dynamic, it's interesting to see the responses. Some of the people who were just fine with rape fantasies seem to have a real problem with this. An important parallel to keep in mind is the barring the exceptional case, people with rape fantasies haven't been raped, and don't actually want to be raped...just like most people into the Daddy/girl dynamic haven't engaged in incest and don't actually want to.

Nor are all Daddy/girl dynamics incestuous in nature, despite the 'titles' being used. If the dynamic is a D/s one, the Daddy Dom is generally simply a different kind of Dom...there is some infantalisation going on, but it doesn't have to be extreme, just like a 'regular' Dom doesn't have to objectify his or her sub to any extreme. There's rarely pain involved, and the relationship tends to be more protective/protected in nature.

Then you just have people who get off calling their men 'daddy'...not because they're actually thinking about having sex with their fathers, but because they have a thing for older guys, or that's the way they're comfortable engaging in a 'submissive' role (rather than calling their partner Sir, Master, or something else that might just not feel right to them).

So I'd ask some of you reconsider the knee-jerk reactions you might have had to the whole daddy issue.

Personally, I find it no more creepy than any other reasonably "healthy" or "normal" fetish (as opposed to, y'know, having a thing for raping mentally retarded toddlers, which is not so much healthy and normal), at least not until it gets to the extreme "dress the 'baby' up in a diaper and pacifier and breast-feed him" sort of phase. It's just not for me. :)

Personally, I find it no more creepy than any other reasonably "healthy" or "normal" fetish (as opposed to, y'know, having a thing for raping mentally retarded toddlers, which is not so much healthy and normal), at least not until it gets to the extreme "dress the 'baby' up in a diaper and pacifier and breast-feed him" sort of phase. It's just not for me. :)

Yup.

And I think it's more common for it not to be any sort of fetish at all, simply a culturally-particular way to refer to your sexual partner.

I want snu snu after reading this thread. :(

I have a shirt with Darth Vader on it that asks, "Who's your daddy?"

it turns all the ladies on. Or it doesn't and I just want to be a part of this conversation.


please somebody love me

I have a shirt with Darth Vader on it that asks, "Who's your daddy?"

it turns all the ladies on. Or it doesn't and I just want to be a part of this conversation.


please somebody love me

That does sound like a fairly awesome t-shirt. :p

What's NSG's views on sexual punishment? And by that I mean, what do you think about being slapped/choked/pinched while being fucked?

I like being held down, I like being bitten hard, I like pain... yet I am also very fighty, afraid of/refuse to date men who are much bigger than me (I've got like a 5'10" limit) and real "punishment" would just feed into my own self-hatred and self-punishment, probably. Or there'd be a dead guy in my room.

as for me, utterly against it, nobody bites, scratches, slaps, hits, or chokes me.

Pussy.

Well... she's asked me to slap her once before... I said if she really wants me to. :p

I tried to get my best friend to punch me when I was really drunk. She wouldn't, so I bit her arm hard and once the signal got to her brain (she was really drunk too) she backhanded me across the face. So she's just not being persuasive enough! :p

Use English, please. British should only be used when the people in question are from more than 1 of the 3 countries.

I thought there were four countries, at least... is Wales not a country?

Have we asked the ladies te obligatory spit or swallow question yet? Add to that, spit, swallow, or facial/pearl necklace?

There's nothing better than feeling him cum inside me, so I'm not big on facials. I don't even get the whole spit/swallow debate. It just seems plain rude! It's not like he gets up immediately and brushes his teeth after going down on me, so wtf.

.and my mouth doesn't really fit much of him into me, either - a combination of not too huge a mouth and an immense gag reflex.

At a brewery thing (it was on a boat, I was drunk, I dunno) my friend challenged everyone to try to fit the little tumbler-shot-glass-things in their mouths and take a cellphone pic. I was the only one who could the whole thing in her mouth. :$ Also, years of bulimia have given me the gag reflex control of a hooker. Not very sexy, but true, and put to good use.

I have a shirt with Darth Vader on it that asks, "Who's your daddy?"

it turns all the ladies on. Or it doesn't and I just want to be a part of this conversation.


please somebody love me

*loves you*

me too (well, 5'11"). Practice makes perfect :p

Well, add in years of sports and three types of martial arts... I am totally afraid to hit people unless there is no other course of action.

Oh oh oh! I have another question. What do you think about taping your sex sessions? Do it, no? Why?

Had a lover who liked me to take pictures of her afterward, but never movies. Does that count?

You have never called me that. :(

Those I suppose you might eventually call me immature.
I like my brother. :p

I'm not familiar with this use of the word. To me, "daddy" has always been something a little kid calls his/her father.
"Sugar daddy" is an old slang term referring to a man who pays for all his mistress's living expenses (making her a "kept woman" who has a "sugar daddy"). The female equivalent is, of course, a "sugar momma."

This term was so prevalent among older generations and in such wide use especially in the 1920s and 1930s, that it figured widely in jazz songs and other pop culture references some of which persist to this day. There is even a candy named for it:
http://www.thebigsweet.com/Images/Fun%20&%20Retro/sugar-daddy-med.gif
It's a caramel lollipop, a real filling yanker.

I suspect "sugar daddy" might be the true origin of women referring to their male lovers as "daddy," though the "who's your daddy?" thing is definitely about domination (which is kind of funny, but whatever).

I have a shirt with Darth Vader on it that asks, "Who's your daddy?"

it turns all the ladies on. Or it doesn't and I just want to be a part of this conversation.


please somebody love me

http://maigowasteland.files.wordpress.com/2008/04/luke_darthv.jpg

Noooooooooooo!!!

Pussy.

tsk, no dear, you don't understand. I am the one who does it all, not the other way around.

tsk, no dear, you don't understand. I am the one who does it all, not the other way around.
You keep saying that, but nobody believes you. ;)

You keep saying that, but nobody believes you. ;)

well Mur, I guess lucky for me my sex life does not seek nor require your belief in its existence...

You keep saying that, but nobody believes you. ;)

Oh, I'm convinced :D

well Mur, I guess lucky for me my sex life does not seek nor require your belief in its existence...

Mine doesn't exist...

well Mur, I guess lucky for me my sex life does not seek nor require your belief in its existence...
As long as you believe in it, that's all that matters. :fluffle:

Mine doesn't exist...
Believe, SB, and it will exist. Just like Tinkerbell. And peanut butter.

Would you hit your partner in the face during sex if they asked you?

I ask because I've come across this as a hard limit with most people. As in I never got anyone to agree to do it to me. Until like, half an hour ago (though I have to wait to have it happen in person). I'm talking, a good open handed slap to the face, a hard slap. Could you would you?

Believe, SB, and it will exist. Just like Tinkerbell. And peanut butter.

I believe that I have never met anyone who I trusted enough to honestly want to have sex with in a long time.

Could you would you?If they convinced me that they enjoyed it.

If they convinced me that they enjoyed it.

Would you enjoy it?

I mean, for me, it wouldn't be absolutely necessary for the person doing it to enjoy it...but it would be a lot hotter if he or she did.

tsk, no dear, you don't understand. I am the one who does it all, not the other way around.

Everyone knows the sub is really the one with control.

Also what Muravyets said.

Would you enjoy it?

I mean, for me, it wouldn't be absolutely necessary for the person doing it to enjoy it...but it would be a lot hotter if he or she did.I probably would. Saying that makes me feel kinda bad, actually.

Everyone knows the sub is really the one with control.

An utter lie, really, and a nonsensical one at that, propagated by people fond of pithy phrases without an understanding of how any of it works.

Also what Muravyets said.

And that which was said to her can apply equally to you.

Would you hit your partner in the face during sex if they asked you?

I ask because I've come across this as a hard limit with most people. As in I never got anyone to agree to do it to me. Until like, half an hour ago (though I have to wait to have it happen in person). I'm talking, a good open handed slap to the face, a hard slap. Could you would you?

No. I couldn't fulfill that kind of need for someone. It's not in me, and to be honest, I don't want to be with someone who needs or wants that from me. I've spent enough of my life being a masochist. I understand it, but I hate it. I know most of it is my own issues, but after abusing myself for so long, I couldn't be with anyone who wanted that.

Everyone knows the sub is really the one with control.

Also what Muravyets said.

That's sort of simplistic and not completely accurate. I mean, true enough, the sub's limits set the boundaries for certain things, but it doesn't mean he or she calls the shots.

Would you hit your partner in the face during sex if they asked you?

I ask because I've come across this as a hard limit with most people. As in I never got anyone to agree to do it to me. Until like, half an hour ago (though I have to wait to have it happen in person). I'm talking, a good open handed slap to the face, a hard slap. Could you would you?

No. I feel horrible for hitting people I hate. Let alone someone I love (or at least trust)

I probably would. Saying that makes me feel kinda bad, actually.

That's understandable, but I'm glad you can admit it. Sometimes I think I'm a bit sick because the idea of someone getting off on hurting me...gets me off...but then I just accept that things work out pretty well for both of us when that happens.

An utter lie, really, and a nonsensical one at that, propagated by people fond of pithy phrases without an understanding of how any of it works.

Possibly. It's not my thing. I do know that in a normal (non-sexual) setting, violence is the true sign of weakness.

Possibly. It's not my thing. I do know that in a normal (non-sexual) setting, violence is the true sign of weakness.

why would you call it violence? Violence is about anger and aggression, I think it's rather unfair, and more than a bit disingenuous, to characterize those kind of relationships as something that sounds abusive.

why would you call it violence? Violence is about anger and aggression, I think it's rather unfair, and more than a bit disingenuous, to characterize those kind of relationships as something that sounds abusive.

That's why I said that it wasn't my thing, and said "in a non-sexual situation". But if you're saying that aggression has no place in dominance, well... whatever, you're the expert.

Possibly. It's not my thing. I do know that in a normal (non-sexual) setting, violence is the true sign of weakness.

I'm intrigued by your use of the word 'normal' :P

That's why I said that it wasn't my thing, and said "in a non-sexual situation". But if you're saying that aggression has no place in dominance, well... whatever, you're the expert.

I'm saying aggression has no viable place in any relationship. Funny though, how you go from "I don't believe you" to "you're the expert" in about three posts.

I'm saying aggression has no viable place in any relationship. Funny though, how you go from "I don't believe you" to "you're the expert" in about three posts.

I was teasing the first time. I've got no reason to disbelieve you.

...No, wait, I was playing devil's advocate! That's it!

/terrible x-thread joke

I'm putting myself to bed now.

I'm putting myself to bed now.

Can I come?

I was teasing the first time. I've got no reason to disbelieve you.

...No, wait, I was playing devil's advocate! That's it!

I believe you :p

/terrible x-thread joke

I'm putting myself to bed now.

alright, but as I asked in the other thread...you alright? Seem out of sorts tonight...

No. I couldn't fulfill that kind of need for someone. It's not in me, and to be honest, I don't want to be with someone who needs or wants that from me. I've spent enough of my life being a masochist. I understand it, but I hate it. I know most of it is my own issues, but after abusing myself for so long, I couldn't be with anyone who wanted that.

Yeah, like I said, for pretty much everyone I've met that's a hard limit.

I always worry that my peversions will make it impossible for someone to keep loving me, but I'd rather that happened than clamping down on those perversions. I suppose it's just good to be really honest on both sides about what's 'okay' and what isn't...and then just hope for the best.

Can I come?

Party in Ryadn's bed!

alright, but as I asked in the other thread...you alright? Seem out of sorts tonight...

Cranky Ryadn is cranky. Ask me tomorrow.

Yeah, like I said, for pretty much everyone I've met that's a hard limit.

I always worry that my peversions will make it impossible for someone to keep loving me, but I'd rather that happened than clamping down on those perversions. I suppose it's just good to be really honest on both sides about what's 'okay' and what isn't...and then just hope for the best.

I think that's all you can really do to stay true to yourself and how you feel. Luckily, you've found someone who takes you as you are.

Okay, FOR REAL going to bed. Sigh.

Cranky Ryadn is cranky. Ask me tomorrow.

Deal. G'night

Party in Ryadn's bed!Done and done. :)

It's called giving yourself a "stranger."
Isn't there a Billy Joel song dedicated to that?

What reasons other than getting off on it later, or showing it off to someone are there?

Blackmail?


please somebody love me

*loves you. and your penis. may I please have your penis?*

Would you hit your partner in the face during sex if they asked you?


Nope.

Nope.

That just serves to make you even sexier!

Would you hit your partner in the face during sex if they asked you?

I ask because I've come across this as a hard limit with most people. As in I never got anyone to agree to do it to me. Until like, half an hour ago (though I have to wait to have it happen in person). I'm talking, a good open handed slap to the face, a hard slap. Could you would you?

No. I could not. If my ladyfriend ever asked me to, I'd tell her that we should have an open relationship so that she could get that from someone else. It's a very hard limit for me, up there with choking.

And that which was said to her can apply equally to you.

Well prove it then Neo. Pics or it's not true.

I have a shirt with Darth Vader on it that asks, "Who's your daddy?"I've got one that reads "YES! These ARE the droids you are looking for!"
I like being held down, I like being bitten hard, I like pain... yet I am also very fighty, afraid of/refuse to date men who are much bigger than me (I've got like a 5'10" limit) and real "punishment" would just feed into my own self-hatred and self-punishment, probably. Or there'd be a dead guy in my room.Aw... =(
There's nothing better than feeling him cum inside me, so I'm not big on facials. I don't even get the whole spit/swallow debate. It just seems plain rude! It's not like he gets up immediately and brushes his teeth after going down on me, so wtf.I generally go wash my hands after fingering lady friends, actually...
Believe, SB, and it will exist. Just like Tinkerbell. And peanut butter.Just remember to clap your hands! =D

Would you hit your partner in the face during sex if they asked you?

I ask because I've come across this as a hard limit with most people. As in I never got anyone to agree to do it to me. Until like, half an hour ago (though I have to wait to have it happen in person). I'm talking, a good open handed slap to the face, a hard slap. Could you would you?No. Seeing someone else in pain is a major turn off for me. I enjoy giving out spankings, but anything that goes to the point of crying makes me feel bad. This extends to orgasms that are indistinguishable from cries of pain.

I generally go wash my hands after fingering lady friends, actually...


I never do. In fact, I'm always somewhat saddened the next time I have to wash my hands.

I generally go wash my hands after fingering lady friends, actually...

I think i'm more likely to lick my fingers actually. :)

I never do. In fact, I'm always somewhat saddened the next time I have to wash my hands.

I rather like the pungent smell from a man's balls. I like to nuzzle them and smell them.

No. I could not. If my ladyfriend ever asked me to, I'd tell her that we should have an open relationship so that she could get that from someone else. It's a very hard limit for me, up there with choking.

True. I could never choke someone no matter how much they begged... Maybe I'm just too kind, not sure.
I read a great book which dealt with this though, Tim Winton - Breathe.. Full on stuff.

I rather like the pungent smell from a man's balls. I like to nuzzle them and smell them.

You like sweaty balls then? :p

You like sweaty balls then? :p

Sweaty, yes. Especially after sex. But I wasn't refering to that. I meant that I enjoy the warm, pungent smell that comes off of men's testicles.

Sweaty, yes. Especially after sex. But I wasn't refering to that. I meant that I enjoy the warm, pungent smell that comes off of men's testicles.

Oh I see. Of course. ;)

That just serves to make you even sexier!
Did I need that? ;P

I generally go wash my hands after fingering lady friends, actually...


One would hope you do *shoots glance at Callisdrun*. I just think it's a matter of whether you do it right the second after the fingering ("Excuse me, hun, but before we go on I'd like to go to the bathroom") or whether it's just part of the post-sex-cleaning. (And with post-sex, I mean pre-other stuff, not necessarily right after sex).

One would hope you do *shoots glance at Callisdrun*. I just think it's a matter of whether you do it right the second after the fingering ("Excuse me, hun, but before we go on I'd like to go to the bathroom") or whether it's just part of the post-sex-cleaning. (And with post-sex, I mean pre-other stuff, not necessarily right after sex).

^This.^

Savouring that moment afterwards is important. You don't rush to clean up straight away! Sometimes it feels good to lay in the mess you have made with each other for a few minutes.

One would hope you do *shoots glance at Callisdrun*. I just think it's a matter of whether you do it right the second after the fingering ("Excuse me, hun, but before we go on I'd like to go to the bathroom") or whether it's just part of the post-sex-cleaning. (And with post-sex, I mean pre-other stuff, not necessarily right after sex).Depends. I've done that before, though if timely continuation is an issue, a tissue will suffice (and is subsequently thrown on the floor to be cleaned up afterwards). I'm not all that keen on smearing bodily fluids into something I'm going to be sleeping on.

I think i'm more likely to lick my fingers actually. :)

I do that, lol. Sometimes. But I prefer tasting her directly.

Depends. I've done that before, though if timely continuation is an issue, a tissue will suffice (and is subsequently thrown on the floor to be cleaned up afterwards). I'm not all that keen on smearing bodily fluids into something I'm going to be sleeping on.

So fastidious. You probably think I'm really gross.

I do that, lol. Sometimes. But I prefer tasting her directly.

That too. :p

That's understandable, but I'm glad you can admit it. Sometimes I think I'm a bit sick because the idea of someone getting off on hurting me...gets me off...but then I just accept that things work out pretty well for both of us when that happens.That's probably the best way to look at it.

That too. :p

Quite honestly one of my favorite tastes, really.

Quite honestly one of my favorite tastes, really.

So what does she taste like to you? Is it describeable?

So fastidious. You probably think I'm really gross.Yeah, some of the stuff you like grosses me out, but I shan't condemn you for it. My own fault for reading it =P

So what does she taste like to you? Is it describeable?

Her normal taste isn't something that I can really pin as close to any food really. Maybe a slight similarity to vinegar, but even that's stretching it.

When she's on her period, the taste of blood and her normal taste combine to make a rather interesting flavor. The closest food was this meat dish I had in Sevilla, Spain. I think it might have been venison, but I'm not sure. Needless to say, at first it was rather disconcerting, because when I took the first bite I paused and thought "Hmmm.... Well, that tastes very oddly familiar..." before I realized it tasted like my ladyfriend when she's menstruating. Then I was like "Ohhhh... strange..." After that, of course, I dug in.

Yeah, some of the stuff you like grosses me out, but I shan't condemn you for it. My own fault for reading it =P

No worries, you'd hardly be the first person I've grossed out. I guess body fluids just don't bother me. Excepting waste products, of course.

Her normal taste isn't something that I can really pin as close to any food really. Maybe a slight similarity to vinegar, but even that's stretching it.

When she's on her period, the taste of blood and her normal taste combine to make a rather interesting flavor. The closest food was this meat dish I had in Sevilla, Spain. I think it might have been venison, but I'm not sure. Needless to say, at first it was rather disconcerting, because when I took the first bite I paused and thought "Hmmm.... Well, that tastes very oddly familiar..." before I realized it tasted like my ladyfriend when she's menstruating. Then I was like "Ohhhh... strange..." After that, of course, I dug in.

Wow... thats a strong description... it makes me hungry. :)

Wow... thats a strong description... it makes me hungry. :)

Usually just catching a whiff of her arousal does that for me. Unfortunately, eating her isn't very filling, so I tend to need to eat actual food not long after bedroom fun.

Usually just catching a whiff of her arousal does that for me. Unfortunately, eating her isn't very filling, so I tend to need to eat actual food not long after bedroom fun.

Ah. And what foods do you tend to eat post sex?

Ah. And what foods do you tend to eat post sex?

Grilled cheese sandwiches.

Grilled cheese sandwiches.

Interesting. Odd choice. :p

Interesting. Odd choice. :p

How so? Grilled cheese sandwiches are delicious. And they're one of the few things I can cook really well.

Grilled cheese sandwiches.Now you've really grossed me out! >=P

Now you've really grossed me out! >=P

*confused* You don't like cheese?

How so? Grilled cheese sandwiches are delicious. And they're one of the few things I can cook really well.

Just not the sort of thing i'd think of someone eating after sex.

Just not the sort of thing i'd think of someone eating after sex.

That's 'cos you would rather have a juicy peach afterwards.:tongue:

That's 'cos you would rather have a juicy peach afterwards.:tongue:

It would have more than fruit juice on it, thats for sure. :D

No worries, you'd hardly be the first person I've grossed out. I guess body fluids just don't bother me. Excepting waste products, of course.
The bleeding that results from a woman's period is a waste product.

It would have more than fruit juice on it, thats for sure. :D

Oh, I know. You're a glutton.:D

Question Callisdrun.. How does menstrual blood taste in comparison to 'normal' blood?

Oh, I know. You're a glutton.:D

I can't help enjoying my "food" :D

I can't help enjoying my "food" :D

In any way it may come, right?

In any way it may come, right?

Exactly. Any shape or form. :p

Exactly. Any shape or form. :p

Thankfully, eating a girl won't add extra pounds to your belleh.:D

There's no solid rules on what topics are "off limits" as far as I'm concerned, it's more about how you approach the subject.

Frankly, if somebody asked me if I'm into anal on the first date, and they were seriously asking, I'd lose interest in them. Partly because no, I'm not, and also because there really should be a lot more interesting things to talk about at that stage. If we're on our first date and all they're thinking about is fucking my ass, then they're a boring person.

Thankfully, eating a girl won't add extra pounds to your belleh.:D

But will be most satisfying. :)

Thankfully, eating a girl won't add extra pounds to your belleh.:D

But unfourtantly for women swallowing cum does add pounds.

But unfourtantly for women swallowing cum does add pounds.

That's why, much like ice cream, I only swallow cum when I crave it.

Would you hit your partner in the face during sex if they asked you?

I ask because I've come across this as a hard limit with most people. As in I never got anyone to agree to do it to me. Until like, half an hour ago (though I have to wait to have it happen in person). I'm talking, a good open handed slap to the face, a hard slap. Could you would you?
Nope, I could not do that, would not do it, and would not want it to be done to me, nor would I respond positively if it were.

Depends. I've done that before, though if timely continuation is an issue, a tissue will suffice (and is subsequently thrown on the floor to be cleaned up afterwards). I'm not all that keen on smearing bodily fluids into something I'm going to be sleeping on.
Well, then don't have sex in bed.

I dunno why, but I have this song in my head today. :D

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=HO8W1flZEj0&feature=related

The bleeding that results from a woman's period is a waste product.

For some reason I find it quite a bit less gross than say, urine or feces. I don't mind menstrual blood being on my sheets, but I would definitely take exception to either of the latter two being present there.

There's no solid rules on what topics are "off limits" as far as I'm concerned, it's more about how you approach the subject.

Frankly, if somebody asked me if I'm into anal on the first date, and they were seriously asking, I'd lose interest in them. Partly because no, I'm not, and also because there really should be a lot more interesting things to talk about at that stage. If we're on our first date and all they're thinking about is fucking my ass, then they're a boring person.
That's a good point, and now that you mention it, I agree. I hadn't really been thinking of this as literally "first date" rules, but rather, first sex/early in the relationship sex rules. But yeah, I once went on a date with a guy who jumped right into asking me all about my sexual preferences on that first date, and he never found out what I liked to do in bed.

I dunno why, but I have this song in my head today. :D

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=HO8W1flZEj0&feature=related

Name it or link me to it from www.imeem.com because I'm at work and I can't access Youtube.:(

Name it or link me to it from www.imeem.com because I'm at work and I can't access Youtube.:(

http://www.imeem.com/djessie/music/F0MEVRVl/family_guy_shipoopi/

Question Callisdrun.. How does menstrual blood taste in comparison to 'normal' blood?

The same, mostly. It's just that if she's aroused, there's also the taste of her wetness besides the blood taste (both good tastes, to me). Technically menstruation also contains tissue as it is the lining of the uterus, but that doesn't really matter for the purposes of eating out.

Just not the sort of thing i'd think of someone eating after sex.

Why not? Grilled cheese sandwiches are awesome. Especially eaten when you and your lover are all tired and sweaty from lovin'

http://www.imeem.com/djessie/music/F0MEVRVl/family_guy_shipoopi/

Lol!:D

That's why, much like ice cream, I only swallow cum when I crave it.

lol, nice answer.

I dunno why, but I have this song in my head today. :D

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=HO8W1flZEj0&feature=related

Thanks very much, now I have it stuck in my head :mad:

Well, then don't have sex in bed.

Or change the sheets afterwards.

The same, mostly. It's just that if she's aroused, there's also the taste of her wetness besides the blood taste (both good tastes, to me). Technically menstruation also contains tissue as it is the lining of the uterus, but that doesn't really matter for the purposes of eating out.

Just a question, you said you were against waste product but surely when a women is menstruating then isn't that waste product?

The same, mostly. It's just that if she's aroused, there's also the taste of her wetness besides the blood taste (both good tastes, to me). Technically menstruation also contains tissue as it is the lining of the uterus, but that doesn't really matter for the purposes of eating out.

Hmm true. I've always quite liked the taste of blood.. I mean, never tried anyone elses, but never minded my own. I'm fascinated now. Wonder if I can get over the big mental association I have with period=eww.

Lol!:D

I aims to please. ;)

Thanks very much, now I have it stuck in my head :mad:

I'm good at that too. :D

Just a question, you said you were against waste product but surely when a women is menstruating then isn't that waste product?

As fiddle pointed out, I suppose it is. Still, different from urine or feces, which I would have a big problem with being on my bedsheets. Menstrual blood I really don't mind. The last time my ladyfriend came down to visit, she was on her period and my sheets now have stains on them from that.

Hmm true. I've always quite liked the taste of blood.. I mean, never tried anyone elses, but never minded my own. I'm fascinated now. Wonder if I can get over the big mental association I have with period=eww.

Never really got that myself. A lot of people, both men and women (though seems to be more men) are really repulsed by menstruation. I've never been so.

As fiddle pointed out, I suppose it is. Still, different from urine or feces, which I would have a big problem with being on my bedsheets. Menstrual blood I really don't mind. The last time my ladyfriend came down to visit, she was on her period and my sheets now have stains on them from that.

Yeah fair enough mate and I suppose there is a different in the way it is viewed, it will be seen as different.

Never really got that myself. A lot of people, both men and women (though seems to be more men) are really repulsed by menstruation. I've never been so.

True. Another question.. How does your ladyfriend enjoy it compared with when she is not menstruating? Is there any noticeable difference?

True. Another question.. How does your ladyfriend enjoy it compared with when she is not menstruating? Is there any noticeable difference?

She's horniest on her period. I'm not sure if her orgasms are any better during it, though they certainly aren't any less good, from what I can tell. One downside is that I do have to wipe my face off before she'll kiss me afterwards, though.

She's horniest on her period. I'm not sure if her orgasms are any better during it, though they certainly aren't any less good, from what I can tell. One downside is that I do have to wipe my face off before she'll kiss me afterwards, though.

Heh, the Dolmio grin. Wonderful.

Heh, the Dolmio grin. Wonderful.

Sometimes there's some in my beard.

She's horniest on her period. I'm not sure if her orgasms are any better during it, though they certainly aren't any less good, from what I can tell. One downside is that I do have to wipe my face off before she'll kiss me afterwards, though.

I am horniest when I'm on my period. I have come to see that the orgasms help with the cramps and that sex while I'm menstruating is wonderful. I may be considered a nasty person for allowing my man to have sex with me while on my period, but I love it.

I am horniest when I'm on my period. I have come to see that the orgasms help with the cramps and that sex while I'm menstruating is wonderful. I may be considered a nasty person for allowing my man to have sex with me while on my period, but I love it.
I'm horniest immediately before my period. As I've mentioned before, I have the period from hell, so I don't feel at all randy until it's over. But just before it starts, Katie, bar the door. :D I don't really know this, but I suspect I am randiest when I'm most likely to get pregnant, so... yay contraceptives!

I'm horniest immediately before my period. As I've mentioned before, I have the period from hell, so I don't feel at all randy until it's over. But just before it starts, Katie, bar the door. :D I don't really know this, but I suspect I am randiest when I'm most likely to get pregnant, so... yay contraceptives!

well biologically that would make sense..

I'm horniest immediately before my period. As I've mentioned before, I have the period from hell, so I don't feel at all randy until it's over. But just before it starts, Katie, bar the door. :D I don't really know this, but I suspect I am randiest when I'm most likely to get pregnant, so... yay contraceptives!

No, yay for vasectomies!

I'm horniest immediately before my period. As I've mentioned before, I have the period from hell, so I don't feel at all randy until it's over. But just before it starts, Katie, bar the door. :D I don't really know this, but I suspect I am randiest when I'm most likely to get pregnant, so... yay contraceptives!

Amen for the horniness!:hail:

Amen for the horniness!:hail:

Common amongst both sexes. :D

Common amongst both sexes. :D

But you're the paragon of the gender in that regard.:D

But you're the paragon of the gender in that regard.:D

Of course I am. ;)

I am horniest when I'm on my period. I have come to see that the orgasms help with the cramps and that sex while I'm menstruating is wonderful. I may be considered a nasty person for allowing my man to have sex with me while on my period, but I love it.

Only nasty in a fun way.

I'm horniest immediately before my period. As I've mentioned before, I have the period from hell, so I don't feel at all randy until it's over. But just before it starts, Katie, bar the door. :D I don't really know this, but I suspect I am randiest when I'm most likely to get pregnant, so... yay contraceptives!

Same here, although my period is generally only the period from heck, so the horniness will sometimes last into the first day or two of bleedy-time if I'm comparatively un-crampy and un-cranky.

Same here, although my period is generally only the period from heck, so the horniness will sometimes last into the first day or two of bleedy-time if I'm comparatively un-crampy and un-cranky.
Period from heck. :D I lol.

No, yay for vasectomies!

Agreed...if I could be cummed in more often without having to worry about getting knocked up and without having to take the fucking horrible migraine-causing Pill...heaven.