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I don't remember a time when she had any confidence. Her original excuse was that she was too scared to ask. Has she come up with any new ones?

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Apart from being 'ugly', she also thinks Mr. Geek doesn't fancy her.

geek ( P ) Pronunciation Key (gk)
n. Slang

A person regarded as foolish, inept, or clumsy.
A person who is single-minded or accomplished in scientific or technical pursuits but is felt to be socially inept.
A carnival performer whose show consists of bizarre acts, such as biting the head off a live chicken.


That was the dictionary.com definition. I'm certainly not socially inept. And I don't bite off chicken heads either. Since I'm so damn preoccupied with my academic life, I should sleep now and be prepared for tomorrow's lectures.

Since I'm so preoccupied with my work that I don't even care. It does not make me a dumbass in anyway.

No, but what does make you one is the derogatory comments you have been making in this thread against a particular person very popular on this forum who was asking for some advice.

Ack, she doesn't have to ask! You'll never get her to do that. What she needs to do is put him in a situation where he'll feel confident enough to ask.

Regarding the snuggling suggestion above, I should add that it also has the benefit that you're not committing yourself by it. If he does nothing, you can simply pull back. If it made him feel too uncomfortable, you can just say you were fooling around.

In my opinion, it's a win-win.

(And if you snuggled up to me, you would win my heart in a second, but then that's a whole other matter... ;) ).

are you calling me, you?

Let me rephrase that. Who is you?

No, but what does make you one is the derogatory comments you have been making in this thread against a particular person very popular on this forum who was asking for some advice.

And good riddance to you Mr.Sino...

Cathenia

are you calling me, you?

Let me rephrase that. Who is you?In this thread "you" most frequently refers to Tink.

Of course, I should let our friend answer for himself...


~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

No, but what does make you one is the derogatory comments you have been making in this thread against a particular person very popular on this forum who was asking for some advice.Wow, this is the first advice thread I've ever seen that's gone beyond 1000 posts. And it doesn't seem to have helped eiher... :(


~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

well I confess it does have a sort of soap operatic feel to it... but Tink does seem rather nice and personable and having been in her shoes before I think it's not wrong to encourage her a bit.

Cathenia

Wow, this is the first advice thread I've ever seen that's gone beyond 1000 posts. And it doesn't seem to have helped eiher... :(


~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Shh... Quiet. Threads are meant to be locked if they go over 1000 posts...

Shh... Quiet. Threads are meant to be locked if they go over 1000 posts...

Well, it's only just over.

Shh... Quiet. Threads are meant to be locked if they go over 1000 posts...It's 1300 posts.


~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

It's 1300 posts.


~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

You sure?

Well I'm going as well... see where the saga goes tomorrow.

All the best Tink... wherever you are!
Cathenia

Tink, Simple advice. Ask. Also, What's the status of you and said geek?

are you calling me, you?

Let me rephrase that. Who is you?

The first 'you' is you. The other 'you's are TInk. So you are you, then you is TInk.

I like to confuse people. :p

The first 'you' is you. The other 'you's are TInk. So you are you, then you is TInk.

I like to confuse people. :p

Thank you.

So I was 'You'll'? Right?

Yes. While getting him drunk might help your odds, it will most probably mar his performance, due to the lack of fine motor control.

Even if you don't feel like exposing yourself, you could go and find somewhere private, press him against a wall, begin full-on kissing him, rubbing your hand along his body, pressing a condom into his hand...

Might have worse odds for success than giving him a condom and whipping off your pants, though.

As for you being ugly... well, you're not ugly. I don't find you particularly attractive, but then, I'm not really into large women. :D
by large women you'd better mean my boobs dude, cause i ain't fat!
Well, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and most us think she's lovely. Nor do you have to insult her if you happen to disagree.

Not to mention that she's not just physically lovely; if you've been paying attention to her posts, here and elsewhere, she also happens to be intelligent (far above the average in these fora, in any case!), and to me at least she has a gorgeous personality.

TInk, when I'm on MSN do you want me to try and contact him directly (i.e., when he's online)? Just in case he simply didn't receive that e-mail.
no, don't do that, I'm just gonna give up




and you shouldn't have a go at Sino because he's the only one willing to tell the truth about how i look

by large women you'd better mean my boobs dude, cause i ain't fat!

no, don't do that, I'm just gonna give up




and you shouldn't have a go at Sino because he's the only one willing to tell the truth about how i look

FIRST OF ALL: Sino is of chinese origin.

SECOND: He's a freak.

Don't make me find that wet fish (That has probably gone moldy and crawling with maggots now...)

FIRST OF ALL: Sino is of chinese origin.

SECOND: He's a freak.

Don't make me find that wet fish (That has probably gone moldy and crawling with maggots now...)
no, he's right



and i got a job btw

no, don't do that, I'm just gonna give up


:( May I ask why? What about that last suggestion of mine; wouldn't you want to give that a go? There are many ways you can make him understand you're interested, without having to expose yourself to embarassment or rejection.


and you shouldn't have a go at Sino because he's the only one willing to tell the truth about how i look

Eh, no. What I said in that post you quoted was what I sincerely think and feel. You're a lovely young lady, and in addition to your very real physical attractiveness I find you intelligent, and I like your personality (the latter two being linked, obviously). I wouldn't say it if I didn't mean it. Really. Dropping all kidding, I'm quite serious.

:( May I ask why? What about that last suggestion of mine; wouldn't you want to give that a go? There are many ways you can make him understand you're interested, without having to expose yourself to embarassment or rejection.because he'll just say no!



Eh, no. What I said in that post you quoted was what I sincerely think and feel. You're a lovely young lady, and in addition to your very real physical attractiveness I find you intelligent, and I like your personality (the latter two being linked, obviously). I wouldn't say it if I didn't mean it. Really. Dropping all kidding, I'm quite serious.
bleh

and i got a job btw

Well done!

*hugs you*

Where, then?

*huggles Tink*

Hey, honey...I haven't read much of the thread...just the first page and the last, so forgive me if this isn't exactly what you needed.

As a geeky girl who has solely attracted geeky guys, the secret is no secret at all...be you. Most of all, be passionate about the things you are passionate about. Geeks are simply people who are passionate about things that the rest of the world doesn't value (or not as highly). Besides, then if he falls, he'll be falling for the real you.

And if he doesn't, babe...well, maybe he wasn't the right one. Hard to hear when you really like someone, but everyone deserves somebody who loves them for who they truly are. That goes double for a gem like you.

If you ever need a friend, babe, email me. I'm not going to be on MSN much.

Love you, girl. :fluffle:


Edited for horrific spelling and typos.

because he'll just say no!


Have you got any actualy reason for thinking that?


bleh

Don't you 'bleh' me! :p

I said it and I mean it. Nor am I the only person to think so. Can you please at least accept that there are people who think you're lovely - in a every way, physically but also in terms of intelligence and personality?

Well done!

*hugs you*

Where, then?
it's in this shop called Internacionale, they sell accessories for your house, it's only a weekend job and i only get minimum wage (£3.75/hour) but it's a job, and i went shopping with my sis and her friends afterwards and saw the most gorgeous shoes ever so i'll be able to buy those, yay!

no, he's right



and i got a job btw

No, he's left! :p (He's going to kill me later)

Well done... Based on your Logic, I must be REALLY UGLY!!!!!

*huggles Tink*

Hey, honey...I haven't read much of the thread...just the first page and the last, so forgive me if this isn't exactly what you needed.

As a geeky girl who has solely attracted geeky guys, the secret is no secret at all...be you. Most of all, be passionate about the things you are passionate about. Geeks are simply people who are passionate about things that the rest of the world doesn't value (or not as highly). Besides, then if he falls, he'll be falling for the real you.

And if he doesn't, babe...well, maybe he wasn't the right one. Hard to hear when you really like someone, but everyone deserves somebody who loves them for who they truly are. That goes double for a gem like you.

If you ever need a friend, babe, email me. I'm not going to be on MSN much.

Love you, girl. :fluffle:


Edited for horrific spelling and typos.
thanks Luny :fluffle: :fluffle: it's women like you that make me wish i was a lesbian!!

it's in this shop called Internacionale, they sell accessories for your house, it's only a weekend job and i only get minimum wage (£3.75/hour) but it's a job, and i went shopping with my sis and her friends afterwards and saw the most gorgeous shoes ever so i'll be able to buy those, yay!

:)

Well, well done. That's great. :)

Im a geek and i know who captain kirk is but i havent the slightest idea who that other dude is

it is true that most geeks speak better online than in person

but dont flirt with them really obviously because that would definetly make them think you are mocking them

form a friendship firs then ask them :cool:

Awwwww. Thanks. :fluffle:

Have you got any actualy reason for thinking that?
yes! :rolleyes: i'm ugly


Don't you 'bleh' me! :p

I said it and I mean it. Nor am I the only person to think so. Can you please at least accept that there are people who think you're lovely - in a every way, physically but also in terms of intelligence and personality?
i will 'bleh' whoever i damn well like!


if it makes you happy then I'll say that i accept that

No, he's left! :p (He's going to kill me later)

Well done... Based on your Logic, I must be REALLY UGLY!!!!!
don't you start with that boy! you're not ugly

:)

Well, well done. That's great. :)
thanks

yes! :rolleyes: i'm ugly


No, you are not. I'm a guy, and I'm telling you you're not. So who knows better? ;)


i will 'bleh' whoever i damn well like!
if it makes you happy then I'll say that i accept that

Good. :)

And, still with serious mode on, if it can help you feel more confident about yourself: From what I know of you, if I ever met you in real life, I would very much want to ask you out, for all those reasons I've told you. Not just your looks, but because you're a great person too.

Only, I'd probably be too shy. ;)

yes! :rolleyes: i'm ugly

Tink, you know I mean this in the most loving way possible:

STFU!

You're absolutely lovely, silly girl. Don't make me open a can of whoopass up on you>

No, you are not. I'm a guy, and I'm telling you you're not. So who knows better? ;)
let me think, you're a guy, i'm a girl................duh! of course i know better! :rolleyes:

Good. :)

And, still with serious mode on, if it can help you feel more confident about yourself: From what I know of you, if I ever met you in real life, I would very much want to ask you out, for all those reasons I've told you. Not just your looks, but because you're a great person too.

Only, I'd probably be too shy. ;)well, if you'd be too shy then you would totally suck dude! :p

Tink, you know I mean this in the most loving way possible:

STFU!

You're absolutely lovely, silly girl. Don't make me open a can of whoopass up on you>sowwy :fluffle: :fluffle:

don't you start with that boy! you're not ugly

I merely using your logic!

You said you couldn't get a job because you were ugly right? But you got one.

So, If I can't get any job, i must be more ugly than you.

Understand? Good. Either we are both ugly, or neither of us are.

let me think, you're a guy, i'm a girl................duh! of course i know better! :rolleyes:

LOL.

But your geek is a guy too, remember. So whom do you think he's more likely to agree with?


well, if you'd be too shy then you would totally suck dude! :p

*me is hurt* ;)

Or should I take that as a challenge? :D

I merely using your logic!

You said you couldn't get a job because you were ugly right? But you got one.

So, If I can't get any job, i must be more ugly than you.

Understand? Good. Either we are both ugly, or neither of us are.
:rolleyes:

:rolleyes:

What do you mean by that?

LOL.

But your geek is a guy too, remember. So whom do you think he's more likely to agree with?



*me is hurt* ;)

Or should I take that as a challenge? :D
ugh! stop making sense!


lol, well you can take it as a challenge but you might regret it after we met, you may think i'm intelligent now but wait till we're walking around and i keep walking into stuff and tripping over thin air, you'll think i'm a right dizzy cow

What do you mean by that?
i mean that's stupid!

ugh! stop making sense!

lol, well you can take it as a challenge but you might regret it after we met, you may think i'm intelligent now but wait till we're walking around and i keep walking into stuff and tripping over thin air, you'll think i'm a right dizzy cow

*smiles*

Well, you let me be the judge of that. Besides, tripping and walking into stuff doesn't make you any less intelligent or adorable.

And all right, I'll take it as a challenge. ;)

i mean that's stupid!

Well, i using your logic to come to that conclusion. It is a proof.

Premise 1: Ugly people Can't get jobs

Premise 2: Tink couldn't get a job.

Premise 3: Tink has got a job

Premise 4: I haven't got a job

Conclusion: I am ugly, and uglier than Tink

See! It makes sense!

Tink - Either make the effort or don't, but if you don't you may look back and wish you had. I had a major fear of rejection in high school (which gradually went away and now I'm old and married and have 1-year-old twins :) ). When I looked back at my high school days I realized there were girls interested in me but I was too clueless to notice at the time. Even later when I did start getting a clue, I still had that fear of rejection, or doing and saying all the wrong things.

Maybe he is interested but too clueless to notice you are too...
Maybe he has noticed but he's still scared...
Maybe he likes you but he's crushing hard on someone else...
Maybe x 1000000....

You can either ask him directly or ask a mutual friend to find out for you if you really want to know what he's thinking. If you want to try to help things along without asking, maybe you could ask him to walk you home from a group outing or maybe ask for a backrub or something...

And please stop saying you think you're ugly. I think you're being insincere. Most people who consider themselves ugly wouldn't post their pictures as often as you. (Not a slam, just an opinion). Many people here find you attractive, but not everyone will. Just a fact of life... (And I went through my own "I'm ugly!" stage, so I understand...)

Best of luck!
-Tophe

*smiles*

Well, you let me be the judge of that. Besides, tripping and walking into stuff doesn't make you any less intelligent or adorable.

And all right, I'll take it as a challenge. ;)
lol, ok

and i got a job btw
woohoo! where?
see, you can do it!:)


and i'm getting fed up of this self-depricating crap. tink, you're hot and you rock... for gods sake this dude will go out with you! stop thinking otherwise!



Well, i using your logic to come to that conclusion. It is a proof.

Premise 1: Ugly people Can't get jobs

Premise 2: Tink couldn't get a job.

Premise 3: Tink has got a job

Premise 4: I haven't got a job

Conclusion: I am ugly, and uglier than Tink

See! It makes sense!
yay i'm ugly too! :D

Well, i using your logic to come to that conclusion. It is a proof.

Premise 1: Ugly people Can't get jobs

Premise 2: Tink couldn't get a job.

Premise 3: Tink has got a job

Premise 4: I haven't got a job

Conclusion: I am ugly, and uglier than Tink

See! It makes sense!i was only jpking when i said i couldn't get a job cause i'm ugly :rolleyes:

yay i'm ugly too! :D

LOL

was only jpking when i said i couldn't get a job cause i'm ugly

OK, but the idea remains.

i'm as unattractive as you. :D :fluffle:

and i'm getting fed up of this self-depricating crap. tink, you're hot and you rock... for gods sake this dude will go out with you! stop thinking otherwise!

Ok, I have to agree that Tink is hot and she does rock. However, that doesn't mean the dude will necessarily go out with her. It's sure worth a shot, though. If it doesn't work out, there are plenty of other great guys who would appreciate Tink's...uh...hotrockedness?

woohoo! where?
see, you can do it!:)


and i'm getting fed up of this self-depricating crap. tink, you're hot and you rock... for gods sake this dude will go out with you! stop thinking otherwise!



yay i'm ugly too! :D
just some shop in Blackpool



and you're not ugly at all!

LOL



OK, but the idea remains.

i'm as unattractive as you. :D :fluffle:
well all i can say then is you poor dear

Okay, I read this through thorougly to page 18, and then got bored and zoomed all the way over here. Tink, DO IT! Do it for those of us who are in the same position, to give us courage! (Of course, I may or may not be referring to myself here.)

You'd think people would have worked out an obvious solution to the "ask him/her out" problem by now. Pffffft.

Can I get this straight? After 1000 posts of advice, you've decided against pretty much everything everyone's said? I mean, that's perfectly within your rights, but I just find it funny...

yes! :rolleyes: i'm ugly

Y'know, I have the same problem. I've decided that I'm totally hideous too.

Of course, unlike you, I'm right. :p

Dunno how to make you snap out of it. I will, however, point out that people who like you will find it very tiring, very quickly. Try not to overdo it. I did once. It didn't work out at all...

Wow, that was a fairly useless post, wasn't it!

Ok, I have to agree that Tink is hot and she does rock. However, that doesn't mean the dude will necessarily go out with her. It's sure worth a shot, though. If it doesn't work out, there are plenty of other great guys who would appreciate Tink's...uh...hotrockedness?
well the dude would be a retard not to, so by my logic, unless he's actually retarded, he'll go out with her.

tink just needs to pluck up the courage to ask, cos real geeks will never ask a girl out

well all i can say then is you poor dear

You're not ugly...

*Finds maggot infested fish*

Don't make me hit you with this...

just some shop in Blackpool
well as long as they let you keep your awesome blue hair... soon to be red... then thats awesome:D



and you're not ugly at all!
heh, too kind:)
well i may not be hideous but i am fat... but i'm working on that ;)
(slowly... food is too tasty to give up!)

i was only jpking when i said i couldn't get a job cause i'm ugly :rolleyes:

Well, it's a symptom of a larger problem. See, you seem to have this mental image of yourself built up. One that isn't healthy.

Now, there's one thing I want you to do with that mental image:

THROW IT OUT THE WINDOW.

Yeah, ok, it's hard. But you can do it. I should know, as right now, I'm dealing with this. But it's something you NEED to get out of your system - it's not healthy, and it's holding you back - generally, anything that doesn't help you hinders you. And thinking of yourself this way IS NOT HEALTHY AND IS HOLDING YOU BACK.

If you don't ask, you'll never know. I know this one all too well.

EDIT: ok, I'll put it this way. If I wasn't on the other side of the world, you'd definitely be on my "try to gather courage to ask out" list.

well as long as they let you keep your awesome blue hair... soon to be red... then thats awesome:D




heh, too kind:)
well i may not be hideous but i am fat... but i'm working on that ;)
(slowly... food is too tasty to give up!)
purple next not red





you're not that fat! and i like a bit of chubbiness! :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

purple next not red
purple and red?
i still say that would be cool;)



you're not that fat! and i like a bit of chubbiness! :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:
*chows down on Doritos*

:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:


*munch*



so come on, ask the dude out... he'll say yes and you'll feel great! its simple:)

and if, on the offchance that he is a retard and says no, i'm always here ;) :fluffle:

yay i'm ugly too! :DAccording to this logic, since I have a job and an important one too (Supreme Ruler of the Universe), I must be good-looking. As it is I have no corporeal form, so I have no looks at all. :D

As for Tink, can someone please submit an unbiased description (I can't open the pictures damned slow server :() so that we don't have to find a picture or anything to judge for ourselves?

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

purple and red?
i still say that would be cool;)




*chows down on Doritos*

:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:


*munch*



so come on, ask the dude out... he'll say yes and you'll feel great! its simple:)

and if, on the offchance that he is a retard and says no, i'm always here ;) :fluffle:

To eat your hat!

I'm here as well... So if is the most foolish surfacer ever...

and if, on the offchance that he is a retard and says no, i'm always here ;) :fluffle:And me...and him...and him...and a whole lot of other NSers! :fluffle:

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

According to this logic, since I have a job and an important one too (Supreme Ruler of the Universe), I must be good-looking. As it is I have no corporeal form, so I have no looks at all. :D

As for Tink, can someone please submit an unbiased description (I can't open the pictures damned slow server :() so that we don't have to find a picture or anything to judge for ourselves?

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

She has long dark hair and an innocent-looking baby face (wide eyes, rounded cheeks, etc.) She also has a pretty impressive figure (aka a nice rack).

She has long dark hair and an innocent-looking baby face (wide eyes, rounded cheeks, etc.) She also has a pretty impressive figure (aka a nice rack).

Just out of curiosity, you know the second part of that description how? :)

She has long dark hair and an innocent-looking baby face (wide eyes, rounded cheeks, etc.) She also has a pretty impressive figure (aka a nice rack).Slightly biased and not nearly descriptive enough. Anyone know her personally?

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

And me...and him...and him...and a whole lot of other NSers! :fluffle:

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

I will include myself in that.

Just out of curiosity, you know the second part of that description how? :)

Because she's not particularly shy about showing it off. :p

Slightly biased and not nearly descriptive enough. Anyone know her personally?

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Well, yes...it is slightly biased, but I preferred saying "lovely figure" to "big tits". Besides, Tink's a friend, and a lovely young woman, so it's difficult to be purely objective.

I will include myself in that.Yes, I meant that.


~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Yes, I meant that.


~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Yes, I know that. Just making the point.

Because she's not particularly shy about showing it off. :p

Ahh, fair enough. :)

Yes, I know that. Just making the point.
It was really unnecessary.

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

The problem with chatting over the internet is identity. Sure, the dumb geeks will go after anything feminine showing up in the chat rooms, but the smart ones go with 'male until proven female' sort of thing (like right now, I don't know for sure you're a girl).
But speaking as a dork (NOT a geek) the best course of action is just showing continued interest in the guy. Maybe you have to take the initiative, but don't do it too much. I was so shy, my girl had to give REALLY obvious hints to make me ask her out. But once you do get one in your grasp, you got him hook, line, and sinker.

I'm an example for all dorks and geeks to follow. I've been dating a beautiful model for two and a half years. And the future's looking pretty good ;)

Your right, so your statement is 'false until proven true' :) :p :fluffle:

For the internet, my parents warned me to follow a 'guilty until proven innocent' approach. Also I'm not supposed to meet people in person I met online. Not like that's going to happen anytime soon, there aren't too many NSers here on Ganymede... :D

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

I have been reading this funny topic for about 15 minutes of my valuable time and im wondering....did you ask him out yet, Tink?
If you didn't...plz do..dont be stupid like me and wait for the right moment,
the right moment is the present...Stop dreaming bout being with him,
ask him out you'll be suprised how nice it will be!
And if you keep telling yourself your shy, your love-life wont be any good becoz of it. I know from own experience...being shy isnt gonna make you happy..
it sux :gundge:
And also like some other people said..Just be genuinely interested in him.

BTW i would never label anyone geek, nerd or loser..
Why would i? I mean we are all born equally and we all die equally no matter how you may look like or what you may have done in your life.
;) :D

For the internet, my parents warned me to follow a 'guilty until proven innocent' approach. Also I'm not supposed to meet people in person I met online. Not like that's going to happen anytime soon, there aren't too many NSers here on Ganymede... :D

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Ganymede...what planet are you from? LOL...
Or is it like the third moon of Jupiter....(i hope someone is gonna telll me that Jupiter doesnt have any moons lol) :p I love being wrong! :headbang:
hahaha...wow im insane...nvm this post..read my previous one instead!
:eek:

Ganymede...what planet are you from? LOL...
Or is it like the third moon of Jupiter....(i hope someone is gonna telll me that Jupiter doesnt have any moons lol) :p I love being wrong! :headbang:
hahaha...wow im insane...nvm this post..read my previous one instead!
:eek:Yes, Ganymede is the third moon of Jupiter. Many zillions of years ago (NB. 1 zillion = 1 followed by 823 zeros), our people lived on Jupiter itself, but then like humans they destroyed it with a nuclear war and had to move to the various moons. Callisto became the capital; however, I broke precedent by living on Ganymede instead, to avoid the high taxes.

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Yes, Ganymede is the third moon of Jupiter. Many zillions of years ago (NB. 1 zillion = 1 followed by 823 zeros), our people lived on Jupiter itself, but then like humans they destroyed it with a nuclear war and had to move to the various moons. Callisto became the capital; however, I broke precedent by living on Ganymede instead, to avoid the high taxes.

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

LOL omg...ur a funny guy arent u :p
I was just guessing...with the moon of jupiter lol...
anyway i googled your moon and it seems u have quite a cool living place,
im definetely considering living over there..
Whats your adress? I might drop by...lol

Here is the link for anyone who might be interested in Czardas habitat :cool:
http://www.solarviews.com/eng/ganymede.htm

Nah, I'll pass ;)

Nah, I'll pass ;)

Suit yourself...like a virgin you dont know what your missing though ;) :fluffle:

Tink,

I know this has nothing to do with how you look, but you can certainly very good about your personality. I don't think I've ever seen this kind of response to an advice thread. That says a lot about how much people here like you and wish to help you. I'd love to have people react to my personality so positively. If you're geek can't see all the wonderful things you have to offer, then drop him like a hot rock and find someone who does. ;)

Tink,

I know this has nothing to do with how you look, but you can certainly very good about your personality. I don't think I've ever seen this kind of response to an advice thread. That says a lot about how much people here like you and wish to help you. I'd love to have people react to my personality so positively. If you're geek can't see all the wonderful things you have to offer, then drop him like a hot rock and find someone who does. ;)

lol your right,
and if you need some attention just make a good sounding thread
and state the nature of your problem. (Me Star Trek Voyager geek?
Guilty! :p )
Although i dont know tink very well i love to help people, especially with advise since i dont have to follow it through lol :p
Anyway have a good one.. :D

LOL omg...ur a funny guy arent u :p
I was just guessing...with the moon of jupiter lol...
anyway i googled your moon and it seems u have quite a cool living place,
im definetely considering living over there..
Whats your adress? I might drop by...lol

Here is the link for anyone who might be interested in Czardas habitat :cool:
http://www.solarviews.com/eng/ganymede.htmMy address? Well, the next time you hop on the intergalactic shuttle, head for Jupiter. You'll recognize Ganymede, as I'll send out radar messages from my underground home to your shuttle saying "Greetings." You may bring anyone you like, with the possible exceptions of humans, which cannot really survive in Ganymede's atmosphere. It's rather a pity...some of my best friends are human... ;)

Send me a TG or something. What planet do you live on? I'll check the schedules, I think an IS comes once every 10,000 years or so...

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Tink,

I know this has nothing to do with how you look, but you can certainly very good about your personality. I don't think I've ever seen this kind of response to an advice thread. That says a lot about how much people here like you and wish to help you. I'd love to have people react to my personality so positively. If you're geek can't see all the wonderful things you have to offer, then drop him like a hot rock and find someone who does. ;)Ha.

I haven't read this thread so I don't know if someone's already offered you this advice (cf. my earlier posts; "you" refers to Tink) but how you look doesn't really matter that much. It's actually not that important. To a lot of people, one's personality is more important. Well, not always a lot of people, but at least me... ;)

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Start a debate over who is better - Captain Picard or Captain Kirk. Thats sure to get him/her interested.

Don't be an ass. As an ex-geek I can safely say that picard is better, also I can say that if you ask them your chances of getting one of us improve greatly, getting naked or scantily clad will not help your chances, since we're usually easily distracted by hot women(hot women to be read as any woman who got naked in front of us) naked is bad, just be yourself is pretty much my best advice on this one, and avoid trek, you'll not like the results.

hey hey hey! im a tad new to the forums, but ill tell you this thread has rather got me hooked...

anyways, i myself would be considered a geek. i think. as in, id much rather play games than go outside. pfft, who wants to do that, eh? but then when i am out, its all nice and groovy anyways.

well, onward to the situation. now, from what ive read, im inclined to believe TInk is a rather nice individual. not exactly sure as to why YOU of all people would be afraid to ask someone out...isnt that OUR job? =P

i WOULD make a deal that i would ask teh person i 'fancy' out if you asked Bill out, but then if you do, i would be forced to too, eh? and noone would want that >.<

oh, and PS to Sino. im chinese too. communism is obviously the best economical system, just isnt employed properly.

PPS. i dont know anything (or at least, anything indepth enough to argue about) about star trek. only there are the borg, some other stuff, and ...the guy who plays Xavier in X-men is the captain. hes cool?

communism is obviously the best economical system, just isnt employed properly.

Don't get me started on Economics. :)

Suit yourself...like a virgin you dont know what your missing though ;) :fluffle:

I will...

hey hey hey! im a tad new to the forums, but ill tell you this thread has rather got me hooked...

anyways, i myself would be considered a geek. i think. as in, id much rather play games than go outside. pfft, who wants to do that, eh? but then when i am out, its all nice and groovy anyways.

well, onward to the situation. now, from what ive read, im inclined to believe TInk is a rather nice individual. not exactly sure as to why YOU of all people would be afraid to ask someone out...isnt that OUR job? =PEveryone is afraid to ask someone out for the first time. Or even the second. Or the third. Or...you get the idea. It's difficult to ask people out! Believe a non-geek, I know!

i WOULD make a deal that i would ask teh person i 'fancy' out if you asked Bill out, but then if you do, i would be forced to too, eh? and noone would want that >.<Don't discourage her!!!! :sniper:

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

You can have me!!! Fatcatpetllama is my sn. Hopefully you have AIM.

Why would you want to go out with someone like that? If he doesn't have the balls to ask you out you might as well move on to someone who isn't a pussy. If you do like him and you want to go out with him your going to have to play the role of the man and ask him out.

It depends how you define geek.
These days(at my school) anyone who isnt a skater, chav, townie, goth, or that boring area whare they think they are normal but are just townies, is a geek...making me one..but i am not what you would say was a geek...i hate startreck and that kind of stuff

Why would you want to go out with someone like that? If he doesn't have the balls to ask you out you might as well move on to someone who isn't a pussy. If you do like him and you want to go out with him your going to have to play the role of the man and ask him out.

Umm... no. There is no switched role she has to play. Please do not use your narrow definition of which gender has to do what as an excuse to insult someone you've never met.

cause i'm ugly and he doesn't fancy me
Um. If by "ugly" you mean, "could probably make a poster that teen-aged boys around the world would pay money for, but I don't have 15 minutes for make up, or professional lighting." In the vernacular of my people, you are what is commonly referred to as a "Stone Fox."

Rent Swingers (http://us.imdb.com/title/tt0117802/), go over to his house when it's just him. When Trent and Sue are going off about how Mike is so money, how he's a big bear, and can't figure out how to kill the bunny with his claws and fangs, hook your arm around his pull yourself tight next to him, put your head on his chest while looking him in the eyes. If he doesn't respond to that, he like dudes.

You should seriously consider getting a copy of The Art of War. It's not so much about war per se as it is about understanding yourself, your surroundings, your opponent and extorting people to successful action. Ariddia's right, choose the deadly ground where he's got no choice but to commit to a decision.

Also you seem to think whether or not you two get together will be a rational decision for him. That's not necessarily how men make such choices. It's how we'd like to. We are very much at the whim of our chemistry, and in a supreme twist of irony God unwisely gave the keys to women. Even aside from your obvious and considerable visual appeal (you kinda look like Rachel Weisz, but better skin), your touch, your smell, the timber of your voice, they command his focus in a way he's unable to completely resist or duplicate. He's probably been long suffering in your shadow possessed of thoughts on what might be when or if he were a better man. If you can assuage some of his fear, or just use his chemistry, it's over.

His fears are almost certainly something like the following: He's beneath consideration for the foreseeable future. He might make an irrecoverable mistake that will destroy everything meaningful. Even if he does everything right he's not important enough to check your wrecklessness and he'll lose everything meaningful anyway. He's definately making a mistake, one he'll regret more than you in all likelyhood. But you're making some too. When he said he didn't want to go to the debate because it was boring, that was something of a test. He was checking whether he was on the friend list. If you had instead found a solution more inline with his interests, he wouldn't have gotten such a clear message he was on the friend list. I'm willing to be he's got quite a bit of evidence pointing to the friend list, intentional and otherwise. For a guy, who's careful by nature, and believes they can't afford to make a mistake, ignoring all that data is quite the leap of faith.

Rent Swingers (http://us.imdb.com/title/tt0117802/), go over to his house when it's just him. When Trent and Sue are going off about how Mike is so money, how he's a big bear, and can't figure out how to kill the bunny with his claws and fangs, hook your arm around his pull yourself tight next to him, put your head on his chest while looking him in the eyes. If he doesn't respond to that, he like dudes.



Maybe you should make that " put his head on your chest" ;)

Let's see where conventional warfare goes before we investigate the "thermonuclear option."

the secret is no secret at all...be you ....And if he doesn't, babe...well, maybe he wasn't the right one. Hard to hear when you really like someone, but everyone deserves somebody who loves them for who they truly are. That goes double for a gem like you.

Good day Tink,

I'd agree with both. For years I had this paradigm, this image of perfection that I held to like bible writ. She had to be like this or like that. Well I met this girl, Amy, who was everything I wanted. But guess what? She wasn't the one. At the time you could never have made me believe it and when we broke up it took some 4 years to get over but I believe now that it was all for the best. Amy helped me crystalize what I wanted or didn't want in a partner and she essentially pointed the way to the girl who's my current girlfriend and (hopefully) lifetime partner. Something I never in my wildest dreams expected but much much more. Don't give up - first of all on yourself, despite the blue hair and your somewhat negative self-image (please Tink, you ARE beautiful and wonderful, so many here would give their right arm to be yours) don't ever forget you are wonderful and special, special enough for that special someone and if a guy doesn't like you, IT'S THEIR LOSS. And don't give up on him - yet - you're great friends but you've not made a move...

However, (please see my previous post on human scent and behavior) it may be that for some reason you're not gelling as well as you should and you're better off as friends. If that's the case, I hope you can also find the serenity to accept it with grace and self-respect. I'm not saying that it is but perhaps that's what you mean when you say you know it won't come off well. I'm not you and I don't know the whole story. It may be cold feet on your part too, like we've been trying to say all along. Whichever it is, don't forget that you must never surrender your self-respect and grace. You have to be able to say, "I am on a journey and I'd like you to come along with me for the ride... I'd love it if you would... but if not, I won't self destruct. I will go on."

Best regards,
Cathenia

TInk,

After slogging through all 74 pages of this thread, all i have to say is i wish so many people had encouraged me to ask sooner than I had. I spend 6 months with this girl i liked last year, working up the courage to ask her out. And you know what? She went out with me, but simply wanted to remain friends. These events have actually brought us closter in friendship. She now knows i care for her, and I the same, and while the chemestry was not exactly right between us, we can still remain faithful friends.

One suggestion that i have seen mentioned several times, and is actually the one I used is write a letter or email. If you can't bring yourself to confront him in person, by phone or IM, then an informal note or email is the best way to go. It lets you pour out your thoughts, without worrying about breaking down, or freezing up. Anyway, my final words are like so many who have said it before me, ask him, because every minuite is special, and you can only live this life once. Why not make the best of it?

Kudos,

NS

Heh, ask him to play D&D with you...lol :rolleyes:

it's in this shop called Internacionale, they sell accessories for your house, it's only a weekend job and i only get minimum wage (£3.75/hour) but it's a job, and i went shopping with my sis and her friends afterwards and saw the most gorgeous shoes ever so i'll be able to buy those, yay!

Hey congratulations! See, don't put yourself down too much. You found a job and now you have a steady income. What's to stop you from going on and opening up to him?

I was out of the job when I finished college for the longest time and yeah it was really embarrassing and difficult so I'm really glad to hear you found a job. I'm a film maker by training but an ESL teacher by (current) vocation.

Here's what I hope happens. Perhaps it's not the right time yet for you and Bill or for you to tell him that you got the hots for him. Like I said previously, timing is everything (just after Star Wars would have been good except for the debate). But please don't keep say you're giving up, okay Tink? You've not really tried yet (as far as I know) so don't quit till you look him squarely in the eye and tell him.

congratulations again,
Cathenia

Good day Tink,

I'd agree with both. For years I had this paradigm, this image of perfection that I held to like bible writ. She had to be like this or like that. Well I met this girl, Amy, who was everything I wanted. But guess what? She wasn't the one. At the time you could never have made me believe it and when we broke up it took some 4 years to get over but I believe now that it was all for the best. Amy helped me crystalize what I wanted or didn't want in a partner and she essentially pointed the way to the girl who's my current girlfriend and (hopefully) lifetime partner. Something I never in my wildest dreams expected but much much more. Don't give up - first of all on yourself, despite the blue hair and your somewhat negative self-image (please Tink, you ARE beautiful and wonderful, so many here would give their right arm to be yours) don't ever forget you are wonderful and special, special enough for that special someone and if a guy doesn't like you, IT'S THEIR LOSS. And don't give up on him - yet - you're great friends but you've not made a move...

However, (please see my previous post on human scent and behavior) it may be that for some reason you're not gelling as well as you should and you're better off as friends. If that's the case, I hope you can also find the serenity to accept it with grace and self-respect. I'm not saying that it is but perhaps that's what you mean when you say you know it won't come off well. I'm not you and I don't know the whole story. It may be cold feet on your part too, like we've been trying to say all along. Whichever it is, don't forget that you must never surrender your self-respect and grace. You have to be able to say, "I am on a journey and I'd like you to come along with me for the ride... I'd love it if you would... but if not, I won't self destruct. I will go on."

Best regards,
CatheniaWhat s/he said. (I'm assuming you're a male because of having a girlfriend, but I may be wrong...)

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Hey congratulations! See, don't put yourself down too much. You found a job and now you have a steady income. What's to stop you from going on and opening up to him?

I was out of the job when I finished college for the longest time and yeah it was really embarrassing and difficult so I'm really glad to hear you found a job. I'm a film maker by training but an ESL teacher by (current) vocation.

Here's what I hope happens. Perhaps it's not the right time yet for you and Bill or for you to tell him that you got the hots for him. Like I said previously, timing is everything (just after Star Wars would have been good except for the debate). But please don't keep say you're giving up, okay Tink? You've not really tried yet (as far as I know) so don't quit till you look him squarely in the eye and tell him.

congratulations again,
CatheniaNever giving up is an important idea. Keep trying and you will eventually get what you want. Even if you really want £1,000,000,000 without working. (Well, okay maybe not that, but...) If you try to do something and give up because it's too hard, that's actually a less attractive personality trait, hint hint... ;) I learned that the hard way.

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

BTW i would never label anyone geek, nerd or loser..
Why would i? I mean we are all born equally and we all die equally no matter how you may look like or what you may have done in your life.
;) :D

I don't know, back in High School until now, we (my buddies and I) knew we were 'geeks', well Nerds technically. We accepted it and it became a matter of pride for us because we knew we were better and smarter than the rest of 'em. We were rebels essentially, we thumbed our nose at authority that we considered idiotic and irrelevant (the guidance councellor and her ilk - the socially acceptible in-crowd which dominated school politics for all of high school) and we just didn't give a rip, we were happy with our anime and stuff (you know, boys and their various toys) and we took being shoved aside in silence till the senior year when we challenged the in-crowd and jocks for the class presidency. Well, most of us lost but our presidential candidate won and we got a good number of votes - I was set to be marshal and I beat my opponent in his own section (but I still lost). Well that was okay because we were taking Citizens Military Training at the time and we were all (almost all of us at least) cadet officers so we still ruled the batch on weekends, subjecting them to the heat of the sun, pushups, deep-knee bends and other select tortures (not without reason of course).

Then when we were in college we (well I started and the others drifted in) became Film majors and now most of us are part of the vanguard of mass media today.

So I guess it's how each one takes the 'labelling'

Cathenia

I need some advice from some geeks/girlfriends of geeks. How the hell do you get them interested and get them to ask you out?
Why dont you just ask???? :rolleyes:

What s/he said. (I'm assuming you're a male because of having a girlfriend, but I may be wrong...)

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Hmmm... Cathenia (ending in an 'a') does make it sound feminine (like Athena)
but it's really short for:

:eek: His Grace, the Lord Duke of Richmond, Commander of the Host, Lord Admiral of the Blue, Supreme Lord Chancellor of Cathenia, KCVOC {"the BIG Roach Beast"} :eek:

best regards,
Cathenia

Your visage is one upon which I could gaze for an eternity. And your fruitful mind is one which I sorely need, after the mental/emotional desert that are so many other girls I know. Seriously. You are attractive. You are not ugly. And, having had so many experiences in which I have regretted something that I have not done, even at the age of twelve, I would say that you go for this if you do not want to be a goth that is depressed for a good twenty to thirty years.

What's the worst that could happen if you do?
What's the worst that could happen if you don't?
Now what's the best thing that could happen if you do?
What's the best thing that could happen if you don't?

I have had to muster up some courage to talk to my friend that I have not talked to in months once, because I feared a fierce verbal lashing for not calling in so long. Nothing bad happened. The worst that could happen is A: unlikely to happen and B: an awkward moment and some embarassment, assuming you play your cards right. Courage is the will to do what scares you. I would be scared as hell to do this. But I think that if I were you, I would say "screw it" and go do it.

And hello. Also, for the other people, how is it possible to know if a girl is flirting with you or just toying with you? It seems an odd question, considering I have read this entire thread, but she and her friends told me that she wants to go out with me. I don't really want to, but I do want to at least know her intentions, whether they be malicious or sincere. Should I always assume good faith? I'm slightly a geek in the computing area, but many of the things they said sounded sincere. My friends tell me they are trying to make me look like a fool.

Why dont you just ask???? :rolleyes:

Its just not the shy nerdish way...

Its just not the shy nerdish way...

And what is?

And what is?

In my experience the shy nerdish way is to admire from a distance, winging and wining about your inablitiy to get that attractive female sitting across the room. Then, in accordance with the classic "loser gets girl" movie plot, the nerd goes to the prom (or here in Oz the Formal) without a date and the girl appears out of nowhere and asks you to dance.

*starts humming "teenage dirtbag"*

And what is?

Complaining about your inability to get the girl you want for fear of being knocked back, or laughed at...

Ay, <strikethrough>that's</strikethrough> there's the rub...There was a girl in sixth grade which I kinda liked, but I never told her...eventually, her bastard friend found out and told her. But until then I had just admired her from afar and not done anything about it. I wasn't at all for dating. But if I had told her earlier, there would have been, at least, less embarassment in the long term. The moral: If you're a geek that likes a girl, but you are interested in dating or whatnot, than don't tell anyone that can not be trusted.

This really does not have to do with anything.

Ay, that's the rub...There was a girl in sixth grade which I kinda liked, but I never told her...eventually, her bastard friend found out and told her. But until then I had just admired her from afar and not done anything about it. I wasn't at all for dating. But if I had told her earlier, there would have been, at least, less embarassment in the long term. The moral: If you're a geek that likes a girl, but you are interested in dating or whatnot, than don't tell anyone that can not be trusted.

This really does not have to do with anything.

Sorry, but I have to point out the line is "Ay, There's the rub".

Sorry...

Ay, that's the rub...There was a girl in sixth grade which I kinda liked, but I never told her...eventually, her bastard friend found out and told her. But until then I had just admired her from afar and not done anything about it. I wasn't at all for dating. But if I had told her earlier, there would have been, at least, less embarassment in the long term. The moral: If you're a geek that likes a girl, but you are interested in dating or whatnot, than don't tell anyone that can not be trusted.

This really does not have to do with anything.

Ah, painful memories. Love stinks, to quote whoever said that.

Yes, I rather suspected that it was "there."

And in retrospect, it doesn't seem very big a deal, the thing in sixth grade. Especially since I moved since then. But it was kind of hard having to reflect on how I had been reasonably friendly with her before the whole thing blew up in my face. And are replies usually this fast on this thread, which has had over 1.1 thousand messages in the past couple of days?

And what about my other question?

Yes, I rather suspected that it was "there."

And in retrospect, it doesn't seem very big a deal, the thing in sixth grade. Especially since I moved since then. But it was kind of hard having to reflect on how I had been reasonably friendly with her before the whole thing blew up in my face. And are replies usually this fast on this thread, which has had over 1.1 thousand messages in the past couple of days?

And what about my other question?

What question.

Welcome to NS General by the way...

how is it possible to know if a girl is flirting with you or just toying with you? It seems an odd question, considering I have read this entire thread, but she and her friends told me that she wants to go out with me. I don't really want to, but I do want to at least know her intentions, whether they be malicious or sincere. Should I always assume good faith? I'm slightly a geek in the computing area, but many of the things they said sounded sincere. My friends tell me they are trying to make me look like a fool.

From near the bottom of page 74.

In my experience the shy nerdish way is to admire from a distance, winging and wining about your inablitiy to get that attractive female sitting across the room. Then, in accordance with the classic "loser gets girl" movie plot, the nerd goes to the prom (or here in Oz the Formal) without a date and the girl appears out of nowhere and asks you to dance.

*starts humming "teenage dirtbag"*

I carried the torch for this really cute Chinese girl in elementary, writing her stupid sappy poems, giving her gifts every Christmas party but NEVER TALKING TO HER or even getting to know her. She got fed up finally and told me that I was "spineless". Admiration from a distance, the nerd's way to go and the sure-fire way to tick off a woman (apparently).

Cathenia

Admiration from a distance, the nerd's way to go and the sure-fire way to tick off a woman (apparently).

Cathenia
Apparently? No, no, no... certainly. Even after you tell the girl/woman you're fond of them, after all that waiting and hearing about their other boyfriends, etc. -- which, strangely enough, isn't that enticing, especially if the person to whom you are speaking has low self-esteem in relationships to begin with -- you might as well have told a brick wall. (I sincerely hope other people's experiences have been different than mine.)

Sorry, Harlesburg, didn't mean you - or maybe I misread something that Mr.Sino posted a while back. I've been in front of the computer for a while.

Hmmm... Is she back yet?

Cathenia
Tis alright i know you wernt talking to me I am a Kiwi so is Sino but we are different you see! ;)

Apparently? No, no, no... certainly. Even after you tell the girl/woman you're fond of them, after all that waiting and hearing about their other boyfriends, etc. -- which, strangely enough, isn't that enticing, especially if the person to whom you are speaking has low self-esteem in relationships to begin with -- you might as well have told a brick wall. (I sincerely hope other people's experiences have been different than mine.)

Just didn't want to commit the error of making a sweeping generalization.

;)
Cathenia

Tis alright i know you wernt talking to me I am a Kiwi so is Sino but we are different you see! ;)

And glad I am of it too!

All Hail Tink,
Cathenia

I think THIS (http://artpad.art.com/gallery/?igzac815k89w) pretty much sums up the thread. :p

Grab his crotch when you say that. The sudden rush of blood from his brain to other parts of his body will bring about a temporary bout of sanity, and he'll realize you mean it.
absolute geneis

I think THIS (http://artpad.art.com/gallery/?igzac815k89w) pretty much sums up the thread. :p

Agreed!

Start a debate over who is better - Captain Picard or Captain Kirk. Thats sure to get him/her interested.
or start a debate over star wars versus syar trek, that works wonders too. It also helps if you know plenty of geekly facts yourself to back up any argument/debates you migth encounter. Also, a good idea is to be well versed in at lest the most mainstream of roleplaying and collectible card games, D&D, magic: the gathering, rifts, gurps, warhammer, etc. Best of all, just figure out what their strongest geekly interest is, learn it well, and participate repeatedly. If they role play, learn what games and play them, if their into science or math, get good at it and work with them, if the read, learn their favourite autors by heart, if they watch movies, watch their favourites and learn quotes then invite them to watch with them or something similar with you. Also, you could try asking them to help you learn about their interests. They're usually more than willing to teach and participate and it really helps to break the ice.

or start a debate over star wars versus syar trek, that works wonders too. It also helps if you know plenty of geekly facts yourself to back up any argument/debates you migth encounter. Also, a good idea is to be well versed in at lest the most mainstream of roleplaying and collectible card games, D&D, magic: the gathering, rifts, gurps, warhammer, etc. Best of all, just figure out what their strongest geekly interest is, learn it well, and participate repeatedly. If they role play, learn what games and play them, if their into science or math, get good at it and work with them, if the read, learn their favourite autors by heart, if they watch movies, watch their favourites and learn quotes then invite them to watch with them or something similar with you. Also, you could try asking them to help you learn about their interests. They're usually more than willing to teach and participate and it really helps to break the ice.

Yeah, that too. But you gotta be careful not to make it seem like you're taking the piss, y'know. :)

or start a debate over star wars versus syar trek, that works wonders too. It also helps if you know plenty of geekly facts yourself to back up any argument/debates you migth encounter. Also, a good idea is to be well versed in at lest the most mainstream of roleplaying and collectible card games, D&D, magic: the gathering, rifts, gurps, warhammer, etc. Best of all, just figure out what their strongest geekly interest is, learn it well, and participate repeatedly. If they role play, learn what games and play them, if their into science or math, get good at it and work with them, if the read, learn their favourite autors by heart, if they watch movies, watch their favourites and learn quotes then invite them to watch with them or something similar with you. Also, you could try asking them to help you learn about their interests. They're usually more than willing to teach and participate and it really helps to break the ice.

This is most likely to work, speaking as a geek, I really like it when a girl starts talking to me about maths, science, religion, etc, especially when they have a different opinion to me. I find that the girls I like most are the ones that I conflict with so if the guy likes captain kirk, tell him captain picard is better and back up your argument.

I guess youd have to be kind and not smothering they would definatly be uncomfortable about to much contact debate the values of X-men Unlimited vs X-men before Marvel went to crap! etc

And you can also debate about the Justice Leage vs this new hippy crap of the Justice League Unlimited.

This new Unlimited thing crap and everyone knows Marvel sold out to make the X-men what they are. Damn sell outs

And you can also debate about the Justice Leage vs this new hippy crap of the Justice League Unlimited.

This new Unlimited thing crap and everyone knows Marvel sold out to make the X-men what they are. Damn sell outs

Sometimes i wish i was just a bit more geeky so i could argue with you people about these things

Sometimes i wish i was just a bit more geeky so i could argue with you people about these things

Don't say something you can't take back.

Don't say something you can't take back.

I wasn't intending on taking it back, thankyou very much.

It's Camp 731.
Harlesburg
Camp 727*?-you know the jap one in northern China
*plucking numbers.
Ah close
Cathenia
I thought you said you were a Kiwi?
Cathenia
Why can't a Chinese person live in NZ and be a Kiwi? If I tell you that I was born in NZ, you'd believe me.
Ha AH Ha

Assuming that Miss TInk has not worked up the nerve to ask the young man out, even for a "perfectly innocuous" trip to the movies: Who thinks TInk is ugly?

Assuming that Miss TInk has not worked up the nerve to ask the young man out, even for a "perfectly innocuous" trip to the movies: Who thinks TInk is ugly?

Other than TInk herself? I don't know if anyone does...I don't.

Perhaps there's someone out there who thinks she is ugly...but the person is clearly insane and should be removed from the equation as soon as possible.

agreed

Can we post a link to her picture every 10 pages or so? It's a bit difficult to find it right now. Would anyone have that picture?

Can we post a link to her picture every 10 pages or so? It's a bit difficult to find it right now. Would anyone have that picture?

Clicky Clicky! (http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showpost.php?p=8599068&postcount=7)

I can't open the picture :(

...but I have a strange feeling that no, she isn't ugly...


...It's difficult to imagine being ugly and at the same time having >100 NSers in a cult dedicated to you...

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

I can't open the picture :(

For a "Supreme Ruler of the Universe" you have a pretty crappy Internet connection, doncha? :)

For a "Supreme Ruler of the Universe" you have a pretty crappy Internet connection, doncha? :)

Aye.

For a "Supreme Ruler of the Universe" you have a pretty crappy Internet connection, doncha? :)Yes...

...and I'm trying to get one...

...and a filter set up by some stupid councillor doesn't let through any pictures of humans...

...and stop making fun of me, it's not my fault there's no DSL connection to Ganymede...

...I don't own the phone companies and I'm not allowed to...
[/rant]

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Yes...

...and I'm trying to get one...

...and a filter set up by some stupid councillor doesn't let through any pictures of humans...

...and stop making fun of me, it's not my fault there's no DSL connection to Ganymede...

...I don't own the phone companies and I'm not allowed to...
[/rant]

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Then I move that you change your title to "Supreme Ruler of most of the Universe, other than the phone companies".

...and a filter set up by some stupid councillor doesn't let through any pictures of humans...

Have you tried online filter bypassers, they're not blocked and can get round anything. Being a geek I should know this works because I used them in school and college for years to get to the banned Trek sites. :D

In my experience the shy nerdish way is to admire from a distance, winging and wining about your inablitiy to get that attractive female sitting across the room. Then, in accordance with the classic "loser gets girl" movie plot, the nerd goes to the prom (or here in Oz the Formal) without a date and the girl appears out of nowhere and asks you to dance.

*starts humming "teenage dirtbag"*

LOL...thats some funny shit man...too bad life isnt a movie...still...putting yourself down is never good...Feelings need to be expressed....Even though you might not get a girl doesnt mean you cant live your life to the fullest extent. You deserve to its your birthright. Anyways im drifting off and i got work to do...studying is fun! lol ;)

Good day Tink,

I'd agree with both. For years I had this paradigm, this image of perfection that I held to like bible writ. She had to be like this or like that. Well I met this girl, Amy, who was everything I wanted. But guess what? She wasn't the one. At the time you could never have made me believe it and when we broke up it took some 4 years to get over but I believe now that it was all for the best. Amy helped me crystalize what I wanted or didn't want in a partner and she essentially pointed the way to the girl who's my current girlfriend and (hopefully) lifetime partner. Something I never in my wildest dreams expected but much much more. Don't give up - first of all on yourself, despite the blue hair and your somewhat negative self-image (please Tink, you ARE beautiful and wonderful, so many here would give their right arm to be yours) don't ever forget you are wonderful and special, special enough for that special someone and if a guy doesn't like you, IT'S THEIR LOSS. And don't give up on him - yet - you're great friends but you've not made a move...

However, (please see my previous post on human scent and behavior) it may be that for some reason you're not gelling as well as you should and you're better off as friends. If that's the case, I hope you can also find the serenity to accept it with grace and self-respect. I'm not saying that it is but perhaps that's what you mean when you say you know it won't come off well. I'm not you and I don't know the whole story. It may be cold feet on your part too, like we've been trying to say all along. Whichever it is, don't forget that you must never surrender your self-respect and grace. You have to be able to say, "I am on a journey and I'd like you to come along with me for the ride... I'd love it if you would... but if not, I won't self destruct. I will go on."

Best regards,
Cathenia


Good advise man, I love your posts they definetely contain some didactic elements. I like your attitude, the only trouble with being so evolved is that its lonely at the top...or so i have been told. This belief might actually harm me, Anyway keep up the good work man. How did you get so smart btw, partly through experience and partly through assimilation of books?
I also read your other stuff, i especially liked your high school story...
As im typing this i get a feeling of deja vu..its almost like i typed this before but i didnt lol...
What i wanted to say was...i admire your way of living but you must acknowledge that there are just some things in this world that you have no knowledge of...i mean sometimes life just gives you bad cards...the main thing is to let go of your bad associations to any bad experiences...you see life is never the same, its always changing...if you can adjust your mindset to this principle you will live with more passion and a greater sense of peace.
Since you will then ultimately decide that everything in life is relative and that nothing lasts for ever...not even love. So the moment you feel love..it is IMPERATIVE THAT YOU SHOW YOUR TRUE COLOURS. If you dont you'll probably hurt yourself and the one you dig. Mainly coz they will deem themself not worthy enough.
Also i want to say that i dont believe in labels..geeks, skaters, nerds what does it matter, people think of labels becoz they are scared. They are scared of other people. If they label someone they feel safer...i mean who is afraid of what you can see, touch, smell and taste?
Insecurity caused by anonimity is the main reason for labels.
Now think about that for a second.
BTW if you read this whole post you are on your way to enlightenment! LOL
Peace and Love..
;)

Have you tried online filter bypassers, they're not blocked and can get round anything. Being a geek I should know this works because I used them in school and college for years to get to the banned Trek sites. :D((If you can keep this quiet, the 'councillor' is actually a parent that also thinks I should have no freedom to post on these forums. I've heard of limited government, but this is impossible! ;)))

((If you can keep this quiet, the 'councillor' is actually a parent that also thinks I should have no freedom to post on these forums. I've heard of limited government, but this is impossible! ;)))

Haha! *points and laughs* I've always had control of my own computer. My mum doesn't have a clue about them. lol. Oh, she's a great mum. Computers just aren't her thing.

And Tink, if you read this and you still haven't, ASK! :p

Had to say it.

Haha! *points and laughs* I've always had control of my own computer. My mum doesn't have a clue about them. lol. Oh, she's a great mum. Computers just aren't her thing.Mine doesn't either, but I think she hires the computer companies to make sure. And on a side note I'm not even using my own computer now since she disabled internet access. :mad: Apparently she now goes on my computer when I'm away conducting the business of the universe and checks my history to make sure I haven't been surfing the internet despite her decree. She thinks NS is anathema.

And Tink, for some inexplicable reason, is offline at the moment. All I can say is Sorte avec lui! Maintenant! Non-French speakers will anyway know what I'm saying, since everyone's been saying it for the past 70+ pages.

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

*Points at double post and broken quote*

*looks around innocently* What double post? What broken quote? *walks away whistling*

iEdit.

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

*looks around innocently* What double post? What broken quote? *walks away whistling*

iEdit.

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

You really do have a crappy internet connection, don't you?

I have a slightly different question. Not that you'll answer it, for I am a lowly newbie compared to the greatness and overall niceness of Tink. But what are you to do if you are somewhat of a geek and a girl who is quite popular wants to go out with you, but you do not? We had a "lively" discussion on the school bus, and I tried to make it clear to everyone that was asking me about the issue (whom then told her) that I thought that she was great, but I did not want to get involved in a romantic relationship. Is that enough, or is there something else I still have to do to make sure that nobody gets hurt?

You really do have a crappy internet connection, don't you?No, I just didn't notice the problem. I just thought it was another one of those Invalid Thread errors that keep popping up on Jolt whenever you try to do something useful.

And stop degrading my internet connection, you...you...you...you Earthling!!!

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

I understand, surfacer ;)

I understand, surfacer ;)Surprisingly, I live underground too, although not on Earth. That's b/c the moon I chose to make my home on has no nitrogenous atmosphere necessary for the survival of all organisms, so I need to live underground. :( If you have subterran telepathic powers, we can communicate effortlessly.

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Really? You should join MOBRA then...

Sorry, I can't. I'm not a rodent or a burrowing creature. My huge complex was just built underground, that's all. :(


Wait! I just thought of something! I'm Supreme Ruler of the Universe! I can turn myself into a dveesprog, a small Ganymedian blind burrowing creature with dark fur, and join MOBRA! *goes off to transmogrify* :cool:

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

So... is that a yes?

So... is that a yes?:mad: Don't bother me when I'm transmogrifying!!

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

I'll take that as a yes then...


Linky is in siggy

I'll take that as a yes then...


Linky is in siggyI noticed. I've been seeing your signature for your past 100+ posts in this thread.

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

No, no, no, you should join the COTP! :p

I'm joining MOBRA. And this discussion is really not for this thread, so let's clear out before someone notices.

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

I noticed. I've been seeing your signature for your past 100+ posts in this thread.

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

LOL. OK. Have fun.

No, no, no, you should join the COTP! :p
I'll join both. What's the COTP?

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

I'll join both. What's the COTP?


Click here (http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showthread.php?t=418619) to find out. And it's not even really off topic. ;)

Click here (http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showthread.php?t=418619) to find out. And it's not even really off topic. ;)I posted in that thread stating the only reason why I could not join. I'm still waiting for a response. :)

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

I posted in that thread stating the only reason why I could not join. I'm still waiting for a response. :)

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Ah. OK. :)

i didn't say i was a geek!
Then it's prob. not a good idea to go out with a geek. It takes a geek to not mind the geekiness of the other person. And the geek could be a geek at several levels:

Comp geek
Gaming geek
Comic geek
Trekkie
Star Wars geek
(other, various subsets of geek)

It seems as though Bill and Tink are very close and do not annoy each other significantly, though. They have evidently known each other for a long time. And Tink seems to know that Bill is a geek, as shown by the thread name.

Then it's prob. not a good idea to go out with a geek. It takes a geek to not mind the geekiness of the other person. And the geek could be a geek at several levels:

Comp geek
Gaming geek
Comic geek
Trekkie
Star Wars geek
(other, various subsets of geek)

Woah, way to group a large number of people into stereotypical subcategories.

I need some advice from some geeks/girlfriends of geeks. How the hell do you get them interested and get them to ask you out?

I only scanned some of the responses, and I don't have time to see if this was suggested, but the answer is simple. Touch him. On purpose.


Best of luck...

Good advise man, I love your posts they definetely contain some didactic elements. I like your attitude, the only trouble with being so evolved is that its lonely at the top...or so i have been told. This belief might actually harm me, Anyway keep up the good work man. How did you get so smart btw, partly through experience and partly through assimilation of books?
I also read your other stuff, i especially liked your high school story...
As im typing this i get a feeling of deja vu..its almost like i typed this before but i didnt lol...
;)

Hi there,

Yeah experience and books - 27 years as a card carrying nerd hehe. My girlfriend thinks I'm weird but she loves me anyway and that's the best part (refer to the Shaughnessy poem as to why - my guess) when you find someone who accepts you for who you are and loves your quirkyness. And she happens to look like an Filipina sexy star and has an expression like a famous Korean actress too which helps things along. (she'll kill me if she knows I said that :eek: )

http://www.philippinestoday.net/September2001/images901/joyce.gif
http://www.asiandb.com/data/news/korea/200412/sonyejin.jpg

Before that there were the usual male misadventures and years of flying solo (if you know what I mean) and, looking back, I'd have to agree that there were a lot of girls I could have - maybe SHOULD HAVE - courted in High School and College but I was too scared - I mean 'they're a whole different species!' :eek:

I think a lot of geeks at least share that common nervousness. I mean we just like different things. I hated socializing which I considered shallow and beneath me. I wanted to be a knight (as in knighted by HRH Queen Elizabeth II) and there was a time I wanted so badly to be British (so I could be a knight). I was consumed by stories of Arthur and his knights (Howard Pyle version), Stevenson and Scott's great adventure stories, Waterloo, history, and it made me look at everything around me as the space between words in the future history of our times. At the same time I was physically outperformed by my more active classmates and socially outperformed by my more social climbing classmates and when I joined other like-minded 'geeks' we formed a group and exiled school society from our consciousness.

It's our way of protecting ourselves. We felt we were too smart or too good for rejection, I suppose. So we never opened up to others and I think, with hindsight, that I was poorer for it.

Cathenia

I have a slightly different question. Not that you'll answer it, for I am a lowly newbie compared to the greatness and overall niceness of Tink. But what are you to do if you are somewhat of a geek and a girl who is quite popular wants to go out with you, but you do not? We had a "lively" discussion on the school bus, and I tried to make it clear to everyone that was asking me about the issue (whom then told her) that I thought that she was great, but I did not want to get involved in a romantic relationship. Is that enough, or is there something else I still have to do to make sure that nobody gets hurt?
sounds like enough to me, i'm sure she'll get it and won't be too hurt

Hi there Tink :D How goes it with you?

Cathenia

ok thanks, spent the day at home yesterday, we just got a quad, it's awesome! 400cc! and we got some little fluffy, baby geese and ducks! they're soooooooo cute!

But you haven't got a cute attachment yet though, have you?

no

I need some advice from some geeks/girlfriends of geeks. How the hell do you get them interested and get them to ask you out?
Kick him in the balls and run like hell!!!!!

Really Tink? Can I buy a female duck from you? I've been raising three - sadly now only one - ducks at home. Raised them from tiny ducklings and they're about three (I think) years old (I'm an old forgetful 27 year old, sorry).

Did you see those book suggestions I wrote a while back? Those are really great reads! Roald Dahl's my personal favorite for fiction, though the Little Prince is on a totally different plane (pardon the pun).

Glad to hear from you again,
Cathenia

Really Tink? Can I buy a female duck from you? I've been raising three - sadly now only one - ducks at home. Raised them from tiny ducklings and they're about three (I think) years old (I'm an old forgetful 27 year old, sorry).

Did you see those book suggestions I wrote a while back? Those are really great reads! Roald Dahl's my personal favorite for fiction, though the Little Prince is on a totally different plane (pardon the pun).

Glad to hear from you again,
Catheniai'd be quite happy to give you one but my stepdad wouldn't be very impressed


i did, and when i have some time i'll check them out

Awww... I had two actually. One was a black duck who looked like Daffy (sorta) - named him Jimmy Doolittle Duck, after American Colonel James H. "Jimmy" Doolittle (the character played by Alec Baldwin in Pearl Harbor) who led the Raid on Tokyo in April 1942. One of the bombers on the raid was nicknamed 'The Ruptured Duck' , so there was that connection. Unfortunately Jimmy died early last month from food poisoning - ate this rotting fruit. I was so sad because he's the one I really took care of and even kept in my room as a duckling. The surviving one's always been the strongest of the Alpha males. He's brownish white and has nice plumage but he's a noisy cranky creature. If those things had teeth they'd be velociraptors, they're so fierce!

Cathenia

Kick him in the balls and run like hell!!!!!

:eek:

*Places 2 inch thick laptop instruction manual over threatened area and braces for impact*

Hi tink,

Gotta go again. Best of lucky to you and your ducky - err duckies!

Cathenia

Wow, this is really going off topic.


Has anything else happened? Have you come to a decision?

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

a decision about what?

a decision about what?
Cabbage vs Grass?...
'Well' or Water fountain?.....

a decision about what?*raises eyebrows* What exactly is this thread about?

Basically, what's happened since I left yesterday?

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Yeah, how's it going Tink?

If you want, send me a TG, as I have to get offline now.

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe

Cabbage vs Grass?...
'Well' or Water fountain?.....
grass and water fountain

*raises eyebrows* What exactly is this thread about?

Basically, what's happened since I left yesterday?

~Czardas, Supreme Ruler of the Universe
nothing has happened, i havn't even spoken to him on msn cause i've been at home

nothing has happened, i havn't even spoken to him on msn cause i've been at home

Take the money!

Take the moley!
:p

Take the money!

Take the Moley
:p

I didn't post that :confused: wished had now though...

:D :p

I didn't post that :confused: wished had now though...

:D :p
muahahaha. I'm a genious

Agreed.

Tink gets no pic nah nah ne nah nah! i mean :( i cant show off
What do mean show off you munt face
Err
*runs away*

Tink gets no pic nah nah ne nah nah! i mean :( i cant show off
What do mean show off you munt face
Err
*runs away*
Obviously I've missed something :confused:

Obviously I've missed something :confused:

Correction. Harlseburg is missing something :p :D ;)

Tink gets no pic nah nah ne nah nah! i mean :( i cant show off
What do mean show off you munt face
Err
*runs away*
:confused: huh?

i'm bored. someone entertain me.

:confused: huh?

i'm bored. someone entertain me.

Let meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee entertain youuuuuuuuuuuu...

On second thoughts, perhaps not...

Correction. Harlseburg is missing something :p :D ;)
A screw? :p

http://www.bartleby.com/images/A4images/A4screw.jpg

Let meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee entertain youuuuuuuuuuuu...

On second thoughts, perhaps not...
*slaps*

we'll have none of that :rolleyes:



http://fansua47.skyblog.com/pics/80582228.jpg
goon

A screw? :p

http://www.bartleby.com/images/A4images/A4screw.jpg

So that's where they went :D

*Inserts screws back into head*

*slaps*

we'll have none of that :rolleyes:



http://fansua47.skyblog.com/pics/80582228.jpg
goon

*Slaps back with maggot infested fish*

I stopped, didn't I!?

goon
http://www.bagendinn.com/sean/images/baby/goonies/goonies5.jpg

this is so oldschool

You should not try to be "cool" or "funny", as he/she will think you are just another hunk/bbabe out for a laugh. Geeks have usually (but not always) been bulleyed at some point in their life, so they will keep away thinking you are just out to have a laugh on their behalf.
Be open an honest. Be serious. Ask for normal things first, become a friend before a "friend" if ya get my drift. Make them trust you, you must show that you do not intend to be an asshole. Do the normal stuff, ask for interest and hobbies and whatever. If you have no idea what they are talking about, say so. Dont try to be a smart ass, as this is the road to fucking up. (sorry for the bad lang.)
I dont know a lot more than that, but remember that any relationship can be difficult to get started. (especially the part where you want the other part to notice you). It's a minefield, use your head and follow your heart, thats the best you can do. The peron must in the end like you for who you are, not for what you think the person wants you to be. :fluffle:

*Slaps back with maggot infested fish*

I stopped, didn't I!?
yeah but the rule is NO Robbie Williams! at all. ever! :mad:

*shudders*

Sorry, it was the first thing to creep into my head. i shalln't post anymore about him.

You have my word as gentlemen and a lady.

This conversation has had way too much time to get off topic, lets set everything straight...

Geeks have little self esteem, And can be easy offened, Watch your words very carefully, and more importantly, your tone, any geek will pay too much attention to how your saying something as opposed to WHAT your saying (It comes froms years of insults, they no longer listen to the adverage person, unless the tone isn't mean and evil and such)

Don't try and talk to them about star trek, or star wars, or comic books UNLESS YOU CAN COMPETE, If you have some knowlage in those areas or the areas of your geeky friend, GO ahead, BUT if not, don't, you'll only make a fool of yourself and end up confused.

Don't go all ahead all at once, geeks by nature are romantic, even if they don't know how to be, they don't want to bang every chick in sight, I know that all I want is to find someone, get to know then, THEN spank them like a dirty monkey (hehehe)

Get interested in there hobbies...D&D geeks espessally will LOVE you for try to get to know therre hobby, for them, teaching a girl how to play is practically a date, and hell, before you know it you may accually start LIKING the game

Be nice, Geeks have been insulted for YEARS and for that reason have become socially "weird" the best way to fix this is to be nice, you'll need to watch your tone, as many geeks feel any complaments givin to them are in mockery, BEWARE:Geeks are paranoid.

All a geek wants is to find someone that likes them, someone to share there time and hobbies with, I know that if I find a girl interested In D&D, Magic the gathering, and occationally model creation, I'd marry them on the spot...Then again, I may be a tad desperate...

From everyone's FAVORITE geek...

Blaze_The_Dragon

Now...Back to the D&D forums.

Sorry, it was the first thing to creep into my head. i shalln't post anymore about him.

You have my word as gentlemen and a lady.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/totp2/features/wallpaper/images/1024/robbie_williams.jpg

robbie says "ok":)

robbie says "ok":)

get rid of it!!!!

IT BURNS!!!!

This conversation has had way too much time to get off topic, lets set everything straight...

Geeks have little self esteem, And can be easy offened, Watch your words very carefully, and more importantly, your tone, any geek will pay too much attention to how your saying something as opposed to WHAT your saying (It comes froms years of insults, they no longer listen to the adverage person, unless the tone isn't mean and evil and such)

Don't try and talk to them about star trek, or star wars, or comic books UNLESS YOU CAN COMPETE, If you have some knowlage in those areas or the areas of your geeky friend, GO ahead, BUT if not, don't, you'll only make a fool of yourself and end up confused.

Don't go all ahead all at once, geeks by nature are romantic, even if they don't know how to be, they don't want to bang every chick in sight, I know that all I want is to find someone, get to know then, THEN spank them like a dirty monkey (hehehe)

Get interested in there hobbies...D&D geeks espessally will LOVE you for try to get to know therre hobby, for them, teaching a girl how to play is practically a date, and hell, before you know it you may accually start LIKING the game

Be nice, Geeks have been insulted for YEARS and for that reason have become socially "weird" the best way to fix this is to be nice, you'll need to watch your tone, as many geeks feel any complaments givin to them are in mockery, BEWARE:Geeks are paranoid.

All a geek wants is to find someone that likes them, someone to share there time and hobbies with, I know that if I find a girl interested In D&D, Magic the gathering, and occationally model creation, I'd marry them on the spot...Then again, I may be a tad desperate...

From everyone's FAVORITE geek...

Blaze_The_Dragon

Now...Back to the D&D forums.

*slap*

How dare you try and get us back on topic?! :p

Nice first post, btw.

LOL

Slap that flab!

get rid of it!!!!

IT BURNS!!!!
lmao :p

lmao :p

And Tink hates robbie as well ;)

And Tink hates robbie as well ;)
http://arabic.cnn.com/2002/entertainment/11/15/mtv.awards/robbie.williams.story.jpg.jpg


what!? i can't hear you! :D

my ego is plugging up my ears, and my arrogance fills my brain!

OMG! He's such a freak

*Sets fire to Robbie William's jacket...*

OMG! He's such a freak

*Sets fire to Robbie William's jacket...*
*kills Robbie Williams so we can all get back on topic*

there, just did the world a huge favour. what do i win? ;)

A fridge (http://www.negative-g.com/mental_rose/stuff/fridge.jpg)

You're gonna have a LOOOONG wait then. Obvious, be obvious about it, and I mean blindingly "I need your help to undo my bra" type of obvious... or a hammer. Hammers work.

Rocks with anonymous notes telling him to ask you out work. Unless you throw it a.) through his closed window and/or b.) in any direction that breaks his computer. Then you can just forget about it. :)

But seriously, if you have any mutual friends who are supportive of the potential relationship, send them in to tell your geek that he MUST ask you out.....its how it worked for me and my geek fiance.

And Tink hates robbie as well ;)
no, i want to hate Robbie, but i can;t :( i like his music

no, i want to hate Robbie, but i can;t :( i like his music

How is it possible to WANT to hate somebody but not?

How is it possible to WANT to hate somebody but not?
well i guess i do hate him but i love his music

well i guess i do hate him but i love his music
hate him all you want. i have a fridge! :)

hate him all you want. i have a fridge! :)
:confused:

:confused:

Check post 1223 ;)

:confused:
A fridge (http://www.negative-g.com/mental_rose/stuff/fridge.jpg)
my prize

hate him all you want. i have a fridge! :)

Heh, you and your fridges... :rolleyes:

ah ok

I wonder how many different topics this thread has seen...

I wonder how many different topics this thread has seen...

42! :p

sorry, couldn't resist...

42! :p

sorry, couldn't resist...

No more cookies for you!!! :mad: :p

Back to the subject: How to get a geek: Ask him out. :)

No more cookies for you!!! :mad: :p

Fine! :(

*fires point-of-view gun at Moleland*

*shares cookies with Sim*

*shares cookies with Sim*
*puts cookies in fridge*

Fine! :(

*fires point-of-view gun at Moleland*

I was about to give you one, but you just attacked me... :p

NO MORE COOKIES... FOREVER :mad::mad::mad: :p

*Evil Laugh*

Well, did you get him yet?

Just ask him if he likes you, tell him you like him, and see where it goes. With me, my girlfriend and I jsut sort of agreed to start dating, were not sure who actually asked ( though I believe it may have been her, I'm not afraid to admit it if it was her). Once you crack the crispy outer shell of a geek, they're pretty easy to talk to about feelings and what have you. You just gotta break the ice first. ;)

*puts cookies in fridge*
*throws a tantrum* I want my cookies NOW!!!!

Well, did you get him yet?

Just ask him if he likes you, tell him you like him, and see where it goes. With me, my girlfriend and I jsut sort of agreed to start dating, were not sure who actually asked ( though I believe it may have been her, I'm not afraid to admit it if it was her). Once you crack the crispy outer shell of a geek, they're pretty easy to talk to about feelings and what have you. You just gotta break the ice first. ;)
i havn't asked him and i've decided that i'm not going to, it's not like he's the only guy in the world that i fancy

*throws a tantrum* I want my cookies NOW!!!!

If you're good, you can have my cookies!!!! :p

*throws a tantrum* I want my cookies NOW!!!!
they're in the fridge, luv.

but you'll have to break the combination to get in! mwuhahahahah!


god i'm bored :rolleyes:

If you're good, you can have my cookies!!!! :p
i'm always good!

they're in the fridge, luv.

but you'll have to break the combination to get in! mwuhahahahah!


god i'm bored :rolleyes:
WELL THAT'S NOT GOOD ENOUGH!!! GIVE ME THEM NOW *high pitch squeal*

i havn't asked him and i've decided that i'm not going to, it's not like he's the only guy in the world that i fancy

*Looks on in hope*

*Looks on in hope*
you come up here and see me and................;)