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You are entirely too evil. Damn it...I'm getting all aroused at work again! *frustrated, runs to a political thread, then realises that politics turns her on too, desperately searches for something to turn her off or shift her attention...jumps into joke thread...*

I'm in both those threads. Double the pleasure, double the fun *winks*

She feels that way about most of it. She is starting to enjoy some of it more, but she also started out think that most of it was something only a prostitute would wear. Her thoughts are changing, but slowly. It really isn't that big a deal cause it's her I want. The other stuff is just fun wrapping... ;)
Well it's true...people go for the prettiest-wrapped present first...

...I think when it comes to lingerie, some women feel 'slutty' about it, as though dressing up like that is a bit to aggressively sexual for them, and a lot of women are still socialised to be sexually passive. It can be hard to break past that. You don't want to feel like you're just a tart in lace...you want to feel sexy, and that comes from how you FEEL in it, not necessarily how it looks on you. Attitude is key.

Dont let her fool you- her Briggs and Stratton has a pull start and no batteries.
Really??? A PULL start??? Hilarious! I'm not looking for a shave ( http://www.briggsandstratton.com/) though...

Hehehhee...why thanks! Yeah, people have been bugging me for a real pic for ages, but I just have this thing about not posting on the internet (ever since that porn movie debacle...kidding!!!), mostly because I'm a teacher, and you NEVER know...I've run into students at bars, why not here? That and, I'm always the one TAKING the pics...I'm in a mere handful in RL!

This is the only forum I post on, and I usually am the type to just lurk so I went ahead and put it up. Besides, I might be cute, but I don't think I'm porn material! :p

My computer is running really slow today...do you think you could tell me the names of some of the stores you like? I haven't shopped for 'real' lingerie (and apologies to VS fans out there, but I trash their stuff with one wear) in a long time, and I don't even know what's out there. I think I'm roughly your size.

Dont get too stimulatated. You'll wind up like Sinuhue -stuck at work and in need of a squeegee...

CLEAN-UP,TO CUBICLE FOUR!!!!

HA! I'm at home...

Hehehhee...why thanks! Yeah, people have been bugging me for a real pic for ages, but I just have this thing about not posting on the internet (ever since that porn movie debacle...kidding!!!), mostly because I'm a teacher, and you NEVER know...I've run into students at bars, why not here? That and, I'm always the one TAKING the pics...I'm in a mere handful in RL!

It's important to get away from the kids for brief intervals and chat with some adults. That's why I love General. You get to debate about things, or talk about subjects OTHER than 'who's turn is it to change this diaper,' or...'time to make a new batch of food for the kids'.Considering some of the stuff you reveal about yourself, I wouldn't be surprised if some of your students do approach you sometime... (I can see it now:"So what are balco..whatevers..?" *grin*) I doubt posting a real pic would seriously alter your chances of being discovered. :D

Sin likes to share with the hubby:)

And some of us would like to share Sin with the hubby :)

Really??? A PULL start??? Hilarious! I'm not looking for a shave ( http://www.briggsandstratton.com/) though...


Look at you, "googling" weed whackers !!

How are the weeds, anyway?
Whacked? Or all overgrown and natural?

HA! I'm at home...


Me too.
I guess you are then free to make whatever mess you are willing to clean up. Or not embarrassed to tell the cleaning woman to.

This is the only forum I post on, and I usually am the type to just lurk so I went ahead and put it up. Besides, I might be cute, but I don't think I'm porn material! :p

My computer is running really slow today...do you think you could tell me the names of some of the stores you like? I haven't shopped for 'real' lingerie (and apologies to VS fans out there, but I trash their stuff with one wear) in a long time, and I don't even know what's out there. I think I'm roughly your size.
I'm not one for shopping online, so I end up going to mall stores. La Senza has comfy stuff that can be pretty, but for more lacy, sexy stuff I like Silk & Satin or La Vie en Rose. I've also been checking out bridal shops, because although most of the stuff comes in white, they often have some pretty kinky lingerie. If you can stand always explaining, "no, this isn't for a wedding" (if you don't say that, you have to lie about the date, the place and all that), they can be good. Also, boutiques are great. If you run a search for lingerie boutiques in your town, you're bound to find some good ones. I'm terrible with brands...I never remember names, so I couldn't suggest them that way. I haven't found THE store yet...but if I do, I'll let you know!

My main advice...cut straight to the chase and ask for everything that comes in a D cup. It will save you the anguish of finding something gorgeous, only to discover it goes up to a B and that's it :(

Look at you, "googling" weed whackers !!

How are the weeds, anyway?
Whacked? Or all overgrown and natural?TMI!!!!
Please, no one answer that.

Well it's true...people go for the prettiest-wrapped present first...

...I think when it comes to lingerie, some women feel 'slutty' about it, as though dressing up like that is a bit to aggressively sexual for them, and a lot of women are still socialised to be sexually passive. It can be hard to break past that. You don't want to feel like you're just a tart in lace...you want to feel sexy, and that comes from how you FEEL in it, not necessarily how it looks on you. Attitude is key.

Yes that is true. My wife is a little uncomfortable with the idea of being sexy. Her ex cheated with a prostitute that he eventually married so sexuality is a difficult issue sometimes. And other times the issues seem to magically disappear... a woman's prerogative suppose.

And some of us would like to share Sin with the hubby :)

I'd have to bow out on that one. Shared a girl with a friend years ago. Me no likeee..
I have no problem with two females though. I comfortable if I have the only armed missle in the room.

Considering some of the stuff you reveal about yourself, I wouldn't be surprised if some of your students do approach you sometime... (I can see it now:"So what are balco..whatevers..?" *grin*) I doubt posting a real pic would seriously alter your chances of being discovered. :D
Well, I suppose you could piece together a pretty accurate profile from what I have revealed...but without the pic, I can always play dumb. Like...Sinuhue? What the heck is that? She's a native married to a Chilean with two kids who teaches Spanish too? Wow! What a coincidence!

Look at you, "googling" weed whackers !!

How are the weeds, anyway?
Whacked? Or all overgrown and natural?
Neatly trimmed. Completely whacked can be a bit uncomfortable.

TMI!!!!
Please, no one answer that.


Ha!! I feel like I have a consience now, sitting on one shoulder. Sorry, Oxwana-didnt mean to offend you-or anyone. I'm just going to get Sin's thread up to at least 600..

Wonder whos on my other shoulder?

Sure I did, but I asked for it in a non-obvious way.

And I'll thank you as well for contributing toward the momentum.

I do what I can (I say that often while grinning at an exhausted young lady with an unending smile painted on her face right before she asks why I wanted to call her Sinuhue).

[QUOTE=My main advice...cut straight to the chase and ask for everything that comes in a D cup. It will save you the anguish of finding something gorgeous, only to discover it goes up to a B and that's it :([/QUOTE]

Noted. I got a gift certificate once to a major department store (Macy's I'm looking at you, punk!) and I decided to update my lingerie, and sure enough, the really cute stuff didn't go over a C cup. Damn you Calvin Klein! I think I found a couple of things, but I'm in serious blue collar town, and Seattle being the closest place is 40 miles and apprx. 2 hours away. I may have to stick to online for now... :(

TMI!!!!
Please, no one answer that.
Sorry...too late...but what do you have against gardening? You cut those weeds too much, and they get all spiky underfoot...leave them trimmed a bit, and they tend to be softer!

Neatly trimmed. Completely whacked can be a bit uncomfortable.


Very nice. Completely whacked needs to be compeltely whacked very often. otherwise, there is a "velcro" effect and uh...divits.

Yes that is true. My wife is a little uncomfortable with the idea of being sexy. Her ex cheated with a prostitute that he eventually married so sexuality is a difficult issue sometimes. And other times the issues seem to magically disappear... a woman's prerogative suppose.
!!! Was his name Richard Gere? Sheesh! No wonder she has issues with it!

Sounds like you are very understanding though, and that works best. No point in being pushy (well...you know what I mean ;) ).

Me too.
I guess you are then free to make whatever mess you are willing to clean up. Or not embarrassed to tell the cleaning woman to.Hm... like I said... I'm in my University Library... but it is empty and I'm really close to the bathrooms and I'm on the wireless... hey! There's actually a PLUG in the bathroom!

Very nice. Completely whacked needs to be compeltely whacked very often. otherwise, there is a "velcro" effect and uh...divits.


Okay, you just made my day. :p

Wonder whos on my other shoulder?That'd be me, too. You have to catch me in the right mood.

I'd have to bow out on that one. Shared a girl with a friend years ago. Me no likeee..
I have no problem with two females though. I comfortable if I have the only armed missle in the room.
Why is that? I find that it's pretty common for guys to desire a two female, one male threesome, but feel a bit weird about the two-guy, one girl thing. It's not like we expect you to go at one another...is it just a competitive thing?

I do what I can (I say that often while grinning at an exhausted young lady with an unending smile painted on her face right before she asks why I wanted to call her Sinuhue).


Tell her that if she goes along with it and doesnt ask any questions, you'll give her a pearl necklace...

Ha!! I feel like I have a consience now, sitting on one shoulder. Sorry, Oxwana-didnt mean to offend you-or anyone. I'm just going to get Sin's thread up to at least 600..

Wonder whos on my other shoulder?
Me...don't you feel the dampness? *Sinuhue is behaving badly!*

That'd be me, too. You have to catch me in the right mood.

Ahh...a gemini,huh? I had that feeling about you like 10 pages ago.

Noted. I got a gift certificate once to a major department store (Macy's I'm looking at you, punk!) and I decided to update my lingerie, and sure enough, the really cute stuff didn't go over a C cup. Damn you Calvin Klein! I think I found a couple of things, but I'm in serious blue collar town, and Seattle being the closest place is 40 miles and apprx. 2 hours away. I may have to stick to online for now... :(
Damn Calvin Klein...he makes all his sexy stuff for little girls with itty bittys...pervert!

Me...don't you feel the dampness? *Sinuhue is behaving badly!*


thats quite alright-I tend to bring out the worst in people. lowering inhibitions, etc...
*scratching and sniffing his shoulder*

Hm... like I said... I'm in my University Library... but it is empty and I'm really close to the bathrooms and I'm on the wireless... hey! There's actually a PLUG in the bathroom!
Hehehehhehehehe....laptop in the bathroom stall.... :D

!!! Was his name Richard Gere? Sheesh! No wonder she has issues with it!

Sounds like you are very understanding though, and that works best. No point in being pushy (well...you know what I mean ;) ).


No, whole different country than anywhere he's been. As for being understanding, I try, but I'm not so sure I'm as understanding as she'd like. I try not to be pushy, but sometimes, even a hint I'm interested can be perceived as pushy. Most of the time I let her decide when, where, what, how often etc. Of course, I'm pretty much always ready, willing and able.

This is the first time I've 'seen' you today, silly!

I left tons of posts to you last night, expecting to come in this morning to lots of wonderful posts from my beloved Sinuhue (whore). I came and opened jolt with the anticipation one usually reserves for Christmas and what did I find? A lump of coal in my stocking. Why do I put up with you?

Okay, you just made my day. :p

Thanks ! I do try.

Hehehehhehehehe....laptop in the bathroom stall.... :DThe only problem is that the bathroom is BRIGHT GREEN... it gets irritating after a while. And I'd get kicked out in 20 minutes at the latest...:(

Tell her that if she goes along with it and doesnt ask any questions, you'll give her a pearl necklace...
Mmm...yes...if she lets you call her Sinuhue, let me know how that goes for ya!

Personally, I feel kind of funny saying names like, Jocabia, Carnivorous, Sdaeriji and Sumamba in the bathtub...it kind of sounds like I'm listing weird brand names.... :D

Why is that? I find that it's pretty common for guys to desire a two female, one male threesome, but feel a bit weird about the two-guy, one girl thing. It's not like we expect you to go at one another...is it just a competitive thing?


No. I'm like the Bionic Man. Bigger, stronger...

I just dont want to risk getting poked in the eye.

I left tons of posts to you last night, expecting to come in this morning to lots of wonderful posts from my beloved Sinuhue (whore). I came and opened jolt with the anticipation one usually reserves for Christmas and what did I find? A lump of coal in my stocking. Why do I put up with you?
Awww...posts in this thread? I'll go take a look:)

No. I'm like the Bionic Man. Bigger, stronger...

I just dont want to risk getting poked in the eye.
Haahahhahahaa....oh come on...that's not the reason...is it just too icky to see another man naked? If that were true, porno would be purely lesbian porn....

Mmm...yes...if she lets you call her Sinuhue, let me know how that goes for ya!

Personally, I feel kind of funny saying names like, Jocabia, Carnivorous, Sdaeriji and Sumamba in the bathtub...it kind of sounds like I'm listing weird brand names.... :DI feel left out... :(

The only problem is that the bathroom is BRIGHT GREEN... it gets irritating after a while. And I'd get kicked out in 20 minutes at the latest...:(

Yes-most responsible people will notify security after 20 minutes of thumping and panting...

No, whole different country than anywhere he's been. As for being understanding, I try, but I'm not so sure I'm as understanding as she'd like. I try not to be pushy, but sometimes, even a hint I'm interested can be perceived as pushy. Most of the time I let her decide when, where, what, how often etc. Of course, I'm pretty much always ready, willing and able.

My hubby and I used to carpool with a friend of his and we had this discussion about sexual compatibility in couples and I told him that there seem to be two types of people: Pandas and Bunnies. Panda's would probably be happy having sex once a year. Bunnies would probably be happy having sex once a day. You have to try to make sure you hook up with the same species.

Having said that you sound like a wonderful person who is trying their best to be receptive to the needs of their partner. :) Not easy, and I salute you.

No. I'm like the Bionic Man. Bigger, stronger...

I just dont want to risk getting poked in the eye.


So... you know. The sound effect... do you come with the sound effect?

t-t-t-t-t-t-t-ttttttttt

That would be absolutely awesome.


Anyway. Sinuhue, how could you? totally sullied the pure image I had of you.
*not that I ever really had it, but never mind.*
I think I'll need to make notes.

Yes-most responsible people will notify security after 20 minutes of thumping and panting...Nah, that's when the library closes. Announcements have already started...

Hehehhee...why thanks! Yeah, people have been bugging me for a real pic for ages, but I just have this thing about not posting on the internet (ever since that porn movie debacle...kidding!!!), mostly because I'm a teacher, and you NEVER know...I've run into students at bars, why not here? That and, I'm always the one TAKING the pics...I'm in a mere handful in RL!

Some of us are just very visual people. I always want to know what people look like. I watch the picture thread like a hawk. I'm always looking to see if people match what I've decided they look like in my mind.

You should count your blessings and just hook me up with a pic, baby. Imagine the kind of crazy shit I'd be asking for if I were a tactile person.

My hubby and I used to carpool with a friend of his and we had this discussion about sexual compatibility in couples and I told him that there seem to be two types of people: Pandas and Bunnies. Panda's would probably be happy having sex once a year. Bunnies would probably be happy having sex once a day. You have to try to make sure you hook up with the same species.

Having said that you sound like a wonderful person who is trying their best to be receptive to the needs of their partner. :) Not easy, and I salute you.Only once? :confused:

My hubby and I used to carpool with a friend of his and we had this discussion about sexual compatibility in couples and I told him that there seem to be two types of people: Pandas and Bunnies. Panda's would probably be happy having sex once a year. Bunnies would probably be happy having sex once a day. You have to try to make sure you hook up with the same species.

Having said that you sound like a wonderful person who is trying their best to be receptive to the needs of their partner. :) Not easy, and I salute you.

While I agree that things tend to happen that way, I am of the opinion that Pandas are Pandas due to trauma or unfortunate social learning and where not created to be such naturally.

Mom and Dad can move their own crap, I'd be hitting that bullseye every night. Sometimes in the morning too. The wood sometimes seems harder in the am.
W00T only twice a day? I could hook you up with some exes that just couldn't cut it with me.

Argh! It's so tantalizing! Stoppit! I'm in a public library for God's sake!

Awwww, thats to bad.

And indeed, women do go lingerie shopping together a lot! I enjoy going with my good friends, and letting everyone try things on, seeing what looks good on someone else lets you know what might look good on you, :).

Haahahhahahaa....oh come on...that's not the reason...is it just too icky to see another man naked? If that were true, porno would be purely lesbian porn....


Yeah- its not a competition thing. I'm really secure in that area.

I dont want another loaded weapon in the room. I want to have the hairiest ass in the room.

And I am terrified to be a contestant in the game of "Guess whose wet spot you're in!!"

I feel left out... :(
Ah hell...it's only fantasy...why not an extra appendage? Laerod it is:)

Some of us are just very visual people. I always want to know what people look like. I watch the picture thread like a hawk. I'm always looking to see if people match what I've decided they look like in my mind.

You should count your blessings and just hook me up with a pic, baby. Imagine the kind of crazy shit I'd be asking for if I were a tactile person.

Sdaeriji-Welcome home-its been too long, we missed you.

Ah hell...it's only fantasy...why not an extra appendage? Laerod it is:)YES! This is going right next to the "you're bloody cute" quote from TInk... :D

Anyway. Sinuhue, how could you? totally sullied the pure image I had of you.
*not that I ever really had it, but never mind.*
I think I'll need to make notes.
JORDI!!!! I've missed you! And we all know I never had a pure image:) Just look at me flirting we all these people...sheesh...I'm looking like uber-hussy!

W00T only twice a day? I could hook you up with some exes that just couldn't cut it with me.

Hey, I'm 38, married with three kids. I work at least 50 hours a week, sometimes more.
Averaging 6 times a week and an occasional hummer is quite a feat.

Only once? :confused:

Well, once a day every day...it's an average. :p

So... you know. The sound effect... do you come with the sound effect?

That would be absolutely awesome.



Well if coming with some grunting and snarling is a sound effect, then yes-absolutely awesome.

Some of us are just very visual people. I always want to know what people look like. I watch the picture thread like a hawk. I'm always looking to see if people match what I've decided they look like in my mind.

You should count your blessings and just hook me up with a pic, baby. Imagine the kind of crazy shit I'd be asking for if I were a tactile person.Hehehehee...well, you'd be paying the postage for the undies, let me tell ya!

I like leaving things to the imagination. I rely on that much more than the visual aspect of things to get me...um...stimulated:)

JORDI!!!! I've missed you! And we all know I never had a pure image:) Just look at me flirting we all these people...sheesh...I'm looking like uber-hussy!

does ueber-hussy come with X-ray vision?

And yeah, I responded to the tellygram you sent. I've just looking for a moment to make a post.

While I agree that things tend to happen that way, I am of the opinion that Pandas are Pandas due to trauma or unfortunate social learning and where not created to be such naturally.


For women it can also be a hormonal shift. I remember telling my doctor that I felt old because my sex drive was waning and he put me on a few different things and it actually perked me right back up. Hubby was happier too.

My hubby and I used to carpool with a friend of his and we had this discussion about sexual compatibility in couples and I told him that there seem to be two types of people: Pandas and Bunnies. Panda's would probably be happy having sex once a year. Bunnies would probably be happy having sex once a day. You have to try to make sure you hook up with the same species.

Having said that you sound like a wonderful person who is trying their best to be receptive to the needs of their partner. :) Not easy, and I salute you.

I definately need to be paired up with a "bunny"! Although I dunno if once a day would cut it....hmmm. At least not once a day all the time...things need to be spiced up a bit.

While I agree that things tend to happen that way, I am of the opinion that Pandas are Pandas due to trauma or unfortunate social learning and where not created to be such naturally.
Or other immediate factors, like exhaustion, uninspiring sex (I mean, why would you want more of that kind of sex?), stress etc. I was a panda for a few years, but in my heart I've always been a bunny. I'm not sure that everyone is, deep down...I've met some pretty asexual people, and I don't know if they are like that for outside reasons or not. Still, I suspect that most of us are bunnies...and the more you get the more you want...

Ha!! I feel like I have a consience now, sitting on one shoulder. Sorry, Oxwana-didnt mean to offend you-or anyone. I'm just going to get Sin's thread up to at least 600..

Wonder whos on my other shoulder?

heh, heh, heh, ask her for more detail.

For women it can also be a hormonal shift. I remember telling my doctor that I felt old because my sex drive was waning and he put me on a few different things and it actually perked me right back up. Hubby was happier too.


Sometimes, the less often women have sex, the less often they want to. Dont let them forget what its like. Go the extra mile to give them what they'll never forget.

YES! This is going right next to the "you're bloody cute" quote from TInk... :D
You know, in my mind your name is pronounce 'Le Rod'...hehehehehhee

I loooooove bunnies....

Hey, I'm 38, married with three kids. I work at least 50 hours a week, sometimes more.
Averaging 6 times a week and an occasional hummer is quite a feat.
Exactly. My most active days were when I was a student...all my time was my own, and I could skip class if necessary. Long nights were fine, because I didn't have to be to class until 10:00. Life is not so carefree, and frolicking is confined to times when there is some privacy (rare) and energy.:(

*does double take* Hey...six times a week is still pretty damn respectable!!!

You know, in my mind your name is pronounce 'Le Rod'...hehehehehhee


That crossed my mind earlier..

For women it can also be a hormonal shift. I remember telling my doctor that I felt old because my sex drive was waning and he put me on a few different things and it actually perked me right back up. Hubby was happier too.
Hmmmm....I probably could have used that for a while...especially after the first child. But again, I think exhaustion and stress (in the relationship and otherwise) had more to do with it. Still...like viagra for chicks? Interesting!

Exactly. My most active days were when I was a student...all my time was my own, and I could skip class if necessary. Long nights were fine, because I didn't have to be to class until 10:00. Life is not so carefree, and frolicking is confined to times when there is some privacy (rare) and energy.:(

*does double take* Hey...six times a week is still pretty damn respectable!!!

I often wake up in the middle of the night thinking about it...there is usually a moment or two of protest, but that passes really quickly.

Sometimes, the less often women have sex, the less often they want to. Dont let them forget what its like. Go the extra mile to give them what they'll never forget.


Hmmm, I don't think I fit that profile. My hubby (who I shall henceforth call AlphaGeek) and I just can't all the time like we used to because we have a baby that wakes up about 3-4 times a night and our 3-year old sometimes comes in our room in the early a.m. to have snuggles due to his night terrors. It's really a matter of time and place for us. *sigh* AlphaGeek is very good at what he does, and I miss the frequency and ease with which we were able to enjoy each other before we had kids.

Sometimes, the less often women have sex, the less often they want to. Dont let them forget what its like. Go the extra mile to give them what they'll never forget.
That is totally true. I think it's a survival mechanism for 'dry periods':) At first, without, you're climbing the walls, and then after a while, it's like 'meh, I've got icecream', and finally, you could care less. That's just dangerous! BATTERIES WOMEN! People who have regular sex are more healthy, and it doesn't have to be a twosome:) A ménage-a-une works too:)

You know, in my mind your name is pronounce 'Le Rod'...hehehehehhee

Haha. Your name could fit perfectly into the song by Labelle, :).

Voulez vous coucher avec moi ce soir, Le Rod?

Hmmmm....I probably could have used that for a while...especially after the first child. But again, I think exhaustion and stress (in the relationship and otherwise) had more to do with it. Still...like viagra for chicks? Interesting!


Viagra?!! HA HA HA!! No, just a good multivitamin, Vitex and thyroid medication. Worked like a charm. We were back to twice a day in no time. :)

Hey, I'm 38, married with three kids. I work at least 50 hours a week, sometimes more.
Averaging 6 times a week and an occasional hummer is quite a feat.

I'm over 30 and between charity, sports and work keep VERY busy, but I hardly ever sleep and would gladly substitute my time on here (sorry Sin) for some good, healthy loving.

I often wake up in the middle of the night thinking about it...there is usually a moment or two of protest, but that passes really quickly.
Yeah, the night thing was a big problem for us for a while, because I hated being woken up, seeing as how I got so little sleep as it was. In return for the inconvenience, he's makes sure it's worth it:) Of course, he'd like it if I'd wake him up that way, but it's not all that common that I wake up stimulated enough to banish sleep. :( I get the feeling that as much as I do partake in fleshy pleasures, I could never 'max' out my man. Sheesh!

That is totally true. I think it's a survival mechanism for 'dry periods':) At first, without, you're climbing the walls, and then after a while, it's like 'meh, I've got icecream', and finally, you could care less. That's just dangerous! BATTERIES WOMEN! People who have regular sex are more healthy, and it doesn't have to be a twosome:) A ménage-a-une works too:)

HA! I have so many female friends who would say, "YEAH! You tell 'em, sister!" to that one. That is totally true (especially, the ice cream part).

Hmmm, I don't think I fit that profile. My hubby (who I shall henceforth call AlphaGeek) and I just can't all the time like we used to because we have a baby that wakes up about 3-4 times a night and our 3-year old sometimes comes in our room in the early a.m. to have snuggles due to his night terrors. It's really a matter of time and place for us. *sigh* AlphaGeek is very good at what he does, and I miss the frequency and ease with which we were able to enjoy each other before we had kids.
Your kids are the same age as mine I think...and same problems. The baby sleeps in her playpen in my room, though I think I need to move her out, and the 3 year old is always coming in during the night. I don't want to start locking the door and having her get really freaked out. It's not such a big thing with my people for kids to catch you having sex...they shrug and go away...but my daughter is too damn inquisitive, and I know she WOULDN'T go away. So. When hubby is home, I'll come home at lunch for some fun, or we'll sneak off downstairs while they're (rarely) napping...and last time he came home we got a hotel room for the weekend. It's a lot more effort now, but things get too strained if we DON'T make the effort. I'm fine with not having once-a-day sex, (well, not fine, but okay with for now), as long as we make good use of the times we do manage to find.

Hmmm, I don't think I fit that profile. My hubby (who I shall henceforth call AlphaGeek) and I just can't all the time like we used to because we have a baby that wakes up about 3-4 times a night and our 3-year old sometimes comes in our room in the early a.m. to have snuggles due to his night terrors. It's really a matter of time and place for us. *sigh* AlphaGeek is very good at what he does, and I miss the frequency and ease with which we were able to enjoy each other before we had kids.


I know that feeling- we are blessed on the third child- she is 19 mos old and she goes in to bed by 8pm and almost always sleeps soundly til 7 or 8am.
Sometimes, sleep is more desireable. but, I found if you do have sex, you always find plenty of energy once aroused and sleep more soundly afterwards. Which means you had better remember to cover up again afterwards, or you'll fall asleep and you know your three year old will wander in.
Can you leave your children with a friend or relative yet? For one night or even one afternoon and evening? You could have a lot of well-deserved fun in a nearby nice hotel- some room service, a whirlpool bath and lovemaking as every other activity. Pick up a bottle of champagne and some choclates on the way. My wife and I try to do that every so often. Its not like its an extravegance-it keeps sanity, strengthens our bond and is something private we look foward to.
And having something to look foward to together is healthy...

I'm over 30 and between charity, sports and work keep VERY busy, but I hardly ever sleep and would gladly substitute my time on here (sorry Sin) for some good, healthy loving.
So would I...but I'm at work while I'm on General, so that wouldn't actually be possible :(

Haha. Your name could fit perfectly into the song by Labelle, :).

Voulez vous coucher avec moi ce soir, Le Rod?


thats ABBA's song, damnit!

Hehehehee...well, you'd be paying the postage for the undies, let me tell ya!

I like leaving things to the imagination. I rely on that much more than the visual aspect of things to get me...um...stimulated:)

I'll pay the postage for the undies now.

I'm over 30 and between charity, sports and work keep VERY busy, but I hardly ever sleep and would gladly substitute my time on here (sorry Sin) for some good, healthy loving.

Look at you, trying to get laid with charity work !

as we surge toward 600.. Who'da thought it?

thats ABBA's song, damnit!

Or ABBA or whoever!

Hush...:)

Sometimes, sleep is more desireable. but, I found if you do have sex, you always find plenty of energy once aroused and sleep more soundly afterwards.

That's also very true. I was surprised to realise this...I've always been a light sleeper, and since the girls were born, I sleep terribly, every night. So I thought that the time out of sleeping would make it worse, but it actually helps!


Can you leave your children with a friend or relative yet? For one night or even one afternoon and evening? You could have a lot of well-deserved fun in a nearby nice hotel- some room service, a whirlpool bath and lovemaking as every other activity. Pick up a bottle of champagne and some choclates on the way. My wife and I try to do that every so often. Its not like its an extravegance-it keeps sanity, strengthens our bond and is something private we look foward to.
And having something to look foward to together is healthy...
Yup. Right now I'm trying to find a babysitter I can leave the kids with, rather than one that comes to my home. I get weird looks...I mean, people usually want a babysitter so they can go OUT, and we want one so we can stay IN...but it could get really expensive if we had to rent a room all the time, when we have a perfectly functional home of our own!

And as for strengthening the bond...wow. I'm a firm believer now. When we weren't having regular sex, we used to get so crabby at each other, and it was easy for things to escalate, because we were both unsatisfied, and not feeling too tender towards one another. Once things picked up again, with some serious effort on both our parts, I found I just couldn't get as mad at him anymore. And visa versa. We could more readily admit when we were wrong, and apologise. Weird, but hey, whatever keeps your relationship going! It's a lot cheaper than therapy:)

So would I...but I'm at work while I'm on General, so that wouldn't actually be possible :(

Sadly unimaginatve.

It's a lot cheaper than therapy:)

Not if you really get extravagant. :p

Yeah, the night thing was a big problem for us for a while, because I hated being woken up, seeing as how I got so little sleep as it was.


I havent yet met one of you that likes to be awakened, but have yet to be effectively repelled. There is always the moment of resistance, but you have to quickly remind them that it is more fun than sleep.
What do you really want?

Intense pleasure or unconsiousness?

And my wife is multi-orgasmic, so its never just a 10 minute thing..

I know that feeling- we are blessed on the third child- she is 19 mos old and she goes in to bed by 8pm and almost always sleeps soundly til 7 or 8am.
Sometimes, sleep is more desireable. but, I found if you do have sex, you always find plenty of energy once aroused and sleep more soundly afterwards. Which means you had better remember to cover up again afterwards, or you'll fall asleep and you know your three year old will wander in.
Can you leave your children with a friend or relative yet? For one night or even one afternoon and evening? You could have a lot of well-deserved fun in a nearby nice hotel- some room service, a whirlpool bath and lovemaking as every other activity. Pick up a bottle of champagne and some choclates on the way. My wife and I try to do that every so often. Its not like its an extravegance-it keeps sanity, strengthens our bond and is something private we look foward to.
And having something to look foward to together is healthy...

I think it wouldn't be so hard if the baby were done nursing, which she isn't. That's why she's getting up at night. Her teeth are starting to come in and the painkillers just aren't doing it so she wants to nurse.
We have a whole weekend planned for as soon as she is weaned...

Or ABBA or whoever!

Hush...:)

Mmmmm...are you a girl?

I like it when you say "Hush".... *L*

Look at you, trying to get laid with charity work !

I wish I met women through that, but hardly ever. In the charity I do to raise money for the theatre, I'm the youngest by at least ten years. Other charities are often physical tasks that I do for schools, daycare centers and the like after hours and alone. Great time to organize thoughts (I carry a tape recorder with me for notes).

I mean, um, yeah, that's why I do it.

Mmmmm...are you a girl?

I like it when you say "Hush".... *L*

I am a girl. Amazing :)

I think it wouldn't be so hard if the baby were done nursing, which she isn't. That's why she's getting up at night. Her teeth are starting to come in and the painkillers just aren't doing it so she wants to nurse.
We have a whole weekend planned for as soon as she is weaned...

So- you do have something you're already looking foward to.

Its tough when you have young children- it takes a lot of energy to care for them and you always put them first-rightfully so.

You have to let your husband nurse a little too. You and he might both like that.

I am a girl. Amazing :)

thanks for being a good sport.

thanks for being a good sport.

Always, ;)

What do you really want?

Intense pleasure or unconsiousness?

And my wife is multi-orgasmic, so its never just a 10 minute thing..
Hmmmm...I find I get a wee bit too sensitive after the big O, so I generally just let it ebb and flow until he's just about ready to pop too. But when I finally do let myself go, I sometimes wonder if I'm going to break my back in the process...and the ten minute tumbles are a thing of the distant past:)

AlphaGeek and I were the first couple out of our friends to get married, so I got asked for advice a lot and all I could tell people was to work at it every day. I don't think they realized exactly what I meant!

Chocolates are good, but one of the best nights in AG and I had was one New Year when we bought an expensive bottle of champagne and some fresh crab and feasted on that. Our son was still in his crib and in his own room so we didn't have to worry about him wandering in. I think I resurrected my leather bodysuit for the occasion. It had snaps underneath and cut-out cups so access wasn't an issue either. Ahhhh, good times!

I miss those days. :(

I think it wouldn't be so hard if the baby were done nursing, which she isn't. That's why she's getting up at night. Her teeth are starting to come in and the painkillers just aren't doing it so she wants to nurse.
We have a whole weekend planned for as soon as she is weaned...
I weaned the first one when the second was born...so for about two years. The second one was weaned at 15 months because she was waking me up like five or six times a night...and damn it, she was eating fine, and my husband wanted my boobs back:)

Right, I'm back. What did I miss?

So- you do have something you're already looking foward to.

Its tough when you have young children- it takes a lot of energy to care for them and you always put them first-rightfully so.

You have to let your husband nurse a little too. You and he might both like that.

Sadly, it is not in the cards. My daughter is the worlds worst nurser. She doesn't open her mouth enough, hence my nipple is nearly squished flat by that bear trap she calls a mouth. Also, she likes to bite and pull. I reconciled myself a while ago to the fact that nursing her was never going to be comfortable like it was with my son. For just that reason, poor AG doesn't really get to be near my chest too often. :(

I miss those days. :(
Don't miss them...fork out the babysitting cash and spend the time necessary with a breast pump so the baby will be fine without you for a night....and make them your 'night out':)

Sadly, it is not in the cards. My daughter is the worlds worst nurser. She doesn't open her mouth enough, hence my nipple is nearly squished flat by that bear trap she calls a mouth. Also, she likes to bite and pull. I reconciled myself a while ago to the fact that nursing her was never going to be comfortable like it was with my son. For just that reason, poor AG doesn't really get to be near my chest too often. :(


Not even to put some lotion on for you?

my problem is, the line between pleasure and pain is blurred.

oh, we have a pump, I was attached to it for many hours shortly after she was born. We've tried having AG give her a bottle and she just keeps crying until she gets me. It's okay, we know it's just a matter of time until it's just us again.

AlphaGeek and I were the first couple out of our friends to get married, so I got asked for advice a lot and all I could tell people was to work at it every day. I don't think they realized exactly what I meant!

Chocolates are good, but one of the best nights in AG and I had was one New Year when we bought an expensive bottle of champagne and some fresh crab and feasted on that. Our son was still in his crib and in his own room so we didn't have to worry about him wandering in. I think I resurrected my leather bodysuit for the occasion. It had snaps underneath and cut-out cups so access wasn't an issue either. Ahhhh, good times!

I miss those days. :(


A leather body suit-Thank you-you just made my day!

Hmmmm...I find I get a wee bit too sensitive after the big O, so I generally just let it ebb and flow until he's just about ready to pop too. But when I finally do let myself go, I sometimes wonder if I'm going to break my back in the process...and the ten minute tumbles are a thing of the distant past:)

Well imagine one, sometimes followed almost immediately by another. We have counted 15 before, but neither one has cared to keep count after that.
We are both pretty lucky.

oh, we have a pump, I was attached to it for many hours shortly after she was born. We've tried having AG give her a bottle and she just keeps crying until she gets me. It's okay, we know it's just a matter of time until it's just us again.
Yeah, the pump didn't work for me too. The baby got too weirded out by the bottle and wouldn't drink...and it's a lot of effort to express that much milk.

Ah well...at least you know there is light at the end of the tunnel:) And kids don't stay quite this needy for long. (so people tell me....I hope they aren't lying!)

Well imagine one, sometimes followed almost immediately by another. We have counted 15 before, but neither one has cared to keep count after that.
We are both pretty lucky.
Wow! (is envious) I'm a two-limit girl. After that I can't be touched. I'm sensitive from head to toe, and even the gentlest caress is near-agony.

Wow! (is envious) I'm a two-limit girl. After that I can't be touched. I'm sensitive from head to toe, and even the gentlest caress is near-agony.My condolences. When I did it with my girlfriend I'd be ashamed of myself if I managed less than five for her before I came round (foreplay not included).

Wow! (is envious) I'm a two-limit girl. After that I can't be touched. I'm sensitive from head to toe, and even the gentlest caress is near-agony.

Well, what about us guys who are occasionally capable of multiples.

Well, what about us guys who are occasionally capable of multiples.

How many are you capable of?

Well, what about us guys who are occasionally capable of multiples.


I'm lucky to hit #2 a half hour or so after # one, if I am still awake. It takes a lot of concentration.

Well, what about us guys who are occasionally capable of multiples. :mad: Lucky bastard... Grrr

Wow! (is envious) I'm a two-limit girl. After that I can't be touched. I'm sensitive from head to toe, and even the gentlest caress is near-agony.

I know-I think you are more the norm, from my experiences before my wife. I told her she is lucky and even joke that she is faking them.

Well, what about us guys who are occasionally capable of multiples.
Well...that is definitely an asset:)

And Laerod...don't feel bad for me. Trust me, the magnitude of my near-back-breaking orgasms are nothing to be sad about!

Right, I'm back. What did I miss?

Nothing much, besides sore boobs and multiple orgasms. And you're post #600-Congratulations!!!

And oh-yeah- En francais, "Laerod" es "The Rod".

Well, what about us guys who are occasionally capable of multiples.

Yeah, how do you think stucco was conceived?

Right, I'm back. What did I miss?
Wait a minute...back from the bathroom stall? :D

Nothing much, besides sore boobs and multiple orgasms. And you're post #600-Congratulations!!!

And oh-yeah- En francais, "Laerod" es "The Rod".Wouldn't that be "est" and not "es"? ;)
My name is actually purely coincidental. I wanted a country with an AE and somehow an L for starters didn't seem all that bad. Sore boobs! Oh, no! Maybe I should have gone for a pizza in the Brasserie! I woulda had wireless there!

Wait a minute...back from the bathroom stall? :D
No. Back online. I would have had wireless in the bathroom, plus the library closed an hour ago. I went home to eat, and the university wireless just barely doesn't make it to my room. I'm sitting outside within range of the WLAN on my € 2.50 camping chair, hoping that the security guard that keeps walking by won't ask what I'm doing.

Wouldn't that be "est" and not "es"? ;)
My name is actually purely coincidental. I wanted a country with an AE and somehow an L for starters didn't seem all that bad. Sore boobs! Oh, no! Maybe I should have gone for a pizza in the Brasserie! I woulda had wireless there!

AE combos rule. SdAEriji

Hey, speaking of sore boobs...are guys actually into...um...enjoying them in that way? It seems to be a reoccurring theme in newer adult movies. And with or without a nice satin bra?

Wouldn't that be "est" and not "es"? ;)
My name is actually purely coincidental. I wanted a country with an AE and somehow an L for starters didn't seem all that bad. Sore boobs! Oh, no! Maybe I should have gone for a pizza in the Brasserie! I woulda had wireless there!

Yest- You got me. I sometimes confuse french and spanish. My mind can only hold so much.

We know all your women friends call you "the Rod".

Hey, speaking of sore boobs...are guys actually into...um...enjoying them in that way? It seems to be a reoccurring theme in newer adult movies. And with or without a nice satin bra?The only really kinky thing I've done with boobs was have my girlfriend read "My Secret Garden" out loud while I suckled on her breasts.

Hey, speaking of sore boobs...are guys actually into...um...enjoying them in that way? It seems to be a reoccurring theme in newer adult movies. And with or without a nice satin bra?

OH!

I get it.

Yes.

Hey, speaking of sore boobs...are guys actually into...um...enjoying them in that way? It seems to be a reoccurring theme in newer adult movies. And with or without a nice satin bra?


Of course!

Thats a good way to earn your pearl necklace I spoke of earlier!!

Sucking in general, or specifically when a woman's lactating?


I had the feeling she meant going the distance with them

AE combos rule. SdAEriji

YOU rule, ;)

Yest- You got me. I sometimes confuse french and spanish. My mind can only hold so much.

We know all your women friends call you "the Rod".Meh, I wish. I was still virgin until the end of last year. But I did a lot of catching up :D

Meh, I wish. I was still virgin until the end of last year. But I did a lot of catching up :D


And catching up is good.

and the more you get the more you want...

At the very least, my wife believes this applies to me. I believe there can be too much, but I'm a long way from that threshold.

Hey, speaking of sore boobs...are guys actually into...um...enjoying them in that way? It seems to be a reoccurring theme in newer adult movies. And with or without a nice satin bra?


YES

At the very least, my wife believes this applies to me. I believe there can be too much, but I'm a long way from that threshold.
I agree that the threshold point is different for men and women. I'm sure there are biological reasons for this. And yet...women can last much longer...it's just not fair. It'd be nicer if we were more evenly matched in desire and durability!

YES
Well, hi there! That was an emphatic entrance!

Nice to know...*puts on to do list*

I had the feeling she meant going the distance with them

Yeah, I picked that up a split second after I posted. :)

I don't like anything on my lover during forplay, ESPECIALLY stuff like shoes, or clothes made for sex/foreplay like lingerie.

What about things you guys never get to do, that you really want to....are there any common fantasies guys talk about in locker rooms and such that few get to fulfill?

I don't like anything on my lover during forplay, ESPECIALLY stuff like shoes, or clothes made for sex/foreplay like lingerie.
Do you like that stuff on BEFORE foreplay? Like for the sake of arousal? Or does it just not do anything for you?

And anymore, I don't see a difference between foreplay and just plain play. I mean, you may divide a meal into appetizer, entree and dessert, but when it comes down to it, it's all part of the meal!

I don't like anything on my lover during forplay, ESPECIALLY stuff like shoes, or clothes made for sex/foreplay like lingerie.I found that tying her hands behind her back while she's still clothed and then taking her pants off to spank her was quite kinky (since she couldn't take the shirt off). The shirt stayed on until after her first O after which I cut the cable binder that restrained her.

I found that tying her hands behind her back while she's still clothed and then taking her pants off to spank her was quite kinky (since she couldn't take the shirt off). The shirt stayed on until after her first O after which I cut the cable binder that restrained her.
restraints...*gets weak in the knees*

What about things you guys never get to do, that you really want to....are there any common fantasies guys talk about in locker rooms and such that few get to fulfill?

Yes, there are.

What about things you guys never get to do, that you really want to....are there any common fantasies guys talk about in locker rooms and such that few get to fulfill?Come to think of it, I've only ever discussed it with girls in private conversations. But then again I wasn't all that integrated in the social groups at my school.

I found that tying her hands behind her back while she's still clothed and then taking her pants off to spank her was quite kinky (since she couldn't take the shirt off). The shirt stayed on until after her first O after which I cut the cable binder that restrained her.

*gasp*

Me likes :)

restraints...*gets weak in the knees*Consider it payback for what you and Aerou were doing to me while I was still in the library :D

Yes, there are.
Grrr....fess up!!! :D

I agree that the threshold point is different for men and women. I'm sure there are biological reasons for this. And yet...women can last much longer...it's just not fair. It'd be nicer if we were more evenly matched in desire and durability!

I'm with you on the desire part, but I think the durability issues is as much a mental issue for men as the desire part is. The number of men who have trained themselves to be multi-orgasmic and to have the ability to maintain a nearly indefinite -------- (don't know if I can say that word here) may be small, but we do exist. It just takes a little faith and practice. ;)

Consider it payback for what you and Aerou were doing to me while I was still in the library :D

Awww, no girl-on-girl for you while you're in a public library? ;)

Grrr....fess up!!! :D

Well, I don't know if mine are common or not, and being a young teenager I wouldn't really know how many of these are fulfilled, but, one of mine is a three-way wih Eva Longoria and Beyonce (or any two highly attractive women), and when I'm done, they start making out. Wow, even talking about it is getting me hot. :D There are others, but I don't want to get myself all worked up. ;)

Consider it payback for what you and Aerou were doing to me while I was still in the library :D

HA!

Awww, no girl-on-girl for while you're in a public library? ;)I spose it's ok. It's the end of the semester and the fifth floor is rather empty this time of day. But now I'm outside and it's dark. And I can cover anything I need to by shifting my laptop to a different location... :p

There are others, but I don't want to get myself all worked up. ;)
Well if guys don't talk, women don't know...well, aside from the obvious ones, like the girl on girl fantasy:) And I keep saying I don't want to get worked up either, but Carnivorous keeps jumping in with something I can't avoid getting worked up over!

What about things you guys never get to do, that you really want to....are there any common fantasies guys talk about in locker rooms and such that few get to fulfill?


I get to do it all! :D

Well actually I don't get to have other bisexual guys join us nearly enough because they are hard to find. But I do get to have it once in a while.

I spose it's ok. It's the end of the semester and the fifth floor is rather empty this time of day. But now I'm outside and it's dark. And I can cover anything I need to by shifting my laptop to a different location... :p
*wiggles eyebrows and jumps Aerou*
Hehehee...better not turn this into a cyberorgy...(even though the Paradise Club sometimes looks like one:))

I think ya'll need to take a cold shower or something before this turns into a group orgy and I have to take my puritanical self out of this thread. :( :p

I spose it's ok. It's the end of the semester and the fifth floor is rather empty this time of day. But now I'm outside and it's dark. And I can cover anything I need to by shifting my laptop to a different location... :p

Hehehehe.

Although if Sinuhue and I were to "get it on" we'd be physically opposites. Since I'm fair skinned, blue eyed, and blonde. Although we'd be the same height and somewhat the same weight I would imagine. This is starting to sound fun :).

*wiggles eyebrows and jumps Aerou*
Hehehee...better not turn this into a cyberorgy...(even though the Paradise Club sometimes looks like one:))

You know I am automatically involved in any orgies Aerou gets into, right?

Well if guys don't talk, women don't know...well, aside from the obvious ones, like the girl on girl fantasy:) And I keep saying I don't want to get worked up either, but Carnivorous keeps jumping in with something I can't avoid getting worked up over!Hey, women aren't exactly forthcoming on information either. Makes me glad I had copies of "My Secret Garden". After having read that, I managed to get started talking about fantasies with my girlfriend pretty much right away. We discovered our complementary desires for our spanking situations nice and early :D

Well if guys don't talk, women don't know...well, aside from the obvious ones, like the girl on girl fantasy:) And I keep saying I don't want to get worked up either, but Carnivorous keeps jumping in with something I can't avoid getting worked up over!

Well, all guys are different. Some have this freakish like for S&M, which others, like mysexyself, find really weird. It depends on the guy. I, however, happen to like a little striptease for foreplay.

I think ya'll need to take a cold shower or something before this turns into a group orgy and I have to take my puritanical self out of this thread. :( :pDon't worry. I live too far away from the rest of them for it to work out... :p

I agree that the threshold point is different for men and women. I'm sure there are biological reasons for this. And yet...women can last much longer...it's just not fair. It'd be nicer if we were more evenly matched in desire and durability!

Oh, bs, depends on the woman, depends on the guy.

I think ya'll need to take a cold shower or something before this turns into a group orgy and I have to take my puritanical self out of this thread. :( :p
translation *cut me in!*

I'm with you on the desire part, but I think the durability issues is as much a mental issue for men as the desire part is. The number of men who have trained themselves to be multi-orgasmic and to have the ability to maintain a nearly indefinite -------- (don't know if I can say that word here) may be small, but we do exist. It just takes a little faith and practice. ;)

maintaining isnt the concern, its accomplishing second and third. After a while, its all achey.

As far as maintaining turgidity in the spongy mesophyll-years of practice and kegels.

What about things you guys never get to do, that you really want to....are there any common fantasies guys talk about in locker rooms and such that few get to fulfill?

Hooking up with you, right fellas?

I agree that the threshold point is different for men and women. I'm sure there are biological reasons for this. And yet...women can last much longer...it's just not fair. It'd be nicer if we were more evenly matched in desire and durability!

I heard porn decreases a guys libido....

Don't worry. I live too far away from the rest of them for it to work out... :p

Actually, it isn't my place to impose my morality on you all, so if you want an orgy, I'll just have to leave and come back later. :)

Hey, women aren't exactly forthcoming on information either. Makes me glad I had copies of "My Secret Garden". After having read that, I managed to get started talking about fantasies with my girlfriend pretty much right away. We discovered our complementary desires for our spanking situations nice and early :D
The Secret Garden I read was about an orphan girl who ended up living in her weird uncle's mansion...it was a kid's book, and I am most intrigued by this OTHER Secret Garden. Have you read the Story of O? Or Emmanuelle? Quite interesting those French are...

Hooking up with you, right fellas?

Indeed. The Pocahontas fantasy is prevalent in my social circles.

Hooking up with you, right fellas?


Here here!!!!! I luff and lust for Sinner <3

Well if guys don't talk, women don't know...well, aside from the obvious ones, like the girl on girl fantasy:) And I keep saying I don't want to get worked up either, but Carnivorous keeps jumping in with something I can't avoid getting worked up over!


I think its bleeding obvious to all women that most men like when you play the wood wind instrument.

maintaining isnt the concern, its accomplishing second and third. After a while, its all achey.

As far as maintaining turgidity in the spongy mesophyll-years of practice and kegels.

Speak for yourself ;) I've never gotten to the point I was desiring to quitfor physiological reasons.

I heard porn decreases a guys libido....


I have proven that untrue-in my case, at least. Porn several times a day hasnt done it. I'm only finding it increases interest and variations.

Hmmmm....I just looked up My Secret Garden...I think I'll have to purchase it. It's quite interesting that my husband, who hates reading, and almost never bothers, has suddenly become a voracious reader of erotica. He's getting all sorts of great ideas, and hey, literacy is good! The more decent erotica I can find, the better! Any more titles people can think of?

Its time for me to go eat.
I feel there is sufficient momentum to carry you well past 700.

All this over a little satin and lace...

Oh, bs, depends on the woman, depends on the guy.
Now now...I'm talking very basic, procreative sex here. Of course, more skill means it lasts more...but when you just look at basic functions, the man reaches orgasm much more easily than women, and for good reason. How many less kids would be born if it took twenty minutes for a man to reach orgasm?

Hmmmm....I just looked up My Secret Garden...I think I'll have to purchase it. It's quite interesting that my husband, who hates reading, and almost never bothers, has suddenly become a voracious reader of erotica. He's getting all sorts of great ideas, and hey, literacy is good! The more decent erotica I can find, the better! Any more titles people can think of?


Yeah- "For Whom the Bell Tolls" by Hemmingway. Its really hot.

Hmmmm....I just looked up My Secret Garden...I think I'll have to purchase it. It's quite interesting that my husband, who hates reading, and almost never bothers, has suddenly become a voracious reader of erotica. He's getting all sorts of great ideas, and hey, literacy is good! The more decent erotica I can find, the better! Any more titles people can think of?


What "erotica" do men read? Penthouse Forum? :p

translation *cut me in!*

Actual translation, I'm a little uncomfortable when we move towards talking about what we're doing currently of a sexual nature verses discussing who we are as sexual people. It moves from communication to sexual action. And, although I am very uninhibited when it comes to talking about myself or in terms of what I will do in what I consider to be a morally acceptable relationship, I'm not comfortable having a sexual relationship, mentally or physically with anyone other than my wife.

I think its bleeding obvious to all women that most men like when you play the wood wind instrument.
...and as with most things, I suspect we don't do it as often as you'd like:)

Actual translation, I'm a little uncomfortable when we move towards talking about what we're doing currently of a sexual nature verses discussing who we are as sexual people. It moves from communication to sexual action. And, although I am very uninhibited when it comes to talking about myself or in terms of what I will do in what I consider to be a morally acceptable relationship, I'm not comfortable having a sexual relationship, mentally or physically with anyone other than my wife.

There's nothing to be ashamed about there. And its noble if you keep to that.
Dont let my filthy innuendo offend you.

What "erotica" do men read? Penthouse Forum? :p
That stuff is pretty tame compared to the Story of O (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Story_of_O), and other such stuff. I love the stories in the forum...I can't stand the magazines with nothing but pictures. It's got to have dirty stories too!

Oh...and if anyone wants a overview of what the story of O is about, click here (http://www.nostatusquo.com/ACLU/dworkin/WomanHating.html). It's actually an article by Andrea Dworkin, who hates porn...but you at least get an idea of what the story is about:)

...and as with most things, I suspect we don't do it as often as you'd like:)

Considering most guys would like it 24 hours a day....

The Secret Garden I read was about an orphan girl who ended up living in her weird uncle's mansion...it was a kid's book, and I am most intrigued by this OTHER Secret Garden. Have you read the Story of O? Or Emmanuelle? Quite interesting those French are...I've seen some of the Emmanuelle movies. They come on occasionally over here, though only on weekend nights :(
Anyway: My Secret Garden (http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/0671019872/qid=1122587612/sr=8-1/ref=sr_8_xs_ap_i1_xgl14/002-3204118-5213615?v=glance&s=books&n=507846) is a book on women's sexual fantasies. It has a collection of women's fantasies that the author collected during a time when it was still taboo for women to talk about it.
I have two copies of the book, one in German and one in English. The story how I got them is quite memorable. My scout troop when I was still in Berlin (I was an assistant Scoutmaster at the time, being over 18) held its meetings in an English-speaking church/synagogue. This church also held yard and book sales regularly. A bunch of books were left over and ours for the taking. I noticed the books in the piles and made sure that the scouts didn't find them... much to my own good fortune. :D

There's nothing to be ashamed about there. And its noble if you keep to that.
Dont let my filthy innuendo offend you.

Not offended but close to leaving the conversation for the time being. I was hoping you'd respond to my other comment, though I'm not sure there really was an appropriate response for you to make... :p

...and as with most things, I suspect we don't do it as often as you'd like:)


Well-lets be fair, as often as I'd like would make day to day life a little awkward.
In my case, I'm never denied-nor is she. We get along very well. Again-I'm lucky there.
I know there are many women that dont enjoy playing the tromBONE.
So-to all those that arent enjoying this, I'm sorry to hear it.

Not offended but close to leaving the conversation for the time being. I was hoping you'd respond to my other comment, though I'm not sure there really was an appropriate response for you to make... :p


I may have missed your other comment.

Again-I didnt say anything to offend you deliberately, my comments are more to get a chuckle or stimulate the ones that seem to be having fun with it.

Any way-I'm outta here for now.

Be well.

Yeah- "For Whom the Bell Tolls" by Hemmingway. Its really hot.
ROFL!

Actual translation, I'm a little uncomfortable when we move towards talking about what we're doing currently of a sexual nature verses discussing who we are as sexual people. It moves from communication to sexual action. And, although I am very uninhibited when it comes to talking about myself or in terms of what I will do in what I consider to be a morally acceptable relationship, I'm not comfortable having a sexual relationship, mentally or physically with anyone other than my wife.
Understood. And in any case, I don't think we're actually going to move in that direction. It's mostly kidding:)

Considering most guys would like it 24 hours a day....


Yeah- I hardly feel its appropriate for the girl in dunkin donuts to give me a medium coffee with a little milk and a reach around everyday, but hey.

Understood. And in any case, I don't think we're actually going to move in that direction. It's mostly kidding:)Darn... :( ( :p )

I may have missed your other comment.

Again-I didnt say anything to offend you deliberately, my comments are more to get a chuckle or stimulate the ones that seem to be having fun with it.

Any way-I'm outta here for now.

Be well.

Nothing offensive at all, I just made a reply to your 2nd, 3rd time getting uncomfortable comment...

ROFL!


pilo really shakes it in that story

Understood. And in any case, I don't think we're actually going to move in that direction. It's mostly kidding:)

and wishful thinking

Yeah- I hardly feel its appropriate for the girl in dunkin donuts to give me a medium coffee with a little milk and a reach around everyday, but hey.

The girl at Dunkin Donuts IS pretty hot, isn't she?

Understood. And in any case, I don't think we're actually going to move in that direction. It's mostly kidding:)

I know, it was just starting to move that direction...

The girl at Dunkin Donuts IS pretty hot, isn't she?


yeah, with that sultry Pakistani come hither look- she is asking for it!!
Tommorrow morning, I know where I'm dipping my cruller

Actual translation, I'm a little uncomfortable when we move towards talking about what we're doing currently of a sexual nature verses discussing who we are as sexual people. It moves from communication to sexual action. And, although I am very uninhibited when it comes to talking about myself or in terms of what I will do in what I consider to be a morally acceptable relationship, I'm not comfortable having a sexual relationship, mentally or physically with anyone other than my wife.

A very impressive explanation of a line so many don't or won't understand. I would actually be more offended by my wife engaging in an ongoing emotionally intimate relations or a relationship that is pretending to physically intimate than if she were to go to a hooker. Mental fidelity is far more important to me than physical fidelity, though both are very, very high on my list (read fidelity as defined by a person and their partner, some would consider any discussion of thier sex-life to be an offense).

yeah, with that sultry Pakistani come hither look- she is asking for it!!
Tommorrow morning, I know where I'm dipping my cruller
No you don't! (But that's half the fun, innit? :p)

Okay, only nine... well eight more posts now to make 2000... I think I'll try to make it in this thread.

(read fidelity as defined by a person and their partner, some would consider any discussion of thier sex-life to be an offense).

I know what you mean. I'm trying to be cautious and not say anything that my wife would be unhappy with me for participating in... Being faithful to her mentally, physically and emotionally are very high priorities to me. She's been hurt by infidelity way too much for me to want to do anything that might take her back to those kind of feelings...

A very impressive explanation of a line so many don't or won't understand. I would actually be more offended by my wife engaging in an ongoing emotionally intimate relations or a relationship that is pretending to physically intimate than if she were to go to a hooker. Mental fidelity is far more important to me than physical fidelity, though both are very, very high on my list (read fidelity as defined by a person and their partner, some would consider any discussion of thier sex-life to be an offense).
Which is exactly why I wouldn't take this flirtation past a certain point (including not posting my pic):) But I like being frank about sex, and my relationship is perhaps more open than other's (and not as open as some...), so my line is a bit more flexible.

Which is exactly why I wouldn't take this flirtation past a certain point (including not posting my pic):) But I like being frank about sex, and my relationship is perhaps more open than other's (and not as open as some...), so my line is a bit more flexible.

I also prefer to be frank and open, but not ever in a way that violates my relationship with God first and my relationship with my wife second.

As long as everyone involved knows it's in fun, and no emotional attachments are actually formed, then a conversation about sex and fantasies be approached more as a research project than an affair :D

You'd think there'd be some sexy nursing stuff out there...I mean, it's not like we're celibate while we're nursing or anything! Cripes.

True about the body shape shift though...I had to get rid of all my old lingerie because my hips are never going back to their original shape (all for the good actually!). Even after I lost most of the weight I just found I was built differently (cripes, my feet even seemed to grow! I went from a size 5 to a 6 1/2...what the!!???). I'm just restocking now...and it's going to be fun!

I like the stuff that leave things easily accessible so that no accidental ripping goes on...
Damnit... my wife won't even let me hug her now that she's nursing, let alone sleep with her. Apparently, breast feeding twins is sensual enough... Waa.... :headbang:

As long as everyone involved knows it's in fun, and no emotional attachments are actually formed, then a conversation about sex and fantasies be approached more as a research project than an affair :D

I think it would be exceedingly difficult for anyone to take the conversation in this thread even remotely seriously. :p

(p.s. - You're hot.)

As long as everyone involved knows it's in fun, and no emotional attachments are actually formed, then a conversation about sex and fantasies be approached more as a research project than an affair :D

For me, and again I'm not putting this on anyone else, intentionally flirting or fantasizing about someone other than my wife constitutes some level if infidelity. Talking about who I am, trying to understand myself, my wife, and other human being's behavior is something I'm comfortable doing. Witnessing another human being's sexual behavior is something I'm far less comfortable with, whether they're comfortable with me watching or not.

I think it would be exceedingly difficult for anyone to take the conversation in this thread even remotely seriously. :p

(p.s. - You're hot.)


Allow me to introduce myself. I'm William and I take everything seriously... :p okay not everything, but most things...

Dude? hehehehe

Guys in thongs...not a pretty sight. No animal print underwear please. I like jockeys...white preferably. Sheesh...they get to have it simple...
My wife likes to see me suffer with itty bitty, tight thong underwear just because it's so damn uncomfortable for me and she thinks it's cute to see me swirm and beg her to take it off... Which is why that's only happened once.

I think it would be exceedingly difficult for anyone to take the conversation in this thread even remotely seriously. :p

(p.s. - You're hot.)
Edit: That was uncalled for, and definitely crossed the line...I'm sure you wished you'd read it though...it involved whipped cream, lace, and three hours:)

I think it would be exceedingly difficult for anyone to take the conversation in this thread even remotely seriously. :p

(p.s. - You're hot.)Did she just send you a real pic or something :eek: Not Fair!

My wife likes to see me suffer with itty bitty, tight thong underwear just because it's so damn uncomfortable for me and she thinks it's cute to see me swirm and beg her to take it off... Which is why that's only happened once.
heheheheheheeee....no leopard print thongs in your stocking now?

Edit: That was uncalled for, and definitely crossed the line...I'm sure you wished you'd read it though...it involved whipped cream, lace, and three hours:)

Well, how can I know you were telling the truth about whipped cream, lace, and three hours, if you won't post the pictures of you covered in whipped cream and lace as proof?

okay since we've deviated from lingerie and are asking questions about sexual habits I have one that I'm not sure others will find unpleasant or not:

WHen a female partner is having her time 'O da month, do you stray away from or have less sex than usual? We don't cut down on the amount of sex we have, but I do avoid traveling south during those times.

Did she just send you a real pic or something :eek: Not Fair!

I wish. :(

heheheheheheeee....no leopard print thongs in your stocking now?
I don't know about that... first was handed to me on Christamas... I just would rather prefer not.

okay since we've deviated from lingerie and are asking questions about sexual habits I have one that I'm not sure others will find unpleasant or not:

WHen a female partner is having her time 'O da month, do you stray away from or have less sex than usual? We don't cut down on the amount of sex we have, but I do avoid traveling south during those times.
Good question. My husband is a bit uncomfortable with things at this time because he is eminently oral. I'm fine with that, and have never pushed the issue. It works out well now though, because he's gone when I'm OTR.

How about some pics of the guys? Why aren't we requesting those? :p

I think we should all get to see a pic of Laerod in his scout uniform... :p

okay since we've deviated from lingerie and are asking questions about sexual habits I have one that I'm not sure others will find unpleasant or not:

WHen a female partner is having her time 'O da month, do you stray away from or have less sex than usual? We don't cut down on the amount of sex we have, but I do avoid traveling south during those times.
It was No Touch time during those periods... We had "dry sex" but that didn't really get us anywhere... :(

I don't know about that... first was handed to me on Christamas... I just would rather prefer not.
Did you read about the pair Muntoo bought her husband? They had elephant ears and a trunk for...well, you know:)

My wife likes to see me suffer with itty bitty, tight thong underwear just because it's so damn uncomfortable for me and she thinks it's cute to see me swirm and beg her to take it off... Which is why that's only happened once.

My wife is with Sinhue, but to be quite honest, I find most varieties of male undergarments to be uncomfortable. Thongs are the one thing that doesn't go any where it's not supposed to. As long as they're not to small, I find them more comfortable than most anything else, except nothing of course...

Speak for yourself ;) I've never gotten to the point I was desiring to quitfor physiological reasons.

Carnivorous I think this post was the one he was referring to. He said this in response to your post about getting achey after the second or third time.

I agree with CL on this one, I also get achey after too many times, though two or three won't do it. I start to get achey at about four and at six I'm done for about 24 hours.

okay since we've deviated from lingerie and are asking questions about sexual habits I have one that I'm not sure others will find unpleasant or not:

WHen a female partner is having her time 'O da month, do you stray away from or have less sex than usual? We don't cut down on the amount of sex we have, but I do avoid traveling south during those times.

I don't like to go down during that time of the month either, but it has never really interfered in sex before. Plus, it gives you excuse to try different things....

And wow...this conversation sounds exactly like the conversations I used to have at the bar with my friends *brings a tear to my eye*... :D

How about some pics of the guys? Why aren't we requesting those? :p

I think we should all get to see a pic of Laerod in his scout uniform... :p
I might just... hold on...

How about some pics of the guys? Why aren't we requesting those? :p

I think we should all get to see a pic of Laerod in his scout uniform... :p

I'm in the picture thread, or right here:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v223/maddillphatyo/Me/rockout.jpg

Yay! :D

I don't like to go down during that time of the month either, but it has never really interfered in sex before. Plus, it gives you excuse to try different things....
Meh...I personally don't need an excuse to do that:) It happens to be a great favourite. What? You don't know what I'm referring to? *looks innocent* Never mind...

Meh...I personally don't need an excuse to do that:) It happens to be a great favourite. What? You don't know what I'm referring to? *looks innocent* Never mind...

Well not all girls are as open-minded and daring as you, sweetie. :D

Well, have a good night folks...I'm off the clock:) And the hubby called to let me know he's paying me a visit tonight before he goes back to finish moving his folks *does the happy dance*

Well not all girls are as open-minded and daring as you, sweetie. :D
They would be if they tried it. Seriously...I've never known a woman who didn't like it once they gave it a chance!

okay since we've deviated from lingerie and are asking questions about sexual habits I have one that I'm not sure others will find unpleasant or not:

WHen a female partner is having her time 'O da month, do you stray away from or have less sex than usual? We don't cut down on the amount of sex we have, but I do avoid traveling south during those times.

I'm not opposed to most things during that time with the exception you mentioned, but for the most part my wife isn't comfortable then so I don't push for other things either...

As for the time of the month issue, well it's a no-go for me for purely practical reasons. It's just, well messy. And I'm the one who has to do all the laundry around here, so there it is. This does not stop me from doing other things of course. If you don't know what I'm talking about, ask Sin. ;)

Well, have a good night folks...I'm off the clock:) And the hubby called to let me know he's paying me a visit tonight before he goes back to finish moving his folks *does the happy dance*

Uh oh. Who is going to fill Sinuhue's shoes now that she is leaving?

Did you read about the pair Muntoo bought her husband? They had elephant ears and a trunk for...well, you know:)
HA! No, I didn't read about that... Mine were just WAY too small... shit, that hurt.

Meh...I personally don't need an excuse to do that:) It happens to be a great favourite. What? You don't know what I'm referring to? *looks innocent* Never mind...

I do !!!

My woman loves that too - It's nice to 'go there' every so often.

Meh...I personally don't need an excuse to do that:) It happens to be a great favourite. What? You don't know what I'm referring to? *looks innocent* Never mind...

I can think of at least a few of options and I'll be just as happy if you don't elaborate... ;)

I know what you mean. I'm trying to be cautious and not say anything that my wife would be unhappy with me for participating in... Being faithful to her mentally, physically and emotionally are very high priorities to me. She's been hurt by infidelity way too much for me to want to do anything that might take her back to those kind of feelings...

I think it's interesting that you always talk about how she's been affected by infedelity but you don't mention how your own experiences have affected you as well. I lost a fiance to infedelity and I would never do anything like that to someone I cared about.

Well, have a good night folks...I'm off the clock:) And the hubby called to let me know he's paying me a visit tonight before he goes back to finish moving his folks *does the happy dance*

Have a great nite! SOunds like you will be. :)

Muntoo heres a pic for ya:
http://myspace-126.vo.llnwd.net/00006/62/10/6310126_m.jpg

I'm the boi

They would be if they tried it. Seriously...I've never known a woman who didn't like it once they gave it a chance!I do. She said it made a terrible mess every time and wasn't worth it...

okay since we've deviated from lingerie and are asking questions about sexual habits I have one that I'm not sure others will find unpleasant or not:

WHen a female partner is having her time 'O da month, do you stray away from or have less sex than usual? We don't cut down on the amount of sex we have, but I do avoid traveling south during those times.

Ditto.

Grr.. I'm having trouble with my email account and my battery is nearly dead, so I'll call it a night (that and my scout pictures are on CD, upstairs and out of WLAN reach) Till tomorrow... :D

They would be if they tried it. Seriously...I've never known a woman who didn't like it once they gave it a chance!

I don't know who you've been hanging out with, but I've only met one that actually did like it.

Okay Laerod, I'm holding you to that! :p

Have a great nite! SOunds like you will be. :)

Muntoo heres a pic for ya:
http://myspace-126.vo.llnwd.net/00006/62/10/6310126_m.jpg

I'm the boi

Wow. That is absolutely nothing like how I envisioned you.

They would be if they tried it. Seriously...I've never known a woman who didn't like it once they gave it a chance!

I don't know who you've been hanging out with, but I've only met one that actually did like it. Correction: I've only met one that admitted it. To be fair, though, I've talk openly with all my female friends and several admitted to participating in that particular act on several occasions and there responses varied from it was horrible to 'meh'.

I think it's interesting that you always talk about how she's been affected by infedelity but you don't mention how your own experiences have affected you as well. I lost a fiance to infedelity and I would never do anything like that to someone I cared about.

It affects me more about how cautious I am in developing relationships with people of the opposite gender and maintaining boundries. I do feel guilt for the poor example I've set and pray that it doesn't give license to the behavior of others. Other than that, it really hasn't affected my view of sexuality and or my behavior within the context of my marriage. Is there something in particular you're interested in knowing?

one more for ya Muntoo:

http://myspace-816.vo.llnwd.net/00005/61/88/5998816_m.jpg

Now where are your pics? :D

Wow. That is absolutely nothing like how I envisioned you.


hehe

Now I'm curious how did you envision me? Although I must admit, I envisioned you quite differently too. For soem reason I though you were a skinny guy with glasses. Dunno why though.

oh and here's what I look like now:
http://myspace-257.vo.llnwd.net/00009/75/22/9032257_m.jpg

Yea, I finally made 2000, I really should get home. I need to mow the lawn, literally mind you, and do some chores around the house before my beloved comes home. Have a good evening, morning, day, whatever it is where you are...

Wow. That is absolutely nothing like how I envisioned you.

That's why I like knowing what people look like. For me, it creates almost as much context as hearing the inflections in speech; like not having to use smilies, or adding <sarcasm> so people really know what you're talking about.

It affects me more about how cautious I am in developing relationships with people of the opposite gender and maintaining boundries. I do feel guilt for the poor example I've set and pray that it doesn't give license to the behavior of others. Other than that, it really hasn't affected my view of sexuality and or my behavior within the context of my marriage. Is there something in particular you're interested in knowing?

No, not really. I was just saying that you attributed your increased sensitivity to the issue to her experiences but I would have to guess the experiences of both of you are a factor. I'm glad to see any couple that is as respectful of the needs and feelings of their spouse as you and she appear to be of one another. I certainly hope (expect) when I meet my wife that I will have a similar relationship.