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Not just education but attitude - it's all very well to be educated about safe-sex if you feel ashamed to go and buy condoms in case your parents will find them or you can't get them because you're underaged or if you are getting peer pressure.

Or should that be it's about education but not just giving the facts to children - it's about educating parents too to listen and talk to their children about these issues. And indeed about education wider society in our attitudes. It's not a simple problem.

That's why it has to be a concerted effort, both at home and at school. Sex is a real thing, and people have it all the time. There's no point in just being prudish about the subject. Open your mouths, be available. If my kids are to find about sex, let it be because I took the time and discussed it with them. My mother did that, and it immensely help me and my brother in our decission making in regards to sexual encounters.

The government alleges that of those 10 pregnancies, at least 6 are teenagers.

My fencing coach was a member of a Spanish club in high-school, and his group went to Spain, once; four of the girls came back pregnant.

It could just be that your nation has more attractive young men then average--damn Don Juans lack consideration.

Aw, shucks.

LOL and I followed that link in your sig. MY, prosthetic balls was awfully big... and red....

*runs away*

Lack of context is fun. :)I dunno, I looked at the thread (almost a year ago :eek2:). Awfully big and red prosthetic truck balls is not that out of context . . .

But would they want to piss off the person who owns the house and earns all the money allowing you to cook the food etc. That's the trouble with the 50s model, the imbalance in power. After all the man can always hire someone in to do all the cooking/cleaning etc, the women would have a lot of difficulty earning enough money to survive (especially with children) should she leave. hmm... depends. she can take some stuff when she leaves you know (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lorena_Bobbitt). especially when it's in the middle of the night... who knows what the male might find himself cut off of when he wakes up...

Sex is a real thing

prove it... my place, Tuesday after next, just you and me!

:p

:D

prove it... my place, Tuesday after next, just you and me!

:p

:D

You need to ask my Keeper.;)

That is exactly the problem. Easy to manipulate air-heads.


Not a bad thing for me.

That's why it has to be a concerted effort, both at home and at school. Sex is a real thing, and people have it all the time. There's no point in just being prudish about the subject. Open your mouths, be available. If my kids are to find about sex, let it be because I took the time and discussed it with them. My mother did that, and it immensely help me and my brother in our decission making in regards to sexual encounters.
They don't have to teach their kids about sex, Instead they can send their teen daughters to me and I can teach them about sex. Those parents parents whose sensibilities prevent them from talking to their daughters about sex can rest assured that I have taught their daughters everything they need to know.

You need to ask my Keeper.;)

Keeper says no.

Keeper says no.

*bribes keeper with 100 dollar bill*

*bribes keeper with 100 dollar bill*

*spits*

*spits*

the bribe was so you would beat the other guy up by the way :P

the bribe was so you would beat the other guy up by the way :P

Oh, in that case, accepted.

*pulls out his baseball bat and starts chasing Junii*

Oh, in that case, accepted.

*pulls out his baseball bat and starts chasing Junii*

*records on video camera and sells copies as Jealous BF fights volume 4*

Keeper says no.

Keeper has spoken:fluffle:. Sorry JuNii-kun.:tongue:

They don't have to teach their kids about sex, Instead they can send their teen daughters to me and I can teach them about sex. Those parents parents whose sensibilities prevent them from talking to their daughters about sex can rest assured that I have taught their daughters everything they need to know.

You really would do anything to get sex, eh? *shakes head*

And I don't appreciate having my Keeper recorded beating the living shyte out of anyone. It's a private beating, you know.:tongue:

You really would do anything to get sex, eh? *shakes head*

No it would be my noble sacrifice to make sure the younger generation is prepared for what lies ahead.


And I don't appreciate having my Keeper recorded beating the living shyte out of anyone. It's a private beating, you know.:tongue:

He it is more profitable and less likely to have hippies sue me then the Bum fights project.

No it would be my noble sacrifice to make sure the younger generation is prepared for what lies ahead.


He it is more profitable and less likely to have hippies sue me then the Bum fights project.

Ok... I'm not into madness mode this fine morning.:tongue:

Nobody's talking about oppression except you, because I guess you're really defensive about this subject.

You've confused 'defensive' with 'sarcastic response.' Don't worry about it, you're not the first, and God knows, you won't be the last.

Nor any sense of humor, apparently.

You are lecturing me about having a sense of humor? Am I in the Mirror Universe? If I turn around, will I see a goateed Spock glaring at me?

TBH i find it offensive you think only working class people are sexist

TBH i find it offensive you think only working class people are sexist

It's true us working class folx are the sexiest!:D

You've confused 'defensive' with 'sarcastic response.' Don't worry about it, you're not the first, and God knows, you won't be the last.

...

Did you actually just try to argue that your sarcasm in response to criticism is evidence that you WERE NOT being defensive?


You are lecturing me about having a sense of humor? Am I in the Mirror Universe? If I turn around, will I see a goateed Spock glaring at me?
In all honesty, friend, I haven't the slightest idea what universe you are in.

Look, let's stop with this personal attack fest and get back to the issue:

If you hold doors for female and not males, you are engaging in sexism. You like to describe this as "treating women extra special nice." Go right ahead. Just don't flip your shit when people point out you're being sexist, and don't be surprised when nobody perceives you as doing some charming favor for the fairer sex.

Did you actually just try to argue that your sarcasm in response to criticism is evidence that you WERE NOT being defensive?

My sarcasm is evidence that I like to be sarcastic because I think I'm funny. (feel free not to point out that you don't think I'm funny, believe me, you've gotten that point across.)

If you hold doors for female and not males, you are engaging in sexism.

Sure, OK, as you like.

You like to describe this as "treating women extra special nice."

Yes I do. A friend of mine has a t-shirt she wears occasionally, it says 'Chivalry: One of the perks of being a chick.'

Go right ahead.

Thank you, I think I will.

don't be surprised when nobody perceives you as doing some charming favor for the fairer sex.

I actually would be surprised if nobody thanked me, as it might be the first time in human history that a 100% uniform reaction to a stimuli has been achieved. As it stands, the overwhelming majority of reactions runs from 'civil' to 'polite gratitude.'

Ok... I'm not into madness mode this fine morning.:tongue:

you have an exhilarating morning then ?
Is this a bad time to mention your birth control pills were replaced with tic tacs last month?

you have an exhilarating morning then ?
Is this a bad time to mention your birth control pills were replaced with tic tacs last month?

You're so scary, gringo, so scary.:tongue:

You're so scary, gringo, so scary.:tongue:

You should be grateful you now get to join the ranks of proud Spanish Mothers.

You should be grateful you now get to join the ranks of proud Spanish Mothers.

*shakes head*

*shakes head*

If its a girl I will be glad to educate her in the ways of the world when she is a naive teenager.

If its a girl I will be glad to educate her in the ways of the world when she is a naive teenager.

Gods, I need my Keeper to hit you in the head with his bat.:eek:

Gods, I need my Keeper to hit you in the head with his bat.:eek:

Would that be fulfilling his role as your keeper, or fulfilling his role as your daughter's dad ?

Would that be fulfilling his role as your keeper, or fulfilling his role as your daughter's dad ?

You're embarassing me, gringo.:$

You're embarassing me, gringo.:$

Ha you get embarrassed to think about having family.

Ha you get embarrassed to think about having family.

Ostias, no. It's embarassing that you say this, I don't want to be a mother. I don't like talking about these things, not even with my Keeper.

Ostias, no. It's embarassing that you say this, I don't want to be a mother. I don't like talking about these things, not even with my Keeper.

Which is why I find it amusing. Though never know when surprises may happen.

Which is why I find it amusing. Though never know when surprises may happen.

This doesn't bode well...

This doesn't bode well...

I will get the churches I mooch off of to pray for you have a kid.

I will get the churches I mooch off of to pray for you have a kid.

You really want to see me reproduce? You like the whole apocalypse thing?

You really want to see me reproduce? You like the whole apocalypse thing?

My mom once told me I was the harbinger of the apocalypse.

You really want to see me reproduce? You like the whole apocalypse thing?

Ay, han llamu al mesmu diablu.:eek:

I'm scared of women. The way I see it:
1. The longer you go before finding a mate, the harder finding a mate becomes.
2. Women are complex beings. One wrong move and you'll do something to offend her. When that happens, it's just you and your hand for a while longer.
3. Women are social. Screw up and it's either go gay or die alone.
4. Not being a woman, I'm clueless as to what to do. Will letting a woman know I like her make her think I'm a pervert? Will being more subtle make her think I'm uninterested? Is it better to risk being labled anti-child or a pedophile? What the hell do they want?

And the whole sexism thing. Will being willing to be a stay-at-home dad make her think I'm making fun of stay-at-home moms? Will being a working man make her think I'm some 1950s sexist beast that believes men should work and women should cook and clean?

And femenism? Will focusing only on womens' plight make people think I can't tell a straw femenist from a real one? Will liberating men from masculinity (ie. "real men" die in wars and lose hands in factories. if you don't, you're not a "real man".) be seen as not caring enough about the oppression of women?

The world is way too complicated. I have no idea what the hell is going on half the time.

I'm scared of women. The way I see it:
1. The longer you go before finding a mate, the harder finding a mate becomes.
true
2. Women are complex beings. One wrong move and you'll do something to offend her. When that happens, it's just you and your hand for a while longer.
then get another women.
3. Women are social. Screw up and it's either go gay or die alone.
just go to a differnt group of women start over being social

4. Not being a woman, I'm clueless as to what to do. Will letting a woman know I like her make her think I'm a pervert? Will being more subtle make her think I'm uninterested? Is it better to risk being labled anti-child or a pedophile? What the hell do they want?


They want your body. It might not be true but if you say it/act like it enough it will become true.

Oh, in that case, accepted.

*pulls out his baseball bat and starts chasing Junii*

counter offers with a free trip to Hawaii during the winter months.

counter offers with a free trip to Hawaii during the winter months.

Oooh...

However, I live in Florida where it's too bloody hot in the summer and nice in the winter. How about a free trip to Hawaii during the summer months?

Oooh...

However, I live in Florida where it's too bloody hot in the summer and nice in the winter. How about a free trip to Hawaii during the summer months?

done and done!

Oooh...

However, I live in Florida where it's too bloody hot in the summer and nice in the winter. How about a free trip to Hawaii during the summer months?

No to Al 'Aziziyah in Libya with you.

Absolutely terrified if they're total strangers and meeting them is optional.