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Its almost Valentine's day people! Yeah sure its not a real holiday per say but its still fun, so who is your Valentine this year?

Mine is my mother, her birthday coincides with Valentine's so she gets it no matter what. I don't have anyone else to be one this year.

Selezynov

What does it mean for someone to "be your valentine"?

Selezynov

Win.

What does it mean for someone to "be your valentine"?

Maybe you don't want to know...

No one. I'll just probably be on NSG, play Hearts of Iron 2 or Fallout 3.

Maybe you don't want to know...

Perhaps not.

What does it mean for someone to "be your valentine"?


Valentine: a sweetheart chosen to receive a special greeting on Saint Valentine's Day

And here is an informative about it: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valentine%27s_Day

No one this time, unfortunately.

A lass.

Valentine: a sweetheart chosen to receive a special greeting on Saint Valentine's Day

And here is an informative about it: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valentine%27s_Day

I know about Valentine's Day, I'd just never heard the term "being one's valentine".

Who is my Valentine?

MY WIFE!!!!!

Who is my Valentine?

MY WIFE!!!!!

I don't think you responded last time so I am going to say it again, you remind me of McLovin.

A lass.

Shouldn't that be 'alas'?

I know about Valentine's Day, I'd just never heard the term "being one's valentine".

Some people never have.

No one... I'll be alone... forever....

Hey, are those chili-cheese coneys? *runs off*

Its almost Valentine's day people! Yeah sure its not a real holiday per say but its still fun, so who is your Valentine this year?

Mine is my mother, her birthday coincides with Valentine's so she gets it no matter what. I don't have anyone else to be one this year.

It's per se, people. Latin. per say doesn't mean anything! :mad:

Oh, and just so I'm not hijacking with my language Nazism: nobody this year.

Shouldn't that be 'alas'?
No :tongue:

Valentine´s day is only another way for the greedy power-hungry bourgeois corporations to swindle honest workers through extortion by guilt proxy.
One does not need to give material objects on any one day to express love,
nor should it be bought like cheap trinkets made in sweat shops by inhumane standards.
Long live the revolution!
Power to the people!




So, how did I do?:p

So, how did I do? :p
Dreadfully, nothing about the Yoke Of Capitalism in there at all.

Dreadfully, nothing about the Yoke Of Capitalism in there at all.

Aww...

Who am I kidding, no one could never replace AP.


On topic.
I do not have anyone, sadly.

Could someone help me land one?

Aww...

Who am I kidding, no one could never replace AP.


On topic.
I do not have anyone, sadly.

That's true. No one can replace him. He was good for laughs.

Could someone help me land one?
That person ought to be you -_-

I'll have to wait till Valentine's Day to find out. She'll probably be right wrecked, as will I.

Depends. Ought to be my girlfriend of a year 2 months.

Rach Oth is my valentine ... <3

Jhahannam will always be my valentine...

Some people break up during Valentines.

This year nobody, even if she were to go back to me this very instant I wouldn't give her anything.

Jhahannam will always be my valentine...

So, my nation died...and I went to the World After.

And the choirs of angels greeted me, and with warming torches lit my path through the darkness...

And I halted, saying "Wait, I must tell her farewell, I must go back"

And the angel, a first among equals, came forward, and somberely told me the price...that Heaven is not gladly kept waiting, that invitations to Paradise are not to be compared to the mere poetries of enamored men.

I could turn, the Messenger told me, and go back, once more, for the briefest moment, to tell you Goodbye. But the price would be Nothingness...

"You must learn," the Messenger said, "to say what you need to say while you still draw breath."

And because I failed to do that, it would be the spending of my soul entire to come back and tell you, and the Elysian Fields would forever be closed to me, and in exchange for my Unmaking, I could send you one more post, Nanatsu no Tsuki.

You're my Valentine.

Well I'll see how my situation works out. Either I will have a Valentine or I won't.

Valentine´s day is only another way for the greedy power-hungry bourgeois corporations to swindle honest workers through extortion by guilt proxy.
One does not need to give material objects on any one day to express love,
nor should it be bought like cheap trinkets made in sweat shops by inhumane standards.
Long live the revolution!
Power to the people!




So, how did I do?:p

Actually this is true, and if you look at how the holidays are spaced out over a year: we are given just enough time to recover from one before we start having to pay for the next.

All Hail the Almighty Dollar!

As for the OP, mine is my wife of course.

So, my nation died...and I went to the World After.

And the choirs of angels greeted me, and with warming torches lit my path through the darkness...

And I halted, saying "Wait, I must tell her farewell, I must go back"

And the angel, a first among equals, came forward, and somberely told me the price...that Heaven is not gladly kept waiting, that invitations to Paradise are not to be compared to the mere poetries of enamored men.

I could turn, the Messenger told me, and go back, once more, for the briefest moment, to tell you Goodbye. But the price would be Nothingness...

"You must learn," the Messenger said, "to say what you need to say while you still draw breath."

And because I failed to do that, it would be the spending of my soul entire to come back and tell you, and the Elysian Fields would forever be closed to me, and in exchange for my Unmaking, I could send you one more post, Nanatsu no Tsuki.

You're my Valentine.

I miss thee. Farewell and rest, my beloved...

What is this 'Valentines Day' of which thou speaketh?

Oh, hang on, do you mean smug couples day? The day which allows the attractive and popular people to boast for at least a week afterwards about just how romantic their partner is and how in love they are? I think I just vomitted up all my internal organs.

What is this 'Valentines Day' of which thou speaketh?

Oh, hang on, do you mean smug couples day? The day which allows the attractive and popular people to boast for at least a week afterwards about just how romantic their partner is and how in love they are? I think I just vomitted up all my internal organs.

As soon as the xmas decorations came down my wife stuck a pink heart complete with lights in our window. I lost my internal organs right about then myself.

What is this 'Valentines Day' of which thou speaketh?

Oh, hang on, do you mean smug couples day? The day which allows the attractive and popular people to boast for at least a week afterwards about just how romantic their partner is and how in love they are? I think I just vomitted up all my internal organs.
So no one, huh?

Valentine's day is a beautiful day celebrating romance that coincidentally makees me fill bitter for about a week before it.

I was given the choice of playing with guns all weekend or maybe getting head

I think I might bring the mrs a gasmask back :wink:

A lass.

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Depends. Ought to be my girlfriend of a year 2 months.

nah don't be boring :p

Oh, hang on, do you mean smug couples day? The day which allows the attractive and popular people to boast for at least a week afterwards about just how romantic their partner is and how in love they are?

thats the one. *makes note to send the heart shaped hot air balloon over your house and bomb you with red wine*

So no one, huh?

No shit, Sherlock :p

No. Never had a single one. Still, what I said is true by observation...smug couples, boasting about their idyllic lives and how loooovely the love of their life is, to anyone with a pair of at least semi-functioning ears. I'm a liberal. I believe in the public and private sphere distinction. You have an idyllic private life? Lovely, but don't talk about it to me in the pubIic sphere. I don't give a flying fudge what your partner at home gave you as a present, or about the super-romantic location where you had a quick fumble under the sheets. Why on Earth does everyone I know think I'm interested to hear these tales? Thats the correct answer, kids, boasting

No shit, Sherlock :p

No. Never had a single one. Still, what I said is true by observation...smug couples, boasting about their idyllic lives and how loooovely the love of their life is, to anyone with a pair of at least semi-functioning ears. I'm a liberal. I believe in the public and private sphere distinction. You have an idyllic private life? Lovely, but don't talk about it to me in the pubIic sphere. I don't give a flying fudge what your partner at home gave you as a present, or about the super-romantic location where you had a quick fumble under the sheets. Why on Earth does everyone I know think I'm interested to hear these tales? Thats the correct answer, kids, boasting

Eeeeeverybody huuuuuurts....sometimes...sometimes everything is wrong...now its time to sing along...



Man, I hated those dry spells in my life. Like that one that lasted 3 or 4 years.

Eeeeeverybody huuuuuurts....sometimes...sometimes everything is wrong...now its time to sing along...

Whiny and depressing song is whiny and depressing.

Man, I hated those dry spells in my life. Like that one that lasted 3 or 4 years.

I'm just wondering, what is the correct term for a non- 'dry spell'. A 'damp spell', a 'moist spell', or what? Its never been clarified, as far as I know. Yeh, I've always wondered about that.

SNIP

have you tried eating worms?

Man, I hated those dry spells in my life. Like that one that lasted 3 or 4 years.

surely that would be more of a drought :confused: (and iirc the limit is 6 months before you can hump whatever is human)

I'm just wondering, what is the correct term for a non- 'dry spell'. A 'damp spell', a 'moist spell', or what? Its never been clarified, as far as I know. Yeh, I've always wondered about that.

the touch (http://youtube.com/watch?v=COYRxf13tIg&feature=related)

nah don't be boring

Isn't that just the sodding problem; I am bored. Very, very bored of monogamy, and frankly, there is no dearth of available Tory/Indy womenfolk with whom I might enjoy myself.

Man, I hated those dry spells in my life. Like that one that lasted 3 or 4 years.

They are indeed annoying.

I'm not terribly bitter about Valentine's Day this year, though, even if it seems I'll probably be spending it in front of my computer like most other Saturday nights. :)

Isn't that just the sodding problem; I am bored. Very, very bored of monogamy, and frankly, there is no dearth of available Tory/Indy womenfolk with whom I might enjoy myself.

What are you? Lazy? Go build yourself one. You think all that alcohol you drink is just there to get you drunk? Nay my friend. It holds the key to building whatever woman you want.

What are you? Lazy? Go build yourself one. You think all that alcohol you drink is just there to get you drunk? Nay my friend. It holds the key to building whatever woman you want.

I'm sure you're far more drunk than me given I can't understand the above.

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I'm sure you're far more drunk than me given I can't understand the above.

If you drink more then maybe you'll understand it.

have you tried eating worms?

Yes, I've just eaten Worms. I washed it down with a nice glass of Rhine.

Oh God, my jokes are getting worse.

If you drink more then maybe you'll understand it.

I am; Theakston's Old Peculiar and whatever the bloody hell the Yorkshire ale I've drunk have given me a wonderfully inebriated disposition.

Could someone help me land one?I just pictured a whaling voyage.

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Thing?




I may actually have one this year...strange, no?

My girlfriend. Boring!

I suspect my Valentine's will be spent in front of a computer playing video games. I take solace in the fact that it will at least not be on a weekday, so I don't have to deal with the potential office politics of the holiday. Even if I was involved with someone, I doubt I could celebrate it with a straight face because February and March historically represent several of the worst events in my life.

Now that you know more than you ever wanted to know about me, we can revel in the relative anonymity of the Internet.

Isn't that just the sodding problem; I am bored. Very, very bored of monogamy, and frankly, there is no dearth of available Tory/Indy womenfolk with whom I might enjoy myself.

your young enjoy yourself rather than follow this mortgage based deathtrap

If you drink more then maybe you'll understand it.

I am; Theakston's Old Peculiar and whatever the bloody hell the Yorkshire ale I've drunk have given me a wonderfully inebriated disposition.

fucking students. :tongue:

My girlfriend. Boring!

why not surprise her mother this year?

why not surprise her mother this year?
What are you suggesting?

your young enjoy yourself rather than follow this mortgage based deathtrap





fucking students. :tongue:



why not surprise her mother this year?

Good counsel I feel.

What are you suggesting?

all I'm suggesting is that maybe the oldest goose is the ripest for a good stuffing....do it for the funny and the enormous amount of trouble it would cause

all I'm suggesting is that maybe the oldest goose is the ripest for a good stuffing....do it for the funny and the enormous amount of trouble it would cause

Are you saying I should have sex with my girlfriend's mother?

all I'm suggesting is that maybe the oldest goose is the ripest for a good stuffing....do it for the funny and the enormous amount of trouble it would cause

You despicable old goat.:D

I don't have one this year. :(

What is this 'Valentines Day' of which thou speaketh?

Oh, hang on, do you mean smug couples day? The day which allows the attractive and popular people to boast for at least a week afterwards about just how romantic their partner is and how in love they are? I think I just vomitted up all my internal organs.

Do you want to be my valentines since you seem to share my disdain for this holiday?

The fine ladies at Cockblock. (http://cockblocksf.com/)

The fine ladies at Cockblock. (http://cockblocksf.com/)

That's hot..

...actually, it's pretty damned hot.

That's hot..

...actually, it's pretty damned hot.

Too hot for even Neo to front on! SF, you've outdone yourself.

Are you saying I should have sex with my girlfriend's mother?

I'm older than dirt and even I can figure that one out. DOM.

Dry spell for the last 10 years. I thought I had a secret admirer once, but it was just indigestion. Meh, I'll just listen to my son go into transports about Cindy, My daughter gush about Major LeShan and my cats complain that I'm not feeding them enough.

Too hot for even Neo to front on! SF, you've outdone yourself.

yeah, no, I got nothing. 'Cept maybe a request for pictures.

That's hot..

...actually, it's pretty damned hot.

Never heard of Dyke Ball at Wellesley, have you?

February 14 is going to suck so much this year.:(

Never heard of Dyke Ball at Wellesley, have you?

Or the closing night dance at Northern Renaissance Faire (now, regrettably, defunct). It was homo/hetero/transgendered clothing optional.

Valentine really is a con, where you're dating it's just a disaster of thinking up something mostly so your girlfriend isn't embarrassed by her friends over your candle-lit McDonalds idea, hey it's quirky!

The worst was not booking a table for the night, dragging a girlfriend around to find one decent restaurant with a table and then sitting in the waiting area of some Thai place I found in the neighborhood, the best part was two of my friends being there with their own sorry-ass girlfriends in the waiting area with me, having done exactly the same thing, one of their dates was holding this flopped-out rose my friend had probably picked up from a street seller before picking his date up.

Summed up the evening really.

Valentine's can really cause you to question whether you're invested in a relationship.

At best it's a time to take out a first date for a romantic dinner with added percentage chance of getting home for a happy ending.

At worst it's an utter financial con, especially where restaurants save further money by having a special Valentine's set dinner.

Next up, Easter.

February 14 is going to suck so much this year.:(

Why? Aren't you engaged?

Or the closing night dance at Northern Renaissance Faire (now, regrettably, defunct). It was homo/hetero/transgendered clothing optional.

for Dyke Ball, all the girls dress up like sluts (corsets, leather, etc), and any boy brought along must be in drag. I almost ended up in a corset.

Why? Aren't you engaged?

Ah, that. No. The ring is laughing at me on the drawer.

Ah, that. No. The ring is laughing at me on the drawer.

Ahh, got scared or what?

Ahh, got scared or what?

I got scared. Still am, so, the ring bares witness to my cowardice. Excellent. Aren't I something? :(

for Dyke Ball, all the girls dress up like sluts (corsets, leather, etc), and any boy brought along must be in drag. I almost ended up in a corset.

Ooh, fun! We had a reasonably similar event at my college hosted by the Queer Student Union, although there wasn't any strict dress code so much as a general "come dressed in some totally slutty and/or totally genderbending way" suggestion. I always wanted someone to bring me there on a leash, but alas, it was not to be. *sigh*

I got scared. Still am, so, the ring bares witness to my cowardice. Excellent. Aren't I something? :(

aww :( At least you still have a boyfriend, who I assume you love very much.

Valentine really is a con, where you're dating it's just a disaster of thinking up something mostly so your girlfriend isn't embarrassed by her friends over your candle-lit McDonalds idea, hey it's quirky!

The worst was not booking a table for the night, dragging a girlfriend around to find one decent restaurant with a table and then sitting in the waiting area of some Thai place I found in the neighborhood, the best part was two of my friends being there with their own sorry-ass girlfriends in the waiting area with me, having done exactly the same thing, one of their dates was holding this flopped-out rose my friend had probably picked up from a street seller before picking his date up.

Summed up the evening really.

Valentine's can really cause you to question whether you're invested in a relationship.

At best it's a time to take out a first date for a romantic dinner with added percentage chance of getting home for a happy ending.

At worst it's an utter financial con, especially where restaurants save further money by having a special Valentine's set dinner.

Next up, Easter.
Bah, you all miss the whole point. Out to a crowded restaurant, with a limited menu and the waitstaff rushing you so they can bilk the next couple?

Nuh uh. Kat says private, candlelit dinner at home, followed by...whatever couples do. ;)

aww :( At least you still have a boyfriend, who I assume you love very much.

Oh no. That's why the ring laughs at me. He's gone.

The more you wish for someone's happiness the more it hurts to see them go. Fuck! Time to shut my yapper.:tongue:

I never got into Valentines Day, even though there have been very few Valentines Days that I didn't have someone to celebrate it with...so you can't just say it's single angst. It just annoyed me that someone was expected to buy me flowers (which I hate) or some other useless shit, and I was supposed to get mad if they didn't. Also, everything is more expensive on that day...book your romantic dinner/whatever on another day!!!!

Oh no. That's why the ring laughs at me. He's gone.

The more you wish for someone's happiness the more it hurts to see them go. Fuck! Time to shut my yapper.:tongue:

aww *hugs*

I never got into Valentines Day, even though there have been very few Valentines Days that I didn't have someone to celebrate it with...so you can't just say it's single angst. It just annoyed me that someone was expected to buy me flowers (which I hate) or some other useless shit, and I was supposed to get mad if they didn't. Also, everything is more expensive on that day...book your romantic dinner/whatever on another day!!!!

I'm with Kat. If you're going to do Valentine's Day at all, screw dinners out and stereotypical presents (although admittedly it's hard to object to being given chocolates); stay home and do something more fun. ;)

Bah, you all miss the whole point. Out to a crowded restaurant, with a limited menu and the waitstaff rushing you so they can bilk the next couple?

Nuh uh. Kat says private, candlelit dinner at home, followed by...whatever couples do. ;)

Ah, but I cook all the time so it's no different to 3-4 nights a week anyway, other than the rose in a vase on a table.

Thinking up ideas for birthdays I love, there's something restrictive about the choices for Valentine's, I can't express the difference but it's there, Valentine's always seems so contrived.

I'm with Kat. If you're going to do Valentine's Day at all, screw dinners out and stereotypical presents (although admittedly it's hard to object to being given chocolates); stay home and do something more fun. ;)

Ditto that. I much prefer to call the other person and say "meet me at this street at this time. I have a surprise". or "I'm out front. We're going out to eat. Get dressed."

Spontaneous is fun.

Great how do I follow that act...

Ehh... Everyone gets scared(so I hear) at somepoint about this topic, but at least you have someone to confide in. Unlike the rest of us... and now I've made myself sad. :(

....screw dinners out and stereotypical presents (although admittedly it's hard to object to being given chocolates)

See, right there, even where your partner's all like, I don't need anything special, she's still all 'I didn't get much' when her friend's showing off the new dress/diamond/chocolates/tale of being whisked away to a sun-lit beach...

It's hard to object being given something nice, that's how it all starts.

It's the pressure of comparison and as much as I say it doesn't matter, I know that I'm letting my partner down somewhat, and showing a certain lack of care for the relationship unless I do something..

It's this idea of being romantic on this select day, I can surprise someone romantically any day given the right mood but no, I have to be romantic on this day regardless...

I just don't like it.

Ooh, fun! We had a reasonably similar event at my college hosted by the Queer Student Union, although there wasn't any strict dress code so much as a general "come dressed in some totally slutty and/or totally genderbending way" suggestion. I always wanted someone to bring me there on a leash, but alas, it was not to be. *sigh*

Ditto. Our Valentine's day bash was "Sexcapades".

Ditto that. I much prefer to call the other person and say "meet me at this street at this time. I have a surprise". or "I'm out front. We're going out to eat. Get dressed."

Spontaneous is fun.

Indeed!

I mean, don't get me wrong, the standard dinner-date is quite nice and all, but a Valentine's dinner-date just seems kinda like "okay, we're going out to dinner because Hallmark says we have to, yawn."

I'm with Kat. If you're going to do Valentine's Day at all, screw dinners out and stereotypical presents (although admittedly it's hard to object to being given chocolates); stay home and do something more fun. ;)

Indeed. My best Valentine's day was when my ex left work early, drove 2+ hours to see me, and brought pizza and alcohol. And watched hockey with me. And other things no one on NSG needs to know! :p

See, right there, even where your partner's all like, I don't need anything special, she's still all 'I didn't get much' when her friend's showing off the new dress/diamond/chocolates/tale of being whisked away to a sun-lit beach...

It's hard to object being given something nice, that's how it all starts.

It's the pressure of comparison and as much as I say it doesn't matter, I know that I'm letting my partner down somewhat, and showing a certain lack of care for the relationship unless I do something..

It's this idea of being romantic on this select day, I can surprise someone romantically any day given the right mood but no, I have to be romantic on this day regardless...

I just don't like it.

Heh, you just have to have a sensible partner. I really don't care if my guy gives me stuff for Valentine's Day, I care if he's awesome in general. He can give me stuff for Valentine's Day too if he wants - I mean, I'm not exactly going to forbid him to do so - but it's just not a big deal. Fundamentally, it's just another day. (And, heck, I for one would be totally cool with "let's have OUR Valentine's Day on February 16th, because it's more convenient" or something. What difference does it make?)

Heh, you just have to have a sensible partner. I really don't care if my guy gives me stuff for Valentine's Day, I care if he's awesome in general. He can give me stuff for Valentine's Day too if he wants - I mean, I'm not exactly going to forbid him to do so - but it's just not a big deal. Fundamentally, it's just another day. (And, heck, I for one would be totally cool with "let's have OUR Valentine's Day on February 16th, because it's more convenient" or something. What difference does it make?)

Also on February 16th you can get a shitload of candy for cheap and roses are less expensive. *nod*

Ooh, fun! We had a reasonably similar event at my college hosted by the Queer Student Union, although there wasn't any strict dress code so much as a general "come dressed in some totally slutty and/or totally genderbending way" suggestion. I always wanted someone to bring me there on a leash, but alas, it was not to be. *sigh*

I was on a leash :(

And not really by choice...:(

Also on February 16th you can get a shitload of candy for cheap and roses are less expensive. *nod*

I almost specifically included "and I can get cheap chocolate then!" in there. February 15th, Day-after-Easter Monday, and November 1st are three of my favorite "holidays." ;)

I was on a leash :(

And not really by choice...:(

You enjoyed it. Admit it.

Besides, it's not like I made you wear the assless pants.

I was on a leash :(

And not really by choice...:(

Man, you got the leash I wanted and you didn't even appreciate it? Life is so unfair. :p

Man, you got the leash I wanted and you didn't even appreciate it? Life is so unfair. :p

he probably got the guy that you wanted holding it too

You enjoyed it. Admit it.

Besides, it's not like I made you wear the assless pants.
No, but you did push pretty hard for that black lace and red feather corset. Tramp.
Man, you got the leash I wanted and you didn't even appreciate it? Life is so unfair. :p

haha...what can I say...I'm a top.

he probably got the guy that you wanted holding it too

Nah, it was a small asian girl.

I'm working on the 14th.

Maybe I will meet someone while I am working my turf.

he probably got the guy that you wanted holding it too

Oh really? Are you trying to tell me something? ;)

Never heard of Dyke Ball at Wellesley, have you?

during my senior year I spent most of my time at Wesleyan. You aint seen shit.

One thing I sort of have difficulty with is paying attention to these sorts of things...in particular Valentine's Day, but also birthdays etc...because they aren't important to me sometimes it just doesn't cross my mind that they are important to someone I'm seeing. Which reminds me that maybe I should ask if Valentine's Day is 'special'...

That being said, it pisses me off when someone wants a big deal made about their birthday/Valentine's Day or whatever, and then cops out of making a big deal about my birthday/Valentine's Day or whatever just because it's not a big deal to me. It's sort of quid pro quo...if I'm going to go through the effort to fucking remember when you were spat out of your mother's vagina, then you'd better give me a lapdance on MY birthday.

Nah, it was a small asian girl.

those are the kinkiest bitches....

during my senior year I spent most of my time at Wesleyan. You aint seen shit.

haha...oh yes I have. I grew up 10 minutes away from Wesleyan.

those are the kinkiest bitches....

oh, you have no idea. And I never even dated her...I've just heard the stories. Which were likely toned down.

haha...what can I say...I'm a top.

And so bloody far away. SHUT UP! *kicks you and runs away*

And so bloody far away. SHUT UP! *kicks you and runs away*

you know, if you come visit him, I'm a short 66 bus trip away from his place :p

And so bloody far away. SHUT UP! *kicks you and runs away*
muahahaha
you know, if you come visit him, I'm a short 66 bus trip away from his place :p
Oh, right. The bus that never comes.

I never got into Valentines Day, even though there have been very few Valentines Days that I didn't have someone to celebrate it with...so you can't just say it's single angst. It just annoyed me that someone was expected to buy me flowers (which I hate) or some other useless shit, and I was supposed to get mad if they didn't. Also, everything is more expensive on that day...book your romantic dinner/whatever on another day!!!!

That's what will be cool about your upcoming zeroth anniversary and the many that will follow...you'll have your own day to celebrate something special to you.

you know, if you come visit him, I'm a short 66 bus trip away from his place :p
I keep talking about how I need to do a cross country love tour...

But Mur'v would have to be involved somehow :P
muahahaha Bastard. Going out of your way to ensure you were born thousands of kilometres away from me so that I would experience such frustration!

I keep talking about how I need to do a cross country love tour...

But Mur'v would have to be involved somehow :P
Bastard. Going out of your way to ensure you were born thousands of kilometres away from me so that I would experience such frustration!

Oh, that weekend you're planning to come to Boston? I think I'm going to the west coast that week...


muahahahahaha

That's what will be cool about your upcoming zeroth anniversary and the many that will follow...you'll have your own day to celebrate something special to you.

Oh shit. Another fucking day to remember?

When I love someone, any day can be a celebration of that. A certain date on the calendar is not going to get my juices flowing, and my kink kinking...that just happens on its own.

Oh, that weekend you're planning to come to Boston? I think I'm going to the west coast that week...

Dude, wtf, you gay or something?

Oh, that weekend you're planning to come to Boston? I think I'm going to the west coast that week...


muahahahahaha

Your scalp would look lovely on my belt.

Dude, wtf, you gay or something?

He might be even more sadistic than you...

Dude, wtf, you gay or something?

haha...I have my moments.

That and/or I'm a sadist.

Edit:
Your scalp would look lovely on my belt.

...And very, very scared....

haha...I have my moments. That's hot.

Pics please!

He might be even more sadistic than you...

that's fucking hardcore dedication right there.

Oh shit. Another fucking day to remember?

When I love someone, any day can be a celebration of that. A certain date on the calendar is not going to get my juices flowing, and my kink kinking...that just happens on its own.

Its been my experience that anniversaries are less intended as celebration of love and more akin to the little marks that prisoners cut onto their cell walls to mark the passing years.

When I was married, I tried to get my wife nice little things on "The Day", and she always liked it, but I think I did it for the same reason I wear a necktie to moot practice.

Its nice that you aren't stuck on a given day, though; that way you can do Italy or Ireland or Wherever on days that work out for your jobs, cheap tickets, good travel seasons, concerts, etc, instead of "It has to be the weekend of March Blah because thats our anniversary".

Bastard. Going out of your way to ensure you were born thousands of kilometres away from me so that I would experience such frustration!

Tell me about it! Stupid men. *grumble*

that's fucking hardcore dedication right there.

Ha, more likely, and I'm perfectly willing to accept it, he's just not that into me:D

That's hot.

Pics please!
haha...I'll see what I can do.
that's fucking hardcore dedication right there.
Sometimes the best sadism is the most subtle.

One thing I sort of have difficulty with is paying attention to these sorts of things...in particular Valentine's Day, but also birthdays etc...because they aren't important to me sometimes it just doesn't cross my mind that they are important to someone I'm seeing. Which reminds me that maybe I should ask if Valentine's Day is 'special'...

Yeah, that's how I feel about things like this. Hell, I can hardly be bothered to know what day of the week it is, much less if it happens to be some Hallmark holiday.

As for Valentine's Day, upon thinking about it this is the first one I've been home for in three years, although I likely won't remember it until somebody says something about it three days later (that happens to me on my birthday every year).

As for "having a Valentine" I've just spent a year with no free time or privacy so I plan on enjoying both of them for a while longer before I jump back into the dating bullshit again.

I'm sure you're far more drunk than me given I can't understand the above.

There is a gem of Cinematography known as 'Weird Science'. Check it out.

They are indeed annoying.

I'm not terribly bitter about Valentine's Day this year, though, even if it seems I'll probably be spending it in front of my computer like most other Saturday nights. :)

I don't have any idea what I'll be doing, most certainly not being with anyone special either though.

Oh no. That's why the ring laughs at me. He's gone.

The more you wish for someone's happiness the more it hurts to see them go. Fuck! Time to shut my yapper.:tongue:

No you deserve to rant about it.

Ok so I went for something light hearted and ended up depressing half of NSG including a couple of my closest friends here... I'm going to go ahead to moderation and ask them to delete this tragedy.

Ok so I went for something light hearted and ended up depressing half of NSG including a couple of my closest friends here... I'm going to go ahead to moderation and ask them to delete this tragedy.

Bombed out again SanitB.

Bombed out again SanitB.

Story of my life.

Oh, that weekend you're planning to come to Boston? I think I'm going to the west coast that week...


muahahahahaha

Reeeeally.

*waggles brows*

Reeeeally.

*waggles brows*

Damn you, Ryadn!!!!!! :D

Btw, are you going to plan a visit to Montreal in August?

*waggles brows*

Oh, fuck, I forgot that exist. But I wanted to split up with the boyfriend around then! I'll guess I have to take that into account as well then and have yet another date I can't do it on. Bugger.

Oh, fuck, I forgot that exist. But I wanted to split up with the boyfriend around then! I'll guess I have to take that into account as well then and have yet another date I can't do it on. Bugger.

Why not?

for Dyke Ball, all the girls dress up like sluts (corsets, leather, etc), and any boy brought along must be in drag. I almost ended up in a corset.

This happened in America? And not in California?

By George, there might be hope for this nation yet! :p

Why not?

As in, why not do it then? You know, I'm not cruel. I'm not telling him he's destructive for me on a symbolic day of celebrating being great for each other.

Look, I don't want revenge. I don't want him to suffer any more than he has to. I'll inform him of the fact of his assholeishness, but I'll not drive the point home with a bulldozer.

I just realized I started going out with a girl nine days before valentines day. I'm an idiot.

I just realized I started going out with a girl nine days before valentines day. I'm an idiot.

If you can tell it is going to last break up with her on the 13th.

I stay single on Valentines Day so I can join the miserable singles in bitching about it. Fun times.

Bah, you all miss the whole point. Out to a crowded restaurant, with a limited menu and the waitstaff rushing you so they can bilk the next couple?

Nuh uh. Kat says private, candlelit dinner at home, followed by...whatever couples do. ;)

Post on NSG?

I just realized I started going out with a girl nine days before valentines day. I'm an idiot.

Wait you ASKED HER OUT 9 days before V day? Or you started seeing her? These shades of gray are critical.

If you can tell it is going to last break up with her on the 13th.

Nah, She'd see right through that. I reckon the only just and noble thing to do it to make her break up with me, possibly by sleeping with her sister. Sometimes my level of integrity is a burden, but somehow I manage to shoulder it.

Nah, She'd see right through that. I reckon the only just and noble thing to do it to make her break up with me, possibly by sleeping with her sister. Sometimes my level of integrity is a burden, but somehow I manage to shoulder it.

Well if you just have to have sex with another woman then so be it.

A lover's life is oh so hard. :)

I've no valentine this year, but I still enjoy the day. I dodge the cynicism about all the chocolates and greeting cards, and for twenty-four hours simply try to be a little more loving in general.

Of course, if a cute girl drops out of the sky and I happen to catch her, I'm not going to complain.

SNIP

plus the last thing you want is to be the only person in the universe not getting any :p

chocolates that is >_>

I've no valentine this year, but I still enjoy the day. I dodge the cynicism about all the chocolates and greeting cards, and for twenty-four hours simply try to be a little more loving in general.

you can by me a box of chocolates if you want to share the love :)

Of course, if a cute girl drops out of the sky and I happen to catch her, I'm not going to complain.

surely that would depend on the height?

plus the last thing you want is to be the only person in the universe not getting any :p

chocolates that is >_>


Oh, he refuses to "do" Valentine's Day, so my chances of getting any chocolate that is would be better if I dropped him and tried to find someone else within 24 hours.

Oh, he refuses to "do" Valentine's Day, so my chances of getting any chocolate that is would be better if I dropped him and tried to find someone else within 24 hours.

Hi! :fluffle:

Hi! :fluffle:

Well, hi there! It's too bad I'm not giving out my RL address on the internet, or I could probably manipulate you into sending me chocolates.. ;P

Well, hi there! It's too bad I'm not giving out my RL address on the internet, or I could probably manipulate you into sending me chocolates.. ;P

Manipulate? I'm already volunteering.

Don't have one. At this point, don't want one.

I might celebrate anti-Valentine's Day (http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1384384/ways_to_celebrate_an_antivalentines.html) though...

Manipulate? I'm already volunteering.

What you're trying to say is: I've already successfully manipulated you into volunteering.. ;P

What you're trying to say is: I've already successfully manipulated you into volunteering.. ;P

Damn you and your feminine wiles! I hope you like chocolate covered cherries...

Oh, he refuses to "do" Valentine's Day, so my chances of getting any chocolate that is would be better if I dropped him and tried to find someone else within 24 hours.

this is what happens when you don't train your man women *click click click*

just whore yourself out and make him happy by saying your busy on valentines anyway surely?

Hi! :fluffle:

whore :tongue:

I might celebrate anti-Valentine's Day (http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1384384/ways_to_celebrate_an_antivalentines.html) though...

omg run! hes going to give us healthy fruit and make us exercise *panics*

Manipulate? I'm already volunteering.

*walks onto the set with a cameraman and a microphone*

As we can clearly see, the male of the species has no idea that he has been cleverly coerced to do the female's will. The female's pheromones are so strong as to reduce the male to a simple pawn in her game of dominating the pack. He will do whatever she wants, including attacking and kill other males and females to give this female dominance, on the self-promised result of passing on his DNA to future generations.

Unfortunately, this female will do nothing of the sort for such an easily manipulated male, and will simply string him along until a stronger more powerful specimen comes along. It's tragic really, how nature turns on the weak and defenseless, so that the strong and powerful live to pass on their genes.

This is Galloism, from the NSG wilderness reporting.

Shouldn't that be 'alas'?

Nah, he's speaking Scot.


Mine is Rachael Weiss, no seriously, it is.

Then I wake up.

*walks onto the set with a cameraman and a microphone*

As we can clearly see, the male of the species has no idea that he has been cleverly coerced to do the female's will. The female's pheromones are so strong as to reduce the male to a simple pawn in her game of dominating the pack. He will do whatever she wants, including attacking and kill other males and females to give this female dominance, on the self-promised result of passing on his DNA to future generations.

Unfortunately, this female will do nothing of the sort for such an easily manipulated male, and will simply string him along until a stronger more powerful specimen comes along. It's tragic really, how nature turns on the weak and defenseless, so that the strong and powerful live to pass on their genes.

This is Galloism, from the NSG wilderness reporting.

I lol'd.

Its the simple fact that I believe no woman should go without chocolates on V-Day. If I could start a charity it would be directed to that cause.

Damn you and your feminine wiles! I hope you like chocolate covered cherries...
Hmm. I like choclate covered raspberries best. raspberries are.. "like, OMG".
this is what happens when you don't train your man women *click click click*
I've used up all resources and yet he won't train. And trust me, when I say "all resources" I mean all resources.

So, my nation died...and I went to the World After.

And the choirs of angels greeted me, and with warming torches lit my path through the darkness...

And I halted, saying "Wait, I must tell her farewell, I must go back"

And the angel, a first among equals, came forward, and somberely told me the price...that Heaven is not gladly kept waiting, that invitations to Paradise are not to be compared to the mere poetries of enamored men.

I could turn, the Messenger told me, and go back, once more, for the briefest moment, to tell you Goodbye. But the price would be Nothingness...

"You must learn," the Messenger said, "to say what you need to say while you still draw breath."

And because I failed to do that, it would be the spending of my soul entire to come back and tell you, and the Elysian Fields would forever be closed to me, and in exchange for my Unmaking, I could send you one more post, Nanatsu no Tsuki.

You're my Valentine.

Absolute, fucking, pure, 100% genuine, unadulterated, win.

I'm probably going to a #xkcd meetup, because I'm a well adjusted person with a rounded social life and many interests, as opposed to a sad obsessive computer geek who lives online. Wait...

I'm probably going to a #xkcd meetup, because I'm a well adjusted person with a rounded social life and many interests, as opposed to a sad obsessive computer geek who lives online. Wait...

There's going to be an xkcd meetup? Where?

There's going to be an xkcd meetup? Where?

If it all goes according to plan, a few of the UK/Europe based #xkcdenizens (members of the xkcd irc channel) will be meeting up in London. Linkety-link (http://havard.awegasm.net/xkcd_uk_meet_2009.html).

If it all goes according to plan, a few of the UK/Europe based #xkcdenizens (members of the xkcd irc channel) will be meeting up in London. Linkety-link (http://havard.awegasm.net/xkcd_uk_meet_2009.html).

Too far. Damn.

*walks onto the set with a cameraman and a microphone*

the female of the species is more deadlier than the male *nods*

Then I wake up.

I bet shes well expensive so your prolly lucky with that

I've used up all resources and yet he won't train. And trust me, when I say "all resources" I mean all resources.

the back of a Volkswagen everything? :wink:

also its your own fault then you should of taken more care with the animals you adopt or at least neutered him in front of his mates

the female of the species is more deadlier than the male *nods*

Every time you say "more deadlier", God kills a kitten.

the female of the species is more deadlier than the male *nods*

Indeed WE are.

Indeed WE are.

Yeah, she'll kill you with her split ends.

As we can clearly see, the male of the species has no idea that he has been cleverly coerced to do the female's will. The female's pheromones are so strong as to reduce the male to a simple pawn in her game of dominating the pack. He will do whatever she wants, including attacking and kill other males and females to give this female dominance, on the self-promised result of passing on his DNA to future generations.

Yes, there is a certain...artform to flirting well.

Dude, wtf, you gay or something?
As I once said to a student who said to me, "No offense, Miss, but you're kind of a nerd,"

"Well, DUHHHH, what was your first clue?"

;)

As I once said to a student who said to me, "No offense, Miss, but you're kind of a nerd,"

"Well, DUHHHH, what was your first clue?"

;)

Kat, how do I post a link so that it appears as "here"?

Yeah, she'll kill you with her split ends.

:rolleyes:
Deny men of sex for a week and see who dominates.

:rolleyes:
Deny men of sex for a week and see who dominates.

You couldn't resist me for a whole week. The dark side has an allure to it.

:rolleyes:
Deny men of sex for a week and see who dominates.

So, you've already learned how to be married, even though the ring stares, unblinking, from your bed table?

So, you've already learned how to be married, even though the ring stares, unblinking, from your bed table?

Why, thanks for reminding me.

Why, thanks for reminding me.

Tell me how to post a link so that it appears as "here" and I'll make it up to you.

My link posts are ugly and unwiedly, I want them to be less cluttered.

Tell me how to post a link so that it appears as "here" and I'll make it up to you.

My link posts are ugly and unwiedly, I want them to be less cluttered.

Click the URL button, and put in the URL, it will paste the tag with the url within it. The url will also exist between the tags, but it's highlighted.

You can simply begin typing and it will erase the apparent url with whatever you want to be the word/phrase of the link.

Kat, how do I post a link so that it appears as "here"?
Highlight the word here.
Click the icon with the world and the link.
Paste or type in the link in the box that pops up
Done. Like this (http://tbn0.google.com/hosted/images/c?q=95e9836ba6374f1f_landing):

Tell me how to post a link so that it appears as "here" and I'll make it up to you.

My link posts are ugly and unwiedly, I want them to be less cluttered.

The code is here (http://www.linkofyourpreference.com).

Highlight the word here.
Click the icon with the world and the link.
Paste or type in the link in the box that pops up
Done. Like this (http://msp108.photobucket.com/albums/n24/terr-bo/Terr-bo%20Part%202/Unisphere.jpg):

Thank you both, for help and for not rickrolling me.

Thank you both, for help and for not rickrolling me.

Damn! I wasn't thinking.

The code is here (http://www.linkofyourpreference.com).

Your link doesn't open correctly. I just get a header "www.linkofyourpreference.com" but it doesn't load a page.

Can I be an usher?

Your link doesn't open correctly. I just get a header "www.linkofyourpreference.com" but it doesn't load a page.

Can I be an usher?

I meant to link you to my naked photos, but the link is broken.

Ah well, that's a shame. Another time perhaps.

A girl! :D

Kat, how do I post a link so that it appears as "here"?

If you are like myself and have turned off all the fancy features on the posting screen, type in this: Foo bar (http://www.notawebsite.com)

Which will produce: Foo bar (http://www.notawebsite.com)

I meant to link you to my naked photos, but the link is broken.

Ah well, that's a shame. Another time perhaps.

When people ask why I have no avatar, this is what I'll tell them.

:p:hail:As soon as the xmas decorations came down my wife stuck a pink heart complete with lights in our window. I lost my internal organs right about then myself.
love you too honey! * I did ask before hand and you did say you were fine with it*

:rolleyes:
Deny men of sex for a week and see who dominates.

aww, that's funny. Like any woman who tried that with me would still be around for week 2.

aww, that's funny. Like any woman who tried that with me would still be around for week 2.

Oh, hello. How are you, Neo Art? Good, I hope. How's work? Good? Nice. Now, I'm not sure but, who was talking to you, dearie?

This happened in America? And not in California?

By George, there might be hope for this nation yet! :p
MA. We're actually more liberal than CA. Go figure.

We just aren't as annoying ;)

As I once said to a student who said to me, "No offense, Miss, but you're kind of a nerd,"

"Well, DUHHHH, what was your first clue?"

;)

...did I just get called flamboyantly gay by a mod?


sick.

aww, that's funny. Like any woman who tried that with me would still be around for week 2.

What a delightful person you are.

:p:hail:
love you too honey! * I did ask before hand and you did say you were fine with it*

Joking babe, joking.;)

Oh, hello. How are you, Neo Art? Good, I hope. How's work? Good? Nice. Now, I'm not sure but, who was talking to you, dearie?

Shut down!!

Neo Art, I may be a hopeless romantic, but have you ever thought that maybe, maybe, you are a sexist bastard.

Neo Art, I may be a hopeless romantic, but have you ever thought that maybe, maybe, you are a sexist bastard.

Heh. He doesn't really need to think that. Obnoxious smart-ass, yes; sexist bastard, no. ;)

Neo Art, I may be a hopeless romantic, but have you ever thought that maybe, maybe, you are a sexist bastard.

Thank you. Thank you so, so, so much for providing a little comedic entertainment to end my night; I've just spent hours at another tedious, ubiquitious pseudo-Indy club in which the inebriated masses gather and pretend to enjoy dancing to the fucking Wombats or Pigeon Detectives, and done so sobre.

Its almost Valentine's day people! Yeah sure its not a real holiday per say but its still fun, so who is your Valentine this year?

Mine is my mother, her birthday coincides with Valentine's so she gets it no matter what. I don't have anyone else to be one this year.

It will be myself. I'm not giving it to some girl I hardly know, and the ones I do know I do not see that way. Plus I really need some love. Besides, why love someone else for one day, when I can love myself like I do every day?

Neo Art, I may be a hopeless romantic, but have you ever thought that maybe, maybe, you are a sexist bastard.

It's called humour?

aww, that's funny. Like any woman who tried that with me would still be around for week 2.

I have politely asked you to stop eye-balling my girl*, Neo Art.

Now, you and I have a little appointment coming up on the thread of battle, so I'm going to let this one slide, but if you don't shuffle your slimy ass away from Nanatsu, I'm going to wreck your shit up right here, fucktard.

*By girl, I don't mean girlfriend, I mean object of my stalking love.

When are you guys gonna have at it anyway? I think it's pretty much been decided what the debate is going to be about.

When are you guys gonna have at it anyway? I think it's pretty much been decided what the debate is going to be about.

The Harvard boy wants a run-off vote for the top three choices. He's going to post it tonight, unless he meets some little Southie cupcake at one of those shit bars he goes to.

Damn you, Ryadn!!!!!! :D

Btw, are you going to plan a visit to Montreal in August?

*waggles brows*

I'll be unemployed in August, so sure, as long as you keep me from starving!

This happened in America? And not in California?

By George, there might be hope for this nation yet! :p

Oh, parts of both coasts are fine. It's just all that stretch in the middle that's fucked up.

MA. We're actually more liberal than CA. Go figure.

We just aren't as annoying ;)

BeLOW me.

Oh, parts of both coasts are fine. It's just all that stretch in the middle that's fucked up.

Maybe that's why all my friends say I am an anomaly that should not exist, that being a multicultural socialist Texan :p

It's just all that stretch in the middle that's fucked up.

....we're not ALL bad. :(

Its almost Valentine's day people! Yeah sure its not a real holiday per say but its still fun, so who is your Valentine this year?

Mine is my mother, her birthday coincides with Valentine's so she gets it no matter what. I don't have anyone else to be one this year.
I have no Valentine.

I'll be unemployed in August, so sure, as long as you keep me from starving! If you want a change of scene, I could always use a roomate! Besides, I need someone to practice my immigration skills on!

Maybe that's why all my friends say I am an anomaly that should not exist, that being a multicultural socialist Texan :p

Multicultural (I assume you mean that like "multi-ethnic") doesn't seem uncommon in a state that borders another country. As for socialist... well, I guess the question would be, are you from Austin, or the rest of the state? :P

....we're not ALL bad. :(

Awww, I didn't mean it like that, Poli! You know you're a bright, tiny beacon in the sea of unwashed humanity. :P

I might get a girlfriend for Valentines Day...a hot Dene one!

Multicultural (I assume you mean that like "multi-ethnic") doesn't seem uncommon in a state that borders another country. As for socialist... well, I guess the question would be, are you from Austin, or the rest of the state? :P

No, I mean multicutural.

Multicultural
Adj.
1) Of, relating to, or including several cultures.
2) Of or relating to a social or educational theory that encourages interest in many cultures within a society rather than in only a mainstream culture.

And it is not like the Mexican culture is the only one that Texans would run into. There is in fact large German and Czech communities here just to name a few. And no, not from Austin, from San Antonio.

-Snip_


Awww, I didn't mean it like that, Poli! You know you're a bright, tiny beacon in the sea of unwashed humanity. :P

I'll have you know I shower regularly AND use deodorant.

Neo Art, I may be a hopeless romantic, but have you ever thought that maybe, maybe, you are a sexist bastard.

It's called humour?

To an extent humor, but there's truth behind my statement. Am I sexist? No, not at all. I have nothing but the utmost respect for women. But the funny thing about me is, when I respect someone, I expect to be respected in turn.

Call me crazy, I know. But at my core I'm a very basic guy with very basic requirements. And chief among them all is the main one. Treat me like an adult. And I shall do the same to you.

Because, at its core, it's not sexism at all, in fact, just the opposite. I recognize that women are, just the same as men, capable of being intelligent, mature, adult individuals. And if one wants to be involved with me, I expect nothing less. Sexism? No, just the opposite. It's an unwillingness to expect less from them than I am willing to give myself.

If you're upset with me, and, instead of talking to me about it, like an adult, you decide to try and "withold sex" as a punishment? No, fuck that shit, get the fuck out of my house.

You try to "get the upper hand" in a relationship, instead of dealing with me as an equal? No, fuck that shit, get the fuck out of my house.

For instance, comments like, I dunno, this:

Oh, hello. How are you, Neo Art? Good, I hope. How's work? Good? Nice. Now, I'm not sure but, who was talking to you, dearie?

Are the kind of thing that will just make you unwelcome. If you can't deal with me like an adult, then you are not the one for me, and, I promise you, I'm not the one for you. Treat me like an adult, show me that you respect me, and I will be there for you every step of the way. Treat me like a child, or our relationship as some sort of contest for "control" and I will kick you to the curb. I'm not going to let you waste my time. And, because I respect you, I'm not going to waste yours.

*snip* Do you mind if I write that down and use it later, Neo? (I'll give you credit, of course.)

As for my Valentine: I'm Lonely (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z-HyrtH60EE), but it doesn't bother me much.

Its almost Valentine's day people! Yeah sure its not a real holiday per say but its still fun, so who is your Valentine this year?

No-one. February 14 and May 1 are the two days on the calendar that I would like to see wiped off the calendar and completely and utterly discarded. Valentine's Day is a ploy by the card and candy companies to make a buck.

Are the kind of thing that will just make you unwelcome. If you can't deal with me like an adult, then you are not the one for me, and, I promise you, I'm not the one for you. Treat me like an adult, show me that you respect me, and I will be there for you every step of the way. Treat me like a child, or our relationship as some sort of contest for "control" and I will kick you to the curb. I'm not going to let you waste my time. And, because I respect you, I'm not going to waste yours.

You have a point there NA. But what if you want sex from that girl huh? Then your screwed in the one way you don't wanna be! :D

For instance, comments like, I dunno, this:



Are the kind of thing that will just make you unwelcome. If you can't deal with me like an adult, then you are not the one for me, and, I promise you, I'm not the one for you. Treat me like an adult, show me that you respect me, and I will be there for you every step of the way. Treat me like a child, or our relationship as some sort of contest for "control" and I will kick you to the curb. I'm not going to let you waste my time. And, because I respect you, I'm not going to waste yours.

:confused:I think my words my have sparked some anger in you. I thought you knew I was joking. Oh well.

the back of a Volkswagen everything? :wink:

also its your own fault then you should have taken more care with the animals you adopt or at least neutered him in front of his mates
I'm not sure how you've missed that what with me literally flooding this poor forum with whiny, bloggy posts about how I'm trying to sex him every night (and morning), and how he refuses sex for weeks on end - but yes, that too.

I'll think about the neutering thing. It's not like he uses the things anyhow, and even if by some ugly chance he did get tricked into it, maybe he oughtn't procreate.


Deny men of sex for a week and see who dominates.
Frustration is who dominates. On both sides.

Frustration is who dominates.

Some people like that though.

.....

what?

I'm not sure how you've missed that what with me literally flooding this poor forum with whiny, bloggy posts about how I'm trying to sex him every night (and morning), and how he refuses sex for weeks on end - but yes, that too.

...who are you again :p

a guy who's refusing sex doesn't want to be involved with you honey and you should ditch that sorry arse and add that he can't please you *noses even more into somebody else's personal life*

I'll think about the neutering thing. It's not like he uses the things anyhow, and even if by some ugly chance he did get tricked into it, maybe he oughtn't procreate.

I was thinking more of showing him up or maybe hitting on all his friends in front of him by whatever pleases you :p

...who are you again :p

OMGnoes you like hurt my feeelingzz!!!11!1!

.. actually, this clearly means that I can go on spamming you all with my woes and inserting inappropriate remarks about this situation in literally every post since it obviously hasn't sunk in enough yet. Good.

a guy who's refusing sex doesn't want to be involved with you honey and you should ditch that sorry arse and add that he can't please you *noses even more into somebody else's personal life*
Actually, no. Not only has he proven quite a number of times before that he very seriously does want to be involved with me, but I also happen to know that this has been a problem (and reason for separation) with prior girlfriends of his, too.

He just really is that way. Which, of course, doesn't make it that much better.

Actually, no. Not only has he proven quite a number of times before that he very seriously does want to be involved with me, but I also happen to know that this has been a problem (and reason for separation) with prior girlfriends of his, too.

He just really is that way. Which, of course, doesn't make it that much better.

Imagine how he'll feel when, yet again, someone dumps him for it.

Imagine how he'll feel when, yet again, someone dumps him for it.

Yeah, I already pity for him for it. I mean, it's not like you can control the level of your sex drive willingly.. but I guess I think he ought to either be upfront about it (I mean, if you'll only want it, like, once a month pretty soon that's abnormal enough to bring it up right away), or make the incredible effort to still consent to sex, say, once a week.

Sorry for the threadjack; let's continue with the original topic.

Nobody.

Nobody.

Peeps is just a gigolo?

You have a point there NA. But what if you want sex from that girl huh? Then your screwed in the one way you don't wanna be! :D

I have yet to meet a girl so tremendously good in bed that it was worth it for me to put up with those kind of things.

Sex isn't hard to get. I therefore see no reason why I should compromise my requirements in order to get it

whore :tongue:


No, the proper term is slut, I don't charge for my services.

No, the proper term is slut, I don't charge for my services.

Slut.:tongue:

:rolleyes:
Deny men of sex for a week and see who dominates.

Babe I've gone without sex for 2 almost 3 years. You really think someone denying me for a week will change anything?

Yeah, I already pity for him for it. I mean, it's not like you can control the level of your sex drive willingly.. but I guess I think he ought to either be upfront about it (I mean, if you'll only want it, like, once a month pretty soon that's abnormal enough to bring it up right away), or make the incredible effort to still consent to sex, say, once a week.

Sorry for the threadjack; let's continue with the original topic.

I don't care about the threadjack.

I'd make things better SoWiBi I just live in the wrong country.

Slut.:tongue:

Theoretically anyway :(

Theoretically anyway :(

You're a slut, be proud. And you know I have thee in high esteem.;)

You're a slut, be proud. And you know I have thee in high esteem.;)

Yeah but I don't get to be a slut. Just pretend...

Yeah but I don't get to be a slut. Just pretend...

Let me get you in on a secret: Neither do I. I also pretend.:wink:

.. actually, this clearly means that I can go on spamming you all with my woes and inserting inappropriate remarks about this situation in literally every post since it obviously hasn't sunk in enough yet. Good.

get a blog :tongue:

He just really is that way. Which, of course, doesn't make it that much better.

dump him anyway you should go out and have some fun instead of being stuck indoors prematurely married

*points out that I'm so not hitting on you because you live like a trillion miles away and prolly have like a longer index toe than your big toe*

No, the proper term is slut, I don't charge for my services.

your telling me you don't expect anything in return?

Let me get you in on a secret: Neither do I. I also pretend.:wink:

*shows you diamond necklace*

*shows you diamond necklace*


So... how's it going?

So... how's it going?

its not so bad, it is a pain to choose which luxury sports car to drive though and you wouldn't believe how much cocaine I have to snort ;)

*points out that I'm so not hitting on you because you live like a trillion miles away and prolly have like a longer index toe than your big toe*

Herein lies the difference between CtP and myself. I live 2 trillion miles away, and I'm dead serious half the time :p.


your telling me you don't expect anything in return?


Uhmm if I'm getting what I want why would I want something in return?

Peeps is just a gigolo?

Heh hardly, well not anymore!:D

Naah I just don't buy into it is all. Un romantic as it may sound, my wife will be getting nowt from me agian this Valentines day.

Heh hardly, well not anymore!:D

Naah I just don't buy into it is all. Un romantic as it may sound, my wife will be getting nowt from me agian this Valentines day.

So long as you love her every other day of the year as well, I doubt she'll ever expect you to do anything different on one cold night in February.

So long as you love her every other day of the year as well, I doubt she'll ever expect you to do anything different on one cold night in February.

Exactly!

Herein lies the difference between CtP and myself. I live 2 trillion miles away, and I'm dead serious half the time :p.

well yeah even I can't keep my hands off myself

but your all usually desperate types so I think you can all come to me

Uhmm if I'm getting what I want why would I want something in return?

well its a scientific fact that all women are evil so staying one step ahead is usually a good idea

its not so bad, it is a pain to choose which luxury sports car to drive though and you wouldn't believe how much cocaine I have to snort ;)

I'm sure you need to snort the same amount I have to in order to put up with this.:wink:

I'm sure you need to snort the same amount I have to in order to put up with this.:wink:

now if only I had a girls abs to snort it off >.>

NSG really has changed over the years hasn't it

now if only I had a girls abs to snort it off >.>

NSG really has changed over the years hasn't it

Not really. It's not like there was "NSG-the Eighties" or anything.
That would be a pretty funny hypothetical thread.

now if only I had a girls abs to snort it off >.>

NSG really has changed over the years hasn't it

Want to use mine? Of course, that's only if I can use your foreskin to snort mine off. <_<

It has changed countless times, and I've been here only a year.

now if only I had a girls abs to snort it off >.>

Done that....

Done that....

Of course, you know the law.

get a blog :tongue:
I have one, but nobody reads it, so I have to expose myself here. Right? Right? Right...

dump him anyway you should go out and have some fun instead of being stuck indoors prematurely married
Oh, do try to keep up! It's all been about how I'm preparing to dump him in the next few days/weeks.. Tsk, really. You really ought to pay more attention to me and my insular little problems, now.

*points out that I'm so not hitting on you because you live like a trillion miles away and prolly have like a longer index toe than your big toe*

That's interesting. Wait. *measures* No, you're wrong. My big toe is 4.4 cm long, and my index toe 3.9 cm. It's a good thing the office is deserted on a Friday late afternoon..

I have one, but nobody reads it,

OHHH, tg me the link?

so I have to expose myself here. Right? Right? Right...

Pics plz.


Oh, do try to keep up! It's all been about how I'm preparing to dump him in the next few days/weeks.. Tsk, really. You really ought to pay more attention to me and my insular little problems, now.

Oh I do, trust me, I do.

It's a good thing the office is deserted on a Friday late afternoon..

Wait, so, you're all alone right now?

OHHH, tg me the link?
Sorry, no. First of all, most of it is in German, and secondly, it's too RL-detailled for me to send it to non-RL-contacts.

Wait, so, you're all alone right now?

Yes. my comments from earlier re: productivity and amount of time / kind of activity I'll spend doing online while in the office today still stands, though.

Yes. my comments from earlier re: productivity and amount of time / kind of activity I'll spend doing online while in the office today still stands, though.

no fun whatsoever

I have one, but nobody reads it, so I have to expose myself here. Right? Right? Right...

You never told me. (Actually I don't generally do blogs but I make exceptions for exceptional people)

no fun whatsoever
I tells ya. I've been given a printed (!!!) version of several papers and journal editions and been instructed to "create MS Word templates that'll format an therein inputted text (yay mangled language) to come out EXACTLY like the ones we've given you when printed!", and, oh, please send me the files by tonight. Hah.

You never told me. (Actually I don't generally do blogs but I make exceptions for exceptional people)

See my post above. Sorry, guys.

See my post above. Sorry, guys.

Oh no problem. I thought you actually did want someone to read it.

SaintB :)

Oh no problem. I thought you actually did want someone to read it.

And here we see the male of the species again attempting to appease the female. The female sends out signals that are designed to be tricky and cause the male to offer assistance. Unfortunately, the female is simply testing him to see how compliant he is.

The male is clearly compliant in this case, and will do anything that the female asks of him. Although the female is testing for this trait, it is undesirable, and causes the male to simply be stuck in what is scientifically referred to as "friend mode", where he will serve backed by his own delusion that, someday, he can break out of this mode into a partnership role.

However, the female in this case is simply using him to feed her own status as leader of the pack, and he will continually be used to bolster this position. Nature is a cruel mistress this way, and it's sad to see the creature stuck in this position, but, be that as it may, we can only let nature take its course.

This is Galloism, reporting live from the General jungle, deep in the heart of Nationstates, in the Jolt Peninsula.

Um, my loneliness. :)