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Kryozerkia was doing his job and he had to close my last Thread. I respect that. I need help, really. I'm still in love with someone who cares nothing for me. I always have problems approaching people because I have a fear of rejection. How can I change? Please help me.

You can't MAKE someone love you. And only YOU can figure out what to change.

I want to get over her and stop fearing rejection.

Kryozerkia was doing his job and he had to close my last Thread. I respect that. I need help, really. I'm still in love with someone who cares nothing for me. I always have problems approaching people because I have a fear of rejection. How can I change? Please help me.

You know how up close, every snowflake is beautiful and special? But if you pull back for a second, they all look pretty similar?

You're looking at one of them right now and you're struck by it, "in love" with it. You have to take some steps back, hard as that is, and look around.

You're going to be rejected. A lot. Sometimes viciously. So were most people here.

It really is a numbers game. You have to get out there, learn to have a good time with friends, but in places with other people. Find a way to enjoy yourself as yourself, and you may find you are suddenly more attractive to others.

Then, it just takes time and a willingness to get shot down a lot. I hate to say it, but Boomhauer really does get it.

Only you can figure out how. Take a break from relationships.

I want to get over her and stop fearing rejection.

The first part one is just time. The second one is repetition. If you can stomach it, once, to go out, ask somebody out, get rejected, the next time, its a tiny, almost imperceptibly bit easier. Now do that 10,000 more times.

You can't be the only one fighting for a relationship. If somebody doesn't return your feelings then you need to simply walk away with your pride intact before you do something stupid. A relationship is about sharing the perfect gift that YOU are. Not doing whatever it takes to get someone to love you. Besides your "love" may simply be because of lonelyness. I adivce you simply be yourself,move on and fight your fear of rejection one step at a time. Instead of asking a girl out,why not ask a guy you don't usually hang with about hanging after school and if you live in a big city or something.Go to a place where people are less likely to know you and if you see a crowd of people/girls don't feel wrong about talking to them,even if they reject you you have learned no?

Subtle.

A little personal hygiene goes a long way to getting a girlfriend.

You know how up close, every snowflake is beautiful and special? But if you pull back for a second, they all look pretty similar?

You're looking at one of them right now and you're struck by it, "in love" with it. You have to take some steps back, hard as that is, and look around.

You're going to be rejected. A lot. Sometimes viciously. So were most people here.

It really is a numbers game. You have to get out there, learn to have a good time with friends, but in places with other people. Find a way to enjoy yourself as yourself, and you may find you are suddenly more attractive to others.

Then, it just takes time and a willingness to get shot down a lot. I hate to say it, but Boomhauer really does get it.

That was really meaningful, I've never really seen it that way. Thank You!

Subtle.

A little personal hygiene goes a long way to getting a girlfriend.

They think I'm metro because I moisturize and work out.

The first part one is just time. The second one is repetition. If you can stomach it, once, to go out, ask somebody out, get rejected, the next time, its a tiny, almost imperceptibly bit easier. Now do that 10,000 more times.

Actually, I get rejected alot and still fear it.

They think I'm metro because I moisturize and work out.

Weel thare's yer gawd dang problem init? Chicks smell fear, and dig testosterone. Drink more beer, buy a 4x4, watch a whole hell of a lot of football or NASCAR and light your farts on fire. Trust me. ;)

That was really meaningful, I've never really seen it that way. Thank You!

Okay, so it was a bit cliche, I'll admit.

I spent a long time totally lost in how to approach women.

A big part of it may be, how much of yourself do you have worked out? How well formed is your identity, do you know who you are, what you're into, are you comfortable in your own skin?

I wasn't, and if you aren't, women can smell that. That's not to say that a lot of them aren't monstrously f----ed up themselves, but the healthy, happy ones can usually sense if you aren't at peace with yourself. It will turn some of them off.

Plus, there's a percentage of women who won't date any one shorter than themselves. An overlapping percentage won't date poor guys, or non-ripped guys, or guys with long/short/facial/dark/light/curly/straight hair.

That's really why its a numbers game. Just don't ante up too heavy and don't play at the big tables until your risk tolerance is up there.

Don't bother trying. Failure will only make you feel worse. Just start drinking heavily so you no longer give a shit.

Actually, I get rejected alot and still fear it.

Well, you have to acclimate to it at some point, it doesn't really ever stop.

Your approach isn't all needy and melodramatic, is it?

Don't bother trying. Failure will only make you feel worse. Just start drinking heavily so you no longer give a shit.

This, plus masturbation, got me where I am today.

Lower your standards.

You can work your way back up.

Weel thare's yer gawd dang problem init? Chicks smell fear, and dig testosterone. Drink more beer, buy a 4x4, watch a whole hell of a lot of football or NASCAR and light your farts on fire. Trust me. ;)

No point in changing who you are and it isn't fear that repels them. It the lack of self-confience. If you got the nerves to walk up to a women and you don't use a stupid pick-up line and you had time to hang out in her circle of friends or caught her attention ror something. Then she give you five minutes of her time(alone is best) for you to ask her out. If she says no,then says thanks anyway and move on. Be yourself,keep your pride intact and hang with your guys and eventally when your ready ask another girl out. But don'tever seen desperate. Thats throws women off also. And it nevers does hurt to be a bit more manly I suppose. Lots as you don't change you to much to the point you don't like who you are anymore.

And if the girls were your friends,maybe they rejected you because they only thought of you as a friend and that you were stuck in friend terriorty. It harder to jump the point from friend to lover,then stranger, or aquitance to lover.

Lower your standards.

You can work your way back up.

Hell yeah, true story right there.

Lower your standards.

You can work your way back up.

I vote against this. Once you get so low, you can't get back up.

Think of it this way, statistically the odds are in your favor.

The world's population is 52% female, and more males than females are homosexual according to surveys, so 97% of the male population is looking for women, and 98% of the female population is looking for men.

The Earth's human population is roughly 6.5 Billion these days; applying the adjusted percentages 3,331,000,000 + heterosexual women and 3,029,000,000 heterosexual men.

Applying that logic, there are several hundred women looking for YOU right now.

Maybe that'll boost your ego a bit? Go get 'em tiger!

Well, you have to acclimate to it at some point, it doesn't really ever stop.

Your approach isn't all needy and melodramatic, is it?

Nope, I always do it as comfortably as possible. You're really knowledgeable by the way.

I vote against this. Once you get so low, you can't get back up.

Skills transfer.

Nothing like a near-sighted tubby chick with low self esteem to teach you that squirmy, giggly, slightly drunken sex is a fine entry level hobby.

I vote against this. Once you get so low, you can't get back up.

No sense in going back up. Lower your standards, improve your average.

Also you should probably try to be a bit more Alpha when it comes to your group of friends. You should obv. be the man around center around with or talks to. That antoehr thing "chicks" dig. Those mainly I don't even think getting a GF is worth it. Don't take a GF just for the sake of a GF and reliase that your a gift to somebody else and if they don't want it,it theirs to miss.

Think of it this way, statistically the odds are in your favor.

The world's population is 52% female, and more males than females are homosexual according to surveys, so 97% of the male population is looking for women, and 98% of the female population is looking for men.

The Earth's human population is roughly 6.5 Billion these days; applying the adjusted percentages 3,331,000,000 + heterosexual women and 3,029,000,000 heterosexual men.

Applying that logic, there are several hundred women looking for YOU right now.

Maybe that'll boost your ego a bit? Go get 'em tiger!

It kinda did! Even though I feel like crap for not even lowering my standards.

Nope, I always do it as comfortably as possible. You're really knowledgeable by the way.

I'm knowledgeable in the sense that a Combodian guy with one leg is knowledgeable about land mines. I learned the hard way.

And I'm hardly Casanova as it is, but I have a long term relationship.

Now, I've come full circle and I long for the old days, getting shot down 9 out of 10 times, but at least I was in the game...

Now you've depressed me.

I strongly suggest Japanese dating sims (if you can get your hands on one). Of course, you might have to learn Japanese, but hey, maybe that can make you seem more interesting.

This, plus masturbation, got me where I am today.

Very good advice. Develop disturbing fetishes while your at it, and also delusions of grandeur.

Also you should probably try to be a bit more Alpha when it comes to your group of friends. You should obv. be the man around center around with or talks to. That antoehr thing "chicks" dig. Those mainly I don't even think getting a GF is worth it. Don't take a GF just for the sake of a GF and reliase that your a gift to somebody else and if they don't want it,it theirs to miss.

This is about as helpful as saying: Be Brad Pitt.

This is about as helpful as saying: Be Brad Pitt.

I'm Brad Pitt.

Also you should probably try to be a bit more Alpha when it comes to your group of friends. You should obv. be the man around center around with or talks to. That antoehr thing "chicks" dig. Those mainly I don't even think getting a GF is worth it. Don't take a GF just for the sake of a GF and reliase that your a gift to somebody else and if they don't want it,it theirs to miss.

I am though. I just have shitluck in finding the right ones. Yes I work out, no I'm not short I'm average height (5'11). It's just too hard for me to compete.

I'm Brad Pitt.

Are you over run with women yet?

This is about as helpful as saying: Be Brad Pitt.

Not really, if you noticed among a group of males,the one that the girls like is the guy that shoves the other dudes into the lockers or puts his arm around the other guy shoulder when their getting a picture taken. It displays that I thetop-dog and chicks are program to like the top dog.

Are you over run with women yet?

Only the kind that no sane person would touch.

I'm Brad Pitt.

Can you adopt me, always the Cambodian kids, what about a white-collar worker for originality?

It kinda did! Even though I feel like crap for not even lowering my standards.

Meh, I am obsessive/compulsive... there are some standards I just can't even concieve of lowering.

I have been in your boat before by the way, you need to work on your self confidence. Focus on what you have thats (for lack of a better term) marketable.

I'm knowledgeable in the sense that a Combodian guy with one leg is knowledgeable about land mines. I learned the hard way.

And I'm hardly Casanova as it is, but I have a long term relationship.

Now, I've come full circle and I long for the old days, getting shot down 9 out of 10 times, but at least I was in the game...

Now you've depressed me.

We have the same shotdown average. You should be happy! You're in a relationship, you teach others, you're funny. Dude, you're living the life.

A man needs a woman like a bicycle needs a fish. Read a book, watch a movie, get into a passionate political argument, hang out with your friends--sexual/romantic relationships aren't the be-all and end-all of life.

Can you adopt me, always the Cambodian kids, what about a white-collar worker for originality?

Sorry. The kids are to pick up other chicks, and you aren't cute enough.

Not really, if you noticed among a group of males,the one that the girls like is the guy that shoves the other dudes into the lockers or puts his arm around the other guy shoulder when their getting a picture taken. It displays that I thetop-dog and chicks are program to like the top dog.

In High School films yes,

I am though. I just have shitluck in finding the right ones. Yes I work out, no I'm not short I'm average height (5'11). It's just too hard for me to compete.

Well, if you're really convinced its luck, we have to go to the one man who gets to f--k on Lady Luck whenever he wants. Mr. Statistics.

Neo Art asked an important question, about how old are you?


The ancient monks of Fukushi long ago developed a secret, ancient mathematical expression that will tell you exactly, and I mean exactly, what kind of women you can get close to. They could predict, to within size, eye color, skank factor, and cup size, what kind of women were within your 95% confidence range.

Very good advice. Develop disturbing fetishes while your at it, and also delusions of grandeur.
Aka, become a /b/tard.
I'm Brad Pitt.

No I'm Spa.....Brad Pitt!

Meh, I am obsessive/compulsive... there are some standards I just can't even concieve of lowering.

I have been in your boat before by the way, you need to work on your self confidence. Focus on what you have thats (for lack of a better term) marketable.

Thank you!

I am though. I just have shitluck in finding the right ones. Yes I work out, no I'm not short I'm average height (5'11). It's just too hard for me to compete.

Then I suppose you need to make yourself stand out in a certian way without getting label as being werid. A very beautiful girl for her entire life gets called beautiful and gets as much attention and guys drooling after her as she wants. If your just another dude going *drools* so prettyy... then you don't stand out and you get rejected. After all, WHY should she go out with YOU when she can have anyone? Give her a reason to,and don't be scare to play girls off one another,if you get two girls after you,play them off each other unless their friends(bad idea 9 ot of 10 times if they are).

Only the kind that no sane person would touch.

Well, in order to be the best you must lose your mind!

Well, if you're really convinced its luck, we have to go to the one man who gets to f--k on Lady Luck whenever he wants. Mr. Statistics.

Neo Art asked an important question, about how old are you?


The ancient monks of Fukushi long ago developed a secret, ancient mathematical expression that will tell you exactly, and I mean exactly, what kind of women you can get close to. They could predict, to within size, eye color, skank factor, and cup size, what kind of women were within your 95% confidence range.

19 *sighs*

We have the same shotdown average. You should be happy! You're in a relationship, you teach others, you're funny. Dude, you're living the life.

If you're getting dates with 1 out of 10 women you try for, believe me, it could be worse.

I know a guy in San Jose, gets 1 out of 50. Some nights, we go out with him just to watch the magic happen.

And that 50 is not a focused subset...he just tries the first 50 women he runs into when we would go out. Incredibly hot, very much not, young, old, cashmere or gold lamay, he just went for it.

And eventually, he'd go home with somebody, and he had a girlfriend when he wanted one.

As for being in a relationship, like Spock said to that Vulcan bitch, "The wanting is often better than the having. Its not logical, but it is often true."

I think thats what he said.

Love can sometimes occur by accident. I learned that well. :)

In High School films yes,

No, in High School thank you very much. This fight always goes on in my class among all the boys. The Alpha fight is always on-going. Trust me,when you see it happening everyday you kinda believe it. Those it not the end all of end all either. I just saying no point in allowing others to walk over you no matter what.

Love can sometimes occur by accident. I learned that well. :)

I hope so.

This fight always goes on in my class among all the boys. The Alpha fight is always on-going.

That's because (most) teenage guys are obnoxious pricks.

Thank you!

No prolemo. I am rarely serious, but I know what people need to hear.

I hope so.

I know so. Trust me my good sir. it hapened to me when i'd almost given up.

Now if you excuse me, I need to catch up on 2 days of sleep. Night! :p

The ancient monks of Fukushi long ago developed a secret, ancient mathematical expression that will tell you exactly, and I mean exactly, what kind of women you can get close to. They could predict, to within size, eye color, skank factor, and cup size, what kind of women were within your 95% confidence range.

Things are dire if you'd take dating advice from an ancient monk. I think I'd ask my grandmother first ... and she's dead.

No, in High School thank you very much. This fight always goes on in my class among all the boys. The Alpha fight is always on-going. Trust me,when you see it happening everyday you kinda believe it. Those it not the end all of end all either. I just saying no point in allowing others to walk over you no matter what.

It's not like they're the only ones with girlfriends, plenty other people are finding relationships in a myriad of ways.

Telling someone who isn't an 'Alpha male' to be an 'Alpha male', especially your narrow view of it, is close to useless.

Now if you excuse me, I need to catch up on 2 days of sleep. Night! :p

You'll ruin your health that way young fella. A good day's sleep should never be taken at night.

No prolemo. I am rarely serious, but I know what people need to hear.

You've really helped alot, along with everyone else who was serious. I owe you.

You'll ruin your health that way young fella. A good day's sleep should never be taken at night.

I am SaintB, and I endorse this message.

That's because (most) teenage guys are obnoxious pricks.

So true, but if you were like me. The "Romeo" type guy with poems and senstiveness and $hit which can get alotta chicks to like you if they don't think your faking it. The pricks guys in my class would try to take me out by bullying me or slamming me into lockers to be "Alpha" and establie the food chain which I could give less of a f about. But eventally after a period of years I learned it good to be more Aphla as all the more followers types guys will leave you alone and you have to less wory about. To me it was more about protection really and it screwed me out of a girl before. And some girls are the type who like it when a guys fights over them. Depends on how far your willing to go I suppose.

It's not like they're the only ones with girlfriends, plenty other people are finding relationships in a myriad of ways.

Telling someone who isn't an 'Alpha male' to be an 'Alpha male', especially your narrow view of it, is close to useless.

I agree. Unless what they mean is "find more loserly friends so you're more the alpha" in which case its worse than useless.

You've really helped alot, along with everyone else who was serious. I owe you.

No you don't. You can pay me back by putting up with my endless bad jokes.

I always got through life by being the guy who looks at the Alpha Male crowed and went, "What a bunch of idiots..."

It's not like they're the only ones with girlfriends, plenty other people are finding relationships in a myriad of ways.

Telling someone who isn't an 'Alpha male' to be an 'Alpha male', especially your narrow view of it, is close to useless.

Alot of them don't have GFs. It more about respect among the guys really. But prehaps your right. I don't claim to have all the answers.

Love can sometimes occur by accident. I learned that well. :)

Oh yeah that reminds me about how my uncle met his fiance. He was taking a bus to work when someone took his iPod and jumped off the bus. He chased him and when he turned a corner he ran right into a girl. When he got up, he just stared at the girl who stared back. Then he asked "Are you doing something tonight?" and they hit it off. Cool story huh?

No you don't. You can pay me back by putting up with my endless bad jokes.

I always will.

Ok,before I get bashed. The Alpha crowd IS the only crowd around here thank you very much. And I don't care as much about it as I used to and I given up on getting a GF short-term. I simply want to bash a guy head in when I get the chance(and I a very non-voilence person). Disregard my advice then,but it does help,women DO like it regardless.

Black Kids, no one can help you find a girl that's right for you. Only you can do that. And when you do, I wish you all the happiness and luck in the world. To love and feel loved is, IMO, one if not the greatest feeling there is.

And some girls are the type who like it when a guys fights over them.

That's a massive turn-off for me. It amounts to "one guy's love and attention isn't enough, I'm better than any one guy."

No candy for her.

I'll ask what I asked before, how old are you?

Black Kids, no one can help you find a girl that's right for you. Only you can do that. And when you do, I wish you all the happiness and luck in the world. To love and feel loved is, IMO, one if not the greatest feeling there is.

A very sincere thanks, I miss the feeling of being loved.

I want to get over her and stop fearing rejection.
If you'd like to get over her, get busy with something else. Go work out. Start a new hobby. Start biking. Make new friends and hang out with them.

To stop fearing rejection -- get rejected a few times. It's normal, no one likes it, but it ain't the end of the world. When you don't care about whether or not you'll be rejected and just feel confident enough to "give it a try", you'll lessen your chances of rejection. Nothing succeeds like confidence.

I'll ask what I asked before, how old are you?

Its on page 3, 19 years old.

That's a massive turn-off for me. It amounts to "one guy's love and attention isn't enough, I'm better than any one guy."

No candy for her.

Yes,but the girl in question was actually a very good girl in all other respects and it was a like I was after for a while,a second guy also started liking her and his and the "Ahlpa" crowd sarted throwing their wrappers into my locker during ressce break. And so it happen when this guy did it I took the grabage and threw it back at him and when he pushed me I pushed him back and then we started fighting and the girl in question saw it and thought we were fighting over her. That or she just wanted to see who would win,I dunno and yes I won ;)

Its on page 3, 19 years old.

it's a tough age. Frankly I didn't have my first real relationship (and I hesitate to call it that) until I was 19.

Yes,but the girl in question was actually a very good girl in all other respects and it was a like I was after for a while,a second guy also started liking her and his and the "Ahlpa" crowd sarted throwing their wrappers into my locker during ressce break. And so it happen when this guy did it I took the grabage and threw it back at him and when he pushed me I pushed him back and then we started fighting and the girl in question saw it and thought we were fighting over her. That or she just wanted to see who would win,I dunno and yes I won ;)

...and then the credits rolled.

it's a tough age. Frankly I didn't have my first real relationship (and I hesitate to call it that) until I was 19.

Yeah, its tough, I have to deal with this especially but everyone's been really friendly with their advice. It helps me alot. How was it for you at age 19?

it's a tough age. Frankly I didn't have my first real relationship (and I hesitate to call it that) until I was 19.

I wouldn't call what I had at 19 a relationship either :p.

...and then the credits rolled.

Fighter4u as....BRAD PITT!!!!:p

Weel thare's yer gawd dang problem init? Chicks smell fear, and dig testosterone. Drink more beer, buy a 4x4, watch a whole hell of a lot of football or NASCAR and light your farts on fire. Trust me. ;)
ummm... as a girl, i think this approach is pretty thick-headed. so we may seem the same, but look closely and see that we're all different and want different things.

hey, i'm afraid of rejection too!

Yes,but the girl in question was actually a very good girl in all other respects and it was a like I was after for a while,a second guy also started liking her and his and the "Ahlpa" crowd sarted throwing their wrappers into my locker during ressce break. And so it happen when this guy did it I took the grabage and threw it back at him and when he pushed me I pushed him back and then we started fighting and the girl in question saw it and thought we were fighting over her. That or she just wanted to see who would win,I dunno and yes I won ;)

Imagine it as a pattern though, when you're going steady.

Her: You don't love me any more!
You: Of course I do! Why would you say that?
Her: You didn't fight that guy who was staring at me.
You: But he was just staring. I fought that guy who tried to grope you last week.
Her: But that was LAST week!
You: Um?
Her: Who did you fight for me recently?


... Apologies to Richard Pryor ...

Fighter4u as....BRAD PITT!!!!:p

:eek2:

:)

ummm... as a girl, i think this approach is pretty thick-headed. so we may seem the same, but look closely and see that we're all different and want different things.

hey, i'm afraid of rejection too!

Well see, Black Kids is too scared to say no. [/thread]


I'm sorry I couldn't help myself :$

ummm... as a girl, i think this approach is pretty thick-headed. so we may seem the same, but look closely and see that we're all different and want different things.

hey, i'm afraid of rejection too!

Hey, at least the guys approach you!

I already have a girlfriend thank you very much. And even if I didn't I still can't quite see how me getting one would in any way help you with your teenage, emo-ist, angst.
But I guess it's the thought that counts, eh?

Well see, Black Kids is too scared to say no. [/thread]


I'm sorry I couldn't help myself :$

Rotfl!

I already have a girlfriend thank you very much. And even if I didn't I still can't quite see how me getting one would in any way help you with your teenage, emo-ist, angst.
But I guess it's the thought that counts, eh?

It's not angst, I just want a GF.

Hey, at least the guys approach you!
well now don't assume they always do, because that is rarely the case ( :

well now don't assume they always do, because that is rarely the case ( :

Really?

Kryozerkia was doing his job and he had to close my last Thread. I respect that. I need help, really. I'm still in love with someone who cares nothing for me. I always have problems approaching people because I have a fear of rejection. How can I change? Please help me.

Trust me, it's not worth it. You're better off forgetting about this person and finding someone who'll actually love and care about you.

I already have a girlfriend thank you very much. And even if I didn't I still can't quite see how me getting one would in any way help you with your teenage, emo-ist, angst.
But I guess it's the thought that counts, eh?

I considered making fun of that comma too.

Internet stranger 1 gets girlfriend, that helps internet stranger 2 ... how?

I still suspect there's a good joke there somewhere, but it's for someone more gifted than I.

Trust me, it's not worth it. You're better off forgetting about this person and finding someone who'll actually love and care about you.

Thats true. Someone thought I was you in my last thread which was basically this.

Maybe you spend too much time on the intrawebs. XD

Thats true. Someone thought I was you in my last thread which was basically this.

It's just that THIS is mostly something we would expect from dear, ol' Wil. (much love, Wil-sama:fluffle:)

I considered making fun of that comma too.

Internet stranger 1 gets girlfriend, that helps internet stranger 2 ... how?

I still suspect there's a good joke there somewhere, but it's for someone more gifted than I.

He takes that bitch of yo' hands so you can go party with the guys again!

yes! intimidation pervades both men and women. or nervousness, or i don't know whatever is the cause (in the case that it hopefully wouldn't be me).

i've taken chances with approaching people before too, and i get it, the approach has failed.

so would it kill a guy to approach a girl without thinking she is bent on breaking his heart?!

It's just that THIS is mostly something we would expect from dear, ol' Wil. (much love, Wil-sama:fluffle:)

Haha yeah, he gave some good advice though.

Thats true. Someone thought I was you in my last thread which was basically this.

Well that because I posted the same thing about my Ex #2. I came to the conclusion awhile back that she was going to stay with her boyfriend and she didn't like me that way..anymore. Since then I have moved on, and even though I am surrounded by couples I figure I'll get someone sooner or later.

I mean someone's going to have to be insane enough to want to be with me, right? *laughs*

It's just that THIS is mostly something we would expect from dear, ol' Wil. (much love, Wil-sama:fluffle:)

Dammit, I've become predictable, even on the internet!

Hmm...I know what will surprised you lot! Me spamming naked pictures of myself on NSG! Bwhahahahahaha!

Nah I couldn't do that, I don't want people to go blind. *laughs*

He takes that bitch of yo' hands so you can go party with the guys again!

:) Not bad, not bad.

so would it kill a guy to approach a girl without thinking she is bent on breaking his heart?!

Only if she's a serial killer.

Well that because I posted the same thing about my Ex #2. I came to the conclusion awhile back that she was going to stay with her boyfriend and she didn't like me that way..anymore. Since then I have moved on, and even though I am surrounded by couples I figure I'll get someone sooner or later.

I mean someone's going to have to be insane enough to want to be with me, right? *laughs*

Hook up with a Brad Pitt Groupie?

Hook up with a Brad Pitt Groupie?

Only if you want me to slit my throat and my wrists. I gravitate more towards goth/punk women who I find weird or interesting.

Only if she's a serial killer.
well, naturally.

Dammit, I've become predictable, even on the internet!

You could try dice. Write up six different answers and roll for it.

yes! intimidation pervades both men and women. or nervousness, or i don't know whatever is the cause (in the case that it hopefully wouldn't be me).

i've taken chances with approaching people before too, and i get it, the approach has failed.

so would it kill a guy to approach a girl without thinking she is bent on breaking his heart?!

To tell you the truth, yes. I thought that. My hopes and dreams die with the word No.

Hmm...I know what will surprised you lot! Me spamming naked pictures of myself on NSG! Bwhahahahahaha!

Nah I couldn't do that, I don't want people to go blind. *laughs*

It will surprise us, yes, and probably get you DoS too.

Black Kids meet Tulchurek, Tulchurek meet Black Kids.

'Louis, I think this will be the start of a wonderful relationship...'

*walks off into rain*

It will surprise us, yes, and probably get you DoS too.

and we can't deprive NSG of my presence now can we?

It will surprise us, yes, and probably get you DoS too.

However, it takes naked pictures of me to cause permanent blindness.

Only if she's a serial killer.

Hmm, how do I meet female serial killers? They're pretty rare anyway, and with the Man after them it's just about impossible.

*pines*

However, it takes naked pictures of me to cause permanent blindness.

That....that was just WRONG!

:) Not bad, not bad.

Not the greatest, but I make a living by making jokes out of the unjokeable.

and we can't deprive NSG of my presence now can we?

No, we cannot. Wil's a part of the odd, deliciously disfunctional clan already.

Now, Black Kids, settle down and wait, You'll get your gal when you least expect it. I can relate to the wanting you're suffering right now. You want someone, but all in due time.

and we can't deprive NSG of my presence now can we?

I'm sure your presence would be etched into our retinas for a long time after the posting of said nude pictures. :p

Black Kids meet Tulchurek, Tulchurek meet Black Kids.

'Louis, I think this will be the start of a wonderful relationship...'

*walks off into rain*

Crowning Moment of Awesome!

I'm sure your presence would be etched into our retinas for a long time after the posting of said nude pictures. :p

and the sale of soap that has acid in it will go up, as several NSG'ers will sit in the corner of their showers going "Still not clean....still not clean!"

Crowning Moment of Awesome!
I'm only here to offer my infinite wisdom!
am i the only girl in this forum? I dare not speak for every woman...

Crowning Moment of Awesome!

Read the small print. You have to live in black-and-white, and rock'n'roll hasn't even been invented yet :eek:

Now, Black Kids, settle down and wait, You'll get your gal when you least expect it. I can relate to the wanting you're suffering right now. You want someone, but all in due time.

That's one of my biggest problem, I am not a patient person. However I do know what happens when I try to go out and look for a girlfriend, I end up with the Baptist family from Hell. So while I may cast a charm spell to attract true romantic love and my soul mate, that's pretty much all I'm going to do.

Anyways, I got more pressing matters to attend to then my love life.

and the sale of soap that has acid in it will go up, as several NSG'ers will sit in the corner of their showers going "Still not clean....still not clean!"

I'm doing that right now! *removes mask showing his skull*

and the sale of soap that has acid in it will go up, as several NSG'ers will sit in the corner of their showers going "Still not clean....still not clean!"

That would certainly be your crowning moment of awesome. Just remember to give me your IM addresses before you do it so we don't fall out of touch.

I'm only here to offer my infinite wisdom!
am i the only girl in this forum? I dare not speak for every woman...

I got rejected again! I think I'm getting used to it!

I'm only here to offer my infinite wisdom!
am i the only girl in this forum? I dare not speak for every woman...

Of course you aren't. We're all girls here, it's actually a lesbian separatist conclave and all the "boys" are vicious parodies.

I'm only here to offer my infinite wisdom!
am i the only girl in this forum? I dare not speak for every woman...

No you are not the only female here. There are quite a few; but I wub them all!

That's one of my biggest problem, I am not a patient person. However I do know what happens when I try to go out and look for a girlfriend, I end up with the Baptist family from Hell. So while I may cast a charm spell to attract true romantic love and my soul mate, that's pretty much all I'm going to do.

Anyways, I got more pressing matters to attend to then my love life.

I guess that's all Black Kids can do at the moment. At least that's the way it has always worked for me. I don't go out looking for that special someone, that person comes along when he/she has to. Of course, I am a woman. It perhaps works differently for guys.

Of course you aren't. We're all girls here, it's actually a lesbian separatist conclave and all the "boys" are vicious parodies.

Shhh!

That's one of my biggest problem, I am not a patient person.

But half the fun is drawing out the seduction, for lack of a better word, as long as possible... Or am I the only one who thinks that way in this century...

Get off the intraweb and wo... never mind, I already said that.

I guess that's all Black Kids can do at the moment. At least that's the way it has always worked for me. I don't go out looking for that special someone, that person comes along when he/she has to. Of course, I am a woman. It perhaps works differently for guys.

Yea, I mean all you have to do is show one boob, and 10 guys are fighting over you. I can't exactly show one testicle and have 10 women fight over me.

Yea, I mean all you have to do is show one boob, and 10 guys are fighting over you. I can't exactly show one testicle and have 10 women fight over me.

...but you might get ten restraining orders!

Shhh!

This conversation never happened.

Shhh!

Damn, I missed the memo.

We're all boys here is what I meant. "NSG" == No Stinky Girls.

Same thing where I live!

I got rejected again! I think I'm getting used to it!
I don't think that was considered a rejection, because there wasn't really a proposition offered.

...but you might get ten restraining orders!

On the tenth day of christmas my true love gave to me...

Yea, I mean all you have to do is show one boob, and 10 guys are fighting over you. I can't exactly show one testicle and have 10 women fight over me.

As an ancient monk I probably shouldn't know this, but I don't think girls feel the same way about a glimpse of testicle as boys do about a flash of nipple.

I don't think that was considered a rejection, because there wasn't really a proposition offered.

Shhhh, he thinks he' being helped, leave him alone.

I got rejected again! I think I'm getting used to it!

Yeah, that was pretty harsh.

Seems you're right, you've a knack for being rejected.

I'd go the honesty route, next time you're chatting with someone you like, tell her that you'll probably try to ask her out at some point but, not to worry, you're really good at being rejected, lot of practice, considering taking it up professionally, possibly a book deal, maybe a movie, maybe not.

Humour can be the quickest way into a good gal's heart.

...but you might get ten restraining orders!

Eleven. Random guy got in trouble.

Yeah, that was pretty harsh.

Seems you're right, you've a knack for being rejected.

I'd go the honesty route, next time you're chatting with someone you like, tell her that you'll probably try to ask her out at some point but, not to worry, you're really good at being rejected, lot of practice, considering taking it up professionally, possibly a book deal, maybe a movie, maybe not.

Humour can be the quickest way into a good gal's heart.
I don't mean to be harsh, if anything i thought that was a rather coy response.

but i guess it's all perceived, right?

Eleven. Random guy got in trouble.

That was me.

Yea, I mean all you have to do is show one boob, and 10 guys are fighting over you. I can't exactly show one testicle and have 10 women fight over me.

No Wil. It doesn't work like that. If you want a meaningful realtionship, showing a boob as you so ''aptly'' put it, won't get it for you. You may get 10 guys wanting to get in your pants, but you won't get one single decent guy interested in you.

But half the fun is drawing out the seduction, for lack of a better word, as long as possible... Or am I the only one who thinks that way in this century...

Well, that's what so good about dead girls. They never say "enough with the damn poetry now, let's get it on" ... it's that haughty look and the silent treatment forever.

Now here's a question from me. Why can't people be honest in their rejection? Why do they always try to soften the blow or hit around the bush when doing it? Stop the stupid mind games and just get to the frickin' point! Just say "Sorry you're not my cop of tea" and be done with it.

Trust me, you're not going to tell me any earth shattering secret if you tell me that you don't like me because I'm short, rough around the edges, perverted, and I'm weird.

Jeez...

Well, that's what so good about dead girls. They never say "enough with the damn poetry now, let's get it on" ... it's that haughty look and the silent treatment forever.

Woooowwww... You never get accused of date rape?

Woooowwww... You never get accused of date rape?

Fifty bucks to the undertaker works wonders.

You want confidence? Get drunk. Then you'll tell the truth too!

Alcohol, the great equalizer.

Well, that's what so good about dead girls. They never say "enough with the damn poetry now, let's get it on" ... it's that haughty look and the silent treatment forever.

You know, it's less fun when there isn't any sort of reciprocation... or pulse... that kinda takes all the enjoyment out of it.

I don't mean to be harsh, if anything i thought that was a rather coy response.

but i guess it's all perceived, right?

I'm kidding him, you're doing fine, for all you know he's in a high-security prison for repeat stalking.

No Wil. It doesn't work like that. If you want a meaningful realtionship, showing a boob as you so ''aptly'' put it, won't get it for you. You may get 10 guys wanting to get in your pants, but you won't get one single decent guy interested in you.

Hmm true. Meh, I just want a woman who's as weird as me and shares my sense of humor as well as similar interest.

Now here's a question from me. Why can't people be honest in their rejection? Why do they always try to soften the blow or hit around the bush when doing it? Stop the stupid mind games and just get to the frickin' point! Just say "Sorry you're not my cop of tea" and be done with it.

Trust me, you're not going to tell me any earth shattering secret if you tell me that you don't like me because I'm short, rough around the edges, perverted, and I'm weird.

Jeez...

Thats true! I hate it when they make excuses!

You know, it's less fun when there isn't any sort of reciprocation... or pulse... that kinda takes all the enjoyment out of it.

reciprocation of what? Love? you won't get that from anyone. dead or alive.

I'm kidding him, you're doing fine, for all you know he's in a high-security prison for repeat stalking.
that would be my luck.

Now here's a question from me. Why can't people be honest in their rejection? Why do they always try to soften the blow or hit around the bush when doing it? Stop the stupid mind games and just get to the frickin' point! Just say "Sorry you're not my cop of tea" and be done with it.

Trust me, you're not going to tell me any earth shattering secret if you tell me that you don't like me because I'm short, rough around the edges, perverted, and I'm weird.

Jeez...

It can be as hard to reject someone as it is to be rejected,

Now here's a question from me. Why can't people be honest in their rejection? Why do they always try to soften the blow or hit around the bush when doing it? Stop the stupid mind games and just get to the frickin' point! Just say "Sorry you're not my cup of tea" and be done with it.

'cos one day, you knock on their door dressed in willow pattern and smelling gently of bergamot, and steam up their portico.

No Wil. It doesn't work like that. If you want a meaningful realtionship, showing a boob as you so ''aptly'' put it, won't get it for you. You may get 10 guys wanting to get in your pants, but you won't get one single decent guy interested in you.

Exactly... thats the kind of behavior that drives decent guys like myself away. She starts flashing the whole bar I'll go somehwere else, of course I don't know why I'd be in the bar in the first place :p.

reciprocation of what? Love? you won't get that from anyone. dead or alive.

Not so sure about that one, but what I meant was reciprocation of seduction, or "playing along" in a sense... which dead people are obviously incapable of

No Wil. It doesn't work like that. If you want a meaningful realtionship, showing a boob as you so ''aptly'' put it, won't get it for you. You may get 10 guys wanting to get in your pants, but you won't get one single decent guy interested in you.

Nobody wants to get in my pants when I flash a boob...

Yea, I mean all you have to do is show one boob, and 10 guys are fighting over you. I can't exactly show one testicle and have 10 women fight over me.

Asymmetrical flashing only works in Slavic cultures.

It can be as hard to reject someone as it is to be rejected,

Never thought of it that way, it usually happens when she's a friend.

No Wil. It doesn't work like that. If you want a meaningful realtionship, showing a boob as you so ''aptly'' put it, won't get it for you. You may get 10 guys wanting to get in your pants, but you won't get one single decent guy interested in you.

What the hell do you want with a "single decent guy"?

Married perverts are better lovers.

Its true, I read it in a Chick Pamphlet.

Hmm true. Meh, I just want a woman who's as weird as me and shares my sense of humor as well as similar interest.

That person is out there. I'm amost sure. Perhaps it's not the time yet for you to meet her. I must think like that. Otherwise, one gets down and sad.

Asymmetrical flashing only works in Slavic cultures.

You're damn right it does!

What the hell do you want with a "single decent guy"?

Married perverts are better lovers.

Its true, I read it in a Chick Pamphlet.

Strange, it says drunken college frat boy.

What the hell do you want with a "single decent guy"?

Married perverts are better lovers.

Its true, I read it in a Chick Pamphlet.

Are you the perverted one you're talking about? Because if it's you, I'll throw away anything meaningful to have a toss in the hay with Holiness.:tongue:

That's true too, I read it in a Chick Pamphlet.

Ok, is anyone else like me in this regard? I know that some people. if not most. like to have the "Leave it to Beaver" style marriage and family. You know the perfect fairy tale marriage, and perfect little children.

Well to me, that's just boring. I want some friction in my relationship. I want a woman who'll challenge me once in awhile, who'll actually make things interesting for me, because I'm sure as Hell going to make it interesting for her thanks to my ADD. lol

Not so sure about that one, but what I meant was reciprocation of seduction, or "playing along" in a sense... which dead people are obviously incapable of

re·cip·ro·ca·tion (rĭ-sĭp'rə-kā'shən)
n.

1. An alternating back-and-forth movement.
2. The act or fact of reciprocating; interchange.

Dirty old me, thought you meant meaning 1.

Since that isn't what you meant, there's no need for me to talk about waterbeds or mechanical bulls, is there?

Being a pervert is good? WOOOO!!!

I'll throw away anything meaningful to have a toss in the hay with Holiness.:tongue:


Wouldn't that mean you'd have to have a toss in the hay with Valentasia?

?? What??

You can't MAKE someone love you. And only YOU can figure out what to change.

Tell that to my Ukrainian wife Svetlana.

Ok, is anyone else like me in this regard? I know that some people. if not most. like to have the "Leave it to Beaver" style marriage and family. You know the perfect fairy tale marriage, and perfect little children.

Well to me, that's just boring. I want some friction in my relationship. I want a woman who'll challenge me once in awhile, who'll actually make things interesting for me, because I'm sure as Hell going to make it interesting for her thanks to my ADD. lol

I assure you,you're not alone in your feelings. I want a man who will antagonize me to make me understand what is it he wants and believes. I don't want a sub man. I want a man man.

Wouldn't that mean you'd have to have a toss in the hay with Valentasia?

I said holiness, remember that.

I assure you,you're not alone in your feelings. I want a man who will antagonize me to make me understand what is it he wants and believes. I don't want a sub man. I want a man man.

So if I flashed a boob, that wouldn't get your attention?

Are you the perverted one you're talking about? Because if it's you, I'll throw away anything meaningful to have a toss in the hay with Holiness.:tongue:

That's true too, I read it in a Chick Pamphlet.

Sounds good to me, maybe I can be there to pick up the rebound when he leaves you alone :D.


Disclaimer: I actually would like to see Natsu be happily married to her fiance.

Never thought of it that way, it usually happens when she's a friend.
i've been in this situation before, and as "the friend," it's done because i don't want to lead people on, i know that false hope all too well.

Ok, is anyone else like me in this regard? I know that some people. if not most. like to have the "Leave it to Beaver" style marriage and family.

I'm a firm believer in leaving it to the beaver.

You know the perfect fairy tale marriage, and perfect little children.

Whoa dude. We're talking about sex and you start talking about little children?

Don't do that.

Well to me, that's just boring. I want some friction in my relationship.

Rubber is good for that I've heard.

I assure you,you're not alone in your feelings. I want a man who will antagonize me to make me understand what is it he wants and believes. I don't want a sub man. I want a man man.

Amen, preach on sista!

Being a pervert is good? WOOOO!!!

Hey, I'm a firm believer that everyone is a pervert, some of us are more vocal about it than others.

So if I flashed a boob, that wouldn't get your attention?

If you flash down-under that may get my full, unadulterated attention.

It would get mine.

i've been in this situation before, and as "the friend," it's done because i don't want to lead people on, i know that false hope all too well.

It sucks when you lose your friend because you want them to be something more.

I'm a firm believer in leaving it to the beaver.

You win this thread.

Disclaimer: I actually would like to see Natsu be happily married to her fiance.

I've been thinking about that more and more. Marriage used to spook me. Now... I don't know.

If you flash down-under that may get my full, unadulterated attention.

My feet?

It sucks when you lose your friend because you want them to be something more.

I know that one...

It sucks when you lose your friend because you want them to be something more.

Even if you get them to be something more, once you break up, it still sucks. Friends and Love don't mix

My feet?

No, just South of your mid riff Equator.:wink:

I've been thinking about that more and more. Marriage used to spook me. Now... I don't know.

You only have a couple of months Nat, do what you beleive is right for you.

No, just South of your mid riff Equator.:wink:

My butt?

I've been thinking about that more and more. Marriage used to spook me. Now... I don't know.

Yea, I know what you mean. It would be nice to have someone to love and care about, someone to come home to....someone to share your life with.

No, just South of your mid riff Equator.:wink:

Duuuuhhhh, the knees?

I've been thinking about that more and more. Marriage used to spook me. Now... I don't know.

If you're engaged, it's probably a good idea to want to get married.

Wouldn't that mean you'd have to have a toss in the hay with Valentasia?

Valentasia is here?? Where? Where?

One of my favourite posters. What a card!

My butt?

On your Atlantic side, not your Australian side.:tongue:

My butt?

Stop trying to make the nice lady say a bad word.

It's very childish of you. :mad:

Tell that to my Ukrainian wife Svetlana.
How often do you beat her?

Are you the perverted one you're talking about? Because if it's you, I'll throw away anything meaningful to have a toss in the hay with Holiness.:tongue:

That's true too, I read it in a Chick Pamphlet.

Aren't you already married anyway?

I so truly hate to see the young fall victim to the horrors of this world, like disease, war, or marriage...

Valentasia is here?? Where? Where?

One of my favourite posters. What a card!

That guy is so easy... I usually resist the temptation to feed the trolls but that one is so cute...

It sucks when you lose your friend because you want them to be something more.
well, let us all dwell in our common sentiment of familiar rejection!

and you don't always have to lose that friend. some people are more resilient than others.

Yea, I know what you mean. It would be nice to have someone to love and care about, someone to come home to....someone to share your life with.

I think that's what I live for.

You only have a couple of months Nat, do what you beleive is right for you.

Yeah, I'll just keep thinking about it and analyze it. Let us not highjack Black Kids' thread anymore though.

Yea, I know what you mean. It would be nice to have someone to love and care about, someone to come home to....someone to share your life with.

That has nothing to do with marriage.

Stop caring so much, that will help quite a bit... Sometimes apathy is the best answer. If you want it to happen too much, you'll slip up too much. Personally, I'm the most graceful when I'm not trying to be.

Trust me, I'm a Jew. =D

and you don't always have to lose that friend. some people are more resilient than others.

That is strait up not true. Not for me anyways...

Aren't you already married anyway?

I so truly hate to see the young fall victim to the horrors of this world, like disease, war, or marriage...

It's a slippery slope isn't it? Before you know it, they're selling cupcakes and humming the national anthem.

Aren't you already married anyway?

No Father Baldwin. After Jhahannam left, I was too heartbroken.

Stop caring so much, that will help quite a bit... Sometimes apathy is the best answer. If you want it to happen too much, you'll slip up too much. Personally, I'm the most graceful when I'm not trying to be.

Trust me, I'm a Jew. =D

You too, eh? AND you've come to the same conclusion?!

Yeah, I'll just keep thinking about it and analyze it. Let us not highjack Black Kids' thread anymore though.

Aighty, you know more ways to get ahold of me than anyone else here so holla if you need to.

and you don't always have to lose that friend. some people are more resilient than others.
Not if they die

I think that's what I live for.

Hmm, do you fee like you love yourself, I mean when you look in the mirror, do you like what you see, inside and out?

That is strait up not true. Not for me anyways...
like i said, people react differently.

Hmm, do you fee like you love yourself, I mean when you look in the mirror, do you like what you see, inside and out?
Obviously he sees black kids

Stop trying to make the nice lady say a bad word.

It's very childish of you. :mad:

What nice lady?

No Father Baldwin. After Jhahannam left, I was too heartbroken.

He felt a lot like Black Kids.

Not just that he had problems with women, but that he had bad credit and was generally underserved by America's education system.

Bah, it was a stupid thread that brought up bad memories...

Aighty, you know more ways to get ahold of me than anyone else here so holla if you need to.

Same goes for you, mate.

Hmm, do you fee like you love yourself, I mean when you look in the mirror, do you like what you see, inside and out?

Somewhat, yeah

Bah, it was a stupid thread that brought up bad memories...

*hands you a bottle of Jack Daniels*

Somewhat, yeah

You must learn how to love yourself, and be able to live with yourself before you can love and live with another.

Roofies.

You too, eh? AND you've come to the same conclusion?!

Damn, there goes that Jewish hive mind again.

*hands you a bottle of Jack Daniels*

*Chugs it*

Damn, there goes that Jewish hive mind again.

Yeah, we'll ALL be drunk after I'm done tonight...

You must learn how to love yourself, and be able to live with yourself before you can love and live with another.

Unless you can find that person who has such torn, ripped gashes of inadequacy that the both of you together form some kind of nightmarish rorschach of pain and self-loathing.

For weeks 1-3, the sex is like a hurricane...the aftermath is just ugly.

Yeah, we'll ALL be drunk after I'm done tonight...

I was wondering why my iced tea was starting to make me feel tipsy...

You must learn how to love yourself, and be able to live with yourself before you can love and live with another.

That's really true. I need to really rethink myself.

That's really true. I need to really rethink myself.

This has been another enlightening moment with Wilgrove. *pulls the hood back over his head and meditates again*

That's really true. I need to really rethink myself.

Oh, HERE we go. Just don't do it here.

That's really true. I need to really rethink myself.
that's an excellent starting point for a new year.

That's really true. I need to really rethink myself.

I dunno, man...there's a school of thought that says that at any given moment, we're all already the perfect expression of ourselves, that all in the universe is as it should be...

I tried to tell the cop that when he caught me outside Nanatsu's house with the binoculars. He didn't buy it.

Oh, HERE we go. Just don't do it here.

Umm I love me?

I dunno, man...there's a school of thought that says that at any given moment, we're all already the perfect expression of ourselves, that all in the universe is as it should be...

I tried to tell the cop that when he caught me outside Nanatsu's house with the binoculars. He didn't buy it.

Policemen are the world's greatest collection of philistines.

I dunno, man...there's a school of thought that says that at any given moment, we're all already the perfect expression of ourselves, that all in the universe is as it should be...

I tried to tell the cop that when he caught me outside Nanatsu's house with the binoculars. He didn't buy it.

Didn't stop him from doing the same thing after he put you in the back of the squad car.

Umm I love me?

Do you love yourself all night long?

About the only advice I can give is you have to go where people are. Try to get outside of the things that you normally do. Try something different. Go to different clubs, eat at different restaurants, read more books, hang out more often, volunteer your time. Confidence is important, intelligence is more important.

Umm I love me?

That wasn't as bad as I thought it would be...

That's really true. I need to really rethink myself.

It would SUCK if this became a meme.

Yeah, I'll just keep thinking about it and analyze it. Let us not highjack Black Kids' thread anymore though.

No, let's.

I think it is our duty, when a thread is so close to the line of being locked as "blog" ... to push it one way or the other.

I offer one piece of sincere advice to Black Kids: talk to someone who actually knows you, and knows the girl. Even the most sincere advice from internet strangers is worthless, since the fact that they're socializing online proves that they're not much good at it in real life.

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No Father Baldwin. After Jhahannam left, I was too heartbroken.

*cough* search the forum for "Tijuana" *cough*

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What nice lady?

Nanaspants no Tsunami or something ... I forget.

About the only advice I can give is you have to go where people are. Try to get outside of the things that you normally do. Try something different. Go to different clubs, eat at different restaurants, read more books, hang out more often, volunteer your time. Confidence is important, intelligence is more important.

You know, I hear a lot of people talking about volunteer work as a way to meet people...

Somebody should do a book on couples that met while volunteering at hospices, crisis lines, soup kitchens, mental hospitals.

Christopher Walken could do the forward.

It would SUCK if this became a meme.

Best meme ever.

You know, I hear a lot of people talking about volunteer work as a way to meet people...

Somebody should do a book on couples that met while volunteering at hospices, crisis lines, soup kitchens, mental hospitals.

Christopher Walken could do the forward.

I doubt I'd meet that weird/interesting goth girl during volunteer work though. :p

It would SUCK if this became a meme.

I am SaintB, and I endorse this message.


Thats MY meme....

I doubt I'd meet that weird/interesting goth girl during volunteer work though. :p

volunteer-type people are weird...

I doubt I'd meet that weird/interesting goth girl during volunteer work though. :p

Volunteer at a haunted mansion, or a graveyard? or a tattoo parlor?

I am SaintB, and I endorse this message.


Thats MY meme....

I CLAim it.

Volunteer at a haunted mansion, or a graveyard? or a tattoo parlor?

like i said, weird.

volunteer-type people are weird...

I'm a volunteer type person!

Only women I ever meet while volunteering are teenagers, usually 14-15, or older women 35-60.

I'm a volunteer type person!

Only women I ever meet while volunteering are teenagers, usually 14-15, or older women 35-60.

Who's Weird?!