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There was something said in the Spandex thread that got me thinking.

What are your opinions on what 'Fat' is? How heavy to you believe a person needs to be before they're considered fat? or is it in the appearance? Or does it simply not matter to you? and which is more attractive?

Poll Coming!

The border of fat can often be defined by the person's attitude. Being very active can artificially drop you 10 pounds so it is hard to say.

But I prefer fit.

I'l have to say something between healthy slim and healthy curves. So overall fit for me

You're onto something about appearance. I've seen people that weighed more than they looked and weighed less than they looked. I also have talked to people who say "I don't care how much I weigh as long as it looks good". People sometimes wear baggy clothes and it gives the appearance that they're, perhaps, thinner than they are. Many are considered overweight but not necessarily fat. Hell, body builders and athletes are overweight. I think that it's mostly an appearance issue.

As for preference, skinny is gross, just like super fat. I'd have to say thin or normal(whatever that means).

The border of fat can often be defined by the person's attitude. Being very active can artificially drop you 10 pounds so it is hard to say.
True. And also, it depends quite a bit on how tall the person is.

Personally, I prefer healthy curves. Models creep me out.

Fit but nothing like Nicole Richie.

You're onto something about appearance. I've seen people that weighed more than they looked and weighed less than they looked. I also have talked to people who say "I don't care how much I weigh as long as it looks good". People sometimes wear baggy clothes and it gives the appearance that they're, perhaps, thinner than they are. Many are considered overweight but not necessarily fat. Hell, body builders and athletes are overweight. I think that it's mostly an appearance issue.

As for preference, skinny is gross, just like super fat. I'd have to say thin or normal(whatever that means).

and some people wear baggy clothes and it makes them look BIGGER than they are...

Fat and Skinny are relative. if you want an offical chart, check with a licenced dietician.


and yes, I consider myself overweight.

Fat and Skinny are relative. if you want an offical chart, check with a licenced dietician.


and yes, I consider myself overweight.

So do I

I'm not really looking for the 'official' stats on it, more just what people think in their own mind about it :)

What about males?

and some people wear baggy clothes and it makes them look BIGGER than they are...
Yea but usually if they're thin.

Weight charts are rather strange. I've seen people get down to the "ideal" weight and everyone said they looked sick.

What about males?

I dont remember applying a gender?

Yea but usually if they're thin.

I think there are just as many heavy people who wear baggy clothes to hide as there are skinny people who wear them for the same reason

I dont remember applying a gender?
You know a lot of guys with curves?

I dont remember applying a gender?

well, I'll go from skinny to healthy slim, then. I'm not into Michelin boys, nor into muscular gymbodybuilders, those latter give me the creeps, actually.

You know a lot of guys with curves?

I know a lot of guys who carry weight yes

they do have curves.. but they tend to be belly outward as apposed to hip outward

You know a lot of guys with curves?

The behinds, lad

I know a lot of guys who carry weight yes

they do have curves.. but they tend to be belly outward as apposed to hip outward
I've never heard of what overweight men have, called "curves".

The behinds, ladYes, that's an ass, that's not "curves".

I've never heard that what overweight men have, called "curves".

call it what you want then, but use your imagination

You know a lot of guys with curves?
I'm a guy and I've got curves. Of course, they're different curves from the ones on most females, but if you look at my gut, it's definitely curved. (Not grotesquely so, mind you.)

I'm a guy and I've got curves. Of course, they're different curves from the ones on most females, but if you look at my gut, it's definitely curved. (Not grotesquely so, mind you.)

see.. he knows what i'm on about!

:fluffle:

I've never heard of what overweight men have, called "curves".

Yes, that's an ass, that's not "curves".

Curvy nevertheless, the nice ones, I mean.

"Healthy slim" and "healthy curves (and whatever the equivalent is for guys, who are not terribly curvy)" are both attractive. Basically, being healthy is attractive. Giant bulging muscles o' doom are not particularly attractive, though, at least not to me. I like people to look like ordinary human beings. :)

I'm a guy and I've got curves. Of course, they're different curves from the ones on most females, but if you look at my gut, it's definitely curved. (Not grotesquely so, mind you.)
Alright, you can say you have curves if you want but people around here might look at you weird. Curves in reference to women are like hips et al, not stomach.

Curvy nevertheless, the nice ones, I mean.
...and here I was thinking you meant the bad ones

Yea but usually if they're thin.

Weight charts are rather strange. I've seen people get down to the "ideal" weight and everyone said they looked sick.
I remeber in third grade being about the third heaviest in the class (due to my hieght, I was built lik Kate Moss) and still being about 10 lbs lighter than the 'ideal' weight for my age.

"Healthy slim" and "healthy curves (and whatever the equivalent is for guys, who are not terribly curvy)" are both attractive. Basically, being healthy is attractive. Giant bulging muscles o' doom are not particularly attractive, though, at least not to me. I like people to look like ordinary human beings. :)

I have to admit that I do like a guy with nicely defined muscles.. not over worked over pumped or anything, just nice and defined.

I like a guy with a bit of meat on him if it's not excessive...and tallness is good

The problem is that the pumped guys are pretty sure you are dying to touch their arms or something. Always.

I remeber in third grade being about the third heaviest in the class (due to my hieght, I was built lik Kate Moss) and still being about 10 lbs lighter than the 'ideal' weight for my age.
Good god, what kind of people were in your class? :eek:

I have to admit that I do like a guy with nicely defined muscles.. not over worked over pumped or anything, just nice and defined.

I like a guy with a bit of meat on him if it's not excessive...and tallness is good

Me, I like them comparatively short and skinny. I'm small enough myself that I just feel ridiculous next to big guys. :)

Curvy is always my preference. A woman doesn't usually even start catching my eye until she crosses 140. It's all about proportions, though. I've seen some thin girls that interested me. And I've seen some tall girls that were way over 250 that looked good.

I've never been one for skinny boys... average and fit is ok, but I really really loooooooooove guys with some meat on them. :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

I've never been one for skinny boys... average and fit is ok, but I really really loooooooooove guys with some meat on them. :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

C'mere you!

C'mere you!

Let's see a pic first, before I fluffle you :D

C'mere you!
MAN! Lost opportunities. :D

Let's see a pic first, before I fluffle you :D
LOL! Never mind, she's shallow.

LOL! Never mind, she's shallow.

I already pointed that out in another thread... :p

Hell, I'm uber skinny; half the time you can see my ribs. Thus I can't wear bikinis. Healthy slim would be nice instead of people asking me if I'm bulemic.

I already pointed that out in another thread... :p
Advantage me, cause in my opinion, I'm perty. :p

Advantage me, cause in my opinion, I'm perty. :p


Meh...i'd hit it.

Advantage me, cause in my opinion, I'm perty. :p

Ok, I'm lost. What's "perty" mean?

Forgive me, I'm not a native speaker... :(

Meh...i'd hit it.
*grins*

I suppose I shouldn't say this, but I can't resist...I could eat a peach for hours...

*grins*

I suppose I shouldn't say this, but I can't resist...I could eat a peach for hours...


Are you by chance "movin' to the country" ?

i like healthy slim w/ curves


Are you by chance "movin' to the country" ?

you win the award for "90s reference of the day"

you get a hug and a free lap dance courtesy of me good anytime.

*hugs*

Hell, I'm uber skinny; half the time you can see my ribs. Thus I can't wear bikinis. Healthy slim would be nice instead of people asking me if I'm bulemic.
you can see my ribs and i still wear a bikini...its not my fault that i have a fast metabolisum.

Let's see a pic first, before I fluffle you :D

http://img54.imageshack.us/img54/5120/25wmiv7.jpg

think a year fuzzier and fluffier

Are you by chance "movin' to the country" ?
No. That was a Nicholas Cage quote from Face Off.

I already live in the country.

i like healthy slim w/ curves




you win the award for "90s reference of the day"

you get a hug and a free lap dance courtesy of me good anytime.

*hugs*


*puts it in her bag-o-lap dances*

I better start using these things before they expire.

No. That was a Nicholas Cage quote from Face Off.

I already live in the country.


I know that. It just made me think of the peach song.


btw- I do not come in a can.

Ok, I'm lost. What's "perty" mean?

Forgive me, I'm not a native speaker... :(
its just a funny/different way of saying pritty

http://img54.imageshack.us/img54/5120/25wmiv7.jpg

think a year fuzzier and fluffier

Not bad... a bit fluffy for my taste, but that's the reason god gave us razors ;)

I know that. It just made me think of the peach song.


btw- I do not come in a can.

Omg.... the image that left in my mind.... :eek:

I know that. It just made me think of the peach song.


btw- I do not come in a can.


were you put there by a man in a factory downtown?

I know that. It just made me think of the peach song.


btw- I do not come in a can.
Do not...or haven't?

Omg.... the image that left in my mind.... :eek:


yeah i kinda realize that now. oops!

Not bad... a bit fluffy for my taste, but that's the reason god gave us razors ;)

*hisses at the razor and lurches away backwards shielding eyes*

were you put there by a man in a factory downtown?


No but if he had his little way.........

Do not...or haven't?

Well, not yet. Would be much easier for you or M Bug to do that.

No but if he had his little way.........
I'd eat peeches everyday...

No but if he had his little way.........


i'd eat peeches every day.....


*EDIT*
damn!

*hisses at the razor and lurches away backwards shielding eyes*

*rummages through bathroom shelves*

Well, alternatively I could offer waxing...

Well, not yet. Would be much easier for you or M Bug to do that.


well its much easier for you to make me do that. :D

i'd eat peeches every day.....


*EDIT*
damn!
*looks smug*

rofl @ Bug and CP........you guys are so easy.:D


I dont know what to call you anymore with this new Cyber Pervert name. I'm not used to it yet me thinks.

Any girls out there attracted to guys with little fat and not much muscle?

I'm a niche market.

rofl @ Bug and CP........you guys are so easy.:D


I dont know what to call you anymore with this new Cyber Pervert name. I'm not used to it yet me thinks.
If you're looking for a nickname, Perv works just fine. I'd tell you to call me Mike, but since that's not my real name anyway, I guess it's pointless. *grins*

If you're looking for a nickname, Perv works just fine. I'd tell you to call me Mike, but since that's not my real name anyway, I guess it's pointless. *grins*


Yeah but Mike is such a good strong name. That settles it. Mike it is.

rofl @ Bug and CP........you guys are so easy.:D



i know i'm easy but you're not budging! :p :D

Sorry, I only shave when earning a crust demands it. Should you ever find yourself attracted to the grizzly bear look I'm keen however.:)

Hmm... basically, you're fat when you're suffering ill health effects from it (or when it's a near certainty that you will in the future).

Personally, I have to go with the nicely curved option. Really skinny doesn't look healthy, and slimmish still doesn't have enough there.

Yeah but Mike is such a good strong name. That settles it. Mike it is.
Peechy-Queen, I started your own thread so we wouldn't have to hijack the Tubby Chasers...

Any girls out there attracted to guys with little fat and not much muscle?

I'm a niche market.
Me! :) Actually, it's more accurate to say that I'm attracted to a guy with little fat and not much muscle. My boyfriend fits that description almost perfectly. He's pretty thin, with no fat, and no big bulging muscles. That last part is a really good thing, since guys with huge muscles like bodybuilders really put me off.

EDIT: Actually, now that I think about it, most of the guys I've dated fit that description to some extent. They've all been on the thin side, with little to no fat and not much muscle. Not scrawny, just... no big bulging muscles all over the place. *nods to this*

Peechy-Queen, I started your own thread so we wouldn't have to hijack the Tubby Chasers...


You are about the only one on NS that can make me blush....I owe you a good slapping.

*stops hijacking*



Oh and Rameria is a looker Tribes. Just saying....*whistles innocently*

You are about the only one on NS that can make me blush....I owe you a good slapping.

*stops hijacking*



Oh and Rameria is a looker Tribes. Just saying....*whistles innocently*
LOL! Was that really over the top? Didn't use to be.

LOL! Was that really over the top? Didn't use to be.


Yeah but you didnt have quite as large of an audience back then did ya? You still got it though.;)

Yeah but you didnt have quite as large of an audience back then did ya? You still got it though.;)
Hm. I deleted the message. Still red?

Hm. I deleted the message. Still red?


I have my composure back now Ev...thank you:)

Giant bulging muscles o' doom are not particularly attractive
I agree!

What about males?

I don’t really mind what shape a guy is as long as he's not really obese......

Although a bit of height and an interest in sport are bonuses!

I have my composure back now Ev...thank you:)
Oh. She remembered. Shhhh....

*grins*

Too bad. Red's such a good color for you.

I agree!

second!

I gotta be honest, a guy with that many muscles is just gross. And they can't hardly move because they have muscles bulging everywhere. And don't get me started on the female body builders. Ehhh...

But a nice set of abs and firm arms never hurt anybody.

I'll take definition over mass any day. I've seen guys who were "thin" who had really nice arms. Arms do it for me though, so I'm biased. Bodybuilders=gross in my opinion.

I'll take definition over mass any day. I've seen guys who were "thin" who had really nice arms. Arms do it for me though, so I'm biased. Bodybuilders=gross in my opinion.
*rolls up sleeves* Gawk and drool, Peechy-Queen...

I'll take definition over mass any day. I've seen guys who were "thin" who had really nice arms. Arms do it for me though, so I'm biased. Bodybuilders=gross in my opinion.


peechy was always a fan of my 3 arms.....especially the middle one

Oh and Rameria is a looker Tribes.
Aww, thanks! :)

There was something said in the Spandex thread that got me thinking.

What are your opinions on what 'Fat' is? How heavy to you believe a person needs to be before they're considered fat? or is it in the appearance? Or does it simply not matter to you? and which is more attractive?

Poll Coming!
Thinking!:eek:

There was something said in the Spandex thread that got me thinking.

What are your opinions on what 'Fat' is? How heavy to you believe a person needs to be before they're considered fat? or is it in the appearance? Or does it simply not matter to you? and which is more attractive?

Poll Coming!
Oh, sorry 'bout that. Umm, I don't consider women fat, but I do like mine to have a nice set of curves.

and some people wear baggy clothes and it makes them look BIGGER than they are...
I wear baggy clothes to pull off the skinny/fat look. Doesn't really work that well for me.

I wear baggy clothes to pull off the skinny/fat look. Doesn't really work that well for me.
*laughs* I used to do that as a teenager. I was SKINNY.

Fat and Skinny are relative. if you want an offical chart, check with a licenced dietician.


and yes, I consider myself overweight.
I don't consider overweight and fat to be the same thing.

I've never been one for skinny boys... average and fit is ok, but I really really loooooooooove guys with some meat on them. :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:
I wondered why you didn't find me repulsive.:p

Hell, I'm uber skinny; half the time you can see my ribs. Thus I can't wear bikinis. Healthy slim would be nice instead of people asking me if I'm bulemic.
And the other half, you're wearing clothes. *nods*

Omg.... the image that left in my mind.... :eek:
Kinky, isn't it?;)

I don't consider overweight and fat to be the same thing.
me neither, which is why I used "Overweight" and not "Fat".

i'd eat peeches every day.....


*EDIT*
damn!
My thoughts exactly!:D

Kinky, isn't it?;)

Rather.. and at the same time a bit disturbing... ;)

I've never been one for skinny boys... average and fit is ok, but I really really loooooooooove guys with some meat on them. :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:
and here I was, trying to loose weight... :headbang:

me neither, which is why I used "Overweight" and not "Fat".
Right. I was clarifying for the sake of the thread...and my post count.

and here I was, trying to loose weight... :headbang:

Why would you do a thing like that? :(

Why would you do a thing like that? :(
forced to eat my own cooking...
*shrugs* heard somewhere that women like a lean guy.

forced to eat my own cooking...
*shrugs* heard somewhere that women like a lean guy.

Yup. And I heard guys prefer skinny women. Do you think that's true?

*laughs* I used to do that as a teenager. I was SKINNY.
I'm...not so skinny, but it works well enough.

Rather.. and at the same time a bit disturbing... ;)
.....Eh....I only see kinky....then again, I'm lookin' at you right now, gorgeous.;)

.....Eh....I only see kinky....then again, I'm lookin' at you right now, gorgeous.;)

Hehe.... let's see how kinky that can get, shall we? :)

Yup. And I heard guys prefer skinny women. Do you think that's true?
I think most like what they're told to like. I like some healthy curves on a woman. Something about that's just so much more arousing.

Hehe.... let's see how kinky that can get, shall we? :)
*blushes*
Here? But Cabra, what about all these people? :eek:

*blushes*
Here? But Cabra, what about all these people? :eek:

Don't worry, I'll close my eyes....

:rolleyes:

*peeks*

*blushes*
Here? But Cabra, what about all these people? :eek:

You're right... some of those people are mods :eek:

Better take that elsewhere ;)

You're right... some of those people are mods :eek:

Better take that elsewhere ;)

This is going to end up weirder than a two headed snake's wet dream isnt it?

;) something between healthy slimn and healthy curves for me ;)

Don't worry, I'll close my eyes....

:rolleyes:

*peeks*
*pokes out your eye*
:eek: Sorry! Gravlen tried to warn you all....

You're right... some of those people are mods :eek:

Better take that elsewhere ;)
We already did. I guess I'll just have to step it up a bit.;)

We already did. I guess I'll just have to step it up a bit.;)

MSN just crashed, though... :(

This is going to end up weirder than a two headed snake's wet dream isnt it?
Can't say.;)

Honestly?

It all depends on the person. Some aren't built to be fit. Some are. Some are toothpicks... Others aren't.

Again, it's all on the individual level.

MSN just crashed, though... :(
Guess we'll just have to make up for it.;)

It's all relative, as long as you're excersizing and eating the natural three food groups (meat, fruits, and vegetables.) your apperance doesn't mean shit to neither social status nor health concerns. There are many fat people, even obease (300+lb) people way healthier then skinny people. It's all a matter of what you put into your body and how you work with it.

Mindyou, I'd take a severely overweight girl over a skinny one anyday. For a couple of reasons.

#1: The overweight girl is likely to be less bitchy. Sense fat is seen as bad, she'd be less judging and more open around me. And that's a plus.

#2: The overweight girl I won't feel like i'm going to break just by touching her. And I want to be able to get rough with my woman.

#3: The overweight girl would probably be less concerned with health, thereby not being one of these liberal douchebags who wants to put smokers in death camps and fat-kids through a whiplashing..

I applaud fat people, cause today's society is so worked up over thier appereance in health, they've completely forgotten why they try to be healthy. To prolounge life and live it with more energy and comfort, what's the point if you're all tense from liberalism and working all day?!

Besides, skinny people tend to want to stay skinny, so they do stupid shit like ride bikes and go moutain climbing or whatever.. You know, once in awhile that'd be okay, but God-damnit, I work enough as it is. You know what I want in a date? A simple movie, and my girlfriend in my arms, cuddeling eachother to sleep while we fillup on popcorn. Regardless of the transfat intake.. (Which suprisingly there's alot. Atleast for me as I do take care of my health and rarely eat anything that wasn't alive or that didn't comeout of the ground..)

That's why I weigh 175lbs and people think I'm skinny. (I'm only 5"5..) cause I'm muscular. I'm not going to say i'm a fucking pro-wrestler here. But I deffinitely got my health about me and people mistake me for a sixteen year old. I probably have the body of one. So remember that ladies, you can have all the fun of an underage guy, with none of the guilt.;)

It's all relative, as long as you're excersizing and eating the natural three food groups (meat, fruits, and vegetables.) your apperance doesn't mean shit to neither social status nor health concerns. There are many fat people, even obease (300+lb) people way healthier then skinny people. It's all a matter of what you put into your body and how you work with it.

Mindyou, I'd take a severely overweight girl over a skinny one anyday. For a couple of reasons.

#1: The overweight girl is likely to be less bitchy. Sense fat is seen as bad, she'd be less judging and more open around me. And that's a plus. HA... not always true.. i have met some VERY bitchy heavy women. I bitch a little myself, although I'm not overweight, just curvy and booby ;)

#2: The overweight girl I won't feel like i'm going to break just by touching her. And I want to be able to get rough with my woman. ...Im allured by this... which is strange

#3: The overweight girl would probably be less concerned with health, thereby not being one of these liberal douchebags who wants to put smokers in death camps and fat-kids through a whiplashing.. hmmm.. I dont know, she may have health issues as apposed to being heavy by choice - smoking is whole other thread!

I applaud fat people, cause today's society is so worked up over thier appereance in health, they've completely forgotten why they try to be healthy. To prolounge life and live it with more energy and comfort, what's the point if you're all tense from liberalism and working all day?!

Besides, skinny people tend to want to stay skinny, so they do stupid shit like ride bikes and go moutain climbing or whatever.. You know, once in awhile that'd be okay, but God-damnit, I work enough as it is. You know what I want in a date? A simple movie, and my girlfriend in my arms, cuddeling eachother to sleep while we fillup on popcorn. Regardless of the transfat intake.. (Which suprisingly there's alot. Atleast for me as I do take care of my health and rarely eat anything that wasn't alive or that didn't comeout of the ground..)

That's why I weigh 175lbs and people think I'm skinny. (I'm only 5"5..) cause I'm muscular. I'm not going to say i'm a fucking pro-wrestler here. But I deffinitely got my health about me and people mistake me for a sixteen year old. I probably have the body of one. So remember that ladies, you can have all the fun of an underage guy, with none of the guilt.;)

all in all.. deserved of a fluffle

:fluffle:

all in all.. deserved of a fluffle

:fluffle:
You just wanted to feel her boobs. :p:D

You just wanted to feel her boobs. :p:D

I think you confused genders here... ;)

I think you confused genders here... ;)
Nope. I meant the one who posted before her. Got him a good chance to grope around on 'er.

I chose healthy slim. To many women think “healthy curves” includes the one protruding from their belly.

I chose healthy slim. To many women think “healthy curves” includes the one protruding from their belly.
Not into preggos, eh? :p

Not into preggos, eh? :p
lol
What I was trying to say is that I'm sick of women trying to pass off overweight as curvy. They aren't the same thing.

lol
What I was trying to say is that I'm sick of women trying to pass off overweight as curvy. They aren't the same thing.
I know perfectly well what you were trying to say. And I also know that overweight doesn't necessarily mean she isn't curvy or attractive.

I know perfectly well what you were trying to say. And I also know that overweight doesn't necessarily mean she isn't curvy or attractive.
Well, on that point we disagree, but I suppose that's just a matter of taste, then.

Dudes that dig fat chicks perplex me the same way gay dudes do. I don’t get it, but whatever floats your boat.

Well, on that point we disagree, but I suppose that's just a matter of taste, then.

Yea, me n u are in the same boat, methinks. Healthy slim, I like a petite blond, preferably 5'8 or shorter(down to 4'10), or jet black hair and pale skin with green or blue eye shadow to offset, none of that Goth crap.

And healthy curves sounds like a fat chick who got lipo on her stomache and forgot the ass and thighs.

Well, on that point we disagree, but I suppose that's just a matter of taste, then.

Dudes that dig fat chicks perplex me the same way gay dudes do. I don’t get it, but whatever floats your boat.
Overweight is not the same as fat.

Overweight is not the same as fat.
Yea? Put em in a bikini wearing a thong and tell me that. This is SS reporting live from Myrtle Beach, SC, and I've seen 23 women so far today that were wearing an illegal bathing suit. Sorry mate, but cellulite doesn't look attractive no matter how hard you grab hold of it.

Yea? Put em in a bikini wearing a thong and tell me that. This is SS reporting live from Myrtle Beach, SC, and I've seen 23 women so far today that were wearing an illegal bathing suit. Sorry mate, but cellulite doesn't look attractive no matter how hard you grab hold of it.
No, they were fat, then. But the woman I have in mind certainly would look stunning in a bikini....*drools*

There was something said in the Spandex thread that got me thinking.

What are your opinions on what 'Fat' is? How heavy to you believe a person needs to be before they're considered fat? or is it in the appearance? Or does it simply not matter to you? and which is more attractive?

Poll Coming!
Women should be women, with curves, not boys without a penis. :p

Overweight is not the same as fat.
As far as I’m concerned it is. Besides the fact that I find it physically unappealing, that kind of irresponsibility is, in and of itself, unattractive.

Women should be women, with curves, not boys without a penis. :p

i agree with this...


but also agree with this...
It's all relative

I prefer being slim. I spend lot's of time running and doing Pilates in order to maintain my size 1 to 3 bottom and my 24ish inch waist. That's not to say, however, that I think bigger girls are ugly. All sizes can be beautiful.

has anyone seen the doves ads were they ask is the person in the photo ugly because the've got more wieght,freckles,scars...etc?

http://www.campaignforrealbeauty.com/splash.asp?theme=65&src=InsideCampaign_rndLink_TickBox_65

As far as I’m concerned it is. Besides the fact that I find it physically unappealing, that kind of irresponsibility is, in and of itself, unattractive.
Since when did people become responsible for their genentics?

Yup. And I heard guys prefer skinny women. Do you think that's true?
dunno... I was never one to judge on physical appearance. :)

Since when did people become responsible for their genentics?
Don’t give me that. It’s called diet and exercise. Sure, it’s harder for some people to lose weight, but if they’re content to die of a heart attack at forty, they really aren’t the people I’m interested in associating with.
dunno... I was never one to judge on physical appearance.
:rolleyes:
You’re on an internet forum. No reason to lie. You aren’t going to pick up any of those “drink till they’re pretty” chicks here.

dunno... I was never one to judge on physical appearance. :)
But what about other guys you have known?

Don’t give me that. It’s called diet and exercise. Sure, it’s harder for some people to lose weight, but if they’re content to die of a heart attack at forty, they really aren’t the people I’m interested in associating with.
I'm not talking about people who don't try. I'm talking about those who work really hard, but it only gets them so far. The body can only adapt so much.

lol
What I was trying to say is that I'm sick of women trying to pass off overweight as curvy. They aren't the same thing.
as seen on several T-shirts
"I have the body of a God*"
"*Buddah is a God"

"I am in shape. Round is a shape."

I'm not talking about people who don't try. I'm talking about those who work really hard, but it only gets them so far. The body can only adapt so much.
Yep. There are just some people who give up when the going gets tuff. Yeah, it may take years. If your appearance and health aren’t that important to you, well then, I’m glad it’s only you you’re hurting.
Besides, they should never have gotten fat in the first place.

Don’t give me that. It’s called diet and exercise. Sure, it’s harder for some people to lose weight, but if they’re content to die of a heart attack at forty, they really aren’t the people I’m interested in associating with.

:rolleyes:
You’re on an internet forum. No reason to lie. You aren’t going to pick up any of those “drink till they’re pretty” chicks here.

Diet and excercise aren't everything. I know a few people who are larger than me who excercise more than I do, and people who are much thinner than me who don't excercise at all. There is such a thing as different body types, and metabolisms of different speeds, etc, not to mention genetic disorders like thyroid problems.

But what about other guys you have known?
dunno. subject of what one finds desirable never came up. we are usually too busy shooting criminals or hacking dragons. :D

as seen on several T-shirts
"I have the body of a God*"
"*Buddah is a God"

"I am in shape. Round is a shape."

:D

Diet and excercise aren't everything. I know a few people who are larger than me who excercise more than I do, and people who are much thinner than me who don't excercise at all. There is such a thing as different body types, and metabolisms of different speeds, etc, not to mention genetic disorders like thyroid problems.
It seems that, at least in this country especially among the youth, the big contributing factor to obesity isn’t exercise, it’s terrible diet.
I mean fuck, how hard is it for people to understand that you aren’t supposed to eat until you’re full?

It seems that, at least in this country especially among the youth, the big contributing factor to obesity isn’t exercise, it’s terrible diet.
I mean fuck, how hard is it for people to understand that you aren’t supposed to eat until you’re full?

Okay, it's about diet too. So how come I'm bigger than some people who like junk food and smaller than some people who like veggies? Evidently, diet and excercise are important, but they're not always the deciding factor in a person's weight.

Yep. There are just some people who give up when the going gets tuff. Yeah, it may take years. If your appearance and health aren’t that important to you, well then, I’m glad it’s only you you’re hurting.
Besides, they should never have gotten fat in the first place.
Because everyone has control of everything about themselves from the moment they are born? Or is it more that you are disgustingly shallow and trying to justify it?

Because everyone has control of everything about themselves from the moment they are born? Or is it more that you are disgustingly shallow and trying to justify it?
I don’t need to justify being shallow because there is nothing wrong with it. We're all shallow, I just don't hide it. We’re animals, human beings.
I don’t see how you could claim that being shallow is “disgusting” without some sort of ridiculous spiritual nonsense. All that exists is the material. All we can do in life is improve our own lot.
Maybe I should give you the benefit of the doubt and just assume you like to think of yourself as superior?
Okay, it's about diet too. So how come I'm bigger than some people who like junk food and smaller than some people who like veggies? Evidently, diet and excercise are important, but they're not always the deciding factor in a person's weight.
Sure it can, and just like anybody else with a medical condition, they should work to overcome it, and not do what most in their position choose to do and sit around eating, content in their excuse.
Seriously, if you aren’t going to enjoy life, why not just kill yourself?

Sure it can, and just like anybody else with a medical condition, they should work to overcome it, and not do what most in their position choose to do and sit around eating, content in their excuse.
Seriously, if you aren’t going to enjoy life, why not just kill yourself?

Just out of curiosity, do you disagree with people using wheelchairs if they're parapylegic? Do you disagree with people that don't have 20/20 vision wearing eyeglasses? Do you disagree with disabled people having special parking spots?

Just out of curiosity, do you disagree with people using wheelchairs if they're parapylegic? Do you disagree with people that don't have 20/20 vision wearing eyeglasses? Do you disagree with disabled people having special parking spots?
No. Why would I? A paraplegic is doing his best to correct his problem with the wheelchair, same with the near and/or far sighted.
A fat person should do the same, but instead, you tell someone they have a thyroid problem and all of a sudden they think, “Well, I can’t do anything about it, might as well just sit on my ass all day.”

I’d like to see compulsive eaters get the same treatment by society as anorexics get.

No. Why would I? A paraplegic is doing his best to correct his problem with the wheelchair, same with the near and/or far sighted.
A fat person should do the same, but instead, you tell someone they have a thyroid problem and all of a sudden they think, “Well, I can’t do anything about it, might as well just sit on my ass all day.”

I’d like to see compulsive eaters get the same treatment by society as anorexics get.

Like I said, not everybody who is overweight spends the day sitting around eating bonbons. Many of them excercise extensively and eat very few calories. Why should they have to do ten times the work that other people do just to gain acceptance.
As for your last point, I agree. Compulsive eaters should be viewed as people who are as sick as people who are anoxeric. Would you tell an anorexic that she was ugly and stupid for not eating properly? If you say yes, you evidently don't have a very clear idea of pyschology.

Depends on the person. I had a crush on this 5'6" guy who was 275lbs. Yeah he was chubby, but he was so cute!

Then there was another guy who was about 5'3", 175lbs. Smaller than the last guy, but not attractive to me in the least little bit, and I don't know why, he just isn't a looker.

It's between healthy slim and healthy curves. It's all about being proportional. Even a healthy slim woman can have very nice curves, which is what I like. I do love slim firm abs, which is about the only place I don't like to see much fat at all, although limited amounts are tolerable.

It can depend - different body types cause a different type of lust. I tend to like guys to be skinnier, but skinny guys tend to have no ass - at all, and I also like men with an ass. Weightlifters can be fine - not to the point of bodybuilder competition, but some muscle mass is nice.

well, I'll go from skinny to healthy slim, then. I'm not into Michelin boys, nor into muscular gymbodybuilders, those latter give me the creeps, actually.
me too

Yea? Put em in a bikini wearing a thong and tell me that. This is SS reporting live from Myrtle Beach, SC, and I've seen 23 women so far today that were wearing an illegal bathing suit. Sorry mate, but cellulite doesn't look attractive no matter how hard you grab hold of it.
LMAO! What part of "healty curves" don't you understand? :D

I'll take definition over mass any day. I've seen guys who were "thin" who had really nice arms. Arms do it for me though, so I'm biased. Bodybuilders=gross in my opinion.
*gasp!* someone else who is attracted to arms! I thought I was the only one. The things you learn....

i agree with this...

but also agree with this...
Well, duh! To each his every, I always say. :D

Since when did people become responsible for their genentics?
Genetics only provides a propensity. Lifestyle determines what that propensity becomes. :p

I'm not talking about people who don't try. I'm talking about those who work really hard, but it only gets them so far. The body can only adapt so much.
That's why they say, "Different strokes for different folks!" :D

Just out of curiosity, do you disagree with people using wheelchairs if they're parapylegic? Do you disagree with people that don't have 20/20 vision wearing eyeglasses? Do you disagree with disabled people having special parking spots?
Hey! I have a "Disabled Veteran" license plate. Are you talking about me? :p

I have to admit that I do like a guy with nicely defined muscles.. not over worked over pumped or anything, just nice and defined.

I like a guy with a bit of meat on him if it's not excessive...and tallness is good
yes, exactly!

yes, exactly!
Oooooooo! How about 6'2" and 232 lbs? :D

Well I missed out on some fun in here!! Dammit!

Personal opinion of myself...I'd class myself as a little overweight if my underwear created bulges. Like love handles or that little flappy bit on your back by your armpit...you know what I mean?

I was ill recently for a few months and lost weight without meaning too, and now I'm really happy with my shape.

I don't understand the sizes you guys are using...what does 180 equate too for example? I can do kilograms or stone...I'm 54.4kg roughly. It fluctuates.

I agree with most of the girlies in here...Tall with defined shape, broad shoulders, strong arms but nothing freakish. My ex was 6'3 and had the most awesome figure, I love that area around the hips, lower abdomen and hips on a guy, phwoar.

I tend to prefer somewhere between really skinny and healthy slim, probably because that is around where I am. Naturally bony and underweight (20th percentile for my age in weight, 70th percentile in height)

Of course, my standard for attractiveness is the Phantom of the Opera from the original novel by Gaston Leroux; I don't often pay attention to real people, and it would be unhealthy for anyone to be as skinny as he is. He's tall and skeletally thin.

Well I missed out on some fun in here!! Dammit!

Personal opinion of myself...I'd class myself as a little overweight if my underwear created bulges. Like love handles or that little flappy bit on your back by your armpit...you know what I mean?

I was ill recently for a few months and lost weight without meaning too, and now I'm really happy with my shape.

I don't understand the sizes you guys are using...what does 180 equate too for example? I can do kilograms or stone...I'm 54.4kg roughly. It fluctuates.

I agree with most of the girlies in here...Tall with defined shape, broad shoulders, strong arms but nothing freakish. My ex was 6'3 and had the most awesome figure, I love that area around the hips, lower abdomen and hips on a guy, phwoar.
232 pounds = 105.5 kilograms

232 pounds = 105.5 kilograms
So I'd weigh roughly....110 pounds?

So I'd weigh roughly....110 pounds?
That's 50 kg

:D

So I'd weigh roughly....110 pounds?
About 120 lbs, I think. The conversion is 2.2 lbs per kg, if I remember correctly.

That's 50 kg

:D
Hmm, so having read through that thread...I'm smaller than the generally desired weight!

Maybe I'm too thin :confused: funny how different people like different things. I'm happy for once with my body :D just need to tone up my ass and I'm done :p

Hmm, so having read through that thread...I'm smaller than the generally desired weight!

Maybe I'm too thin :confused: funny how different people like different things. I'm happy for once with my body :D just need to tone up my ass and I'm done :p
Can I watch? :D

How tall are you? It's all about proportion. :)

Can I watch? :D

How tall are you? It's all about proportion. :)
Of course you can watch :p ;)

I'm 5'6 and 20 if that makes any difference :)

Of course you can watch :p ;)

I'm 5'6 and 20 if that makes any difference :)
hmmm. 5'6" and 110 lbs? Sounds pretty "proportional" to me! :D

Of course you can watch :p ;)

I'm 5'6 and 20 if that makes any difference :)
Seems quite healthy to me. :)

Seems quite healthy to me. :)
Cool :D I'm happy enough with that.

I'm so god damn hot, I can't possibly sleep in this heat, England shouldnt be this hot!!! We don't have air con!

Cool :D I'm happy enough with that.

I'm so god damn hot, I can't possibly sleep in this heat, England shouldnt be this hot!!! We don't have air con!
At 5'6" and 110 lbs, part of that heat is probably your fault! ;)

Cool :D I'm happy enough with that.

I'm so god damn hot, I can't possibly sleep in this heat, England shouldnt be this hot!!! We don't have air con!
How hot is it over there? We have triple digit weather in the forecast where I live for at least the next week (think high 30s, low 40s Celsius).

At 5'6" and 110 lbs, part of that heat is probably your fault! ;)
LOL smooooooooooooooth :D

How hot is it over there? We have triple digit weather in the forecast where I live for at least the next week (think high 30s, low 40s Celsius).
Well it was about 35 degrees here today, and its currently 20. Which doesnt seem much but at night its all hot, the house trapped heat today and i'm sweating like a biatch! I like sleeping with the duvet on!

LOL smooooooooooooooth :D
LMAO! I've been called worse. ;)

has anyone seen the doves ads were they ask is the person in the photo ugly because the've got more wieght,freckles,scars...etc?

http://www.campaignforrealbeauty.com/splash.asp?theme=65&src=InsideCampaign_rndLink_TickBox_65
I love those commercials. The women in those ads are beautiful.

I love those commercials. The women in those ads are beautiful.
I agree. If a woman develops who she is inside, that beauty will work its way outward and she will be lovely regardless. Just one old fart's opinion. :)

dunno. subject of what one finds desirable never came up. we are usually too busy shooting criminals or hacking dragons. :D
Heh. We just never talked about it. Too much respect for each other's preferences, methinks.

[QUOTE=Neo Undelia]I don’t need to justify being shallow because there is nothing wrong with it. We're all shallow, I just don't hide it. We’re animals, human beings.
I don’t see how you could claim that being shallow is “disgusting” without some sort of ridiculous spiritual nonsense. All that exists is the material. All we can do in life is improve our own lot.
Maybe I should give you the benefit of the doubt and just assume you like to think of yourself as superior?/QUOTE]
Only the most base human being is truly an animal. There's more to one than that. Embracing that animal is your failure as a human.You don't want ridiculous sprititual nonsense? Fine, I'll indulge that. It's disgusting because it takes things at face value, never trying to see what lies beneath. There's more there than the shallow surface. There is more than the material. The very essence of being is not material. And I don't think of myself as superior; I simply am, nothing more, nothing less.

No. Why would I? A paraplegic is doing his best to correct his problem with the wheelchair, same with the near and/or far sighted.
A fat person should do the same, but instead, you tell someone they have a thyroid problem and all of a sudden they think, “Well, I can’t do anything about it, might as well just sit on my ass all day.”

I’d like to see compulsive eaters get the same treatment by society as anorexics get.
But not all people with a thyroid problem resign themselves to it. They try so hard, but nearly nothing comes of it.

Genetics only provides a propensity. Lifestyle determines what that propensity becomes. :p
*injects methylene blue into eyes*
(cookie and an iron cross for the reference)

*injects methylene blue into eyes*
(cookie and an iron cross for the reference)Sounds like Mengele.

Cookie?

*gasp!* someone else who is attracted to arms! I thought I was the only one. The things you learn....

You are definitely not the only one. ;)

That's why they say, "Different strokes for different folks!" :D
Those strokes are a little different. :p

yes, exactly!
If I wasn't so damned charming, I'd say I was doomed.

Like I said, not everybody who is overweight spends the day sitting around eating bonbons.
J'aime du bonbons!!

Somewhere inbetween 'Healthy Slim' and 'Healthy Curves' is what I find attractive. :fluffle:

Oooooooo! How about 6'2" and 232 lbs? :D
lol. Not bad, but seems your a retired veteran, which makes me think you're old enough to at least be my father. And that, sir, is just gross!

lol. Not bad, but seems your a retired veteran, which makes me think you're old enough to at least be my father. And that, sir, is just gross!

You prefer men WC? I was starting to have some hope. :(
Then again you did say he was gross...I'm about an inch taller and much slimmer. How does that sound?:)

Fergi America']Sounds like Mengele.

Cookie?
*tosses you a cookie and a box of old Nazi medals*

Hmm, so having read through that thread...I'm smaller than the generally desired weight!

Maybe I'm too thin :confused: funny how different people like different things. I'm happy for once with my body :D just need to tone up my ass and I'm done :p
Sweetie, you aren't to thin. I'd love to be that weight. Never will be, but man, itd be sweet if i were. Outta curiousity, how tall are you? As long as you aren't 5'8, that sounds like a good weight.

*tosses you a cookie and a box of old Nazi medals*
Yay! My first NS Cookie!
And a whole box of medals!

*finds place to sell off Nazi medals*
*tests cookie for leftover Mengelean poisons*
*Decides to play it safe and keep cookie on desk in Lucite*

Well it was about 35 degrees here today, and its currently 20. Which doesnt seem much but at night its all hot, the house trapped heat today and i'm sweating like a biatch! I like sleeping with the duvet on!
Whats a duvet?

Yes, i live in a brick house, and in the summer, if the house doesnt cool over night its like a brick oven.

[QUOTE=Neo Undelia]I don’t need to justify being shallow because there is nothing wrong with it. We're all shallow, I just don't hide it. We’re animals, human beings.
I don’t see how you could claim that being shallow is “disgusting” without some sort of ridiculous spiritual nonsense. All that exists is the material. All we can do in life is improve our own lot.
Maybe I should give you the benefit of the doubt and just assume you like to think of yourself as superior?/QUOTE]
Only the most base human being is truly an animal. There's more to one than that. Embracing that animal is your failure as a human.You don't want ridiculous sprititual nonsense? Fine, I'll indulge that. It's disgusting because it takes things at face value, never trying to see what lies beneath. There's more there than the shallow surface. There is more than the material. The very essence of being is not material. And I don't think of myself as superior; I simply am, nothing more, nothing less.
Your quote box is broken.

If I wasn't so damned charming, I'd say I was doomed.
lol, why?

Fergi America']Yay! My first NS Cookie!
And a whole box of medals!

*finds place to sell off Nazi medals*
*tests cookie for leftover Mengelean poisons*
*Decides to play it safe and keep cookie on desk in Lucite*
Are you gonna eat that? I'm pretty hungry..........

Fergi America']Yay! My first NS Cookie!
And a whole box of medals!

*finds place to sell off Nazi medals*
*tests cookie for leftover Mengelean poisons*
*Decides to play it safe and keep cookie on desk in Lucite*
Oh, they're high-quality knock-offs, btw.

[QUOTE=Fascist Dominion]
Your quote box is broken.
Jolt did it. And I'm too lazy to try to fix it again.

lol, why?
'Cause I'm not whatever was mentioned.

You prefer men WC? I was starting to have some hope. :(
Then again you did say he was gross...I'm about an inch taller and much slimmer. How does that sound?:)
I'm sorry, Bumboat :( I am very openminded about who I date, but my one requirement is that they be male.

It sounds very attractive. (i can objectively say whether a woman is attractive or not without being attracted to her. this may've cause the confusion).I cant imagine why you'd be interested in some internet person if you look like that anyway. You must have men and women lined up around the block.

lol. Not bad, but seems your a retired veteran, which makes me think you're old enough to at least be my father. And that, sir, is just gross!
Hardly. It just depends upon your viewpoint and upon whether you consider chronological age more important than anything else. :p

I'm sorry, Bumboat :( I am very openminded about who I date, but my one requirement is that they be male.

It sounds very attractive. (i can objectively say whether a woman is attractive or not without being attracted to her. this may've cause the confusion).I cant imagine why you'd be interested in some internet person if you look like that anyway. You must have men and women lined up around the block.
Sssh! Don't say things like that! You'll only make her angry!

I'm sorry, Bumboat :( I am very openminded about who I date, but my one requirement is that they be male.

It sounds very attractive. (i can objectively say whether a woman is attractive or not without being attracted to her. this may've cause the confusion).I cant imagine why you'd be interested in some internet person if you look like that anyway. You must have men and women lined up around the block.

I've been told that before and by people who've seen me but I see no line.
Well not of women. Not interested in manlust. Oh well Friends then WC?
:fluffle:

I've been told that before and by people who've seen me but I see no line.
Well not of women. Not interested in manlust. Oh well Friends then WC?
:fluffle:
You're...sweet?:p

Personally I think the human body looks best without ribs showing, or other signs which would normally indicate some degree of starvation, or perhaps a wasting disease. Also I don't like people to be too thin overall--it makes them look too wimpy and fragile. I can't be attracted to someone who looks like a decent hug will break their bones!


Oh, they're high-quality knock-offs, btw.
Ohhh. No wonder you were so willing to part with them! :(
Are you gonna eat that? I'm pretty hungry..........Sorry, it's already Lucited. Anyway, I can't give away/sell my first cookie!

Fergi America']Personally I think the human body looks best without ribs showing, or other signs which would normally indicate some degree of starvation, or perhaps a wasting disease. Also I don't like people to be too thin overall--it makes them look too wimpy and fragile. I can't be attracted to someone who looks like a decent hug will break their bones!



Ohhh. No wonder you were so willing to part with them! :(
Sorry, it's already Lucited. Anyway, I can't give away/sell my first cookie!
Well, I'm certainly not parting with the real ones.:rolleyes:

'Cause I'm not whatever was mentioned.
I sincerely beleive scent is more important than looks, anyways. Anywho, I'm fairly certain I dont qualify for anything that was mentioned, either.

I've been told that before and by people who've seen me but I see no line.
Well not of women. Not interested in manlust. Oh well Friends then WC?
:fluffle:
Yes, please!! :fluffle:

Sssh! Don't say things like that! You'll only make her angry!
thanks for the heads up, but it was unnecessary!

I sincerely beleive scent is more important than looks, anyways. Anywho, I'm fairly certain I dont qualify for anything that was mentioned, either.
Dunno what to tell you 'bout that.

Yes, please!! :fluffle:
Good! :fluffle:
Trying out first SiG

Out of the choices, "Healthy slim" would be my preference. I don't like women who are extremely skinny, however, I don't like women who are on the extreme opposite. Curves are nice, however, I prefer those curves to be on a fit woman.

I think that if you c a girls ribs its disgusting, can you imagine making out, and her freakin bones are clattering up against you.:fluffle:

Dunno what to tell you 'bout that.
Don't need to tell me anything. I have a very realistic self-image.

Most boys who maintain good hygiene and don't smoke smell good. Cigarrette smoke and its smell are so unnattractive.

[QUOTE=WC Imperial Court]
Jolt did it. And I'm too lazy to try to fix it again.
*shakes fist at Jolt*
I just wanted to make you aware. That making you helped me in my race is purely coincidental.

[QUOTE=Fascist Dominion]
*shakes fist at Jolt*
I just wanted to make you aware. That making you helped me in my race is purely coincidental.
I almost forgot the race!
:fluffle: thanks for reminding me

I don’t need to justify being shallow because there is nothing wrong with it. We're all shallow, I just don't hide it. We’re animals, human beings.
I don’t see how you could claim that being shallow is “disgusting” without some sort of ridiculous spiritual nonsense. All that exists is the material. All we can do in life is improve our own lot.
Maybe I should give you the benefit of the doubt and just assume you like to think of yourself as superior?

Sure it can, and just like anybody else with a medical condition, they should work to overcome it, and not do what most in their position choose to do and sit around eating, content in their excuse.
Seriously, if you aren’t going to enjoy life, why not just kill yourself?
Where to begin?

Everyone is shallow to some extent, but it seems they aren't generally as shallow as you. As long as a person has one attractive quality - hair, eyes, build, whatever -and a good personality, it isnt necessary for me that the person be at least 6' or within a certain weight range. Some people shouldn't go around wearing bakinis, fine I'll agree with that. Doesn't make them ugly or lesser people.

Believe it or not, some people enjoy life without being obsessed with excersize, nutrition, and clothing sizes. Frankly, I don't want to live till 80 if it means I can't eat another cheesesteak or burger or dark chocolate.

I worry about my health, and try to make sure I take in necessary vitamins and minerals. But I'm not going to start making myself miserable to try and fit a certain dress size. And if someone like you is going to judge me for that, I don't give a damn, cuz your opinion is worth less to me than a bowl of brussel sprouts.

[QUOTE=WC Imperial Court]
I almost forgot the race!
:fluffle: thanks for reminding me
are you racing, too?

Oh, sorry 'bout that. Umm, I don't consider women fat, but I do like mine to have a nice set of curves.

Would they be in her Bra by any chance?

:p

You just wanted to feel her boobs. :p:D


I have no problem snogging a fellow female... but I dont feel them up.. I like my men ;)

Women should be women, with curves, not boys without a penis. :p

ROFL.. oh SO agreed :D

*gasp!* someone else who is attracted to arms! I thought I was the only one. The things you learn....

Arms are the best bit cuz they're the bits that hug you and hold you :D

*sigh*

as long as they're not like ueber massive crack a nut between your forearm and your bicep type stuff.. i'm not into THAT

You prefer men WC? I was starting to have some hope. :(
Then again you did say he was gross...I'm about an inch taller and much slimmer. How does that sound?:)

bumboat lives!

Whats new and exciting BB?

thanks for the heads up, but it was unnecessary!
+1

:bump:

:bump:
Did you WANT to talk about snogging females?:D

Did you WANT to talk about snogging females?:D

What's wrong with snogging females?

What's wrong with snogging females?

Answer: Nothing! :fluffle:

I don't have a preference between "Healthy Slim" and "Healthy Curves".

Answer: Nothing! :fluffle:

Perfectly good answer, honey *snogs

:fluffle:

Perfectly good answer, honey *snogs

:fluffle:

Why thankyou ;)

*Returns* :fluffle:

Sweetie, you aren't to thin. I'd love to be that weight. Never will be, but man, itd be sweet if i were. Outta curiousity, how tall are you? As long as you aren't 5'8, that sounds like a good weight.
Mmm I was asked my height earlier...I'm 5'6

Whats a duvet?

Yes, i live in a brick house, and in the summer, if the house doesnt cool over night its like a brick oven.
Yes, we live in a brick house as well. Most english houses are! A duvet is the big puffy quilt type thing you have on your bed! You know that you cover yourself with. Commonly filled with fluff or feathers or the like!

I just read a post about boobs and it's got me thinking about them...thats the one downside to being slim I think, is that you have to have the right genetics to have a decent sized chest! I'd personally like mine ot be a little larger...not to the extent that I'll go and get them implanted, but a cup higher would be nice! Those are curves you wanna have!

+1
hellz yes. I'm in a race, and i'm down by 100+ posts. I need a plus one every now and again. And by every now and again i mean times 500.

There was something said in the Spandex thread that got me thinking.

What are your opinions on what 'Fat' is? How heavy to you believe a person needs to be before they're considered fat? or is it in the appearance? Or does it simply not matter to you? and which is more attractive?

Poll Coming!
Spandex o_O

I like something between Healthy SLim and health curves.

hellz yes. I'm in a race, and i'm down by 100+ posts. I need a plus one every now and again. And by every now and again i mean times 500.
*Spanks you for +5*

*Spanks you for +5*
Hey! No spanking! *spanks back* that'll show you to spank me!

hmmm, do i get the +5 or do you??

I just read a post about boobs and it's got me thinking about them...thats the one downside to being slim I think, is that you have to have the right genetics to have a decent sized chest! I'd personally like mine ot be a little larger...not to the extent that I'll go and get them implanted, but a cup higher would be nice! Those are curves you wanna have!
Mmmmm...Nordic descent....

Hardly. It just depends upon your viewpoint and upon whether you consider chronological age more important than anything else. :p
LOL. And yes, it would be gross, unless you're George Clooney, or Sean Connery, in which case exceptions would have to be made for fairly obvious reasons. :D

Honestly, no, chronological age isn't more important than anything else. The most important thing, i think, is that each person in the couple is at relatively the same stage of life (both in highschool, or both in college, or both making a living, or both retired/nearing retirement). Also, both people should have relatively similar maturity levels.

What's wrong with snogging females?Answer: Nothing! :fluffle:
Darn Tootin!

Hey! No spanking! *spanks back* that'll show you to spank me!

hmmm, do i get the +5 or do you??
I think we split it 50/50, that way no one is a whore.
*Nods*

I gotta be able to grab something. My brother's g/f is 5' something and ways 108 pounds. I was just like PLEASE EAT SOMETHING! Doesn't help that my brother's motto is "110 or bust". But to each his own I guess...

I think we split it 50/50, that way no one is a whore.
*Nods*
so +2.5? LOL. As long as I am not the whore, its all good.