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What is the most important quality of a lover? - Page 2

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Fascist Dominion
08-06-2006, 12:52
I'm above petty flamming :p
We both know I'm not.;)
Anywho, to venture back on topic for a time, I suppose I wanted you to read those old posts to see if you thought I was still describing you, but more psychologically and less physically this time.
The Beautiful Darkness
08-06-2006, 12:59
We both know I'm not.;)
Anywho, to venture back on topic for a time, I suppose I wanted you to read those old posts to see if you thought I was still describing you, but more psychologically and less physically this time.

Did you intend to? :p
Fascist Dominion
08-06-2006, 13:03
Did you intend to? :p
Nope. Just posting for the ubiquitous She. I did say in a couple of posts on page 12 that I could almost see her, though....
The Beautiful Darkness
08-06-2006, 13:19
Nope. Just posting for the ubiquitous She. I did say in a couple of posts on page 12 that I could almost see her, though....

Ah, I see :)
Fascist Dominion
08-06-2006, 13:25
Ah, I see :)
Well? What say you?
The Beautiful Darkness
08-06-2006, 13:33
Well? What say you?

Erm...
*Goes back to read your posts*
You want to know if this sounds like me?

Yes, I have a reasonable level of physical attractiveness :p
You tell me, am I witty, charming and or coy?
I have eyes, and a face which can express my emotions.
:p

Is that what you want? lol
Fascist Dominion
08-06-2006, 13:37
Erm...
*Goes back to read your posts*
You want to know if this sounds like me?

Yes, I have a reasonable level of physical attractiveness :p
You tell me, am I witty, charming and or coy?
I have eyes, and a face which can express my emotions.
:p

Is that what you want? lol
I want to know what you think. I already know just how witty, charming and coy you can be. I suppose I also forgot to mention that She must also be able to examine her nature, but appeal to others to gather perspective.

I know you have eyes and a face that can express your emotions, but how much do they?
The Beautiful Darkness
08-06-2006, 13:42
I want to know what you think. I already know just how witty, charming and coy you can be. I suppose I also forgot to mention that She must also be able to examine her nature, but appeal to others to gather perspective.

I know you have eyes and a face that can express your emotions, but how much do they?

Oh, well they all sound like good qualities to have :)

My face and eyes can be expressive ocassionally to the point of my own detriment.. :(
Fascist Dominion
08-06-2006, 13:46
Oh, well they all sound like good qualities to have :)

My face and eyes can be expressive ocassionally to the point of my own detriment.. :(
They certainly are, which is why I value them. But how much do you think you have them?

I'll take that as a yes to the eyes and facial expressions.
The Beautiful Darkness
08-06-2006, 13:55
They certainly are, which is why I value them. But how much do you think you have them?

I'll take that as a yes to the eyes and facial expressions.

Did I say I thought I had them? :p
Fascist Dominion
08-06-2006, 13:59
Did I say I thought I had them? :p
Zero is a quantity:p , but that still doesn't answer my question. You're almost as good at evading questions as I am, and you're certainly as stubborn. No wonder you're my favorite toy.:p Well, do you think you have them? Hmm??
Evil Satanic OzMonkeys
08-06-2006, 14:43
Does this thread go hand in hand with size matters?


aaa-BURN!!!
Cluichstan
08-06-2006, 14:49
Aww, I was hoping for some flaming.:(

Me, too. :p
Solaris-X
08-06-2006, 14:50
personality and looks, I can't be with someone unless they are romantic, caring and sweet. Also they would haved to be good looking, to my standards or its not gona happen. then end-.
Evil Satanic OzMonkeys
08-06-2006, 15:11
I would actualy have to say other, because I would say that music taste is actually the most important quality to me in a woman.
Zolworld
08-06-2006, 15:22
Iv been with women who had great personalities, women with massive tits, women who were thin, fat, stupid, shared my taste in music or hated it, and I have come to the conclusion that there are 3 essential qualities a lover must have. They must have a tight body, a reasonably pretty face, and be happy to swallow. Maybe im shallow, but the personality just doesnt do it for me. and god knows ive tried. a good personality helps, but without a nice body, its never gonna be more than friendship. even if they have very large breasts, which i love, unless the rest is good its not gonna last.

with a great personality, a relationship might last a few weeks, but with so many hot women out there youd soon become depressed and want a better one.

with a great body, it could last months, until you get sick of her being a moron, or she turns out to be a bitch and leaves you.

with both, which I have sadly only encountered once, many years ago, it could last forever. but sadly a woman that fine would probably just leave you for Brad Pitt or someone.
Cluichstan
08-06-2006, 15:27
with both, which I have sadly only encountered once, many years ago, it could last forever. but sadly a woman that fine would probably just leave you for Brad Pitt or someone.

Only if you're a wankstain.
Ny Nordland
08-06-2006, 15:30
Iv been with women who had great personalities, women with massive tits, women who were thin, fat, stupid, shared my taste in music or hated it, and I have come to the conclusion that there are 3 essential qualities a lover must have. They must have a tight body, a reasonably pretty face, and be happy to swallow. Maybe im shallow, but the personality just doesnt do it for me. and god knows ive tried. a good personality helps, but without a nice body, its never gonna be more than friendship. even if they have very large breasts, which i love, unless the rest is good its not gonna last.

with a great personality, a relationship might last a few weeks, but with so many hot women out there youd soon become depressed and want a better one.

with a great body, it could last months, until you get sick of her being a moron, or she turns out to be a bitch and leaves you.

with both, which I have sadly only encountered once, many years ago, it could last forever. but sadly a woman that fine would probably just leave you for Brad Pitt or someone.


LOL...the odds would increase greatly if you drop "happy to swallow"...
Zolworld
08-06-2006, 15:38
Only if you're a wankstain.

I am.
Zolworld
08-06-2006, 15:39
LOL...the odds would increase greatly if you drop "happy to swallow"...

Alright, what if I change "happy" to "willing"?
Fascist Dominion
08-06-2006, 18:13
Me, too. :p
Oh well, maybe next time.
Dinaverg
08-06-2006, 18:55
He definately needs to be able to cook. I'll only marry a man who feeds me.

*opens notepad*

Learn...to...cook...

Me...Personality I guess. Although there's a modicum of intelligence I expect.
Sonaj
08-06-2006, 19:01
Personality is definantly #1, though smarts is fairly important too... And physical appearance doesn't really matter: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say, and according to my experiences (limited, but still), if you're in love with them, they are beautiful to you.
Fascist Dominion
08-06-2006, 19:11
*opens notepad*

Learn...to...cook...

Me...Personality I guess. Although there's a modicum of intelligence I expect.
You really are a sucker for TC.;)
Fascist Dominion
08-06-2006, 19:14
Personality is definantly #1, though smarts is fairly important too... And physical appearance doesn't really matter: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say, and according to my experiences (limited, but still), if you're in love with them, they are beautiful to you.
*raises hand enthusiastically*
Oooo, ooo, I said that last bit, but almost no one believed me. :(
So really what you're saying is that physical appearance does matter, but what pleases the eye is governed by whose eye it is and their emotional attachment to the person in question?
Sonaj
08-06-2006, 19:15
*raises hand enthusiastically*
Oooo, ooo, I said that last bit, but almost no one believed me. :(
So really what you're saying is that physical appearance does matter, but what pleases the eye is governed by whose eye it is and their emotional attachment to the person in question?
More or less, yeah. To me anyways, people differ.

And sorry, didn't know you said that. I didn't feel like reading 19 pages :p
Fascist Dominion
08-06-2006, 19:22
More or less, yeah. To me anyways, people differ.

And sorry, didn't know you said that. I didn't feel like reading 19 pages :p
That's okay. Just corroborating our conclusions about love's effects. *nods* I would read all 19 pages because I'm pathetic and have way too much free time, but I've hung around since about page five, so I've already done that.

And to the first, just confirming which of your contradictory statements you truly believed. You're right, of course, and certainly aren't the first to have said it.
*rubs more corroboration into noses of shallow jerks who called me a liar/hypocrite for denouncing the significance of looks*
Sonaj
08-06-2006, 19:38
It's not that I've got stuff to do, it's that I'm on a 0.5 line which is shared between 3 computers so progress is slow.
Fascist Dominion
08-06-2006, 19:42
It's not that I've got stuff to do, it's that I'm on a 0.5 line which is shared between 3 computers so progress is slow.
Most people wouldn't read all that even if they didn't, which most of them do at some point or other. I'll make sure I don't post any really big pictures until you're offline.;)
*runs off to find the biggest picture Google can summon*
Dinaverg
08-06-2006, 21:33
You really are a sucker for TC.;)

Have I ever denied it?
Fascist Dominion
08-06-2006, 21:35
Have I ever denied it?
Nope, just commenting.
*snickers*
The Beautiful Darkness
09-06-2006, 06:22
Zero is a quantity:p , but that still doesn't answer my question. You're almost as good at evading questions as I am, and you're certainly as stubborn. No wonder you're my favorite toy.:p Well, do you think you have them? Hmm??

Almost? Ha!

*Resolves to evade harder* :p
Gravlen
09-06-2006, 17:15
Nope, just commenting.
*snickers*
Snickers??

I want chocolate too... :(
The Beautiful Darkness
09-06-2006, 17:17
Snickers??

I want chocolate too... :(

Haha! You have been bitten by the chocolate bug.

Pass this post on to at least 10 more people, and you shall be blessed with chocolate :p
Daemonyxia
09-06-2006, 17:21
The ability not to laugh when you drop your pants.
Potarius
09-06-2006, 17:48
I'm going to be completely honest here.


The first thing I'd look for is how someone looks. I mean, if they don't quite match my standards, it's just not going to work. Hey, that's how it goes.

Okay, looks are down, so what's next? Intelligence. Someone who's significantly less intelligent than I am (or even a little) isn't going to get anything out of me. Sorry, but I wouldn't be able to let myself continue living if I had stupid kids.

So there's intelligence. Now we move on to... Personality. Anyone who's a nagging bitch (read: a person who reminds me of my dad) will never be with me, much less a friend of mine. I don't much like needy, dependent people, either.


I'm not willing to compromise, either. Potential candidates have to fit my specifications. Looks, intelligence, and personality have to be in harmony with each other. I'm much the same with my selection of friends, though looks are much less important (usually not at all) there.

Call me particular, but I just can't seem to get along with people who don't fit my specifications. At least I'm being honest.
King Phil
09-06-2006, 17:58
all of them, plus more, don't say I'm greedy.

Also they must be nice, and they have to like me.
Gravlen
09-06-2006, 18:01
Haha! You have been bitten by the chocolate bug.

Pass this post on to at least 10 more people, and you shall be blessed with chocolate :p
How, pray tell, do I pass this post on? :confused:

I just wanted the Chocolate... :(
The Beautiful Darkness
09-06-2006, 18:16
How, pray tell, do I pass this post on? :confused:

I just wanted the Chocolate... :(

Lol, that was just my little.. joke :p

*Hands Gravlen a chocolate chip cookie*
Gravlen
09-06-2006, 18:29
Lol, that was just my little.. joke :p

*Hands Gravlen a chocolate chip cookie*
:eek:
A cookie! With CHOCOLATE!!

I... I just don't know what to say...

*accepts cookie*
*Runs away*
Cookie...
Gravlen
09-06-2006, 18:30
¤On topic post¤

Must be able to share chocolate *nods*
The Beautiful Darkness
09-06-2006, 18:31
:eek:
A cookie! With CHOCOLATE!!

I... I just don't know what to say...

*accepts cookie*
*Runs away*
Cookie...

*Feels like your fairy godmother* lol :p

G'night, I'm off for sleep

:fluffle:
Gravlen
09-06-2006, 18:39
*Feels like your fairy godmother* lol :p

G'night, I'm off for sleep

:fluffle:
Sweet dreams and such, away from this Lover's thread :p

:fluffle:

See ya later ;)
Fascist Dominion
10-06-2006, 00:00
Almost? Ha!

*Resolves to evade harder* :p
Yep, just almost. So do you have the aforementioned qulities?
*resolves to woo The Beautiful Darkness into an answer*
I already described a woman who looks like you for my personal preference. Wouldn't it be fascinating to discuss whether or not you fit psychologically?
Fascist Dominion
10-06-2006, 00:03
The ability not to laugh when you drop your pants.
You frequently wake up alone, don't you?:p
Todays Lucky Number
10-06-2006, 00:29
love'!
The Beautiful Darkness
10-06-2006, 03:43
Sweet dreams and such, away from this Lover's thread :p

:fluffle:

See ya later ;)

Aww, thanks :D

Cya

:fluffle:
The Beautiful Darkness
10-06-2006, 03:43
Yep, just almost. So do you have the aforementioned qulities?
*resolves to woo The Beautiful Darkness into an answer*
I already described a woman who looks like you for my personal preference. Wouldn't it be fascinating to discuss whether or not you fit psychologically?

Meh! :p
New Zero Seven
10-06-2006, 03:44
Sex. :)
Fascist Dominion
10-06-2006, 03:49
Meh! :p
You know you want to discuss it, to discover what I truly think of you. What I may or may not feel for you.
Taredas
10-06-2006, 04:06
The most important quality of a lover? Mutual interest... after all, if there isn't mutual interest, then you don't have a lover, you have unrequited love.

Wait a minute... I made an on-topic post, and it wasn't in Moderation or a godmod thread (read: "Do you have faith in God"-type thread)! What is the world coming to?
Fascist Dominion
10-06-2006, 04:23
The most important quality of a lover? Mutual interest... after all, if there isn't mutual interest, then you don't have a lover, you have unrequited love.

Wait a minute... I made an on-topic post, and it wasn't in Moderation or a godmod thread (read: "Do you have faith in God"-type thread)! What is the world coming to?
Heretic! He's a witch! Burn him!
Mini-stranton
10-06-2006, 04:34
Smarts. I want to feel like I'm developing something with one who can match me in wit.

I guess thats what I'm looking for anyway.... I don't really know anymore.
Fascist Dominion
10-06-2006, 04:38
Smarts. I want to feel like I'm developing something with one who can match me in wit.

I guess thats what I'm looking for anyway.... I don't really know anymore.
You don't need to know. You just need to find a certain Je ne sai quoi.
And what happens if s/he surpasses you in wit?