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Why Masturbation Is Immoral, According To The Late Pope. - Page 2

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President Shrub
02-08-2005, 07:52
The main reason it is immoral is because it requires lewd thoughts and lusts to facilitate it.
That's a homonculus argument.

"It's immoral, because it REQUIRES an immoral thought."

To be honest I don't know of a single man who doesn't watch porn.
Anecdotal evidence. In school, we learned that those who do or don't masturbation was about 50\50. The poll I did on pornography a while ago was around that figure.

I'm curious - for those of you who see masturbation as inherently immoral/adulturous, do you differentiate at all between masturbating while watching porn and masturbating while thinking about an absent significant other? Is there a difference from a moral standpoint?
No, because in either case, it's self-gratification.

The thing that seperates us from cows: We have souls, we are capable of rational thought, and we are aware of ourselves.
You don't know that cows don't have souls. And also, they have a limited amount of intelligence and self-awareness. All animals have these qualities to a certain extent. Dolphins' intelligence is said to be equal to that of a small child.

My only comment: If God had intended for us not to masturbate, He would've made our arms shorter!
And how would God have expected men to use a urinal?


I'm a Methodist myself, and I find nothing wrong with masturbating every once in a while. If God didn't want us to do it, why did he make it so enjoyable? What really pisses me off is how most women think it's disgusting if you tell them you do it, yet they'll turn around and jerk some guy off. That's just plain hypocritical.
The Romans found throwing Christians to the lions to be enjoyable. If God didn't want them to do it, why did he make it so enjoyable? Getting drunk and doing drugs are enjoyable as well. "Feels good," doesn't equate with "is good," unless you're an Epicurean hippie.

So sin is also healthy? Because masturbation is.
It isn't unhealthy, but it isn't healthy, either.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbation#Health_and_psychological_effects

"It is being increasingly recognised in mental health circles that masturbation can relieve depression and lead to a higher sense of self worth."

I have masturbated probably somewhere in the thousands. Probably two or three thousand, not sure. And well, it's never relieved my depression or led to a higher sense of self worth. Religious belief, regardless of one's religion, has been indisputably shown to benefit virtually every facet of a person's being. If a person is depressed, feels no self-worth, or has no purpose, it would be far more intelligent to encourage religious belief than to advise them to whack off. In Alcoholics Anonymous, they incorporate religion into a large part of their treatment. To my knowledge, they don't incorporate dolphin-flogging, taffy-pulling, and\or chicken-choking.

AND NOW TO ANSWER TO A BIT OF HUMOROUS TROLLING (BUT STILL, IT'S STILL TROLLING)

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Nope.

Does anyone know if it's wrong to masturbate with the bible?
Only if you aren't reading Revelation or the Gospels.

I prefer to refer to him as "Pope Sidious" or "P-Dizzle"
Ahahahaha. P-Dizzle.

I bet you marry was hot
If you mean Mary Magdeline, you are probably right. Freaking whore.
She lived in ancient Mesopotamia. You think girls shaved their legs or their armpits back then? You think they waxed their lips or eyebrows? You think they wore mini-skirts and halter tops? Only the Egyptians wore make-up and Paul spoke strongly against any kind of jewelry or fashion.

She was probably a hairy bitch in a potato sack, which is why Jesus kept turning her down.

Totally, totally, and I do mean TOTALLY, uncalled for. There are millions of people in the world who revere Mary. Why would you say that? Just to be controversial? Would you say the same sort of thing about Mohammed, or Bhudda, or any of a number of other religious icons?
Early Christians (3rd and 4th century) identified Mary Magdalene as also being the other Mary in the Bible, a prostitute. There are a fair amount of Christians today that agree. In The Passion of the Christ, Mary Magdalene was portrayed as being the same as Mary the Prostitute.

Sometimes I ponder becoming a Muslim. Because I mean, how can it truly be heaven without 70 virgins waiting for you? I'll tell you what heaven is going to be like, it's going to be Barnhill's Buffet, with hookers for waitresses.
Become a Ba'hai.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bahai

Ba'hai's 12 Principles:
The Oneness of God
The Oneness of religion
The Oneness of mankind
Equality of women and men
Elimination of all forms of prejudice
World peace
Harmony of religion and science
Independent investigation of truth
The need for universal compulsory education
The need for a universal auxiliary language
Obedience to government and non-involvement in politics
Elimination of extremes of wealth and poverty

A religion based upon Judaism, Christianity, and Islam, founded a few hundred years ago in Iran. There's no priesthood or clergy, they don't teach that you'll go to hell for not believing what they do, and anyone can believe pretty much anything they want.

What makes you think you will even have a penis?
No more hand shandies with the soap for you my friend.
Angels supposedly don't have genitals.

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Anyway, back to the original topic... I've noticed that through 17 pages of this topic, the one-line posters have invaded. And out of 17 pages, only one person, Ulterion, gave an intelligent and coherent answer. Neo Rogolia defended my statements with arguments based around assumptions that the Bible and her interpretation of it is true. While others who opposed my statements made fallacious statements or posted outright nonsense. If you don't have anything relevant or intellectual to say, don't post.

I can certainly understand this opening argument and it is very sound, and I agree with it to some extent.

Theres a profound difference here though.

You have:
(A) a single fifty year old man whos fat and lives in his moms basement and never tried to meet women for decades and whacks off to boxes and boxes of porn,

and

(B) a fifteen year old who cranks one out in the shower every now and then and goes on to lead a perfectly normal life happily married with children.


Masturbation in the boys case, I believe is a normal step in development, and a healthy outlet for sexual tension (and fluids :p)

Porn Masturbation in case A is an unfulfiling lifestyle which is the bad form of masturbation
And I agree completely, so I'll re-explain myself:

A life of renunciation in all its forms is the most moral and is what what Moses, Jesus, Muhammed, and Buddha taught. According to Judaism, all that exists is God. So, to harm anything in the world is to harm God. And when we die, we are judged according to the amount of good and bad deeds we do in life (with a good angel defending you, an evil angel prosecuting you, and God presiding as judge).

According to Jesus, to enter heaven, one must not even think evil thoughts and must give up wealth for the greater good, coming to accomplish that through faith in Jesus Christ. Although modern Christianity no longer considers it this way, Catholicism traditionally taught that God gave wealth to the righteous, and that wealth should be used for righteous acts. In early Protestants, this was true too, such as the Puritans who followed Paul's words of dressing "plainly," and held to the words of the Bible which focused on living a "spiritual, not worldly," life. Today, only the Amish and some Liberal Christians hold to this ideal, with most modern Christians believe that you just need to "believe," but not actually do anything.

In Islam, the Qu'ran says that everyone should be required to give charity to the poor. The ideal of selflessness is poignantly obvious in Buddhism.

However, it should never be enforced, because the results of that have been disastrous in Medieval Catholic Europe, Puritan colonial Massachusetts, and the modern, Islamic Middle East. In as much as I agree with one side that masturbation is immoral, I equally agree with the other side that no one's rights should be infringed upon. Trying to enforce morality would be about as effective as trying to enforce economics through Communism.
UpwardThrust
02-08-2005, 14:17
She lived in ancient Mesopotamia. You think girls shaved their legs or their armpits back then? You think they waxed their lips or eyebrows? You think they wore mini-skirts and halter tops? Only the Egyptians wore make-up and Paul spoke strongly against any kind of jewelry or fashion.


Who said I would mind that? :p
Georgegad
02-08-2005, 14:57
I've read the Bible cover to cover several times and nowhere in the Bible does it either say or indicate that Mary Magdaline was a prostitute. Making a bald-faced assertion like this requires some proof. So far all you've offered is hostile rhetoric.
While it doesn SAY she is a prostitute-christ was critisised for speaking to her because she was of bad character. Historians also think that the WOMEN AT THE WELL was waiting there for strangers to pass through and offer them sex. No proof of course but not a crazy thought
Georgegad
02-08-2005, 15:09
Adultery, in it's truest form and the form the Church and scripture implies, is any immoral sexual action. It has merely come to mean sexual infidelity to your spouse.

Where does that come from? In the years if researched religion iv never come across that idea before

Okay.... here's a thorny theological puzzle... Can we wack-off once we get to heaven? I mean... once were in heaven, we're there - we made it. I'd think it would be anything goes then.

Dude, thats why they call it heaven
It's a one-way catfight. I don't instigate or retaliate, I just sit back and enjoy myself :D
then whats this?
/poke
its not flameing if the subject REALLY IS a fool


and on a final note, its mine and ill play with it if i want to.
Lyric
02-08-2005, 15:22
That has got to be the single worst attempt at flamebait ever.

Yes. And is anyone noticing here that, despite numerous requests of mine for Neo to leave me alone, she continues to refuse to leave me alone? This is called "Greifing" and DOES fall under the definition of flame.

Her obvious sole intent is to annoy, harrass, aggrivate.

I have asked her numerous times to simply leave me the FUCK alone.

Now I am asking Mods to ask her, one time...to leave me the fuck alone. Maybe Mods voice will carry a bit more weight. I'm not trying to get Neo banned, just trying to get her to leave me alone, and put me on her Ignore list.

Very simple. I have stated I wish no dialogue, whatsoever, with her.

And may I state here that Neo is THE ONLY person I have EVER made this request of on these Forums? Someone with an opposite opinion is one thing. someone who is deliberately out there to annoy, harrass, and aggrivate is another thing entirely.
Lyric
02-08-2005, 15:25
You seem to have an awful lot of hostility in there somewhere. Any particular reason?

Yes. There IS a reason.

These fundamentalist Christians have declared war on me, and people like me. I lead an alternative lifestyle. They should just leave me the hell alone to live as I see fit. they refuse to do that, seeing as their "god-given mission" to punish me, verbally, physically, emotionally, and financially...for failing to live in a manner of which THEY approve.

they have declared me the enemy, they have declared war on me.

Let's be honest...how likely are YOU to be anything but hostile towards the people who persecute YOU?
Lyric
02-08-2005, 15:27
Again with the hostility. What on earth is bothering you so much???

You really want me to be specific? I'll have to do that in a private telegram, then.
Georgegad
02-08-2005, 15:31
Be calm lyric.
It is an outward manifestation of there inner frustration, at being unable to live up to there impossible expectations.

They hate themselves, and because you dont hate yourself, they hate you.
Georgegad
02-08-2005, 15:32
they need to masturbate more
Lyric
02-08-2005, 15:34
She is the one person whom I don't have to flamebait to get a negative reaction. She makes up her own troll, so I don't have to do it :D

I would very much appreciate not being talked about when I'm not around to respond.

YOU make your own troll by refusing to ever acknowledge that you just might be wrong...refusing to PROVE anything you ever say, always saying "I'm right because I say so" or "because God says so."

And, never forget...YOU put words in MY MOUTH...accusing me of saying something I did not say...and when I called you on it, you were forced to admit it was someone else who'd made the comments, and not me. and yet, I got a very weak, coerced apology at best...and you still refused to admit you were WRONG!

I got a memory like an elephant, I do not forget. and I do not forgive when someone TRIES to get me banned from this Forum for something I did not even do.

Now, for the last goddamned time, WHAT PART OF "NO DIALOGUE" DO YOU NOT UNDERSTAND??

I want NOTHING to do with you, do you get it yet, Neo?? How much clearer do I need to make it?
Lyric
02-08-2005, 15:37
Quote:
Originally Posted by UpwardThrust
Well you said it was simply fact

If so lets see it if not calling it "fact" is hardly lending itself to an acurate description

More correct is you believe it is true that we all have souls

That would be much closer to reality



I think we both have differing definitions of fact. Mine is objective, i.e. nobody needs to acknowledge or verify it in order for it to be a truth.

See, this is exactly what I am talking about!! You CLAIM your opinion on a soul is objective, needing no proof or verification...in other words, "I'm right because I say so!"

You do this constantly. Which is why you piss me off so badly. Which is why I want nothing to do with you.

This is just the latest example in a long history of you doing exactly this, Neo.
Lyric
02-08-2005, 15:38
Hmmm. Is what you two have what they sometimes refer to as a "cat fight?" :D

No. What I have is a thorn in my side.
UpwardThrust
02-08-2005, 15:40
Quote:
Originally Posted by UpwardThrust
Well you said it was simply fact

If so lets see it if not calling it "fact" is hardly lending itself to an acurate description

More correct is you believe it is true that we all have souls

That would be much closer to reality





See, this is exactly what I am talking about!! You CLAIM your opinion on a soul is objective, needing no proof or verification...in other words, "I'm right because I say so!"

You do this constantly. Which is why you piss me off so badly. Which is why I want nothing to do with you.

This is just the latest example in a long history of you doing exactly this, Neo.


Ok … I understand your frustration but you cant tell her to leave you alone then go pick on more of what she has said

I find her wrong
Strong headed and not very logical but even so just leave it go … please
I don’t want to see anyone get into trouble … nor do I like to see them so stressed out

Sit back
Relax

And enjoy our rant about the hotness of marry mother of god :) (milf)
Lyric
02-08-2005, 15:41
I believe it's one of those facts that can't be verified by science. Like everything else metaphysical.

If it cannot be verified by science, then it is not a FACT. You have FAITH that what you believe is true. Well and good. So, for you, no further proof is needed, because, for you, faith and knowledge are the same thing.

Don't ask someone who does not share your faith to accept YOUR faith as proof of jack-shit. It is NOT proof. Faith and knowledge are NOT the same thing, although many people of faith would like to think otherwise.
Lyric
02-08-2005, 15:44
It's a one-way catfight. I don't instigate or retaliate, I just sit back and enjoy myself :D

Like HELL you don't instigate!!!

Who is the one always calling FLAME on the other for every little thing she disagrees with?? who is the one who is trying to force their views on everyone else??

Who is the one who is going out of their way to aggrivate, annoy, and harass? YOU are. That is evidenced earlier in this thread.

Now GODDAMN IT, NEO, FOR THE LAST FUCKING TIME....I DO NOT WANT ANY DIALOGUE WITH YOU!! NONE!! SO PUT ME ON IGNORE, ALREADY!!!

YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON IN ALL OF NS I HAVE EVER ASKED TO PUT ME ON THEIR IGNORE LIST!!
Lyric
02-08-2005, 15:50
so?
i was just saying my opinion that they arent tolerant
i stated taht i have sinned acording to you and im ok with that
i simply state this so i can tell you or all the religious people who think they know whats best for me and such, i dotn like that...and things like that make me think christians arent as tolerant as they say


Yup. And all I have ever asked is for people like Neo to get themselves, AND THEIR CHURCH the fuck out of MY LIFE!!!

I am a Unitarian christian, and I have absolutely no need for her brand of fundamentalism. All's it does is serve to piss me off.
Lyric
02-08-2005, 15:55
Be calm lyric.
It is an outward manifestation of there inner frustration, at being unable to live up to there impossible expectations.

They hate themselves, and because you dont hate yourself, they hate you.

Yeah, well, unfortunately, they make MY LIFE a living HELL!!! They punish me economically, by refusing to allow me to have a job for which I'm otherwise qualified....they punish me verbally and enmotionally, by thumping their Bibles and telling me what an inferior being I am...and they punish me physically, by physically attacking me.

I'm sick and tired of no one standing up to people like that and telling them that their behavior towards me and people like me IS NOT ACCEPTABLE!!
Nova Belgrade
02-08-2005, 15:56
It's just typical Christian fundamentalist idiocy. I love masturbation. So does my GF. We watch filthy, dirty porn and screw all sorts of ways. Sometimes I masturbate just for the hell of it. Sometimes she watches, or vice versa. Then I'll pound all of her holes.

Good stuff. ;)

I've never jerked off in a bible, but I have used the pages to roll big ass joints...is that a sin?
Lyric
02-08-2005, 15:57
Ok … I understand your frustration but you cant tell her to leave you alone then go pick on more of what she has said

I find her wrong
Strong headed and not very logical but even so just leave it go … please
I don’t want to see anyone get into trouble … nor do I like to see them so stressed out

Sit back
Relax

And enjoy our rant about the hotness of marry mother of god :) (milf)

I can't relax!! I have high blood pressure, already, and then she comes along to aggrivate me even worse, and my blood pressure goes up a thousand degrees! That is why I have asked and BEGGED her to put me on ignore, before she causes me a goddamned myocardial infarction!!!

I already have to take meds I can ill-afford for my high blood pressure. Now, goddamn it, is it SO MUCH to ask for someone to quit making it WORSE?!?!!?
Iberlia
02-08-2005, 16:18
Lyric, she's only doing it because she gets a reaction from you, she said so herself. just ignore her, don't reply, don't show her you care and over time she'll get bored and stop.
Georgegad
02-08-2005, 16:23
Nova Belgrade,can i come to your house for the weekend?
Ill bring my own bible.
Hoos Bandoland
02-08-2005, 16:26
lmfao

Regardless, the whole point is mute. Regardless of what the late pope says, masterbation is a completely normal activity. There are various studies on the matter as well as websites. (that naturally I'm not going to link to.) Unless you're a bible thumper, you're not going to pay attention anyhow...so who cares?

Actually, "bible thumpers" rarely pay attention to the pope.
UpwardThrust
02-08-2005, 16:27
Actually, "bible thumpers" rarely pay attention to the pope.
They better!

http://www.landoverbaptist.org/sermons/pope.html
Hoos Bandoland
02-08-2005, 16:30
:p That was amusing.
Lyric
02-08-2005, 16:31
Lyric, she's only doing it because she gets a reaction from you, she said so herself. just ignore her, don't reply, don't show her you care and over time she'll get bored and stop.


No, I want intervention. she is worsening a specific health problem I have. I want it stopped. NOW.
Xeropa
02-08-2005, 16:33
Hello. How do we start this...
Perhaps being a fundamentalist Christian means something else in England. I consider myself to be one, but I wouldn't dream of baiting / assaulting / winding up another person in the way Lyric feels he has been (forgive me for not wading through all 18 pages fo this thread to gain an understanding of every little nuance). It seems more than a little contradictory.

Please everyone try to remember that when you post something to wind up Neo, you are in danger of offending other people on the forum. Comments such as this for instance...

It's just typical Christian fundamentalist idiocy.
I've never jerked off in a bible, but I have used the pages to roll big ass joints...is that a sin?

:rolleyes:

There seems to be a distinct lack of sensitivity on both sides regarding other people's deeply held and important beliefs. Try to disagree a bit civilly. Please?
UpwardThrust
02-08-2005, 16:35
:p That was amusing.
Hehehe that site is one of my favorite parody’s now :)
Hoos Bandoland
02-08-2005, 16:37
Hehehe that site is one of my favorite parody’s now :)

I'll have to bookmark it. :)
Straughn
03-08-2005, 01:41
This thread earned a few stars for entertainment in my country.

*bows*
JuNii
03-08-2005, 01:51
Yeah, well, unfortunately, they make MY LIFE a living HELL!!! They punish me economically, by refusing to allow me to have a job for which I'm otherwise qualified....they punish me verbally and enmotionally, by thumping their Bibles and telling me what an inferior being I am...and they punish me physically, by physically attacking me.

I'm sick and tired of no one standing up to people like that and telling them that their behavior towards me and people like me IS NOT ACCEPTABLE!!err... query... what do you mean they refused you a job you are qualified for?

they attacked you physically?

well sue em. discrimination is discrimination. and if they attacked you Physically, then that is Assault and Battery.

as for their behavior is not acceptable, well, there is alot of behavior that is unacceptable done by alot of people... not just Bible Thumpers. I would say Learn to ignore Neo's comments and focus only on those that deserve your attention.
The Wisdom
03-08-2005, 05:08
[...]

It isn't unhealthy, but it isn't healthy, either.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbation#Health_and_psychological_effects

"It is being increasingly recognised in mental health circles that masturbation can relieve depression and lead to a higher sense of self worth."

I have masturbated probably somewhere in the thousands. Probably two or three thousand, not sure. And well, it's never relieved my depression or led to a higher sense of self worth. Religious belief, regardless of one's religion, has been indisputably shown to benefit virtually every facet of a person's being. If a person is depressed, feels no self-worth, or has no purpose, it would be far more intelligent to encourage religious belief than to advise them to whack off. In Alcoholics Anonymous, they incorporate religion into a large part of their treatment. To my knowledge, they don't incorporate dolphin-flogging, taffy-pulling, and\or chicken-choking.

[...]


In the very same link you gave it says it is HEALTHY:

"On July 16, 2003, an Australian research team led by Graham Giles of The Cancer Council published a medical study which concluded that frequent masturbation by males may help prevent the development of prostate cancer."

More details just type masturbation and cancer in google...
Quintine
03-08-2005, 16:37
I have read through 19 pages of this topic, and boy has it gotten off topic, it is quite funny with all the little fights going on between people (especially NR and Lyric (I know I spelt it wrong (Especially that little poke I had a good chuckle)). And now I think I shall toss my hat into the ring.

MASTERBATION
Other than religion there is no reason not to, there is no dangers to masterbation it does not kill or mutulate. On the contrary we have been presented with evidence that it is healthy! HOw could you reject this as a normal healthy activity? The onl reason masterbation is looked upon so lowly now adays is because of social conditioning, in the past many cultures were open with such sexual acts. But in the end the key is moderation, masterbation should in no way replace sex with a partner, that is when it corsses the line into a possible emotional issue: masterbation is not a permenant substitution for sexual relations.

THE SOUL
In the air, although I *THINK* there is a soul, which every living thing has. It can not be proven because we cannot detect it with any of our senses, and in addition cannot detect it in any many (unlike radio waves). And if the soul is real it real the same problems would reach into the animal realm where we would have to disprove a cows soul
-Thus I believe if the soul does exist it has to be applied to other animals.

RELIGION
Personaly I am Agnostic verging on athiest. I cannot accept and Christian religion due to the fact that if it was the true religion God would be a huge hyprocrit or just a jerk (if you want more information just reply to this angerly ;) ). I may be wrong, And I very well may be. Thus what hte Pope said does not phase me what so ever. Infact from now on I will also refer to him as P-Dizzle. (heh heh P-dizzle)

PURPOSE OF SEXUAL ACTS
The purpose is just as much to have fun as it is to reproduce. This is extremely evident in nature as animals often engage in homosexual activities and masterbation(especialy monkeys) of course this has no reproductive purpose. So we can no longer say that the penis is only for procreative ends.

This is most of what I have to say (my first post by the way) and I look forward to seeing what else is to be said.
UpwardThrust
03-08-2005, 16:53
Yeah, well, unfortunately, they make MY LIFE a living HELL!!! They punish me economically, by refusing to allow me to have a job for which I'm otherwise qualified....they punish me verbally and enmotionally, by thumping their Bibles and telling me what an inferior being I am...and they punish me physically, by physically attacking me.

I'm sick and tired of no one standing up to people like that and telling them that their behavior towards me and people like me IS NOT ACCEPTABLE!!
You say that but some ... me included have ... in debate and real life

It took 2 surgeries to fix the popped lung I got from being stabbed defending a GLBT friend from 4 attackers (this was before I learned I fit in that category myself)

Some of us are working awful hard … don’t say no one is there cause some of us try
Orwelldom
03-08-2005, 17:09
I don't think the Pope ever masturbated because if he actually experienced it, he wouldn't of been against it. He would be like, "Brothers and sisters of the Catholic Faith, rejoice in the glory of God and whack away, it is the will of our Creator!"

But we all know that never happened and most likey never will, but it would be funny nonetheless.
Personal responsibilit
03-08-2005, 17:18
Hehehe that site is one of my favorite parody’s now :)
:( :(
Personal responsibilit
03-08-2005, 17:19
You say that but some ... me included have ... in debate and real life

It took 2 surgeries to fix the popped lung I got from being stabbed defending a GLBT friend from 4 attackers (this was before I learned I fit in that category myself)


:eek: :eek: :( :( :fluffle:
UpwardThrust
03-08-2005, 17:29
:eek: :eek: :( :( :fluffle:
:fluffle: No worries people are asses ... and I took three of them to the hospital with me ;)
UpwardThrust
03-08-2005, 17:30
:( :(
What can I say I am a fan of parody's in general ... always have been irregardless of the topic if it is done well
Jjimjja
03-08-2005, 17:37
Lafier']Scariest of all is if you're masterbating WHILE reading the topic... :D

should i stop then? :confused:
The Similized world
03-08-2005, 20:06
Personally, I think masturbation is a healthy outlet for frustrations, sexual fantasies and a host of other things. I very much question the wisdom of denying yourself the pleasure. I know I become a worse person when I'm sexually frustrated (Such as when I've been away from a lover for example).

I can't say I've ever deprived myself of the pleasure when I've not been in a relationship, but I assume frustration builds if you aren't a wanker :p

Also, masturbation is a way to explore and define your own sexuality. You get a very intimate understanding of your likes and dislikes. Not only is that invaluable when you have a hetero partner, who unsurprisingly haven't got much of a clue about you, it's equally valuable in homo relationships, because people are very different. Especially when it comes to sexuality.

I very much dislike the idea of some religious types preaching against - and condemning people who - masturbate and practice premarital sex. I think such teachings easily lead to sexual alienation and misunderstandings between couples. Or to put it more bluntly, I think fundies often prevents people from having a fulfilling and healthy sexlife. Had I written the holy book, people would go to hell for preaching that shit.

Still, I find it hard not to say "Shhh!" to all the people here, who're seemingly trying to convince the few fundies, that masturbation is good.
Let them have prostate cancer. Let them have miserable partnerships. At least it will make their fanaticism less attractive for others.