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huh?
Simple enough when you broke up how did he behave?

I don't like being alone though :(

And? Most people don't. I don't. But I like hurting nice people much less. I like ending up in bad situations much less. I like messing up people's lives much less (yes, you have that power). Again I say, expect more and you will get it.

I've been single for 16 years and I've adapted well (hint: I'm 16 years old).

I can't help but think that your desperation for a boyfriend is foolish at best.

If you do like him, why on Earth did you say:



You seem confused as to your feelings for this man. Confusion does not breed the best relationships, from what I can tell.

Again I say, do not do it FairyTInkArisen, it will only end in heartache.
but i'm lonely, i like hugs and kisses and cuddles and i havn't had any in so long :(



I am confused about my feelings for him, i do really like him, he was really sweet and lovely when we were going out but then when i tried to finish it he was just annoying and pathetic

I don't like being alone though :(

But do you like the idea of waking up one day and realising you have made a major error of judgement?

You are 18 years old*, for goodness' sake! Go back to this man, and who knows what may happen! You are just throwing yourself at the first man who comes near, at a critical time in your life! Not good!

*I think

Simple enough when you broke up how did he behave?
he wouldn't accept it

And? Most people don't. I don't. But I like hurting nice people much less. I like ending up in bad situations much less. I like messing up people's lives much less (yes, you have that power). Again I say, expect more and you will get it.
but it might not necassarily end up with me breaking his heart

hey, i remember this thread! ...........

I am confused about my feelings for him, i do really like him, he was really sweet and lovely when we were going out but then when i tried to finish it he was just annoying and pathetic

No wonder you are confused.

I'm willing to bet either Sweet and Lovely or Annoying and Pathetic is a facade.

The question you must ask is: which is the real him?

If you look at AaP, it doesn't look good.

Is AaP the real him? If yes, don't do it! If no, then why did he act like the way he did? Most likely, the real him is a Cunning and Devious Bastard trying to win you back. Not good

If SaW is false, then don't do it! Because if it is false, he must be a CaDB. If SaW is the real him, why did he act like a jerk towards the end?

Either way it isn't good.

But you know the man better than I do*. You must decide for himself.


*Probably. Since he is in Scotland, maybe I know him. Scary...

I'm too tired to be thinking about this now, i'm just gonna go to bed and cuddle my teddy bear :( night night xoxoxo

He wouldnt accept?
Do you mean he said "I cant accept" that or do you mean he said

"But wouldnt you rather stay together?"
or perhaps the good old
"But Why?"

I'm too tired to be thinking about this now, i'm just gonna go to bed and cuddle my teddy bear :( night night xoxoxo

Good night.

Be sure to start a knew thread or gravedig this one when you have answers to the questions posed here.

I'm too tired to be thinking about this now, i'm just gonna go to bed and cuddle my teddy bear :( night night xoxoxo
sigh.

He wouldnt accept?
Do you mean he said "I cant accept" that or do you mean he said

"But wouldnt you rather stay together?"
or perhaps the good old
"But Why?"
read the thread, it's all explained in there somewhere

sigh.
don't you sigh at me boy!

read the thread, it's all explained in there somewhere

Ah, I see you are back my lady.

well, i know it's a silly reason but i've been single for 2 months and it sucks!
Two months? What so odd, or wrong about that? Are you one of those low-self esteem relationship addicts who needs a partner (not even necessarily a good one) to be happy?

There are too many girls like you. You need to get a hobby.

Two months? What so odd, or wrong about that? Are you one of those low-self esteem relationship addicts who needs a partner (not even necessarily a good one) to be happy?

There are too many girls like you. You need to get a hobby.

NationStates is a hobby.

What does that say about the rest of us?

but i'm lonely, i like hugs and kisses and cuddles and i havn't had any in so long :(



I am confused about my feelings for him, i do really like him, he was really sweet and lovely when we were going out but then when i tried to finish it he was just annoying and pathetic

If you think it's going to be a long-term relationship, go right ahead. However, if you think it's likely that you'll break up with him again, I wouldn't recommend it - you would just end up going through all this again.

Speaking from personal experience, I can say that I was quite annoying and pathetic when the girl I love up and decided it was over between us. I couldn't understand why, and she never did a very good job explaining it either, giving me the impression that she didn't really understand why herself, she was just scared and wanted out.

I could recognize how annoying and pathetic I was being and that I was more than likely just further driving her away from me, but I couldn't help myself, and I only ended up hating myself all the more for that. When you sincerely love someone it can be hard to accept and let go. Though to be fair, for quite a while, she was just as deeply in love with me as I was with her (we spoke constantly of marriage, sex, our plans for the future, what we'd name our children, etc), but now and again, expressed fears that she may in fact get scared and want out, which makes it harder for me to just let go. It took me about two months to pull myself together and give her some space and time to think, but I'm still hopeful that we can get back together, especially considering not too long ago, she suddenly messaged me nitpicking over the spelling of the middle name we had picked out for our first born daughter for no apparent reason...

I don't like being alone though :(
That's not a good reason to settle for this loser.

but i'm lonely, i like hugs and kisses and cuddles and i havn't had any in so long
See above. I also suggest masturbation.

If you think it's going to be a long-term relationship, go right ahead. However, if you think it's likely that you'll break up with him again, I wouldn't recommend it - you would just end up going through all this again.

That's basically what I said.

But I took longer.

And I double spaced my sentences.

NationStates is a hobby.

What does that say about the rest of us?
I have hobbies, but I've never considered NS to be one of them. I'm thinking like, sports, playing music, photography, you know that sort of thing?

don't you sigh at me boy!
Make me!
or Make me Not!

You do realise if i went to bed at Eleven id pretty much never see you!

I have hobbies, but I've never considered NS to be one of them. I'm thinking like, sports, playing music, photography, you know that sort of thing?

What about masturbation. :D

That's basically what I said.

But I took longer.

And I double spaced my sentences.

Ah yes, I see. I was going to make the point that it will probably be worse the second time (for both Tink and the guy), but I couldn't really find a way to put it without sounding preachy.

Ah yes, I see. I was going to make the point that it will probably be worse the second time (for both Tink and the guy), but I couldn't really find a way to put it without sounding preachy.

Do I sound preachy?

Do I sound preachy?
*Ahem.* No, not at all.

There are times.

I don't like being alone though :(

Erm... In this instance, I honestly think it would be asking for trouble. Say "yes", and you'll never get rid of him. You'll be sending him the message that, if you break up again, all he'll have to do is come back and insist. And insist. And insist. And insist. Until you cave in.

So I would strongly advise against it... unless you're sure you'd be willing to enter a long-term, serious relationship with this guy. But if it's just to avoid being lonely, then it's probably more trouble overall than it's worth.

Do I sound preachy?

No, far from it.

I'm attempting to dump my boyfriend, don't really want to go into the reasons but I can assure you they're all perfectly reasonable reasons but he won't leave me alone! he keeps coming up with excuses and now he's made me cry, what does it take for a guy to realise he's being dumped?!

Just be like Get the F*** outta here, and leave me the F*** alone before i tell the police you're stalking me, motherf**ker.

That should do it, and if it doesn't, call the police and tell them he's stalking you.

There are times.


Well, ta much.

That makes me feel all warm and fuzzy inside!

I always thought I sounded like an old man with too little blood in the whisky stream.

NationStates is a hobby.

What does that say about the rest of us?
Nationstates is indeed a Hobby!
Its my whole life too! :cool:

Nationstates is indeed a Hobby!
Its my whole life too! :cool:

And people say I'm sad!

Hello, just had a looksee.

FairyTInkAsrien is offline.

This means all my esoteric wisdom has gone to waste!

Damn, I hate feeling redundant.

then i decided the best way to get back at him would be to use him for the coldplay oncert tickets
All you're going to get with this is he bugging you and buying more stuff for you. Can't say I feel sorry for you, but, then again, the guy may wake up one day and realize he's being had.

but it might not necassarily end up with me breaking his heart

Oh, come one, Tink. You know and I know that you are going back to him because you don't have anything better going on. Once you're back you're going to remember that he's pathetic and annoying and you're gonna drag the whole thing out. It's not fair to him. It's not fair to you. I don't know of any love stories that go, "Oh, and at one point I found him pathetic and annoying, but, you know, no one else was hugging on me, so I figured why not. Oh, and did I mention he had tickets to ColdPlay?" Trust me, you're kidding yourself so you have an excuse to get with him just to avoid being alone.

Oh, come one, Tink. You know and I know that you are going back to him because you don't have anything better going on. Once you're back you're going to remember that he's pathetic and annoying and you're gonna drag the whole thing out. It's not fair to him. It's not fair to you. I don't know of any love stories that go, "Oh, and at one point I found him pathetic and annoying, but, you know, no one else was hugging on me, so I figured why not. Oh, and did I mention he had tickets to ColdPlay?" Trust me, you're kidding yourself so you have an excuse to get with him just to avoid being alone.

Pretty much what I said.

But I was more esoteric.

I hate people stealing my thoughts!

*sigh* i hate it when other people are right

*sigh* i hate it when other people are right

Hmm, sounds like you have come to a desicion, my lady.

And what have you decided to do, may I ask?

Hmm, sounds like you have come to a desicion, my lady.

And what have you decided to do, may I ask?that it wouldn't be a good idea to see him again


i'll just have to get used to cuddling my teddy :(

*sigh* i hate it when other people are right

Well, at least you get to be hot. ;)

that it wouldn't be a good idea to see him again


i'll just have to get used to cuddling my teddy :(

Aww, you'll find someone in a while.

If I wasn't a few hundred miles away I'd hug you.

But I can't. Shame.

that it wouldn't be a good idea to see him again


i'll just have to get used to cuddling my teddy :(

Can you put a piece of tape that says Jocabia on your teddy?

that it wouldn't be a good idea to see him again


i'll just have to get used to cuddling my teddy :(

Aww...

*hugs you close and :fluffle:s you to make you feel better*

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Aww, you'll find someone in a while.

If I wasn't a few hundred miles away I'd hug you.

But I can't. Shame.
no, i'm destined to be alone forever, i'll grow old and live in a rocking chair in a basement with hundreds of cats


thannks :fluffle:

no, i'm destined to be alone forever, i'll grow old and live in a rocking chair in a basement with hundreds of cats


thannks :fluffle:

Don't say such things.

I'm the one most likely to never find anyone.

You have had people before and will have them again.

Don't let this one incident get you down.

:fluffle:

Can you put a piece of tape that says Jocabia on your teddy?
sure

Aww...

*hugs you close and :fluffle:s you to make you feel better*

:fluffle: :fluffle:
I need real ones though! :(

you know France sucks Arridia, Britain is so much better.....

I need real ones though! :(

you know France sucks Arridia, Britain is so much better.....

Eek? Why do you say that?! :(

If you come over, I promise you can have some real ones! ;)

Got to go for now, but here's a fluffle anyway to cheer you up in the meantime... I hope... :(

:fluffle:

Eek? Why do you say that?! :(

If you come over, I promise you can have some real ones! ;)

Got to go for now, but here's a fluffle anyway to cheer you up in the meantime... I hope... :(

:fluffle:
so that you'll come over here.......



see ya oxoxoxoxox :fluffle: :fluffle:

sure

YAY! :fluffle:

Hey, look if you're still single when you're fully adult (I'm thirteen years older than you. I don't mean offense) then I'll come over there and make you feel better ;)

YAY! :fluffle:

Hey, look if you're still single when you're fully adult (I'm thirteen years older than you. I don't mean offense) then I'll come over there and make you feel better ;)
w00t! *starts countdown* 5 months and 9 days to go

w00t! *starts countdown* 5 months and 9 days to go

How old are you anyway, I thought you were 18.

How old are you anyway, I thought you were 18.
17 (and a half)

w00t! *starts countdown* 5 months and 9 days to go

You better have an awesome time at your birthday with as much planning time as you've given yourself.

17 (and a half)

Well, only half a year to go, then.

Call this a pre-emptive Happy Birthday:
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Happy Birthday
:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

You better have an awesome time at your birthday with as much planning time as you've given yourself.
I don't intend to actually plan it till october


but my friends did say that it had to be fancy dress and we have to have a magician, and alcoholic jelly!

Well, only half a year to go, then.

Call this a pre-emptive Happy Birthday:
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Happy Birthday
:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:
thanks :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

thanks :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

Anytime, my lady, anytime.

I don't intend to actually plan it till october


but my friends did say that it had to be fancy dress and we have to have a magician, and alcoholic jelly!

I know a little magic. Seriously.

I know a little magic. Seriously.
lol, cool

When you say "fancy dress", is that fancy as in tuxedos or fancy as in themeed dressing. Althought the presence of a magician kinda answers that question.

Besides, for an 18th, instead of a magician, order a small-time rock group.

Just be like Get the F*** outta here, and leave me the F*** alone before i tell the police you're stalking me, motherf**ker.

That should do it, and if it doesn't, call the police and tell them he's stalking you.


Yep! Good plan. Never talk to or see him again.

When you say "fancy dress", is that fancy as in tuxedos or fancy as in themeed dressing. Althought the presence of a magician kinda answers that question.

Besides, for an 18th, instead of a magician, order a small-time rock group.
themed dressing


and no, I'm having a kids party so a magician fits into it better than a rock group

themed dressing


and no, I'm having a kids party so a magician fits into it better than a rock group

Kids Party!?!

18th birthday?!?

Combinations of exclamation marks and question marks?!?

You scare me at times like this, my lady.

Kids Party!?!

18th birthday?!?

Combinations of exclamation marks and question marks?!?

You scare me at times like this, my lady.
what better way to say goodbye to your childhood than by having a children's party!

what better way to say goodbye to your childhood than by having a children's party!

Ah, but what better way to embrace your adulthood by having an adult party?

Ah, but what better way to embrace your adulthood by having an adult party?
i have years and years to embrace adulthood, I'll never be a kid again! (well not age-wise anyway, i think i'll always be immature)

and anyway, it'll be kind of adulty cause there'll be shitloads of booze!

i have years and years to embrace adulthood, I'll never be a kid again! (well not age-wise anyway, i think i'll always be immature)

and anyway, it'll be kind of adulty cause there'll be shitloads of booze!

Hmm, it seems you have me beat. This time...

Shitloads of booze, eh?

Are we talking real alcohol, or shitty little alcopops?

Hmm, it seems you have me beat. This time...

Shitloads of booze, eh?

Are we talking real alcohol, or shitty little alcopops?
there will be alcopops cause that's what some of my friends drink, but there will also be lots of beer and various spirits, maybe i could learn how to make a couple of coctails, and vodka jelly of course

there will be alcopops cause that's what some of my friends drink, but there will also be lots of beer and various spirits, maybe i could learn how to make a couple of coctails, and vodka jelly of course

Beer!

Spirits!

Cocktails!

Jelly!

Sounds like a good time.

And a large hangover...

For the hangover there is something that I've heard works;

Fry some square sausage, bacon and a potato waffle.
Place the sausage on top of the waffle, with the bacon on top of the sausage.
Grate some mozzarella (sp?) cheese, and sprinkle it on top of the bacon.
Pop it under the grill for 30 seconds to melt the cheese.

The resulting...thing...is supposed to help alleiviate the sypmyoms of hangover.

I don't know if that works (probably does, even if all you do is vomit the alcohol out of your system), but in a non-hungover situation it tastes nicer than you'ld expect.

Provided you aren't a vegetarian.

I'll just drink lots of water and take some paracetemol before i go to bed and hope i'm ok the next day



(i always say i'll do this then i forget lol)

I'll just drink lots of water and take some paracetemol before i go to bed and hope i'm ok the next day



(i always say i'll do this then i forget lol)

WHAT!?!?

You've been drunk before?

This is something I never thought I'd hear you say.

The image I have of you is slowly changing before my very eyes.

WHAT!?!?

You've been drunk before?

This is something I never thought I'd hear you say.

The image I have of you is slowly changing before my very eyes.
bah! i've been getting drunk since I was 12!

bah! i've been getting drunk since I was 12!

*Watches as the image of FairyTInkArisen changes once again.*

Either:

A. You drink too much.
or
B. You get wasted on one Bacardi Breezer.

Neither looks too appealing.

*Watches as the image of FairyTInkArisen changes once again.*

Either:

A. You drink too much.
or
B. You get wasted on one Bacardi Breezer.

Neither looks too appealing.
I don't actually go out drinking very often, I havn't been drunk since New Year actually, and when i got drunk when i was 12 it was at the New Year's party for the new Millenium so it was a pretty special night


and yeah, i do get drunk pretty easily

What kind of Fairy are you, anyway.

Tink, I find you very appealing. And many of us experienced getting drunk long before it was legal (15 for me).

What kind of Fairy are you, anyway.
a naughty fairy! :p

Tink, I find you very appealing. And many of us experienced getting drunk long before it was legal (15 for me).

Oh, I wasn't suggesting that she isn't appealing, just that the options weren't.

And I've never got drunk.

Mainly because there isn't anyone to get drunk with.

:(

Tink, I find you very appealing. And many of us experienced getting drunk long before it was legal (15 for me).
thank you

so that you'll come over here.......

see ya oxoxoxoxox :fluffle: :fluffle:

LOL

Well, I'm just back online for a few minutes, long enough to say:

I'd love to. :) But that's probably not going to be possible for quite a few months yet, so, if you come to Paris, I promise I'll come over to see you at some point after that.

Besides... Paris is much more romantic. ;) I can take you to the top of the Eiffel Tower... we can go for a stroll by the side of the Seine... maybe take a ride on a bateau-mouche... visit the catacoombs-

Uh, no, wait, strike out that last one. ;)

Anyway, you get the picture. :)

:fluffle:

LOL

Well, I'm just back online for a few minutes, long enough to say:

I'd love to. :) But that's probably not going to be possible for quite a few months yet, so, if you come to Paris, I promise I'll come over to see you at some point after that.

Besides... Paris is much more romantic. ;) I can take you to the top of the Eiffel Tower... we can go for a stroll by the side of the Seine... maybe take a ride on a bateau-mouche... visit the catacoombs-

Uh, no, wait, strike out that last one. ;)

Anyway, you get the picture. :)

:fluffle:
arg! i need money! :(


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...bateau-mouche...

I have no idea what that is.

Could you please tell me?

This (http://www.weebls-stuff.com/wab/tarte/) is all the french I know.

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I have no idea what that is.

Could you please tell me?

This (http://www.weebls-stuff.com/wab/tarte/) is all the french I know.

(May not show up well on Firefox)

A bateau-mouche is a boat, mainly for tourists, that takes you on a trip on the Seine; you get to see all the sights along the banks of the river (quite a few of them!), with a commentary by a multilingual guide.

They operate at all hours, I think, so in the evening you have the added bonus of seeing Paris by night, including the Eiffel Tower all lit up...

arg! i need money! :(


:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

Well, once you're here I can pay some things for you if you're short on money. :p

Plus, as I said, if you can come over in autumn, I promise to visit you some time after that. And I'd be coming specially to see you, whereas you'll get to visit Paris - with a native guide. :p

:fluffle:

A bateau-mouche is a boat, mainly for tourists, that takes you on a trip on the Seine; you get to see all the sights along the banks of the river (quite a few of them!), with a commentary by a multilingual guide.

They operate at all hours, I think, so in the evening you have the added bonus of seeing Paris by night, including the Eiffel Tower all lit up...

Thank you.

I thought it was a type of desert, to be honest.

I never was good at French in school.

Well, once you're here I can pay some things for you if you're short on money. :p

Plus, as I said, if you can come over in autumn, I promise to visit you some time after that. And I'd be coming specially to see you, whereas you'll get to visit Paris - with a native guide. :p

:fluffle:
i'll just have to save up for the plane/train journey then

Thank you.

I thought it was a type of desert, to be honest.

I never was good at French in school.

LOL

Desert, or dessert? ;)


i'll just have to save up for the plane/train journey then


Woo! :)

*is happy*

I'll hold you to that, mademoiselle! :p

*:fluffle:s you*

i'll just have to save up for the plane/train journey then

Or hope that you recieve large amounts of money at your 18th.

LOL

Desert, or dessert? ;)



Woo! :)

*is happy*

I'll hold you to that, mademoiselle! :p

*:fluffle:s you*
:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:


anyways' i'm knackered so i'm going for a nap, I'll prob be back later though, byes xoxoxooxxoox

:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:


anyways' i'm knackered so i'm going for a nap, I'll prob be back later though, byes xoxoxooxxoox

Goodbye.

I'll still be here for a while yet if you need someone to talk to.

Or some more esoteric wisdom.

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anyways' i'm knackered so i'm going for a nap, I'll prob be back later though, byes xoxoxooxxoox

Repose-toi bien, alors!

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Repose-toi bien, alors!

:fluffle: :fluffle:

Could you stop doing the French thing, please?

It makes my brain squeak.

Could you stop doing the French thing, please?

It makes my brain squeak.

*squeaks The Noble Men's brain avec du français*

*squeaks The Noble Men's brain avec du français*

You are evil.

Very much evil.

*Squeak Squeak*

:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:


anyways' i'm knackered so i'm going for a nap, I'll prob be back later though, byes xoxoxooxxoox

*secretly wishes he was why she is knackered*

*secretly wishes he was why she is knackered*

Sick. In a good way. :D

*sigh* i hate it when other people are right
You don't remind me of Papa Don't Preach so much as the guy in the song No Other One by Weezer.

What about :D
Piecing together my words to make statements; you're worse than Michael Moore! Is masturbation really a hobby when everyone does it?

that it wouldn't be a good idea to see him again

i'll just have to get used to cuddling my teddy :(
You've made the right decision. Just don't get into thinking that you'll always be alone. If you think that, then it will become true.
Don't say such things.

I'm the one most likely to never find anyone.

:headbang: What did I just say??!! (see above)

*secretly wishes he was why she is knackered*
Dude, you're 30.

*shudder*

Well, once you're here I can pay some things for you if you're short on money. :p

Plus, as I said, if you can come over in autumn, I promise to visit you some time after that. And I'd be coming specially to see you, whereas you'll get to visit Paris - with a native guide. :p

Why don't people on the internet beg me to visit them? :(

*secretly wishes he was why she is knackered*
yeah, like that's a secret :rolleyes:

Why don't people on the internet beg me to visit them? :(
pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeease come visit Blackpool..... :fluffle:

Dude, you're 30.

*shudder*

I said secretly. Shhhhh....

That one made me laugh. Last I checked I was still allowed to be funny. Or does that end at 29?

I said secretly. Shhhhh....

That one made me laugh. Last I checked I was still allowed to be funny. Or does that end at 29?
I'm 34, you're still allowed to be funny but you have to incorporate more old man jokes. Didn't you get the "So, you're not a young adult anymore" brochure?

I'm 34, you're still allowed to be funny but you have to incorporate more old man jokes. Didn't you get the "So, you're not a young adult anymore" brochure?

Bah, I'm still a young adult. I claim that title for six more months as I think it is perfectly acceptable to date anyone not a teenager (20 and older). When 20 becomes too young then I will let young adult go. Adults regularly live to be 90+ in my family. If I have to change my 'title' every five years, it's going to be a long 60+ years.

Bah, I'm still a young adult. I claim that title for six more months as I think it is perfectly acceptable to date anyone not a teenager (20 and older). When 20 becomes too young then I will let young adult go. Adults regularly live to be 90+ in my family. If I have to change my 'title' every five years, it's going to be a long 60+ years.
Actually you get to keep the adult title for 30 years. Then it's on to "Senior Citizen" for another 40. After that it's "Venerable." Geez! It's all in the manual they gave you!

You are now in the unique and enviable position of being able to date not only that 20 year old hottie, but also her mother. Enjoy!