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Where the hell are you in real life. All the girls around here are extremely boring.

I just want all of you to know that there are plenty of guys out there who are just looking for an intelligent girl. Like me.

i live in california. and may be old enough to be your teen mom.

an intelligent girl. Like me.

your an intelligent chick? i was waaay off... yes, thats sarcasm.

I am not an intelligent chick, looking for one.

There are so many on NS, yet so few I know. WTF

Define ‘intelligent’.

Define ‘intelligent’.
non-redneck

Define ‘intelligent’.
me. thats right, i will make a play for myself. i am damned smart. just ask .....................my mother. :D

Define ‘intelligent’.

If you have to ask, not you.

<snip>
So, can other male NS'ers come to this thread looking for girls? :D

Try looking outside U.S. *grin*
I don't have problems finding intellegent females, but still there ain't many. Guess I'm lucky.

i must say i was very impressed in the hottest chick thread, shattered my geeky comp girl stereotype i hadd formed. they were way to hot to be the real photos

non-redneck

Ok...

me. thats right, i will make a play for myself. i am damned smart. just ask .....................my mother.

Fair enough.

If you have to ask, not you.

*Yawn.* Whatever you say. You're obviously a member of Mensa.

*Yawn.* Whatever you say. You're obviously a member of Mensa.

Never claimed to be, but the definition of intelligent isa pretty easy one.

Has a girl already posted here? :p

Never claimed to be, but the definition of intelligent isa pretty easy one.

You said you had trouble finding ‘intelligent’ women, that they were all ‘boring’. I was just wondering where the connection between ‘boring’ and ‘ intelligent’ lay. I know lots of boring people, but they’re just as intelligent as me.

And in actuality, the term ‘intelligence’ seems to be used loosely by most people. :D

non-redneck

so, you want to breed outside the family then? :)

If you have to ask, not you

Wow, you ain't the pick of the litter.

So, can other male NS'ers come to this thread looking for girls? :D

You said you had trouble finding ‘intelligent’ women, that they were all ‘boring’. I was just wondering where the connection between ‘boring’ and ‘ intelligent’ lay. I know lots of boring people, but they’re just as intelligent as me.

And in actuality, the term ‘intelligence’ seems to be used loosely by most people.

It is easy to talk to a girl who is intelligent and has something to say, but there are a great deal of girls who don't have anything to say.

I find it very easy to talk to intelligent people.

So, can other male NS'ers come to this thread looking for girls? :D
Whoa
*looks up, down and all around*
damn dude, i just had the biggest de javu (sp?)

Whoa
*looks up, down and all around*
damn dude, i just had the biggest de javu (sp?)
déjà vu ;)

Ey, my English is crappy too.

Wow, you ain't the pick of the litter.

Yes, I am. Do you not own a dictionary, either?

Here you go:

in·tel·li·gent ( P ) Pronunciation Key (n-tl-jnt)
adj.
Having intelligence.
Having a high degree of intelligence; mentally acute.
Showing sound judgment and rationality: an intelligent decision; an intelligent solution to the problem.
Appealing to the intellect; intellectual: a film with witty and intelligent dialogue.
Computer Science. Having certain data storage and processing capabilities: an intelligent terminal; intelligent peripherals.

It is easy to talk to a girl who is intelligent and has something to say, but there are a great deal of girls who don't have anything to say.

Just because a person doesn’t have anything to say doesn’t mean that they lack intelligence. I don’t see any connection between that and how smart a person is. People tend to have trouble interacting with people who are different to themselves... but anyway, I don't want to hijack/spam your thread. Just pointing that out.

déjà vu ;)

Ey, my English is crappy too.
yeah, damn that tricky english :rolleyes:

Yes, I am. Do you not own a dictionary, either?

Here you go:

in·tel·li·gent ( P ) Pronunciation Key (n-tl-jnt)
adj.
Having intelligence.
Having a high degree of intelligence; mentally acute.
Showing sound judgment and rationality: an intelligent decision; an intelligent solution to the problem.
Appealing to the intellect; intellectual: a film with witty and intelligent dialogue.
Computer Science. Having certain data storage and processing capabilities: an intelligent terminal; intelligent peripherals.

that has got to be one of the most craptastic definitions i have read for awhile, using a word to define itself. Doesn't really answer the question, but makes it seem like it does, makes it a psudoanswer, appears to have the properties of a correct definition, yet really isn't.

Just because a person doesn’t have anything to say doesn’t mean that they lack intelligence. I don’t see any connection between that and how smart a person is. People tend to have trouble interacting with people who are different to themselves... but anyway, I don't want to hijack/spam your thread. Just pointing that out.

wow, another kiwi, and one who seems fiesty, good on ya, stick it to them foreigners

Here you go:

in·tel·li·gent ( P ) Pronunciation Key (n-tl-jnt)
adj.
Having intelligence.
Having a high degree of intelligence; mentally acute.
Showing sound judgment and rationality: an intelligent decision; an intelligent solution to the problem.
Appealing to the intellect; intellectual: a film with witty and intelligent dialogue.
Computer Science. Having certain data storage and processing capabilities: an intelligent terminal; intelligent peripherals.

And what is intelligence? The ability to learn/store information. Something which we all posses… so therefore, by definition of that, are 'intelligent'.
Perhaps some more so than others, but whatever. My point stands.

Yes, I am. Do you not own a dictionary, either?

Here you go:

in·tel·li·gent ( P ) Pronunciation Key (n-tl-jnt)
adj.
Having intelligence.
Having a high degree of intelligence; mentally acute.
Showing sound judgment and rationality: an intelligent decision; an intelligent solution to the problem.
Appealing to the intellect; intellectual: a film with witty and intelligent dialogue.
Computer Science. Having certain data storage and processing capabilities: an intelligent terminal; intelligent peripherals.

First, I never said I was smart. Second, you were singeling out a certain type of people i.e the less capable *dumb to you and me* by saying you want an intelligent girl, how do you know you will find happiness with an intelliegent person, how do you know that you could not find happiness with someone a bit less intelligent than yourself. Lastly, no I don't own an english dictionary, you ass. I don't see the point in one when there are so many online dictionaries.

wow, another kiwi, and one who seems fiesty, good on ya, stick it to them foreigners

For New Zealand!

Just because a person doesn’t have anything to say doesn’t mean that they lack intelligence. I don’t see any connection between that and how smart a person is. People tend to have trouble interacting with people who are different to themselves... but anyway, I don't want to hijack/spam your thread. Just pointing that out.

Smart people know what they are talking about. If you are smart and someone starts talking out of their ass, you know it. I understand that smart people can have trouble in social situations, but when you start talking to them it is easy to realize that they are intelligent.

First, I never said I was smart. Second, you were singeling out a certain type of people i.e the less capable *dumb to you and me* by saying you want an intelligent girl, how do you know you will find happiness with an intelliegent person, how do you know that you could not find happiness with someone a bit less intelligent than yourself. Lastly, no I don't own an english dictionary, you ass. I don't see the point in one when there are so many online dictionaries.

lol! Good job.

For New Zealand!

*looks around, grabs computer stall and broomstick*
CHHHAAAARRRRGGGGGEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!
*runs at computer monitor*

lol! Good job.

Thank you. I bid you adue! Or however you spell it.

First, I never said I was smart. Second, you were singeling out a certain type of people i.e the less capable *dumb to you and me* by saying you want an intelligent girl, how do you know you will find happiness with an intelliegent person, how do you know that you could not find happiness with someone a bit less intelligent than yourself. Lastly, no I don't own an english dictionary, you ass. I don't see the point in one when there are so many online dictionaries.

I am unintentionally making a lot of enemies with this thread, but to me, the brain on a girl is far more important than the physical attributes. I am not looking for a girl of my intelligence, I am looking for girl who shares my interests. Hell, I can't even figure out my own intelligence, but I do know what I find interesting, and it usually requires a good deal of intellect to discuss it.

can we please have the sex of people here??
I would like to know who is fighting who as different sexes, and who is just fighting it idealogically, so that i can keep score
:D

Smart people know what they are talking about. If you are smart and someone starts talking out of their ass, you know it. I understand that smart people can have trouble in social situations, but when you start talking to them it is easy to realize that they are intelligent.

You need to get to know people really well before you can even start to comment on their ‘intelligence’. I've been quite surprised in the past by people I've gotten to know better over the years (and who others might consider 'dumb' after a brief conversation with them).

Anyway, you are more likely to consider people who are like you 'intelligent'.

Hell, I can't even figure out my own intelligence
Is there any way??
I have heard really bad things about IQ tests, never really paid much attention to them myself

can we please have the sex of people here??
I would like to know who is fighting who as different sexes, and who is just fighting it idealogically, so that i can keep score
:D

I am a male, but sex doesn't matter here. Intelligence knows no gender.

I am unintentionally making a lot of enemies with this thread, but to me, the brain on a girl is far more important than the physical attributes. I am not looking for a girl of my intelligence, I am looking for girl who shares my interests. Hell, I can't even figure out my own intelligence, but I do know what I find interesting, and it usually requires a good deal of intellect to discuss it.

So, if you liked a girl because of her intellect and not her physical attributes, would you still be happy? would you be happy if she stank to high heaven? if she wore clothes from the 80's? if she had so many spots her face was always blood red? finally, would you be happy if the sex you wuld have with her was so revolting that you want to throw up? Would intelligence be an important subject then? Or how you would emontionally scar her by leaving her for a better lookng person?

I am unintentionally making a lot of enemies with this thread, but to me, the brain on a girl is far more important than the physical attributes. I am not looking for a girl of my intelligence, I am looking for girl who shares my interests. Hell, I can't even figure out my own intelligence, but I do know what I find interesting, and it usually requires a good deal of intellect to discuss it.

There you go. That’s all I’m saying. You want somebody who is like you, who shares your interests ect., ect. Intelligence need not enter the equation.

You need to get to know people really well before you can even start to comment on their ‘intelligence’. I've been quite surprised in the past by people I've gotten to know better over the years (and who others might consider 'dumb' after a brief conversation with them).

Anyway, you are more likely to consider people who are like you 'intelligent'.

I will agree with on like minded people, but don't try and tell me you can't distinguish between intelligent people and unintelligent people immediately.

I will agree with on like minded people, but don't try and tell me you can't distinguish between intelligent people and unintelligent people immediately.

Yes I can tell an absolute idiot between an ignoramus but that's not the point.

So, if you liked a girl because of her intellect and not her physical attributes, would you still be happy? would you be happy if she stank to high heaven? if she wore clothes from the 80's? if she had so many spots her face was always blood red? finnally, would you be happy if the sex you wuld have with her was so revolting that you want to throw up?

There are some physical attributes that matter to me, not all that you mentioned, but some. But in finding someone interesting, there must be a level of intellect. While physical attributes may be a deciding factor, a lack of intelligence is a straight deal breaker.

would you be happy if she wore clothes from the 80's?
whats wrong with 80's clothes??
*ducks down behind desk obscuring all but head

There you go. That’s all I’m saying. You want somebody who is like you, who shares your interests ect., ect. Intelligence need not enter the equation.

Similarities aren't a necessity.

I find religion, politics, and music interesting, and it easy for me to tell if someone is completely ignorant on those subjects.

But you are correct, ignorance does not equal unintelligence.

I will agree with on like minded people, but don't try and tell me you can't distinguish between intelligent people and unintelligent people immediately.

That is purely personal opinion, isn't it? It might also depend, on how open-minded you are and so on and so forth etc.

Is there any way??
I have heard really bad things about IQ tests, never really paid much attention to them myself

IQ tests are silly. I supposedly have an IQ of a little above average. But whatever. You can actually increase it (or decrease it) if you try hard enough.

can we please have the sex of people here??
I would like to know who is fighting who as different sexes, and who is just fighting it idealogically, so that i can keep score

I’m male. I'm just arguing ideologically.

Similarities aren't a necessity.

I find religion, politics, and music interesting, and it easy for me to tell if someone is completely ignorant on those subjects.

But you are correct, ignorance does not equal unintelligence.

Yeah I like those subjects too. And I know where you’re coming from; most girls my age aren’t interested in that sort of thing either. They find it *boring*. But I like people who are different to me, so yeah.

That is purely personal opinion, isn't it? It might also depend, on how open-minded you are and so on and so forth etc.


I will not agree that intelligence is subjective.

I will not agree that intelligence is subjective.

It dosent just depend on intelligence though, I know lots of very intelligent people, but they dont use it, so they may as well not be intelligent

I will not agree that intelligence is subjective.

Whatever. I think that is highly debatable and far from being concrete. But fine. You agreed that ignorance doesn’t equal unintelligence, so that’s enough for me. We'll agree to disagree on the rest.

Anyone who argues that physical attributes don't at least play a role is lying. However much you try and avoid it, your first impression of someone is formed based on their appearance, and it sticks. I agree that once you actually get to know someone, intelligence/shared interests/sense of honour/personality or whatever has more influence, but whether you'll bother to get to know them can be decided on by your first impression; by their appearance. I'm not shallow, I'm just pointing out that everyone has an element of shallow-ness to them. It's human nature.
Unless you're blind.
Or... something.
And to go back to this thread's original point, yeah, there are alot of attractive girls on NS, and I'm sure most of them are genuine. But some of them are clearly fat, balding 40 yr old man. Like that supposed 15 year old bisexual who only ever uses one photo and wants everyone to tell her that "LIEK, OMG, UR TOTALLY HOT LOL LOL LOL".
And for the record, I'm female.

It dosent just depend on intelligence though, I know lots of very intelligent people, but they dont use it, so they may as well not be intelligent

Whatever. I think that is highly debatable and far from being concrete. But fine. You agreed that ignorance doesn’t equal unintelligence, so that’s enough for me. We'll agree to disagree on the rest.

Now see, you two obviously have the power of analytical thinking, and that is good, but is easily recognizable when you enter into a conversation who lacks it.

Same problem in reverse. This place is full of rednecks, you really have to search hard to find guys that aren't totally ignorant. Or a right winger from hell. Or is that where they come from? Rambling. Been up too long.

Like that supposed 15 year old bisexual who only ever uses one photo and wants everyone to tell her that "LIEK, OMG, UR TOTALLY HOT LOL LOL LOL".
And for the record, I'm female.
do i detect a hint of sarcasm??
dont worry, im sure ur a lovely person, no need to feel threatened by her
(btw pls dont flame, that wasnt this replies purpose)

What was this thread's point again?

Now see, you two obviously have the power of analytical thinking, and that is good, but is easily recognizable when you enter into a conversation who lacks it.

how does that relate to the original intelligence question?

What was this thread's point again?

There really wasn't one, but it still managed 4 pages.

Same problem in reverse. This place is full of rednecks, you really have to search hard to find guys that aren't totally ignorant. Or a right winger from hell. Or is that where they come from? Rambling. Been up too long.
The problem is that its those people with the strongest so they voice their opinions more than most.
There are lots of people like me who tend to get frustrated with them and just give up, hence you dont hear us very often
(this is assuming that im not an extremist, i dont think i am :confused: )

Now see, you two obviously have the power of analytical thinking, and that is good, but is easily recognizable when you enter into a conversation who lacks it.

Yeah but I use that analytical thinking by choice. I could just switch off if I wanted to. If you talked me in everyday real life, you might not consider me to be so intelligent. I’m not always fully switched on. Most people don't put the effort into it because they don't need to.

do i detect a hint of sarcasm??
dont worry, im sure ur a lovely person, no need to feel threatened by her
(btw pls dont flame, that wasnt this replies purpose)

No I think she means its. You get people like that from time to time in the chatrooms like Yahoo or whatever. It’s weird and you know they’re not who they say they are. Probably foreigners, because the english and grammar is very poor and they don't know everyday American slang...

how does that relate to the original intelligence question?

Having intelligence generally means being able to take in information and stimulus and transform it into a meaningful output. It is rather easy to tell if you can do that or not.

Having intelligence generally means being able to take in information and stimulus and transform it into a meaningful output. It is rather easy to tell if you can do that or not.

Yeah but we all have that ability though. Some of us have greater difficulty using it than others, some just can’t be arsed (and that reflects me most of the time – I’m generally lazy).

Yeah but I use that analytical thinking by choice. I could just switch off if I wanted to. If you talked me in everyday real life, you might not consider me to be so intelligent. I’m not always fully switched on. Most people don't put the effort into it because they don't need to.

Who seriously turns off their intelligence?

If you are willing to turn off your intelligence, you are not going to be attractive to me. There is no difference between someone who hides their intelligence can someone who lacks intelligence.

do i detect a hint of sarcasm??
dont worry, im sure ur a lovely person, no need to feel threatened by her
(btw pls dont flame, that wasnt this replies purpose)

Haha, I'm not threatened by "her", I'm glad "she's" on here because "she" causes me much amusement. JRV is right. And was your "lovely person" comment a concealed insult, suggesting I'm ugly? Or am I misreading your pragmatics? :)

There is a difference. I can feel sorry for someone who has no brains to turn off. Someone who chooses to gets my contempt.

There really wasn't one, but it still managed 4 pages.
Congrats', already five now and counting.

Whoa
*looks up, down and all around*
damn dude, i just had the biggest de javu (sp?)
Nope. No deja vu. I posted it twice ;)

(sorry it took so long to respond. Damn automailer didn't mail me!)

There is a difference. I can feel sorry for someone who has no brains to turn off. Someone who chooses to gets my contempt.

Exactly, marry me Bitchkitten.

There is a difference. I can feel sorry for someone who has no brains to turn off. Someone who chooses to gets my contempt.

We all have brains. We all have intelligence.

If I don't quit getting that "No Thread Specified" screen I may have to throw my monitor across the room. Fortunately I have a spare.

Exactly, marry me Bitchkitten.

But what if I am 75 and weigh 350 pounds?

If I don't quit getting that "No Thread Specified" screen I may have to throw my monitor across the room. Fortunately I have a spare.
I've been getting that too. It's the forum/server. Blame them :D

Ya'll should come on up to Alberta. We Abertans have a pretty high ratio of attractive and intelligent women. Only place I have found to compete with the attractive portion is Texas but hey I could be biased. Of course we have "red-necks" up here to -- they just don't go marrying their cousins.
:D

The point is that you are obviously looking in the wrong place. If you want to meet intelligent girls, then you should be looking at politics clubs, debating societies, and places where brains are used. That doesn't mean that you aren't intelligent if you aren't interested in politics or debating - those are just some of the places where girls with brains hang out. I know, from personal experience. Also, depending on age, you might want to try the campuses of good universities, which are selective upon intelligence. You have no idea how many guys trawl around Cambridge looking for us!

Ya'll should come on up to Alberta. We Abertans have a pretty high ratio of attractive and intelligent women. Only place I have found to compete with the attractive portion is Texas but hey I could be biased. Of course we have "red-necks" up here to -- they just don't go marrying their cousins.
:D

Of course Texas women are gorgeous, I'm one.

But what if I am 75 and weigh 350 pounds?

I would probably have to rethink my offer, as a 75 year old would have difficulty having children, but you could still be my NS wife.

Another thing: women in London tend not to be rednecks. If that's your thing, try Yorkshire or Essex.

The point is that you are obviously looking in the wrong place. If you want to meet intelligent girls, then you should be looking at politics clubs, debating societies, and places where brains are used. That doesn't mean that you aren't intelligent if you aren't interested in politics or debating - those are just some of the places where girls with brains hang out. I know, from personal experience. Also, depending on age, you might want to try the campuses of good universities, which are selective upon intelligence. You have no idea how many guys trawl around Cambridge looking for us!

I attend Southern Illinois University, which is somewhat liberal. But when I go to the bar it is terrible.

. And was your "lovely person" comment a concealed insult, suggesting I'm ugly? Or am I misreading your pragmatics? :)
It was purely to prevent getting flamed.
Altho looking at ur reply on a 2second analysis based on that one reply u do seem nice :D

I would probably have to rethink my offer, as a 75 year old would have difficulty having children, but you could still be my NS wife.

Not nearly that old or that fat. But kids are something I have no interest in.
Of course, if I'm your NS wife, I don't have to worry about that. :D

There's a reason we have "International Incidents", love-birds :p

Who seriously turns off their intelligence?


I can turn off intelligence like a light switch. Then again, if I did the consequences would be devastating.

Also, I seriously doubt anyone on here is a girl. Even if you say you are, I don't belive you.

Who seriously turns off their intelligence?



For me is more a matter of having to turn it on

*has nothing more to say on the matter other than: turn off NS, switch off the computer, and go out and find someone.*

I would, but I don't need to, since I have an amazing boyfriend already (and yes, he's sitting next to me...)

For me is more a matter of having to turn it on

If you were having a conversation with me, I could tell if you were leaving it off or not.

If you were, I would stop talking to you.

Yay, Cambridge!

i live in the uk y r the girls on here boring? i don`t think i am

Ooo, Ro-Ro, are you a student there?

Not yet, I have an offer of a place there to study history starting October this year. :)

That's weird. So do I. Which college??

I'm going to Caius!

I can turn off intelligence like a light switch. Then again, if I did the consequences would be devastating.

Also, I seriously doubt anyone on here is a girl. Even if you say you are, I don't belive you.

:p

Sidney Sussex. Maybe I'll see you there! Are you studying history too?

Yes!! Oh my god. This is waaay too weird...

http://www.nationstates.net/cgi-bin/index.cgi/target=display_nation/nation=ugarit

Just TG me there if you want to keep in touch and talk about Cambridge!

Also, I seriously doubt anyone on here is a girl. Even if you say you are, I don't belive you.
hmm...what would a girl have to do to convince you of her ...girlness...then?
(and yes, I do mean online :p)

hmm...what would a girl have to do to convince you of her ...girlness...then?
(and yes, I do mean online :p)

webcams r all good, then you can see them, ask them to do things and see them respond, to prove it is live

webcams r all good, then you can see them, ask them to do things and see them respond, to prove it is live
hmm...interesting. but if I were a guy I could still ask my girl-friend (or girlfriend :)) to do that for me.

wow, another kiwi, and one who seems fiesty, good on ya, stick it to them foreigners
Yeah, sock it to us.
I've liked every New Zealander I've met in person so far. I'm reserving judgement about you too till later. ;)

déjà vu ;)

Ey, my English is crappy too.

But your French is flawless.

Yes I can tell an absolute idiot between an ignoramus but that's not the point.
I've a bit of trouble with that distinction, possibly the latter just dosen't have much information but can be Einsteinic in intellectual stature. Care to help me out?

whats wrong with 80's clothes??
*ducks down behind desk obscuring all but head
:p Unless they're extremly well preserved I daresay they're getting a little motheaten, this far since.

Anyone who argues that physical attributes don't at least play a role is lying. However much you try and avoid it, your first impression of someone is formed based on their appearance, and it sticks.

Which is part of why I dress in ways I like rather than following fashion. Becuase people get information about someone by looking at them style of appearance can be a badge or billboard showing parts of the wearer's personality.

Another thing: women in London tend not to be rednecks. If that's your thing, try Yorkshire or Essex.
Well I know I love the city...Tricky to get to though. From Tasmania, anyway, untill I get a goodly ammount of rhino together. Employment, bah. If only I didn't have to work at getting a job in order to get one, or indeed got given money for the sheer radiance of my personality.

It was purely to prevent getting flamed.
Altho looking at ur reply on a 2second analysis based on that one reply u do seem nice :D

Why thank-you, I'd like to think that your deep analysis of me is right! Either that, or I lure people into a false sense of security until striking. Mwuhaha [my attempt at an evil laugh].

I sure know intelligent girls, but I think a lot of girls fake stupidity/helplessness in front of males because they think guys like it.

I'd call myself fairly intelligent. For my age, definitly. I'm the cleverest in the year based on my grades from exams and coursework and am A Level standard at some of my subjects when I'm only 14. I live in West Sussex, England.

But then I'm far younger than you, as you can see. And taken anyway.

I can understand preferring intelligent girls, I prefer intelligent guys. But I don't dismiss people based on it and I can appreciate different talents from different people, whether academic, musical, athletic etc

And taken anyway.

I can understand preferring intelligent girls, I prefer intelligent guys. But I don't dismiss people based on it and I can appreciate different talents from different people, whether academic, musical, athletic etc
Well lets hear about the surely charming lad. :)
Ah yes, th extra tallents question. Part of why IQ tests are bunk, really, and a wonderful thing to recognise.

in my experience, the number of attractive, intelligent, interesting males far outweighs the number of attractive, intelligent and interesting females. female are, on average, far more immature, far more willing to bank on their looks, and far more likely to have deadly dull hobbies.

as a result, a pretty, smart and fun girl has very little trouble finding a good guys to date, so the number of pretty, smart, fun, and AVAILABLE females is almost nil.

which is pretty much the reason i gave up trying to have relationships with women...it's easy to find a hot girl who will hook up with you, but it's ludicrously difficult to find one who is also worth talking to, and still harder to find one who won't try to change the way you dress or make you stop playing PlayStation. most girls are fun in small doses, but impossible for anything serious or long term.

Well lets hear about the surely charming lad. :)
Ah yes, th extra tallents question. Part of why IQ tests are bunk, really, and a wonderful thing to recognise.

You may want to rethink asking me about him, could end up sitting here rambling for days about all his lovely qualities :D

Yep. I've nothing against IQ tests, I just think they make up a tiny part of how you judge someone. People are far too focused on academic things-schools revolve around passing exams and getting good grades. It suits me really because it's my strength but I have so many friends who are amazingly talented or have unique skills in empathising for example and stuff like that isn't recognized at all.

in my experience, the number of attractive, intelligent, interesting males far outweighs the number of attractive, intelligent and interesting females. female are, on average, far more immature, far more willing to bank on their looks, and far more likely to have deadly dull hobbies.

as a result, a pretty, smart and fun girl has very little trouble finding a good guys to date, so the number of pretty, smart, fun, and AVAILABLE females is almost nil.

which is pretty much the reason i gave up trying to have relationships with women...it's easy to find a hot girl who will hook up with you, but it's ludicrously difficult to find one who is also worth talking to, and still harder to find one who won't try to change the way you dress or make you stop playing PlayStation. most girls are fun in small doses, but impossible for anything serious or long term.
That makes me want to kill myself... :(

in my experience, the number of attractive, intelligent, interesting males far outweighs the number of attractive, intelligent and interesting females. female are, on average, far more immature, far more willing to bank on their looks, and far more likely to have deadly dull hobbies.

as a result, a pretty, smart and fun girl has very little trouble finding a good guys to date, so the number of pretty, smart, fun, and AVAILABLE females is almost nil.

which is pretty much the reason i gave up trying to have relationships with women...it's easy to find a hot girl who will hook up with you, but it's ludicrously difficult to find one who is also worth talking to, and still harder to find one who won't try to change the way you dress or make you stop playing PlayStation. most girls are fun in small doses, but impossible for anything serious or long term.

You know, I could have said a very similar thing but totally the opposite way around.

I know many attractive intelligent girls. I know far fewer attractive intelligent guys. Most guys are know are immature and shallow and more so than the girls I know. Finding a hot guy is simple but finding one who is clever, funny and kind aswell is near impossible. Very few actually understand me at all whereas I do pretty well at understanding guys seeing as I make friends with guys easily and spend more time with them. And I would have said most are fine in small doses but not long term too.

Strange really....

Which is why I'm just very glad I'm lucky enough to have the guy I do now.

That makes me want to kill myself... :(
hey, i said it's difficult, not impossible. but really the best course of action is to be bisexual, so that you can date the first hot, smart, fun person that hits on you, without having to worry about if they are a girl or not :P.

For me is more a matter of having to turn it on

For me its a matter of turning her on.

You know, I could have said a very similar thing but totally the opposite way around.

I know many attractive intelligent girls. I know far fewer attractive intelligent guys. Most guys are know are immature and shallow and more so than the girls I know. Finding a hot guy is simple but finding one who is clever, funny and kind aswell is near impossible. Very few actually understand me at all whereas I do pretty well at understanding guys seeing as I make friends with guys easily and spend more time with them. And I would have said most are fine in small doses but not long term too.

Strange really....

Which is why I'm just very glad I'm lucky enough to have the guy I do now.i suppose the key bit might be that you are looking for "kind" on top of all the other qualities. what most women expect in terms of "kindness" is very very different from what most men expect, and also very different from what i expect. :)

That makes me want to kill myself... :(

Aww, don't go doing that :fluffle: It really isn't that bad. He's just cynical from bad experiences I'm assuming. I can always go overly positive and cheesy about how you'll find someone when the time comes and talk about how amazing it all is but I think you'd probably just end up wanting to kill me instead :p

hey, i said it's difficult, not impossible. but really the best course of action is to be bisexual, so that you can date the first hot, smart, fun person that hits on you, without having to worry about if they are a girl or not :P.
Eh... I... don't really want to be bisexual :(

Aww, don't go doing that :fluffle: It really isn't that bad. He's just cynical from bad experiences I'm assuming. I can always go overly positive and cheesy about how you'll find someone when the time comes and talk about how amazing it all is but I think you'd probably just end up wanting to kill me instead :p
Heh heh. It's against my morals to feel homicidal against women, unless, of course, she manages to piss off 6.5 billion people :D

EDIT: You just made my day! I shall now go to bed at 8:45 in the morning :D

i suppose the key bit might be that you are looking for "kind" on top of all the other qualities. what most women expect in terms of "kindness" is very very different from what most men expect, and also very different from what i expect. :)

What do you expect then?

I'm curious now to see where we (as male and female) differ and to see if your judgement on what kindness I expect is right. I wouldn't say I go for the type of guy most girls go for. But we'll see :)

Heh heh. It's against my morals to feel homicidal against women, unless, of course, she manages to piss off 6.5 billion people :D

EDIT: You just made my day! I shall now go to bed at 8:45 in the morning :D

Good good :D He he, I like making people smile, makes me smiley too :D So have another fluffle! :fluffle:

Hmmmm...I THINK that I'm an intelligent girl/woman. Then again, I haven't been called a "girl" in a few years. And what the hell, they don't even ID me anymore when I buy BEER! :headbang: I must look more mature than 27? Yeah, yeah, I think I better keep on telling myself that!

What do you expect then?

I'm curious now to see where we (as male and female) differ and to see if your judgement on what kindness I expect is right. I wouldn't say I go for the type of guy most girls go for. But we'll see :)
oh, i can't help you there...i'm a member of the Ovary Brigade, so i can't speak for what men want in a woman. i've just dated too many women to have any illusions about my gender :P. women are great fun, in moderation, but i would never want to have a long-term relationship with one (or at least, not with any woman i have met so far).

plus, guys tend to like much better music :).

oh, i can't help you there...i'm a member of the Ovary Brigade, so i can't speak for what men want in a woman. i've just dated too many women to have any illusions about my gender :P. women are great fun, in moderation, but i would never want to have a long-term relationship with one (or at least, not with any woman i have met so far).

plus, guys tend to like much better music :).

Oh, oops :p he he I like the reference to the Ovary Brigade lol

May have to agree with that, I met my guy through music. But he has converted me now, along with others, so I now have fairly good taste in music I like to think.

in my experience, the number of attractive, intelligent, interesting males far outweighs the number of attractive, intelligent and interesting females.
Of course you would say this. As a straight woman you are biased.

hey, i said it's difficult, not impossible. but really the best course of action is to be bisexual, so that you can date the first hot, smart, fun person that hits on you, without having to worry about if they are a girl or not :P.
I didn't think that being bi was just a choice like that.

Oh, oops :p he he I like the reference to the Ovary Brigade lol

May have to agree with that, I met my guy through music. But he has converted me now, along with others, so I now have fairly good taste in music I like to think.
you know, now that you mention it, that's one thing that women are much cooler about than men: women seem much more willing (on average) to try new music. guys i meet seem to take any criticism of their CD collection as a direct affront to their masculinity, while girls tend to be like, "yeah, i know Avril sucks, but i can't help it." chicks have tended to be more willing to at least TRY listening to new music, which is very cool of them.

of course, i also have dated a woman who told me that if we ever moved in together i would be forbidden to play Mest in the house. that relationship was over before she could say "subwoofer."

plus, guys tend to like much better music :).
I definitely agree. Why is it that girls are just generally not interested in music beyond pop radio?

Then again, girls tend to be more into visual art.

women seem much more willing (on average) to try new music. ... girls tend to be like, "yeah, i know Avril sucks, but i can't help it." chicks have tended to be more willing to at least TRY listening to new music, which is very cool of them.

thats because they just rnt educated and listen to what theyre told to, but some guys actually listen to different types and choose one they like

I didn't think that being bi was just a choice like that.
it is and it isn't. i personally believe that nearly everybody is on the "spectrum" of sexuality, and very very few people are really ONLY straight or ONLY gay. i think there are plenty of people who could be bisexual, but because of upbringing or environmental pressures in their life they choose to be exclusively straight (or exclusively gay). also, i think people feel more comfortable fitting into one niche or another when it comes to relationships, so they know what the "rules" are supposed to be, and bisexuality pretty much sets that rule book on fire.

either way, it's certainly not just like flipping on a light switch; i was being glib in how i responded.

you know, now that you mention it, that's one thing that women are much cooler about than men: women seem much more willing (on average) to try new music. guys i meet seem to take any criticism of their CD collection as a direct affront to their masculinity, while girls tend to be like, "yeah, i know Avril sucks, but i can't help it." chicks have tended to be more willing to at least TRY listening to new music, which is very cool of them.

of course, i also have dated a woman who told me that if we ever moved in together i would be forbidden to play Mest in the house. that relationship was over before she could say "subwoofer."

I'd agree with that too. While most people I know have poor taste (IMO), girls are much more likely to be open-minded whereas guys will be very defensive about their music.

Myself, I'm pretty openminded except when people confuse opinion and fact/ confuse different types of talent. I can be defensive but only in a friendly debating way.

thats because they just rnt educated and listen to what theyre told to, but some guys actually listen to different types and choose one they like

Can't you use words or phrases like 'on average' or 'generally' because that's a rather sweeping statement saying that women aren't educated and listen to what they're told to. I know I certainly don't fit into that. I'm educated and half my music is underground, truly underground. And most guys (see the use of the word 'most'?) I know seem to think their type is the only type and it's oh so cool and original when actually it's still mainstream trash.

i personally believe that nearly everybody is on the "spectrum" of sexuality, and very very few people are really ONLY straight or ONLY gay. i think there are plenty of people who could be bisexual, but because of upbringing or environmental pressures in their life they choose to be exclusively straight (or exclusively gay).

Wow, first time I've found someone who thinks so similarly to me about sexuality.

iosef dzhuguzvielli is 23 from california and in nc

To get this thing back on-topic: I am female, I consider myself to have a reasonably high degree of mental acuity. And for the record, I may live in the "Bible Belt" as it is sometimes referred to, but I did not vote for George W Bush. I did not vote at all, actually, because it's illegal for a seventeen-year-old to vote in the United States. I live in Nebraska, to answer the original question this thread asked, though I shant tell you the city of my residence.

I attend Southern Illinois University, which is somewhat liberal. But when I go to the bar it is terrible.
youre looking for intelligent women at the BAR?

not that smart women dont drink, but women dont usually go to the bar looking for political discourse, if you know what i mean.

better to go to a location where everyone is encouraged to be serious.

it is and it isn't. i personally believe that nearly everybody is on the "spectrum" of sexuality, and very very few people are really ONLY straight or ONLY gay.
I certainly agree, but I don't think you can just change your position on the spectrum at will.

stae se uym stupidae,is ldiena ntiendee ol ueq oy scriboe, andam nau legramt :)

Another thing: women in London tend not to be rednecks. If that's your thing, try Yorkshire or Essex.


yes!

London is simply grande!


heh


please do try it here..
its nice

I agree with most of the stuff that's been said here, actually. I think in general, guys have better music taste than girls, but yes, girls are generally more open to criticism of their music and open minded to other types. I agree that to insult a guy's music is likely to be taken as an insult to his masculinity. I agree that few people are exclusively straight or gay... but I'm not going to pick at that because it's quite a raw subject for me atm. I don't think this is a very politically correct thing to say, but I think that alot of relationship issues now stem from pressure upon the guy to be dominant, and pressure upon the girl to be all things. It mostly comes from the media... I don't know, what do you guys think? Do you feel that there's an expectation on you to behave in a certain way when it comes to dating? (Particularly with the opposite sex, I mean, although not to rule out single sex relationships).

If you have to ask, not you.

Not necessarily. You DO realize that even TREES have an IQ, and could therefore be considered intelligent, don't you? ;)

I certainly agree, but I don't think you can just change your position on the spectrum at will.
I hadn't thouught of it as a spectrum; just hree mutally exclusive states. I know I haven't found any guys sexually attractive but over the past year or so I have noticed asthetic pleasure from looking at some. I'm an apparently (apparent to me, that is to say. Because of homophobia and stereotypes of flambuoyance[sp?] I've left quite a few other people in doubt though) straight lad. This is something to think about so thankye.

Edit: I'm also Ceilingwax, so please take posts with both names as by one user.
Trees have IQ? Lets see your evidence please. As a vegitarian based on empathy for intelligent creatures I might well now be really stuffed.

I am so smart! S M R T - I mean - S M A R T.

Do you feel that there's an expectation on you to behave in a certain way when it comes to dating?

I would say so, yes.

You're supposed to look good and be sexy etc but at the same time you can't be shallow and can't make an effort simply for a guy. You have all the traditional dating things about guys making the first move yet you also have the more modern influences of the new man and women being more dominant perhaps.

And men are supposed to still be tough and masculine yet at the same time be in touch with their feminine side and be able to express emotions. And they have the traditional things to follow about politness yet if they do they can get shouted down for trying to control or patronize a woman.

I don't really follow any expectations though, well, I don't consciously change to follow them. I like having a feminine side and a sexy side but that's partly 'cause I feel good about myself then and it boosts my confidence. I don't feel like I'm lowering myself by wearing tight tops for example. But I don't change who I am for men, not for anyone for that matter. I make the first move if I want to, can be forward, can take control but I do also like romantic gestures and I also like a guy who can take control ;) And then I like guys who are a nice mix and are secure enough with their masculinity to show their soft side.

I certainly agree, but I don't think you can just change your position on the spectrum at will.

Didn't she basically agree with that in her last statement?

either way, it's certainly not just like flipping on a light switch; i was being glib in how i responded.

Glitziness, you mentioned that Bottle was the first person you've encountered who shares the same opinion on sexuality.. You're not alone, I've found plenty of people who feel the same way. The fact that so many of my friends have now come out as bisexual is starting to validate that opinion for me. If, in three years, I graduate with a degree in psych instead of international relations I think I'll focus my studies on sexuality issues. It'd be fascinating.

On the issue of men liking purely intelligent girls? Some folks have brought it up but I wanted to throw in my opinion that whatever guy says he's looking for "just" a smart girl is full of shit. Someone said it properly when they said that there's not so many pretty and intelligent girls. I'm not stunning, by any means, but I do, at least, know my ass from a hole in the ground. I'm going to stop here because if I don't, it'll be a lame and hypocritical rant about the opposite sex.
:headbang:

Glitziness, you mentioned that Bottle was the first person you've encountered who shares the same opinion on sexuality.. You're not alone, I've found plenty of people who feel the same way. The fact that so many of my friends have now come out as bisexual is starting to validate that opinion for me. If, in three years, I graduate with a degree in psych instead of international relations I think I'll focus my studies on sexuality issues. It'd be fascinating.

On the issue of men liking purely intelligent girls? Some folks have brought it up but I wanted to throw in my opinion that whatever guy says he's looking for "just" a smart girl is full of shit. Someone said it properly when they said that there's not so many pretty and intelligent girls. I'm not stunning, by any means, but I do, at least, know my ass from a hole in the ground. I'm going to stop here because if I don't, it'll be a lame and hypocritical rant about the opposite sex.
:headbang:

Good good, always nice to know you're not alone :)

You're doing a degree in psychology? Or you want to? Either way, thats my long term aim. Just in school at the moment though.

I'd agree. Yeah, guys can go for intelligent girls but it's rare for that to be their only desire. Same with girls saying they just want a clever/nice/funny guy. There's always a bit of physical attraction needed aswell for a decent relationship.

Good good, always nice to know you're not alone :)

You're doing a degree in psychology? Or you want to? Either way, thats my long term aim. Just in school at the moment though.

I'd agree. Yeah, guys can go for intelligent girls but it's rare for that to be their only desire. Same with girls saying they just want a clever/nice/funny guy. There's always a bit of physical attraction needed aswell for a decent relationship.

At the moment, I'm doing a degree in International Relations with a minor in Psychology. I haven't quite decided where my priorities are yet as I'm only in first year.

Man, as much as I'd like to say looks don't matter I'll completely admit to be just as superficial as the people that piss me off. Then again, I'm a big mess when it comes to dating and guys. I hate romantic stuff. I'd much rather laugh then be serious. I haven't really found anyone yet who is the same way.

non-redneck
I'm an intelligent girl living in a redneck state. Does that count?
Ugh... I can't wait to get the HELL out of here...

Ooook.....

1. IQ tests are screwed. According to the last one I took I'm a boody genius.
2. Being intelligent doesn't mean intelligent conversation, at least not in rl. A guy and I chatted like mad on aim, but when we were travelling to/from my Winter Formal we hardly said a word. Gah I hate being introverted. The only time I attract guys is when I'm dancing, when I don't care what others are thinking.
3. What is 'an interesting hobby'? What I find interesting you might find boring. I like archery, you might like football. We would find each other's sports mutually boring.
4. Why are 'computer games' a male preserve? I just think men are more likely to spend the insane amount of money needed. Plenty of my friends Stateside have consoles. I would just prefer to spend my money on books, clothes and other things.
5. Music. Ok, I resent the 'you only listen to pop.' It's like me saying 'you only listen to heavy metal.' The last cd I bought was 'the Dark Side of the Moon,' but I don't just like classic rock, I have artists most people have never heard of. Yes I sometimes turn on the radio, but I get sick of hearing the same 5 hip-hop, 1 Britney/Christina and 1 rock every hour, so I turned to classic rock stations again. In England I listen to it a lot, but that's 'cos I crave variety and not necessarilly 'cos I like all the music.
6. Define 'pretty.' No-one is pretty 24-7, 365 days a year. With some people it's the body rather than the face.
7. Wtf is a 'red-neck' anyway?
8. Cambridge is biased against private schools. And it's the dampest place in England basically. It's better than Oxford imo, but I really wanted to go to London so I'm glad I got KCL.
9. London is a big place with very different people. And it's not a place to live the whole of your life, I moved out when I was 2. "Come visit us in London, its less than two hours away....what visit you? But you're so far away!" <- the strange Londoner mentality.
10. <- is a nice number and I forgot what I was going to say.

At the moment, I'm doing a degree in International Relations with a minor in Psychology. I haven't quite decided where my priorities are yet as I'm only in first year.

Man, as much as I'd like to say looks don't matter I'll completely admit to be just as superficial as the people that piss me off. Then again, I'm a big mess when it comes to dating and guys. I hate romantic stuff. I'd much rather laugh then be serious. I haven't really found anyone yet who is the same way.

I replied to this....

Everyone's superficial to some extent. Better that you can admit it.

I think everyone goes through the big mess stage, even the people who seem to have it perfectly. You'll find someone, I know plenty of people who are the same way you described. There is hope :) Hm, I could carry on in this cheesy way but I won't for your sake :p

Good good :D He he, I like making people smile, makes me smiley too :D So have another fluffle! :fluffle:
Two fluffles in return for the two you gave me :)

:fluffle: :fluffle:

:)

I need a woman who can have an intelligent conversation and a good fuck.
I can only find one quality in most of the women I meet.

I need a woman who can have an intelligent conversation and a good fuck.
I can only find one quality in most of the women I meet.

Come to Greenville, SC. ;)

Most intelligent women decide to postpone sex that's why.

Come to Greenville, SC. ;)
I'd reply back with something else, but arent you like 16? I'd get in trouble. I'm old.

28! :eek:

Most intelligent women decide to postpone sex that's why.
That's a pretty dumb thing to say. So any woman who likes sex and doesn't want to wait long enough for you to decide it's smart enough) can
't be intelligent?
Sound's like 1950's bullshit.
I've fallen in love with a few and we couldn't wait that long.

I dunno why I said that.

First thing that came into my head.

Damn ye cherry coke for making me write before I thought about it!

If a girl on NS tells you where she lives just because you ask her she's not very intelligent. For all I know you could be some 60 yr old guy who's a stalker. Not smart to give out personal info on the web.

If a girl on NS tells you where she lives just because you ask her she's not very intelligent. For all I know you could be some 60 yr old guy who's a stalker. Not smart to give out personal info on the web.
I'm inclined to agree.

If a girl on NS tells you where she lives just because you ask her she's not very intelligent. For all I know you could be some 60 yr old guy who's a stalker. Not smart to give out personal info on the web.
Ewwwwww. What creepy guy asked you for your address?
Tell him not-so-politely to fuck himself instead.

I think it's more likely that the 'boy' is 60yrs old than the girl.
What I don't understand are the teenage boys who pretend to be girls...

Eichen- :D No one, but I watch Oprah ;)

I'd reply back with something else, but arent you like 16? I'd get in trouble. I'm old.

28! :eek:

In SC, the age of consent is 14. Hahahaha. You can also marry your cousin here.
And 28 isn't old at all. I've done older. *shines halo*

In SC, the age of consent is 14. Hahahaha. You can also marry your cousin here.
And 28 isn't old at all. I've done older. *shines halo*
You are cruel.

*appears* Did someone ring?

I think it's more likely that the 'boy' is 60yrs old than the girl.
What I don't understand are the teenage boys who pretend to be girls...

I know, I mean what the?

And it's true. If a chick is willing to tell you all about herself eg where she lives and she's never met you, that's kinda stupid.

Where the hell are you in real life. All the girls around here are extremely boring.

I just want all of you to know that there are plenty of guys out there who are just looking for an intelligent girl. Like me.

Well, no shit. Yeah, I'm damn lucky that i had a girlfriend before i got to C-dale, cuz the only girls you see down here are drunk off their asses at parties, and that kinda thing is only gonna be fun for a week, tops.

I live in Canada.

28 isn't old. Trust me. :p

I will not agree that intelligence is subjective.

Of course it is, people never look at things the same that is impossible the same with agreeing on definitions people interpret things differently what is intelligent to one person is not intelligent to another, don't tell me that you have never heard that before.

i can tell you that there are some pretty damn hot girls here and that don't mess around. like baseball bat. :headbang: :upyours:

i can tell you that there are some pretty damn hot girls here and that don't mess around. like baseball bat. :headbang: :upyours:
I hate it when guys get pissy when a girl gets more action than he does. And you know, he wouldn't complain if he were in the girl's shoes. ...minus the whole having sex with guys, thing. I'm just wondering who guys expect to mess around with when they hate girls that actually do mess around. :headbang:

I hate it when guys get pissy when a girl gets more action than he does. And you know, he wouldn't complain if he were in the girl's shoes. ...minus the whole having sex with guys, thing. I'm just wondering who guys expect to mess around with when they hate girls that actually do mess around. :headbang:
Maybe he's jealous?

In SC, the age of consent is 14. Hahahaha. You can also marry your cousin here.
And 28 isn't old at all. I've done older. *shines halo*
Must. Not. Think. These. Thoughts.Still.Not.Legal.In.Florida...

Must. Not. Think. These. Thoughts.Still.Not.Legal.In.Florida...
You CAN think these thoughts. You just can't ACT them out. :D

You CAN think these thoughts. You just can't ACT them out. :D
Is that a challenge? Eichen, I think that's a challenge.

i can tell you that there are some pretty damn hot girls here and that don't mess around. like baseball bat. :headbang: :upyours:
Worst first thread for a heterosexual boy, e-v-e-r.

You CAN think these thoughts. You just can't ACT them out. :D
Damn! This sounds so hard now that internet porn has killed my faculty for creative sexual fantasy!
(j/k)

I am a female and the reason it's hard finding me is because: 1 I don't want or need a boyfriend. 2 I am a double major in Poli Sci and Int.l Relations so that leaves not a lot of time to even be interested in getting a boyfriend. 3 I am have made a vow to be a celibate virgin for the rest of my life and consider the male population not worthy of my time or my strength.

I know this may seem VERY weird and demented to a majority of you but I have learned that looking out for number one is important, especially in this sort of world. It's the truth and that's the way it is.

I am a female and the reason it's hard finding me is because: 1 I don't want or need a boyfriend. 2 I am a double major in Poli Sci and Int.l Relations so that leaves not a lot of time to even be interested in getting a boyfriend. 3 I am have made a vow to be a celibate virgin for the rest of my life and consider the male population not worthy of my time or my strength.

I know this may seem VERY weird and demented to a majority of you but I have learned that looking out for number one is important, especially in this sort of world. It's the truth and that's the way it is.
Whoa there Mikey. It's cool... Really...
*backs away slowly*

Whoa there Mikey. It's cool... Really...
*backs away slowly*
*Does the same, but pulls out his Doomsday Button*

<click>

28! :eek:

Mmmm, but older guys are so sexy and yummy! :)

As far as intelligence goes people normally take one look at me and see "Attractive blonde" and immediately they brush me off as not intelligent. When in fact had they talked to me they would have found out that this was not true. When I tell people that I'm, going to medical school they seem dumbfounded.

I think there are plenty of intelligent, attractive, interesting women, you just have to know where to look.

Thats not perfectly true Aerou, I found you very attractive - but also intelligent upon talking to you. Im very happy I took the time to find that out.

However, the problem with finding girls who are attractive and intelligent is that they arent commonly found in the normal 'pick-up' spots. If you go to a club, expect to find a club hopping girl. If you go to a party, you can bet you'll find a party girl. The best women Ive met - Ive met in the most random places. Im not saying you can't find a great girl in a club or at a party - but if you take someone home from one of them places and both of you are looking for nothing but a good time then thats all youre likely to find. You won't find the most beautiful orchids at the florists - don't be afraid to look around a little. ;)

non-redneck
well, we need to find this one a fellow bigot.

I am a female and the reason it's hard finding me is because: 1 I don't want or need a boyfriend. 2 I am a double major in Poli Sci and Int.l Relations so that leaves not a lot of time to even be interested in getting a boyfriend. 3 I am have made a vow to be a celibate virgin for the rest of my life and consider the male population not worthy of my time or my strength.

I know this may seem VERY weird and demented to a majority of you but I have learned that looking out for number one is important, especially in this sort of world. It's the truth and that's the way it is.

she must be a real looker, eh boys?

she must be a real looker, eh boys?
She's more likely a victim of abuse (than unattractive, that is, since it's what you were implying), if you ask me.

She's more likely a victim of abuse (than unattractive, that is, since it's what you were implying), if you ask me.
that too.

Oh jesus. Is this another one of those "I'm a man hear me GROWL at you from my computer" type of forums? :sniper:

Why is it so hard to believe that smart girls can be attractive?? Some of are are damn hot!

Sendoa

Mmmm, but older guys are so sexy and yummy! :)

As far as intelligence goes people normally take one look at me and see "Attractive blonde" and immediately they brush me off as not intelligent. When in fact had they talked to me they would have found out that this was not true. When I tell people that I'm, going to medical school they seem dumbfounded.

I think there are plenty of intelligent, attractive, interesting women, you just have to know where to look.

But women are only supposed to cook and clean! What could you possibly be doing in medical school?

Thats not perfectly true Aerou, I found you very attractive - but also intelligent upon talking to you. Im very happy I took the time to find that out.

However, the problem with finding girls who are attractive and intelligent is that they arent commonly found in the normal 'pick-up' spots. If you go to a club, expect to find a club hopping girl. If you go to a party, you can bet you'll find a party girl. The best women Ive met - Ive met in the most random places. Im not saying you can't find a great girl in a club or at a party - but if you take someone home from one of them places and both of you are looking for nothing but a good time then thats all youre likely to find. You won't find the most beautiful orchids at the florists - don't be afraid to look around a little. ;)

Once you talked to me yes :). But most guys don't really take the time to "get to know me" haha.

The best places to meet girls are places that you yourself are interested in. Like....if you're politically active you should volunteer (women love men who volunteer :), at least I do), or join groups that specialize in your interests (wine, travel, music etc...). Most of the time you'll meet women who are interesting and interested in some of the same things you are.

But women are only supposed to cook and clean! What could you possibly be doing in medical school?

I'm so amazing that I do all three!

Cook, clean, and (learn how to) save lives and cure diseases.

Where the hell are you in real life. All the girls around here are extremely boring.

I just want all of you to know that there are plenty of guys out there who are just looking for an intelligent girl. Like me.

Hey... i live in Aus... i think im intelligent... ask the rest of my region...

But women are only supposed to cook and clean! What could you possibly be doing in medical school?

Cook? I suppose if I read the directions I'd be alright with the microwave. My unemployed roommate is my kitchen bitch.

Two fluffles in return for the two you gave me :)

:fluffle: :fluffle:

:)

Yay! Lots of smilies :) :D :fluffle: You know, we could go on exchanging fluffles for a loooong time....

Yay! Lots of smilies :) :D :fluffle: You know, we could go on exchanging fluffles for a loooong time....

In fact, some people have...

Check out this thread: http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showthread.php?t=200215.

* :fluffle: 's Prosophia*
what the heck! :D

so does any one live in westchester new york???????/ :sniper: :mp5:

Mmmm, but older guys are so sexy and yummy! :)

As far as intelligence goes people normally take one look at me and see "Attractive blonde" and immediately they brush me off as not intelligent. When in fact had they talked to me they would have found out that this was not true. When I tell people that I'm, going to medical school they seem dumbfounded.

I think there are plenty of intelligent, attractive, interesting women, you just have to know where to look.

think you should add "outrageously egotistical" to that list?

think you should add "outrageously egotistical" to that list?
Thats not very nice. :(

Thats not very nice. :(

Yeah! Who wants to lynch him?

Yeah! Who wants to lynch him?
Well, I don't know about lynching, but I certainly think it's a statement worth retracting since this person obviously does not know Aerou, or how kind she is. That which he stated, is in fact a rather bold and uncaring thing to have said, and at that a very untrue one.

Yeah! Who wants to lynch him?
I think we should just mercilessly tickle him for a bit.

I think we should just mercilessly tickle him for a bit.
Will you mercilessly tickle me too then? Id actually quite like that... Where's Aerou when a guy needs a good thorough tickling? :D

(this post sooo makes me think of 'Zoot' from the Castle Anthrax!!)

Well, I don't know about lynching, but I certainly think it's a statement worth retracting since this person obviously does not know Aerou, or how kind she is. That which he stated, is in fact a rather bold and uncaring thing to have said, and at that a very untrue one.

Okay, as Neo-Anarchists said, we'll tie him up and tickle an apology out of him. *puts away lynching pitchfork*

Okay, as Neo-Anarchists said, we'll tie him up and tickle an apology out of him. *puts away lynching pitchfork*
I want to be tickled too! :(

I want to be tickled too! :(

Aww. Hey look, a UFO! Behind you!

Aww. Hey look, a UFO! Behind you!
*looks over his shoulder...*
wha..? where? I don't see one..
*still looking*

*Brutally attacks Lascivious Maximus with a feather*

*looks over his shoulder...*
wha..? where? I don't see one..
*still looking*
I think it's left and come to my house, cause there are these little green men with very odd heads...
No wait, those are broccoli.

*Brutally attacks Lascivious Maximus with a feather*
*bursts into rapturous laughter*

BWWAAAA HAAA HAAAA!!! HAA HAA HAA!!! HEE HEE!!! HOO HOO HOO!!! AHAHAHAHAHAHA!! HEE HAA HAA HOO!!!

*rolls around giggling uncontrollably..*

:p

I think it's left and come to my house, cause there are these little green men with very odd heads...
No wait, those are broccoli.
Not to worry, Ive several times made the same mistake myself! :)

Ooook.....

5. Music. Ok, I resent the 'you only listen to pop.' It's like me saying 'you only listen to heavy metal.' The last cd I bought was 'the Dark Side of the Moon,' but I don't just like classic rock, I have artists most people have never heard of. Yes I sometimes turn on the radio, but I get sick of hearing the same 5 hip-hop, 1 Britney/Christina and 1 rock every hour, so I turned to classic rock stations again. In England I listen to it a lot, but that's 'cos I crave variety and not necessarilly 'cos I like all the music.

8. Cambridge is biased against private schools. And it's the dampest place in England basically. It's better than Oxford imo, but I really wanted to go to London so I'm glad I got KCL.


I agreed with most of your post, especially the resentment of the "only listen to pop" generalisation, and the Londoner mentality!! And congratulations on getting into KCL :) But I disagree that Cambridge is biased... I don't know the overall statistics but I know the ones for my college because I was worried about applying there, coming from a school with a bad reputation, and in terms of percentages of applicants the number is about the same. They're biased against people with a spoonfed education, I think (and that's not a dig, because most private schools are really good). Anyhoo, it most certainly is damp, but not quite as damp as Nottingham - there was a flash flood on the open day there!

* :fluffle: 's Prosophia*
what the heck! :D

Yay :fluffle:ing!

But I don't want any part of this tickling madness... :eek:

*rolls around giggling uncontrollably..*

Aha! Owned! :D

Not to worry, Ive several times made the same mistake myself! :)

Haven't we all? Come to think of it, a lot of vegetables look like aliens...or at least their amputated appendages.

http://www.skyview1.com/images/camera/8-14-01_summer_squash_504x344_81%25.jpg

See?

Yay :fluffle:ing!

But I don't want any part of this tickling madness... :eek:
*tickles Prosophia* too late! :D

hmm, now... back to the :fluffle:'ing!

However, the problem with finding girls who are attractive and intelligent is that they arent commonly found in the normal 'pick-up' spots. If you go to a club, expect to find a club hopping girl. If you go to a party, you can bet you'll find a party girl. The best women Ive met - Ive met in the most random places. Im not saying you can't find a great girl in a club or at a party - but if you take someone home from one of them places and both of you are looking for nothing but a good time then thats all youre likely to find. You won't find the most beautiful orchids at the florists - don't be afraid to look around a little. ;)

Agreed. The clubs where I live are basically expensive meat-markets where it is impossible to actually talk over the music, therefore the only way test a girls intellignece is by either: getting them to fill out a questionaire, or putting various 'problems' in their path and studing how they overcome them. Because of this I try my best to avoid 'clubbing' as they are just full of overly horney male-monkies looking for easy carnal goodness (god I love the English langauge :D ).
As for random places, I met a lovely intelligent girl halfway up hill in the middle of nowhere.

But I don't want any part of this tickling madness... :eek:

*Ambushes and attacks Prosophia with feather*

AHA!!

(god I love the English langauge :D )..
The only problem with English is that too many people understand it. That's why Finnish is cool.

Mikä tuo korvastasi pilkottava juttu on?

The only problem with English is that too many people understand it. That's why Finnish is cool.

Mikä tuo korvastasi pilkottava juttu on?

Anata wa sakana desu ne.

*tickles Prosophia* too late! :D

*Ambushes and attacks Prosophia with feather*

AHA!!

:eek: ::escapes by twisting and running, then hides under desk::

:eek: ::escapes by twisting and running, then hides under desk::

Mwahahaha!!! :D

Anata wa sakana desu ne.
Why are we speaking Japanese now? I don't understand...

Ahh, the most deadly style of torture... that's where many regimes went wrong; they should have just tickled their victims and they would have been victorious.

Why are we speaking Japanese now? I don't understand...

Because I can. And you were speaking Finnish. *shrugs*

(And I just called you a fish)

(And I just called you a fish)
Hmm...
Odd.
It hurts because it's true...
:(

Hmm...
Odd.
It hurts because it's true...
:(

I'm sorry.

*attacks with the feather*

Hehehehe!!!

I agreed with most of your post, especially the resentment of the "only listen to pop" generalisation, and the Londoner mentality!! And congratulations on getting into KCL :) But I disagree that Cambridge is biased... I don't know the overall statistics but I know the ones for my college because I was worried about applying there, coming from a school with a bad reputation, and in terms of percentages of applicants the number is about the same. They're biased against people with a spoonfed education, I think (and that's not a dig, because most private schools are really good). Anyhoo, it most certainly is damp, but not quite as damp as Nottingham - there was a flash flood on the open day there!

:eek: a filthy tab on nationstates!

and you won't tickle an apology out of me cause i have no feelings...physical or emotional. :D

:eek: a filthy tab on nationstates!

and you won't tickle an apology out of me cause i have no feelings...physical or emotional. :D
What if it was a mass tickling?
*holding something peculiar in his hands behind his back*

...get him boys!!!

*pounces on Theo and begins to tickle him with a feather duster that looks oddly erotic...* :eek:

think you should add "outrageously egotistical" to that list?

Gah! What?

*sniff*

Gah! What?

*sniff*
*breaks momentarily from tickling Theo*
Would you feel better if you also were tickled?
*points erotic looking feather duster at Aerou, and gives her a suggestively sexy look*

:: peeks head out from under desk :: Has the tickling madness stopped?

Cook? I suppose if I read the directions I'd be alright with the microwave. My unemployed roommate is my kitchen bitch.

So you're Bitchkitten and she's Kitchenbitch? A match made in heaven, I do declare!

:eek: a filthy tab on nationstates!

and you won't tickle an apology out of me cause i have no feelings...physical or emotional. :D

Is a "filthy tab" a bad thing? If I'm being insulted, I want to know, damnit!
I have ways of making you apologise... *cackle*
*on second thoughts, decides to withold cackling until I know what I'm being charged with*

Gah! What?

*sniff*

*hugs* don't worry, you seem lovely really.

:: peeks head out from under desk :: Has the tickling madness stopped?
*aims tickle duster at Prosophia and commences a barrage of tickling* :D

im a chick...and im smart. i know i am. i dont need a dictionary definition to tell me what intelligence is. intelligence to me means being articulate, insightful, and an intellectual. anyone with a peanut for a brain shouldnt have to ask what someone means by 'intelligent'. or am i wrong... nah, i think i pretty much meant what i said. hope not to offend. :)

vittos- i know you are loving where this thread went :D

Is a "filthy tab" a bad thing? If I'm being insulted, I want to know, damnit!
I have ways of making you apologise... *cackle*
*on second thoughts, decides to withold cackling until I know what I'm being charged with*

:rolleyes: oxford slang for cambridge students?

I still won't apologise, goddammit!

*is ferociously tickled, which is secretly what she wanted all the time..... ;)

I'm smarter than I think I am.

*hugs* don't worry, you seem lovely really.

Awww, why thank you!

You seem quite lovely yourself :)

:rolleyes: oxford slang for cambridge students?

I still won't apologise, goddammit!

*is ferociously tickled, which is secretly what she wanted all the time..... ;)

Oohh, I see lol. You can't insult me, I'm not even there yet - still gotta get 3As. Besides, I ain't taking no stinkin' exam to study history! So I don't care what YOU say!
*is secretly emotionally scarred by Theologian Theory's cruelty*

I still won't apologise, goddammit!

*is ferociously tickled, which is secretly what she wanted all the time..... ;)
MORE TICKLING!!!! TICKLE TO THE PANTS BE WET!!!!

*tickles some more* :p

I'm smarter than I think I am.
Oh yeah?
I'm sminker than you thart I am.

I hate the sterio types you guys put on girls that are entertained with computers and demanding games like this one. All computer nerds aren't ugly. Well some are and they make up most of the computer nerd population but there are some good ones out there!

_~_~_Kailee_~_~

I hate the sterio types you guys put on girls that are entertained with computers and demanding games like this one. All computer nerds aren't ugly. Well some are and they make up most of the computer nerd population but there are some good ones out there!

_~_~_Kailee_~_~
:confused: I don't know how mant stereo-types there were, I mean - no one will deny the hottness of a particular group of the NS's most beautiful girls.

But if youre as hot as you say, and concerned about it, post a pic and shatter the stereotype a little further. :D

Im sure Im only a small faction of a much larger group who'd love to see that. ;)

MORE TICKLING!!!! TICKLE TO THE PANTS BE WET!!!!

*tickles some more* :p

*collapses on the floor in a confused heap, shaking to the core with supressed giggles (this is a library!)

*librarian aims a swift kick at Theo

I apologise!!!!!! :eek:

I knew I could get it out of you! :p

*helps her up*

much better, pleased to meet you! *offers a warm handshake* :)

The apology was for me, yes? *claims it anyway* Well done, thingy Maximus!

I never thought a drunken post caused by a woman I met a bar could spawn 16 pages.

Was it the title?

It was for everyone! :D

*accepts Lassy's handshake with a shy smile

Good enough for me! Drinks all around!

I never thought a drunken post caused by a woman I met a bar could spawn 16 pages.

Was it the title?

Drunken posts caused by women met at bars are the best kind!

It was for everyone! :D

*accepts Lassy's handshake with a shy smile
Charmed to be sure ;)

and Prosophia, consider yourself thoroughly tickled as well, Im finished for now I think. :)

*puts away feather duster*

Whew, its just so physically taxing, all this tickling. Really takes a round out of a guy! You beautiful girls just wear me thin, not that I mind of course!

Charmed to be sure ;)

and Prosophia, consider yourself thoroughly tickled as well, Im finished for now I think. :)

*puts away feather duster*

Whew, its just so physically taxing, all this tickling. Really takes a round out of a guy! You beautiful girls just wear me thin, not that I mind of course!

Thank goodness! Because I was about to gundge you (whatever gundging is)!
;)

Drunken posts caused by women met at bars are the best kind!

I will remember that, just wait until I have a good post, or I'm really slammed.

gundge fight! :gundge: :gundge:

I will remember that, just wait until I have a good post, or I'm really slammed.

Wouldn't that be at the same time?

Thank goodness! Because I was about to gundge you (whatever gundging is)!
;)
:eek: you wouldn't!

Wouldn't that be at the same time?

Well, somewhat, I go from funny to braindead inbetween 12 and 15 beers, so if I am really slammed the only intelligible words will be swear words, and I would not consider it a good post.