NationStates Jolt Archive

alright, well this is getting boring since noone is here right now...

Oh. well that isn't bad. thought you were an adult...

No problem. I haven't really ever said my age on here since I keep to Int'l Incidents and RP as a 36-year-old Prime Minister. ;)

But yeah, he's almost 14, which makes it even better since the age gap isn't as big. :P Ooh, he's hot stuff. Wish I had a pic to show you. And he's style-conscious too, he doesn't dress like a peer-pressured baller or a slob. Good stuff, good stuff.

No problem. I haven't really ever said my age on here since I keep to Int'l Incidents and RP as a 36-year-old Prime Minister. ;)

But yeah, he's almost 14, which makes it even better since the age gap isn't as big. :P Ooh, he's hot stuff. Wish I had a pic to show you. And he's style-conscious too, he doesn't dress like a peer-pressured baller or a slob. Good stuff, good stuff.
My fiance is 6 years younger than me... age gaps are nothing. She was 12 when I was hot for her... meaning I was legal... and she was far from it, but as long as i wasnt acting on that theres nothing wrong with it...

thats cool. i teach kids that age, there arent many that dress decent.

(random thought: Morrissey is so hot)

My fiance is 6 years younger than me... age gaps are nothing. She was 12 when I was hot for her... meaning I was legal... and she was far from it, but as long as i wasnt acting on that theres nothing wrong with it...

thats cool. i teach kids that age, there arent many that dress decent.

(random thought: Morrissey is so hot)

well, im gonna get going cause my fiance is yelling at me to get rest before the last day of school/work before break! woo hoo :)

I think my first lesbian experience was when I was 12, and my best friend and I got naked and practiced kissing and such during a very weird game of truth or dare... 4 years later, I'm bisexual and enjoy the best of both worlds. ^_^

I can't believe how even the poll is.

I can't believe how even the poll is.

You'd better believe it. At some point, it was long the lines of 48% / 52%.

Sort of comforts my idea that the right stats are about 10% "pure" gay and 30% bisexuals(or with bisexual tendencies), with only 60% being exclusively hetero.

You'd better believe it. At some point, it was long the lines of 48% / 52%.

Sort of comforts my idea that the right stats are about 10% "pure" gay and 30% bisexuals(or with bisexual tendencies), with only 60% being exclusively hetero.

Actually, wasn't there a study that said 85% of the population is bisexual but only 5% of them are willing to admit they play both sides?

By gay experience do you mean the fact that I have had sex with my girlfriends before or do you mean the fact that I've been in a fully participatory three way with two bisexual guys? Either way, yes.

Hmm, sounds fun. Fully functioning threesomes are the best. My only threesome tryst (can't really say it was one, since, well, we saw no reason to stop there) wasn't, and it led to a few sharing issues, since I was the only bisexual male. Amongst friends (and avowedly capitalist hedonists), though, it all worked out.

Oh, I mean, "yes."

10% of all people are gay or bisexual, that leaves only... umm, about 600 million people around the world these guys want to discriminate? So, basically those 'white hetero supremacists' are horribly outnumbered by the people they hate. Looks like they're a minority themselves...

I am an anthro. student and my cultural anth. Prof. told us that about 10% of people are on the extrem ends of the sexual prefrence scale the rest fall in the middle.

I'd just like to commend and thank the vast majority of straight people who posted on their open, accepting, adn inquisitive nature... maybe that's because they've had an encounter (or eight), but even those who haven't and have merely eschewed the hate, thanks.

Now I'm going to use this smiley. :sniper: :sniper: :sniper:

I would never ever participate in any sort of "gay experience" as you put it... never have never will.

Oh, about you people's thing if there were no women and only other men around? Wouldn't change a thing. I'd die before particpating in said "gay experiences".

So wrong...
I never knew you were like this.... As for the main topic, I'm gay so yeah. I've experienced the "good stuff."

I'm openly Bi. But at this point, my only love experience has been gay...erm, lesbian, I mean... :P

Actually, wasn't there a study that said 85% of the population is bisexual but only 5% of them are willing to admit they play both sides?
How would they calculate that if they're not willing to admit it? :confused:

How would they calculate that if they're not willing to admit it?
Mind reading. They know your deepest, darkest thoughts. *scary music* ;)

Seriously, though, I haven't had any gay experiences. It actually makes me feel kind of weird, as most people are supposed to be curious. Although, that could be because I spend a lot of time hanging out with my lesbian and bi friends and am the butt of a lot of good-natured "straight girl" jokes.

I don't think that it's just that I'm repressing my true sexuality, as I've been raised by the kind of parents who say, "We don't care if you're dating a man or a woman, as long as you're happy." I'm just not sexually attracted to women.

Question (and it has probably been asked already):

Do you guys and gals find yourself physically attracted to members of the same sex, is there some other type of attraction for them?

Do you just like the sex?

Or is it both?
Quite simply, it's both.

I can't believe how even the poll is.
Holy Smokes... Neither can I! Who knew everyone would be this honest??

I have never actually had any gay experiences, but I consider myself to be very open minded and I can't say for sure I won't in the future.

I used to consider myself bisexual. But as time went by, I noticed that while I was attracted to women, I wasn't actaully attracted to men. I simply had no aversion to them and a very bad case of horniness. Since then, my descent into the depravity of heterosexuality was pretty much assured.

To answer your question, yes. I've had a homosexual experience before.(And yes, my wife knows.)

Depends what you mean by gay experiences. I'm straight, and I can't see myself ever being gay. It's nasty as hell in my opinion.

Still, I can put my arm around a guy's shoulder in jest, or dance with one to get laughs...or talk in that stereotypical lisp voice and say flaming cliche's...

But does that give me a gay experience? Probably not. As for things of a more sexual nature...fuck no...

How would they calculate that if they're not willing to admit it? :confused:

Anonymous survey type stuff. And so many surveys have been done over the course of human history that mathematics can predict within a reasonable range (usually less than 5%) how many people are lying, didn't choose the answer that corresponds to their true answer, people who were confused by the questioning, ect... It's the same thing you see on political poles where it says "margain of error." If you ever have a good research methods class or a stats class, they teach you all that kind of stuff and how to calculate it. It involves some pretty long, complicated formulas.

How would they calculate that if they're not willing to admit it? :confused:

Well, psychologists have a theory that 85% of the population is bisexual to varying degrees. They're saying of that group of people, only 5% admitted they had had a homosexual experience or were bisexual.

My gayest experience is being on a football team. Let me elaborate.

Any other football players probably already know what I mean. There is an incredible excess of male bonding...touching...skin showing...among others. Don't get me started on the quarterback-center position. I was the center for one game. Coaches teach the quarterback to hands as far into the center's um...special place...as possible. And their supposed to practice this "hand-off" everyday throughout the season so they "stay in touch."

Okay I'm getting nauseous just thinking about this, but you get the point.

I'm on a never ending quest to turn others to the dark side. So far I have turned 2 straight guys bi.

Grays Hill, trust me, you didn't "Turn them" bi, they were into guys before, you just happened to convince them to let you be their first experience.....and it's interesting. If you're really "Bi" why spend so much time trying to "Turn" straight guys? Bi's like BOTH men and women there kiddo. Sounds like somebody just might not be ready to say the words "I'm Gay" yet.

I live in an impure nation, homosexuality is creeping into the very rooms where George Walker Bush stands I hate that I cannot do anything about it. SATAN, THE ANTI CHRIST IS CORRUPTING YOUR MINDS. Visit the church and do not speak of your sins before you have redeemed yourself

(...) homosexuality is creeping into the very rooms where George Walker Bush stands (...)
After reading that, I can't help wondering... who in Bush's cabinet would be gay?

After reading that, I can't help wondering... who in Bush's cabinet would be gay?
your mother and father

Yes, I have had homosexual experiences, and yes with a few guys

do i like guys? yeh
do i like girls? yeh

No, my dad wholesales them and theyre actually very...very good...ghetto=Not well known, And pretty cheap.... besides, i fucking hate the inferior race they call 'blacks'


Sorry there baby, Ghetto doesn't equal not well known. Maybe if Daddy sold real cereal he could afford to buy you that dictionary you so desperately need.

I say we don't report him to the mods and keep him around, just for the entertainment value.


Who else are we going to make fun of if he gets !DEATED?

The make-believe boyfriend that he craves down in his most secret of secret places, whom he only thinks about when he's down in the basement reading "Are you there God? It's me Margaret" with a flashlight.

The make-believe boyfriend that he craves down in his most secret of secret places, whom he only thinks about when he's down in the basement reading "Are you there God? It's me Margaret" with a flashlight.

*rolls on the floor, laughin*


Hey, I really DID roll on the floor :D

I say we don't report him to the mods and keep him around, just for the entertainment value.


Who else are we going to make fun of if he gets !DEATED?

If you feed the trolls you're just as likely to get warned/deleted yourself.

If you feed the trolls you're just as likely to get warned/deleted yourself.

I was just kidding, Myrth. Did you actually see me flamebaiting the guy(or girl)?

Edit:
I was just trying to lighten the tone and downplay the seriousness of that guy's(girl's) hate-spouting. I'm sorry I was taken so seriously.

If you feed the trolls you're just as likely to get warned/deleted yourself.


Is "Troll" a euphenism for something dirty? Otherwise I can't understand how merely feeding one can get you deleated. <Grin>

Is "Troll" a euphenism for something dirty? Otherwise I can't understand how merely feeding one can get you deleated. <Grin>

You're a smartass. I like that. Have a hug :hug:

im most definitely not gay.

although, i have taken part in several gay rallies, and im openly for gay marriage. my group of friends is VERY homoerotic, much to my girlfriends dismay; she thinks somehow ill turn gay with too much homoeroticism. im not gay, and i dont plan on ever going past the occasional grab-ass, etc. ;)

im most definitely not gay.

although, i have taken part in several gay rallies, and im openly for gay marriage. my group of friends is VERY homoerotic, much to my girlfriends dismay; she thinks somehow ill turn gay with too much homoeroticism. im not gay, and i dont plan on ever going past the occasional grab-ass, etc. ;)

Yeah, grab-ass is good. You're the kind of str8 guy every gay wants for a friend ;) Gay-friendly AND lets himself be grabbed. What more could we ask for? :D

Okay, good news everyone. I found out his name and that he's actually in grade 9. ;)

Depends what you mean by gay experiences. I'm straight, and I can't see myself ever being gay. It's nasty as hell in my opinion.

Still, I can put my arm around a guy's shoulder in jest, or dance with one to get laughs...or talk in that stereotypical lisp voice and say flaming cliche's...

But does that give me a gay experience? Probably not. As for things of a more sexual nature...fuck no...

You never cease to amaze me.

And your name --- I always think of that poem about the butterfly written by the idealistic moron in the concentration camp, and about how you're a cold metallic steel butterfly.

You've been found wanting of a capacity for compassionate and socially progressive thought one too many times in my opinoin, though your comments as per this thread were uncanningly tame.

If you feed the trolls you're just as likely to get warned/deleted yourself.

So... how did youuuu vote?

Okay, good news everyone. I found out his name and that he's actually in grade 9. ;)




Is he gay himself?

Yeah, grab-ass is good. You're the kind of str8 guy every gay wants for a friend ;) Gay-friendly AND lets himself be grabbed. What more could we ask for? :D

I'd be willing to makeout/oral sex. Ha! Beat that. You can't. :p


My mental state is dissolving. How can I be so straight and yet so willing/eager for a homosexual encounter?

The fantasies are there; the actual possibility of the situation is overwhelming and yet not in the slightest bit arousing.

I'm too sensitive for (penile) anal sex, and only wish to be with my girlfriend, and I have never ever had the urge to check out other guys in the locker room or bathroom. I don't get it. I just don't.
Maybe I'm just horny as fuck and simply a boring heterosexual, like Lunatic Goofballs was talking about.

Okay, good news everyone. I found out his name and that he's actually in grade 9. ;)

As much as I like a good ol' pic pass around, you must remember to respect his privacy et al. Seriously.
Not that I think you would intentionally, but I can understand how you might get carried away...

Guess I haven't really had a gay experience. Of course, I'm only 17 and still in a southern high school. Then again there was that one night when me and that one guy got really hammered... :eek: uh-oh

I'd be willing to makeout/oral sex. Ha! Beat that. You can't. :p


I'm certain you were not aware that I'm 100% gay when you made that statement, or else you wouldn't be trying to outdo me at gay sex stuff :p

I can beat that anytime, I've experienced anal sex(both sides of it) on more than a handful of occasions, even if I don't practice it frequently. You beat that! :D

I can beat that anytime, I've experienced anal sex(both sides of it) on more than a handful of occasions, even if I don't practice it frequently. You beat that! :D

Yeah, well, I gave a blow job at a Celine Dion concert! :O

:p

heh.

this forum seems to be a really open place. good, that.

i'm a 24 year old gay guy, so, um, yeah. i've had my share of man-love.

*grin*

i've actually had a couple of hetero experiences, too, even AFTER coming out, but, um, it was an accident. but kinda fun, nonetheless.

http://forumspam.articblue.nl/thread_related/thread_sucks/images/0768.jpg

Hehehe :p

Is he gay himself?

I hope so. ;)

Saipea - Don't have a pic of him and yeah, I agree, it's best to respect the kid's privacy.

"But I waaannnnt him" ;)

I'm a 20 year old native of "Freakin' Oklahoma City..." and am "mostly" gay. For some odd reason, whenever I try to out myself to someone, I can never really "commit" to being 100% out, even though there's not really anything that would make me linger like that. Maybe it's just the surroundings I've grown up with. But, I digress. On the present topic of discussion, I've only had a handful (heh) of gay experiences. Not going into detail (not my style, baby ;)), I'm usually not all that into sex for personal reasons.

Yeah.

...

:fluffle:

Ever had a homosexual experience? No. I tried once, just too see what would happen. I couldn't get it up at all. Even when I looked at hetero porn (which never fails to get me going) I wasn't aroused. I've also tried looking at ambiguous porn (anal sex where the recipient could be male or female) and the little man stayed asleep. And it's not like the only thing that'll get me going is the standard m/f combo either. I've been turned on by some really twisted anime shit but as soon as I see a dick in the wrong place I get all floppy. So to everyone who says that it's impossible to be 100% straight, explain how that works, if you can.

Not that I have anything against gays but you guys and gals should know better than to be dogmatic.

I'm a 1/2 open bisexual...and have had experiences on both sides. Supposedly bisexuality is one of the groups that have the fewest numbers just so you know. It seems to be more discriminated against amongst hetero and homo sexual people. There also is an unsurity as to where it can come from, from a medical point of view.

Unrelated question: I am female and I have a boyfriend right now, but I would like more experiences with females. I have been with him for over a year and this is killing him. He kind of feels as though he cannot completely fulfill me. Also, he gets really jealous. Any suggestions on how to deal with this without ruining everything (because I am in love with him)?

Any suggestions on how to deal with this without ruining everything (because I am in love with him)?

Offer him a threesome. Most guys would jump at the chance.

(Though I take it he's not interested?)

Maybe I'm just horny as fuck and simply a boring heterosexual, like Lunatic Goofballs was talking about.
You don't happen to live near Pittsburgh, do you? Lol. Sorry, couldn't resist.

My whole life. lol

Oh boy. Yes, I have many many many gay experiences. Some too X-rated to discuss. :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

http://forumspam.articblue.nl/thread_related/thread_sucks/images/0768.jpg

Hehehe :p


OMG MY EYES! IT BURNS!!! MY EEEEEEYES!!!!

:D

So to everyone who says that it's impossible to be 100% straight, explain how that works, if you can.

Not that I have anything against gays but you guys and gals should know better than to be dogmatic.

As far as I can tell, nobody ever said nobody was 100% straight. What I did read, is that most poeple are bisexual to a degree, and that 100% straight peeps are a minority, just like those who are 100% gay.

Now, wheter that's true or not is another story, and one that hasn't been documented.

The closest gay experience I've had is answering your questions.

The closest gay experience I've had is answering your questions.

That doesn't seem very gay to me. I hope you hit "no" on the poll.

Dude, they're talking about their sexual experiences because the starter of the thread ASKED THEM TO. Are you an all-inclusive prude? If there was a thread asking for heterosexual experiences, would you be calling them gross and telling them to keep it to themselves, or are you just sickened out by the thought of hot man love?

Or maybe the thought of two guys together all naked 'n sweaty kinda turns you on, and you want to appear as anti-gay as possible to compensate? What is it with this assumption that homophobes are all gay? I mean, where did it come from? I have friends who disapprove of homosexual things, but they are not gay. And - no: I'm not, either.

I'm just an all-inclusive prude.

That doesn't seem very gay to me. I hope you hit "no" on the poll.




It would be even funnier if he had such a warped sense of reality he clicked "yes".

What is it with this assumption that homophobes are all gay? I mean, where did it come from? I have friends who disapprove of homosexual things, but they are not gay. And - no: I'm not, either.

Studies have been done using the same apparatus used to identify pedophiles. Basically, they took a bunch of guys and interviewed them. THen they hooked up a sensor to the guy's penis and showed him erotic pictures of both men and women (along with a description of what he might do to them).

Men who professed that they were straight, but had no problem with homosexuals were generally only turned on by pictures of women.

Men who professed that they were straight and were homophobes were much, much more likely to be turned on by pictures of men.

Naturally, this does not mean that *all* homophobes are latent homosexuals, but it does point to the idea that many of them are.

ive had many gay experiances!!! i love the taste of women and men alike!!! mmmmmmmm :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

Studies have been done using the same apparatus used to identify pedophiles.

Woah woah woah woah. Does that mean everyone who doesn't like pedophiles is a pedophile?

Well I've never had a homosexual/homoerotic experience, and don't plan on it, but I definitely don't mind hearing stories, I think it's interesting. As for those who tell gay people to not do it in public...how would straight people feel if they were constantly ridiculed for holding hands or kissing on the street? I know me and my gf would be quite upset.

People need to get their heads out of their asses and realize that there's a big world out there filled with all sorts of amazingly different people.

On a side not...Fred Phelps was in my town (Madison, WI) a month ago. I was part of a large crowd that gave him a not-so-warm welcome. His hate-mongering may work in Kansas but we showed him that it has no place in my city.Hooray for you! :D

Woah woah woah woah. Does that mean everyone who doesn't like pedophiles is a pedophile?

No. The same *methods* (measuring physiological changes as compared to self-reporting of arousal) that were used to test the pedophiles were used to test the the homophobes.

My friend is supporting me in my quest for the best!

Haha, sorry, had to say it.

Woah woah woah woah. Does that mean everyone who doesn't like pedophiles is a pedophile?

No, the only way that would be is if those who said they didn't like pedophiles got turned on by pictures of little children.

Perhaps you should read the whole post before making yourself look stupid?

*Bump*

Bump

Here it is! I've been looking for this topic all over...

Super-duper-uber-please-don't-ban-me-for-grave-digging-Bump!


Oh, and Dempublicents, bite me!
(lagged response: 6 months)

Okay, since it's the hottest topic on the threads, I'm curious as to this results of this poll. Need I say, I'm counting mutual masturbation and casual cocksucking in there too.
And drunken, hazy experiences.

Have you ever had a homosexual experience?

EDIT: no fun w/out details. Gives girls a loophole (Thanks Tink!)
I haven't had any sexual experience because I question my own level of emotional maturity.

I have on several occassions usually after drinking too much made out with girls. Most of whom I had never bet before. I made out with one girl on top of a coffe table with a whole bunch of people watching and filming. The end.

Well... bisexual here. So of course I had homosexual experiences with other girls. I love it...

Openly bisexual and happy with it! :p :fluffle: :D

I'm an openly bisexual teen, however I haven't had more of an experience with making out at the occasional concert.

yup, im a lesbian

Waaaa! Why do I have to be settling down so young, and so untapped?
hehe. tapped.

I worry if I'll never get a homosexual experience.

Waaaa! Why do I have to be settling down so young, and so untapped?
hehe. tapped.

I worry if I'll never get a homosexual experience.

We are willing to be of assistance.

yup, im a lesbian

Except for your DNA?

I haven't had a serious gay experience. I'm a guy who has kissed other guys, but only while drunk and as an american pie 2 thing, the girls do something, the guys do something, none of the other guys would kiss each other so i did. I licked lemon curd of some guys stomach in the same night too, as part of the same situation (no one else would do it). I've often thought about homosexual acts in a vaguely curious way, but the thought of actually doing it makes me uncomfortable, but at the same time i'm still curious.

I haven't had a serious gay experience. I'm a guy who has kissed other guys, but only while drunk and as an american pie 2 thing, the girls do something, the guys do something, none of the other guys would kiss each other so i did. I licked lemon curd of some guys stomach in the same night too, as part of the same situation (no one else would do it). I've often thought about homosexual acts in a vaguely curious way, but the thought of actually doing it makes me uncomfortable, but at the same time i'm still curious.
Bicurious boy. How cute! :D

I haven't had any sexual experience because I question my own level of emotional maturity.

Same here, but add the fact that I don't know anybody... And the fact that I rarely get out of the house. Haha.

However, I seriously doubt I'll ever have a "gay experience". I just don't feel that way about other guys.

Except for your DNA?
like i needed reminding :p

I have never had a gay experience. In fact, I'm almost mindnumbingly straight. The closest I have ever come to doing anything remotely gay are a few sexual fantasies involving Kaworu Nagisa.

like i needed reminding :p

Sorry. Not actively tying to be mean.

Nope, never have.

Sorry. Not actively tying to be mean.
dont worry about it like

No. Not me. Never. To quote Al Murray ('the pub landlord'):

"I was never confused!Never!Captain of the football team..."

Well, nothing I'd say to you guys. You're creepy :D

I didn´t do a thing..I had it done to me,lol :p

:D lol.


Never had any0 gay experiences along the lines of what you guys seem to be talking about, just some awkward moments, really. :) Along the lines of:

"Please move that hand away from there.Thank you."

Did I murder this thread?

*cleans knife*

Nope, but I definitely wouldn't mind one...

Especially with Kaworu Nagisa, oh wait, if he were real, that would be bad, third impact and all.

Nope, but I definitely wouldn't mind one...

We are willing to be of assistance.

For me it was being raped by my father and his friends when I was growing up. Spent some time in an orphanage. My first experience was there with another girl. It was mostly out of loneliness that I did so and having no one else at the time. It felt so right and I have been lesbian since. I have never been with a man willing.

For me it was being raped by my father and his friends when I was growing up. Spent some time in an orphanage. My first experience was there with another girl. It was mostly out of loneliness that I did so and having no one else at the time. It felt so right and I have been lesbian since. I have never been with a man willing.

Oh, dear. That sucks. Thank you for sharing.

Yes. All of them. Too many fun stories to pick from.

I agree with Vassileum! and I am not Bicurious!!! I am straight and uphold the nation's inhabitant level!!!

So you gays and bis or whatever the fuck you are can just quietly go and do whatever you need to to keep happy and not go on about it in public. Clear?

I think it's disgusting to go on about your sexual habits in public. I wouldn't

:upyours:
sorry, this isnt "public." its a private forum open to everyone. it is owned by jolt. (as in private property)

We are willing to be of assistance.

LOL Fass

I appreciate the offer ;)

Sorry, whats "Friends of Dorothy"?
From a friend of durruti! Anarcho-Queers unite! lol
Today in Sao Paulo was the gay parade, but i didnt go, already had plans with my friends.

No, never had one.

But I notice that bisexuality seems to be more prevalent among women than men, according to the unscientific NS measure.

I consider myself hetero, but I had a fairly long affair with a woman. I find that to become sexually interested in another woman, I have to love her first. To become sexually interested in a man, all I have to do is look. :D

Its also hard to look at a man and feel an intense fear over and still be sexually attracted to them.

And besides woman smell better, are softer and have nicer looking parts.

Its also hard to look at a man and feel an intense fear over and still be sexually attracted to them.

And besides woman smell better, are softer and have nicer looking parts.

lol, no comment.. I'm a straight male & can't deny just how cool our parts are. :cool:

I'm pretty open to sexuality of all kinds, maybe even a little Bi curious, even though I've only been with women. But I've already been offended reading this thread. Labeling a hypocrit a white supremist is stereotypical, as many religions and cultures also disagree with homosexuality. I'm a mix you could say, but predominantly white, and by constantly stereotyping or insulting people you are no better then they are. Don't fight a republican like a republican because you won't win. They've been doing it for years and you'll end up just as condemned as them. :rolleyes:

I have had many a gay experience, due to the fact i am gay lol, but have loved every minute of it!

Also to point out lesbianism was an accepted part of life in many ancient cultures of thousands of years. It was only with the advent of the monotheistic faiths. Which in my opinion where created to rebel against the current ways (as all children do ). And they needed to make themselve different so they banned in their faiths that which was common.

Lesbianism was at its height on the island of Lesbos. And the poet Sapphos and the term Sapphic love. The Helenistic period of Greece was its height. Let us not forget acient Egypt and many other faiths that had such things in it.

I tend to kiss guys when I'm drunk, and dance with them, but I don't tell some fo my friends because I get enough shit about being gay. I'm a slightly bi-guy with gay interests. In front of my friends I pretend to be metrosexual ;)

I am a guy living in a gay relationship with another guy for 3 1/2 years now. I've never had sex with a girl, but I did kiss a fag hag while pretending to be her BF so she could get rid of some football yobbos that were bothering her.

Yes. All of them. Too many fun stories to pick from.

Hey Gay Man Land, nice to see you out and about outside of Wysteria.

Hmmm...I know a fair number of gay folks, and I have been in the company of some, but have never had an actual gay experience myself. I was at a gay "awards show" once where a gay guy actually kissed me. I didn't kiss back. Also, a while later I was at a gay bar having dinner, and a gay man hit on me while I was in the bathroom. I didn't realize I was being hit on at the time. Of course, I might have been the only straight guy at both events...I was also likely the best dressed at both, ironically.

For me it was being raped by my father and his friends when I was growing up. Spent some time in an orphanage. My first experience was there with another girl. It was mostly out of loneliness that I did so and having no one else at the time. It felt so right and I have been lesbian since. I have never been with a man willing.
Okay, thanks for the positivity!

Nope. Never had a sexual experience with ANYONE. I am bi, and would love to have a gay experience, but I wanna get married to a girl.

Let's drop you on a deserted island with Johnny Depp, and I guarantee within 3 months you'll be playing "Pirates" with him...you'll be hoisting his mizenmast something fierce, boy.

Ewww, why does everyone think Johnny Depp is hot?

In answer to the thread, yes. I went out with a girl at the end of 7th grade, though the most we did was kiss on the lips and she sit with her head in my lap while we watched SpongeBob. In the beginning of 8th grade, had I not found out in time that she did drugs, I probably would have gone out with and likely made out with another girl. Since then I haven't crushed on or done anything with any girls - I guess my gayest spell ended after 13. I'm finishing 9th grade now. I still occasionally fantasize about it though, even now that I have a great boyfriend and all.

Ewww, why does everyone think Johnny Depp is hot?


You must be a lesbian. :p

Ewww, why does everyone think Johnny Depp is hot?

In answer to the thread, yes. I went out with a girl at the end of 7th grade, though the most we did was kiss on the lips and she sit with her head in my lap while we watched SpongeBob. In the beginning of 8th grade, had I not found out in time that she did drugs, I probably would have gone out with and likely made out with another girl. Since then I haven't crushed on or done anything with any girls - I guess my gayest spell ended after 13. I'm finishing 9th grade now. I still occasionally fantasize about it though, even now that I have a great boyfriend and all.

Johhny Depp issssssss hot... can you say, Pirates of the Carribean (http://www.topdownloads.net/yahoo/images/1092420672.jpg)? I looooooooove pirates. :fluffle:

Have you ever had a homosexual experience?

Does watching Big Brother count? :p

I went out with a guy for about nine months. It wans't great. We were really good friends and he got me drunk when he asked me out though i probably would've said the same thing to him anyway, which was vaguely "Yeah ok, let's give it a try". I figured "what the hell" and went for it. Went well for a while, but we moved so fucking slowly, and eventually i just started to move away from the things that had made us such close thigns in the first place. He was still cmap-tastic and I was turning into a conservative bastard instead of the ecofeminist nut he'd fallen for. In the end we broke up badly and I lost him a s a friend. Not good.

I went out with a guy for about nine months. It wans't great. We were really good friends and he got me drunk when he asked me out though i probably would've said the same thing to him anyway, which was vaguely "Yeah ok, let's give it a try". I figured "what the hell" and went for it. Went well for a while, but we moved so fucking slowly, and eventually i just started to move away from the things that had made us such close thigns in the first place. He was still cmap-tastic and I was turning into a conservative bastard instead of the ecofeminist nut he'd fallen for. In the end we broke up badly and I lost him a s a friend. Not good.

Would you have stuck with him if it was not for political stuff?

Can't say I have, not that I haven't been offered.

ok I live and work in Brighton...

am co-ordinating one of the floats for this years Pride march (watch out for Batman on the University and youth float)

work in charles street and Envy nightclub (queer bars for the un-enlightened)

write a regular column for a local queer rag

am a committee member and vice-president of the University LGBT group, my personal area is events and entertainments...

yes I may have had one or two gay experiences :rolleyes:

and no you are *not* getting details because I can't remember all their names let alone all the details!!

Its good to see that there are quite a few gay and bi people here on nationstates. I am single at the moment, having just broke up with my boyfriend, but i have good powers of seduction (or so people have said lol) ;-), so i don't expect to stay single for very long!

Oh, as an addition, I don't hit on guys much. Except, I do hit on my (attractive) hetero friend, not as a sexual thing, it's just funny cause he doesn't notice.

Well since this is a subject I find interesting, and I see we have a lot of does this count, and what about this I'll fill in my blanks.

Yes, I myself have had multiple "gay experiences" as you may call them. My first was with a friend, Kevin. It was a handjob, which I did to him. No offense to the guy but he does have a small pecker indeed.

Next was a good friend of my brother, Bill. He was different, he was one of those country farm boys that usually only came into town to go to school. First it started simply as "peeking" and "talking" with him, but eventually I conviced him to allow me to engage in "oral entertainment" (for those who preffer a different word". I must admit this went on for some time, a good 6 months. He'd come over to visit, the asked to sleep over (we are young at this point) and he'd always end up in my room. :mp5:

It was funny, he would always use the excuse "But i'm not gay", but very often engaged in "oral entertainment". As I mentioned this went on for a few months, during this time I tryed to convince him to try...."Going into the holland tunnel :eek: " (if you know what I mean).

It did take some convinceing for him to do so, but eventually we did get around to it, and must admit it was a different feeling. Never being that close to someone before, I was comfortable with the warmth of body being in such a close embrace (Not in the Holland tunnel). But the fact that I could be that close to someone, and they did not push away, did not say stop.

People brag about haveing sex, bang this girl, banging the guy...sleeping with that sheep :eek:, I enjoy sex as well mind you. But the feeling of holding him close, the warmth of our bodys togather, that's worth more to me then all the sex you people have put togather.

Now if you aren't sick by this, or haven't done a instant hate / flame / insult responce I'll point out a fact I have not mentioned.

Am I 100% gay? to be honest, I don't know. I still would like to have children, I still enjoy sex with the women that I do sleep with. But to be honest, I don't know if I can say I was ever in love. Sure someone will say it's a guy thing "Wham Bam thank you ma'am", but when you break it down it's two different things.

Sex with someone
or
Being with someone

I'd rather be with someone, gay or not. ;)

Awww, that's just so nice.
Though it seem highly unlikly I choose to believe as I find sex more mechanical and could just do it myself.
I too believe in being with someone just of the emotion and the warmth, just nice to cuddle and love.
Though I doubt many people share my view I just liked your post too much to let it be lost in the pages.

Would you have stuck with him if it was not for political stuff?
Don't know really. Probably not, it was really all we talked about. :-/

Being gay, I admit... I had approx. 20 sexual partners in my life so far. None had any STD - thank god :p

Technically, no.

The closest I've come to a "lesbian experience" was when this really hot chick rubbed her hand along my thigh when I hugged her (and, yes, I know that it was on purpose).

Though I doubt many people share my view I just liked your post too much to let it be lost in the pages.
I dunno, NS general posters are a pretty open minded lot on the whole. I know i share that view. At the end of the day, it's the love that counts, not the sexual intercourse, or the gender for that matter. :fluffle:

I love watching the little homophobes squirm at the talk of gay experiences. They're so funny.

As for the opening question no, and I probably never will.

I dunno, NS general posters are a pretty open minded lot on the whole. I know i share that view. At the end of the day, it's the love that counts, not the sexual intercourse, or the gender for that matter. :fluffle:

Agreed. I'm a bi-boy that usually gets in trouble for not wanting "wham bam, what was your name, ma'am?". I've got friendships where we cuddle and snuggle and kiss but no sex and I like it like that. :) I like the sex too, but if I don't already know you and feel comfortable with you, get your f***ing hands outta my pants before I hurt you. :D Sex without the friendship always just ends up not being worth it in the long run.

I have had an exparience, in fact, several.

first off i consider myself one hundred percent straight,

though my friend and i sometimes at eachothers houses look at porn and jack off together.but this one time We started to "beat our meat" together and he pulled the ruler out. We measured each other, he sort of teased me because his was bigger, then asked me to do it for him, i said no, but it was definately a homosexual experience. It's creeped me out since, and i've felt uncomfortable around him since. I know he's not gay, cause he's got a gf and has had plenty of others, and so have I. But the incident really bothers me...

The closest I ever came was slapping the easter bunny's ass at the mall in Washington, DC. Or my friend giving me a piggy back ride through the school on the last day. Or hitting on this one kid because I lost a bet.

No experiences so far, but I hope I can muster up the courage to try it some time. I know for a fact that I'm a bit bisexual, but I don't know if I'm bi enough to be in relationship with a man.

I've never understood the obsession with Johnny Depp (even though I like pirates too), but if I had to make a list of the ten people I'd most like to have sex with, I'm pretty sure Brad Pitt would be there somewhere.

Lucy Liu would still be number one though.

No.

But.. When I was in my low teens, myself and a girlfriend of mine use to practice kissing with each other. I read later that is was very common for our age (to practice).. so I shrugged it off.

I could never be attracted to a woman's p****. I think they are nasty!
.. all except mine ofcourse.



When I fantasize .. I think about a man .. he is my husband...clean ( hygenically and No diseases! ) and I can do anything I want to to him and not have to worry. I imagine that we are each others own and no one will interfere with us.. so I am uninhibited. My favorite thing is going down on him.

Oh, good, this thread was resurrected.

I cannot think of anything much more repulsive than going down on a man.

Excuse me whilst I have a primary school moment.

Ewww eww eww!! Gross gross GROSS!!!

Bleeergh, bogies, lurgies, YUCK!!!!!!

:p

Okay, since it's the hottest topic on the threads, I'm curious as to this results of this poll. Need I say, I'm counting mutual masturbation and casual cocksucking in there too.
And drunken, hazy experiences.

Have you ever had a homosexual experience?

EDIT: no fun w/out details. Gives girls a loophole (Thanks Tink!)
I have dated three women and had a brief encounter with two other women. Two of these relationships never progressed past second base, but the others went "all the way." I have learned that I really like women's bodies, and in some very special cases I may even like women as friends, but I absolutely cannot stand having romantic relationships with women. They're just nuts.

And then what... I'm really, really listening...

So thats why you created this topic, you pervirt.