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Okay, since it's the hottest topic on the threads, I'm curious as to this results of this poll. Need I say, I'm counting mutual masturbation and casual cocksucking in there too.
And drunken, hazy experiences.

Have you ever had a homosexual experience?

EDIT: no fun w/out details. Gives girls a loophole (Thanks Tink!)

Yes.

Yeah, I was the first yes. I kissed a guy once, but it got me into bed with a lesbian and her bisexual girlfriend. I now feel as if I have reason to post my opinions in these numerous gay threads, being 1% Gay.

*swishes swizzles*

I thought you said don't give details.

when i was about 11 a girl came on to me whilst we were swimming on holiday in Morcambe, it grossed me out then, but then about a year ago (i think) i ended up snogging the face off another girl when i was a little bit tipsy, she was a very good kisser

I have been hit on by several gay guys and went a gay bar with one of them to pick up chicks. I don't think that counts.

Tinks, how old was this girl when you were 11?

I thought you said don't give details.

No, I asked you not to give details. I thought it would be arrogant to post the thread without giving my details.
In all seriousness, give details if you're secure enough with your sexuality.

No, I asked you not to give details. I thought it would be arrogant to post the thread without giving my details.
In all seriousness, give details if you're secure enough with your sexuality.

Well, I'm pretty openly bisexual. I've had sex with men before. If it can be done, it's likely I've done it.

when i was about 11 a girl came on to me whilst we were swimming on holiday in Morcambe, it grossed me out then, but then about a year ago (i think) i ended up snogging the face off another girl when i was a little bit tipsy, she was a very good kisser
And then what... I'm really, really listening...

Tinks, how old was this girl when you were 11?she was also 11 i think

And then what... I'm really, really listening...i'll leave that to your imagination ;)

Does watching one's girlfriend 'snog' another girl count?

Oh, and I also had a girlfriend switch teams on me.

DON4T GIVE DETAILS!!! Makes me queasy to think of it!!! :mp5: :sniper: :gundge:

i'll leave that to your imagination ;)
I never said I had one of those!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

DON4T GIVE DETAILS!!! Makes me queasy to think of it!!! :mp5: :sniper: :gundge:

Then go the fuck away, child.

Does watching one's girlfriend 'snog' another girl count?

Oh, and I also had a girlfriend switch teams on me.

No, you don't qualify. It just means you should improve on your heteroskills dude.

I consider myself blatantly OMNIsexual...if it moves, and doesn't have a tail, I'm there. Sex is...sex. As long as you are a hot patootie, you have my attention.

The best of both worlds...a shemale!

I never said I had one of those!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!well then, that's your problem :p

No, you don't qualify. It just means you should improve on your heteroskills dude.

haha...point taken.

well then, that's your problem :p
See??? You ARE a maneater!

I've had far too many to count.
DON4T GIVE DETAILS!!! Makes me queasy to think of it!!! :mp5: :sniper: :gundge:
Ummm...then why are you viewing this thread?

I've had far too many to count.

Ummm...then why are you viewing this thread?

He's just BiCurious. It's okay.

He's just BiCurious. It's okay.
At the very least...lol.

See??? You ARE a maneater!well i don't think that's necassarily a bad thing (for me anway)

well i don't think that's necassarily a bad thing (for me anway)
mmmmm... depends on how you eat us.

I consider myself blatantly OMNIsexual...if it moves, and doesn't have a tail, I'm there. Sex is...sex. As long as you are a hot patootie, you have my attention.

The best of both worlds...a shemale!
Let me get to work on that perpetual motion machine....

NO, and newer will!
It's sick, degenerative and dissgusting. :mp5:

I consider myself blatantly OMNIsexual...if it moves, and doesn't have a tail, I'm there. Sex is...sex. As long as you are a hot patootie, you have my attention.

hahahaha, you're being too discriminative with the no tail requirement!! I'm happy if it has two legs (at least, n no more than 4)

NO, and newer will!
It's sick, degenerative and dissgusting. :mp5:

Let's drop you on a deserted island with Johnny Depp, and I guarantee within 3 months you'll be playing "Pirates" with him...you'll be hoisting his mizenmast something fierce, boy.

NO, and newer will!
It's sick, degenerative and dissgusting. :mp5:
Oooh, someone has a chip on his shoulder.

I was taken on a night out to a gay club once. Thats the closest I've been to a gay experience.

Let's drop you on a deserted island with Johnny Depp, and I guarantee within 3 months you'll be playing "Pirates" with him...you'll be hoisting his mizenmast something fierce, boy.

BAHAHAHAA

*chokes* :D :D


As for the subject of the thread, no.

NO, and newer will!
It's sick, degenerative and dissgusting. :mp5:

I respect your views on homosexuality, but is the smily really necessary? It does make you look a little bit silly.

I agree with Vassileum! and I am not Bicurious!!! I am straight and uphold the nation's inhabitant level!!!

So you gays and bis or whatever the fuck you are can just quietly go and do whatever you need to to keep happy and not go on about it in public. Clear?

I think it's disgusting to go on about your sexual habits in public. I wouldn't

:upyours:

Being bisexual, and currently in a gay relationship, I suppose you could say I've had an "experience" or two. *rolls eyes and grins*

NO, and newer will!
It's sick, degenerative and dissgusting. :mp5:

This coming from a dude who fashioned himself VASSILEUM!??!?
RoFL000o<3!!1111111

Does watching and actually enjoying a two hours gay pr0n movie coun´t as "Gay Experience"?

By gay experience do you mean the fact that I have had sex with my girlfriends before or do you mean the fact that I've been in a fully participatory three way with two bisexual guys? Either way, yes.

I don't want to get too detailed because I think it's a bit too graphic, but my first "experience" came with a (straight?) married guy. The strange thing about it was he made the first move. He might have been bi-curious. Let's just say there was some *interesting* stuff going on.

I'm a lesbian and I have the hottest girlfriend in existence. As for details... Well I can get her off in about two minutes with my hand, and I can do it at least six times in a row. And she thinks I "taste" good...

As for homophobes... I don't get it. If it doesn't affect you, why do you care? And as far as being disgusted by the contents of this thread... It should be pretty obvious what it is by the subject. Why are you reading it?

Get outta my thread, beotches! :D

well i don't think that's necassarily a bad thing (for me anway)

Not for me either ;)

've always enjoyed being eaten. :fluffle: :fluffle: :D

By gay experience do you mean the fact that I have had sex with my girlfriends before or do you mean the fact that I've been in a fully participatory three way with two bisexual guys? Either way, yes.

I think I love you.

Well I've never had a homosexual/homoerotic experience, and don't plan on it, but I definitely don't mind hearing stories, I think it's interesting. As for those who tell gay people to not do it in public...how would straight people feel if they were constantly ridiculed for holding hands or kissing on the street? I know me and my gf would be quite upset.

People need to get their heads out of their asses and realize that there's a big world out there filled with all sorts of amazingly different people.

On a side not...Fred Phelps was in my town (Madison, WI) a month ago. I was part of a large crowd that gave him a not-so-warm welcome. His hate-mongering may work in Kansas but we showed him that it has no place in my city.

I agree with Vassileum! and I am not Bicurious!!! I am straight and uphold the nation's inhabitant level!!!

I think it's disgusting to go on about your sexual habits in public. I wouldn't

:upyours:

Uhm, YOU just told us YOUR sexual habits...in public.

Yes I have. I could write a book.

weeeeeeeeell,

being full-blooded gay (lol, just a joke...meands i never done anything with a girl - perish the thought!!) i wouldn't mind giving mah two cents/pence/euro cents worth, lol.

gay is fun. bi is fun. straight is fun.

BIGOTRY IS DEFINITELY NOT FUN.

If you dont have enough sense to steer clear when the title of the thread contains the words "gay experience" - you're just a dick :)

personally, ive had enough of not being able to hold my boyfriend's hand in public because he is too scared of being bashed to bloody pieces by some right-wing thug with an insecurity about his own homosexuality. if you can do things like hold hands in public - and this i address to the multitude of right-wing, straight-laced, haters of the Friends of Dorothy - "git off yer aryan horse and git yerself a darn life thar, freend"...

as for gay experiences? you betcha. lots. and lots. :D

easy-going people of the world REJOICE! hehe

* Friend of Dorothy since I was a sparkle in my daddy's eye and an egglet in mah momma's belly * p.s. - i'm a racial mongrel too, if that gets yer angry enough :D

I listened to a Madonna song once. Does that count?

gay is fun. bi is fun. straight is fun.

BIGOTRY IS DEFINITELY NOT FUN.

Fuck yeah and well said!

What I enjoy about sex is getting my partner OFF - it doesn't matter to me if they're the owner/operator of an 'innie', or an 'outie', just so long as I don't have to sleep on a wet spot.

mmmmm... depends on how you eat us.with lots of chocolate sauce and whipped cream ;)

Not for me either ;)

've always enjoyed being eaten. :fluffle: :fluffle: :Dwell that's good, i have a rather large appetite ;)

:fluffle: :fluffle:

well that's good, i have a rather large appetite ;)

:fluffle: :fluffle:

say... do you know the difference between a sandwich and a blow job Tink?

say... do you know the difference between a sandwich and a blow job Tink?

It could be fun, you me the contents of a fridge.... ;)

say... do you know the difference between a sandwich and a blow job Tink? sandwiches taste nicer but they're not as grateful

It could be fun, you me the contents of a fridge.... ;)*licks lips*

sandwiches taste nicer but they're not as grateful
dammit! you guys are too difficult!!

youre supposed to say... "hmmm I dont know??"

to which I reply... "Oh? lets go back to my place for a sandwich then..."

It could be fun, you me the contents of a fridge.... ;)
ummm, ok, well, Ive got to try everything, Ill get the whipped cream and cinnamon.

I pointed out that I was straight, which is very different from giving a graphic account of what I have done with girls. Incidentally, I have never had a girlfriend. Nor sex, and therefore do not go on about my sexual experiences in public...

well that's good, i have a rather large appetite ;)

:fluffle: :fluffle:

Aww, that's so cute :)

Aww, that's so cute :)it is? :confused:

dammit! you guys are too difficult!!

youre supposed to say... "hmmm I dont know??"

to which I reply... "Oh? lets go back to my place for a sandwich then..."yeah, i've heard it like a million times though

I pointed out that I was straight, which is very different from giving a graphic account of what I have done with girls. Incidentally, I have never had a girlfriend. Nor sex, and therefore do not go on about my sexual experiences in public...

Wouldn't that make you asexual, rather than heterosexual?



In answer to the question at the start of the thread, no I haven't had a homosexual experience.

Dude, they're talking about their sexual experiences because the starter of the thread ASKED THEM TO. Are you an all-inclusive prude? If there was a thread asking for heterosexual experiences, would you be calling them gross and telling them to keep it to themselves, or are you just sickened out by the thought of hot man love?

Or maybe the thought of two guys together all naked 'n sweaty kinda turns you on, and you want to appear as anti-gay as possible to compensate?

yeah, i've heard it like a million times though

Im so lame :(

it is? :confused:

:) I'm just kiddin. But yea, I've had gay experiences. I am bisexual. Haven't really done much with girls, but I've been with guys.

Im so lame :(yeah but that's along with like a million other guys and i do usually go along with it anyway

yeah but that's along with like a million other guys and i do usually go along with it anyway
I always hoped I was a little better than the average bear boo boo! :(

I hope this don't sound odd because I try to be as equal and understanding as I can humanly be. But I find an absolute attraction to the shape of a woman in their entirety. I understand my wife in the sense that I can see men as good looking people but sexually I just don't have it there for some reason. I mean the scent the taste the touch and the sight of a woman is something I can never see being better. They are perfect if you ask me. Although I will also add that I would do absolutly anything (anything) for my wife and as long as I found she was pleased I would be as well.

No, and never will. Silly thread! Why the f*ck posting polls on people's sexual habits? I don't care about that and never thought to some "hetero pride day"! Gays should just live their sexuality as straight people do, without creating cases, that's it. :headbang:

I always hoped I was a little better than the average bear boo boo! :(but you're the sexiest out of all the lame gys in the world (or the ones i've met anyway)

I hope this don't sound odd because I try to be as equal and understanding as I can humanly be. But I find an absolute attraction to the shape of a woman in their entirety. I understand my wife in the sense that I can see men as good looking people but sexually I just don't have it there for some reason. I mean the scent the taste the touch and the sight of a woman is something I can never see being better. They are perfect if you ask me. Although I will also add that I would do absolutly anything (anything) for my wife and as long as I found she was pleased I would be as well.

Nothing odd there, bro. Go with what the groin says, and if it's "women only" then more power to ya!

No, and never will. Silly thread! Why the f*ck posting polls on people's sexual habits? I don't care about that and never thought to some "hetero pride day"! Gays should just live their sexuality as straight people do, without creating cases, that's it. :headbang:
By the way i support gay relationships if both chicks are REALLY hot! ;)

I pointed out that I was straight, which is very different from giving a graphic account of what I have done with girls. Incidentally, I have never had a girlfriend. Nor sex, and therefore do not go on about my sexual experiences in public...People like you DEMAND gays "keep their stuff in their bedroom" yet you go out and flaunt your relationships with your girlfriends/wives.

"I'll take a main course of bigotry with a side order of hypocrisy to go."

I think gay people should be out there making a fuss about inequalities that they are subject to. Without people seeking equality in every form another shares, we would still have slaves from people of different colors and women in general. So I say rise up and stand up for what you know is right, equality.

Keep it in your bedrooms lol... when it comes to it illkeep it where ever the hell i like, and do.

Gay experiences... numerous and varied... O.o... some substancially better than others.

And as for the astute Faithfull-Freedom, you're very right.

but not that I'd be averse if it just happened to happen someday. Let's just say I'm not out looking for it and in a stable relationship with a woman right now, but you never know what the future holds so I'm not going to be averse to what I don't know will or won't happen.

(Is that a way of saying I'm like 5% curious and 100% non-homophobe but with too many words?)

No, and never will. Silly thread! Why the f*ck posting polls on people's sexual habits? I don't care about that and never thought to some "hetero pride day"! Gays should just live their sexuality as straight people do, without creating cases, that's it. :headbang:

Yeah, it'd be nice to live my sexuality as straight people do - hold hands, go to prom, get married. But unfortunately, I can't, because of the government and people who discriminate against gays. Why are there Gay Pride events? Because too much of our lives are spent being afraid to hold hands with a boyfriend, or to let people at work know that we're gay. Gay Pride isn't about flaunting your sexuality, it's about being proud of who you are.
And why have a post on gay experiences? To show that even some straight people have experimented, to show people that what we consider "normal" isn't really normal at all. So that people don't have to be ashamed of who they are or what they do.
That's why.

No, and never will. Silly thread! Why the f*ck posting polls on people's sexual habits? I don't care about that and never thought to some "hetero pride day"! Gays should just live their sexuality as straight people do, without creating cases, that's it. :headbang:

Of course you don't have hetero pride day; you don't need it. Gey people like me create "cases" about being gay because they can't go stay with their partners in hospitals when they're sick, because if one of them dies they have no inhertence rights, because they can't have each others insurance, because they can't hold hands in public, blah blah blah the list goes on and on...

Straight people get all this with a $30 marriage license. The equivalent legal documents for a gay couple would be more than $3000.

You have to have pride to overcome the sense of shame society tries to place on gay relationships!

*snip* ...hot man love?

Or maybe the thought of two guys together all naked 'n sweaty kinda turns you on... *snip*

Hmmm, two guys together, naked and sweaty.... hot man love... *drools* :P

In all seriousness, I've had plenty of gay experiences with my (ex) boyfriend with whom I spent three years. Gay sex is good. So is hetero sex, or so I've heard. I really wouldn't know about it.

Me and my girlfriend have no shame at all. Lucky for us we're girls, not guys - society is easier on us because they have a disgusting misconception of lesbianism pounded into their heads by the media and the porn industry. Still, we get a lot of shit sometimes. It horrifies me to think of all the terrible things that happen to people in less liberal areas than where I live, especially to men. I've cried myself to sleep many a night thinking about it, actually.

The two of us plan on moving to Canada sometime in the future so we can get married someday, and be able to visit each other in the hospital as we grow old and sick. Conservatives are nothing but frightened children with too much power and a stubborn resolve to remain as ignorant as possible.

*most homophobes are really afraid of the homosexual tendencies they see inside themselves*

Okay I'm done ranting for now...

You have to have pride to overcome the sense of shame society tries to place on gay relationships!

I agree. You have to have pride (righteous) to overcome the sense of shame (self-righteous pride) a soceity tries to place upon people of different preferences.

People like you make kittens cry.

People like him makes me pity them.

Way to many times to count really.

But I'll since we're supposed to give details I'll go with my first time, which was when I was 16 w/ a fellow dancer (ballet, not that OTHER dancing) friend of mine. Her name was Galina and we ended up dating after this "experience".

I had gone over to her apartment to help her with a little party she was throwing, and before everyone else got there, we had a little fun of our own :)

I had gay fantasies about the time I hit puberty. I never really dated much, but then I met my partner in high school. We've been together ever since. 7 years and running!

BTW, I'm the bottom of the relationship, and we do it all the time. Don't knock it 'til you try it!

I would say we need to :gundge: all the ignorant white trash in the world, but I'm not that mean. I have respect for people's lives, no matter how stupid they are.

Boon Nation = Pride White Dutch

:mad: SO FUCKING GROSS!!!

GD :fluffle: :sniper: i am 100% hetero
And We need to :gundge: all the gays
Are they sick ore something, something must have gone wrong we they were born.

Those dirty ass fuckers, if a gay come close to me I put something for my ass so i can't be fucked by a dirty assfucker (put something for your ass and you will get this :eek: :headbang: :upyours: ;)

So don't ever try ass fuckers.

and don't dare you ever join my region of White Pride
(all other white hetero people are welcom.

Well, he's got me convinced. It must be all those smilies. They make what he says seem so mature and well thought out...

Hate to break it to you bad boy, but no one is 100% hetero, no matter how hard they believe it. We're not sick, and nothing went wrong.

I wouldn't want to f**k your ass, because it probably is dirty. Since you don't know more than two uses for it (taking a crap, and posting your thoughts), you probably don't keep it clean.

Doesn't it burn you up that I have twice the chance for a date on Friday night that you have?


Don't sell yourself short, they way he's talking youve got at least 2000% better chances

I was travelling through Europe with a couple of friends and we stopped in Edinburgh for a few days. We were doing the Rose Street pub crawl and decided to stop at one last bar before we went back to the hostel. We sat down at the bar and ordered beers. While we were waiting, we took a look around and realized it was a gay bar. Not wanting to create the wrong impression, we decided to finish our beers and leave. So there I was drinking my beer when I turn to the right and see some guy hitting on my one friend. Then I turn to my left to see a different guy hitting on my other friend. Now, not to brag, but Im waaaay better looking than either of those two so, needless to say, I was a little offended that I wasnt getting hit on (not that Id reciprocate, but still.....).
So I told my buddies to hurry up so we could leave. If I wasnt going to get free drinks out of the deal, I sure as hell wasnt going to hang out in a gay bar.

Way to many times to count really.

But I'll since we're supposed to give details I'll go with my first time, which was when I was 16 w/ a fellow dancer (ballet, not that OTHER dancing) friend of mine. Her name was Galina and we ended up dating after this "experience".

I had gone over to her apartment to help her with a little party she was throwing, and before everyone else got there, we had a little fun of our own :)

:eek: got pics of that? :eek:

hee hee hee!!! :D

Never have a likely never will. I won't judge people based on that though. I have had a gay guy hit on me but I didn't know he was gay at the time.

Never have a likely never will. I won't judge people based on that though. I have had a gay guy hit on me but I didn't know he was gay at the time.
What? Did you just think he was trying to measure your inseam?

What? Did you just think he was trying to measure your inseam?



I thought he was disabled. Now I realize he was just gay. He actually spent a half and hour chasing after my friend, very creepy.

I haven't ever, but have nothing against them

But not narrow. No, I have never had a sexual experience with another woman, but I have had at least one homosexual thought... wondering what it would be like to lay my head on a very well-endowed woman’s chest.

On the other hand, male/male stuff turns me on. I love Yaoi (male/male japanese anime), and have even seen an all-male porno movie (back when I was 14).

Incidentally, I am all for Gay marriage. I laugh when I think that divorces threaten straight marriage more than gay marriages do!
:D

I'm straight and have been with my girlfriend for seven months now; we're both 17 (living in the UK) and needless to say...well...rules over here about ages of consent are lower than some places!

I have friends who are openly gay (guys and girls) and I never give it a second thought! I'm really close to them all and I never differentiate between them.

I think the world of my girlfriend, she's such a fantastic person (was her birthday today - bought her 17 pink roses - her favourite colour).

I totally respect people who are open with their sexuality, whatever it may be, and I really dislike 'white hetero supremacists' (sp?) who are totally homophobic and probably don't even know any homosexual people - which is sad.

My life is so much richer, and more fulfilled, with the wide variety of friends that I have - and I wouldn't trade it for anything!

x

I totally respect people who are open with their sexuality, whatever it may be, and I really dislike 'white hetero supremacists' (sp?) who are totally homophobic and probably don't even know any homosexual people - which is sad.


That's the best part: they do know homosexual people and just don't realize it. I find that hilarious.

YOU'RE SURROUNDED BY THEM! BOO!

Silly homophobes.

10% of all people are gay or bisexual, that leaves only... umm, about 600 million people around the world these guys want to discriminate? So, basically those 'white hetero supremacists' are horribly outnumbered by the people they hate. Looks like they're a minority themselves...

I hope this don't sound odd because I try to be as equal and understanding as I can humanly be. But I find an absolute attraction to the shape of a woman in their entirety...I mean the scent the taste the touch and the sight of a woman is something I can never see being better. They are perfect if you ask me. Although I will also add that I would do absolutly anything (anything) for my wife and as long as I found she was pleased I would be as well.

i agree 100%!!!
for the record, i'm a dyke, so yes, i've definitely had my share of gay experiences. ;)

That's the best part: they do know homosexual people and just don't realize it. I find that hilarious.

YOU'RE SURROUNDED BY THEM! BOO!

Silly homophobes.

Ha ha ha. True all to true. Unless they lock themselves indoors of course.

Ha ha ha. True all to true. Unless they lock themselves indoors of course.

but for some, even that wont be enough. :eek:

hmmm good point.

Guys are hot, nuff said. Me and my honey are :fluffle: all teh time.

I'm straight, have a girlfriend yay !

I don't have anything against gay's/bi's, as there Is Nothing to have against them.

It's none of my business frankly, I have friends who are Bi, and that doesn't stop me from being friends with them.

Homophobes are idiotic, you have no right to tell people how to feel and who to like, i'm all for gay marriage and gay rights, gay's/Bi's should have the same rights as any other person.

Why discriminate ?

Edit: Have never had a gay experience, heh, so it's more relevant to the original question.

No, and never will. Silly thread! Why the f*ck posting polls on people's sexual habits? I don't care about that and never thought to some "hetero pride day"! Gays should just live their sexuality as straight people do, without creating cases, that's it. :headbang:

Because they're not able to. They can't marry. They can't hold hands or kiss each other on the cheek while in public without some bigot getting on their face and possible being assaulted for it later. It's the homophobic people around them that make them "make cases" out of everything.

They're trying to live their lives, we're not letting them.

As for the original post, I haven't had a homosexual experience - besides kissing my friends butt and flashing some people - but my husband has had some real experiences.

hm, I dunno, havent read all of the replies here, but I seem to be one of the few bisexuals?
I started wondering wether or not I was a bisexual when I was about 11-12, and I did make out with som girls when I was 14 and so on. my first sexual experience with a girl came when I was 16. It was actually together with my boyfriend and a girl form my class. we were at the same party, and got quite drunk. We made out, and it was ok, cause I saw my boyfriend waching. She came home with us that evening, and it was great. after that I've been with some other girls, and I know for sure thats the way I am. why should we decide that we like only one sex? I do not love a persons outside, its the incide that takes me away, and then I cant say a boy has got more beauty inside then a girl. :fluffle:

(and anyway, if you must know it; breasts are nice ;) )

Not the only one.

I'm somewhere on the bisexual scale - further towards hetero though. I had a few girls I was attracted to early on in college and we made out a bit. Never went further than that because neither was much interested in any type of actual relationship. Probably won't ever have any more girl-girl experiences since I'm in a committed relationship with a guy now.

I've had my fair share of homosexual experiences. I am bisexual and enjoy my experiences with the opposite sex more than I do same sex stuff. It's wierd I like to be dominant with women but only want to be submissive towards men.

I have had experiences with this one guy who claims he isn't gay or bisexual at all and I am the only guy that turns him on. He enjoys my gf too but pays the most attention to me. Some people sure do have a hard time accepting their own sexual orientation when its not widely accepted in the mainstream.

Oh yeah my gf is bisexual too and she has included her hot best friend in our activities and those were a few of the best experiences of my life. Women are so yummy and soft and curvaceously delicious. I feel lucky that my gf is not grossed out by my biness and that she doesnt feel threatened by bringing other women in.

:D That would mostly definently have to be a yes. :fluffle: First realized I was bi in middle school. First kissed a girl when I was in high school... my boyfriend at the time didn't know about that. Though he later told me it was disturbing and disgusting... he got dumped. :eek: And currently I am dating the most amazing girl in the world, we've been together two months or so but she is really my best friend and the greatest thing I could ever ask for. ;) :D

I am all for gay marriges. Homosexuals and Bisexuals are still people. I unfortunatly can't have sex. I had to swear to a life of celibacy.

I am all for gay marriges. Homosexuals and Bisexuals are still people. I unfortunatly can't have sex. I had to swear to a life of celibacy.

I ask for all NSers to observe a minute of silence for all the sexual goodness this person has so selflessy sacrificed.

I ask for all NSers to observe a minute of silence for all the sexual goodness this person has so selflessy sacrificed.

................

I ask for all NSers to observe a minute of silence for all the sexual goodness this person has so selflessy sacrificed.

Ha ha ha. You don't know the half of it.

does celibacy mean no to masturbation too?

Ha ha ha. You don't know the half of it.

By all means, do tell then. Do you mean that you have to give up more than the sexual goodness? What could be worse than not having any sexual goodness? :D

What could be worst. Hmmm I don't really know. You have to find other ways to entertain yourself. You would be surprised by how much self control it takes. Not very easy.

Man... If I ever had to give up masturbation, I'd die. You poor thing... Hugs for you!!!

You get used to it. Just have to remain focused. Actually it's kind of funny, because there is this girl I am really really attracted to, but I can't get to close to her.

What could be worst. Hmmm I don't really know. You have to find other ways to entertain yourself. You would be surprised by how much self control it takes. Not very easy.

I can imagine.

On a topic more related to the actuel thread, who here among heteros have ever had an homosexual fantasm during masturbation? And how often does it occur, if ever?

There's no way around it, then? Obeying the letter of the law but not the spirit, as it were?

EDIT: Yeah, I've fantasised about it. It's not a regular thing but it's not all that rare either.

I love women. Nothing else.

I love women. Nothing else.

So sure are you!

Do any of u wish u wernt gay? :headbang:

So sure are you!

Yeah, very sure. I'm not saying I haven't been curious...I think that's pretty normal for someone my age (OOC: Almost 15.) But everytime I might get an occasional homosexual thought, I get nauseated and digusted at myself and almost throw up because of how disgusting it is. I am a devout Christian and although I believe homosexuality is wrong, I practice tolerance towards homosexuals. I love women though. You can never get enough of women.

Do any of u wish u wernt gay? :headbang:

In all honesty, I used to some years ago. Now? I figure I've worked so hard to finally accept myself as I am, that I've fully earned the right to be who I am, and love whoever takes my fancy(i.e. other men). I have no regrets.

I...don't think anyone should...ahh...display their affection in public (Hand-holding sure, kissing no). No matter what the sexual orientation.

I want to see two people kissing as much as I want to see a baby eaten by a dog.

And no, I haven't had a homosexual experience.

nah, never had any homosexual experiences here, and have no desire to. absolutely no problem with anybody who feels differently though :)

I want to see two people kissing as much as I want to see a baby eaten by a dog.


Ah thats a shame... you'll come round eventually :D

Ah thats a shame... you'll come round eventually :D
We can only hope :)

At first I thought I was gay. Then I found out that I like both. Now I've settled on a woman and married her, and maybe that's because I'm getting old and tired. I still like both, I'm just being monogamous for the time being.

Watch out when I get to the nursing home, though. And if you have Alzheimer's and live in the next room over, every time will be like the first...

By Having a "Gay Experience" do you mean leaving the house with shoes that match my belt and a cool haircut, or taking a guy to a hockey game, brushing hands together as you're reaching for the same beer, walking home talking then having a kick ass kiss good-night?

Ah thats a shame... you'll come round eventually :D

I don't mind kissing people, but I don't want to see OTHER people kiss. Especially when I'm in a restaurant eating lunch or dinner. That's the worst.

Or...Did you mean the dog eating a baby? Because I don't think I'll ever come around when it comes to that...

Watch out when I get to the nursing home, though. And if you have Alzheimer's and live in the next room over, every time will be like the first...

Oh man, too much information...

The person who started this thread should have split it up into male/female and yes/no. It would be interesting to see the gender differences too.

I have never had sex with ajust a man before but I have had many threesomes with another guy and a gal!!

I have never had sex with ajust a man before but I have had many threesomes with another guy and a gal!!

Jerry, just drop them pants and bend over, and I'll show you what you've been missing...

Jerry, just drop them pants and bend over, and I'll show you what you've been missing...

Can I go first? I'm single now, anyway....

Can I go first? I'm single now, anyway....
I'll give you a warning. I've had at least one man and one woman in such a state that their screaming brought the police.

Not that I was hurting them...

I'll give you a warning. I've had at least one man and one woman in such a state that their screaming brought the police.

Not that I was hurting them...

So you're saying you love the moaning types? :D

The fact that I've never had sex is to do with the fact that I never had a willing victim, ahem, partner. I've had feelings for women though.

So you're saying you love the moaning types? :D

They weren't moaners before, which was an absolutely delightful surprise to them.

Well since this is a subject I find interesting, and I see we have a lot of does this count, and what about this I'll fill in my blanks.

Yes, I myself have had multiple "gay experiences" as you may call them. My first was with a friend, Kevin. It was a handjob, which I did to him. No offense to the guy but he does have a small pecker indeed.

Next was a good friend of my brother, Bill. He was different, he was one of those country farm boys that usually only came into town to go to school. First it started simply as "peeking" and "talking" with him, but eventually I conviced him to allow me to engage in "oral entertainment" (for those who preffer a different word". I must admit this went on for some time, a good 6 months. He'd come over to visit, the asked to sleep over (we are young at this point) and he'd always end up in my room. :mp5:

It was funny, he would always use the excuse "But i'm not gay", but very often engaged in "oral entertainment". As I mentioned this went on for a few months, during this time I tryed to convince him to try...."Going into the holland tunnel :eek: " (if you know what I mean).

It did take some convinceing for him to do so, but eventually we did get around to it, and must admit it was a different feeling. Never being that close to someone before, I was comfortable with the warmth of body being in such a close embrace (Not in the Holland tunnel). But the fact that I could be that close to someone, and they did not push away, did not say stop.

People brag about haveing sex, bang this girl, banging the guy...sleeping with that sheep :eek:, I enjoy sex as well mind you. But the feeling of holding him close, the warmth of our bodys togather, that's worth more to me then all the sex you people have put togather.

Now if you aren't sick by this, or haven't done a instant hate / flame / insult responce I'll point out a fact I have not mentioned.

Am I 100% gay? to be honest, I don't know. I still would like to have children, I still enjoy sex with the women that I do sleep with. But to be honest, I don't know if I can say I was ever in love. Sure someone will say it's a guy thing "Wham Bam thank you ma'am", but when you break it down it's two different things.

Sex with someone
or
Being with someone

I'd rather be with someone, gay or not. ;)

Do any of u wish u wernt gay? :headbang:

If it applys to being bi too. Used to... but then all I ended up doing was hating myself and trying to conform to being something I'm not. To be honest, I just had to stop giving a shit about what other people, including my family thought about it. Part of what screwed my other relationships over was that I couldn't be happy because I was hiding a part of myself. I've accepted who I am now, I'm just waiting on the rest of the world to come around.

Umm "experiences" are fun ;)

Wouldn't mind having "experiences" on a more regular basis. No such thing as too much sex.

hm, interessting thing you bring up there, new bhutan.
sex with someone and beeing with someone is absolutely two different things. I like both. I dont know, I do have nneds, and when you're not in a relationship, why not have sex with people you find atractive when you both wants to have a good time?
but in another way, beeing with someone, someone that is special to you in another way, is fantastic, and even though I have "needs", I could never, never be unfaithful with someone. If I am together with someone, I do not want anyone else (or at least not without beeing together with my girlfriend/boyfriend as well).
I've had sex with quite a few people, mosty boys, but also some girls. its great anyway. things girls cant do to me is compensated with the fact that girls know exactly what else to do...hm.
(now I actually got kind of...nevermind)

This thread has brought back some fond memories for me, most particularly of the day I truly discovered I was bi, and my best friend discovered he was also, shortly afterwards. He's turned into a very accomodating bottom, and we have great "poker" parties on a monthly basis...a few months ago, we splurged on a lovely shemale escort, and had a night to remember.

Do any of u wish u wernt gay? :headbang:

HA! When I realized I was a lesbian I started bragging to everyone I knew... And I haven't stopped. :) It never occurred to me that I should be ashamed of it. I could never date someone who had any problem with being open about her sexuality.

*grumbles about long term relationships*

Oh well, I'll try again in my next life.

HA! When I realized I was a lesbian I started bragging to everyone I knew... And I haven't stopped. :) It never occurred to me that I should be ashamed of it. I could never date someone who had any problem with being open about her sexuality.

Stop mocking us straight people!
It's not my fault I'm not bi!
>.<

Stop mocking us straight people!
It's not my fault I'm not bi!
>.<

I'm sure if you tried hard enough.... :P

Other than being randomly hit on by girls at the bar....

I had a foursome about 2 years ago..(2 girls, 2 guys). It started as an adult version of truth or dare...and then everything went strangely awry. LOL.

Do any of u wish u wernt gay? :headbang:

never! i have the most wonderful wife in the world, and i live in canada, so it's no big deal. mind you, i live in a city, so it might be different living in a small town... but no, being gay has not adversely affected my life. it has only made my life great, otherwise i wouldn't be with the person i am with!

I'm sure if you tried hard enough.... :P

This is where we'd argue logistics.
But frankly, in my current state of mind, I wouldn't be able to tell what my sexuality/thought process is. My impressionable mind has been twisted one too many times.

But no, I'm quite sure I don't have the ability to fall in love with a guy. But I absolutely know I would be happy to sleep with one.

This is where we'd argue logistics.
But frankly, in my current state of mind, I wouldn't be able to tell what my sexuality/thought process is. My impressionable mind has been twisted one too many times.

But no, I'm quite sure I don't have the ability to fall in love with a guy. But I absolutely know I would be happy to sleep with one.

Actually, I was being very sarcastic. I'm very much against trying to change someone's sexual orientation, be it trying to make you gay, or try to "cure" somebody of gayness.

About your second comment... when you say "sleep", do you mean you'd like to have a sexual experience, or just wouldn't mind cuddling and sleeping in the same bed as another guy?

Yes I have. I am openly bisexual. And I am also the most popular bi guy (and also most popular white guy :P) at my school. And of course with fame comes hatred. There have been several people at school (freshman no doubt) that didnt like me and wanted to fight me. Lets just say they found out I had WAY more friends than they did. ;)

I'm on a never ending quest to turn others to the dark side. So far I have turned 2 straight guys bi.

Question (and it has probably been asked already):

Do you guys and gals find yourself physically attracted to members of the same sex, is there some other type of attraction for them?

Do you just like the sex?

Or is it both?

Question (and it has probably been asked already):

Do you guys and gals find yourself physically attracted to members of the same sex, is there some other type of attraction for them?

Do you just like the sex?

Or is it both?

I find my self attracted to both, and sex is good from both :)

Question (and it has probably been asked already):

Do you guys and gals find yourself physically attracted to members of the same sex, is there some other type of attraction for them?

Do you just like the sex?

Or is it both?

I find myself more physically attracted to women actually, maybe because I can appreciate what goes into making a woman attractive? I dunno....

Sexually I enjoy both, but for different reasons. There are things I enjoy that could only be a factor if I were with a woman, and the other way around.

Question (and it has probably been asked already):

Do you guys and gals find yourself physically attracted to members of the same sex, is there some other type of attraction for them?

Do you just like the sex?

Or is it both?

I suppose for me I just like the sex. I really don't find myself attracted to men except sexually.

Actually, I was being very sarcastic. I'm very much against trying to change someone's sexual orientation, be it trying to make you gay, or try to "cure" somebody of gayness.

About your second comment... when you say "sleep", do you mean you'd like to have a sexual experience, or just wouldn't mind cuddling and sleeping in the same bed as another guy?

I wouldn't mind either, but as I said, since I'm not gay, I don't think I would find any sort of satisfaction or comfort cuddling with a guy... especially since I've already found the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with...

But sex? Abso-freaking-lutely. I'd try anything...
I'm a epicurean hedonist with anhedonia. :(

I suppose for me I just like the sex. I really don't find myself attracted to men except sexually.

CHEATER! You're cheating! You're just as straight as me! CHEATER! CHEATER!!1

CHEATER! You're cheating! You're just as straight as me! CHEATER! CHEATER!!1

If that makes me straight, then I'm straight.

Question (and it has probably been asked already):

Do you guys and gals find yourself physically attracted to members of the same sex, is there some other type of attraction for them?

Do you just like the sex?

Or is it both?
physically speaking, i am equally attracted to males and females (though for different reasons). when it comes to relationships, whether that be friendships or romantic relationships, i prefer males to females by far...women make me crazy, and end up ripping my heart into tiny pieces that they then feed to me. not that i am bitter, or anything.

Yes I have. I am openly bisexual. And I am also the most popular bi guy (and also most popular white guy :P) at my school. And of course with fame comes hatred. There have been several people at school (freshman no doubt) that didnt like me and wanted to fight me. Lets just say they found out I had WAY more friends than they did. ;)

I'm on a never ending quest to turn others to the dark side. So far I have turned 2 straight guys bi.





Hahahaha turned. They were bi in the first place, they were just likely denying it.

Question (and it has probably been asked already):

Do you guys and gals find yourself physically attracted to members of the same sex, is there some other type of attraction for them?

Do you just like the sex?

Or is it both?
It never ceases to amaze me how many times I get this question. On the other hand, I suppose most people are ignorant about homosexuality, and not necessarily by choice. Here's a bit of enlightenment for you:

You know how you feel about members of the opposite sex? How you're sexually attracted to them? How you can fall in love with them? Emotional, physical, all that fun stuff? Well... That's EXACTLY how I feel about girls. The same way any hetero guy would. Although some things are obviously different because I can understand her better than a man could (by no fault of his of course, men and women are different), and of course the physical side is more fun because I know what things feel like...

I find myself more physically attracted to women actually, maybe because I can appreciate what goes into making a woman attractive? I dunno....

Sexually I enjoy both, but for different reasons. There are things I enjoy that could only be a factor if I were with a woman, and the other way around.

So does it have to do with the different roles of the gender for you?

For example do you look for men to be more dominant sexually and the women more submissive sexually?

If that makes me straight, then I'm straight.

No, I'm just jealous 'cause I'm tied down... (not literally...) (...yet)

It never ceases to amaze me how many times I get this question. On the other hand, I suppose most people are ignorant about homosexuality, and not necessarily by choice. Here's a bit of enlightenment for you:

You know how you feel about members of the opposite sex? How you're sexually attracted to them? How you can fall in love with them? Emotional, physical, all that fun stuff? Well... That's EXACTLY how I feel about girls. The same way any hetero guy would. Although some things are obviously different because I can understand her better than a man could (by no fault of his of course, men and women are different), and of course the physical side is more fun because I know what things feel like...

Are you attracted to men as well?

Are you attracted to men as well?
Nope, I'm an all-out lesbian. I'm no more attracted to men than hetero men are. And I'm equally disgusted at the thought of sex with a man. ;)

Nope, I'm an all-out lesbian. I'm no more attracted to men than hetero men are. And I'm equally disgusted at the thought of sex with a man. ;)



There was this one show (I'm , were this straight guy had been dating this bi girl for a while but after they broke up, she started going out with a lesbian. Eventually, the former boyfriend and the lesbian became friends and the boyfriend said "At least we have similar tastes in women". Not relevant exactly but I thought a bit funny.

Nope, I'm an all-out lesbian. I'm no more attracted to men than hetero men are. And I'm equally disgusted at the thought of sex with a man. ;)

Do you normally assume a man or a woman's "role" in the relationship, or are you normally involved in pretty neutral relationships.

Do you normally assume a man or a woman's "role" in the relationship, or are you normally involved in pretty neutral relationships.
It's pretty neutral. I have short hair and wear men's clothes because they're more comfortable, and she tends to dress in a more feminine way, but aside from that there is no role for either of us. We're just... us. No "man", no "woman". And neither is dominant. Although I'm ticklish and she's not... So she has an advantage there. ;)

Do you normally assume a man or a woman's "role" in the relationship, or are you normally involved in pretty neutral relationships.

They way she speaks of us, I'd say she prefers to keep it neutral.

*sniffle* You've hurt my itty bitty man feelings.
I mean, I look like a girl and act like a girl, what more do you want from me?

I snogged a guy and groped him for about twelve minutes at a school function one time. We were in the back and nobody saw us. That count?

It's pretty neutral. I have short hair and wear men's clothes because they're more comfortable, and she tends to dress in a more feminine way, but aside from that there is no role for either of us. We're just... us. No "man", no "woman". And neither is dominant. Although I'm ticklish and she's not... So she has an advantage there. ;)

And sexually its the same way I guess?

I'm doing my own little Kinseyan (Is that right?) study here.

I snogged a guy and groped him for about twelve minutes at a school function one time. We were in the back and nobody saw us. That count?

*hands Camel a membership card* Welcome to the Club!

I snogged a guy and groped him for about twelve minutes at a school function one time. We were in the back and nobody saw us. That count?

If you're a guy too, I believe so.

They way she speaks of us, I'd say she prefers to keep it neutral.

*sniffle* You've hurt my itty bitty man feelings.
I mean, I look like a girl and act like a girl, what more do you want from me?

What? The way who speaks of who?

So does it have to do with the different roles of the gender for you?

For example do you look for men to be more dominant sexually and the women more submissive sexually?

I do tend to take the submissive role (sexually) with men, but I "mix it up" with women. :)

And sexually its the same way I guess?

I'm doing my own little Kinseyan (Is that right?) study here.
Wow, nobody's ever been so interested in my sexuality before. I should write a book. :p

Yes, sexually it's the same way. We mostly only use our hands and mouths, not dildos, vibrators, or strapons. So again, there's no dominance.

I should note that I'm only speaking for myself here. Lesbians and gay men come in all shapes and sizes, just like heterosexuals. Some couples do prefer male and female roles, dominance, and other such things. As for me, I'm pretty neutral and I like it that way. I don't really subscribe to gender roles... I'm just me! :D

Fear not his immature smilie. Mine will pick his off before he kills anything.

:sniper: *snipe*

Fear not his immature smilie. Mine will pick his off before he kills anything.

:sniper: *snipe*
Aw, come on, they like violence. It's much more fun to do the Ghandi thing and make peaceful intelligent jest of their ignorance while they struggle to find a four letter word that will hurt us.

Hey, look, it's me and my girlfriend! :fluffle:

I snogged a guy and groped him for about twelve minutes at a school function one time. We were in the back and nobody saw us. That count?

Nah i suggest you should try again... lots :D

Try groping in public it has a risque fun. And nows the time to do it, winter when its cold body heat is just what you need to stay warm.

And to the german faith movement who im sure will not return... *sigh*

*Burns in hell*

Come on down! The brimstone's just fine!

I'm glad to see the use of the f word is starting to become a symbol of real ignorance just like the use of the n word.

I hate to play devils advocate but there are going to be a lot of people against others being gay or bi (hell, I should be one but I got a brain so I'm not), it's just best to ignore them. They tend to have nothing relevant or even informed to add to a conversation.

I'm glad to see the use of the f word is starting to become a symbol of real ignorance just like the use of the n word.

In the same way really... whenever some one says some thing like

"So you're, well, you're you know..." *pointed look*

i always try to say

"I think the word you're looking for is faggot"

Just as you'll find that the "N" word as you put it is used by people to whom it applys :D just try and dodge around this issue a little more.

If you're a guy too, I believe so.
Well I'm a dude and I'm bi. :fluffle:

Yes, probably, but they do keep the thread somewhat interesting... unless someone wants to go into more detail about their experience. Then it's interesting enough as is.

*Burns in hell*

Come on down! The brimstone's just fine!

I'm glad to see the use of the f word is starting to become a symbol of real ignorance just like the use of the n word.
An interesting story regarding the origin of the "f" word:

As most people know, "faggot" is a word referring to a bundle of sticks or kindling, used to start a fire. Back in the days of the greatest ignorance, homosexuals were burned at the stake like witches. And how did they start these fires? With faggots. The name stuck. "Faggot" is actually one of the most hurtful words one can use because it implies that homosexuals should be burned.

As for the "n" word, I actually don't know where that comes from exactly, and would be very interested to find out. My assumption is that it is some evolution of the word "negroe"?

As most people know, "faggot" is a word referring to a bundle of sticks or kindling, used to start a fire. Back in the days of the greatest ignorance, homosexuals were burned at the stake like witches. And how did they start these fires? With faggots. The name stuck. "Faggot" is actually one of the most hurtful words one can use because it implies that homosexuals should be burned.

Is this somehow related to why the word "fag" is used in England to mean "cigarette"? I knew the whole witchburning deal, but not how it got applied to cancersticks.

Personally i take the view that by using the word in non offensive ways is better than trying to force people not to use it, try and trivalise it not suppress it thats impossible.

Is this somehow related to why the word "fag" is used in England to mean "cigarette"? I knew the whole witchburning deal, but not how it got applied to cancersticks.
That I'm not sure of. I would assume that lighting a fag is an evolution of lighting a faggot. But I'm just a silly American. :p

Wow, nobody's ever been so interested in my sexuality before. I should write a book. :p

Yes, sexually it's the same way. We mostly only use our hands and mouths, not dildos, vibrators, or strapons. So again, there's no dominance.

I should note that I'm only speaking for myself here. Lesbians and gay men come in all shapes and sizes, just like heterosexuals. Some couples do prefer male and female roles, dominance, and other such things. As for me, I'm pretty neutral and I like it that way. I don't really subscribe to gender roles... I'm just me! :D

I'm not so much interested in your sex life, but more in the mentality you take into your sex life.

What I'm trying my best to understand the mental part of homosexuality. What do you think is the general cause of homosexuality is?

PS. I am diving into a tricky subject here, so bear with me, please. In my hometown, people were just weren't "openly" gay, and it wasn't something you talked about. So I hope you understand that if I say anything crude or offensive, I guarantee that it comes from ignorance and not disrespect.

Personally i take the view that by using the word in non offensive ways is better than trying to force people not to use it, try and trivalise it not suppress it thats impossible.
Trivializing a word that implies that I should be burned to death is easier said than done. :( If only people could be less ignorant... But that's like asking for penguins to fly.

PS. I am diving into a tricky subject here, so bear with me, please. In my hometown, people were just weren't "openly" gay, and it wasn't something you talked about. So I hope you understand that if I say anything crude or offensive, I guarantee that it comes from ignorance and not disrespect.

That's probably the case for a lot of us around here. I know in my town no one is overty gay. That's the great thing about the internet...

Trivializing a word that implies that I should be burned to death is easier said than done. :( If only people could be less ignorant... But that's like asking for penguins to fly.

Damn those penguins, its their fault i knew it... i say we direct our hatred toward the defencless, i mean the evil, penguin... yes no more hating gays an muslims its off to jamaica to kill penguins.

I'm not so much interested in your sex life, but more in the mentality you take into your sex life.

What I'm trying my best to understand the mental part of homosexuality. What do you think is the general cause of homosexuality is?

PS. I am diving into a tricky subject here, so bear with me, please. In my hometown, people were just weren't "openly" gay, and it wasn't something you talked about. So I hope you understand that if I say anything crude or offensive, I guarantee that it comes from ignorance and not disrespect.
Well I have a great deal of respect for someone who wishes to become less ignorant. Kudos to you. :)

It's hard for me to pinpoint a "cause". I don't think it's a disease or something that can be cured. I don't think it's a deformity. I think it's possible that it's some type of genetic mutation that occurs regularly in 10% of people but is not transmitted between generations. I do know that it has existed since at least ancient Greece, and I'd be willing to bet since humanity came into existence. It has also consistently remained at 10% of the population. I can't say for sure why this is. But if it were something "wrong", it would have died out by now through evolution.

I can tell you one thing for sure: It is NOT a choice. I was born this way and it is as natural to me to be attracted to girls as it is to hetero men. I'm happy this way and I don't see why anyone should be bothered by it.

Well my girlfriend is here so I'm going to leave now. If anyone else has any questions, I'm always happy to educate. Feel free to send me a telegram! :p

Damn those penguins, its their fault i knew it... i say we direct our hatred toward the defencless, i mean the evil, penguin... yes no more hating gays an muslims its off to jamaica to kill penguins.
Are there penguins in Jamaica?

Are there penguins in Jamaica?


Of course, one of the largest penguin populations in the world is in Jamaica.

What do you think is the general cause of homosexuality is?


Some say genetic. Others say it's determined just like other personnality traits at adolescence, and that social factors determine it.

Personally, I think it might be a little bit of both. Like, genetic predispositions, with social and familiar factors affecting wheter it manifests itself early or late, if at all.

But whatever the opinion, I think it's important to say that no study has ever been final on the subject, and that it's very difficult to determine, just like most other human behaviors.

Are there penguins in Jamaica?

You dont want any penguins to actually DIE do you, thats horrible.

Are there penguins in Jamaica?

There are allegedly tropic penguins. I saw several in captivity labled as tropical penguins when I was in Hawaii, but I never figured out if it was a joke or not. As for Jamaica, I haven't heard anything... mon

OK yes there are tropical penguins, no i dont think there are any in jamaica... can ya'll get back to loving/hating gays please.

OK yes there are tropical penguins, no i dont think there are any in jamaica... can ya'll get back to loving/hating gays please.



You want the hating too?

You want the hating too?

Yes i find that a moderate sense of oppression gives me a personal excuse for the failures in my life...

Yes i find that a moderate sense of oppression gives me a personal excuse for the failures in my life...



Meh, whatever floats your boat.

Is it me or is :sniper: becoming the Official Homophobe Smiley. We should paint it pink, see how many people use it then.

Anywho, as a teenage flaming homo, I've not had an "experience" of any sort... but I can't imagine ever being attracted to a woman. Fair do's if you are, but it just ain't doing it for me.

One thing about being gay is, it sure helps having an intimate understanding beforehand of the... ahem... "organ" you'll be encountering in the bedroom. I can't comprehend the difficulty straight blokes (and gals, come to that) must have of getting to grips with an area they're not familiar with. :p A rare example of being gay making my life less complicated...

Some say genetic. Others say it's determined just like other personnality traits at adolescence, and that social factors determine it.

Personally, I think it might be a little bit of both. Like, genetic predispositions, with social and familiar factors affecting wheter it manifests itself early or late, if at all.

But whatever the opinion, I think it's important to say that no study has ever been final on the subject, and that it's very difficult to determine, just like most other human behaviors.

Oh come on. It's clearly genetic. All empirical thought leads to that conclusion, and all scientific research has lead to that conclusion.
It has nothing to do with upbringing, and to say that it is is to give anti-gay advocates ammo against adoptions by gay couples.

Golos, I was only kidding. I didn't mean to imply that there was anything wrong with you. I was only lampooning your form of close mindedness toward phallic objects... because really, your words hurt my male inferiority complex.

And it's 15% that are openly homosexual. 5% lesbian, 10% gay.

Meh, whatever floats your boat.

Hey i dont like it but im too weak to do anything about my own mind... plus i have a morbid hatred of pyschologists and councillers. i let my arms take the brunt of my anger.

And no i promised TFU i would stop that, im a changed man :D

Hey i dont like it but im too weak to do anything about my own mind... plus i have a morbid hatred of pyschologists and councillers. i let my arms take the brunt of my anger.

And no i promised TFU i would stop that, im a changed man :D



You're a guy!?!

Some say genetic. Others say it's determined just like other personnality traits at adolescence, and that social factors determine it.

Personally, I think it might be a little bit of both. Like, genetic predispositions, with social and familiar factors affecting wheter it manifests itself early or late, if at all.

But whatever the opinion, I think it's important to say that no study has ever been final on the subject, and that it's very difficult to determine, just like most other human behaviors.

I am trying to figure out if maybe it is a developmental thing, like in Freudian psychology, thats why I am asking so many questions about gender roles and such.

I would say that I think there might be genetic predispositions as well.

And it's 15% that are openly homosexual. 5% lesbian, 10% gay.

Can that be right, i thought that women were more sexually flexible than men as it were. (Personally i assume that this is because socioty has less of a stigma towards lesbians and therefore women at least subconiously are less hung up about it (i know that this isnt always the case of course sweeping statements always have esceptions))

Hey i dont like it but im too weak to do anything about my own mind... plus i have a morbid hatred of pyschologists and councillers. i let my arms take the brunt of my anger.

And no i promised TFU i would stop that, im a changed man :D

Don't worry, you'll survive... move to Canada or another socially progressive region, meet a nice guy (I'm assuming), and have a nice life.
And if you want kids, you can get em after they're house broken! :p

You're a guy!?!

LOL did i ever give the impression that i was not O.o if so i apologise.

I want to see two people kissing as much as I want to see a baby eaten by a dog.


aww, thats too bad. I'd love to see a baby eaten by a dog. I'd bring popcorn and sell tickets. yummm:)

LOL did i ever give the impression that i was not O.o if so i apologise.



No no, it's fine, I'm a little clueless when it comes to gender. There have been a couple people I have met that I thought were male but were female and visa versa.

Don't worry, you'll survive... move to Canada or another socially progressive region, meet a nice guy (I'm assuming), and have a nice life.
And if you want kids, you can get em after they're house broken! :p

Id move to Canada except that ive got a guy and im afraid canadian TV just doesnt meet my exacting BBC led standards :( :P.

But getting kids after their housebroken, why doesnt everyone do it, it sounds great.

Can that be right, i thought that women were more sexually flexible than men as it were. (Personally i assume that this is because socioty has less of a stigma towards lesbians and therefore women at least subconiously are less hung up about it (i know that this isnt always the case of course sweeping statements always have esceptions))

No, you're right. And I love generalizing.
To some extent I subscribe to a Kinseyan (sp?) philosophy, but certainly it seems that lesbians are more prevalent. However, that doesn't seem to be the case, and one reason might be due to the distinction between homosexuality and bisexuality. Also, there is the whole added benefit of appendages with men, but maybe that's me being snooty.

My. GOD. I came here by accident so don't yell at me for not paying attention to the title or whatever. I clicked NO cuz I'm just spiffy like that. Y'all just WISH you were as spiffy as me. :p (haha dont ask) I won't say anything about what I think of.. uh... that stuff because I always have to get into religion and it ends in a big argument with fire and bombs going off everywhere. I'm feeling rather ill at the moment. oh god. excuse me. bathroom. *runs to the bathroom*

(wow. this is my first post on this stupid thing, and look where it is. this is just sad.)

No, you're right. And I love generalizing.


No generalizing is essential, its OK :D, and people need to remember that. That generalizes are essentail to the writing of an erguement or rebuttle, unless you're willing to sit through 100 pages of ammendments and exceptions on a case by case basis. (not directed at anyone ehere... just in general :D)

But its midnight so i must retire (not that you'll miss me). Oh my, my coach appears to have turned back into a pumpkin.

Can we get back to the bisexual Jamaican penguins again? Y'all lost me at that part.

My. GOD. I came here by accident so don't yell at me for not paying attention to the title or whatever. I clicked NO cuz I'm just spiffy like that. Y'all just WISH you were as spiffy as me. :p (haha dont ask) I won't say anything about what I think of.. uh... that stuff because I always have to get into religion and it ends in a big argument with fire and bombs going off everywhere. I'm feeling rather ill at the moment. oh god. excuse me. bathroom. *runs to the bathroom*

(wow. this is my first post on this stupid thing, and look where it is. this is just sad.)

I LOVE THIS GUY (i assume)... a bit hard to read but scatty just the way i like it :D, it has more character.

I LOVE THIS GUY (i assume)... a bit hard to read but scatty just the way i like it :D, it has more character.

You like it rough, eh?

Christ I hate fast growing threads...

Anyway, I've had gay sex fantasies. Oral sex, regardless of gender will always be my favorite so I don't think anal is in the picture for me (although a vibrator in the anus would be interesting...)

However, it may only be a fantasy since I get no sexual interest in other men from say, looking around the gym locker room. Nada. All I got from doing that was depressed. :p

That time I accidently walked into the women's locker room however will be a pleasant memory until I get senile. But if I'm lucky I may hold onto that memory: "I have no idea who you people are but this one time I walked into the women's locker room..."

Until the day I accept an offer I couldn't refuse I guess I'll have to say I'm 75% hetero. (edited from 95% :) )

Although I did masterbate in front of a friend (as did he to me). Does that count? I don't think it does. I also liked to have 'swordfights' with another friend of mine as a 4-5 year old. I have found some men attractive. Have felt flattered (and may have even blushed) when hit on by gay guys.

Who knows. I'll give it a go someday. No harm no foul.

Then again I just might be some type of attention whore.

WTF? Wasn't there 16 pages here a minute ago before I refreshed?

Did I double post?

WTF? Wasn't there 16 pages here a minute ago before I refreshed?

Did I double post?

Yeah, there was, but I still see my last post there. Weird...

Sure. I was in the Army too. You know what they say. We were lonely. Horny. Drunk. Sometimes a buddy with a warm body is, well... a buddy with a warm body. Don't mean no thang.

Oh come on. It's clearly genetic. All empirical thought leads to that conclusion, and all scientific research has lead to that conclusion.
It has nothing to do with upbringing, and to say that it is is to give anti-gay advocates ammo against adoptions by gay couples.


Perhaps I haven't been explaining myself clearly. I think there are genetic predispositions, and that those genetic predispositions may or may not concretize into homosexuality. I do not buy an explanation as simplisitc as a "gay gene" that determines sexual orientation since birth. I believe sexual orientation evolves during adolescence, to something that will become the person's (mostly) permanent orientation.

And to advocate a purely genetic cause also give ammo to anti-gays who would like to find a "cure". You'll find out that anti-gays will always find ammo on anything.

Please note, however, that I never said being brought up by gay parents rises the chances of being gay. It will signifantcly lower their chances of being homphobe, and probably rise their chances of being open about their sexual orientation if they ARE gay, after all. I was more referring about how one defines his loving and sexual attractions according to their culture and upbringing.

That being said, let me remind that I DID say that that was only my opinion, and that all debate is valid, as nothing final has been found on the subject. Your statement where all studies and scientific reaserch points to genetic is such a blatant generalization I won't get into it. Do a google search, I'm sure you'll find a scientific study poiting to non-genetic causes on the first page of results.

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be the opposite sex? I'm a guy and I personally think it would be cool... Oh, the fun I would have.

*Bumpity bump*

I agree with Vassileum! and I am not Bicurious!!! I am straight and uphold the nation's inhabitant level!!!

So you gays and bis or whatever the fuck you are can just quietly go and do whatever you need to to keep happy and not go on about it in public. Clear?

I think it's disgusting to go on about your sexual habits in public. I wouldn't

:upyours:

You know, I'd love to toss this person into the middle of a huge orgy...just to see him/her freak the fuck out....

You know, I'd love to toss this person into the middle of a huge orgy...just to see him/her freak the fuck out....

If you're preparing the orgy yourself, add my name to the list, willya?


And don't forget the cuffs for that guy ;) I love kinky stuff

If you're preparing the orgy yourself, add my name to the list, willya?


And don't forget the cuffs for that guy ;) I love kinky stuff


roflmao now that's the kind of response I like to get!

Yeah, I'll join the orgy, as long as there are women, I'm not gay or bicurious but an orgy would be fun.

yup, first experience was at a party ages ago... wasn't drunk or anything. felt perfectly natural. now i'm bi.

and in response to the original post, yes, and I'm a more or less openly bisexual woman. Well, everyone I live with on campus knows, and the only people who haven't been told/figured it out are my parents, so I guess that would be considered open. Of course, I'm "behaving" now (translation: I've been with the same guy for 2 years, and severed all ties with my ex gf's/ bf's)

I don't see what all the homophobia is about. I am 100% straight but i have both gay and straight friends, to see my gay friends together doesnt bother me and neither does seeing my straight friends together. Really, people just neet to chill out and let gays live there lives however they want.

Is it me or is :sniper: becoming the Official Homophobe Smiley.
Yes, because it has a BIG GUN. And BIG GUNS are GRUFF and MANLY and DEFINETELY NOT GAY. :rolleyes:

Back to the original topic, no gay experience for me. Although I do occasionally find myself drooling over some guys... Johnny Depp movies are bad, very bad. ;)

I don't see what all the homophobia is about. I am 100% straight but i have both gay and straight friends, to see my gay friends together doesnt bother me and neither does seeing my straight friends together. Really, people just neet to chill out and let gays live there lives however they want.

Punch Bowl? Are you from Hawai'i?

Gay in this corner, so yes.

I would never ever participate in any sort of "gay experience" as you put it... never have never will.

Oh, about you people's thing if there were no women and only other men around? Wouldn't change a thing. I'd die before particpating in said "gay experiences".

So wrong...

You know, I'd love to toss this person into the middle of a huge orgy...just to see him/her freak the fuck out....I'd just settle for blindfolding him and having a guy give him a surprise "oral exercise." Then take the blindfold off.

Question (and it has probably been asked already):

Do you guys and gals find yourself physically attracted to members of the same sex, is there some other type of attraction for them?

Do you just like the sex?

Or is it both?

Sometimes it's about romantic attraction, sometimes it's about sex, in the best cases, it's about both. Sometimes I'm the more dominant one, other times the more submissive one, generally I prefer a mix. Gender is irrelevant to determining how/why I interact with people romantically and/or sexually.

I'd just settle for blindfolding him and having a guy give him a surprise "oral exercise." Then take the blindfold off.




Thats streching it.

Yes, I have kissed a guy.

Yes, I am working on getting a grade 8 guy in my bed. ;)

I'd just settle for blindfolding him and having a guy give him a surprise "oral exercise." Then take the blindfold off.
guys are better at giving it, anyways...

Yes, I have kissed a guy.

Yes, I am working on getting a grade 8 guy in my bed. ;)




How old are you!?!

Yes, I have kissed a guy.

Yes, I am working on getting a grade 8 guy in my bed. ;)
woah... grade 8? as in academic grades? like a 13 year old?

woah... grade 8? as in academic grades? like a 13 year old?

Yeah, but I'm only 16, if you weren't aware. ;)

Anyways, mine include 2 ex boyfriends one of which decided to randomly give me a handjob today. We're best friends and he was ass drunk and I was helping his load risers (for choirs) into a storage closet (hes a music teacher and im a science and health teacher) and he gave me a hand job. Though my fiance shall never know...

Yeah, but I'm only 16, if you weren't aware. ;)
Oh. well that isn't bad. thought you were an adult...