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Unpleasantness

Snafturi
28-06-2007, 16:56
Here. (http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showpost.php?p=12822289&postcount=186)
Here. (http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showpost.php?p=12822286&postcount=185)
Zarakon
28-06-2007, 17:20
Here. (http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showpost.php?p=12822289&postcount=186)
Here. (http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showpost.php?p=12822286&postcount=185)

Unpleasant is definitely the word I'd use. I thought about reporting this myself, but based on previous mod rulings I was guessing it wasn't actionable.
Jocabia
28-06-2007, 17:27
Uh, buh? Sure it's unpleasant, but Fass is often unpleasant. Unpleasant isn't generally against the rules. What rules did he violate?
Snafturi
28-06-2007, 17:42
Just seemed like flaming and personal attacks to me, specifically:
Yup. Don't you know what "disagreeing" means? Just because Bottle is "on my side" (which she isn't, really, in this discussion) does not mean that she is right in what she says. So, take your school ground clique-mentality and play with it in the sandbox, because it's not suitable for adult discussions.

Have you ever been with a Vietnamese whore? Or a whore at all? No? Then, have a cup of STFU and while you're doing that, learn to recognise references to popular culture.

It's cute how you just pulled that out of your ass. I am impressed.
Deus Malum
28-06-2007, 18:02
I kinda have to agree with Jocabia on this one. Those are certainly flamey, but I don't think they're flamey to the point of being actionable.

Hell, I think pretty much everyone on NS has made references to pulling things out of their arses at one point or another.
Zarakon
28-06-2007, 18:03
Just seemed like flaming and personal attacks to me, specifically:

No, no. I just meant that, based on rulings I've seen, it isn't severe enough. Plus, Fassigen seems to be able to get away with much more severe personal attacks than other posters. I'm guessing because most people just figure "Hey, that's Fass!" and don't report it.

I'll admit I'm part of the problem.

EDIT: Of course, let's wait for a mod ruling.
FURTHER EDIT: Different poster, but same thread, so I thought I'd post it here:

No, you pulled that little gem out of your own ass, thanks.
http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showpost.php?p=12823452&postcount=258
I expect you to come back here, and apologise for your bullshit.
http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showpost.php?p=12823464&postcount=260
Neesika
28-06-2007, 19:04
Here's your pre-edited post.
http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showpost.php?p=12823384&postcount=253

And the minority can fuck off until it become reasonable and stops attacking everyone that thinks basically what they do, but slightly different.

Look! You used a profanity too! Oh no!
Jocabia
28-06-2007, 19:15
Seriously, how could people be here this long and think the mods are going to stop people from saying a "fact" comes from where the sun does not reach or calling arguments schoolyard.

Do you know how many times I've been called a bully, or a troll, or an ass, or a bad debator, or a bad Christian, or Bobo.

Man, we need to start handing out thick skin cultures.
Zarakon
28-06-2007, 19:19
Here's your pre-edited post.
http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showpost.php?p=12823384&postcount=253



Look! You used a profanity too! Oh no!

I'm aware. I considered it, and decided there's really no point in personally attacking them and edited the post. I note you don't even bother to reconsider your personal attacks.

In fact, that post was basically a clone of Fass's post:

And the majority can fuck off until it starts problematising its own attributes, and should until then leave mine alone.


http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showpost.php?p=12823213&postcount=242

Man, the mods are going to kill us when they see this thread. It seems to be just people on two different sides of the debate (I'm included, of course) going "You did this!" "Oh yeah? While you did THIS!"

Then, of course, attacks me for reporting her personal attacks:

Seriously. Grow up. You can also take your thread hijack to Moderation, which seems to be your favourite hangout.

http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showpost.php?p=12823615&postcount=274
Snafturi
28-06-2007, 22:16
Seriously, how could people be here this long and think the mods are going to stop people from saying a "fact" comes from where the sun does not reach or calling arguments schoolyard.

Do you know how many times I've been called a bully, or a troll, or an ass, or a bad debator, or a bad Christian, or Bobo.

Man, we need to start handing out thick skin cultures.

I can understand getting caught up in the moment. I can understand debates getting heated. What bothers me is Fass started this sniping a propos of nothing. This wasn't frustration coming out at the end of a very long debate (at least not in that thread).

It just seemed to be unreasonable responses to resonable posts. He bit that guy's head off even though poster said the vietnamese hooker thing was a joke. I just don't understand how reasonable debate can happen when there's tempers flaring that easily.
Kyronea
29-06-2007, 02:40
If I may, I think we're all getting a wee bit overheated here. We need to calm down.

After reviewing the posts in question, my opinion is that, while harsh, Fass's actions are not actionable, nor are Neesika's--or Zarakon's for that matter. It's another one of those cases of thick skin needed rather than actual flaming. And remember the emotional content of Fass's posts, especially in regards to the specifics of the argument. He feels very passionately about what he is saying, so some more of his ire than usual leaks through. Does that fully excuse what he did? No, but it does need to be taken under consideration.

Neesika is simply following suit--much less harshly--and Zarakon doesn't even come close to either of them in his phrases.

As such, I personally think none of this stuff is actionable, but that's not for me to decide, obviously, but is just my opinion.
Zarakon
29-06-2007, 02:42
If I may, I think we're all getting a wee bit overheated here. We need to calm down.

After reviewing the posts in question, my opinion is that, while harsh, Fass's actions are not actionable, nor are Neesika's--or Zarakon's for that matter. It's another one of those cases of thick skin needed rather than actual flaming. And remember the emotional content of Fass's posts, especially in regards to the specifics of the argument. He feels very passionately about what he is saying, so some more of his ire than usual leaks through. Does that fully excuse what he did? No, but it does need to be taken under consideration.

Neesika is simply following suit--much less harshly--and Zarakon doesn't even come close to either of them in his phrases.

As such, I personally think none of this stuff is actionable, but that's not for me to decide, obviously, but is just my opinion.

I'm personally expecting the mods to get irritated at us for carrying our annoyance at each other into moderation.

I actually considered deleting my posts, but then it occurred to me that that was probably a bad idea, since it would mean only my comments would be in the thread. Which won't look very good.

Ah. I see Neesika continues to take out her annoyance at me. Different thread, but I suppose it won't hurt to post it here:

Oh no, I couldn't do that...you'd run off an report every word again. Because it's only okay when you're acting like a prick.

http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showpost.php?p=12825183&postcount=131

Man, I'm sort of surprised she's still heated up about this whole thing. I'm not.
Barringtonia
29-06-2007, 03:03
Originally Posted by Fassigen View Post
It's cute how you just pulled that out of your ass. I am impressed.

For the record - that post was at me and I didn't take it as an insult at all, it was a comment on the fact that I had, indeed, pulled that out of my ass - if anything I took it as a compliment.

Again, as so often, people who are angry are reading things in an angry way.

I'd leave this until a ruling comes along people.
Neesika
29-06-2007, 03:06
Bleh. How about I just put Zarakon on ignore? That way, I don't have to see him getting all offended by my profanity. I guess pointing out that the complaints so far have been laughable = flaming in the eyes of some.
Jocabia
29-06-2007, 03:06
For the record - that post was at me and I didn't take it as an insult at all, it was a comment on the fact that I had, indeed, pulled that out of my ass - if anything I took it as a compliment.

Again, as so often, people who are angry are reading things in an angry way.

I'd leave this until a ruling comes along people.

DING!! Many times the tone of a post is based in how you are feeling at the time. So much of the time people are telling me I'm angry in a thread where I'm laughing as I write every post. Of course, what you write affects it, but sometimes it seems like if there is a harsh way to read a post, that's how people read it.
Intangelon
29-06-2007, 09:49
Yeah. That's basically just Fass. If I didn't expect a tongue-lashing from the prickly Swede, I'd never quote him in posts. And yes, I am aware of how...interesting...that last sentence reads.
Zilam
29-06-2007, 10:41
Yeah. That's basically just Fass. If I didn't expect a tongue-lashing from the prickly Swede, I'd never quote him in posts. And yes, I am aware of how...interesting...that last sentence reads.

Well, just because a person might be known to be a prick, doesn't give them free reign to be as prickish as they want. However, as far as this thread I think people should be like elephants and grow thick skin.

(Yes I phail at humour)
Zarakon
29-06-2007, 20:47
Huh, been a while and still no ruling. Wonder what's up, normally at least one mod is on in a day.
IL Ruffino
29-06-2007, 21:05
Huh, been a while and still no ruling. Wonder what's up, normally at least one mod is on in a day.

Am I the only person who gets tired of watching posters with a history of disagreeing with each other trying to get one another banned?

Give it a rest.




You know, it's summer, I'm sure the mods have things to look forward to. You know, other than pleasing you?
Zarakon
29-06-2007, 22:00
You know, it's summer, I'm sure the mods have things to look forward to. You know, other than pleasing you?

I was just curious. You'll note they've made rulings on other threads.

What's up with the anger lately Ruffy?
Frisbeeteria
29-06-2007, 23:55
http://www.artglass-pottery.com/images/Sandicast/192SharPeiRed.jpg


Cuddles here suggests you all grow some skin.
Snafturi
30-06-2007, 00:04
After sleeping on it I kind of figured as much. Unfortunately I can't un-post something.

This has just been an amazingly bad week for me. I think it's made me a tad hyper sensitive. Sorry for the trouble.

Edit: Cuddles is very cute.
Zarakon
30-06-2007, 18:46
Edit: Cuddles is very cute.

Sorry to waste your time Fris.

And Cuddles scares the devil out of me.