NationStates Jolt Archive


Greiving Issue

New Californiajai
08-09-2004, 21:51
Mod's: I have been playing for a short time and i am still learning the full process of things and how the game is played. I enjoy the game and its concepts very much, however my problem is with a player "Mikitivity". I voiced my first opinion and right away this "Mikitivity" attacks me or Flameing as it is called here. I asked them not to continue and i explained my opinion both OOC and IC, yet still they continue to, now flamebait. This is causeing me to dislake this forum thing totally, although i know its a only or two who flame and flamebait. If something can be done i would be very thankful. The issue is currently in the UN forum under the UN funding Act thread. I have made everyeffert, short of ignoring them, to calm the issue or just point out my opinion (which is what the forum is all about) and the issue is i didnt even address this "Mikitivity" i addressed the authors of the proposal, and then WHAM! They attack me. Again if something can be done, please and thank you.
Unfree People
08-09-2004, 21:59
Just reading the last page of that thread (a link would have been helpful)...

It takes two to get in a flamewar; Mikitivity is not the sole author of the problems in that thread. If you can't handle people disagreeing with you, instead of flaming them, I suggest using the "ignore" function (click on their name, view their profile, and click "Add [name] to Your Ignore List") and staying out of the thread.

Unfree People
Forum Moderator
New Californiajai
08-09-2004, 22:06
Mod:
I am not at odds with people disagreeing with me, i am at odds with someone saying im a child and have no job, just to start off with. If you could point out where i might have flamed "mikitivity" then please tell me.
The Cobra La
08-09-2004, 22:09
It's the inernet, you can't make them stop. You can stop being over-sensitive about it though.
Unfree People
08-09-2004, 22:11
I went through that thread and saw several places where you insulted people as well. I merely suggest you use the ignore function instead of asking us to take care of a player you have a problem with.

The Cobra La, your input wasn't really necessary...
Crazed Marines
09-09-2004, 03:24
What I have found out with previous RPGs is that when you are flamed (has happened a bit to me) that we should just take a small break before we post. This has helped keep me from being DEATed on some other sites.
New Californiajai
09-09-2004, 19:22
Unfree people, I accept your input and will ignore them in the future, thank you. I would like to know for the future where i insulted people. I dont feel i insulted anyone and whether i accidently insulted someone or not, which could be viewed that way, I did not insult "Mikitivity" which is where my issue lies. If you could point out where specificly where i insulted someone that would be great (that way i can understand what your saying). Also i just wanted you to know that i only came here and posted this because the mod thread regarding greiving told me to. But, i digress, thank you for your timeand understanding, in the future ill just handle it myself.