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How far would you, NSG, be willing to take a certain fantasy when re-enacting it with your partner? Slave-master, vampire-victim, police-arrestee, butler-maid, the possibilities are endeless.

For that matter, care to share some of those fantasies you only let materialize in the intimacy of the bedroom, in the solitude of the livingroom, in the halls of our private sanctum? Fantasies that invade your dreams at night. Come on, I dare you to share.

1) With certain subjects, I have a lot of trouble keeping a straight face. I'd probably get kicked out for the night for laughing to hard.

2) You first.

1) With certain subjects, I have a lot of trouble keeping a straight face. I'd probably get kicked out for the night for laughing to hard.

2) You first.

You first. I always start.

I don't really do "role-playing" per se. I mean, maybe as a joke or an amusing bit of foreplay, sure, but not as some sort of serious sexy-time. The role I choose to take in a relationship is a permanent one, not something I put on and take off like a costume. :)

How far would you, NSG, be willing to take a certain fantasy when re-enacting it with your partner? Slave-master, vampire-victim, police-arrestee, butler-maid, the possibilities are endeless.

For that matter, care to share some of those fantasies you only let materialize in the intimacy of the bedroom, in the solitude of the livingroom, in the halls of our private sanctum? Fantasies that invade your dreams at night. Come on, I dare you to share.

1) depends on my partner... when I get one. :tongue:

2) current fantasy? Sleeping with a woman in bed. :(

I don't really do "role-playing" per se. I mean, maybe as a joke or an amusing bit of foreplay, sure, but not as some sort of serious sexy-time. The role I choose to take in a relationship is a permanent one, not something I put on and take off like a costume. :)

So, your role is pretty much fixed? You wouldn't trade it even for a second? Even if it means having fun?

1) depends on my partner... when I get one. :tongue:

Gotcha.

2) current fantasy? Sleeping with a woman in bed. :(

:p

So, your role is pretty much fixed? You wouldn't trade it even for a second? Even if it means having fun?

I think what she means is that while it's a role, it's not "play". It's the dynamic that she has, and she is who she is. Of course it means you can still "play" outside the role (though she may, or may not), but that the role she takes in the relationship is a fundamental part of her identity in that relationship, just as much as being a woman is part of her identity in that relationship.

2) current fantasy? Sleeping with a woman in bed. :(

ooooh, you're more a kitchen table kinda guy huh? I dig it.

I used to have this crazy kinky role-play where I pretended I actually liked my girlfriend. It lasted for 4 years.

My fault for forgetting the safe-word, I guess :)

/bitter

I think what she means is that while it's a role, it's not "play". It's the dynamic that she has, and she is who she is. Of course it means you can still "play" outside the role (though she may, or may not), but that the role she takes in the relationship is a fundamental part of her identity in that relationship, just as much as being a woman is part of her identity in that relationship.

Exactly.

I mean, I could cheerfully pretend to be something else for a bit, but that's all it would be, pretend - and honestly, I can't imagine that anything I could pretend would be sexier than the reality of things. :D

I used to have this crazy kinky role-play where I pretended I actually liked my girlfriend. It lasted for 4 years.

My fault for forgetting the safe-word, I guess :)

/bitter

Lol!

ooooh, you're more a kitchen table kinda guy huh? I dig it.

why would I sleep on the kitch... :eek:

oh... nvmd...

Exactly.

I mean, I could cheerfully pretend to be something else for a bit, but that's all it would be, pretend - and honestly, I can't imagine that anything I could pretend would be sexier than the reality of things. :D

Neither would I. But once in a while, pretend spice things up.

I have sadistic sex mutilation fantasies.

1) what do you have in mind? I generally dislike covering my body in shoe polish in pretending your my mother

2) er...so stuff I want to do?

I hear off CSI that danger sex is good so how about someone gets kidnapped at which point I rescue them and we have hot kinky sex in the snow (its snowing and I really want to play in it >_>)

in bed. :(

you dirty bastard!

You first. I always start.

Well fine then. She'd dress up as dairy cow and I'd put on my Roswell alien costume...

I have sadistic sex mutilation fantasies.

:eek2:

you dirty bastard!
I'm sorry.. I've always wanted to try...

Cuddling... :(

It looks soo... fun!

1) what do you have in mind? I generally dislike covering my body in shoe polish in pretending your my mother

What do I have in mind? A few things. My mum's mention is unnecessary though.

2) er...so stuff I want to do?

If you don't feel like sharing, you don't have to.

I hear off CSI that danger sex is good so how about someone gets kidnapped at which point I rescue them and we have hot kinky sex in the snow (its snowing and I really want to play in it >_>)

I hear ya. <.<

How far would you, NSG, be willing to take a certain fantasy when re-enacting it with your partner? Slave-master, vampire-victim, police-arrestee, butler-maid, the possibilities are endless.

I've already done all of these. You need to come up with something new.

For that matter, care to share some of those fantasies you only let materialize in the intimacy of the bedroom, in the solitude of the livingroom, in the halls of our private sanctum? Fantasies that invade your dreams at night. Come on, I dare you to share.

I have a list. You wanna see it?

:eek2:

A cat is fine too.

I've already done all of these. You need to come up with something new.

Those, sir, are examples, If you have others, by all means post them.

I have a list. You wanna see it?

Post it.

A cat is fine too.

Sure, Trostia, sure. o.O

Neither would I. But once in a while, pretend spice things up.

Hehe, it's hard to get a great deal spicier than the truth for me. ;)

Basically, because I've been a bit vague and oblique about this in this thread, I'm a submissive, and for me, it's not something I do, but something I am. I'm my partner's slave whether we're currently in the bedroom or just hanging out watching cartoons. When I'm not in a relationship, I'm still a subbie, just an un-owned one. So, I mean, my partner and I could pretend that I'm a medieval peasant and he's the lord of the manor exercising his droit de seigneur, and it'd probably be amusing, but it's not really any sexier or spicier than the ownership he already has. :)

Post it.

Sex while/at/on/in/during/using:
1) Scuba Diving
2) Skydiving
3) Top of the Eiffel Tower
4) Flying
5) Driving
6) The Oval Office
7) Your bed
8) Playing a video game
9) Handcuffs
10) Ropes/Restraints in general
11) The kitchen table
12) Vatican City
13) Dome of the Rock
14) Just before the touchdown zone on an active runway
15) Being cut and bleeding
16) Being raped - legitimately. Don't crucify me for it - just a fantasy.
17) Jet Ski

That's all I can think of right now. There's probably others, but I've had a bunch of whiskey and am not thinking too clearly.

And there are far too many people on NSG (hell, some in this THREAD) who know about my particular fetishes to bother going into detail here.

So, I mean, my partner and I could pretend that I'm a medieval peasant and he's the lord of the manor exercising his droit de seigneur

It's good to be the king.

Hehe, it's hard to get a great deal spicier than the truth for me. ;)

Basically, because I've been a bit vague and oblique about this in this thread, I'm a submissive, and for me, it's not something I do, but something I am. I'm my partner's slave whether we're currently in the bedroom or just hanging out watching cartoons. When I'm not in a relationship, I'm still a subbie, just an un-owned one. So, I mean, my partner and I could pretend that I'm a medieval peasant and he's the lord of the manor exercising his droit de seigneur, and it'd probably be amusing, but it's not really any sexier or spicier than the ownership he already has. :)

this. Just, in reverse.

It's good to be the king.

.....dammit, don't SAY these things when I have a mouthful of water! Now I have a watery nose!

(Oh, and I shall keep in mind that you think so. *hunts down medieval peasant costume* :tongue: )

What do I have in mind? A few things. My mum's mention is unnecessary though.

I have a uniform and I'm not afraid to wear it

tee hee I do have a spare NBC kit if anyone wants to try safe sex :D

If you don't feel like sharing, you don't have to.

now you tell me :tongue:

also come to think of it this (http://img3.imageshack.us/img3/2715/billycorganno1.jpg) and maybe a bringing food and tv into bed

I hear ya. <.<

sing along now! (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-WaI5a5U9Mg)

I admit, I'm a total sucker for the nurse treatment. I also enjoy having to reprimand the occasional careless maid. I don't think I'd ever get into a sort of "picking up a prostitute that is actually my girlfriend" kind of thing, because first of all, I instantly associate prostitution with diseases and desperation, and secondly because any girl who would tumble with me regularly s probably going to be much, much naughtier than some run-of-the-mill sex worker.

I've even dommed a bit, and rather liked it. The issue there is, to be honest, miscommunication with regards to the seriousness and depth of the situation.

My line is actual risk. I won't do something that legitimately can hurt the other person, be it with knife, stick, whatever. I'm all for handcuffs, ropes, a paddle, etc., but I won't cut somebody or literally beat them. Part of it is knowing how dominant I can get, and some of it is fear of something just going wrong. But there is a fair amount of roleplay involved, and it usually involves either schoolgirl/teacher or nurse/patient. With one instance where she decided to play prostitute/dilettante. And roughness... Well I have drawn blood before (I've got some decent canines and jaws to match) and my significant other has learned to be careful with inviting spanking, as well as certain...requests... in bed... Yeah...

Basically, because I've been a bit vague and oblique about this in this thread, I'm a submissive, and for me, it's not something I do, but something I am. I'm my partner's slave whether we're currently in the bedroom or just hanging out watching cartoons. When I'm not in a relationship, I'm still a subbie, just an un-owned one. So, I mean, my partner and I could pretend that I'm a medieval peasant and he's the lord of the manor exercising his droit de seigneur, and it'd probably be amusing, but it's not really any sexier or spicier than the ownership he already has. :)

I also like this if you come home and pounce on me to have your wicked way I will have a good time with it

getting off over being told what to do, how I wasted my teenage years

And there are far too many people on NSG (hell, some in this THREAD) who know about my particular fetishes to bother going into detail here.

I put on my robe and wizard hat?

I admit, I'm a total sucker for the nurse treatment.

I hate this one

I don't think I'd ever get into a sort of "picking up a prostitute that is actually my girlfriend" kind of thing, because first of all, I instantly associate prostitution with diseases and desperation, and secondly because any girl who would tumble with me regularly s probably going to be much, much naughtier than some run-of-the-mill sex worker.

I think your due a trip to Amsterdam :)

My line is actual risk.

so just masturbating whilst maybe strangling yourself then? :p

if you haven't damaged that connecting tissue thingy on the underside of your bell end you ain't had sex (stop me if I go to far)

if you haven't damaged that connecting tissue thingy on the underside of your bell end you ain't had sex (stop me if I go to far)

Winces at thought of torn 'banjo string'

My girlfriend thought she had got her period early...... But then I fainted :D

I hate this one


If it was done the way it was done to me, you probably wouldn't, I'd wager. Still, opinions may vary and all that.

As for Amsterdam, I can think of about a hundred places in Europe I need to see first. Party cities like Amsterdam and New orleans have little appeal for me since I don't drink, smoke, use drugs or stick my wang into whatever hole's available.

if you haven't damaged that connecting tissue thingy on the underside of your bell end you ain't had sex (stop me if I go to far)

That's my limit for my actions. My girl can do whatever she wants. But A) I am 10" and 50 pounds heavier than she is. B) Someone being dominant only strengthens my dominance and turns me on a bit more. C) Not many women put too much of a fight up...

My girlfriend thought she had got her period early...... But then I fainted :D

I cried like a little girl and happen to be still rather traumatized >_>

if I ever roll over and break my dick I think I will give up on sex entirely

If it was done the way it was done to me, you probably wouldn't, I'd wager. Still, opinions may vary and all that.

good lord it doesn't involve the scene from the new batman movie does it?

I don't drink, smoke, use drugs or stick my wang into whatever hole's available.

so what do you do?

A) I am 10" and 50 pounds heavier than she is.

:eek2:

B) Someone being dominant only strengthens my dominance and turns me on a bit more. C) Not many women put too much of a fight up...

so we should take you foxy boxing or something?

I have still to get someone.


tee hee I do have a spare NBC kit if anyone wants to try safe sex :D


Good to have, if someone attacks with chemical weapons while you're having sex.

:eek2:

10" taller. My bad. ::cough::
yeah...

One word will suffice for me here:

Gettysburg ;)

You know that movie secretary?

I'm alwase playing Mr. Grey but just once in a while it'd be nice to play as the secretary.

good lord it doesn't involve the scene from the new batman movie does it?


so what do you do?

No, definitely not. It was just very, very good. She had a wonderful smile. Well, when I could see it anyway. I miss her quite a bit some days, she was special on many levels.

As for what I do, I have a near-dependency regarding blueberry juice.

You know that movie secretary?

I'm alwase playing Mr. Grey but just once in a while it'd be nice to play as the secretary.

soo... who would be Mr. Grey then?

free consentual sex in the missionary position

soo... who would be Mr. Grey then?

Umm... Mr. Strap-on?

free consentual sex in the missionary position

kinky... (reminds me of when I was a kid)

It's always fun to attack and harass couples in Eve.

I have still to get someone.

well do you have a pen available that can draw a face on your hand? :wink:

Good to have, if someone attacks with chelmical weapons while you're having sex.

the suits are lined with charcoal though which will oddly enough make you African-sexual organian...

on the plus side when your finished I suppose you can pop down the benefits office and get yourself a 4 bedroom council house :$

10" taller. My bad. ::cough::
yeah...

lying down? :tongue:

Umm... Mr. Strap-on?

Either answer to the question that this creates will be completely awkward. I'm just going to leave it right here. Let someone else ask...

It's always fun to attack and harass couples in Eve.

I thought roleplay for you was pretending to be a lawyer...

lying down? :tongue:

I'll answer both possibilities. One, I personally am extremely thin. And the other possibility, I wish. I'm no minnow, but not that big.

I thought roleplay for you was pretending to be a lawyer...

Nope. Haven't done that in over two years, which is something you continually fail to notice.

But, if it makes you happy to relive the moment...:rolleyes:

As for what I do, I have a near-dependency regarding blueberry juice.

*sits in circle waiting to hear Megaloria's juiced based antics*

free consentual sex in the missionary position

they have sex in free now?

I thought roleplay for you was pretending to be a lawyer...

is that why you went to law school now...

It's always fun to attack and harass couples in Eve.

Is it anywhere near as funny as that dwarf in WoW who found the couple going at it in the Tram Tunnel?

"Yar Yar Hump Hump!"

I thought roleplay for you was pretending to be a lawyer...

You mean like Mr. Grey but with a sniper rifle.

You mean like Mr. Grey but with a sniper rifle.

Unfortunately for some, the sniper rifle was not roleplaying.

And the other possibility, I wish. I'm no minnow, but not that big.

shhhh I'm getting you some ;)

*sits in circle waiting to hear Megaloria's juiced based antics*


I don't think there are any antics. I just really, really like blueberry juice.

Unfortunately for some, the sniper rifle was not roleplaying.

the safety word is "don't shoot!"

the safety word is "don't shoot!"

There isn't really a safety word. The best you can do is not do stupid things in my AO.

is that why you went to law school now...

Yes. It is. :wink:

is that why you went to law school now...

no, just fortunate side effect.

Yes. It is. :wink:

hey baby, wanna see my briefs?

hey baby, wanna see my briefs?

Only if you've washed them.

There isn't really a safety word. The best you can do is not do stupid things in my AO.

AO = anal opening?

AO = anal opening?

Area of Operations.

Well, for some people on NSG, I suppose both are the same meaning...

the safety word is "don't shoot!"

The safety word is "I'm leaving, going back out of your sector of fire, nevermind..."

hey baby, wanna see my briefs?

I already have. They're in the drawer right next to the catsuit - you know, the one you totally don't have. *wink wink*

The safety word is "I'm leaving, going back out of your sector of fire, nevermind..."

it's too long.

hey baby, wanna see my briefs?

Objection!

it's too long.

That's what SHE said.

that's what she said.

burn!

Originally Posted by Neo Art
hey baby, wanna see my briefs?



Objection!


Stained!

Objection!

Objection? (http://objection.mrdictionary.net/go.php?n=2953250)

Objection? (http://objection.mrdictionary.net/go.php?n=2953250)

no no no. Don't you fucking start.

no no no. Don't you fucking start.

Oh, fine, I'll keep your briefs to myself, if you insist. :tongue:

http://i519.photobucket.com/albums/u358/clusterfvck/call_of_duty_womens_edition.jpg

http://i519.photobucket.com/albums/u358/clusterfvck/call_of_duty_womens_edition.jpg

How many divorces again?

How many divorces again?

I have a theory regarding that.

I have a theory regarding that.

Two. I'm on marriage number three.

To the OP: Pretty...freaking...far.

I've gone... quite far with my role playing. <.<

Id say I haven't gone far enough...

Sex while/at/on/in/during/using:
1) Scuba Diving
2) Skydiving
3) Top of the Eiffel Tower
4) Flying
5) Driving
6) The Oval Office
7) Your bed
8) Playing a video game
9) Handcuffs
10) Ropes/Restraints in general
11) The kitchen table
12) Vatican City
13) Dome of the Rock
14) Just before the touchdown zone on an active runway
15) Being cut and bleeding
16) Being raped - legitimately. Don't crucify me for it - just a fantasy.
17) Jet Ski

That's all I can think of right now. There's probably others, but I've had a bunch of whiskey and am not thinking too clearly.

Your list is rather interesting. Care to discuss it more thoroughly?

I thought of another one

I'm Captain Picard and my GF in Diana Troi and my ex-GF is Dr Crusher. It's that episode where I'm abducted by the borg and I become Locutus of Borg and we have nasty assimilation sex.

I have a theory regarding that.

Which is?

http://i519.photobucket.com/albums/u358/clusterfvck/call_of_duty_womens_edition.jpg

rofl, I likes.

As for my role-playing fantasies, I don't really have any that I wouldn't laugh at in real life.

I'm metaphorically biting my lip to stop myself commenting on exactly why I think these sex threads are so common.

I don't really do "role-playing" per se. I mean, maybe as a joke or an amusing bit of foreplay, sure, but not as some sort of serious sexy-time. The role I choose to take in a relationship is a permanent one, not something I put on and take off like a costume. :)

To me, this suggests you don't understand the notion of roleplay then.

The role I take in a relationship as a WHOLE is slightly different to the role I take sexually in a relationship. However,"roleplay"=/= one's constant role.

My line is actual risk. I won't do something that legitimately can hurt the other person, be it with knife, stick, whatever. I'm all for handcuffs, ropes, a paddle, etc., but I won't cut somebody or literally beat them. Part of it is knowing how dominant I can get, and some of it is fear of something just going wrong. But there is a fair amount of roleplay involved, and it usually involves either schoolgirl/teacher or nurse/patient. With one instance where she decided to play prostitute/dilettante. And roughness... Well I have drawn blood before (I've got some decent canines and jaws to match) and my significant other has learned to be careful with inviting spanking, as well as certain...requests... in bed... Yeah...

Sexy sexy sexy sexy sexy. Although, I think I'd be more into nurse/doctor than nurse/patient.

To me, this suggests you don't understand the notion of roleplay then.

The role I take in a relationship as a WHOLE is slightly different to the role I take sexually in a relationship. However,"roleplay"=/= one's constant role.

...which is why I said I don't do "roleplay" per se. A fair number of people would, however, see thinking of myself as a slave as "roleplay," which is why I explained in more detail why it is not.

in the halls of our private sanctum? Lady, how the hell did you get in my room? :eek:

...Oh, wait. :$

To me, this suggests you don't understand the notion of roleplay then.

To me, this suggests you missed the point she was making. By a fucking mile.

SEXUAL fantasies, i don't take any further then reading, and if i ever get brave enough, maybe writing, them.

(i was just born paranoid and raised that way besides)

the fantasies that DO interest me, have very little to do with individual personal relationships.

some of them, don't always remain fantasies in the 'real' world.

when i was born, even well after i had graduated highschool, anything like the kind of computers and internet we have now, was as much science fiction, as ftl and anti-grav still mostly are.

a world and a culture that uses technology to live lives both more gratifying, and at the same time in closer harmony with nature and its cycles of renewal, is not only my favorite, but one i absolutely believe humanity will HAVE TO arrive at in SOME manor, if it is to avoid self inflicted extinction.

i DO like the idea of large numbers of people participating togather in rollplaying alternative cultural values, at least up to the point of not risking the disaprobation of the law in doing so.

thus such things as the society for creative anachronims and furry fandom, even furry and science fiction conventions. anime ones too. i love the idea of all of them. i just wish there was one of some kind for that kind of world, the one i hope some generation of humanity will evolve into at some point.

if there were, that is the one i would call home.

So I was working for White Wolf Publishing out in Atlanta, and the guys took me to a bondage club called "The Chamber" for my 21st birthday. They got me drunk, per tradition, but failed to keep on eye on me, per their neglience and desire to hit clumsily on my sister.

But there, amidst the vinyl and dildoes, an rpg setting was conceived...

Hetero-sex is so droll, but I like a challenge:
Surprised no one has mentioned Nun+Priest
Punk+Poser is always fun.
Docking is fun but I doubt you'll ever know that joy.
Then there are those rape fantacies.. meh.
S&M Lincoln; Thanks to Conan. Which brings me to>
Conan the barbarian and semi-hapless female, and/or caveman fantacy.

I guess I know now what book (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karma_Sutra) to give for your wedding.

But really I'm saving some of my better stuff for myself.

My favorite fantasy was priest-female parishioner in the confessional - of course I never found a priest who wanted to participate - or anyone else for that matter. Oh well - dreams.

My favorite fantasy was priest-female parishioner in the confessional - of course I never found a priest who wanted to participate - or anyone else for that matter. Oh well - dreams.

I like you.:wink:

Sadly enough, being in Japan (The place where... well... not only are costumes and accessories easy to come by, but there are love hotels that cater to ANYTHING), just haven't done it. Oh, I've thought about it, but any time I've been temped to bring up the subject with my wife, I'm reminded again that it would probably be next to impossible to keep a straight face while engaging in it.

I'm reminded again that it would probably be next to impossible to keep a straight face while engaging in it.

Just think of England.

For the last year or more my only fantasy has involved actually having a partner.:(

Just think of England.
No... not gonna work. Seen too much Monty Python, Doctor Who, and read too many British comedy writers.

I'd probably get kicked out for the night for laughing too hard.

It already happened to me. And I wasn't in a roleplaying situation. Just said something funny and away with laughter we went.
There's no denying it: sex is fun to the point of hysterism.

I don't want to think what would happen if I and my fiancee would ever trying roleplaying. That would be the end of our sexual lifes.

Lady, how the hell did you get in my room? :eek:

...Oh, wait. :$

Oh shit, I was discovered!:eek:

Alright I have stayed out of this thread for long enough I suppose, time to spill the beans.

How far have I taken a sexual fantasy before? Well one we repeated a couple of times was a teacher-student role-play and once before have participated in a lord-servant role play, however, in that case I was the authority figure.

Now as for RP it doesn't necessarily have to have physical contact, after all cyber sex can also be considered RP, just describing what you would do where you are and what you are wearing etc. That is another form of RP and one I have participated in many times before.

But there is a fair amount of roleplay involved, and it usually involves either schoolgirl/teacher or nurse/patient. With one instance where she decided to play prostitute/dilettante.

I never have really understood the whole nurse/patient or doctor/patient fantasy before, it is a bit of a turn off to me just thinking about it.

Maybe I just never had an attractive nurse or doctor before.

I never have really understood the whole nurse/patient or doctor/patient fantasy before, it is a bit of a turn off to me just thinking about it.

Maybe I just never had an attractive nurse or doctor before.

I recall reading somewhere that the implication of medical care echoes trust as well as actual loving concern. I know it's sort of weird, but with that wonderful lady I mentioned earlier, those were always the most intimate instances of sex for us, excluding regular, you-and-me, cuddle afterwards stuff.

Winces at thought of torn 'banjo string'

My girlfriend thought she had got her period early...... But then I fainted :D

I just legged it out of the room and back to my flat :p

I just legged it out of the room and back to my flat :p

Ah, the consummate gentleman.

Ah, the consummate gentleman.

Forgive me if I forget to be a gentleman when in that kind of scenario :p

How far would you, NSG, be willing to take a certain fantasy when re-enacting it with your partner? Slave-master, vampire-victim, police-arrestee, butler-maid, the possibilities are endeless.

For that matter, care to share some of those fantasies you only let materialize in the intimacy of the bedroom, in the solitude of the livingroom, in the halls of our private sanctum? Fantasies that invade your dreams at night. Come on, I dare you to share.

I'd be willing to take any non-violent fantasy as far as my lover wants; as soon as violence, rape, or pain comes into play I have to back out. As for what mine are... there are precious few people on NS I'd tell right now.

I always dream of being overpowered by my mate. I like to pretend (and perhaps I do it in reality) that I surrender everything to him. The prospect of that gives me this sensation of ache and longing I absoultely like.

Forgive me if I forget to be a gentleman when in that kind of scenario :p

Well, it's not really me who'd have to forgive you.

I myself am probably forever beyond the forgiveness of the crazy woman I dated in university. I am bothered only slightly by this, as I feel my departure was justified. It's hard to maintain a relationship with someone who says she sees ghosts everywhere and now believes that she is a druid and can control the weather. For me, anyway.

I always dream of being overpowered by my mate. I like to pretend (and perhaps I do it in reality) that I surrender everything to him. The prospect of that gives me this sensation of ache and longing I absoultely like.

Strip and go sit down in the bedroom. You'll find the cuffs and blindfold in the drawer next to the bed. Put them on, I'll be with you....shortly

:tongue:

I never found a priest who wanted to participate

how could you not find one? I've never met a priest who wasn't a dirty bastard!

but still..."confess to me your sins my child and they shall be forgiven" :wink:

Just said something funny and away with laughter we went.

this.

there is noting that will make me laugh harder than a moment when I'm supposed to at least try to keep a straight face

I just legged it out of the room and back to my flat :p

you ran like that :eek2:

I always dream of being overpowered by my mate. I like to pretend (and perhaps I do it in reality) that I surrender everything to him. The prospect of that gives me this sensation of ache and longing I absoultely like.

I don't know that just sounds like being lazy to me

Strip and go sit down in the bedroom. You'll find the cuffs and blindfold in the drawer next to the bed. Put them on, I'll be with you....shortly

:tongue:

Teehee. :tongue:

Teehee. :tongue:

Make sure you shave your beard, and cover up that penis...

Make sure you shave your beard, and cover up that penis...

For some reason, that line sounds like it should be sung, perhaps as the intro to a musical.

I'd be willing to take any non-violent fantasy as far as my lover wants; as soon as violence, rape, or pain comes into play I have to back out. As for what mine are... there are precious few people on NS I'd tell right now.

That may be taken out of context:wink:

For some reason, that line sounds like it should be sung, perhaps as the intro to a musical.

You're onto something there. As long as I get credit for the lyrics... :p

That may be taken out of context:wink:

Then let it be.

Make sure you shave your beard, and cover up that penis...

And expose my mangina?

And expose my mangina?

Yes. Take care to adjust your merkin appropriately.

You're onto something there. As long as I get credit for the lyrics... :p

I cannot imagine anyone wanting to steal them. I recommend titling it "Not Yet a Woman" to fool the censors and perhaps earn some early radio play.

Yes. Take care to adjust your merkin appropriately.

I am an expert. Of course, you taught me well, Kimchi-san.

Sadly enough, being in Japan (The place where... well... not only are costumes and accessories easy to come by, but there are love hotels that cater to ANYTHING), just haven't done it. Oh, I've thought about it, but any time I've been temped to bring up the subject with my wife, I'm reminded again that it would probably be next to impossible to keep a straight face while engaging in it.

Hmmmm... I'm wondering about that love hotel that's supposedly in Tokyo where every room's fitted out like a stateroom from the TOS Enterprise, complete with a closet full of costumes...

Osaka's got the infamous love hotel with the Hello Kitty bondage room....

I've long wanted to take a date to the Amemura landmark love hotel "Hotel California", and put the classic Eagles tune on...

To answer the OP, in general dom RPs figure large.

One big one of late is teacher & student with a penalty for the student's mistakes...

I don't know that just sounds like being lazy to me

Why?

I always dream of being overpowered by my mate. I like to pretend (and perhaps I do it in reality) that I surrender everything to him. The prospect of that gives me this sensation of ache and longing I absoultely like.

I...

am...

so...

sending...

you...

my...

water...

Bill...

:p

I...

am...

so...

sending...

you...

my...

water...

Bill...

:p

Glad to be of service.:D

you ran like that :eek2:


Aye but to be fair it was back in halls so I was only two flats along. Not very far to run

Glad to be of service.:D

hmmm... now this is a statement I would definately like to take out of context. :D

hmmm... now this is a statement I would definately like to take out of context. :D

who says that wasn't her context? :tongue:

who says that wasn't her context? :tongue:

then uncuff her so that she can put it in context! ;)

Well fine then. She'd dress up as dairy cow and I'd put on my Roswell alien costume...

omg hawt.

then uncuff her so that she can put it in context! ;)

I don't think Mr. Neo Art will comply with your request.

I don't think Mr. Neo Art will comply with your request.

Oh, I think he might. :tongue:

Oh, I think he might. :tongue:

Ah, in that case, wait a bit JuNii.:tongue:

This thread has so much repressed sexual energy that you could cut it with a knife.

This thread has so much repressed sexual energy that you could cut it with a knife.

Kinky!

This thread has so much repressed sexual energy that you could cut it with a knife.

I take it you've yet to meet Generals that well...

This thread has so much repressed sexual energy that you could cut it with a knife.

my sexuality is in no way repressed. It's active and practicing. It has an office downtown.

This thread has so much repressed sexual energy that you could cut it with a knife.
I'd rather whip it into a froth... get some strawberries... and wait for Nanatsu to show up!

my sexuality is in no way repressed. It's active and practicing. It has an office downtown.

Doe this mean your sexuality is lawyering? "Ooh, baby, FILE that brief! Awwwww yeah..."

my sexuality is in no way repressed. It's active and practicing. It has an office downtown.

I knew it! Your not really a lawyer!

I knew it! Your not really a lawyer!

Yes he is.

He runs the Neo Art Law Firm & Massage Parlor.

I'd rather whip it into a froth... get some strawberries... and wait for Nanatsu to show up!

Mmmm, JuNii cream.:fluffle:

He runs the Neo Art Law Firm & Massage Parlor.where their motto is "We will screw you... One way or another."

Mmmm, JuNii cream.:fluffle: 0 Calories and lots of protien!

where their motto is "We will screw you... One way or another."

0 Calories and lots of protien!

Mmm... like orange mousse, which I'm eating right now.

...There are going to be so many traumatized children in the near future (mine included).

...There are going to be so many traumatized children in the near future (mine included).

I don't suffer your moral dilemma. I don't believe in human reproduction.

I don't suffer your moral dilemma. I don't believe in human reproduction.

I believe in you.
- Human Reproduction

OK, how do i make it space more than 1?

I don't suffer your moral dilemma. I don't believe in human reproduction.

well I guess that's a couple less than I thought. All I know is one day mine are going to inadvertently walk into "mommy and daddy's special room/closet."

It doesn't matter if you don't believe in human reproduction. Human reproduction believes in you.

Can we get that on a bumper sticker?


And speaking of dilemmas, I almost got fired just now. All the reminiscing about former lovers got me looking at some old e-mails from my naughty nurse, and like a fool I open one with an attachment. My boss then walked in, and hopefully didn't notice the screen full of boobs.

It doesn't matter if you don't believe in human reproduction. Human reproduction believes in you.

Can we get that on a bumper sticker?


And speaking of dilemmas, I almost got fired just now. All the reminiscing about former lovers got me looking at some old e-mails from my naughty nurse, and like a fool I open one with an attachment. My boss then walked in, and hopefully didn't notice the screen full of boobs.

Your boss probably just thought you were looking at Fox news.

Your boss probably just thought you were looking at Fox news.

*sad trombone*

I like the idea of being in charge during sex. The dom to her sub. But outside the bedroom that sort of thing doesn't really appeal to me. I have told my current gf I am up for anything. As long as it doesn't violate my rear door I am pretty much up to anything. At least once.

Why?

well something about just lying there and having some man take you again and again working his tight arse off...

what ever happened to sharing!

And speaking of dilemmas, I almost got fired just now. All the reminiscing about former lovers got me looking at some old e-mails from my naughty nurse, and like a fool I open one with an attachment. My boss then walked in, and hopefully didn't notice the screen full of boobs.

is that the sounds of you sending me pics I hear?

As long as it doesn't violate my rear door I am pretty much up to anything.

let me buy you a drink...

*sad trombone*

Better than the tumbleweeds I usually get...

You don't happen to work as a high-def microscopic topographical imaging technician in a gynecologists office, do you?

Because then it would make sense that you were looking at boobs.

Better than the tumbleweeds I usually get...

You don't happen to work as a high-def microscopic topographical imaging technician in a gynecologists office, do you?

Because then it would make sense that you were looking at boobs.

Gyno is that one thing every teenage boy (and some girls) want to be... until he realizes that it's not just Jessica Biel and Scarlett Johannsen that go to them.

Gyno is that one thing every teenage boy (and some girls) want to be... until he realizes that it's not just Jessica Biel and Scarlett Johannsen that go to them.

I am appalled that you would doubt my appetite for the wiry-bushed yet experienced fare of the ancient vagina, or so callously impugn my love for the grateful puffy wetness of a fat and/or ugly girl.

I only took the LSAT instead of the MCAT because somebody told me "gynecologists don't know dick", and that seemed profound for some reason.

I don't suffer your moral dilemma. I don't believe in human reproduction.

I believe in Human Reproduction. I just don't participate.

I recall reading somewhere that the implication of medical care echoes trust as well as actual loving concern. I know it's sort of weird, but with that wonderful lady I mentioned earlier, those were always the most intimate instances of sex for us, excluding regular, you-and-me, cuddle afterwards stuff.

Yeah fair enough, and no it probably it isn't weird, mine probably are but you know as I say it is up to the individuals.

I take it you've yet to meet Generals that well...

He has only been here for 7 days perhaps I should give him the links of all the other threads.

Hmmmm... I'm wondering about that love hotel that's supposedly in Tokyo where every room's fitted out like a stateroom from the TOS Enterprise, complete with a closet full of costumes...
I have SO got to find that!

Osaka's got the infamous love hotel with the Hello Kitty bondage room....

I've long wanted to take a date to the Amemura landmark love hotel "Hotel California", and put the classic Eagles tune on...
I remember when Wai-wai and Tokyo Confidential were still going (right wing-nut bastards!) one of them did a bit of an story and found one that had set up a JR railcar setting for one to enjoy being a groper and then there was the full classroom set up.

One big one of late is teacher & student with a penalty for the student's mistakes...
I found out that it just doesn't work for me. Not only do I get weirded out by it, but I keep wanting to correct the mistakes. Too much time in front of a classroom I expect. :tongue:

Well fine then. She'd dress up as dairy cow and I'd put on my Roswell alien costume...:eek:
Guy liiiiike!
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I found out that it just doesn't work for me. Not only do I get weirded out by it, but I keep wanting to correct the mistakes. Too much time in front of a classroom I expect. :tongue:

No no, see the problem here is...actually, you might want to put some clothes on, it's cold and this could take a while..

As long as it doesn't violate my rear door I am pretty much up to anything.Ayup. Wifey had you there, over that bike, and you've had her in that sweet spot e'er since.

I have SO got to find that!

IIRC it was mentioned in Nicholas Bornoff's Pink Samurai (1991) and is likely long gone. :(

I remember when Wai-wai and Tokyo Confidential were still going (right wing-nut bastards!) one of them did a bit of an story and found one that had set up a JR railcar setting for one to enjoy being a groper and then there was the full classroom set up.

Nut bastards is right! The Tokyo Reporter (http://www.tokyoreporter.com/) blog is trying to fill that void...

I found out that it just doesn't work for me. Not only do I get weirded out by it, but I keep wanting to correct the mistakes. Too much time in front of a classroom I expect. :tongue:

(>.<)

He has only been here for 7 days perhaps I should give him the links of all the other threads.

Maybe you should. He'll be scarred for life, which is a good price to pay if he's to become a good Generalite.

No no, see the problem here is...actually, you might want to put some clothes on, it's cold and this could take a while..

Hehehe. The worst part is I could totally picture you doing this if somehow a point of constitutional law or something came up during foreplay. :p

Hehehe. The worst part is I could totally picture you doing this if somehow a point of constitutional law or something came up during foreplay. :p

... carefull. that could be something that would be more powerful than a date-rape drug. a classroom lecture that renders the target catatonic... :eek: :p

... carefull. that could be something that would be more powerful than a date-rape drug. a classroom lecture that renders the target catatonic... :eek: :p

Oh, the possibilities.:hail:

Oh, the possibilities.:hail:

Beuller... Beuller... Beuller...

Gyno is that one thing every teenage boy (and some girls) want to be... until he realizes that it's not just Jessica Biel and Scarlett Johannsen that go to them.

A chap I did my 'A' levels with had a father who was a gyno. You can imagine the kind of comments he got on a regular basis.

One day he brought in one his dad's medical books with plenty of photos in. I went off sex for a good few months.

How far would you, NSG, be willing to take a certain fantasy when re-enacting it with your partner? Slave-master, vampire-victim, police-arrestee, butler-maid, the possibilities are endeless.

For that matter, care to share some of those fantasies you only let materialize in the intimacy of the bedroom, in the solitude of the livingroom, in the halls of our private sanctum? Fantasies that invade your dreams at night. Come on, I dare you to share.

I'd be pretty open to anything except heavy bondage, so long as it pleased the partner.

As for my own personal fantasies, well, I'll get back to you on that :p

As for my own personal fantasies, well, I'll get back to you on that :pLiar. You won't. You'll leave us guessing, extrapolating, expanding, exaggerating, and pontificating.

Liar. You won't. You'll leave us guessing, extrapolating, expanding, exaggerating, and pontificating.

How else is one to subtly keep secrets? Always leave the door open, but never take the step outside.

How else is one to subtly keep secrets? Always leave the door open, but never take the step outside.
Fair enough. Even thought there's a palpable draft, it's still warm, pillowy and poorly lit inside i'm sure.

No no, see the problem here is...actually, you might want to put some clothes on, it's cold and this could take a while..

(>.<)
Well, it's true. One time when I was up in Tokyo I went to a maid cafe to check it out and they all were doing True Heart cosplay, so they ALL were in school uniforms. They found one girl who was taking English classes to wait on me and instead of enjoying it, I kept wanting to correct her English. It was something about seeing a seifuku and hearing "What you want to eat?" that triggered an automatic teacher impulse in me.

Yeah, I know, I know. It's pathetic, but that's probably why I'm a teacher in the first place. :tongue:

It has to be the uniform though because hostesses don't trigger the same response.

I'd be pretty open to anything except heavy bondage, so long as it pleased the partner.

As for my own personal fantasies, well, I'll get back to you on that :p

I took 2 RP fantasies quite far. With my ex, I took "Loveless" cosplay to new heights. I was Ritsuka and he was Soubi. Later on, when I got into ''Vampire Knight'', it was me being Yuuki and him being either Kuran Kaname or Kiryuu Zero.

But the recurrent theme with me is master/slave. In bed, I like the level of submission the partner (master) can take me to. I always say, be a whore in bed and a lady outside. In bed, I am a slave and a whore, I'll do anything you want me to. But outside, I rule your ass.

you ask a very difficult subject to think on. currently my life is more then just roleplay. i have a master in rl and its been very very interesting. things are never what they seem sometimes it seems in my life. he is at least a fair person. i take the role of a submissive but its more then a role. its a lifestyle. i dont know exactly how to explain it but the social hierarchy here works. him being a Dominant and there being multiple submissive type personalities here. its kinda fun :)

you ask a very difficult subject to think on. currently my life is more then just roleplay. i have a master in rl and its been very very interesting. things are never what they seem sometimes it seems in my life. he is at least a fair person. i take the role of a submissive but its more then a role. its a lifestyle. i dont know exactly how to explain it but the social hierarchy here works. him being a Dominant and there being multiple submissive type personalities here. its kinda fun :)

I think we have a few people here who identify as "lifestyle subs", Poli being the obvious one here in the thread.

Better than the tumbleweeds I usually get...

You don't happen to work as a high-def microscopic topographical imaging technician in a gynecologists office, do you?

Because then it would make sense that you were looking at boobs.

I don't think I should work in any career which requires me to act serious. I have been a library assistant, a produce vendor, and an animator. None of these have required me to be anything outside of friendly, helpful, and slightly mad.

In bed, I like the level of submission the partner (master) can take me to. I always say, be a whore in bed and a lady outside. In bed, I am a slave and a whore, I'll do anything you want me to. But outside, I rule your ass.
Hmmm ... i have two responses here, and you know both of them. :)

Hmmm ... i have two responses here, and you know both of them. :)
I believe she would know most of the responses to that from posters here.

I believe she would know most of the responses to that from posters here.

Not mine.

I believe she would know most of the responses to that from posters here.Perhaps ... perhaps not.
Would she know yours?

Perhaps ... perhaps not.
Would she know yours?

I sleep on the floor. so my whole apartment's my 'bed'. Therefore... :D

It depends whether or not part of my partner's fantasy is me laughing hysterically. If that was a turn-off, I don't think we'd get very far.

It depends whether or not part of my partner's fantasy is me laughing hysterically. If that was a turn-off, I don't think we'd get very far.

You realize, his size is genetic. Laughing at him for it is not very nice. :(

Hehe, it's hard to get a great deal spicier than the truth for me. ;)

Basically, because I've been a bit vague and oblique about this in this thread, I'm a submissive, and for me, it's not something I do, but something I am. I'm my partner's slave whether we're currently in the bedroom or just hanging out watching cartoons. When I'm not in a relationship, I'm still a subbie, just an un-owned one. So, I mean, my partner and I could pretend that I'm a medieval peasant and he's the lord of the manor exercising his droit de seigneur, and it'd probably be amusing, but it's not really any sexier or spicier than the ownership he already has. :)

I find this frankly fascinating about you (well, about anyone, but we're talking about you right now) because I don't think I've ever been a "submissive" ANYTHING in my life. On one level, I think I get it... I could probably even "play" along. But it's definitely not how I feel at my core.

You realize, his size is genetic. Laughing at him for it is not very nice. :(

Of all the problems my ex and I had over the years, that was definitely never one of them. ;)

I find this frankly fascinating about you (well, about anyone, but we're talking about you right now) because I don't think I've ever been a "submissive" ANYTHING in my life. On one level, I think I get it... I could probably even "play" along. But it's definitely not how I feel at my core.

I think of it as a sexual orientation, very much like being gay or straight. It's one of those things that, if it's for you, you just sort of always know it even before you know there's a word for it. I mean, every single fantasy I've ever had, from the time I was first entering puberty and starting to be aware that there was this thing called "sex" in the world, involved a guy in a position of power over a subordinate female. And just like a sexual orientation, if it doesn't appeal to you, then it just...doesn't. What you describe sounds very much like my feelings on making out with girls - I understand, in principle, why that would be fun, but the actual impulse to do so just doesn't exist. (Sorry, boys. :p )

I think of it as a sexual orientation, very much like being gay or straight. It's one of those things that, if it's for you, you just sort of always know it even before you know there's a word for it. I mean, every single fantasy I've ever had, from the time I was first entering puberty and starting to be aware that there was this thing called "sex" in the world, involved a guy in a position of power over a subordinate female. And just like a sexual orientation, if it doesn't appeal to you, then it just...doesn't. What you describe sounds very much like my feelings on making out with girls - I understand, in principle, why that would be fun, but the actual impulse to do so just doesn't exist. (Sorry, boys. :p )

But what if, from a dominant perspective, we *told* you to in order to prove your submission?

I think of it as a sexual orientation, very much like being gay or straight. It's one of those things that, if it's for you, you just sort of always know it even before you know there's a word for it. I mean, every single fantasy I've ever had, from the time I was first entering puberty and starting to be aware that there was this thing called "sex" in the world, involved a guy in a position of power over a subordinate female. And just like a sexual orientation, if it doesn't appeal to you, then it just...doesn't. What you describe sounds very much like my feelings on making out with girls - I understand, in principle, why that would be fun, but the actual impulse to do so just doesn't exist. (Sorry, boys. :p )
I get where you're coming from. It really just doesn't appeal to me. I do NOT take well to commands (Just ask my wife when she wants me to do something) and I want my partner to be my partner, not a slave (Quite possibly because I do spend all of my day barking out orders). My best friend though really got into it before he got into a relationship (I don't know what he and his wife get up to and I don't wanna know either), I remember that his pr0n involved a lot more whips and chains and other fun things than mine did. ;)

But what if, from a dominant perspective, we *told* you to in order to prove your submission?

Then I would, with all due respect, suggest that you bite me. :p

This actually seems to be a common misconception about submission - that being submissive means you're somehow willing to defer to, take orders from, or be demeaned by anyone. It is very untrue. Being submissive in romantic relationships in no way means that I am submissive in life as a whole.

Now, if someone who owned me ordered me to make out with a girl, well, he and I would be having a little talk about "hard limits" and "soft limits." In the end, I might do what he wanted, because I'm honestly not sure where on that spectrum such a thing would fall.

Then I would, with all due respect, suggest that you bite me. :p

I didn't know I was due respect. Maybe that was hypothetical respect.

As far as RP goes, the hottest thing that comes to mind involves me being a Warrior/Mage. Logically, I don't bring it up with my girlfriend.

As far as RP goes, the hottest thing that comes to mind involves me being a Warrior/Mage. Logically, I don't bring it up with my girlfriend.

And now I put on my wizard's hat...

But what if, from a dominant perspective, we *told* you to in order to prove your submission?

I imagine that would depend entirely on who is doing the asking.

And now I put on my wizard's hat...

it's "I put on my robe and wizard's hat" Get it fucking right.

it's "I put on my robe and wizard's hat" Get it fucking right.

Im drunk. Cut me some fucking slack.

I imagine that would depend entirely on who is doing the asking.

Pretty much, yup. ;)

I think of it as a sexual orientation, very much like being gay or straight. It's one of those things that, if it's for you, you just sort of always know it even before you know there's a word for it. I mean, every single fantasy I've ever had, from the time I was first entering puberty and starting to be aware that there was this thing called "sex" in the world, involved a guy in a position of power over a subordinate female. And just like a sexual orientation, if it doesn't appeal to you, then it just...doesn't. What you describe sounds very much like my feelings on making out with girls - I understand, in principle, why that would be fun, but the actual impulse to do so just doesn't exist. (Sorry, boys. :p )

Pff. Don't apologize to THEM, apologize to US, you big tease. :(

I get where you're coming from. It really just doesn't appeal to me. I do NOT take well to commands (Just ask my wife when she wants me to do something) and I want my partner to be my partner, not a slave

Ditto. I don't take shit from anyone, and I like people who don't take shit from me, either. I've had what I guess could be called "masochistic" fantasies before, of being hurt--but my fantasies aren't really about beatings, they're more about fistfights. I'm giving out as many cuts and bruises as I'm getting. I think possibly I'm just violent in a fairly run-of-the-mill and equal opportunity way. :P

Kind of a tangent, but Poli's got me all thinking now (and you know how that hurts my tiny woman brain!):

There was this exercise in acting class once (I needed SOMETHING to get out of my Gravity class) where you, like... imagined your "inner animal" or whatever, pictured the form it would take and kind of... let it emerge from you, until it filled you, and you WERE that animal. And once that happened, we--the people in the class, probably 25 of us or so--had to go around the room mingling and feeling each other out, not talking, just taking each other's measure, and basically line ourselves up in order of "dominance". It was a very strange but very interesting exercise. Without speaking or touching, just by circling, looking into each other's eyes, testing the vibe we were each giving off, we arranged ourselves in one line--and there were no disputes, no arguments or fighting for place--we did it all with our eyes.

I remember that out of about 25 people I was second. There was a tall boy with dark hawk-eyes at the front of the line, and when I went to move past him, to take his place, his eyes never blinked or left mine, he never moved--never even shifted his weight--and there was an energy from him that I pushed against, that I could feel was stronger than mine. Not at all aggressive--totally impassive, though not dispassionate, curious and yet very resolute. I took my place behind him, and I felt settled. Right. Comfortable, unthreatened, for maybe the first time, for just a little while, like things were the way they were supposed to be, like everyone knew their place and it didn't need to be worried over anymore.

I can imagine Poli as a rabbit we all pawed and fought over. :p

it's "I put on my robe and wizard's hat" Get it fucking right.

The Right Way:
bloodninja: Baby, I been havin a tough night so treat me nice aight?
BritneySpears14: Aight.
bloodninja: Slip out of those pants baby, yeah.
BritneySpears14: I slip out of my pants, just for you, bloodninja.
bloodninja: Oh yeah, aight. Aight, I put on my robe and wizard hat.
BritneySpears14: Oh, I like to play dress up.
bloodninja: Me too baby.
BritneySpears14: I kiss you softly on your chest.
bloodninja: I cast Lvl. 3 Eroticism. You turn into a real beautiful woman.
BritneySpears14: Hey...
bloodninja: I meditate to regain my mana, before casting Lvl. 8 Cock of the Infinite.
BritneySpears14: Funny I still don't see it.
bloodninja: I spend my mana reserves to cast Mighty F*ck of the Beyondness.
BritneySpears14: You are the worst cyber partner ever. This is ridiculous.
bloodninja: Don't f*ck with me bitch, I'm the mightiest sorcerer of the lands.
bloodninja: I steal yo soul and cast Lightning Lvl. 1,000,000 Your body explodes into a fine bloody mist, because you are only a Lvl. 2 Druid.
BritneySpears14: Don't ever message me again you piece of shit.
bloodninja: Robots are trying to drill my brain but my lightning shield inflicts DOA attack, leaving the robots as flaming piles of metal.
bloodninja: King Arthur congratulates me for destroying Dr. Robotnik's evil army of Robot Socialist Republics. The cold war ends. Reagan steals my accomplishments and makes like it was cause of him.
bloodninja: You still there baby? I think it's getting hard now.
bloodninja: Baby?

How far would you, NSG, be willing to take a certain fantasy when re-enacting it with your partner? Slave-master, vampire-victim, police-arrestee, butler-maid, the possibilities are endeless.

For that matter, care to share some of those fantasies you only let materialize in the intimacy of the bedroom, in the solitude of the livingroom, in the halls of our private sanctum? Fantasies that invade your dreams at night. Come on, I dare you to share.

role playing can go as far as you and your partner are willing. I think "hey, fucking stop!" would be an indicator of when to call it quits. Unless you are into rape fantasies which I could never get around to. The idea of rape in any form just disgusts me so it really doesn't even merit and attempt. Whatever two consenting adults choose to do with one another is fine by me. Hell, 3, 4, 5 consenting adults even. As long as no one's human rights are being violated then violate the hell out of each other.

Kind of a tangent, but Poli's got me all thinking now (and you know how that hurts my tiny woman brain!):

There was this exercise in acting class once (I needed SOMETHING to get out of my Gravity class) where you, like... imagined your "inner animal" or whatever, pictured the form it would take and kind of... let it emerge from you, until it filled you, and you WERE that animal. And once that happened, we--the people in the class, probably 25 of us or so--had to go around the room mingling and feeling each other out, not talking, just taking each other's measure, and basically line ourselves up in order of "dominance". It was a very strange but very interesting exercise. Without speaking or touching, just by circling, looking into each other's eyes, testing the vibe we were each giving off, we arranged ourselves in one line--and there were no disputes, no arguments or fighting for place--we did it all with our eyes.

I remember that out of about 25 people I was second. There was a tall boy with dark hawk-eyes at the front of the line, and when I went to move past him, to take his place, his eyes never blinked or left mine, he never moved--never even shifted his weight--and there was an energy from him that I pushed against, that I could feel was stronger than mine. Not at all aggressive--totally impassive, though not dispassionate, curious and yet very resolute. I took my place behind him, and I felt settled. Right. Comfortable, unthreatened, for maybe the first time, for just a little while, like things were the way they were supposed to be, like everyone knew their place and it didn't need to be worried over anymore.

I can imagine Poli as a rabbit we all pawed and fought over. :p

That's really interesting, actually, since the sensation you're describing sounds a LOT like one aspect of "subspace" for me - that sort of undefinable feeling that yes, this is right, this is comfortable, this is safe, this is just where I fit. It's an awfully nice feeling. :)

I think roleplaying is a real turn off. Like...for example I'm not going to pretend I'm a prostitute. I don't see the point. It's not hot. If he's fucking me, calls me a whore, spits on my back and tells me to take it, THAT'S hot.

No need to 'spice it up' it's already off the charts.

That's really interesting, actually, since the sensation you're describing sounds a LOT like one aspect of "subspace" for me - that sort of undefinable feeling that yes, this is right, this is comfortable, this is safe, this is just where I fit. It's an awfully nice feeling. :)

That's hot.

it's "I put on my robe and wizard's hat" Get it fucking right.

The fact that you seem to be involved with the Bloodninja quotation in EVERY thread on this subject is fairly telling :p

Then I would, with all due respect, suggest that you bite me. :p

This actually seems to be a common misconception about submission - that being submissive means you're somehow willing to defer to, take orders from, or be demeaned by anyone. It is very untrue. Being submissive in romantic relationships in no way means that I am submissive in life as a whole.


Case in point. Does anyone REALLY think that because I'm submissive with my lover that I would take ANY sort of shit from anyone else?

Really?

Yeah.

The fact that you seem to be involved with the Bloodninja quotation in EVERY thread on this subject is fairly telling :p

Bet he was pretending to be the girl and picking up guys in a chat room.

Case in point. Does anyone REALLY think that because I'm submissive with my lover that I would take ANY sort of shit from anyone else?

Really?

Yeah.

I almost specifically used you as an example. :p

I almost specifically used you as an example. :p

A lot of subs are very dominant in other areas of their lives...it's almost a stereotype really. I'm surprised people aren't more familiar with it.

That's hot.

I think so, too. ;)

A lot of subs are very dominant in other areas of their lives...it's almost a stereotype really. I'm surprised people aren't more familiar with it.

Yeah, it's kind of amazing, really. I was rather astounded to find that damn near every time my ex told one of his friends the nature of our relationship, I had to go through basically the exact same stupid little dialogue with each one:

Them: Hur hur, go get me a sandwich, bitch.
Me: Get your own sandwich, asshole.
Them: ....hey!
Me: What?
Them: But you let [ex's name] say things like that, and you do what he says!
Me: And are you [ex's name]?
Them: No, but -
Me: Then why the hell do you think I'd let you?
Them: But you're, like, a slave!
Me: No, I'm HIS slave. Not yours.
Them: But that's unfair!
Me: Are you kidding me? It's about as "unfair" as the fact that a husband gets to fuck his wife and you don't. Now go get your own damn sandwich, idiot.

Yeah, it's kind of amazing, really. I was rather astounded to find that damn near every time my ex told one of his friends the nature of our relationship, I had to go through basically the exact same stupid little dialogue with each one:

Them: Hur hur, go get me a sandwich, bitch.
Me: Get your own sandwich, asshole.
Them: ....hey!
Me: What?
Them: But you let [ex's name] say things like that, and you do what he says!
Me: And are you [ex's name]?
Them: No, but -
Me: Then why the hell do you think I'd let you?
Them: But you're, like, a slave!
Me: No, I'm HIS slave. Not yours.
Them: But that's unfair!
Me: Are you kidding me? It's about as "unfair" as the fact that a husband gets to fuck his wife and you don't. Now go get your own damn sandwich, idiot.

Ugh. Shit for brains.

Or people assume I must be a dominant.

Yeah, it's kind of amazing, really. I was rather astounded to find that damn near every time my ex told one of his friends the nature of our relationship, I had to go through basically the exact same stupid little dialogue with each one:

Them: Hur hur, go get me a sandwich, bitch.
Me: Get your own sandwich, asshole.
Them: ....hey!
Me: What?
Them: But you let [ex's name] say things like that, and you do what he says!
Me: And are you [ex's name]?
Them: No, but -
Me: Then why the hell do you think I'd let you?
Them: But you're, like, a slave!
Me: No, I'm HIS slave. Not yours.
Them: But that's unfair!
Me: Are you kidding me? It's about as "unfair" as the fact that a husband gets to fuck his wife and you don't. Now go get your own damn sandwich, idiot.

get me a sandwich.

Ugh. Shit for brains.

Or people assume I must be a dominant.

you help.

A lot of subs are very dominant in other areas of their lives...it's almost a stereotype really. I'm surprised people aren't more familiar with it.

which is funny too, because I think a lot perceive dominants to be these uber control freak type people. Most people who know me will admit I'm a fairly laid back guy. I don't like making every decision, I don't like being "the decider" over every aspect. In fact, when it comes to routine things, sometimes I'd much rather not, and just let someone ELSE come up with a decision, because I just can't be bothered.

get me a sandwich.



I knew you were going to say that. Predictable, predictable.





*mails sandwich to Boston*

*mails sandwich to Boston*

good girl :p

good girl :p

Hehe. Why, thank you...you. ;)

I sleep on the floor. so my whole apartment's my 'bed'. Therefore... :D
If i had that kind of pad, it'd be all bean bag chairs, throw pillows and 3"-high carpet, walls carpeted too.

I'm thinking I'd go as far as Spain :p I'm very much into expressing my freedom when it comes to my personal life, so there's few limits.