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So, people fo NSG, how do you deal with anger? Like let's say someone really pisses you off, how do you handle it? Me, I just have to release that anger right away, because if I don't then it's going to build up and if it builds up, it's going to be worse than it would've been if I released it right away. I try to only take it out on people who deserve it though, I try not to involve any innocent bystanders.

So, someone pisses me off, I go after them, I get the anger out, and I'm happy.

How does the people of NSG deal with their anger?

Sometimes i sabotage them subtly, sometimes i confront them directly.
Often, i do a lot of yelling.

I tend to laugh. It seems to release a lot of tension.

So, people fo NSG, how do you deal with anger? Like let's say someone really pisses you off, how do you handle it?

Like an adult.

Like an adult.

Through legal means, then. :D

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I scream and rant and make angry noises and then I cry for a bit. It's funny because when I'm angry with hubby I scream and yell and say angry things at him, but then when I am at the crying part, he still cuddles me......and I still want him to. :p

Make other people angry (http://youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0).
You just lost the game.

Get back at them :mad:

Make other people angry (http://youtube.com/watch?v=oHg5SJYRHA0).
You just lost the game.

I am glad that video on that link has been taken down.

You just lost the game.

Screw you, man. Let me make it through a day at least. :p

Cut my legs. But I'm not really supposed to.

I build up my anger. I save it I cherish it. Then When I need the power from anger I call it forth and destroy my enemies.

It depends on the nature and source of the anger, but I'd say my most common response would be simply to do something like declare, "Well, fuck" at the universe and then go play angry songs on the piano. I generally don't "take it out on" anyone, although if a specific person has angered me I certainly might confront them about whatever it is they did that made me angry.

Screw you, man. Let me make it through a day at least. :p

See? I feel better already. I love my sig, don't you?

I am glad that video on that link has been taken down.

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With a hacksaw and a blowtorch. Der.

Hold all in until I absolutely explode. Violently.

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Umm ok I tried it again and it came up, when I tried it earlier it said this video has been taken down.

Hold all in until I absolutely explode. Violently.

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Revenge.

Method and extent depends on the specifics of the situation.

Fergi America;13798012']Revenge.

Method and extent depends on the specifics of the situation.

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You wouldn't like me when I'm angry...[/obvious quote]

Hold all in until I absolutely explode. Violently.

I see you committing a mass shooting sometimes in the near future. *nod*

I'm a pot smoker, so most times I just get over it.

I curse. A lot. Sometimes in combinations whose creativity surprises even me. I bitch to my friends (but I listen to their bitching, too, it's mutual), I play fuck-you music (Deftones, GlassJAw, etc.), sometimes I jump up and down or run until my energy's drained.

Cut my legs. But I'm not really supposed to.

Not so much, no. But it is immediate. Have you tried throwing eggs at a wall or buying cheap porcelain stuff at a thrift store and smashing it with a hammer? Very satisfying.

I build up my anger. I save it I cherish it. Then When I need the power from anger I call it forth and destroy my enemies.

What, in WoW?

Not so much, no. But it is immediate. Have you tried throwing eggs at a wall or buying cheap porcelain stuff at a thrift store and smashing it with a hammer? Very satisfying.


Much customer generated frustration at the record store was relieved by breaking things. Anything left in the backroom was doomed.

I've never been angry at work *knock on wood* and keep to myself when I'm at home, so there aren't ever any problems with anger. Objects that make me angry do often wind up broken, though, I must admit. :p Oh, the list of interesting things I've broken - it goes on and on. :)

I'm a pot smoker, so most times I just get over it.

Here's a small sound clip from 'Gumby' you may enjoy. I haven't found the ideal moment to use it here yet:

http://www.boomspeed.com/looonatic/tryit.wav

Surely you can see the potential. :D

I just laugh it off and do normal stress reduction things (get smashed on the weekend...when I have cash:()

I don't really explode because kicking your bosses arse might not always be the best option and you tend to look an arsehole

You wouldn't like me when I'm hungry...[/obvious quote]

Fixed.

Fixed.

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I write. I play video games where I can kill lots of pixelated enemies. I yell. I exercise.

Then when I am calm, if I'm angry about something someone else has done, I talk to them about it.

Childish Tantrums


*nods*

Here's a small sound clip from 'Gumby' you may enjoy. I haven't found the ideal moment to use it here yet:

http://www.boomspeed.com/looonatic/tryit.wav

Surely you can see the potential. :D
Quality.

So, people fo NSG, how do you deal with anger? Like let's say someone really pisses you off, how do you handle it? Me, I just have to release that anger right away, because if I don't then it's going to build up and if it builds up, it's going to be worse than it would've been if I released it right away. I try to only take it out on people who deserve it though, I try not to involve any innocent bystanders.

So, someone pisses me off, I go after them, I get the anger out, and I'm happy.

How does the people of NSG deal with their anger?

Anger doesn't build. Anger is like a muscle. If you use it constantly it's easier to use. If you allow yourself to express anger every time it pops into your head, your system gets used to it and you get worse at needing to express anger. On the other hand, if you choose to let the anger pass quietly and fund humor in the situation, you're less likely to be affected by anger long term. I laugh it off like an adult should do. JMO though.

What, in WoW?
no...
KoTOR mostly.

So, people fo NSG, how do you deal with anger?
Try to keep quiet, and in doing so let it build up. Then have sex, so all of my feelings are sorted out via orgasm, hurrah.

Try to keep quiet, and in doing so let it build up. Then have sex, so all of my feelings are sorted out via orgasm, hurrah.

what about angry sex?

what about angry sex?
Rough, sometimes, angry, no ta.

Try to keep quiet, and in doing so let it build up. Then have sex, so all of my feelings are sorted out via orgasm, hurrah.

Sex solves everything

I tend to keep my emotions bottles up and squish them deep down inside me and never acknowledge them - its the healthy thing to do!

I tend to keep my emotions bottles up and squish them deep down inside me and never acknowledge them - its the healthy thing to do!

I see a tumor in your future, and that's not a good thing. :(

Exercise. I go on long bike rides when I'm pissed. It bleeds the anger/adrenaline out and allows me to think rationally about what made me angry in the first place.

Exercise. I go on long bike rides when I'm pissed. It bleeds the anger/adrenaline out and allows me to think rationally about what made me angry in the first place.

I do much the same, except I run. I usually go down to the beach and run on the sand, it can be very calming. Gotta go at night though, at least during the summer.

I see a tumor in your future, and that's not a good thing. :(

Hey, if I ignore it it doesn't exist! :D

Stay cool, then choose to

1. Ignore (in single case incidents)
2. Get Even (if I anticipate that the person will continue their behavior without doing so)
3. Flip out (if I have no way of getting even or stopping the event from reoccurring, the whole anticipation of it happening again bothers me to no end. It's like having a mosquito flying in your room biting you while you try to sleep, when you are unable to kill it. The whole fact of knowing that I will get bite again isn't the kind of stress I can handle at this point.)

I've never been so pissed off that I couldn't think rationally. When something is pissing me off I do something to fix it when it's possible, and when it's not possible I just live with it.

I contain it, possibly by clenching my hands in fists or more likely, spouting litanies of curses in my own mind and/or imagining horrible things to happen to one who would raise my anger. My anger dissipates quite quick usually, as I know it's most often useless or stupid to act on it.

If the anger is caused by someone in my inner circle and if I feel it's necessary, I remove said person from my inner circle.

I rarely lash out due anger, as I had good... "Training" during my school years. The downside is that when I do boil over... It can get messy. The only time it has happened I was close to doing something I would've regretted for the rest of my life.

I smoke a Newport and pop some pills.

I usually release all my rage in a single short lived burst. Usually I just scream and then take a deep breath and I am fine. Its easy to let things roll off my over sized shoulders.