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So, I am a very stressful person, I stressed over everything that isn't going the way that I plan it to be going, and I stress over whether or not something is going to happen the way I want it to happen, etc. Take this for example, every semester I stress over the fact that I may not pass my class, despite the fact that every semester I've been getting As and Bs. I stress over every stupid little things, and I stress over things that I have no control over and can't do anything about anyways. Point is, I am stressed out.

Because I don't know how to handle stress or calm myself down (except for a few hours a day), it's starting to affect some people that I care about and it's starting to push them away, which I do not want.

Due to recent events, and the realization that I do need to get my stress under control, I've decided that I am not ready for any type of relationship, because not only do I have to deal with my stress, but I also have to learn how to enjoy being single and be ok with being single. However, there are those moments where I get lonely, and then I get stressed.

So, since NSG is probably filled with other insane people like myself, does anyone have any advice on how to deal with stress, how to be ok with being single, and how to deal with being lonely?

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So, I am a very stressful person, I stressed over everything that isn't going the way that I plan it to be going, and I stress over whether or not something is going to happen the way I want it to happen, etc. Take this for example, every semester I stress over the fact that I may not pass my class, despite the fact that every semester I've been getting As and Bs. I stress over every stupid little things, and I stress over things that I have no control over and can't do anything about anyways. Point is, I am stressed out.

Because I don't know how to handle stress or calm myself down (except for a few hours a day), it's starting to affect some people that I care about and it's starting to push them away, which I do not want.

Due to recent events, and the realization that I do need to get my stress under control, I've decided that I am not ready for any type of relationship, because not only do I have to deal with my stress, but I also have to learn how to enjoy being single and be ok with being single. However, there are those moments where I get lonely, and then I get stressed.

So, since NSG is probably filled with other insane people like myself, does anyone have any advice on how to deal with stress, how to be ok with being single, and how to deal with being lonely?

Keep a journal. Take your mind off your things and do something else, like exercising and cooking.

And singleness is definitely a gift - well, depending how old you are.

And finally, if you're really having problems, seek professional help!

Aww... :fluffle:

I think that to get your stress under control you just need to internalize the idea that there is only so much you can do. You do the best you can, and you hope for the best. Instead of spending time worrying about things, you should spend more time doing something escapist with your friends.

Seeking help is the way to go; go see a proffesional.

i either get stressed or depressed, depending on how i feel. right now our business is kinda failing and our livelihoods are on the line, and that's a bit of both. being a long-term sufferer from depression, its especially bad as i've now given up hope for the future. so you could always go for the "at least my life's not as bad as starving homeless people in the 3rd world" option.

my advice: shoot people in GTA IV. repeatedly. it works for me. or get yourself some weed.

or talk about things with someone who cares, but always make sure they know they're very helpful and that you appreciate their putting the effort in to listening to difficult stuff. and always be open to doing the same for them. <--- serious answer

So, I am a very stressful person, I stressed over everything that isn't going the way that I plan it to be going, and I stress over whether or not something is going to happen the way I want it to happen, etc. Take this for example, every semester I stress over the fact that I may not pass my class, despite the fact that every semester I've been getting As and Bs. I stress over every stupid little things, and I stress over things that I have no control over and can't do anything about anyways. Point is, I am stressed out.

Because I don't know how to handle stress or calm myself down (except for a few hours a day), it's starting to affect some people that I care about and it's starting to push them away, which I do not want.

Due to recent events, and the realization that I do need to get my stress under control, I've decided that I am not ready for any type of relationship, because not only do I have to deal with my stress, but I also have to learn how to enjoy being single and be ok with being single. However, there are those moments where I get lonely, and then I get stressed.

So, since NSG is probably filled with other insane people like myself, does anyone have any advice on how to deal with stress, how to be ok with being single, and how to deal with being lonely?

One thing you might also try is not looking for things to stress you out. For example, not long ago you went on a tirade about living in a neighborhood near sex offenders. This seemed to be a huge source of stress for you. Why go looking for it? If you have a tendency to stress over stuff then at least limit the sources.

My mother is just like that. She can't handle things going well so whenever things are calm and smooth she tends to go searching for a crisis to get her panties in a knot over.

Seeing that in her helped me to recognize that in myself, and so I took steps to reduce the things to stress about in my life to begin with.

So, I am a very stressful person, I stressed over everything that isn't going the way that I plan it to be going, and I stress over whether or not something is going to happen the way I want it to happen, etc. Take this for example, every semester I stress over the fact that I may not pass my class, despite the fact that every semester I've been getting As and Bs. I stress over every stupid little things, and I stress over things that I have no control over and can't do anything about anyways. Point is, I am stressed out.

Because I don't know how to handle stress or calm myself down (except for a few hours a day), it's starting to affect some people that I care about and it's starting to push them away, which I do not want.

Due to recent events, and the realization that I do need to get my stress under control, I've decided that I am not ready for any type of relationship, because not only do I have to deal with my stress, but I also have to learn how to enjoy being single and be ok with being single. However, there are those moments where I get lonely, and then I get stressed.

So, since NSG is probably filled with other insane people like myself, does anyone have any advice on how to deal with stress, how to be ok with being single, and how to deal with being lonely?

When I'm stressed, I always find that masturbating relaxes me a lot. Try that.;)

So, since NSG is probably filled with other insane people like myself, does anyone have any advice on how to deal with stress, how to be ok with being single, and how to deal with being lonely?Take a nap. As for the ok with being single, I went out and got laid a couple times with girls I wasn't going to engage in a relationship with and keep reminding myself just how horrible the aftermath of my last relationship was whenever I see a young couple making out.

When I'm stressed, I always find that masturbating relaxes me a lot. Try that.;)

Only if I can masturbate you.

So, I am a very stressful person, I stressed over everything that isn't going the way that I plan it to be going, and I stress over whether or not something is going to happen the way I want it to happen, etc. Take this for example, every semester I stress over the fact that I may not pass my class, despite the fact that every semester I've been getting As and Bs. I stress over every stupid little things, and I stress over things that I have no control over and can't do anything about anyways. Point is, I am stressed out.

Because I don't know how to handle stress or calm myself down (except for a few hours a day), it's starting to affect some people that I care about and it's starting to push them away, which I do not want.

Due to recent events, and the realization that I do need to get my stress under control, I've decided that I am not ready for any type of relationship, because not only do I have to deal with my stress, but I also have to learn how to enjoy being single and be ok with being single. However, there are those moments where I get lonely, and then I get stressed.

So, since NSG is probably filled with other insane people like myself, does anyone have any advice on how to deal with stress, how to be ok with being single, and how to deal with being lonely?

I think it has more to do with your outlook on life. The best thing to do is look upwards. No, not at the ceiling, at the sky. Now think of all the things out there you know of, hiding behind the blue light in the sky. Now feel the vastness of the universe around you. Feeling small yet? That's good. Because you are small. And insignificant. And everything you do is small, petty and insignificant. Whether, you win or lose, you are good or bad, or simply trying to do what's right, you are irrelevant. Failing a class is irrelevant. Living like a bum, or in a palace is irrelevant.

And let this set you free.

So, I am a very stressful person, I stressed over everything that isn't going the way that I plan it to be going, and I stress over whether or not something is going to happen the way I want it to happen, etc. Take this for example, every semester I stress over the fact that I may not pass my class, despite the fact that every semester I've been getting As and Bs. I stress over every stupid little things, and I stress over things that I have no control over and can't do anything about anyways. Point is, I am stressed out.

Because I don't know how to handle stress or calm myself down (except for a few hours a day), it's starting to affect some people that I care about and it's starting to push them away, which I do not want.

Due to recent events, and the realization that I do need to get my stress under control, I've decided that I am not ready for any type of relationship, because not only do I have to deal with my stress, but I also have to learn how to enjoy being single and be ok with being single. However, there are those moments where I get lonely, and then I get stressed.

So, since NSG is probably filled with other insane people like myself, does anyone have any advice on how to deal with stress, how to be ok with being single, and how to deal with being lonely?

You need wackos in your life. You need people who can distract you from the stresses of life by chasing you with a roll of duct tape and a stun gun. *nod*

I'm an excellent stress reliever. :cool:

Only if I can masturbate you.

I have the Muse Erato for that, thank you very much.

I have the Muse Erato for that, thank you very much.

I imagine it's better in person.

I imagine it's better in person.

It is...

Meh.I'm lonely a lot. I got used to it. Mostly through NSG.

It is...

I bet it's even better when it's me.

I bet it's even better when it's me.

That, if it's ever said, will be on a TG.:cool:

That, if it's ever said, will be on a TG.:cool:

Spilling any ink over there?

Spilling any ink over there?

Nope. I'm at work. Are you spilling your ink there?

Nope. I'm at work. Are you spilling your ink there?

Actually, I tend to use a pencil.

Oh dear. At least have the decency to let the OP be depressed in peace, without you superimposing... images... on him and the rest of us.

Oh dear. At least have the decency to let the OP be depressed in peace, without you superimposing... images... on him and the rest of us.

Well, if he follows Nanatsu's and my suggestion, then we could possibly be helping him.

Think more rationally.

There is only so much you can do and control; a large part of life is chance or controlled by others.

Identify sources of stress and consider what you are doing/not doing about it, whether this (in)action is reasonable in purpose and amount, and what could be a better way of going about it.

Do not over-generalise.

Actually, I tend to use a pencil.

Ah, yes, a pencil. To earse those "nasty errors", right?;)

Well, if he follows Nanatsu's and my suggestion, then we could possibly be helping him.

I don't know about you, but Nanatsu talking about masturbation just kills my libido.

And it's obvious that Wilgrove isn't that sexually driven like the rest of us so I doubt this is going to lead anywhere, except giving him (and me) traumatising images.

Think more rationally.

There is only so much you can do and control; a large part of life is chance or controlled by others.

Identify sources of stress and consider what you are doing/not doing about it, whether this (in)action is reasonable in purpose and amount, and what could be a better way of going about it.

Do not over-generalise.

I think in cases of stress, thinking can only lead to more stress. What you need to do is just let go. Open your eyes and see that nothing is nearly as important as you think or would like it to be and just take life as it comes.

I don't know about you, but Nanatsu talking about masturbation just kills my libido.

And it's obvious that Wilgrove isn't that sexually driven like the rest of us so I doubt this is going to lead anywhere, except giving him (and me) traumatising images.

Why don't you let Wilgrove decide about that, eh? And I don't know about you, but you kill my libido so, please.

Why don't you let Wilgrove decide about that, eh? And I don't know about you, but you kill my libido so, please.

At least I don't "grace" the forums with my pictures and scream for attention. And this thread isn't about you, so shut it.

Cohibas help.

At least I don't "grace" the forums with my pictures and scream for attention. And this thread isn't about you, so shut it.

It's not about you either, is it?

I'm sorry but I wasn't jerking off all over someone's depression thread mkay?:rolleyes:

I think in cases of stress, thinking can only lead to more stress. What you need to do is just let go. Open your eyes and see that nothing is nearly as important as you think or would like it to be and just take life as it comes.

In a sense, that's what I was suggesting. Just 'letting go' could be a temporary solution, but permanent changes in behaviour require prolonged thought, mediation is good for this.

In a sense, that's what I was suggesting. Just 'letting go' could be a temporary solution, but permanent changes in behaviour require prolonged thought, mediation is good for this.

Well letting go wasn't meant in the "drink you brains out for the night" way, but rather in the changing of outlook on life. I've been depressive for about half of my life, and that kinda did it for me.

I'm sorry but I wasn't jerking off all over someone's depression thread mkay?:rolleyes:

And I was?

Either way, you're certainly not contributing any more poignant than Nanatsu and I, are you?

Makes me think about club meetings when someone yells for everyone to be quiet, and then everyone is yelling for everyone to be quiet because everyone is yelling.

At least I don't "grace" the forums with my pictures and scream for attention. And this thread isn't about you, so shut it.

I think that here, you're the one screaming for some "much needed attention". Boohoo. Are you lonely too?

Bullocks.

I gave Wilgrove, since he asked, my way of dealing with stress. If he pays attention to it or not, that's his problem. I think that in this one, you should shut it too.

Calladito te ves más bonito... o por ser tú, no.;)

So, I am a very stressful person, I stressed over everything that isn't going the way that I plan it to be going, and I stress over whether or not something is going to happen the way I want it to happen, etc. Take this for example, every semester I stress over the fact that I may not pass my class, despite the fact that every semester I've been getting As and Bs. I stress over every stupid little things, and I stress over things that I have no control over and can't do anything about anyways. Point is, I am stressed out.

Because I don't know how to handle stress or calm myself down (except for a few hours a day), it's starting to affect some people that I care about and it's starting to push them away, which I do not want.

Due to recent events, and the realization that I do need to get my stress under control, I've decided that I am not ready for any type of relationship, because not only do I have to deal with my stress, but I also have to learn how to enjoy being single and be ok with being single. However, there are those moments where I get lonely, and then I get stressed.

So, since NSG is probably filled with other insane people like myself, does anyone have any advice on how to deal with stress, how to be ok with being single, and how to deal with being lonely?

First of all: Chill out. If you make life that complicated and stressful, it WILL be that complicated and stressful. Take a deep breath and calm down. Life's rarely as bad or dramatic as you make we out to be.

Second: Get off the computer, go out, get drunk, get laid, or do whatever you usually do (NOT NATIONSTATES!) to relax and have fun.

Third: NSG is neither a blog nor are we Dr. Phil. This kinda thread really doesn't belong here.

You'll be fine Wilgrove. Being stressed tends to make me over-productive. Perhaps you should find things to do (like homework, or a job, or work around the house, or something) when you're stressed. Also, I lift weights when stressed. It's one hell of a workout.

And I was?

Either way, you're certainly not contributing any more poignant than Nanatsu and I, are you?

Makes me think about club meetings when someone yells for everyone to be quiet, and then everyone is yelling for everyone to be quiet because everyone is yelling.

Pretty much:)

Pretty much:)

So. Nanatsu and I were being cheeky, fun, and actually somewhat on topic (this would be how we fight depression, eh?). You're the one that initiated the yelling match.

I think that here, you're the one screaming for some "much needed attention". Boohoo. Are you lonely too?

lulz.

I gave Wilgrove, since he asked, my way of dealing with stress. If he pays attention to it or not, that's his problem. I think that in this one, you should shut it too.

Of course. I simply don't think what followed was proper in this thread.

Calladito te ves más bonito... o por ser tú, no.;)

I'm not going to bother with googling that. "te ves mas bonito" = "you think you're more pretty"? ; "o por ser tu" = "or for being yourself"?
Damn, it's been a while... need to brush up for my holidays

So. Nanatsu and I were being cheeky, fun, and actually somewhat on topic (this would be how we fight depression, eh?). You're the one that initiated the yelling match.

Uhm... flirting on the topic of masturbation is hardly on topic, or helpful.

Uhm... flirting on the topic of masturbation is hardly on topic, or helpful.

It is when it is directly related to ways one might fight feelings of loneliness and depression. A chat and a whack may be exactly what someone needs.

It is when it is directly related to ways one might fight feelings of loneliness and depression. A chat and a whack may be exactly what someone needs.

Yes, could be. But watching others going on about it and you being still depressed and lonely only makes the whole thing worse.

I go out. I drive (for me it calms me down). I also watch favorite movies or work on my garden.

I think that here, you're the one screaming for some "much needed attention". Boohoo. Are you lonely too?

Bullocks.

I gave Wilgrove, since he asked, my way of dealing with stress. If he pays attention to it or not, that's his problem. I think that in this one, you should shut it too.

Because someone tells you to knock off the whoring they are "screaming for attention"?
Fine, you told him how you relax..no need to keep at it and hijack the thread.

lulz.



Of course. I simply don't think what followed was proper in this thread.



I'm not going to bother with googling that. "te ves mas bonito" = "you think you're more pretty"? ; "o por ser tu" = "or for being yourself"?
Damn, it's been a while... need to brush up for my holidays

In truth, Rhyno and me might've gone a bit overboard. I give you that. But we're not flirting on the topic. We like to bother each other. That this thread is not the medium, yeah. We were just trying to be lighthearted.

As for the OP, I already gave him my honest opinion in what is it I do when I feel stressed. Lonely? I'm not. I live with my fiance. There, I can't help Wilgrove. Maybe he just needs to not dwell in it too much. People deal with these in different ways. My best friend just stuffs himself. Not healthy.

And yes, brush up on your Spanish.;)

So, I am a very stressful person, I stressed over everything that isn't going the way that I plan it to be going, and I stress over whether or not something is going to happen the way I want it to happen, etc. Take this for example, every semester I stress over the fact that I may not pass my class, despite the fact that every semester I've been getting As and Bs. I stress over every stupid little things, and I stress over things that I have no control over and can't do anything about anyways. Point is, I am stressed out.

Because I don't know how to handle stress or calm myself down (except for a few hours a day), it's starting to affect some people that I care about and it's starting to push them away, which I do not want.

Due to recent events, and the realization that I do need to get my stress under control, I've decided that I am not ready for any type of relationship, because not only do I have to deal with my stress, but I also have to learn how to enjoy being single and be ok with being single. However, there are those moments where I get lonely, and then I get stressed.

So, since NSG is probably filled with other insane people like myself, does anyone have any advice on how to deal with stress, how to be ok with being single, and how to deal with being lonely?

masturbate more often.

Yes, could be. But watching others going on about it and you being still depressed and lonely only makes the whole thing worse.

Or he could join in and be lighthearted, fun, and get his mind off of things.
And maybe that's his decision, not yours.

And maybe, just maybe, this is a public, open forum, and all users post at their own risk, and the OP knew this.

To take a very practical approach:
Stress is when you percieve your coping abilities as unable to cope with your percieved difficulties.

So, you either need to work on improving your coping abilities (finding ways to relax, having structured revision so you feel prepared for exams etc), decreasing difficulties (not taking on things that will stress you out etc) or changing your perception of both these things (recognising your abilities, getting perspective on events happening etc).

Cognitive-behavioural therapy works on these kinda things, but if actual therapy seems daunting or a bit "over-the top", some books can be really good at helping change thought patterns.


As for being happy being single, again it's all about perceptions. All situations will have pros and cons and you need to know what you value. If you value freedom and independence, then singleness will work for you! Make the most of the benefits, whatever they may be for you.

Singleness doesn't necessarily mean loneliness. Friends can help that!

Being stressed doesn't necessarily mean you can't have a relationship though. It's nice to be considerate in that way to a potential partner, but there are ways to have a healthy relationship despite being stressed. Bit more work, obviously, but great benefits if a relationship is worthwhile for you.

Well letting go wasn't meant in the "drink you brains out for the night" way, but rather in the changing of outlook on life. I've been depressive for about half of my life, and that kinda did it for me.

Yes, I've been in a similar position, but 'letting go' still involves thought, deep thought at that. However, it must be done in a relaxed and non-stressed way.

To take a very practical approach:
Stress is when you percieve your coping abilities as unable to cope with your percieved difficulties.

So, you either need to work on improving your coping abilities (finding ways to relax, having structured revision so you feel prepared for exams etc), decreasing difficulties (not taking on things that will stress you out etc) or changing your perception of both these things (recognising your abilities, getting perspective on events happening etc).

Cognitive-behavioural therapy works on these kinda things, but if actual therapy seems daunting or a bit "over-the top", some books can be really good at helping change thought patterns.

Indeed. I found stuff by the CBT guys very useful, especially A Guide to Rational Living.

If you're stressed, have a drink(or two). Seriously, that will calm your nerves. As for being ok w/ being single, I'm not sure. I've always been ok with being single so I honestly have no idea what that's like.

Yes, I've been in a similar position, but 'letting go' still involves thought, deep thought at that. However, it must be done in a relaxed and non-stressed way.
And you've got to be careful that "letting go" isn't "ignoring problems that are causing stress under the surface, leading to serious problems"...

Indeed. I found stuff by the CBT guys very useful, especially A Guide to Rational Living.
It can be a lot of hard work, but very worthwhile, and with very simple principles. I also find it very empowering.

1. Get a damn blog.

2. Follow Glitzi's advice.

Why don't you let Wilgrove decide about that, eh? And I don't know about you, but you kill my libido so, please.

Ad Nihilo is right though, I don't want to know about you masturbating, and I don't sleep with women just to sleep with them. For me, there has to be an emotional connection.

Ad Nihilo is right though, I don't want to know about you masturbating, and I don't sleep with women just to sleep with them. For me, there has to be an emotional connection.

That's a fair cop.

And you've got to be careful that "letting go" isn't "ignoring problems that are causing stress under the surface, leading to serious problems"...

Yeah, that's what I was trying to say, couldn't quite get the turn of phrase.

It can be a lot of hard work, but very worthwhile, and with very simple principles. I also find it very empowering.

:)

So, I am a very stressful person, I stressed over everything that isn't going the way that I plan it to be going, and I stress over whether or not something is going to happen the way I want it to happen, etc. Take this for example, every semester I stress over the fact that I may not pass my class, despite the fact that every semester I've been getting As and Bs. I stress over every stupid little things, and I stress over things that I have no control over and can't do anything about anyways. Point is, I am stressed out.

Because I don't know how to handle stress or calm myself down (except for a few hours a day), it's starting to affect some people that I care about and it's starting to push them away, which I do not want.

Due to recent events, and the realization that I do need to get my stress under control, I've decided that I am not ready for any type of relationship, because not only do I have to deal with my stress, but I also have to learn how to enjoy being single and be ok with being single. However, there are those moments where I get lonely, and then I get stressed.

So, since NSG is probably filled with other insane people like myself, does anyone have any advice on how to deal with stress, how to be ok with being single, and how to deal with being lonely?

One word: Cigarettes. For five bucks a pack you can cut down on stress like crazy.... Nicotine works wonders for that. Granted, your life will be cut short, but it will be cut short if you're stressed out all the time too.... So you get the same result regardless, only you'll feel a lot less stressed with nicotine in your system.

If cigarettes are absolutely not your thing, drink alcohol. Both of them together are definitely the best... Few things beat a long day of teaching and classes like Camel Lights and a nice tall glass of Guinness. If you're underage, it feels good to break a rule every now and again.... Have at it. As someone who holds bachelors degrees in Secondary Education - History and Theology, I can't believe I just said that, but it's true.

If alcohol isn't your thing, do what the health nuts tell you and take a vacation or find a hobby... I recommend music of some sort if you have the ear for it or martial arts of some kind.

My reasons for staying single are quite different from yours (I have a long list of ambitions and I don't want family duties to get in the way), but I will give you a tool that I use to keep the "I'm missing out on something" feeling away. This will only work if you have a good imagination.... Whenever you have desires to be in relationships, vilify the whole concept of it in your mind... Picture in your head 10 years from now when the woman is no longer attractive and constantly complains about everything you do... She sits on her ass, doesn't work, doesn't cook, doesn't clean, doesn't do anything (much less sex) and bitches that you are a lazy good for nothing (Replace the she with a he if you're female or gay). Obviously, this is taking the worst possible marriage and WAY over generalizing that all married couples are like that. If you're anything like me, you're going to feel nice and happy being single with that mind set, no matter how unrealistic it is. It's more or less mental propaganda.... Vilifying it in your head and making it out to be the worst possible thing ever and eventually you'll start to believe it. Again, if you're like me this is going to make you single, asexual (in the respect that you're not very interested in sexual relationships), and damn proud of it.

How to deal with being lonely? Well, you shouldn't feel too lonely anymore if you do what I said above, but as a Christian I say you should read the New Testament.... It's not sex, I grant you, but God has a way of filling in that missing place in your life and you can find some sort of meaning in whatever you're doing that's stressful. I know people are going to lash out at me like crazy for mentioning Christianity, but hey... You're the one that asked and that's what works for me. You might also invest in friendships as well... As they said in the Godfather Part 3, "Even the strongest man needs friends."

I know what stress is like, I'm a grad student myself and it's a real pain in the ass... What I mentioned above is what works for me, it may or may not work for you. That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

So, I am a very stressful person, I stressed over everything that isn't going the way that I plan it to be going, and I stress over whether or not something is going to happen the way I want it to happen, etc. Take this for example, every semester I stress over the fact that I may not pass my class, despite the fact that every semester I've been getting As and Bs. I stress over every stupid little things, and I stress over things that I have no control over and can't do anything about anyways. Point is, I am stressed out.

Because I don't know how to handle stress or calm myself down (except for a few hours a day), it's starting to affect some people that I care about and it's starting to push them away, which I do not want.

Due to recent events, and the realization that I do need to get my stress under control, I've decided that I am not ready for any type of relationship, because not only do I have to deal with my stress, but I also have to learn how to enjoy being single and be ok with being single. However, there are those moments where I get lonely, and then I get stressed.

So, since NSG is probably filled with other insane people like myself, does anyone have any advice on how to deal with stress, how to be ok with being single, and how to deal with being lonely?

It's probably worth speaking to your doctor about it, because if stress is left without treatment, it's likely to get worse, and anxiety disorder is not fun.

Take a nap. As for the ok with being single, I went out and got laid a couple times with girls I wasn't going to engage in a relationship with and keep reminding myself just how horrible the aftermath of my last relationship was whenever I see a young couple making out.Ayup. Pimp.