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Current relationship status

Gigantic Leprechauns
08-02-2008, 02:32
(Inspired by the thread asking about first relationships.)

What's your current relationship status?
Knights of Liberty
08-02-2008, 02:41
Engaged.
Gigantic Leprechauns
08-02-2008, 02:42
Engaged.

Good for you! :)

Hope your marriage will be a happy one.
HSH Prince Eric
08-02-2008, 02:42
Friends with benefits.

There's far too many beautiful girls to just want one. The only reason to get a girlfriend is to take the condom off and you can work that out with a sex buddy.
Jello Biafra
08-02-2008, 02:42
In a serious relationship. For now.
Kamsaki-Myu
08-02-2008, 02:42
I'm single, not looking. It is a sound piece of advice that if one is not currently engaged in a comfortable relationship, 3 months before your finals - when you've been spending the past 2 and a half years going at your own pace - is not a good time to go looking for one.
Soheran
08-02-2008, 02:43
Single. Theoretically interested in changing that, but not enough that actually doing anything about it is worth it. So, "not looking."
Gigantic Leprechauns
08-02-2008, 02:45
Friends with benefits.

I tried that once, and it failed miserably. If either of you has any romantic feelings for the other, this type of relationship is doomed to failure. But if neither of you is interested in the other romantically, then all's good.
Call to power
08-02-2008, 02:47
put seat down under threat of death :)
HSH Prince Eric
08-02-2008, 02:47
I tried that once, and it failed miserably. If either of you has any romantic feelings for the other, this type of relationship is doomed to failure. But if neither of you is interested in the other romantically, then all's good.

It happens if you aren't quite clear about the relationship. All of the women I see sexually are either involved in another relationship or women that I know won't get into drama.
Gryphonsgard
08-02-2008, 02:52
Engaged.

Congrats! Me too! :D
Gigantic Leprechauns
08-02-2008, 02:54
Congrats! Me too! :D

Congrats to you, also! :)
Dalmatia Cisalpina
08-02-2008, 02:54
Single and not looking. I need to take some time off and sort everything out, especially with my faith. If it came along? Well, I'm not dumb, I wouldn't say no. But I'm not going hunting for it.
Conserative Morality
08-02-2008, 02:56
Single. Hopeful gonna change that in the future, but for now I'm single.
Engaged.

Congrats! Spero vestri matrimonium ero perpetuus quod gauisus!
Chandelier
08-02-2008, 02:57
*does not want a relationship ever*
*assumed that that was what "single, not looking" meant*
Fall of Empire
08-02-2008, 02:58
Engaged.

Good for you, man!
Upper Botswavia
08-02-2008, 03:01
Other. And it's complicated. But it works for me, so I am ok with it.
:D
Gigantic Leprechauns
08-02-2008, 03:05
*does not want a relationship ever*
*assumed that that was what "single, not looking" meant*

I intended it to mean "not looking at the moment," but since I never specified, it can mean either "not looking at the moment" or "not looking for a relationship, ever."
Call to power
08-02-2008, 03:08
*does not want a relationship ever*
*assumed that that was what "single, not looking" meant*

pfft like you can escape that dick cupid so easy:p
Chandelier
08-02-2008, 03:26
pfft like you can escape that dick cupid so easy:p

Huh?
Boonytopia
08-02-2008, 03:27
Been married a couple of months now.
Ki Baratan
08-02-2008, 03:27
well, if you wanna escape cupid, you just have to shoot him first!

Engaged in a complicated way btw
Soheran
08-02-2008, 03:29
well, if you wanna escape cupid, you just have to shoot him first!

*picks up gun*
Gigantic Leprechauns
08-02-2008, 03:29
*picks up gun*

:eek:

Nooooo! *jumps in front of cupid*
Soheran
08-02-2008, 03:32
Nooooo! *jumps in front of cupid*

Fine. As long as he shoots you instead of me.
Gigantic Leprechauns
08-02-2008, 03:33
Fine. As long as he shoots you instead of me.

He has, not to worry. But you could very well be on his hit list... ;)
Chandelier
08-02-2008, 03:35
well, if you wanna escape cupid, you just have to shoot him first!


Well, Cupid must have shot me with the lead arrow instead of the golden one. :rolleyes:

But I don't want to turn into a tree. :(
Soheran
08-02-2008, 03:43
He has, not to worry. But you could very well be on his hit list... ;)

Hence the gun.

Filthy love demon, beware! I am watching.
Kryozerkia
08-02-2008, 03:48
Enjoying the miserable quagmire of an unholy union. :D
Call to power
08-02-2008, 03:49
Well, Cupid must have shot me with the lead arrow instead of the golden one. :rolleyes:

maybe the first thing you saw after being shot was your reflection :)
Corneliu 2
08-02-2008, 03:54
(Inspired by the thread asking about first relationships.)

What's your current relationship status?

Engaged for now. Well for about another 6 months. Give or take 5 days :D
The Atlantian islands
08-02-2008, 04:03
Current Relationship Status: Gigidying.
Soviestan
08-02-2008, 04:40
I suppose casual would be the best way to describe it.
Maraque
08-02-2008, 04:51
Single and looking.
Reeka
08-02-2008, 04:57
I guess I'm "It's complicated". I have my guy back home, and we're officially just friends but he treats me like a girlfriend. Then I have my guy here, who is one of my best friends and also the best sex I've had in the past few months. And, of course, I'm half-heartedly looking for someone to date (there's a cute girl in one of my classes I wouldn't mind seeing), and also not opposed to random make-outs. (The sex, however, is reserved for one person at a time. Currently the best friend.)

It's sad that this is the norm for my dating life.
Snafturi
08-02-2008, 05:46
I am with the greatest guy in the world.
Gigantic Leprechauns
08-02-2008, 05:47
I am with the greatest guy in the world.

I don't recall us being together. :confused:


j/k
Knights of Liberty
08-02-2008, 05:59
Thank you to everyone for your kind words. Im suprised I got so many, I didnt think anyone would care;)
Poliwanacraca
08-02-2008, 06:05
Single and actively avoiding relationships for the time being.
Gartref
08-02-2008, 06:10
I am having a hard time finding a woman that wants to share my dream of moving to a forest in Northern Maine and starting a termite farm. Where are people's sense of adventure these days?
Wilgrove
08-02-2008, 07:01
I'm single, not really looking, too busy to look. However, if a girl happens to ask me out and I like her, then I wouldn't say no hehe.
RomeW
08-02-2008, 08:40
I'm single and in between looking and not looking. Don't know where that sticks me in the poll.
Gigantic Leprechauns
08-02-2008, 08:46
Warning: If said aloud, sentence may elicit strange looks from people in your vicinity.

LOL
Potarius
08-02-2008, 08:47
I'm single and in between looking and not looking. Don't know where that sticks me in the poll.

Warning: If said aloud, sentence may elicit strange looks from people in your vicinity.
Delator
08-02-2008, 09:24
Single...too busy really to deal with a relationship at the moment, unless she happens to be the most low-maintenance woman in the tri-state area.

...I'll be glad when the 15th rolls around and I am no longer reminded of that fact on a nearly constant basis. :( :p
Sirmomo1
08-02-2008, 09:33
Married. Woooo immigration benefits.
Gigantic Leprechauns
08-02-2008, 10:01
Got out of a very bad relationship about a year ago now. He stole my money, lied, and had a gf for 6 months before we broke up. He was insecure and constantly needed to make himself look bigger than he was. He's now engaged to her and living abroad, i think they might even be expecting.
I see it as a very very luck escape. But I have no desire to get involved in anything serious for a long time. Because in the beginning he was so close to perfect....and I don't think my heart could cope with that kind of torture again.

I'm sorry you went through that. :(
Piu alla vita
08-02-2008, 10:04
Got out of a very bad relationship about a year ago now. He stole my money, lied, and had a gf for 6 months before we broke up. He was insecure and constantly needed to make himself look bigger than he was. He's now engaged to her and living abroad, i think they might even be expecting.
I see it as a very very luck escape. But I have no desire to get involved in anything serious for a long time. Because in the beginning he was so close to perfect....and I don't think my heart could cope with that kind of torture again.
Cameroi
08-02-2008, 10:09
a wife has me, though i would probably NOT be seriously looking if she did not.

creating and exploring are my life, companionship and accumulation are not.
not that i have anything against ALL companionship, just that very little do i find gratifying and seldom if ever more so then creating and exploring.

=^^=
.../\...
Amarenthe
08-02-2008, 10:11
Taken. :)

I was never really in the "single and looking" or "single and not looking" category, though. I was just... single, and if something happened to come along, I was all for that! I just wasn't actively *pursuing* it.

And then, you know... something happened to come along.
Chumblywumbly
08-02-2008, 10:16
It’s... complicated.

http://img515.imageshack.us/img515/7205/coupleoh6.png
Piu alla vita
08-02-2008, 10:53
I'm sorry you went through that. :(

Thankyou :)

I wonder why nice girls seem to be attracted to assholes...
Londim
08-02-2008, 11:57
Single and looking. I'm so bored of the single life now. Some nights I just want to cuddle up to someone but alas it hasn't happened in ages. We'll see what the future brings.
Ifreann
08-02-2008, 12:10
I'm married to Sweet Lady Liquor, though it's an open relationship.
Bewilder
08-02-2008, 12:21
Got out of a very bad relationship about a year ago now. He stole my money, lied, and had a gf for 6 months before we broke up. He was insecure and constantly needed to make himself look bigger than he was. He's now engaged to her and living abroad, i think they might even be expecting.
I see it as a very very luck escape. But I have no desire to get involved in anything serious for a long time. Because in the beginning he was so close to perfect....and I don't think my heart could cope with that kind of torture again.

aw, that sucks. :fluffle: I've been in that situation (won't go into details, but it sounds very similar - he moved in with his girlfriend withing a few hours of me leaving) and was single for seven years after getting divorced. Then I met the most truly decent man I've ever known and today is our 4th anniversary. :)
Callisdrun
08-02-2008, 13:39
Just passed 3 years with my lovely ladyfriend.
Bottle
08-02-2008, 13:43
Het mono.
Bottle
08-02-2008, 13:47
I wonder why nice girls seem to be attracted to assholes...
I'm sympathetic to your situation, and I certainly don't blame you for the fact that somebody else was an asshole to you, but I feel obligated to remind you that "nice girls" are not all attracted to assholes. If you find yourself attracted to assholes, that's a serious problem that you really should take a look at...for your own sake! There are some people who continually get into lousy relationships, and that can lead to a real bummer of a life.

I watched it happen to an aunt of mine. Great lady, but always dates or marries losers. She always blows it off as "just how women are" or "we all go for the bad boys, right gals?" No, we don't. If you find yourself continually in lousy relationships, that's not good! Figure out why! You can learn to spot a mistake and avoid dating him in the first place. :D
Cabra West
08-02-2008, 15:30
(Inspired by the thread asking about first relationships.)

What's your current relationship status?

No option for a serious casual relationship on the poll... :(

Anyway, I'm in a happy relationship.
The blessed Chris
08-02-2008, 16:36
In a serious relationship, and enjoying every minute of it. We're going to Edinburgh for two nights a week on saturday.:)
Mad hatters in jeans
08-02-2008, 17:28
I have a close relationship with gravity, but it's all downhill from there i'm afraid
Gigantic Leprechauns
08-02-2008, 19:26
Thankyou :)

I wonder why nice girls seem to be attracted to assholes...

Same thing happens to nice guys, sometimes (not that I'd know about that... :p).

Somewhere down the road, you'll find that special someone, though, and that prick who left you will realize what an idiot he was, and live with that regret for the rest of his life.
Waztakan
08-02-2008, 19:43
Hey, what about the choices:

in a serious relationship, and looking.

engaged, and looking

married, and looking
Gigantic Leprechauns
08-02-2008, 20:04
Hey, what about the choices:

in a serious relationship, and looking.

engaged, and looking

married, and looking

See option #10.
Waztakan
08-02-2008, 20:08
See option #10.

okay so that covers 'married, about to jump off cliff' too, I guess.






btw: in a serious,happy relationship. Since 6 years :)
Gigantic Leprechauns
08-02-2008, 20:10
okay so that covers 'married, about to jump off cliff' too, I guess.

Yep. :p

btw: in a serious,happy relationship. Since 6 years :)

That's great. Hope things continue to go well. :)
Vojvodina-Nihon
08-02-2008, 20:12
I've had three wives, one of them died, I divorced the second, still married to the third but also looking for another casual serious relationship and maybe an engagement, so where does that put me? <.<
single, don't care
Gigantic Leprechauns
08-02-2008, 20:14
I've had three wives, one of them died, I divorced the second, still married to the third but also looking for another casual serious relationship and maybe an engagement, so where does that put me? <.<
single, don't care

Going by the white font, option 2. ;)
Vojvodina-Nihon
08-02-2008, 20:23
Going by the white font, option 2. ;)

It was either the white text, or the poll results. But that works.
Waztakan
08-02-2008, 20:39
That's great. Hope things continue to go well. :)

Thank you, I do too :)
Waztakan
08-02-2008, 20:41
I have a close relationship with gravity, but it's all downhill from there i'm afraid

:p

I just got that. EDIT: Now that I think of it, I don't really know what I laughed at before i got it!
Indri
08-02-2008, 21:08
The love is a lie.
Sel Appa
08-02-2008, 21:44
No one loves me no matter what I do. I can't get anyone.

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Telesha
08-02-2008, 21:49
Married, but starting to wonder if it was a mistake.
Boonytopia
08-02-2008, 22:26
I'm married to Sweet Lady Liquor, though it's an open relationship.

:D
Dyakovo
08-02-2008, 23:02
(Inspired by the thread asking about first relationships.)

What's your current relationship status?

Happily married :D
Dundee-Fienn
08-02-2008, 23:07
I've been in a serious relationship for the last three years and am 100% sure this is the girl I want to marry

Still scares the shit out of me though when I think about it
Telesha
08-02-2008, 23:19
I've been in a serious relationship for the last three years and am 100% sure this is the girl I want to marry

Still scares the shit out of me though when I think about it

Sneaks up on you, doesn't it?

I remember being at work one day, talking to one of my coworkers that had also just gotten engaged (I had been engaged for some 9 months at this point), and it hit me that I was actually getting married. I actually said, "Holy shit, I'm getting married." He just looked at me and said, "Yeah, you think?"
AnarchyeL
09-02-2008, 04:45
Technically... single.
Realistically... I'm so confused!!!

Several weeks ago I (finally) ended a long relationship that needed ending. At the time, I had recently started spending a lot of time with a woman in my department... we are still spending a LOT of time together...

I really like her. We get on great, we sit around talking for hours... as we sit, we've seemed to drift closer and closer physically until, lately, we simply lie right up against each other. Everyone familiar with the situation seems to think there's "something there"... but still, it hasn't "clicked."

I kissed her, briefly, the other night. She kissed me back. It was very brief, but nice. Then we just went back to talking.

I think we're either on the slow road to something serious... or we've discovered in each other best friends for life. At the moment, I think I'll be very happy either way.

Sex would be good, though. :)
Hamberry
09-02-2008, 04:58
Technically... single.
Realistically... I'm so confused!!!

Several weeks ago I (finally) ended a long relationship that needed ending. At the time, I had recently started spending a lot of time with a woman in my department... we are still spending a LOT of time together...

I really like her. We get on great, we sit around talking for hours... as we sit, we've seemed to drift closer and closer physically until, lately, we simply lie right up against each other. Everyone familiar with the situation seems to think there's "something there"... but still, it hasn't "clicked."

I kissed her, briefly, the other night. She kissed me back. It was very brief, but nice. Then we just went back to talking.

I think we're either on the slow road to something serious... or we've discovered in each other best friends for life. At the moment, I think I'll be very happy either way.

Sex would be good, though. :)

Best of luck there :D
As for me, single, looking, and doubting I'll find anything anytime soon.
Piu alla vita
09-02-2008, 06:49
Same thing happens to nice guys, sometimes (not that I'd know about that... :p).

Somewhere down the road, you'll find that special someone, though, and that prick who left you will realize what an idiot he was, and live with that regret for the rest of his life.
Thankyou :) Very sweet of you.

aw, that sucks. :fluffle: I've been in that situation (won't go into details, but it sounds very similar - he moved in with his girlfriend withing a few hours of me leaving) and was single for seven years after getting divorced. Then I met the most truly decent man I've ever known and today is our 4th anniversary. :)
Congradulations! Thats really wonderful :)

I'm sympathetic to your situation, and I certainly don't blame you for the fact that somebody else was an asshole to you, but I feel obligated to remind you that "nice girls" are not all attracted to assholes. If you find yourself attracted to assholes, that's a serious problem that you really should take a look at...for your own sake! There are some people who continually get into lousy relationships, and that can lead to a real bummer of a life.

I watched it happen to an aunt of mine. Great lady, but always dates or marries losers. She always blows it off as "just how women are" or "we all go for the bad boys, right gals?" No, we don't. If you find yourself continually in lousy relationships, that's not good! Figure out why! You can learn to spot a mistake and avoid dating him in the first place. :D
I'm a pretty strong, independant woman. But when it comes to men, every piece of good sense goes out the window. I have been working on it for a while now (well, a year). Usually, my solution to a breakup would have been to hop into another relationship asap. But this time, I haven't settled. I've learned to spot the red flags and actually run in the other direction.
I'm becoming a LOT more selective. But as of yet, found no-one that matches up to my 'list'. And I'm not sure a relationship would be good for me, when i've still got all the baggage. Not fair on him, or me. So single it is! :)
Thanks Bottle :)
Gigantic Leprechauns
09-02-2008, 06:52
Thankyou :) Very sweet of you.

My pleasure.

If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to TG me. I have both MSN and Yahoo Messenger (and no, you don't have to worry about me trying anything, as I already have a g.f. ;)).
CthulhuFhtagn
09-02-2008, 07:16
Dating.
Dalmatia Cisalpina
09-02-2008, 10:35
I would like to change my relationship status to "it may or may not be complicated -- I don't know what's going on right now, but I'm taking it as it comes."
Kanabia
11-02-2008, 20:36
Single. Theoretically interested in changing that, but not enough that actually doing anything about it is worth it. So, "not looking."

Ditto.
Dalmatia Cisalpina
11-02-2008, 20:56
Borrowing from Facebook: "It's Complicated."
Carlsbadia Carvenia
11-02-2008, 21:01
in a serious relationship with a girl I've admired for a long time
(no Im not a stalker I was the type that hid everything took her by surprise when I told her the truth)
we waz freinds for a long time always annoyed eachother for shits and giggles
ends up
feelings were mutually hidden lol
for to long at that
I mean seriously 1.5 years hidin that at the same time jeez wat a waste of time
Uturn
11-02-2008, 21:03
In a casual-serious relationship?

I just voted serious.

It's so uncomplicated I'm not sure how to classify it.
Sumamba Buwhan
11-02-2008, 21:06
current status: married swingers!
Sehvekah
11-02-2008, 21:26
Single, not looking due to lack of time, funds, and my standards are just too damn high for the shithole little town I live in(and they're not that high, really. No tobacco use or other addictions, enough brains to hold an intelligent conversation, and... Well, that's about it, really. Oh there's the other nice things a woman could have, nice tits/hot body, ect. But, nice as they are to have, they're not really required).
Gigantic Leprechauns
11-02-2008, 21:28
Single, not looking due to lack of time, funds, and my standards are just too damn high for the shithole little town I live in

That's why you look beyond your town for love, my friend. In my case, geography is not a factor; my g.f. lives halfway around the world! :D
Piu alla vita
12-02-2008, 12:30
My pleasure.

If you ever need someone to talk to, feel free to TG me. I have both MSN and Yahoo Messenger (and no, you don't have to worry about me trying anything, as I already have a g.f. ;)).

Thanks! :)

That's why you look beyond your town for love, my friend. In my case, geography is not a factor; my g.f. lives halfway around the world! :D

How do you cope with that? Do you get to see her in person sometimes?
Gigantic Leprechauns
12-02-2008, 12:31
How do you cope with that? Do you get to see her in person sometimes?

I haven't met her in person yet. I'm going to meet her in October.
Maraque
12-02-2008, 12:53
I haven't met her in person yet. I'm going to meet her in October.Hmmm, that's an interesting relationship...
Jello Biafra
12-02-2008, 12:59
That's why you look beyond your town for love, my friend. In my case, geography is not a factor; my g.f. lives halfway around the world! :DLong distance relationships are hard(er than short distance relationships). Good luck with that.
Gigantic Leprechauns
12-02-2008, 13:00
Hmmm, that's an interesting relationship...

You could say that.
Gigantic Leprechauns
12-02-2008, 13:05
Long distance relationships are hard(er than short distance relationships). Good luck with that.

Thanks.
Dryks Legacy
12-02-2008, 13:13
Single, not looking since 10/01/1991.
Straughn
13-02-2008, 06:33
I guess I'm "It's complicated". I have my guy back home, and we're officially just friends but he treats me like a girlfriend. Then I have my guy here, who is one of my best friends and also the best sex I've had in the past few months. And, of course, I'm half-heartedly looking for someone to date (there's a cute girl in one of my classes I wouldn't mind seeing), and also not opposed to random make-outs. (The sex, however, is reserved for one person at a time. Currently the best friend.)

It's sad that this is the norm for my dating life.
You sound like you'll be immensely popular around here. I'm looking forward to more posts from you!
Welcome to NSG. :)
Samyil
13-02-2008, 06:38
Long distance relationships are hard(er than short distance relationships). Good luck with that.

Indeed, they are. Engaged myself, from a two-year long-distance relationship that's gone off without a hitch.
Straughn
13-02-2008, 06:38
Taken. :)

I was never really in the "single and looking" or "single and not looking" category, though. I was just... single, and if something happened to come along, I was all for that! I just wasn't actively *pursuing* it.

And then, you know... something happened to come along.

That reminds me ... would "actively being stalked" be on the "Other/It's 'Complicated'"poll option? :p
Gigantic Leprechauns
13-02-2008, 06:39
Indeed, they are. Engaged myself, from a two-year long-distance relationship that's gone off without a hitch.

How great a distance?
Samyil
13-02-2008, 06:41
Ten hours.

Edit: My condolences to the divorcee from the poll.
Straughn
13-02-2008, 06:45
Still scares the shit out of me though when I think about it
Burn every distraction you have, like material things you like.
This has a twofold benefit to it.
You'll get a lot of answers from doing it.
Gigantic Leprechauns
13-02-2008, 06:46
Ten hours.

Edit: My condolences to the divorcee from the poll.

Mine lives halfway around the world. :(
Straughn
13-02-2008, 06:46
I'm taking it as it comes.
Reposted for posterity.
<.<
>.>
Samyil
13-02-2008, 06:49
Mine lives halfway around the world. :(

Aw..Well, good luck to you. Best wishes.

It's worth it though, don't you agree?
Gigantic Leprechauns
13-02-2008, 06:52
Aw..Well, good luck to you. Best wishes.

It's worth it though, don't you agree?

Thanks.

Yes, it is.
Amarenthe
13-02-2008, 07:58
That reminds me ... would "actively being stalked" be on the "Other/It's 'Complicated'"poll option? :p

It definitely adds another dimension.

"Well, see... there's the guy I choose to have in my life, and the guy who chooses to be in my life... every second of my life... hovering as close as possible, while still maintaining enough distance to be creepifying... it's not like I don't know he's there, but, well. It's sort of a complicated situation."
Straughn
13-02-2008, 07:58
"Well, see... there's the guy I choose to have in my life, and the guy who chooses to be in my life... every second of my life... hovering as close as possible, while still maintaining enough distance to be creepifying... it's not like I don't know he's there, but, well. It's sort of a complicated situation."
THAT's IT!
:D
Maineiacs
13-02-2008, 08:13
I chose "it's complicated", because it doesn't get much more complicated than this. Sort of "friends with benefits", but we really love each other deeply. She's married, they have an open relationship, her husband knows about us and is ok with it (I know this because he told me so himself). It isn't permanent, as she would never leave him, and I wouldn't want her to leave him for me. I'm just with her until either she says she wants to stop, he says he wants us to stop, or I find someone of my own (which is not likely, even though I am looking).
Amarenthe
13-02-2008, 08:19
:D

Well, as long as you know and are okay with being creepifying... ;) I get all the fringe benefits of being stalked: mostly, the ability to declare myself special enough to warrant such attention.

In other news, I just sneezed for, quite literally, the 32nd time in a row. Does anyone have a cure for this? Anyone at all?
Straughn
13-02-2008, 08:23
Well, as long as you know and are okay with being creepifying... ;) I get all the fringe benefits of being stalked: mostly, the ability to declare myself special enough to warrant such attention. If we do say so ourselves :)

In other news, I just sneezed for, quite literally, the 32nd time in a row. Does anyone have a cure for this? Anyone at all?I have a deterrant .... submersion! :p
http://www.commissionersam.com/files/images/four_eyes_one_foot_underwater.preview.jpg
Amarenthe
13-02-2008, 08:35
I chose "it's complicated", because it doesn't get much more complicated than this. Sort of "friends with benefits", but we really love each other deeply. She's married, they have an open relationship, her husband knows about us and is ok with it (I know this because he told me so himself). It isn't permanent, as she would never leave him, and I wouldn't want her to leave him for me. I'm just with her until either she says she wants to stop, he says he wants us to stop, or I find someone of my own (which is not likely, even though I am looking).

Wow. And I actually considered that *my* situation might be complicated. I could never be in your situation, but I... admire that you're strong enough to be, if that makes sense.


I have a deterrant .... submersion! :p
http://www.commissionersam.com/files/images/four_eyes_one_foot_underwater.preview.jpg

You're right. I can't sneeze when I'm drowned. :p
Straughn
13-02-2008, 08:36
You're right. I can't sneeze when I'm drowned. :p
Rest assured, there'd be plenty o'posters lining up to give you resuscitation :p
*pops a breath mint*
Amarenthe
13-02-2008, 08:41
Rest assured, there'd be plenty o'posters lining up to give you resuscitation :p
*pops a breath mint*

And it only frightens me a little bit. :p
Straughn
13-02-2008, 08:44
And it only frightens me a little bit. :p

Well, try a bit of this. Usually works against ... erm, for me ...
http://img271.imageshack.us/img271/8505/258trollspray0ur.jpg
whoops, thought it said "Rebuff" ... ah well. :)
Dalmatia Cisalpina
13-02-2008, 14:04
In a casual relationship, and we're taking things very slowly. I'm happy (happier than I've been in a long time); I just want to make sure I got into this for the right reasons.
Hamilay
13-02-2008, 14:09
Reposted for posterity.
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>.>

lmao
Bottle
14-02-2008, 13:27
"I don't have a girlfriend. I just know a girl who would get really mad if she heard me say that."
Gigantic Leprechauns
14-02-2008, 13:28
"I don't have a girlfriend. I just know a girl who would get really mad if she heard me say that."

:confused:
Peisandros
14-02-2008, 13:31
I'm going with 'it's complicated'. :fluffle::fluffle:
CthulhuFhtagn
14-02-2008, 13:46
"I don't have a girlfriend. I just know a girl who would get really mad if she heard me say that."

Man, I miss him.
Ladamesansmerci
14-02-2008, 16:31
In a happy semi-serious relationship. :)
Smunkeeville
14-02-2008, 17:36
did I reply yet?

I'm married.
Ladamesansmerci
14-02-2008, 17:38
did I reply yet?

I'm married.
Of course. Smunkee's married to me. >.>
Smunkeeville
14-02-2008, 17:41
Of course. Smunkee's married to me. >.>
hawtness. my husband will be so happy!:p
Audrey Hepburnistan
14-02-2008, 18:40
Man, I miss him.

...Is your aim improving?


(Been with my boyfriend just over a year; living together for er uh um oh ten months or so? I think. Revoltingly in lurve.) :D


Khan
Sehvekah
15-02-2008, 14:47
That's why you look beyond your town for love, my friend. In my case, geography is not a factor; my g.f. lives halfway around the world! :D

Did that once. (Dirt poor + long distance relationship) X emotional imatuirty = Epic Fail.

If I had the funds to make that work, I'd be saving up to return home, where this wouldn't be an issue.
UNIverseVERSE
15-02-2008, 18:35
...Is your aim improving?


(Been with my boyfriend just over a year; living together for er uh um oh ten months or so? I think. Revoltingly in lurve.) :D


Khan

http://imgs.xkcd.com/comics/laser_scope.jpg

Anyway. It's complicated. There's myself, there's a friend of mine, mutual friends regularly say we should be a couple, just neither of us have properly made a move yet. It's an irritating situation, though.
Acta Sanctorum
15-02-2008, 19:28
married