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If you have kids, was it on purpose?

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If I had kids, it would have been on purpose.

Well, it was sort of in between. We're intelligent adults and knew that the extraordinary amount of boinking we do would eventually result in kids, but we weren't boinking TO have kids. :p

I've had my bullets taken out of my gun though. Three little goofballs is plenty. Besides, if I have a fourth, the Prophecy might come true. *nod*

same here, actually was planning on having kids, just not when it happened



:eek: 3?

Yep, my oldest is 3 1/2, and the twins just turned 1 last month(I refuse to say '13 months'). :)

Well, it was sort of in between. We're intelligent adults and knew that the extraordinary amount of boinking we do would eventually result in kids, but we weren't boinking TO have kids. :p

same here, actually was planning on having kids, just not when it happened

I've had my bullets taken out of my gun though. Three little goofballs is plenty. Besides, if I have a fourth, the Prophecy might come true. *nod*

:eek: 3?

accidentally got pregnant both times, purposefully carried to term.

If I had kids, it would have been on purpose.


Same here.

accidentally got pregnant both times, purposefully carried to term.

As was the case with my wife.

Yep, my oldest is 3 1/2, and the twins just turned 1 last month(I refuse to say '13 months'). :)

I've got an 18 year old and a 13 year old myself

Well, it was sort of in between. We're intelligent adults and knew that the extraordinary amount of boinking we do would eventually result in kids, but we weren't boinking TO have kids. :p

What he said. :D
We plan to stop at two though.

If I have kids, then either my woman would be cheating on me, or she gave birth to a new Messiah.

If I have kids, then either my woman would be cheating on me, or she gave birth to a new Messiah.

Or you could be cheatin' on yo woman.
Fo sho.

do houseplants count as children?

If I have kids, then either my woman would be cheating on me, or she gave birth to a new Messiah.

or she could have very strong lungs :cool:

Given that my one and only son was born when I was 14, it's safe to say it was not on purpose.

I do not regret it though.

I have two, they were planned.

Well, it was sort of in between. We're intelligent adults and knew that the extraordinary amount of boinking we do would eventually result in kids, but we weren't boinking TO have kids. :p

I've had my bullets taken out of my gun though. Three little goofballs is plenty. Besides, if I have a fourth, the Prophecy might come true. *nod*

You know it's possible for that to be reversed, right? Including for it to become undone naturally over time.

:eek:

I've had my bullets taken out of my gun though. Three little goofballs is plenty. Besides, if I have a fourth, the Prophecy might come true. *nod*

You can account for all the shore leave girls??? You could already be on number 4! ;)

I have 3 myself. One is 22 that I had with my HS gf(not planned). I also have an 11yr old and a 3yr old(almost). The last two were planned and we plan on having more in the future. Maybe two more we are not sure.

accidentally got pregnant both times, purposefully carried to term.

Ditto. (except I only have 1)

I lost one son, and I do not plan on having more kids.

Lunatic Goofballs

I've had my bullets taken out of my gun though. Three little goofballs is plenty. Besides, if I have a fourth, the Prophecy might come true. *nod*
:eek:

If I have kids, then either my woman would be cheating on me, or she gave birth to a new Messiah.

ZOMG Wilgrove is gonna be Jesus's new daddy! :eek:

Sorry to hear that.

Thanks. He was adopted, but I loved him as if he were my biological son.

I lost one son, and I do not plan on having more kids.

Sorry to hear that.

You can account for all the shore leave girls??? You could already be on number 4! ;)

Oh, come on. :p Goofballs always struck me as the kind of guy to not go after shore leave girls or what-have-you.

Anyway, I plan on having one child that is mine biologically, but I might adopt one or two. We'll see.

I lost one son, and I do not plan on having more kids.

:(

*Kyronea hugs Imperio Mexicano.

:(

*Kyronea hugs Imperio Mexicano.

Thanks. :)

*returns the hug*

You know it's possible for that to be reversed, right? Including for it to become undone naturally over time.

:eek:

I can't answer for Lunatic Goofballs exactly, however here in the US they make it very very clear that it 'could' become undone naturally, but the chance of that depends greatly on the exact technique used.

In my case the doctor removed an inch out of each tube, pinched each side off with a staple then cauterized the ends closed.

Yes, I signed three waivers saying that I know that the procedure is not likely to be reversible, and yet the possibility of me impregnating a woman at some point in the future still exists. There are no known instances in which the technique used on me has failed, however the possibility I will be the first is greater than zero.

I never understood the need to say 'I would love an adopted child as much as my own biological child.'

Of course you would. If you couldn't, then something would be seriously wrong with you. Why on earth would 'sharing your genes' make one child more worthy of love than another child who you raised?

I never understood the need to say 'I would love an adopted child as much as my own biological child.'

Because some people wouldn't.

Of course you would. If you couldn't, then something would be seriously wrong with you. Why on earth would 'sharing your genes' make one child more worthy of love than another child who you raised?

My uncle was adopted. My great-grandmother did not love him the way she did her biological grandchildren.

Because some people wouldn't.

My uncle was adopted. My great-grandmother did not love him the way she did her biological grandchildren.

Well just as some people shouldn't have children of their own, some people shouldn't raise other people's children either. That's just fucking sick.

Well just as some people shouldn't have children of their own, some people shouldn't raise other people's children either. That's just fucking sick.

Agreed.

Well just as some people shouldn't have children of their own, some people shouldn't raise other people's children either. That's just fucking sick.

Indeed. The only reason I add a might in my own statement is due to an uncertainty about whatever possible living situation I might have. I know I'd want to provide the best possible life for any children I create/adopt and I do NOT want to have any kids until that is settled.

You know it's possible for that to be reversed, right? Including for it to become undone naturally over time.

:eek:

Indeed it is. In fact, considering the durable nature of my testicles, it wouldn't surprise me in the least. :p

You can account for all the shore leave girls??? You could already be on number 4! ;)

:eek:

Oh, come on. :p Goofballs always struck me as the kind of guy to not go after shore leave girls or what-have-you.

Anyway, I plan on having one child that is mine biologically, but I might adopt one or two. We'll see.

I don't do one night stands. I am a relationship kind of guy. *nod*

I never understood the need to say 'I would love an adopted child as much as my own biological child.'

Of course you would. If you couldn't, then something would be seriously wrong with you. Why on earth would 'sharing your genes' make one child more worthy of love than another child who you raised?

I read a study not too long ago that had something to do with males and facial recognition of offspring; a sort of 'I know it's my baby' evolutionary tool to distinguish their offspring from any potential cuckolding. Now, I'd like to think we are a little more evolved than that, but I don't doubt that basic biological urges such as these lay at the foundation of many peoples thoughts, men at the least. Can't say the same about women.

EDIT: Never mind; I've seen Jerry Springer.

Oh, and I have one on the way; not on purpose.

I don't have any kids. If I did, it would have to be some sort of divine miracle of pure insanity, considering that I'd be a shitty father, my wife thinks I'm asexual, and I doubt either of us can really even have kids.

I don't do one night stands. I am a relationship kind of guy. *nod*

I'ld forgotten you had twins. Mine are 4 1/2 now w/ #3 on the way. All intentional.

I voted no but I do have 4 dogs who I consider my kids :D

oh and it was on purpose well atleast 3 dogs were on purpose the 4th was an accident.

the 4th was an accident.

:eek: I thought bestialities were illegal in most places :(

Well, it was sort of in between. We're intelligent adults and knew that the extraordinary amount of boinking we do would eventually result in kids, but we weren't boinking TO have kids. :p

I've had my bullets taken out of my gun though. Three little goofballs is plenty. Besides, if I have a fourth, the Prophecy might come true. *nod*

Having kids when you're loaded is to be expected. Having kids while shooting blanks is a prophecy fulfilled. Or an episode of Maury Povich.

Me and my wife are pregnant, so I voted Lunatic Goofball.

:eek: I thought bestialities were illegal in most places :(

haha very funny.

it is very illegal...why do so many people have their minds in the gutters?

To be more specific in my post is...My brother bred his female American Bulldog with another American Bulldog. He had first dibs on a male pup and he gave me the 2nd choice of the 4 male pups born. I wanted a male that had atleast one blue eye but ended up getting a male pup with brown eyes, so I ended up having the first pick of a female pup that did have one blue eye and one gray eye. I did not plan on getting 2 pups, I only wanted one pup but got 2 pups so Yes she was an accident resulting as a last minute decision on my part. No Beastiality involved...