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Adult Question: what attracts you in a woman(bodywise)

Mujtahed
26-11-2007, 20:10
what attracts you about a woman physically her figure, her breasts, her ass or her appitite for sex
EDIT: btw i was jus being careful so some kid whos playing this doesnt run to his parents wondering what the fuck im talking about, i have a very dirty mouth and i usually curse without noticing it so chilax men
Chellis
26-11-2007, 20:13
All of the above, in reverse order.
Aegis Firestorm
26-11-2007, 20:15
Tits.
HC Eredivisie
26-11-2007, 20:17
what attracts you about a woman physically her figure, her br****, her a** or her appitite for s**Come on, it's not like you used any naughty words.:p
Kryozerkia
26-11-2007, 20:18
There is nothing wrong with writing the word "breast", for even men have breasts. I doubt you'd censor the word if you were talking about the chicken breast that was served for dinner.

What's wrong with the word sex? Nothing.

And ass? It's a term for a mule (or is it donkey?).

In any case, you're censoring words that are normal words for certain parts of the body or part of the natural way of life.

Of course, if you're looking for an alternative word to "ass" you could try: bottom, butt, rear, behind, posterior, tush... there are many options.
Pelagoria
26-11-2007, 20:28
Ohh, a nice normal body, nice breats a smal although well formed butt and a nice smile and pretty eyes :D
Kryozerkia
26-11-2007, 20:30
Or the correct spelling, 'arse'. ;)

But that sounds like Aars, a Danish town (or the Dutch word).
IL Ruffino
26-11-2007, 20:31
Curves.

All of the above, in reverse order.

Hey, don't I know you?
Steely Glintt
26-11-2007, 20:32
Of course, if you're looking for an alternative word to "ass" you could try: bottom, butt, rear, behind, posterior, tush... there are many options.

Or the correct spelling, 'arse'. ;)
Yossarian Lives
26-11-2007, 20:34
I'm a bum man, that is not to say I'm a bum, man, which would mean something else entirely. And, no, I don't lust after hobos.
Steely Glintt
26-11-2007, 20:39
But that sounds like Aars, a Danish town (or the Dutch word).

Bah. Bloody colonials. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-8KisK2zBWE)
Kryozerkia
26-11-2007, 20:40
Bah. Bloody colonials. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-8KisK2zBWE)

Not bad. Amusing.
Wilgrove
26-11-2007, 20:43
Got to have beautiful eyes, nice hairs, and a nice butt I can squeeze. I like small breast too.
Kryozerkia
26-11-2007, 20:44
You don't know Farther Ted?

Go rent/buy/download some. It's truely great.

I pretty much live under a rock. If it wasn't in the form of anime, manga or a novel, I probably don't know it in relation to popular culture.
Dyakovo
26-11-2007, 20:44
what attracts you about a woman physically her figure, her breasts, her ass or her appitite for sex
EDIT: btw i was jus being careful so some kid whos playing this doesnt run to his parents wondering what the fuck im talking about, i have a very dirty mouth and i usually curse without noticing it so chilax men

All of the above, plus her face
Smunkeeville
26-11-2007, 20:45
a nice hip to waste ratio! (although, I am only interested in women in a cursory way)
Steely Glintt
26-11-2007, 20:46
Not bad. Amusing.

You don't know Farther Ted?

Go rent/buy/download some. It's truely great.
Call to power
26-11-2007, 21:17
tummy's seem to be turning me on lately (but you can only have so much, like chocolate) also must enjoy convincing me to not get out of bed

I was also wondering where all the pervy threads had gotten to :)
Johnny B Goode
26-11-2007, 22:17
what attracts you about a woman physically her figure, her breasts, her ass or her appitite for sex
EDIT: btw i was jus being careful so some kid whos playing this doesnt run to his parents wondering what the fuck im talking about, i have a very dirty mouth and i usually curse without noticing it so chilax men

All of that, in that order.
Trotskylvania
26-11-2007, 22:22
Her smile and her eyes. A beautiful face is more appealing than a wonderful body, though that doesn't hurt either.
China Phenomenon
26-11-2007, 23:00
In order:

Thin body (including small ass).
Beautiful eyes.
The rest of the face.
Long hair.
Preferably not very tall.

Although I don't require it (because it's relatively rare), by far the biggest turn-on for me is if a woman has black hair and light blue or green eyes. I can just stare at women like that for hours.
Xiscapia
26-11-2007, 23:10
The face is all-important. Dark eyes, long hair. I really like a nice, tight ass. That's good. Not too skinny or fat, aye there's the rub.
:p
Kyronea
26-11-2007, 23:20
Her eyes...her smile...her voice...all of those tend to be rather important. Especially signs of intelligence and high education.

I also like it when a woman is as tall as I am, because it means I don't have to lean down when I hug her.
Mirkai
26-11-2007, 23:22
A penis.
Ariddia
26-11-2007, 23:22
Her eyes...her smile...her voice...all of those tend to be rather important. Especially signs of intelligence and high education.

Yup. Physical beauty without the brains to match is a big turn-off.


I also like it when a woman is as tall as I am, because it means I don't have to lean down when I hug her.

I've only ever known one woman who was as tall as me (a little taller, actually), so I can't really have that as a criterion. Besides, small can be very cute.
Soviestan
26-11-2007, 23:24
when they don't have a penis.
Kyronea
26-11-2007, 23:33
Yup. Physical beauty without the brains to match is a big turn-off.

The older I get, the more that is true.


I've only ever known one woman who was as tall as me (a little taller, actually), so I can't really have that as a criterion. Besides, small can be very cute.

True...I'm not saying I wouldn't like someone smaller. I'm just saying that I happen to like it when a woman is as tall as I am. (And it's not a hard criterion to fill...I'm only 5' 9".)
Dalmatia Cisalpina
27-11-2007, 02:28
I look for women who are my height or a little shorter (I'm 5'4"), dark haired, and at least moderately intelligent. A nice smile is a plus; so is a moderately-sized rack.
But more importantly, I want a woman who is interesting to talk to and has her own opinions.
Amor Pulchritudo
27-11-2007, 02:30
what attracts you about a woman physically her figure, her breasts, her ass or her appitite for sex
EDIT: btw i was jus being careful so some kid whos playing this doesnt run to his parents wondering what the fuck im talking about, i have a very dirty mouth and i usually curse without noticing it so chilax men

I know what attracts me in a man...

A man who doesn't make posts like these.

Seriously, you could at least word it better!

Curves.


:)
Andaluciae
27-11-2007, 02:41
The whole package :) Flaws usually do not detract, so long as they aren't too significant.
NERVUN
27-11-2007, 02:41
Beautiful eyes, graceful legs, and the curve at the nape of her neck (I've been in Japan too long) and feet. I love cute, bare, feet.

In all honesty though, I really do prefer a good personality over physical attributes. As it's been said, you can't have an intelligent conversation with an ass, even if it's a smart ass! :D Something NSG has proven time and again. ~_^
Tuo
27-11-2007, 02:42
General health (as in not too skinny, not overly large either), animation and intelligence. A lady who has a total of three different expressions, one of them being slack jawed stupidity, can have exceptional features but will not be attractive to me.
Luxembourgenland
27-11-2007, 02:43
A vagina
Curious Inquiry
27-11-2007, 02:48
Proximity.
Blasphemous Priest
27-11-2007, 02:49
A vagina

You are desperate aren't you. Other animals have vagina's too you know. *cough*goat-fucker*cough*


Me, I like a woman who is around medium height, has long, straight black hair, pale blue eyes and a light tan. Skinny but not too skinny (bones are not appealing, she must have a healthy appetite for food). A nice ass, small tits (a handful is all that is required) long legs and she has to be sex starved.

But thats just me.
UN Protectorates
27-11-2007, 03:19
First of all: A personality that's compatible with my own and an intelligent mind. I really like girl's I can have good conversations with.

A very pretty face is a must. I can't go into any more detail than that, there are various female faces I would regard as pretty. It's very iffy.

Physically, proportion-wise... Hmm... Varies. I don't like flat chests, so I suppose between a C and a D for size. Rounded breasts are nice. A good, lean body build.

A lady who moves with fluidic grace, is lovely to behold.
North Am
27-11-2007, 03:31
Eyes, face, and personality first. She needs to come off as a loving, happy, and semi-confident person without seeming like she has an over-abundance of ego. The rest of the package is always a nice bonus (breasts, legs, butt, etc), but it's the personality that comes through in the eyes and face that matters most to me.
Port Arcana
27-11-2007, 03:39
A penis.

ROFL.

You win the thread.
Bann-ed
27-11-2007, 03:39
Well, this doesn't apply to all cases obviously, but usually:
The body.
Non Aligned States
27-11-2007, 03:58
Of course, if you're looking for an alternative word to "ass" you could try: bottom, butt, rear, behind, posterior, tush... there are many options.

Seat of wisdom, but that's probably a lie in humanities case. You could probably go with cushioning muscle area located beneath the pelvis enclosing waste disposal system.
2 tailed kitsunes
27-11-2007, 04:06
Surprisingly for me I don't know. I'm not very choosy for a guy.
Legumbria
27-11-2007, 04:17
The only objective standards of feminine beauty are the breasts (for making milk) and the hips (for having babies). Everything else is just a matter of personal taste. Oh, and not being obese or anorexic. That is also ├Žsthetically pleasing.
Non Aligned States
27-11-2007, 04:42
In all honesty though, I really do prefer a good personality over physical attributes. As it's been said, you can't have an intelligent conversation with an ass, even if it's a smart ass! :D Something NSG has proven time and again. ~_^

Has there ever been intelligent conversation on NSG?
New Birds
27-11-2007, 04:46
Depends on the woman. Generally, however, I tend to be drawn to the waist-hip curve, eyes, and cheekbones.
Lackadaisical1
27-11-2007, 05:38
Most to least important:
A well formed ass(best way I could describe it since I like almost any size if it has a nice shape), waist to hips ratio lower than 1 (the smaller the better, I like wide hips to a point...), nice boobs (anywhere from small to large as long as they're not lopsided), firm legs.

I find I don't notice many faults actually, I knew a girl for over a year before I found out one eye was smaller than the other (and considerably so). I still don't find her bad looking as its easy to overlook. This probably has resulted in my belief that around 50% of women are good looking. Or, I'm just not picky.
Posi
27-11-2007, 05:59
The older I get, the more that is true.
For me it has been the opposite.

But everyone so far has been wrong. The correct answer is, in order of importance, skinny but not too skinny, smile, smillie (ie smiles allot, instead of having a great smile but being mopey all the time. God that pisses me off.), ass, height, rest of face, breasts, voice, skin color to hair color ratio, skin quality (ie minus points for bad acne or leatheriness), then the rest is really a list of insignificant handbag things.

tl;dr TITS or GTFO
The Fanboyists
27-11-2007, 06:02
In no particular order:
(Ideally, of course)
Deep colored eyes(no particular color)
light brown or dark blondish hair(short or shoulder length)
Nice boobs
well formed ass
curves in the hip area.
well formed legs.
couldn't really care less on obese/anorexic, other than that she be neither one.
Moderately intelligent/clever/good sense of humor.
Slightly shorter than me. Despite not being terribly tall, this isn't much of a problem for me.
Not lazy at all.
Can't be a total jerk/evil
or spoiled rotton.

On a side note, I realized immedietly after posting this that this describes a girl that I know who I've completely fallen for almost perfectly, so that probably either has something to do with it, or what I find attractive have something to do with me falling for her.
And she dosn't even realize I exist.
1010102
27-11-2007, 06:14
good legs, nice boobs are good, but what I want s someone I can hold a conversation with, like someone else sid, so you don't feel like your better off talking to a stump.
Venndee
27-11-2007, 06:48
I have ridiculously high standards for women, not just bodywise but in everything. It helps me out in the end because I don't feel the need to ask out women who aren't interested in me to begin with (which is all of them.)
New Limacon
27-11-2007, 06:50
Does the wallet count as part of the body?
Delator
27-11-2007, 06:58
The correct answer is, in order of importance, skinny but not too skinny, smile, smillie (ie smiles allot, instead of having a great smile but being mopey all the time. God that pisses me off.), ass, height, rest of face, breasts, voice, skin color to hair color ratio, skin quality (ie minus points for bad acne or leatheriness), then the rest is really a list of insignificant handbag things.

Except for skinnyness (I don't much care so long as we aren't on one of the far ends of the anorexic/obese spectrum), I agree 100%

...and it pisses me off too! :mad::p
Posi
27-11-2007, 07:10
Except for skinniness (I don't much care so long as we aren't on one of the far ends of the anorexic/obese spectrum), I agree 100%

...and it pisses me off too! :mad::pIt drives me ape shit crazy. One of my friends has one of the nicest smiles ever, but is always "I'm going to trip over my bottom lip pouty". Argh.

For clarity, I should mention that by skinny but not too skinny, I mean around Avril Lavigne or Hillary Duff (relative to other celebrities, not real life). I find chicks generally take that to mean skinnier than intended. Also, hair color to skin color ratio basically means hair that is darker than the person's skin color. Although, there are special cases too (a ginger should have read hair anyways).
Zilam
27-11-2007, 07:25
In no particular order, what attracts me to a woman is:
A or B cup breasts
Upper medium height
Skinnyish
a nice round rear
Dark (long)hair, (soft)skin, and (captivating)eyes
Nice smile
Hair only on their head
Goddess like legs
Lovely lips


Pretty much, I can sum what attracts me to a girl as this:

Adriana Lima

OR

Fernanda Tavares

If only every female were like that, and wanted my body...If only...:p
Angry Fruit Salad
27-11-2007, 07:26
It drives me ape shit crazy. One of my friends has one of the nicest smiles ever, but is always "I'm going to trip over my bottom lip pouty". Argh.

For clarity, I should mention that by skinny but not too skinny, I mean around Avril Lavigne or Hillary Duff (relative to other celebrities, not real life). I find chicks generally take that to mean skinnier than intended. Also, hair color to skin color ratio basically means hair that is darker than the person's skin color. Although, there are special cases too (a ginger should have read hair anyways).

I agree with you on most of these points, but what is too skinny? I personally think I'm treading the line.
Synbad
27-11-2007, 07:30
Face, figure, don't want huge breasts, either :]
Three-Way
27-11-2007, 07:40
Well, I pay more attention to her face, hair, buttocks, hips, and horizontal girth (or lack thereof) than anything else.

Breasts are also important, though not as important to me as the above. I don't like them big to the point of drooping, but I don't want a flat-chested woman either. I want them to be big enough to know she has any, but not super-huge.

I also notice how she is dressed, though her clothes are not part of her body.
Posi
27-11-2007, 07:56
I agree with you on most of these points, but what is too skinny? I personally think I'm treading the line.Your sig pic isn't too skinny. The line is hard to describe without me just labelling a 1000 girls "Too Skinny" or "Fine". Some basic signs are you can see every rib pretty clearly, you lose your cheeks (they go from concave up to concave down), your elbow is the thickest part of your arm. Odds are, there is someone who breaks all those guide lines, but I still wouldn't call them too skinny. They would be rare.
Cabra West
27-11-2007, 12:45
what attracts you about a woman physically her figure, her breasts, her ass or her appitite for sex
EDIT: btw i was jus being careful so some kid whos playing this doesnt run to his parents wondering what the fuck im talking about, i have a very dirty mouth and i usually curse without noticing it so chilax men

A nice, round figure, nice boobs and nice bum. And nice face. That's actually the most improtant thing, a cute face.
Ifreann
27-11-2007, 12:47
Personally, I find attractive women to be the most attractive.

Does the wallet count as part of the body?

Depends where you keep it.
Peepelonia
27-11-2007, 12:55
The face, if she isn't good looking in the face then the rest means nowt.
Jello Biafra
27-11-2007, 12:59
Nada. Her boyfriend, on the other hand...
Hobabwe
27-11-2007, 13:00
Her voice, i just love a girl with a ...gah english knowledge failing...:(
Anyway, a voice thats just a litle bit raw, great turn on.
Also, a pretty face and a "normal" body shape, aka, shes in proportion.
Over or under wieght are turn offs for me.
Jello Biafra
27-11-2007, 13:06
Her voice, i just love a girl with a ...gah english knowledge failing...:(
Anyway, a voice thats just a litle bit raw, great turn on.Slightly gravelly, perhaps?
Ifreann
27-11-2007, 13:19
"Adult" question?

Kind of like the "adult" section of the movie store, which is invariably full of 15 year old boys?

You say that as if it's a bad thing. :p
Bottle
27-11-2007, 13:22
"Adult" question?

Kind of like the "adult" section of the movie store, which is invariably full of 15 year old boys?
OceanDrive2
27-11-2007, 13:31
what attracts you about a woman...everything.
Wassercraft
27-11-2007, 13:36
what attracts you about a woman physically

Beauty.
Pezalia
27-11-2007, 13:43
A nice, round figure, nice boobs and nice bum. And nice face. That's actually the most improtant thing, a cute face.

I second that. The bum part especially. :p
Neu Leonstein
27-11-2007, 13:51
Not really an ass-man myself. I suppose the order goes: boobs, figure, ass.

But then, I seem to be going for all kinds with no discernable pattern, so it's something else. A combination of a friendly character, brains (I hate not being able to talk about the stuff I like to talk about and having to pretend I'm stupid) with my "nice guy" disease of always reading more into situations than is actually there. ;)
Law Abiding Criminals
27-11-2007, 15:35
Does the wallet count as part of the body?

Damn straight. In that case, I like a big, thick one full of things that can be used as legal tender.
CthulhuFhtagn
27-11-2007, 16:47
Gravity.

Seriously, the brain.

Fine, visible characteristics? I like curvy women.
Weh Ist Mich
27-11-2007, 17:02
I'm a huge boobie man myself... the bigger usually the better.
And glasses. Don't know why, but I think 90% of women would look better with glasses on.
Zilam
27-11-2007, 18:08
Nada. Her boyfriend, on the other hand...

lolz :fluffle:
Ashmoria
27-11-2007, 18:26
a nice hip to waste ratio! (although, I am only interested in women in a cursory way)

oh i prefer an athletic looking woman. strength and ability are attractive.

in the same non-sexual attraction kind of way.
Smunkeeville
27-11-2007, 18:49
oh i prefer an athletic looking woman. strength and ability are attractive.

in the same non-sexual attraction kind of way.

I really like hips.....if a girl has a little bit of curve there, I can't help but appreciate that.
Ashmoria
27-11-2007, 19:04
I really like hips.....if a girl has a little bit of curve there, I can't help but appreciate that.

maybe ill go back to appreciating hips after the lowrise pants fashion is finally over. now i tend to obsess over how horrid even nice looking women look in pants that dont come up to their hipbones.


but athletic AND curvy is very good. the williams sisters are goddesses.
New Genoa
27-11-2007, 19:29
tentacles
HotRodia
27-11-2007, 19:43
maybe ill go back to appreciating hips after the lowrise pants fashion is finally over. now i tend to obsess over how horrid even nice looking women look in pants that dont come up to their hipbones.


but athletic AND curvy is very good. the williams sisters are goddesses.

Indeed. Those pants really are not very flattering in most cases, and a lot of the women I've seen wear them just end up having to pull their pants up constantly.

I second the sentiment about athletic and curvy!
The Fanboyists
27-11-2007, 23:12
I really like hips.....if a girl has a little bit of curve there, I can't help but appreciate that.

I'll second that. Or the athletic w/ nice hips. Either.
Smunkeeville
28-11-2007, 00:00
maybe ill go back to appreciating hips after the lowrise pants fashion is finally over. now i tend to obsess over how horrid even nice looking women look in pants that dont come up to their hipbones.


but athletic AND curvy is very good. the williams sisters are goddesses.

*nod* I have to agree. I hate low rise jeans. Especially since 90% of the people wearing them have no business wearing them, they are almost as bad as mom jeans.

I think Gwen Stefani has the body of a goddess. I will never look like her though, just not built that way :(http://entimg.msn.com/i/gal/GwenStefani/GwenStefani_9_04_400.jpg
The Fanboyists
28-11-2007, 01:01
Breasts are also important, though not as important to me as the above. I don't like them big to the point of drooping, but I don't want a flat-chested woman either. I want them to be big enough to know she has any, but not super-huge.

Yes. Uh-huh. Yup. True.

I also notice how she is dressed, though her clothes are not part of her body.

Can sometimes tell a bit about someone's personality (only sometimes though) by what they wear. For instance, the fairly obvious:
If she dresses like a slut or a whore, odds are pretty good she's a slut or whore.
I don't know about you people, but I find women who aren't jerks/assholes or spoiled rotton much more attractive than those who are.
Bloodpotato
28-11-2007, 01:42
her economic worth to the nation...if she's a communist and looks like lucy liu it's a negative.
nah I'm kidding definately the asssssssssss hahahaaaaaa
Fassitude
28-11-2007, 01:43
Nothing. Might as well be looking at a rock, but that's not really fair as rocks can sometimes be interesting for their geological properties.
IL Ruffino
28-11-2007, 01:52
Nothing. Might as well be looking at a rock, but that's not really fair as rocks can sometimes be interesting for their geological properties.

Ah. You're asexual..
Angry Fruit Salad
28-11-2007, 07:07
Ah. You're asexual..

If that's the same Fass I remember, I thought he was simply gay(according to what I've read on the forums). That would explain the lack of interest in the female figure.