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Preschoolers learn about self-esteem at hair salon

Zilam
02-09-2007, 19:40
This (http://www.register-news.com/homepage/local_story_244013234.html?keyword=leadpicturestory) is from my hometown:

Preschoolers learn about self-esteem at hair salon

By LEAH WILLIAMS

leah.williams@register-news.com

MT. VERNON — Amongst the curling irons, hair spray and nail polish, some preschoolers got an extra-special treat Friday afternoon.

The MarketPlace Pre-K Center treated its five pupils to a day of beauty at Studio RLC, located in the Rend Lake College MarketPlace. The children received up ’dos from the student workers.

Teacher Vanessa Hanson said the field trip was part of a unit dealing with individuality and self-esteem. The girls had already toured the hair studio Thursday before setting foot in the salon for their make-overs; they also had rollers put in their hair.

“We also went over what makes them special,” Hanson said. “And this is what makes them special today.”

Assistant Angel Todd thumbed through a style guidebook with 3-year-old Kaylan Koester.

“They’ve been excited ever since we told them they were coming,” Todd said.

Todd Hayes watched his 3-year-old daughter, Emily, and niece Kennady get their hair done Friday afternoon. The girls, he said, are more “like sisters” than cousins.

Emily especially likes to dress up.

“She had been really looking forward to this. She’s got lots of clothes and shoes and wigs,” Hayes said.

The MarketPlace Pre-K Center just recently opened. Hayes said he heard about the program through his brother’s wife and decided the center could provide a variety of activities for his daughter.

“They offered more things, like coloring and teaching sign language and Spanish,” he said.

Student Crystal Herron, who will be graduating in April, said the beauty day allows the girls to dress up and play make-believe.

“I love it,” Herron said. “It makes them look like little princesses.”

Enrollment is open at the MarketPlace Pre-Kindergarten Center for children ages 3 to 5 years old. The center is located behind Lonestar Restaurant on Potomac Boulevard.

Wait, so we are teaching them about self esteem by showing them that beauty counts? How the hell is that supposed to work? You teach them now that being beautiful is important and part of self esteem, and 10 years later they will be in the bathroom throwing up their food, wearing whorish clothing, trying to preserve that same beauty and "self esteem".

Interesting note: Vanessa Hanson(mentioned in the article) was a co-youth minister at a church I used to attend. Its good to know that the church supports outer beauty instead of inner beauty and outer modesty.

This is just another reason that America is bass ackwards.
Johnny B Goode
02-09-2007, 19:45
This (http://www.register-news.com/homepage/local_story_244013234.html?keyword=leadpicturestory) is from my hometown:



Wait, so we are teaching them about self esteem by showing them that beauty counts? How the hell is that supposed to work? You teach them now that being beautiful is important and part of self esteem, and 10 years later they will be in the bathroom throwing up their food, wearing whorish clothing, trying to preserve that same beauty and "self esteem".

Interesting note: Vanessa Hanson(mentioned in the article) was a co-youth minister at a church I used to attend. Its good to know that the church supports outer beauty instead of inner beauty and outer modesty.

This is just another reason that America is bass ackwards.

Wow...
SaintB
02-09-2007, 20:07
Excellent, these people should be given an award for misconstruing what should be considered for self esteem.
Agolthia
02-09-2007, 20:32
This (http://www.register-news.com/homepage/local_story_244013234.html?keyword=leadpicturestory) is from my hometown:



Wait, so we are teaching them about self esteem by showing them that beauty counts? How the hell is that supposed to work? You teach them now that being beautiful is important and part of self esteem, and 10 years later they will be in the bathroom throwing up their food, wearing whorish clothing, trying to preserve that same beauty and "self esteem".

Interesting note: Vanessa Hanson(mentioned in the article) was a co-youth minister at a church I used to attend.


I think you might have missed the point. The whole shebang is making them feel special by treating them to a make-over and dressing them up.Like the article says; most young girls enjoy dressing up and so this would be exciting for them. You are correct that it would be wrong for the people to be saying "You are special if you look beautiful." but I dont think that is the intention.
Wilgrove
02-09-2007, 20:40
So the girls got a day at the spa and hair salon? What did the guys get, comon is no one thinking about the men? I hope they took them to an Auto Show, or an Air Show etc.

As for me, personally I would not want my daughter to be taking part in this, she would be too young IMHO to be taking part in this. I am old fashion when it comes to this, yes, but I'm the parent and I feel that it's my responsibility to get the basic down first, like education is important, being a good person is important, not being a spoiled little brat is important and so on. THEN once they learn the basic then we can add in stuff like dress up and make up etc.
Agolthia
02-09-2007, 20:50
So the girls got a day at the spa and hair salon? What did the guys get, comon is no one thinking about the men? I hope they took them to an Auto Show, or an Air Show etc.

As for me, personally I would not want my daughter to be taking part in this, she would be too young IMHO to be taking part in this. I am old fashion when it comes to this, yes, but I'm the parent and I feel that it's my responsibility to get the basic down first, like education is important, being a good person is important, not being a spoiled little brat is important and so on. THEN once they learn the basic then we can add in stuff like dress up and make up etc.

There are 5 kids in the class, from the sound of it there is a good chance that there are all girls. I see where you are coming from but it is just a treat. You can teach them that education and being a good person is most important while letting them have a treat every so often, thats a fairly normal method of parenting.
CthulhuFhtagn
02-09-2007, 20:53
Look on the bright side. If beauty becomes associated with high self-esteem, then serial killers will be distinguishable by how awesome they look.
Isidoor
02-09-2007, 21:00
Is it bad to base part of your self-esteem on your looks? I always thought most people liked to be considered good looking...
Wilgrove
02-09-2007, 21:07
Is it bad to base part of your self-esteem on your looks? I always thought most people liked to be considered good looking...

Yes, but we don't want a person's look to become how good they feel about themselves. I would like my child's self esteem to come from how well they do in class, in their out of school activities, how they behave in the family and in society. Associating self esteem with looks is so far down on my list I'll probably never get there.
Isidoor
02-09-2007, 21:08
Yes, but we don't want a person's look to become how good they feel about themselves. I would like my child's self esteem to come from how well they do in class, in their out of school activities, how they behave in the family and in society. Associating self esteem with looks is so far down on my list I'll probably never get there.

Personally I think I'd prefer my children to have a good self-esteem, even if it's largely based on their looks, instead of not having a self-esteem. I think. But I do agree that it's better to base it on something else.
Smunkeeville
02-09-2007, 21:09
Yes, but we don't want a person's look to become how good they feel about themselves. I would like my child's self esteem to come from how well they do in class, in their out of school activities, how they behave in the family and in society. Associating self esteem with looks is so far down on my list I'll probably never get there.

well, and even good looking people might get their faces ripped off by dogs, you gotta have something to fall back on in case you wake up one day ugly......that's why I'm happy that I base my self esteem on others not hating me.

*except this week they all seem to hate me.
Wilgrove
02-09-2007, 21:12
well, and even good looking people might get their faces ripped off by dogs, you gotta have something to fall back on in case you wake up one day ugly......that's why I'm happy that I base my self esteem on others not hating me.

*except this week they all seem to hate me.

I base mine on how honest and cynical I can be :D That and how well I do in my Grad School studies. *nods*

Beauty is fleeting, but the education you get from college is forever, at least until you die, or get brain damaged etc.
Isidoor
02-09-2007, 21:13
I base mine on how honest and cynical I can be :D That and how well I do in my Grad School studies. *nods*

Beauty is fleeting, but the education you get from college is forever, at least until you die, or get brain damaged etc.

how exactly do you get self esteem from your studies? Personally I have quite good grades and stuff, but I think I might need some extra self-esteem. And What if you suffered brain damage? or you stopped doing good at school? what do you fall back on then?