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Girls, which is better...

A long, slow cuddle in strong arms ... or ...

A vigorous bout of filthy arse slapping?

Hey what about the guys. Some of us like some spanking directed our way :eek:

Depends both on the girl and on the mood she is in at the time.

i fuxored yor pollzorz. you gots te have an option fer tha poll fiendz silly.

they can both be good.........or really bad. depends.

I can has cuddlez?

Whatever fits the mood.

Y'see, whenever I go up to a girl and ask this question of her in the bar, I always, always get the response

'cuddle'


why is that?

I can has cuddlez?

I will has cuddlez!

T'edit:
Y'see, whenever I go up to a girl and ask this question of her in the bar, I always, always get the response

'cuddle'


why is that?

Because it's more pleasant and hurts less?
I'm not a female, but that's what my Psychic Powers of Female Prediction tell me :p

Hey what about the guys. Some of us like some spanking directed our way :eek:


Hey DF

Give me a call. I'll give you a good spanking wheneveryouwant. For a fee :D

Y'see, whenever I go up to a girl and ask this question of her in the bar, I always, always get the response

'cuddle'


why is that?

Because you can't give a guy the other opportunity or he'll grab at it

Hey DF

Give me a call. I'll give you a good spanking wheneveryouwant. For a fee :D

Hmmmm remind me to always add in the disclaimer "By females only"

Because you can't give a guy the other opportunity or he'll grab at it

You're damn right - that's the reason why I ask it :0D !

I will has cuddlez!

T'edit:


Because it's more pleasant and hurts less?
I'm not a female, but that's what my Psychic Powers of Female Prediction tell me :p



Pleasantness varies from eye of the beholder to brown eye of the beholder. Some people, after all, find the thwack of leather on buttock quite pleasant.

I love a good cuddle.

But it depends on my mood.

i dont get off on pain

so i guess if its not a good fuck, ill go for the cuddling.

Because you can't give a guy the other opportunity or he'll grab at it

I have a tendency to grab things while cuddling.

I'm not trying to offend anyone, but I've noticed that the er...easier girls tend to like it rough.

Girls, which is better...

A long, slow cuddle in strong arms ... or ...

A vigorous bout of filthy arse slapping?

how about both?

I'm not trying to offend anyone, but I've noticed that the er...easier girls tend to like it rough.

Oh really? Have you slept with all "easy" girls and "non easy" girls to be able to make that assumption? Or are you just getting your ideas from what you see on porn? Or are you ,in fact, "easy" yourself and like it rough and thusly of a mind that all people like you are the same?

Sometimes these things are best left a surprise. :)

Just to point most everyone looking at this thread is....a guy!! :confused: so this makes sense how?

Just to point most everyone looking at this thread is....a guy!! :confused: so this makes sense how?

because the majority of people ON nsg are guys?

its not like the guys dont have an opinion. its not a dating service for the OP to find a girl who likes to be spanked.

Just to point most everyone looking at this thread is....a guy!! :confused: so this makes sense how?

What's your point?

I am not sure which would be better. I think I need some willing participants to make a final conclusion ;) .

Now, I want to say how unfair this question was. I like both things, but it depends on my mood, the sort of day I am having, how much time we have, how tired I am, and who I am with. I picked the first choice because I like the first one more often than I like the second one.

Girls, which is better...

A long, slow cuddle in strong arms
Boring.

... or ...

A vigorous bout of filthy arse slapping?
Annoying and boring.

Related question:

Why isn't there a "have sex" option in your poll?

Y'see, whenever I go up to a girl and ask this question of her in the bar, I always, always get the response

'cuddle'


why is that?

Possibly because they don't want to have sex with you. I know I wouldn't have sex with a guy who asked such an uncool question in a public place.

Possibly because they don't want to have sex with you. I know I wouldn't have sex with a guy who asked such an uncool question in a public place.

I wouldn't even TALK to a guy that came up to me and asked that question..

its not a dating service for the OP to find a girl who likes to be spanked.

As the OP, the only response I have to that statement is: 'bugger'. *sighs, disappointedly*

Boring.


Annoying and boring.

Related question:

Why isn't there a "have sex" option in your poll?

Says something about our friend the OP, doesnt it?
Not that I'm one to talk.

Possibly because they don't want to have sex with you. I know I wouldn't have sex with a guy who asked such an uncool question in a public place.

It's OK - I wouldn't wanna have :fluffle: with you if you're that uptight you get offended by a bit of banter

I wouldn't want to speak for Muravyets here but...

It's not about being uptight, it's all about asking a crap question.

It's not offensive, it's just crap.

Girls, which is better...

A long, slow cuddle in strong arms ... or ...

A vigorous bout of filthy arse slapping?

The best is to have number 1 first, then move to number two after you chain him to the bed face down. :p

It's OK - I wouldn't wanna have :fluffle: with you if you're that uptight you get offended by a bit of banter

Yes. You've just been rejected and are now standing in the bar yelling at the back of the departing victim about how much you didn't want to sleep with her anyway...

Personally, I don't think much of the taste of anyone that wouldn't want to bump like bunnies with Muravyets. She rocks out loud.

Girls, which is better...

A long, slow cuddle in strong arms ... or ...

A vigorous bout of filthy arse slapping?

That's a lousy poll... both are nice!

I don't mind the occasional slap on the ass but it doesn't really do anything for me other than keep me awake.
Cuddling on the other hand, definitely a big plus.

Girls, which is better...

A long, slow cuddle in strong arms ... or ...

A vigorous bout of filthy arse slapping?

Come on, grow up, wouldja?

These are NOT opposites and NOT mutually exclusive. Asking a question like this presupposes that people don't get into moods fo either or both -- perhaps one after the other or even at the same time! Please, there are enough boxes and societal manacles with regard to sexuality and the perception thereof -- how's about asking us why or under which circumstances we'd prefer either a cuddle or a spanking? That's a FAR more interesting and infinitely more thoughtful...virtually guaranteed to get better responses, too.

Girls, which is better...

A long, slow cuddle in strong arms ... or ...

A vigorous bout of filthy arse slapping?
It saddens me to think that there are people who must choose between the two.

I wouldn't even TALK to a guy that came up to me and asked that question..
I would talk to him. I'd say "good-bye" and go back to my drink and my friends.

Originally posted by HabeasCorpus
It's OK - I wouldn't wanna have with you if you're that uptight you get offended by a bit of banter

I wouldn't want to speak for Muravyets here but...

It's not about being uptight, it's all about asking a crap question.

It's not offensive, it's just crap.
Barringtonia speaks for me just fine. That's exactly the issue. The question is crap, and it makes the guy who asks it look bad - like he's a child or drunk or otherwise not fun to be with. It's not offensive, it's just awkward and silly.

Same that little verbal attack of calling me uptight because I reject his "banter" as an uncool stumble. Sorry if you don't like that I don't enjoy your wit, HC, but it doesn't follow logically that I don't like it because I'm uptight. Your remark says as much about you as your poll does. You may want to adjust the image you are creating of yourself.

What? A girl can't like both? I'm pretty damn sure it all depends on the mood. And you ask that kind of thing in a bar or pub? Mate you need to learn pub etiquette. Always buy a drink first then talk to a girl instead of going up to a girl and asking the question which is like a very thin cover hiding the actual thought...

I WANTZ SECHS

Yes. You've just been rejected and are now standing in the bar yelling at the back of the departing victim about how much you didn't want to sleep with her anyway...

Personally, I don't think much of the taste of anyone that wouldn't want to bump like bunnies with Muravyets. She rocks out loud.
My hero! :fluffle: :D

The best is to have number 1 first, then move to number two after you chain him to the bed face down. :p
You win the thread. :D


PS: Don't forget to take his wallet as you leave. ;)

It's OK - I wouldn't wanna have :fluffle: with you if you're that uptight you get offended by a bit of banter
There's a big difference between being offended and merely not being impressed by immaturity.

You win the thread. :D


PS: Don't forget to take his wallet as you leave. ;)

Personally, I don't think much of the taste of anyone that wouldn't want to bump like bunnies with Muravyets. She rocks out loud.

Wow. Must really be worth it, mustn't it? :p

Personally, I don't think much of the taste of anyone that wouldn't want to bump like bunnies with Muravyets. She rocks out loud.
^what he said.

It's OK - I wouldn't wanna have :fluffle: with you if you're that uptight you get offended by a bit of banter
Wait, so all I have to do to get you to leave me alone is reject your clumsy, failed attempts at humor?

Promise?

Wow. Must really be worth it, mustn't it? :p

More than you will ever know. Hehehe. ;)

More than you will ever know. Hehehe. ;)

<starts setting up his hidden cameras>

oh, don't mind me... :p

A touch of the first, followed by a rough round of the second, followed by hardcore screwing, followed by some of the first. Come on, is there any other answer?

Is something wrong with me... I'm a guy and I like to cuddle?

A touch of the first, followed by a rough round of the second, followed by hardcore screwing, followed by some of the first. Come on, is there any other answer?
What is this spanking obsession? Why waste time with pointless interruptions? Making out leads to fucking leads to cuddling leads to sleep leads to more fucking leads to breakfast. What's with all these extra steps and procedures? Spanking is not sexy to me at all. And when did making out get relabeled as "cuddling"? Cuddling is not a sexy word either - at least not to me. It's what happens when we are relaxing after the sex. Is any of this conversation actually supposed to be about sex, or are we all misunderstanding the OP?

Is something wrong with me... I'm a guy and I like to cuddle?
I think most guys like to cuddle but are brainwashed never to admit it. Guys like to be touched, even outside a sex situation. Sometimes I think they like it more than women do, even.

I think most guys like to cuddle but are brainwashed never to admit it. Guys like to be touched, even outside a sex situation. Sometimes I think they like it more than women do, even.

Shhh... your on to me! Don't let that little bit out, I might appear to be a girly man or something. Please don't tell anyone that I like to cuddle and touch or be touched even in non sexual ways by those of the femenine persuasion <.< >.>.

Our little secret ok?

Oh crap I posted this one a public web forum...

Is something wrong with me... I'm a guy and I like to cuddle?

nothing at all, just find you a girl who also likes to cuddle and you are set. ;)

nothing at all, just find you a girl who also likes to cuddle and you are set. ;)

Heheh, I've found several.

I'm a momma's boy, raised by a single mom, whom I still make it a point to see as often as I can, I kinda have a femenine side.

My hero! :fluffle: :D

*insert period-drama-style elegant bow*

:)

^what he said.

And Smunkee rocks out loud too, so if she says it... you can bank it.

:)

I take control, so it doesn't matter what they like.

I take control, so it doesn't matter what they like.

:rolleyes:

I take control, so it doesn't matter what they like.

hmmmm does that imply a long series of first dates or a long jail term?

I doubt I would be posting if I was locked up.

Not familiar with domination?

I doubt I would be posting if I was locked up.

Not familiar with domination?

BDSM involves consent so it does matter what they want ;)

I doubt I would be posting if I was locked up.

Not familiar with domination?

if you think that the dom is in control, you dont understand domination/submission.

Not familiar with domination?

Very. If YOU knew anything about it you'd understand that control is given, not taken.

Poser.

Girls, which is better...

A long, slow cuddle in strong arms ... or ...

A vigorous bout of filthy arse slapping?

i think you'll find the two are not mutually exclusive, and both are lots of fun :D

Girls, which is better...

A long, slow cuddle in strong arms ... or ...

A vigorous bout of filthy arse slapping?

If I could only have one, I'd take the second, but both would be preferable. Then again, that's assuming that I got to choose:D

Girls, which is better...

A long, slow cuddle in strong arms ... or ...

A vigorous bout of filthy arse slapping?

I'm not a girl, but ...

How is it that you're alive? I thought George Bush killed you.

How is it that you're alive? I thought George Bush killed you.

Winner.

I don't know of those two which is better, but it's best when a clown is involved. ;)

I take control, so it doesn't matter what they like.

When it's all in your imagination, it doesn't really matter.

Can't we just cuddle after the ass slappingly good sex?

When it's all in your imagination, it doesn't really matter.

:p

Do you ever click on a thread without realizing it, and then wish you hadn't?


This is one of those times.

if you think that the dom is in control, you dont understand domination/submission.

You're right, I don't know the first thing about dom/sub & BDSM. Sometimes I just forget that there is a large unspoken group of people who are into it.
And occasionaly rude about it to outsiders

Lay off the snide remarks next time.

Maybe develop your sense of humour further while you're at it, so you can see how blatantly sarcastic I was being.

One can't pick both? It's not like you're always in the same mood...

(I think a poll would be more useful if it included us guys anyway)

Now, I want to say how unfair this question was. I like both things, but it depends on my mood, the sort of day I am having, how much time we have, how tired I am, and who I am with. I picked the first choice because I like the first one more often than I like the second one.

*Cuddles with Ilie* :fluffle:
That's MY answer.

The obvious solution is to figure out how to do both at once.

You're right, I don't know the first thing about dom/sub & BDSM. Sometimes I just forget that there is a large unspoken group of people who are into it. Hardly unspoken. We're pretty vocal, actually.
And occasionaly rude about it to outsiders When those outsiders are claiming to be insiders and saying stupid things, um, yes, correction is appropriate.

Lay off the snide remarks next time. You're in for a rude shock if you thought that response was in any way snide. You're also in for a rude shock if you think that you're going to be treated with kid gloves. Shark pool. Swim boy, swim!

Maybe develop your sense of humour further while you're at it, so you can see how blatantly sarcastic I was being.
And maybe if you lightened up, you could realise that as a n00b, we don't know shit about you, and nothing indicated you were being sarcastic. Simply misinformed. So you were schooled. Accept it in the spirit given. And keep swimming!

Is something wrong with me... I'm a guy and I like to cuddle?

Same, but I sometimes do things like fondle while I'm at it.

You're right, I don't know the first thing about dom/sub & BDSM. Sometimes I just forget that there is a large unspoken group of people who are into it.
And occasionaly rude about it to outsiders

Lay off the snide remarks next time.

Maybe develop your sense of humour further while you're at it, so you can see how blatantly sarcastic I was being.

Is it appropriate to comment adversely on snide remarks, when your entire post history consists of one snide remark and the repurcussions?

geese it's just one snide remaek after another. You people need to relax. It was a simple question, nothing to argue about. You can't fight with someone just because you don't like their opinion. Everyone is entitled to think what they want.

And just for the record I prefer cudles in the arms of my bf.

geese it's just one snide remaek after another. You people need to relax. It was a simple question, nothing to argue about. You can't fight with someone just because you don't like their opinion. Everyone is entitled to think what they want. So are you the puppet or the other way around?

Seriously. Stop your whining. No one is going to give you a pass here.

god wats ur problem. There are people who say alot worse stuff then me. I was just giving my opinion.

god wats ur problem. There are people who say alot worse stuff then me. I was just giving my opinion.

"God wats ur problem".

People who rudely enter this forum and demand to be treated a certain way. YOU adapt. It's very simple.

Rule number one. You can not expect that anything you say will go unchallenged. If that's too much for you, better suck it up.

"God wats ur problem".

People who rudely enter this forum and demand to be treated a certain way. YOU adapt. It's very simple.

Rule number one. You can not expect that anything you say will go unchallenged. If that's too much for you, better suck it up.

i didnt expect to be treated anyway. i just said that people should stop jumping down each others throats over nothing. It's not my fault u feel u have to attack everyone's comments in order to feel good about urslef.

i didnt expect to be treated anyway. i just said that people should stop jumping down each others throats over nothing. It's not my fault u feel u have to attack everyone's comments in order to feel good about urslef.

Another tip. Learning how to spell will be useful here.

You know, your little 'lets sing kumbaya' would be more effective if you stopped posting in such a snippy, whiny manner. As has already been pointed out, it is ridiculous to complain about a certain treatment, whilst engaging in it yourself.

I can has cuddlez?

:p

i lol'ed!

as far as the survey thingee goes, i prefer the cuddle. im a sensual romantic.

i also agree with ??? who said guys prefer it, but are pressured by society to be tough neanderthals all the time, no matter what.

mind you, my view may be biased, as i am a guy, who likes guys.

g0y, as compared with gay. (spelled with a "zero", not an "ohh")


Rafe
-OOC

I take control, so it doesn't matter what they like.

Do you use your right hand or your left?

Do you use your right hand or your left?

Hahahha, careful...Indescribable Angels will berate you in AOL speak.

Do you use your right hand or your left?

Why not use both?

Why not use both?

I suppose if he has very small hands, that might work. :p

I suppose if he has very small hands, that might work. :p

*insert joke about using one hand to hold the magnifying glass here*

I suppose if he has very small hands, that might work. :p

Not at the same time :rolleyes: .

Do you ever click on a thread without realizing it, and then wish you hadn't?


Yes.

Usually it's one of yours, though, so this is actually refreshing.