Kryozerkia
08-06-2007, 12:54
Why is it when someone says they're gay, everyone else in the room says they're straight?
Why is it when someone mentions they're a vegetarian, someone else has to mention how much they love steak?
Why is it when someone says anything, someone nearby has to pipe up and say the opposite?
It's because people love their opinions and beliefs; moreover, they love to pretend that other people care about them. People will not hesitate to shove anything they believe in your face at the slightest opportunity, because god forbid they don't reaffirm it every twenty seconds.. otherwise, they might start to actually think about it.
So, to answer your question.. Christians constantly trying to show people their 'way' is like that obnoxious person that bombards your work e-mail with jokes because she thinks they're funny.. They are somehow unable to understand that you will think differently from them, and that your opinions, beliefs, or sense of humor may somehow *be* different.
That is a good way of putting it.
I never did quite think of it like this. This is certainly one way of looking at the matter. However, I think it's unfair to say that all Christians do. There are those like LG who never mention their beliefs until you ask them about the nature their beliefs.
But I do see your point about the need for people to express their opinion when a contradictory one is stated. I think that's just human nature. We see or hear one person expressing theirs and we feel the need to add in a different point of view.
While I'm sure that all religions (and non-religious views; ie: agnostic and atheist and everything in between) are guilty of your above analogy, I find that Christians can be the more persistent ones. That's devotion and drive.
Why is it when someone mentions they're a vegetarian, someone else has to mention how much they love steak?
Why is it when someone says anything, someone nearby has to pipe up and say the opposite?
It's because people love their opinions and beliefs; moreover, they love to pretend that other people care about them. People will not hesitate to shove anything they believe in your face at the slightest opportunity, because god forbid they don't reaffirm it every twenty seconds.. otherwise, they might start to actually think about it.
So, to answer your question.. Christians constantly trying to show people their 'way' is like that obnoxious person that bombards your work e-mail with jokes because she thinks they're funny.. They are somehow unable to understand that you will think differently from them, and that your opinions, beliefs, or sense of humor may somehow *be* different.
That is a good way of putting it.
I never did quite think of it like this. This is certainly one way of looking at the matter. However, I think it's unfair to say that all Christians do. There are those like LG who never mention their beliefs until you ask them about the nature their beliefs.
But I do see your point about the need for people to express their opinion when a contradictory one is stated. I think that's just human nature. We see or hear one person expressing theirs and we feel the need to add in a different point of view.
While I'm sure that all religions (and non-religious views; ie: agnostic and atheist and everything in between) are guilty of your above analogy, I find that Christians can be the more persistent ones. That's devotion and drive.