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just thinking random about women...and i know it will make girls mad....but....really think about women/girls..why do they dress pretty and wear makeup?
i have come to the conclusion it is to atract a mate..duh....but why do women get so offended when men look at them in a sexual way...is not that what they want?,or is it only the guy they like as an a prospective mate ok to look at them?
they feign offense if you ogle them if your not the cup of tea for them...but the guy they like..they giggle and put on lipstick.
i know it sounds like sour grapes..it aint...i just find it amusing that girls take the moral high groung when it comes to things sexual....how dare you look at my tit's that are hanging out...when they aint attracted..but if the guy they like ogles...they are giggle machines..i find it amusing the double standard.
i aint bitching..i treat women like they deserve to be..if your that shallow you get treated that way...but i do find it interesting that girls get offended when guys dog them...when they dress like they do..to attract males...and selectively disparage the ones they dont want attention from,but act like silly girls when the guy they like pays the same attention.

what got me thinking of this subject was the fact that my girl is pissed i am with a young girl...but i see how she dresses,and she is fishing for the guy that she wants...the guy with money and power...i see how she disses guys that are decent cause they dont bring to the table what she wants...it's her life...but she gets mad at me for wanting what i want..lol...life is funny.

you cant have it both ways...i try to tell her..the primal urge of women is to find the alpha male that will best protect/care for her...and vice verse the primal urge of men is to find the girl that is best for him to mate with...it sounds disgusting,but it is true.
i know that in this day and age some find soul mates..i think i did..but the reality for most is that primal thing..especially for women....i may be wrong...discuss

Banned, eh?

are you drunk?

Banned, eh?

Seems to have an odd idea of what will get him banned, I'd say.

Seems to have an odd idea of what will get him banned, I'd say.

Perhaps he's on about a specific mod or something.

are you drunk?

That was my first reaction.

Cheers! (http://www.independentcritics.com/images/lost%20in%20translation%20SPLASH.jpg)

I think the difference is between being treated as objects and treated as people. Same for men actually.

...and girls may treat men as objects as well but be quickly turned off when they realize they're schmucks, if that's what they are. So do men actually.

As people we're all contradictory between our Id and Ego - we're human, nothing to get upset about.

Why your daughter is upset has nothing to do with how women are looked at. She's reacted against you having another partner and found ways to justify that reaction to herself.

I highly doubt this is a bannable thread.

I'm surprised this hasn't already degenerated into a flame fest.

That was my first reaction.

Cheers! (http://www.independentcritics.com/images/lost%20in%20translation%20SPLASH.jpg)

I love that movie.

just thinking random about women...and i know it will make girls mad....but....really think about women/girls..why do they dress pretty and wear makeup?
i have come to the conclusion it is to atract a mate..duh....but why do women get so offended when men look at them in a sexual way...is not that what they want?,or is it only the guy they like as an a prospective mate ok to look at them?
they feign offense if you ogle them if your not the cup of tea for them...but the guy they like..they giggle and put on lipstick.
i know it sounds like sour grapes..it aint...i just find it amusing that girls take the moral high groung when it comes to things sexual....how dare you look at my tit's that are hanging out...when they aint attracted..but if the guy they like ogles...they are giggle machines..i find it amusing the double standard.
i aint bitching..i treat women like they deserve to be..if your that shallow you get treated that way...but i do find it interesting that girls get offended when guys dog them...when they dress like they do..to attract males...and selectively disparage the ones they dont want attention from,but act like silly girls when the guy they like pays the same attention.

what got me thinking of this subject was the fact that my girl is pissed i am with a young girl...but i see how she dresses,and she is fishing for the guy that she wants...the guy with money and power...i see how she disses guys that are decent cause they dont bring to the table what she wants...it's her life...but she gets mad at me for wanting what i want..lol...life is funny.

you cant have it both ways...i try to tell her..the primal urge of women is to find the alpha male that will best protect/care for her...and vice verse the primal urge of men is to find the girl that is best for him to mate with...it sounds disgusting,but it is true.
i know that in this day and age some find soul mates..i think i did..but the reality for most is that primal thing..especially for women....i may be wrong...discuss


ahem...

THE RULES

1. The female always makes the rules.

2. The rules are subject to change at any time without prior notification.

3. No male can possibly know all the rules.

4. If the female suspects that the male know all the rules, she must immediately change some or all of the rules.

5. The female is never wrong.

6. If the female is wrong it is because of a flagrant misunderstanding which was the direct result of somthing that the male said or did wrong.

7. If rule 6 applies, the male MUST apologize immediately for causing the misunderstanding.

8. The female can change her mind at any given point in time.

9. The male must never change his mind without express written consent from the female.

10. The female has every right to be angry or upset at any time.

11. The male must remain calm at all times, unless the female wants him to be angry or upset.

12. The female must under no circumstances let the male know whether or not she wants him to be angry or upset.

13. Only the female may determine when things are alright again.

14. Any attempt to document these rules could result in severe bodily harm.



oh and thanks for giving me an excuse to post this pic.

http://img379.imageshack.us/img379/4082/abeerst6.jpg

Sure, if a woman dresses provocatively and then sneers at you for noticing, she's probably being rude. It happens, I'm sure. I'd just ignore it and look as much as I liked. :p

I highly doubt this is a bannable thread.

Ah, there's still time. :)

Banned? Only if they issued bans for stupidity.

I'll stick to biologists such as Dawkins for opinions on what sexual impulses drive human behaviour, thank you very much! It's a tad more complex than "frail little female wants big alpha male gorilla to come and protect her" ...

Banned? Only if they issued bans for stupidity.
Do you have a lot of experience on forums or something?

I can't speak for all women, but I most certainly do not dress to attract a mate. If I wear something pretty, I wear it because I like it, not because I hope guys will like it. Furthermore, I find ogling strangers to be exceedingly rude, and would be just as irritated if a young, attractive man ogled me as I would if an elderly, 400-pound man with no teeth ogled me. It's not that freaking hard to control one's own behavior, and I think it's pathetic when guys argue "I can't help staring at your tits! They're available to be stared at!" :rolleyes:

Do you have a lot of experience on forums or something?

I have a few years of experience on this forum. ;)

I can't speak for all women, but I most certainly do not dress to attract a mate. If I wear something pretty, I wear it because I like it, not because I hope guys will like it. Furthermore, I find ogling strangers to be exceedingly rude, and would be just as irritated if a young, attractive man ogled me as I would if an elderly, 400-pound man with no teeth ogled me. It's not that freaking hard to control one's own behavior, and I think it's pathetic when guys argue "I can't help staring at your tits! They're available to be stared at!" :rolleyes:

Woah woah woah - men can't help looking at tits - fact. If you have breasts and they're in anyway even slightly exposed, we're simply programmed to look - you have to be a man to understand that. It is that freaking hard.

Your other points are fine.

I have a few years of experience on this forum. ;)

Ah - still hopeful nonetheless? ;)

I think the difference is between being treated as objects and treated as people. Same for men actually.

...and girls may treat men as objects as well but be quickly turned off when they realize they're schmucks, if that's what they are. So do men actually.

As people we're all contradictory between our Id and Ego - we're human, nothing to get upset about.

Why your daughter is upset has nothing to do with how women are looked at. She's reacted against you having another partner and found ways to justify that reaction to herself.

I highly doubt this is a bannable thread.

thank you for an intelligent reply,the ban thing was for attention..lol..well to get responses,as i am curious mabout others take on this thing we call love.

Woah woah woah - men can't help looking at tits - fact. If you have breasts and they're in anyway even slightly exposed, we're simply programmed to look - you have to be a man to understand that. It is that freaking hard.

Your other points are fine.

Heh. I do understand that (up to a point, at least), which is why I used the word "ogle" rather than "look." A quick glance is forgivable. Openly staring, on the other hand, is really colossally uncool.

Ah - still hopeful nonetheless? ;)

About as hopeful as a snitch can get ;) hehe

About as hopeful as a snitch can get ;) hehe

You sly little hussy.
I voted for you!

As yet, there's nothing in this thread that would get you banned.

With that said, I do not encourage you to try again; it's annoying to clean up suicide-by-Mod attempts. And I strongly advise against posting while drunk! Things are not really as witty as they appear through beer goggles.

~ Tsarmageddon consorts not with the demon drink

Heh. I do understand that (up to a point, at least), which is why I used the word "ogle" rather than "look." A quick glance is forgivable. Openly staring, on the other hand, is really colossally uncool.

The worst is the 'vacant stare' - when, as a guy, you suddenly find yourself having been staring without even thinking about it and you're not even sure how long you've been doing it. Then you look up to the expression on the face....

Never good.

The worst is the 'vacant stare' - when, as a guy, you suddenly find yourself having been staring without even thinking about it and you're not even sure how long you've been doing it. Then you look up to the expression on the face....

Never good.

lol...well at least i got us talking about it..

AJ, I always thought you were a nice guy, but I can't stand it any longer. I have just two words for you: 'Shift' and 'key'. Please.

Heh. I do understand that (up to a point, at least), which is why I used the word "ogle" rather than "look." A quick glance is forgivable. Openly staring, on the other hand, is really colossally uncool.

and let's not mention the drooling...
:p

As yet, there's nothing in this thread that would get you banned.

With that said, I do not encourage you to try again; it's annoying to clean up suicide-by-Mod attempts. And I strongly advise against posting while drunk! Things are not really as witty as they appear through beer goggles.

~ Tsarmageddon consorts not with the demon drink

i really was not trying to get banned..just used that to grab your attention...to much marketing school i guess....but my point remains...why do girls dress provacitively then get mad when men check them out..simple question?


i aint drunk yet

Woah woah woah - men can't help looking at tits - fact. If you have breasts and they're in anyway even slightly exposed, we're simply programmed to look - you have to be a man to understand that. It is that freaking hard.

What he said. You try not to, of course, but there's always this invisible force tugging at your eyes.

ahem...

THE RULES

1. The female always makes the rules.

2. The rules are subject to change at any time without prior notification.

3. No male can possibly know all the rules.

4. If the female suspects that the male know all the rules, she must immediately change some or all of the rules.

5. The female is never wrong.

6. If the female is wrong it is because of a flagrant misunderstanding which was the direct result of somthing that the male said or did wrong.

7. If rule 6 applies, the male MUST apologize immediately for causing the misunderstanding.

8. The female can change her mind at any given point in time.

9. The male must never change his mind without express written consent from the female.

10. The female has every right to be angry or upset at any time.

11. The male must remain calm at all times, unless the female wants him to be angry or upset.

12. The female must under no circumstances let the male know whether or not she wants him to be angry or upset.

13. Only the female may determine when things are alright again.

14. Any attempt to document these rules could result in severe bodily harm.



oh and thanks for giving me an excuse to post this pic.

http://img379.imageshack.us/img379/4082/abeerst6.jpg




you rule

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I'm sorry, but does anyone have any idea what the original poster was talking about? I couldn't tell what he was saying through the horrible grammar, spelling, punctuation, and general air of drunkeness about it.

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I'm sorry, but does anyone have any idea what the original poster was talking about? I couldn't tell what he was saying through the horrible grammar, spelling, punctuation, and general air of drunkeness about it.

It was a study in method acting about the subject itself.

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I'm sorry, but does anyone have any idea what the original poster was talking about? I couldn't tell what he was saying through the horrible grammar, spelling, punctuation, and general air of drunkeness about it.

that men don't understand women. :D