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I so didnt suggest this....

I have an ice fetish. ^_^; I hate winter but I like ice...

I have an ice fetish. ^_^; I hate winter but I like ice...

How is that odd? Its not a fetish, its a fun suggestion.

I don't know how to say it in PG-13 terms. So I won't.

Choking(fun)
Sensory Dep(fun)
Bondage(fun)
Domination(fun)
Submission(fun)
Being bitten(I mean like really bitten hard)
Pain in general(fun)
Rape simulation(creepy)
Sex in public places(fun)
I also personally suffer from an intense oral fixation.

I knew a girl who liked to be urinated on...I didnt know her long. Creepy.

Dwarf fetish.

Choking(fun)
Sensory Dep(fun)
Bondage(fun)
Domination(fun)
Submission(fun)
Being bitten(I mean like really bitten hard)
Pain in general(fun)
Rape simulation(fun)
Sex in public places(fun)
I also personally suffer from an intense oral fixation.


Fixed.

Hmmm, festishes I think are creepy? Diapers, scatplay, and animals. Oh, and pretending someone is dead. That's less creepy than the others, but still not for me.

I so didnt suggest this....

But you like it don't you ;) *pokes you in the tummy* admit it!

Fixed.

Hmmm, festishes I think are creepy? Diapers, scatplay, and animals. Oh, and pretending someone is dead. That's less creepy than the others, but still not for me.

Oh god, i dont know what scatplay is, but i sont want to google it, and im guessing you probably cant explain it in a pg-13 way.

I once knew a guy who loved hair-pulling. My hair that is.

How is that odd? Its not a fetish, its a fun suggestion.

Let's say nice suggestions are welcome as well.

But you like it don't you ;) *pokes you in the tummy* admit it!

*Giggles*, can being poked in the tummy be a fettish? No? Then tickling.

ROFL The slime one was still the funniest tho, he got turned on by watching live and kicking ;)

*Giggles*, can being poked in the tummy be a fettish? No? Then tickling.

ROFL The slime one was still the funniest tho, he got turned on by watching live and kicking ;)

*shutters*

*tickles you*

Nazi Uniforms

Which is an extension of a general uniform fetish...

But still, nothing hotter than a pair of the SS runes ;)

*shutters*

*tickles you*

Look, tickle me one more time and i'll come over there and.. and... TURN LESBIAN!

So necrophilia is less creepy than diapers. Methinks you have weird priorities...

He did say Pretending, thats not really necrophilia.

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Hmmm, festishes I think are creepy? Diapers, scatplay, and animals. Oh, and pretending someone is dead. That's less creepy than the others, but still not for me.

So necrophilia is less creepy than diapers. Methinks you have weird priorities...

Look, tickle me one more time and i'll come over there and.. and... TURN LESBIAN!

I'm just a ferry away my munchkin ;)

*tickl.. noh*

Edit: maybe I'll do it when you least suspect it... Mwoohhhahaa!

So necrophilia is less creepy than diapers. Methinks you have weird priorities...

No, not actual necrophilia. That's out of bounds, and beyond a fetish in my books. Pretending someone is passed out or dead and then having sex with them...it's creepy, but not nearly as creepy as crapping yourself in a diaper.

He did say Pretending, thats not really necrophilia.

She;)

Pretending they're dead, is stating a desire for them to be dead. Ergo, a desire for necrophilia.

Pretending you're being raped is stating a desire to be raped.

See how I did that?

Lots of people have rape fantasies, either as the rapist or rapee. It does not translate to an actual desire for REAL rape.

So when analysing people's fetishes, it might be a good idea to check your assumptions.

He did say Pretending, thats not really necrophilia.

Pretending they're dead, is stating a desire for them to be dead. Ergo, a desire for necrophilia.

I'm a fellow sufferer.

Giver or receiver?

I like mouths, mouthing, and being mouthed. Also, I tend to salivate when aroused.

I also personally suffer from an intense oral fixation.


I'm a fellow sufferer.

I'm a fellow sufferer.

Is it in any way wrong for a woman to have an oral fixation. 'Cause umn.. *freights to finish sentence*

Giver or receiver?

I like mouths, mouthing, and being mouthed. Also, I tend to salivate when aroused.

I have an odd fascination with the former in particular. (but certainly wouldn't refuse the latter.) Yet to try, though. :)


Is it in any way wrong for a woman to have an oral fixation. 'Cause umn.. *freights to finish sentence*

Why would it be?

I think my last partner was just trying to creep me out with his erm, appitites. No one can seriously be that messed in the head. The bastard left me completely screwed up. I now have an adverse physical reastion when anyone I don't know very well even hugs me. Hugs from close friends/family is the only physical contact that doesn't make me start shaking uncontrollably.

let's just say....more than would be prudent to discuss here, k?

Pretending you're being raped is stating a desire to be raped.


A) Yes, at some level it is. If you had no desire to be raped, while would you pretend to be. I could go through psychoanalysis stating it is a desire to release control, and that the feigning death is insecurity in your control over others, but at it's core, yes it is. Not that they'll actually go and do it because of the dangers inherent, but yes it is stating a desire to be raped.

B) at no point do you actually deny anything. In any attempt to refute something, the ideal place to start is with the base, or else the reasoning has no purpose.

I have an odd fascination with the former in particular. (but certainly wouldn't refuse the latter.) Yet to try, though. :)



Why would it be?

Just asking :)

Giver, definitely. and please don't ask me how come, I don't know.

I think my last partner was just trying to creep me out with his erm, appitites. No one can seriously be that messed in the head. The bastard left me completely screwed up. I now have an adverse physical reastion when anyone I don't know very well even hugs me. Hugs from close friends/family is the only physical contact that doesn't make me start shaking uncontrollably.

Darn. That's just plain mean. Hope your need for physical contact restores so I can hug you silly!

Darn. That's just plain mean. Hope your need for physical contact restores so I can hug you silly!

:fluffle:
I think it's mostly because my trust was violated in a fundamental way. I'm trying to work on it. Nice hugs from nice people will help.

Bleh. Why do all of the interesting threads pop up when I need to go to bed? You people are evil. :(


Just asking

Giver, definitely. and please don't ask me how come, I don't know.

Howcome? ;)

I think my last partner was just trying to creep me out with his erm, appitites. No one can seriously be that messed in the head. The bastard left me completely screwed up. I now have an adverse physical reastion when anyone I don't know very well even hugs me. Hugs from close friends/family is the only physical contact that doesn't make me start shaking uncontrollably.

Ow, i'm sorry to hear that. :(

I think my last partner was just trying to creep me out with his erm, appitites. No one can seriously be that messed in the head. The bastard left me completely screwed up. I now have an adverse physical reastion when anyone I don't know very well even hugs me. Hugs from close friends/family is the only physical contact that doesn't make me start shaking uncontrollably.

There's nothing I can say besides, that sucks. I hope you can get over it, because I would hate for one person to ruin something like that for you for life.

I AM an odd fetish! :)

Rape is inherently non-consensual. I like roleplaying rape, but under no circumstances would I want to be raped. Even those people who enjoy coercive and/or rough sex as a general rule insist on it remaining consensual, within strictly defined boundaries.

You are propagating a myth here that is not only abhorrent, but dangerous.
School someone else. I care less about your particular 'process' and more about the astounding ignorance you are displaying.

*Cheers Neesika*

A) Yes, at some level it is. If you had no desire to be raped, while would you pretend to be. I could go through psychoanalysis stating it is a desire to release control, and that the feigning death is insecurity in your control over others, but at it's core, yes it is. Not that they'll actually go and do it because of the dangers inherent, but yes it is stating a desire to be raped.

Rape is inherently non-consensual. I like roleplaying rape, but under no circumstances would I want to be raped. Even those people who enjoy coercive and/or rough sex as a general rule insist on it remaining consensual, within strictly defined boundaries.

You are propagating a myth here that is not only abhorrent, but dangerous.

B) at no point do you actually deny anything. In any attempt to refute something, the ideal place to start is with the base, or else the reasoning has no purpose.School someone else. I care less about your particular 'process' and more about the astounding ignorance you are displaying.

I agree. Those are all creepy.

The one I don't find creepy, but I don't 'get', is the foot fetish. I mean, what's the big deal? They're feet...

I dont get that either, i nibbles someones toes once, and i did not find it very erotic, just a bit smelly (no, not because they needed a wash, simply cause thats how feet are)

There's nothing I can say besides, that sucks. I hope you can get over it, because I would hate for one person to ruin something like that for you for life.
Ow, i'm sorry to hear that. :(
Thanks.:)

Yeah, he was a jerk. He's a psychologist too. He should know better.:mad:

At least I know I have a problem and what that problem is. I've been working on it. I don't want that idiot to have gotten to me that badly.

Fixed.

Hmmm, festishes I think are creepy? Diapers, scatplay, and animals. Oh, and pretending someone is dead. That's less creepy than the others, but still not for me.

I agree. Those are all creepy.

The one I don't find creepy, but I don't 'get', is the foot fetish. I mean, what's the big deal? They're feet...

I don't know if I fall into your category 'nice' but here goes:

:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

*puts on 'why do birds suddenly appear' and asks you kindly to dance with her*

*accepts offer to dance*:fluffle:

:fluffle:
I think it's mostly because my trust was violated in a fundamental way. I'm trying to work on it. Nice hugs from nice people will help.

I don't know if I fall into your category 'nice' but here goes:

:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

*puts on 'why do birds suddenly appear' and asks you kindly to dance with her*

I agree. Those are all creepy.

The one I don't find creepy, but I don't 'get', is the foot fetish. I mean, what's the big deal? They're feet...

Ditto, except I've had that fetish described to me recently in a much different light which actually made a lot of sense. And was really sexy. But it was more in the context of being another useful appendage.

I dont get that either, i nibbles someones toes once, and i did not find it very erotic, just a bit smelly (no, not because they needed a wash, simply cause thats how feet are)

It must be the sensitivity or something... I dunno. But feet as an object of sexual desire? I just don't get it...

Ditto, except I've had that fetish described to me recently in a much different light which actually made a lot of sense. And was really sexy. But it was more in the context of being another useful appendage.

:eek: That's exactly what I worry foot fetishists will do with my feet.

Ditto, except I've had that fetish described to me recently in a much different light which actually made a lot of sense. And was really sexy. But it was more in the context of being another useful appendage.

....:confused:


..... oooohhhhhh...... :eek:


....... :cool:

It must be the sensitivity or something... I dunno. But feet as an object of sexual desire? I just don't get it...

Tho i didnt get ears either until someone did it too me.... Now thats something to try!

Tho i didnt get ears either until someone did it too me.... Now thats something to try!

Ears and necks are made of win!

Oi! This time warp hurts my head!

Ditto, except I've had that fetish described to me recently in a much different light which actually made a lot of sense. And was really sexy. But it was more in the context of being another useful appendage.

would that happen to be the hot-shoe-fetish? My boyfriend has that one.

Tho i didnt get ears either until someone did it too me.... Now thats something to try!

:eek:
Okay, weirdest fetish I've come across recently...a guy who likes to push himself into a woman's open eye. Even thinking about it makes my eyes tear up horribly.

Rape is inherently non-consensual. I like roleplaying rape, but under no circumstances would I want to be raped. Even those people who enjoy coercive and/or rough sex as a general rule insist on it remaining consensual, within strictly defined boundaries.


I'm not saying that you actually are trying to get raped, but it is an inclination to at the very least lose control of a situation because that is what rape is at essence, the removal of someone else's control.


You are propagating a myth here that is not only abhorrent, but dangerous.

I'm not quite sure what you mean by this. I am in no way condoning rape. I am not telling people to go find someone like this and rape them. I am just pointing out that it, like most fetishes, is an indication of something being wrong with you in the eyes of "polite society."

I agree. Those are all creepy.

The one I don't find creepy, but I don't 'get', is the foot fetish. I mean, what's the big deal? They're feet...

If you could "get" foot fetish, you'd probably have a foot fetish.

would that happen to be the hot-shoe-fetish? My boyfriend has that one.

Nope. Naked foot/feet. 'Look ma, no hands'.

Tho i didnt get ears either until someone did it too me.... Now thats something to try!

Ears? Unless you're talking about something a little more involved than I am, 'earplay' is a basic...


(Suddenly entertaining some entertaining visuals.)

:eek:
Okay, weirdest fetish I've come across recently...a guy who likes to push himself into a woman's open eye. Even thinking about it makes my eyes tear up horribly.

Okay, that one takes the cake. I can barely imagine someone letting themselves be subjected to it, let alone someone wanting to do it. Actually, I can see someone wanting to do it on a really sadistic level, but damn... that's something else.

Nope. Naked foot/feet. 'Look ma, no hands'.

Dear lord no. God..damn. Okay, THAT I do not get.

Nope. Naked foot/feet. 'Look ma, no hands'.

No.

I can accept a foot rub or even someone sucking on my toes if that makes them happy. This? No.

I'm not saying that you actually are trying to get raped, but it is an inclination to at the very least lose control of a situation because that is what rape is at essence, the removal of someone else's control. Sex is, at it's essence, a desire to procreate.

See how unhelpful it is to reduce things too much?

Rape is a non-consensual loss of control.
Despite the apparent similarities, that does not equate to a consensual loss of control. Consent is not a minor distinction, it is THE distinction.



I'm not quite sure what you mean by this. I am in no way condoning rape. I am not telling people to go find someone like this and rape them. I am just pointing out that it, like most fetishes, is an indication of something being wrong with you in the eyes of "polite society." Actually, the assumption that you've described is more of the problem than the fetish itself. Believing that there is something wrong with women, or men, who fantasise about rape, is rooted in a total misapprehension of the fantasy itself. Not only is there nothing wrong with it, this particular fantasy is so common, it's frankly ridiculous that there is even controversy about it anymore.

And yet, I react with absolute, and deep horror to actual rape. Just like a person who could roleplay having sex with a dead person will likely react with absolute and deep horror to actual necrophilia.

Ears? Unless you're talking about something a little more involved than I am, 'earplay' is a basic...


(Suddenly entertaining some entertaining visuals.)

I know, me too.

Dear lord no. God..damn. Okay, THAT I do not get.

Maybe you're not picturing it right.

But I'll leave it at that.

Thanks.:)

Yeah, he was a jerk. He's a psychologist too. He should know better.:mad:

At least I know I have a problem and what that problem is. I've been working on it. I don't want that idiot to have gotten to me that badly.

Those you trust the most are those most capable of harming you, but trust is necessary to truly love someone. To reap greater rewards, you must undertake a greater risk.

Those you trust the most are those most capable of harming you, but trust is necessary to truly love someone. To reap greater rewards, you must undertake a greater risk.

It's like you strung together a bunch of fortune cookies...:p

I have an uncontrollable sexual fetish for knitting, women who knit, and knitted sweaters. I'd seek help, but it's too embarrassing... And hot.

Let's just stop this. Neither of us will see the other's point, and we are going nowhere, nor are contributing at all to society in the process. Hahahaha, is that actually your goal here on NSG? Can I point and laugh now?

Frankly, you don't need to see my point. As someone who has this particular fantasy, and has analysed it critically, I have a much better perpective than you. And frankly, it trumps yours.

I have an uncontrollable sexual fetish for knitting, women who knit, and knitted sweaters. I'd seek help, but it's too embarrassing... And hot.

I can knit ;)

Those you trust the most are those most capable of harming you, but trust is necessary to truly love someone. To reap greater rewards, you must undertake a greater risk.

Very true. I'm working on smaller risks until I find the right person to take bigger risks on.

Sex is, at it's essence, a desire to procreate.

See how unhelpful it is to reduce things too much?

Rape is a non-consensual loss of control.
Despite the apparent similarities, that does not equate to a consensual loss of control. Consent is not a minor distinction, it is THE distinction.

Actually, the assumption that you've described is more of the problem than the fetish itself. Believing that there is something wrong with women, or men, who fantasise about rape, is rooted in a total misapprehension of the fantasy itself. Not only is there nothing wrong with it, this particular fantasy is so common, it's frankly ridiculous that there is even controversy about it anymore.

And yet, I react with absolute, and deep horror to actual rape. Just like a person who could roleplay having sex with a dead person will likely react with absolute and deep horror to actual necrophilia.

Let's just stop this. Neither of us will see the other's point, and we are going nowhere, nor are contributing at all to society in the process. Add to that, I'm just too tired to keep going.

It's like you strung together a bunch of fortune cookies...:p

Well, I thought it was nice.:)

It's like you strung together a bunch of fortune cookies...:p

I am normally a pessimist and a cynic, but I go through periods of idealism, especially when I see someone hurt emotionally, and at times physically(though not to the same extent).

Well, I thought it was nice.:)

It was it was...just struck me as funny :) Sue me.

It's a great fantasy, until you forget how to pronounce the safety word. :(

Bahahaha...well you should account for the possibility that you could be unable to speak, silly.

It's a great fantasy, until you forget how to pronounce the safety word. :(

If you pick a phonetically complex word for your safey word, it's your own fault.:p

:fluffle:
I think it's mostly because my trust was violated in a fundamental way. I'm trying to work on it. Nice hugs from nice people will help.

I've been there - for about a year, I couldn't let anyone hug me, not even friends and family I'd known and trusted for years. Speaking as someone who's been there, though, it does get better. I'm still not up for sexual contact, but cuddles and hugs are quite nice and almost completely un-scary nowadays. :)

As for the OP's question - most of the weirdest ones I've encountered personally came from the guy who had the aforementioned effect on me, and are too nasty to discuss, but a friend of mine claims one of her exes really, really loved roleplaying that he was a Viking raping and pillaging his way through her village - never any other form of roleplaying or rape fantasy, but always Vikings. As a medieval studies major, she found this rather endearing.

Oh, and I've also dated a guy who actually has the foreign language fetish depicted in "A Fish Called Wanda." I could say something like "I'm sorry, but I fear my dog has just vomited on your shoes" in French, and he would say, "Ohmygod that's so HOT!" :p

Frankly, you don't need to see my point. As someone who has this particular fantasy, and has analysed it critically, I have a much better perpective than you. And frankly, it trumps yours.

It's a great fantasy, until you forget how to pronounce the safety word. :(

Quick, what's 'xylophone' in brail? Or sign? Pick something easier. Like 'tree'.

What do you do if your hands are tied?

Grunt in Morse Code?Pretty much. Long, short, long. Plan ahead...

Hahahaha, is that actually your goal here on NSG? Can I point and laugh now?

I never said I was trying to contribute to society, in fact quite the opposite. (If you know the song Skeletor vs. Beastman, I've re-written it with different lyrics, and created different versions by changing the pitch. When I put it up an octave, they sound like chipmunks. I've also made YTMNDs (http://www.ytmnd.com/users/bltztgr/) about it.


Frankly, you don't need to see my point. As someone who has this particular fantasy, and has analysed it critically, I have a much better perpective than you. And frankly, it trumps yours.

Your analysis of it being correct is open to interpretation. And the trumping is your opinion, and apparently Luipaard's as well.

Bahahaha...well you should account for the possibility that you could be unable to speak, silly.

Quick, what's 'xylophone' in brail? Or sign?

What do you do if your hands are tied?

Grunt in Morse Code?

I never said I was trying to contribute to society, in fact quite the opposite. (If you know the song Skeletor vs. Beastman, I've re-written it with different lyrics, and created different versions by changing the pitch. When I put it up an octave, they sound like chipmunks. I've also made YTMNDs (http://www.ytmnd.com/users/bltztgr/) about it.

Skeletor vs..... chipmunks....


I'm gonna leave that one alone.


Your analysis of it being correct is open to interpretation. And the trumping is your opinion, and apparently Luipaard's as well.

*Raises hand*

Mine too.

I've been there - for about a year, I couldn't let anyone hug me, not even friends and family I'd known and trusted for years. Speaking as someone who's been there, though, it does get better. I'm still not up for sexual contact, but cuddles and hugs are quite nice and almost completely un-scary nowadays. :)
It's good to know I'm not the only one that's happened to, and that it will get better.

I'm sorry you dated an asshat too.

, but a friend of mine claims one of her exes really, really loved roleplaying that he was a Viking raping and pillaging his way through her village - never any other form of roleplaying or rape fantasy, but always Vikings. As a medieval studies major, she found this rather endearing.

Now that sounds like fun.

Where do I get my viking outfit?

Another weird fetish.

Vomit. Not like...playing in it. But inducing it during what would otherwise would be a fairly run of the mill oral experience.

Another weird fetish.

Vomit. Not like...playing in it. But inducing it during what would otherwise would be a fairly run of the mill oral experience.

That's sadistic.

Another weird fetish.

Vomit. Not like...playing in it. But inducing it during what would otherwise would be a fairly run of the mill oral experience.

Vomit? An extension of an asphyxiation fetish or something? Man, what gets some people's rocks off. :p

That's sadistic.

Well...yes....

That's the point I expect.

Vomit? An extension of an asphyxiation fetish or something? Man, what gets some people's rocks off. :p

Well, asphyxiation is hot. In my opinion. This amount of messiness...well, you never know what you might be willing to do, but hmmm. Gagging I don't mind...actually vomitting? Probably not ever going to happen.

Nope. Naked foot/feet. 'Look ma, no hands'.

I actually have the opposite of a foot fetish, I think. For some reason, while I love foot rubs and will give them as well, I can't stand being touched anywhere else by someone's feet. It's completely weird and irrational, but I simply don't like it.

I actually have the opposite of a foot fetish, I think. For some reason, while I love foot rubs and will give them as well, I can't stand being touched anywhere else by someone's feet. It's completely weird and irrational, but I simply don't like it.

It doesn't have to be rational.

I've never understood the guys that enjoy looking at the aftermath of... well the act that goes with the vomit fetish.

It doesn't have to be rational.

Oh, I know, but I'm a lover of "why?" questions - and this is one I can't figure out. It's not like I was traumatized by feet at an early age or something, ya'know? =)

Well, asphyxiation is hot. In my opinion. This amount of messiness...well, you never know what you might be willing to do, but hmmm. Gagging I don't mind...actually vomitting? Probably not ever going to happen.

The asphyxiation thing isn't my bag, but it's easy to play along. Vomit is for the flu, hangovers and pregnant people - not sex.

I actually have the opposite of a foot fetish, I think. For some reason, while I love foot rubs and will give them as well, I can't stand being touched anywhere else by someone's feet. It's completely weird and irrational, but I simply don't like it.

That can get inconvenient.

I've never understood the guys that enjoy looking at the aftermath of... well the act that goes with the vomit fetish.

Or the smell. The smell would get me.

Another weird fetish.

Vomit. Not like...playing in it. But inducing it during what would otherwise would be a fairly run of the mill oral experience.

Oh my god, I wouldn't want to expose my willy to stomach acid! :eek:

Oh my god, I wouldn't want to expose my willy to stomach acid! :eek:

As a mother who has been vomited on more times than I care to think about, I can assure you that it is innocuous stuff in terms of actual acidity.

And good god I should never have mentioned it. Ugh.

Oh, I know, but I'm a lover of "why?" questions - and this is one I can't figure out. It's not like I was traumatized by feet at an early age or something, ya'know? =)

That brings up hilarious mental images* Maybe the sensation reminds you of something else unpleasant?



*Apologies to anyone who has been traumatised by feet as a child. I'm not laughing at your pain, just the thought of giant feet running after panicked children.

Or the smell. The smell would get me.

Yeah, it is rather pungent. That reminds me of a SFW story of my creepy ex.

Let me preface this story with my ex wasn't a slob. He actually kept things fairly tidy.
Not wierd: Vomiting all over your room while completely pissed.
Wierd: Inviting your significant other over before cleaning it up.
Creepy: Leaving your room aromatic for a week before getting around to the cleaning.

For the record: that event was two weeks before that train-wreck ended.

The first night was, odd. After the second, I didn't make any overnight plans until I visually and olfactorally* confirmed it was gone.


*sorry for butchering the language Fass, but I needed to make up a word.

Yeah, it is rather pungent. That reminds me of a SFW story of my creepy ex.
Gross. Just gross.

Fixed.

Hmmm, festishes I think are creepy? Diapers, scatplay, and animals. Oh, and pretending someone is dead. That's less creepy than the others, but still not for me.

I dont mind domination play, or pain, but rape simulation always bothered me.
So for me I have to say creepy.

I dont mind domination play, or pain, but rape simulation always bothered me.
So for me I have to say creepy.

Fair enough.

*sorry for butchering the language Fass, but I needed to make up a word.

Olfactorily, surely?

Olfactorily, surely?

Either way, it's disgusting. Really... did he just dig the smell or something?

Fair enough.

Reading the thread...
I do agree 100% with you that the roleplay and the reality are two completely seperate things though.

and since pain, domination and bondage can be considered "Rape" play.
Perhaps it is the spirit of the whole thing that gets me.

But if a partner ever wanted to roleplay that I would certainly never think she really wanted to be raped somewhere deep down...that is just sick.

Reading the thread...
I do agree 100% with you that the roleplay and the reality are two completely seperate things though.

and since pain, domination and bondage can be considered "Rape" play.
Perhaps it is the spirit of the whole thing that gets me.

But if a partner ever wanted to roleplay that I would certainly never think she really wanted to be raped somewhere deep down...that is just sick.

Domination and bondage aren't really the same thing as rape fantasy. They have similar themes, but 'wanting to be raped' isn't really sick, it's just a fantasy... and not all that uncommon. Nobody actually wants to lose the ability to consent to sex, but some people fantasize about the raw animal lust of having the ability to consent taken away forcibly. Rape fantasy is about pretending to be in that position.

Being fortunate enough to have very *diverse* social circles, I have encountered just about every fetish imaginable.

I have seen some of the strangest, most bizarre, and truly mind boggling things possible. If you can imagine it, I have met someone into it. Fortunately I do not judge - I will never say something is 'sick' - but I do strongly advise caution with things that are likely to cause severe mental and physical trauma.

There are a lot of things you might find a serious turn-on, but some things are best left for fantasy. The reality might not live up to your imagination and it might just cause you permanent damage.

Horse/human hybrid. I don't want to explain and I don't want to think about it. And not just acting like a horse or dressing up like a horse or something but honest to goodness fantasies about Centaur type creatures.

That's just got to be an extension of beastiality right? Kind of like 'furries'? (I guess).

I don't know why it bothers me so much... furries don't really bother me that much, whatever floats your boat kind of thing... but I was deeply disturbed by this centaur thing. Maybe because the word "centaur" was never brought up in the conversation? I don't know. I'm going to take a shower. Unclean. Unclean.

Horse/human hybrid. I don't want to explain and I don't want to think about it. And not just acting like a horse or dressing up like a horse or something but honest to goodness fantasies about Centaur type creatures.

That's just got to be an extension of beastiality right? Kind of like 'furries'? (I guess).

Olfactorily, surely?
So there is a real word?

Either way, it's disgusting. Really... did he just dig the smell or something?
I have no idea what his trip was. It wasn't until I started looking back I reaslised what an ass this guy was. At the time, I was far too polite to say anything. I was afraid of coming off bitchy. I'll never make that mistake again, that's for sure.

Not the bitchy part, but thinking it's bitchy to say "hey, clean this puke up or I'm not coming over anymore."

Being fortunate enough to have very *diverse* social circles, I have encountered just about every fetish imaginable.

I have seen some of the strangest, most bizarre, and truly mind boggling things possible. If you can imagine it, I have met someone into it. Fortunately I do not judge - I will never say something is 'sick' - but I do strongly advise caution with things that are likely to cause severe mental and physical trauma.

There are a lot of things you might find a serious turn-on, but some things are best left for fantasy. The reality might not live up to your imagination and it might just cause you permanent damage.
And it's always best to inform your partner instead of surprising them.


Horse/human hybrid. I don't want to explain and I don't want to think about it. And not just acting like a horse or dressing up like a horse or something but honest to goodness fantasies about Centaur type creatures.
That makes me think of the centuar interview on SNL. Walken is amazing.

Domination and bondage aren't really the same thing as rape fantasy. They have similar themes, but 'wanting to be raped' isn't really sick, it's just a fantasy... and not all that uncommon. Nobody actually wants to lose the ability to consent to sex, but some people fantasize about the raw animal lust of having the ability to consent taken away forcibly. Rape fantasy is about pretending to be in that position.
I was actually commenting on a conversation Neesika had earlier the thread which it was implied that people who enjoy the rape roleplay actually desire to be raped...or that people who enjoy the rape fantasy actually want to rape.

That is what is sick--that one would believe such nonsense.

Fantasy is fantasy.

So there is a real word?

*shrug* If not, there will be once we use it. We can still make adverbs with 'ly', I just figure the 'olfactory' + 'ly' would end in 'ily'

I was actually commenting on a conversation Neesika had earlier the thread which it was implied that people who enjoy the rape roleplay actually desire to be raped...or that people who enjoy the rape fantasy actually want to rape.

That is what is sick--that one would believe such nonsense.

Fantasy is fantasy.

Okay, gotcha.

I think Pat Robertson would say you're all going to hell!! :p

Fetishes I have encountered? From my experience, if it exists, there is a fetish about it.

Freud believed that sexual fetishes were brought about when the person in question was a child, and happened by accident to see his/her mother naked. According to him whatever object his/her gaze rested on next, they would develop a fetish about it.

Absolute bunk in my opinion.

I think Pat Robertson would say you're all going to hell!! :p

He has a fetish for making people burn and watching them eat their own entrails. He's a freak.

Fetishes I have encountered? From my experience, if it exists, there is a fetish about it.

Freud believed that sexual fetishes were brought about when the person in question was a child, and happened by accident to see his/her mother naked. According to him whatever object his/her gaze rested on next, they would develop a fetish about it.

Absolute bunk in my opinion.

Ahhhh!!! Mom!!!
AHHHHH!!!! Horse-person!!!!

I think Pat Robertson would say you're all going to hell!! :p

Well naturally. That's where all the kinky sex is.

*shrug* If not, there will be once we use it. We can still make adverbs with 'ly', I just figure the 'olfactory' + 'ly' would end in 'ily'

Ah. That would make more sense.

Fetishes I have encountered? From my experience, if it exists, there is a fetish about it.

Freud believed that sexual fetishes were brought about when the person in question was a child, and happened by accident to see his/her mother naked. According to him whatever object his/her gaze rested on next, they would develop a fetish about it.

Absolute bunk in my opinion.

"The only unnatural sexual behavior is none at all." -Freud

"The only unnatural sexual behavior is none at all." -Freud

I think the asexuals and aromantics (http://www.asexuality.org/home/) would take issue with that.

I was actually commenting on a conversation Neesika had earlier the thread which it was implied that people who enjoy the rape roleplay actually desire to be raped...or that people who enjoy the rape fantasy actually want to rape.

That is what is sick--that one would believe such nonsense.

Fantasy is fantasy.

"The unconscious is the larger circle which includes within itself the smaller circle of the conscious; everything conscious has its preliminary step in the unconscious, whereas the unconscious may stop with this step and still claim full value as a psychic activity. Properly speaking, the unconscious is the real psychic; its inner nature is just as unknown to us as the reality of the external world, and it is just as imperfectly reported to us through the data of consciousness as is the external world through the indications of our sensory organs." -Freud

Translation, you don't know the least of what is happening in your mind. Your dreams are windows into your deeper desires.

You couldn't leave well enough alone could you. I may be sick person, but if I am, this is not why.

I have a friend with a foot fetish. I know that's not all that unusual, but I just find it a little weird. He can't get off unless the girl's foot is pressed right up against his face and nose, mashing it practically. Crazy!

I have a friend with a foot fetish. I know that's not all that unusual, but I just find it a little weird. He can't get off unless the girl's foot is pressed right up against his face and nose, mashing it practically. Crazy!

I have a friend who is literally frightened of feet. Once, I accidently put one of my feet in her face, and she actually cried. It was wierd.

I think the asexuals and aromantics (http://www.asexuality.org/home/) would take issue with that.

I'm not espousing it. I just found it while looking for another quote by Freud. I personally disagree with it. Freud was a nut case. He believed that every man wanted to bang their moms and kill their dads. (Oedipus Complex)

"Doctor Freud not only used cocaine himself, but he also prescribed it to his patients. And then he drew his generalizations. Cocaine is a strong sexual arouser. That's why everything Freud invented — all those oedipuses, sphinges and sphincters — is relevant only to a mental dimension of a patient, whose brain is turned to fried-eggs by cocaine. In such a state, one really has only one problem left — what to do first, to screw his mother or to do away with his father. Of course, until his cocaine runs out. And in those times, there were no problems with supplies. But so long as your daily dose is less than three grams, you don't have to fear either the Oedipus complex, nor other things discovered by Freud." ~ Victor Pelevin, The Sacred Book of Werewold (2004)

I'm not espousing it. I just found it while looking for another quote by Freud. I personally disagree with it. Freud was a nut case. He believed that every man wanted to bang their moms and kill their dads. (Oedipus Complex)

"Doctor Freud not only used cocaine himself, but he also prescribed it to his patients. And then he drew his generalizations. Cocaine is a strong sexual arouser. That's why everything Freud invented — all those oedipuses, sphinges and sphincters — is relevant only to a mental dimension of a patient, whose brain is turned to fried-eggs by cocaine. In such a state, one really has only one problem left — what to do first, to screw his mother or to do away with his father. Of course, until his cocaine runs out. And in those times, there were no problems with supplies. But so long as your daily dose is less than three grams, you don't have to fear either the Oedipus complex, nor other things discovered by Freud." ~ Victor Pelevin, The Sacred Book of Werewold (2004)
I didn't know Freud was a cocaine addict. That certainly puts things in perspective.

But if a partner ever wanted to roleplay that I would certainly never think she really wanted to be raped somewhere deep down...that is just sick.
Exactly! I think that believing the fantasy covers a hidden reality is extremely disturbing. Much more so than the fantasy ever could be.

I didn't know Freud was a cocaine addict. That certainly puts things in perspective.

I don't think even coke puts Freud into perspective.

I have a friend who is literally frightened of feet. Once, I accidently put one of my feet in her face, and she actually cried. It was wierd.

My goodness! What is it with feet? They're so utilitarian, I can't imagine anybody thinking much about them at all.

There are no odd fetishes. And other than furries, I've probably encountered most of them.

I don't think even coke puts Freud into perspective.

*Thinks back to Freuds thoughts on oral and anal phases*
Um, maybe not.

I loved covering Freud in highschool. The instructor talked about oral fixations. I had to raise my hand and ask about anal fixations. The instructor pondered my question then stated that anal retentive = anal fixation. I'm starting to feel like I was lied to.

There are no odd fetishes. And other than furries, I've probably encountered most of them.

How are [insert bodily fluid/function here] not odd?

My goodness! What is it with feet? They're so utilitarian, I can't imagine anybody thinking much about them at all.

Hands are pretty utilitarian too...and they give you plenty to think about.

It's all just stuff people are liable to get up to, either on their own or in pairs or in groups. No big mystery.

?You think eventually everyone will try [insert bodily fluid fetish here] at some point?

Willingly?

How are [insert bodily fluid/function here] not odd?

It's all just stuff people are liable to get up to, either on their own or in pairs or in groups. No big mystery.

?You think eventually everyone will try [insert bodily fluid fetish here] at some point?

Willingly?

Just because not everyone is going to try it at least once at some point, does not mean it's odd.

Oh, and I've also dated a guy who actually has the foreign language fetish depicted in "A Fish Called Wanda." I could say something like "I'm sorry, but I fear my dog has just vomited on your shoes" in French, and he would say, "Ohmygod that's so HOT!" :p

i wasn't going to bother posting in this thread cuz i've never encountered any fetishes nor did i think i had any myself. but i definitely have that one! heh!

*Thinks back to Freuds thoughts on oral and anal phases*
Um, maybe not.

I loved covering Freud in highschool. The instructor talked about oral fixations. I had to raise my hand and ask about anal fixations. The instructor pondered my question then stated that anal retentive = anal fixation. I'm starting to feel like I was lied to.

Oral: 0-18 months: Oral fixation (Passive dependence or excessive smoking/eating/kissing/fellatio/cunnilingus)

Anal: 18-36 months: Anal-retentive(Obsession with organization or excessive neatness) or Anal-expulsive(Reckless, careless, defiant, disorganized, Coprophiliac)

Phallic: 3-6 years, Oedipus complex (in boys only according to Freud) or Electra complex (in girls according to Jung not Freud)

Latency: 6 years-puberty : (People do not tend to fixate at this stage, but if they do, they tend to be extremely sexually unfulfilled.)

Genital : Puberty and beyond: Frigidity, impotence, unsatisfactory relationships

(I love wikipedia)

Just because not everyone is going to try it at least once at some point, does not mean it's odd.
It just kina sounded like what Dobbs said. I'm tired. I'm probably misinterpreting.
Oral: 0-18 months: Oral fixation (Passive dependence or excessive smoking/eating/kissing/fellatio/cunnilingus)

Anal: 18-36 months: Anal-retentive(Obsession with organization or excessive neatness) or Anal-expulsive(Reckless, careless, defiant, disorganized, Coprophiliac)

That's what was left out of my highschool psych class.

Freud was one sick puppy!:eek:

Anything weird you can think of, there's somebody doing it. There are probably communities who have created a word for what they are (e.g., Nevernudes from Arrested development: "There are dozens of us!" ~Tobias)

Fixed.

Hmmm, festishes I think are creepy? Diapers, scatplay, and animals. Oh, and pretending someone is dead. That's less creepy than the others, but still not for me.
Animals, you mean like Furries?

Animals, you mean like Furries?

I believe more like bestiality...

I believe more like bestiality...
lulz.

I believe more like bestiality...

That's exactly what I meant. Dressing up as animals, meh.

lulz.

While you're laughing, someone somewhere is probably doing it. :eek:

That's exactly what I meant. Dressing up as animals, meh.

Different fetishes.

Different fetishes.

Precisely.

Anything weird you can think of, there's somebody doing it. There are probably communities who have created a word for what they are (e.g., Nevernudes from Arrested development: "There are dozens of us!" ~Tobias)

Off topic and completely nosy. I'm guessing you're a former nation. I can't figure out who.

While you're laughing, someone somewhere is probably doing it. :eek:
Not so lulz...
Some people are into cars and when i mean into cars i mean into cars.

Off topic and completely nosy. I'm guessing you're a former nation. I can't figure out who.

Sorry, but no. I found this site while bored on 2/3/07. In fact, I found it on Wikipedia (I was looking at the page on April Fool's day, and saw it talk about the jokes on this site, and I got interested). I signed up on 2/4/07.

Precisely.

I told you I was sick. But in a discussion like this, animals makes me think bestiality, not furries.

#1 exporter of fetishes: Japan (They are really screwed up people, cool, but screwed up. Not that I have much room to talk about being screwed up...)

I told you I was sick. But in a discussion like this, animals makes me think bestiality, not furries.

#1 exporter of fetishes: Japan (They are really screwed up people, cool, but screwed up. Not that I have much room to talk about being screwed up...)

Tell me about it...the hentai that's out there is really unbelievable. I'm sure there's a hentai somewhere that features the moon raping people. I've yet to find it but it I am convinced it exists.

Real life guro...

I read Savage Love (http://thestranger.com/savage). There aren't many fetishes I haven't heard of. I'm usually pro-kink, as long as everyone involved wants to be involved, and no one is getting hurt who doesn't want to be hurt, I'm all for it! Not necessarily for me, mind, but whatever turns your crank. I do agree with Dan, however, that scat and bestiality are 'a fetish too far.'

I think the asexuals and aromantics (http://www.asexuality.org/home/) would take issue with that.

Hey, computers are unnatural. Unnatural doesn't mean bad.

What about this...

My boyfriend stated he wanted to try tantra sex, as a birthday gift for me. And although he said it in a laughy way, I'm starting to fear he wasn't kidding...

I have an absolute unfounded obsession with fishnets. The minute a woman puts them on, I start to get very bothered...

As a diaper fetishist, I must say I'm a little surprised about the negativity in this forum (especially considering that some of that negativity came from a rape fetishist).

Actually, I'm into a little of everything. But I'm primarily an adult baby.

As a diaper fetishist, I must say I'm a little surprised about the negativity in this forum (especially considering that some of that negativity came from a rape fetishist).

Actually, I'm into a little of everything. But I'm primarily an adult baby.
It's just dirty, and I mean that in a hygeine sense.

i would have to say:define "fetish"! diversity is the nature of reality and it's all fun and games until someone looses an eye.

argh, i can think of lots of things i've seen people into that i'd rather not have to deal with. unfortunately most of these are more mainstream then fringe.

the defacto worshiping of arbitrary assumptions and the deceptive pretense that it is somehow natural to do so. predominant among these are what i call the circular illogic of little green pieces of paper, for those of you who absolutely insist on concrete examples.

=^^=
.../\...

Pardon?

i would have to say:define "fetish"! diversity is the nature of reality and it's all fun and games until someone looses an eye.

argh, i can think of lots of things i've seen people into that i'd rather not have to deal with. unfortunately most of these are more mainstream then fringe.

the defacto worshiping of arbitrary assumptions and the deceptive pretense that it is somehow natural to do so. predominant among these are what i call the circular illogic of little green pieces of paper, for those of you who absolutely insist on concrete examples.

=^^=
.../\...

I have a bit of a thing for ponygirls. And of course, we cannot forget the furries.

Tell me about it...the hentai that's out there is really unbelievable. I'm sure there's a hentai somewhere that features the moon raping people. I've yet to find it but it I am convinced it exists.

Or how about the vending machines that you can buy used panties in. Used, soiled panties. Then there is the obsession with little school girls. Or in hentai, the obsession with tentacles. Always tentacles. So many tentacles.

Not really a fetish, but in Tokyo there is a five story porn shop. Seriously. It's not a fetish, though I'm sure it caters to them, but it is just plain cool.

i would have to say:define "fetish"! diversity is the nature of reality and it's all fun and games until someone looses an eye.

argh, i can think of lots of things i've seen people into that i'd rather not have to deal with. unfortunately most of these are more mainstream then fringe.

the defacto worshiping of arbitrary assumptions and the deceptive pretense that it is somehow natural to do so. predominant among these are what i call the circular illogic of little green pieces of paper, for those of you who absolutely insist on concrete examples.

=^^=
.../\...

In common speech, any fixation on a singular inanimate object, body part, body feature or sexual practice is called fetishism. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_fetishism)

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Lastly, society is amazing at having a VERY flexible definition of normalcy. What we consider deviant sexual behavior can easily become the norm. Like what happened with sex before marriage and porn. Who knows, maybe one day, most of the world will be furries...

I have a dark secret. I have a fetish about proper grammar and correct spelling.

It's just dirty, and I mean that in a hygeine sense.

No more unhygienic than washing your dishes in the kitchen sink, and I'm sure you do that regularly.

Would you refer to someone who is genuinely incontinent as "dirty"?

Online? I'll roleplay just about anything in an erotic context, really.

Offline, I'm pretty vanilla. Maybe a little watersports but that's about it.

Oh, also, I have a bit of a thing for birds, if you couldn't tell. Real ones. Not that I'd act on that impulse, mind. xD

:eek:
Okay, weirdest fetish I've come across recently...a guy who likes to push himself into a woman's open eye. Even thinking about it makes my eyes tear up horribly.

Holy fuck.

That's just... shit. Aiya bastard. I didn't think anything could be more off-the-wall than those who enjoy excrement.

Clearly I was wrong! Excuse me while I wash my brain.

*washes brain*

Right, as far as odd fetishes I have encountered goes... they've all been said here, you meanies. Left none for me to flaunt. :(

Personally, I have to raise my hand and shuffle into the whips and chains mob. ;)

Sorry, but no. I found this site while bored on 2/3/07. In fact, I found it on Wikipedia (I was looking at the page on April Fool's day, and saw it talk about the jokes on this site, and I got interested). I signed up on 2/4/07.
Well then, I officially nominate you for most fantastic new nation.:)
Very impressive NS wiki I might add.

Hard ass smacking,hard biting,hair pulling and very public places.
Gripping hard enough to bruise. tasting each other's blood.
Talking dirty,Chasing,Gagging.

I drew the line at pissing.

I read Savage Love (http://thestranger.com/savage). There aren't many fetishes I haven't heard of. I'm usually pro-kink, as long as everyone involved wants to be involved, and no one is getting hurt who doesn't want to be hurt, I'm all for it! Not necessarily for me, mind, but whatever turns your crank. I do agree with Dan, however, that scat and bestiality are 'a fetish too far.'

Yeah-I'm not interested in scat or golden showers,etc...

I'm the beast in beastiality- otherwise not at all interested there either.

As a diaper fetishist, I must say I'm a little surprised about the negativity in this forum (especially considering that some of that negativity came from a rape fetishist).

Actually, I'm into a little of everything. But I'm primarily an adult baby.

Hey there, I'm just listing off the fetishes that I, personally, am not into. Not into because I find them a bit weird, as in, they don't turn me on. Me. If you like it, you go ahead and get down with your own bad self. I'm not making any personal judgments on this particular fetish, so no need to feel persecuted.

This is the annoying thing about being at work when threads like this come up.

This is the annoying thing about being at work when threads like this come up.

What? You cant take it out?

What? You cant take it out?

.....wow, I have nothing to say to that.

Hard ass smacking,hard biting,hair pulling and very public places.
Gripping hard enough to bruise. tasting each other's blood.
Talking dirty,Chasing,Gagging.

I drew the line at pissing.

See? I told you our preferences aren't as different as you thought.

This is the annoying thing about being at work when threads like this come up.

Hahahahahaa...hey there buddy whatcha looking at... OH MY GOD DIAPER FETISHES!!???

What? You cant take it out?

Excellent 10,000th post.

Excellent 10,000th post.

I'll say thanks then, if you arent mocking me.

See? I told you our preferences aren't as different as you thought.

preference and intensity are vastly different.

I just like to tell you up front,you know?

I enjoy the screaming "Help! Help! " too,so its real meaning gets lost on me.

preference and intensity are vastly different.

I just like to tell you up front,you know?

I enjoy the screaming "Help! Help! " too,so its real meaning gets lost on me.
Duh, that's why 'help' or 'stop' or 'no' make terrible safe words.

Just asking :)

Giver, definitely. and please don't ask me how come, I don't know.It's better to give than to receive.

Well, asphyxiation is hot. In my opinion. This amount of messiness...well, you never know what you might be willing to do, but hmmm. Gagging I don't mind...actually vomitting? Probably not ever going to happen.There's a very fine line between them sometimes, though.

There's a very fine line between them sometimes, though.

Yes, but the intention is important. If that line gets crossed accidentally, oh well...but it wouldn't turn me on. It would be more of a 'damn, let's get cleaned up and maybe pretend that didn't happen'.

Yes, but the intention is important. If that line gets crossed accidentally, oh well...but it wouldn't turn me on. It would be more of a 'damn, let's get cleaned up and maybe pretend that didn't happen'.Ah, okay, I see what you mean now. Yes, I totally agree.

And please bare with me on this.

First off, I've been practicing hypnosis for almost 20 years.

I love drunk or high women. Not sick drunk and vomiting, mind you, but slurring, giggling, stumbling, happy drunk. I also enjoy the idea of being a drug maker and I am the only source of a popular drug.

Now in real life, I do NOT want my partner addicted to anything but me. :-) My present partner has the other end of this fetish, that is, she loves the idea of being stoned all the time. But in real life, she'd never do that.

So when we want to indulge in this, I hypnotize her into believing that cherry pez is the drug. She really feels the high, she clearly craves it while under and it make it a lot of fun because we can stop this whenever we want.

Of course, on the off chance she does get drunk or high, and it is rare for both of us to get drunk or high using the real stuff, it helps enhance the hypnosis high.

And we play with hypnosis a lot as well. Guys, do you know what it's like to have a woman achieve exterme pleasure just by commanding her to do with one word?

Needless to say, the possiblities are endless. :-)

Sorry, just had to share....

OK, that is probably, aside from the eye one mentioned earlier, the most bizarre fetish I've heard of.

As long as they consent though...

Wet clothes- like wearing clothes in the shower or swimming fully colthed

Duh, that's why 'help' or 'stop' or 'no' make terrible safe words.

the point is,my dear-there is no "safe" word. You're in for the duration. Unless you've very cleverly concealed a weapon or bear-spray or something. Which would probably have been found already as no stone is left unturned.

Nazi Uniforms

Which is an extension of a general uniform fetish...

But still, nothing hotter than a pair of the SS runes ;)

Lol!

Go see Grindhouse, simply for the SS Babes clip...

Hmm...

Fetishes...

What would be Pyschotika's fetish..es..

I'm..not..sure...because either I'll ruin my "last chance" basis with NS Moderation or I'll spew out something extremely...not..right?

In the mean time, I'll just watch from a corner..

yea.....

the point is,my dear-there is no "safe" word. You're in for the duration. Unless you've very cleverly concealed a weapon or bear-spray or something. Which would probably have been found already as no stone is left unturned.

Which is also fine as long as two things are established beforehand:

1) No loss of life
2) No loss of limb or any other body part

Well then, I officially nominate you for most fantastic new nation.:)
Very impressive NS wiki I might add.

Thank you, and thank you. I have lots of free time in the morning while taking a comp sci class where I have access to a computer. Can't get on NS or the forums, but I can get on NSWiki, and as such, do.

Which is also fine as long as two things are established beforehand:

1) No loss of life
2) No loss of limb or any other body part

Ok.

I think smoking fetishes are quite odd

I know someone who really likes geting kicked in the nuts by beautiful women.

dressing up in diapers

furries...

I got a strange one!
The voice for the lead singer of the Yeah Yeah Yeahs... and no I'm not kidding it just does something for me but is really mild.
Lip biting while kissing sets me off to cantsaynoville also.
There are others that only my lovers find out about.

Worst I've encountered? Well, there's a mate of mine who told me he has macrophilia. For those too lazy to look it up, let's just say that he likes the snu-snu.