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For me, it used to be shallow things, like nice legs, or a nice set of boobs. But now, I am starting to realize that I am attracted to modesty. Thats right, I find modesty sexy.

For me, it used to be shallow things, like nice legs, or a nice set of boobs. But now, I am starting to realize that I am attracted to modesty. Thats right, I find modesty sexy.

She sure is sexy...

Modesty Blaise (http://www.tartcity.com/modesty.html)

Well, I can't say I really have any frame of reference to answer the question, but there is one thing I can contribute.. sobriety is essential. I've dealt with far too many drug-addled women in my time.. It's just not something I want to be around.

You know what's hot on boys? Between your tummy and your hip, you've got like some kind of incline... That's sooo *mmm* ^^

but if someone shows off, it just takes all the *mmm* and turns it to *uugh*

I also hate it when people come on to you like they already have you. So I totally agree with modesty being sexy!

For me, it used to be shallow things, like nice legs, or a nice set of boobs. But now, I am starting to realize that I am attracted to modesty. Thats right, I find modesty sexy.

Get Soviestan in here, this guys' turnin muslim :p

On topic, most girls will look sexy to some degree if they act sexy.

On topic, most girls will look sexy to some degree if they act sexy.

Semi-agree... Not sure if "sexy" is the right word. If they act confident and like they feel they're attractive (without being arrogant or aloof) they probably will be. Oh, and they should look cheerful. Mardy people aren't attractive, and everybody looks better when they smile.

But long, brown hair helps :)

Get Soviestan in here, this guys' turnin muslim :p

On topic, most girls will look sexy to some degree if they act sexy.

Actually, I was commenting on a muslim forum that I frequent about how the head scarf on a woman is rather attractive IMO

A girl who knows she's sexy knows she doesn't need to show it off. Just underline it. Confidence is the sexiest thing.

As for guys, I find it a nice, open smile terribly sexy. And I always fall for boyish charm.

Thinking I'm sexy/wanting me. It shows they have good taste. :D

I find smart women to be quite sexy. Glasses too. Of course, there are a lot of physical characteristics I find sexy, but I also like smiles quite a lot. I also think that if a woman is mysterious, that really helps things. I really get atracted if the woman I´m dealing with is not predictable and acts like everyone´s else.

Also, I like older women. The ones between 25-30 are the best, I´m pretty sure of it. They are quite confidant in themselves, and dont act like the spoiled teenagers I find sometimes. They are also more vain.

Thinking I'm sexy/wanting me. It shows they have good taste. :D

Well, I'd say you'd be sexy in a sailor's uniform :p

Oh dear. Don't start on uniforms or I'm gonna have to go take a cold shower...

Semi-agree... Not sure if "sexy" is the right word. If they act confident and like they feel they're attractive (without being arrogant or aloof) they probably will be. Oh, and they should look cheerful. Mardy people aren't attractive, and everybody looks better when they smile.

But long, brown hair helps :)

Yeah, that. It's always great when someone says what you were thinking, but in a more understandable manner.

Oh dear. Don't start on uniforms or I'm gonna have to go take a cold shower...

Did I tell you how amazing I look in a suit? :p

Well, I'd say you'd be sexy in a sailor's uniform :pThere you go. I find you sexy now.

Did I tell you how amazing I look in a suit? :p

Druel... what kind of suit? Marine school outfit or more like a James Bond dealie?

You fucking fascist.

Eh?

Oh yeah, you should play nicely now.

Actually, I was commenting on a muslim forum that I frequent about how the head scarf on a woman is rather attractive IMO

You fucking fascist.

my wife. :D

the rest is meaningless (for me).

my wife. :D

the rest is meaningless (for me).

-makes whip sound- Whipped!



Druel... what kind of suit? Marine school outfit or more like a James Bond dealie?

Well, i meant a bond type of suit. But I also have a marine fatigues, when i was in a JROTC program. They might be a lot tight on me :P

You <snip>

Play nice TPF.

Play nice TPF.

Gracias:)

my wife. :D

the rest is meaningless (for me).

Dude, she's not reading the forum, you don't need to lie.



:p

Well, i meant a bond type of suit. But I also have a marine fatigues, when i was in a JROTC program.

Darn! I've been trying to find one that fits my boyfriend but he's got this tummy that just... I don't know. It's not nasty or something but marine suits requires tummy-absence. He does have that nice incline dealie though... I still find that the most physically attractive trait on a man.

Oh, and being older of course. Around thirty. And a uniform. Goddamn.

While all the parts are lovely, there is nothing sexier on a woman than a great smile. :)

physical/visual things are more my 'turn-ons', the things i find sexy... like big pretty eyes, a nice smile, good legs (ones with shape/substance damnit... not icky stick-thin), long hair, preferably blonde...

my turn-offs tend to be less physical in nature and more psychological or behavioural, like being arrogant, having fun at others' expense or putting others down, that sort of thing. that said, bad teeth is the ultimate turn off for me :p

that said, bad teeth is the ultimate turn off for me :p

I agree!

Dude, she's not reading the forum, you don't need to lie.



:p

I didn't say I only found my wife sexy. but she's the onlysexy that matters to me.

bad teeth is the ultimate turn off for me :p

And yet you're doomed to Englishness :(

good legs (ones with shape/substance damnit... not icky stick-thin),

Completely agree. Stick legs are the worst thing a woman can have. They are just too fucking ugly.

I also heavily dislike women with "low butts" as I like to call them. They are the ones with short legs (not midgets), when you look at them and think "hunm, her butt is almost touching the ground", and not in a good way.

The most sexy thing is that when a woman understands me, and agrees with me. It never happens, but if it did, it would totally turn me on. Therefore, it goes without saying that I like smart women.

Good sense of humor is also essential. I've never met a woman, who didn't have a good sense of humor in her own opinion, but many of them still didn't find racist or dead baby jokes hilarious. As I always say, there are no bad jokes, only bad senses of humor.

Modesty is great, and a certain amount of shyness is very sexy too, as long as it doesn't make the woman difficult to interact with.

Of physical things, the sexiest thing is pretty eyes. Eyeglasses will always increase woman's hotness by 10-20%, no matter how hot she is to begin with. That is as long as the glasses are not the kind with the thick black frames. Those are just... *barf*.

Thin body is a must too, as well as long hair.

Completely agree. Stick legs are the worst thing a woman can have. They are just too fucking ugly.

I also heavily dislike women with "low butts" as I like to call them. They are the ones with short legs (not midgets), when you look at them and think "hunm, her butt is almost touching the ground", and not in a good way.
lol, not really sure what you're talking about there, but i do know i don't go in for the whole 'j-lo butt' thing...

And yet you're doomed to Englishness :(

ah english teeth are fine. they're not "bad" teeth... may not be as perfect as american whitened, perfectly aligned nonsense, but they're not bad on the whole. met a girl once with truly awful teeth (i would describe them but i'm having my lunch right now :p) and god it was foul just looking at her :eek:

ah english teeth are fine. they're not "bad" teeth... may not be as perfect as american whitened, perfectly aligned nonsense, but they're not bad on the whole. met a girl once with truly awful teeth (i would describe them but i'm having my lunch right now :p) and god it was foul just looking at her :eek:

Hehe, yeah, I know (I'm English, remember ;) ); I was poking fun at the "British People have bad teeth" stereotype :D

lol, not really sure what you're talking about there, but i do know i don't go in for the whole 'j-lo butt' thing...



Well, I like tall women, and I guess most of us here like them too.

Now, I´ve noticed that in women (maybe in man too, I never cared), what usually makes a woman tall or small is how long her legs are. Tall women, long legs, small women, short legs.

That sounds obvious, but the deal is that almost every women has almost the same torso and abdomen size. The main thing that sets them apart are their legs.

With these women with "low butts", they have the body at almost the same size of everyone else, but their legs are short. That means their butt is very low compared to others. Not bigger or smaller, just in a lower position. And unlike petite women, who usually are smaller alltogether (and look awesome btw), these women have the body that is very similar to tall women, with the detail that their legs are very low.

Mind that they are quite hard to find, fortunaly.

I have a thing for the colour of hair that's not auburn, but is brown with hints of red in it, it seems to change colour depending on the way you look at it. That's on girls. For guys, not sure about a specific colour, but I prefer longish hair, not shaved or very short.

For me, it used to be shallow things, like nice legs, or a nice set of boobs. But now, I am starting to realize that I am attracted to modesty. Thats right, I find modesty sexy.

I find confidence sexy. And flirtatiousness. Probably because I have a total lack of either.

Hehe, yeah, I know (I'm English, remember ;) ); I was poking fun at the "British People have bad teeth" stereotype :D

of course (and i do/did remember :P)
just sorta.... replied anyway :p

cos the stereotypical american's teeth (white, shiny and perfectly straight) just looks wrong to me. reminds me of Ross from Friends and his glow-in-the-dark teeth :D


Well, I like tall women, and I guess most of us here like them too.

Now, I´ve noticed that in women (maybe in man too, I never cared), what usually makes a woman tall or small is how long her legs are. Tall women, long legs, small women, short legs.

That sounds obvious, but the deal is that almost every women has almost the same torso and abdomen size. The main thing that sets them apart are their legs.

With these women with "low butts", they have the body at almost the same size of everyone else, but their legs are short. That means their butt is very low compared to others. Not bigger or smaller, just in a lower position. And unlike petite women, who usually are smaller alltogether (and look awesome btw), these women have the body that is very similar to tall women, with the detail that their legs are very low.

Mind that they are quite hard to find, fortunaly.

ah i'm a fan of shorter/medium tall women myself. tall women to me look stretched (over about 5ft7), so either a) i've never noticed low butts, or b) i potentially (unknowingly) like low butts... who knows?

So how about girls who aren't tall but still have long legs for their height? Where would you place them on a sexy-scale?

Last night, Himself and I are laying around in our underwear watching TV. We flip to some show where's this guy and girl have broken up, and the guy calls in to a radio station to request a song for his girl in the hopes of making up.

Himself remarks,

"If we ever broke up, I would call in to a radio station and tell them to play that Titanic song by Celine Dion, dedicated to you. And I would tell them it's because it's your favorite song."

I reply with theatrical gagging noises.

Himself points out, "Well, see, now you have to stay with me. Or else people will think you like Celine Dion."

A nearly-nude pillow fight ensued. And that's HAWT.

Fact.

Last night, Himself and I are laying around in our underwear watching TV. We flip to some show where's this guy and girl have broken up, and the guy calls in to a radio station to request a song for his girl in the hopes of making up.

Himself remarks,

"If we ever broke up, I would call in to a radio station and tell them to play that Titanic song by Celine Dion, dedicated to you. And I would tell them it's because it's your favorite song."

I reply with theatrical gagging noises.

Himself points out, "Well, see, now you have to stay with me. Or else people will think you like Celine Dion."

A nearly-nude pillow fight ensued. And that's HAWT.

Fact.

Himself is clearly a genius.

*takes notes*

A nearly-nude pillow fight ensued. And that's HAWT.


if it were you and HERself, it would be HAWTer ;) :D



gotta say sense of humour and making me laugh is sexy, and not being too uptight. i would say understanding me as a person is important, but its not so much "sexy" as just essential in a relationship for me, and that's a whole different issue...

ah i'm a fan of shorter/medium tall women myself. tall women to me look stretched (over about 5ft7), so either a) i've never noticed low butts, or b) i potentially (unknowingly) like low butts... who knows?

You've obviously seen too many skinny tall women ;)
My girlfriend is six foot, and she doesn't look stretched because she's not dead skinny (she is, in fact, slightly heavier than I am), so it's good :)

of course (and i do/did remember :P)

ah i'm a fan of shorter/medium tall women myself. tall women to me look stretched (over about 5ft7), so either a) i've never noticed low butts, or b) i potentially (unknowingly) like low butts... who knows?

Dunno, diferent standarts I guess, you use smaller women as the standart, while I do the oposite.

Girls with very long legs, but that arent tall? Well, they are pretty rare, but I usually dont like them much if they are too skinny. If they have some curves, they can be quite awesome.

I only remember two women like that. One of them was quite skinny, even after going to gym (I met her there). She had these very long legs, that even with a lot of workout, looked like sticks (major turn off).

There was this one I met in college that had a quite average face, but had an amazing butt. You know, it was almost bizzarre: you have this very skinny girl with long legs, but with a huge and awesome ass. IN the start I didnt like her that much, but after a time her face stoped looking so average lol :D

enthusiasm, a quick smile, kindness, a nice laugh, being talkative, being hawt.

For me, it used to be shallow things, like nice legs, or a nice set of boobs. But now, I am starting to realize that I am attracted to modesty. Thats right, I find modesty sexy.

I'll be honest: powerful women, or at least women who have power and use it wisely. I've noticed I'm often attracted to such women in fiction, such as Elizabeth Weir off of Stargate: Atlantis.

I also like cute women...cuteness is far sexier than "traditional" sexy any day. Also, athletic, but not overly so...the ones who are healthy, toned, strong without being overly muscular or anything like that.

Also, long hair...usually red or black, but so long as there is a contrast with the skin colour it's fine with me...it works out as a nice symmatry. Storm's white hair and black skin in the X-Men movie is a perfect example of what I mean.

These days, a female acknowledging my existance is pretty exciting :p

I'll be honest: powerful women, or at least women who have power and use it wisely. I've noticed I'm often attracted to such women in fiction, such as Elizabeth Weir off of Stargate: Atlantis.

I also like cute women...cuteness is far sexier than "traditional" sexy any day. Also, athletic, but not overly so...the ones who are healthy, toned, strong without being overly muscular or anything like that.

Also, long hair...usually red or black, but so long as there is a contrast with the skin colour it's fine with me...it works out as a nice symmatry. Storm's white hair and black skin in the X-Men movie is a perfect example of what I mean.

Carter>Weir[/nerd]

Every girl that I find appealing is totally out of reach for me.

Carter>Weir[/nerd]

Some definite competition there, as I'm also extremely attracted to intelligence, but to be honest, if I had a choice between Dr. Fraiser and Samantha, I'd go for Dr. Fraiser every time.

Pity she died in the seventh season...:(

Some definite competition there, as I'm also extremely attracted to intelligence, but to be honest, if I had a choice between Dr. Fraiser and Samantha, I'd go for Dr. Fraiser every time.

Pity she died in the seventh season...:(

Yeah, that sucked tremendously. Fraiser was pretty hot. Fortunately Sky is showing all 10 series from the begining, so it'll be a whilte before series 7 returns.

Yeah, that sucked tremendously. Fraiser was pretty hot. Fortunately Sky is showing all 10 series from the begining, so it'll be a whilte before series 7 returns.

I tell you, Sky is awesome...thanks to that I saw all episodes of the tenth season and third season of Atlantis earlier than I might have otherwise.

But, lest we stray off topic...

I also tend not to discrriminate based on age, apart from being more than three years younger than myself, usually. (But then I'm twenty at the moment so I can get away with this for a while before it becomes too discriminatory.) As such, I find a woman of fifty oftentimes as beautiful as a woman of twenty. It's a beautiful thing to be able to appreciate such...beauty...so readily.

Every girl that I find appealing is totally out of reach for me.

Every girl that is totally out of reach for me, I find appealing. I suspect you've got it the wrong way round too.

My list:

French girls.
Welsh accents.
Ok, foreign girls in general.
Gloves.
Earrings.
Women driving cars alone.
Women who are cleverer than me.
Sporty or athletic women.
A bit of wisdom.
Freckles.
Kindness.
Forearms.

Every girl that is totally out of reach for me, I find appealing. I suspect you've got it the wrong way round too.

My list:

French girls.
Welsh accents.
Ok, foreign girls in general.
Gloves.
Earrings.
Women driving cars alone.
Women who are cleverer than me.
Sporty or athletic women.
A bit of wisdom.
Freckles.
Kindness.
Forearms.

I thought that was a sexy list that all guys followed. :D

Every girl that is totally out of reach for me, I find appealing. I suspect you've got it the wrong way round too.

My list:

French girls.
Welsh accents.
Ok, foreign girls in general.
Gloves.
Earrings.
Women driving cars alone.
Women who are cleverer than me.
Sporty or athletic women.
A bit of wisdom.
Freckles.
Kindness.
Forearms.

i find people with forearms attractive too, but what's with the 'women driving cars alone' thing? that seems a bit creepy, no?

Also, I like older women. The ones between 25-30 are the best,

:eek: oh......wait

you mean older than you.....sorry. I thought you were saying I was old.

:eek: oh......wait

you mean older than you.....sorry. I thought you were saying I was old.

I thought Smunk was <25....

Physical feature: The nape of a woman's neck. Maybe I've just been looking at kimonos too long, but I am really starting to understand the Japanese obsession with the graceful lines on a woman's neck.

Personality wise: Humor and intelligence, hands down. If I can't enjoy talking with my lover and joking with her, it just ain't sexy.

Thankfully I have everything in my wife. ;)

I thought Smunk was <25....

smunk is exactly 25......well, 25 and almost 4 months.

smunk is exactly 25......well, 25 and almost 4 months.

= teh old
You'll never be less than half my age again :fluffle:

smunk is exactly 25......well, 25 and almost 4 months.

Ah, close, I thought 24. In any case, you've got another 45 years or so before you're old :p

i find people with forearms attractive too, but what's with the 'women driving cars alone' thing? that seems a bit creepy, no?

Women do seem a little concerned when I cross the road and forget to look both ways because I'm busy staring through their windshield...

In fact, I think I stare rather too much in general, but I just can't stop!

Welsh accents.

OMG no! :eek: :eek:

Sporty or athletic women.

hmmm *ponders* ;)

maybe... flexible, as well :p

smunk is exactly 25......well, 25 and almost 4 months.

You always struck me as older (you seem very mature, is all).

Well, that's my new lesson for today. :p

OMG no! :eek: :eek:


How about different English accents, say that lovely accent your academic types possess?


hmmm *ponders* ;)

maybe... flexible, as well :p

Yes please.

smunk is exactly 25......well, 25 and almost 4 months.

Congratulations, you will only get even more beautifull from now on.

At least until you reach 33. And then... Well, then you have plastic surgery.

Congratulations, you will only get even more beautifull from now on.

At least until you reach 33. And then... Well, then you have plastic surgery.

Absolutely not. Plastic surgery is completely useless except in case of restoring disfigured faces from accidents.

I don't know...liking me enough to contemplate the possibility of a relationship is a start.

Last night, Himself and I are laying around in our underwear watching TV. We flip to some show where's this guy and girl have broken up, and the guy calls in to a radio station to request a song for his girl in the hopes of making up.

Himself remarks,

"If we ever broke up, I would call in to a radio station and tell them to play that Titanic song by Celine Dion, dedicated to you. And I would tell them it's because it's your favorite song."

I reply with theatrical gagging noises.

Himself points out, "Well, see, now you have to stay with me. Or else people will think you like Celine Dion."

A nearly-nude pillow fight ensued. And that's HAWT.

Fact.

ROFL.

Absolutely not. Plastic surgery is completely useless except in case of restoring disfigured faces from accidents.

Dude, you´re quite outdated. Plastic surgery is doing a lot of amazing stuff nowadays. Just look at those TV programs like "The Swan" or something. Extreme Makeover etc.

About plastic restorative surgery, I`ve seen quite a few cases of them, and the results are usually horrible. I saw a bunch of women who had to take their boobs due to cancer, and the result in constructing them back looks very bad.

This thread is a great ego-booster, since half the guys here seem to be lusting for women with my hair. :)

As for me, in the category of comparatively serious sexy things, I will put intelligence, confidence, a sense of humor, an appreciation for good music, and a willingness to be seen publicly in a skirt. (That last one sounds silly, but it's not - I don't think anything turns me off faster than a guy who's insecure in his masculinity.)

As for comparatively shallow/silly sexy things, tuxedos! I firmly believe that every guy looks hotter in a tux, and I know I'm far from alone in this. As a choral singer, I dearly love choirs in which the guys are expected to perform in tuxes, as there is very little more delectably ogle-able than several dozen excellent singers in tuxedos. ;)

Dude, you´re quite outdated. Plastic surgery is doing a lot of amazing stuff nowadays. Just look at those TV programs like "The Swan" or something. Extreme Makeover etc.

About plastic restorative surgery, I`ve seen quite a few cases of them, and the results are usually horrible. I saw a bunch of women who had to take their boobs due to cancer, and the result in constructing them back looks very bad.

That seems oddly contradictory. So plastic surgery does miracles except for the people who actually need it?

I never said people can't make themselves look better with it. I said they shouldn't, implying an opinion about a position that might not necessarily be carried out.

That seems oddly contradictory. So plastic surgery does miracles except for the people who actually need it?


Yes, unfortunaly. Just look at all those people severely burned, and try to figure out what plastic surgery did to them.

Now get an average person, and you can get great results out of it.

Of course, plastic surgery is quite a new field, and quite primitive if you ask me.

Self-confidence without being arrogant is great in a guy, as is intelligence, a willingness to be silly, and a willingness to try new things.

Yes, unfortunaly. Just look at all those people severely burned, and try to figure out what plastic surgery did to them.

Now get an average person, and you can get great results out of it.

Of course, plastic surgery is quite a new field, and quite primitive if you ask me.
A shame, really...you'd think they'd be better at it by now, what with all of our sudden advances in all fields.

First is cheerfulness and confidence about herself, a girl who is able to be both cheerful and confident extends an aura of attractiveness, even if she doesn't conform to some sort of ideal western body image. After that it's important for her to be hardworking and intelligent, lazy morons are a total turnoff for me. Third is the actual body appearance, let's face it, I'm shallow, and not going to even think about a girl who is 5'4" and 220 pounds. Perfection is certainly not required, but she must have at least average looks.

But first are cheerfulness and confidence.

As for comparatively shallow/silly sexy things, tuxedos! I firmly believe that every guy looks hotter in a tux, and I know I'm far from alone in this. As a choral singer, I dearly love choirs in which the guys are expected to perform in tuxes, as there is very little more delectably ogle-able than several dozen excellent singers in tuxedos. ;)
Oh, yum. Vocally talented guys in tuxes... mmmm....

Also, guys in uniform. *swoon*

A shame, really...you'd think they'd be better at it by now, what with all of our sudden advances in all fields.

Well, unfortunaly reconstructive surgery doesnt give a lot of money. Beauty surgeries give much more, specially since the market is much bigger. That means that the best professionals usually dont do reconstructive surgeries, and labs dont work on such methods, meaning technological growth in this area is quite smaller compared to beauty improvement methods.

Well, unfortunaly reconstructive surgery doesnt give a lot of money. Beauty surgeries give much more, specially since the market is much bigger. That means that the best professionals usually dont do reconstructive surgeries, and labs dont work on such methods, meaning technological growth in this area is quite smaller compared to beauty improvement methods.
One of the many reasons the market should not direct all research.

Damaske: Such as?

What is "sexy" to you??*Sound of zipper* You, loverboy.

... Why are you running away?

Eyes turn me on. Especially green ones. Apart from that, I prefer people who're in good shape, ooze confidence, are curious and crazy enough to indulge my whims, and can outsmart me. The latter's not critical for a one nighter, but probably the single most important thing in a relationship. Otherwise I tend to end up thinking of and treating the poor bastard like a minion.

Self-confidence without being arrogant is great in a guy, as is intelligence, a willingness to be silly, and a willingness to try new things.


I go with that plus being passionate (towards a goal or idea),independent,and a desire to teach ME new things.

Every girl that is totally out of reach for me, I find appealing. I suspect you've got it the wrong way round too.

I've got it both ways around.

For me, it used to be shallow things, like nice legs, or a nice set of boobs. But now, I am starting to realize that I am attracted to modesty. Thats right, I find modesty sexy.

Modesty and convictions. I find both appealing,

A strong, hooked beak.. A good, downy undertail covert.. And nice, sharp talons.

Sexy to me...Well, let's look at some girls from my past (read: a couple years ago).

Tall is good. as is long hair, glasses, freckles, slimness, average height, Swedish, nice legs, strength, independce, blue eyes, reheads, short hair, intelligent, well-read, a sense of fragility, modesty, curly hair, short girls, Asian, boobies, fun-loving, honesty, smiling, dimples are cute, brunette, vunerability, it's good if she has some weight to herself, outspokenness, cunning, straight hair, Georgia has good-looking girls...

The list could go on; I'm okay with about anything, really.

I like skinny boys who don't have much in the way of chest/body hair. Usually with brown or darker hair, longish (well, shorter than chin length) I don't like buzzed hair so much, I want to be able to run my fingers through it and play with it.

Some muscles, but not some sort of over-exerted-I'm-compensating-for-a-lack-of-personality/self-confidence type of muscle. Just enough to be slightly defined. Toned, if you will.

Some artisitic/creative ability is also hot. As is a sense of humour and being smart...

Chicks dig my hair. Not only is finger-running possible, it also functions as a pencil-case!
oOoOoOo... pencil case hair.

I bet you generally have to beat women off with a stick.

Usually with brown or darker hair, longish (well, shorter than chin length) I don't like buzzed hair so much, I want to be able to run my fingers through it and play with it.

Chicks dig my hair. Not only is finger-running possible, it also functions as a pencil-case!

I like skinny boys who don't have much in the way of chest/body hair. Usually with brown or darker hair, longish (well, shorter than chin length) I don't like buzzed hair so much, I want to be able to run my fingers through it and play with it.

Some muscles, but not some sort of over-exerted-I'm-compensating-for-a-lack-of-personality/self-confidence type of muscle. Just enough to be slightly defined. Toned, if you will.

Some artisitic/creative ability is also hot. As is a sense of humour and being smart...

I second all of this except for the lack of body hair, which I don't care about either way. :)

I second all of this except for the lack of body hair, which I don't care about either way. :)

And yet noone shares my love of plush feathers. :(

And yet noone shares my love of plush feathers. :(

Don't be silly. This is the internet - someone out there shares every kink imaginable. :p

Don't be silly. This is the internet - someone out there shares every kink imaginable. :p

Oh, of course!

I just meant on this forum. ;)

oOoOoOo... pencil case hair.

I bet you generally have to beat women off with a stick.

I thought beating off was a guy only thing.. and didn't know sticks were involved. ovo

oOoOoOo... pencil case hair.

I bet you generally have to beat women off with a stick.

Admittedly, it'd be a lot more useful if they could still reach it when I stand up straight, b'eh.


(Also I would like to state, for the record, that I fit all qualifications given by Dakini[ and now seconded by Poliwanacraca], so nyeh. :P)

I'm sorry, I can't hear the word "sexy" without thinking of that damn Justin Timberlake song. I think the word must be banned for my own sanity.

What is sexy? Someone who likes to get NEKID!

What is sexy? Someone who likes to get NEKID!

Well.. there's something to be said for realistic standards.

I'm sorry, I can't hear the word "sexy" without thinking of that damn Justin Timberlake song. I think the word must be banned for my own sanity.

You poor thing!

*sings "I'm bringing sexy baaack, la la la LA la something something-ack" very, very quietly*

Nekkid has two k's, surely?

I'm sorry, I can't hear the word "sexy" without thinking of that damn Justin Timberlake song. I think the word must be banned for my own sanity.

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*sacrifices Justin Timberlake and Dinaverg to the voices inside head*

Nekkid has two k's, surely?

Damn! I never seem to get Internet slang right :(

I won't look at a woman unless she plays the cello. Everything else is just flotsam.

I won't look at a woman unless she plays the cello. Everything else is just flotsam.You just won the thread.

I find a difference between physical attractiveness and 'sexy'. The superficial aspects of physical attraction vary, but I generally like smaller women with long hair, and a certain shapeliness.

Sexy though... plenty of women are sexy, and it's not really about looks. It's about confidence, furtive looks, and slightly crooked smiles. Intelligence is a huge factor, particularly a conversational intelligence. Sexy is sometimes related to dressing in a way that flatters that particular woman, yet invites the mind to wonder how that dress would like on the floor. Sexy is neither young nor old, for there are women in their 20's and women in their 40's who I find equally sexy.

The sexiest thing, is the blush that happens when women laugh or realize that you speak their body language. Most importantly, women who are into me, are sexy.

For me, it used to be shallow things, like nice legs, or a nice set of boobs. But now, I am starting to realize that I am attracted to modesty. Thats right, I find modesty sexy.

Great. If modesty is now sexy, how am I supposed to make sure that no one is ever attracted to me? I have to be modest though. So it's trap. Why can't people just accept me as unattractive. I'm modest, and I want that to help keep me safe, not to make me more unsafe.:(

Great. If modesty is now sexy, how am I supposed to make sure that no one is ever attracted to me? I have to be modest though. So it's trap. Why can't people just accept me as unattractive. I'm modest, and I want that to help keep me safe, not to make me more unsafe.:(

Try as you might, you aren't going to able to control whether or not people are going to find you attractive. Some will, some won't... in varying degrees depending on how much you try to fight it.

Better to go about your business, have some confidence, and don't give anyone the impression that you're interested, and if they get that impression, make sure in no uncertain terms that you are not.

I won't look at a woman unless she plays the cello. Everything else is just flotsam.
Best first post ever.
Great. If modesty is now sexy, how am I supposed to make sure that no one is ever attracted to me? I have to be modest though. So it's trap. Why can't people just accept me as unattractive. I'm modest, and I want that to help keep me safe, not to make me more unsafe.:(

Chandy, has the internet taught you nothing? There is always going to be someone who's going to be attracted to you, no matter how you look or act.

Admittedly, it'd be a lot more useful if they could still reach it when I stand up straight, b'eh.


(Also I would like to state, for the record, that I fit all qualifications given by Dakini[ and now seconded by Poliwanacraca], so nyeh. :P)
Haha. How tall can you possibly be that girls can't reach your hair when you stand up straight?

I second all of this except for the lack of body hair, which I don't care about either way. :)
I used to think I was indifferent to body hair until I came accross a guy who was atrociously hairy.

A little hair is fine, a lot... not so much.

Probably attitude is the sexiest thing, coupled with intelligence. I've noticed that even if I didn't think they were particularly attractive at first, by now, most of my female friends seem extremely hot to me, because of those factors. I think if you hang around someone whose personality you think is really awesome, you begin to perceive them differently and visually they eventually seem more attractive to you than they would otherwise. At least, that's how it seems to work for me.

Anyway, speaking of visual appeal, I find eyes that seem like they can stab into me really sexy. You know, the really piercing, intense kind. Preferably rather large. Long, dark hair is nice, too. I tend to like petite women a lot, it seems, like my ladyfriend, who is 5'3" and oh so cute. She doesn't have short legs, her whole body is just tiny.

Haha. How tall can you possibly be that girls can't reach your hair when you stand up straight?

Well, okay, she can reach it....she just kinda has to tippy-toe, y'know? Really, it's only this one girl that ever puts her pencils in my hair, and she's shorter than average.

as far as how tall....probably...6'3"...ish?

Seriously though, my hair has all kinds of awesome properties. It's great cushioning, protects my scalp from rain, it's even somewhat absorbent! It's deformaiton propeties allow for effortless head-balancing-upon-of-things.

Probably attitude is the sexiest thing, coupled with intelligence. I've noticed that even if I didn't think they were particularly attractive at first, by now, most of my female friends seem extremely hot to me, because of those factors. I think if you hang around someone whose personality you think is really awesome, you begin to perceive them differently and visually they eventually seem more attractive to you than they would otherwise. At least, that's how it seems to work for me.

Neh? (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Exposure_effect)

Probably attitude is the sexiest thing, coupled with intelligence. I've noticed that even if I didn't think they were particularly attractive at first, by now, most of my female friends seem extremely hot to me, because of those factors. I think if you hang around someone whose personality you think is really awesome, you begin to perceive them differently and visually they eventually seem more attractive to you than they would otherwise. At least, that's how it seems to work for me.

Anyway, speaking of visual appeal, I find eyes that seem like they can stab into me really sexy. You know, the really piercing, intense kind. Preferably rather large. Long, dark hair is nice, too. I tend to like petite women a lot, it seems, like my ladyfriend, who is 5'3" and oh so cute. She doesn't have short legs, her whole body is just tiny.

It's been proven that people around that height kick ass. Here's a list:

Me
This guy (http://www.satanservice.org/graphics/sammy-davis-jr3.jpg)
This other guy (http://www.nndb.com/people/813/000047672/seth-green-sm.jpg)
This guy right here (http://www.fretstore.com/images/PaulSimonPic.jpg)
This chick (http://media.canada.com/67bc2623-9886-4c71-9f03-edf992a0aa3a/jldreyfus_375x375.jpg?size=l)
And of course, the one guy who went back in time in A DeLorean (http://media.canada.com/67bc2623-9886-4c71-9f03-edf992a0aa3a/jldreyfus_375x375.jpg?size=l)

Chandy, has the internet taught you nothing? There is always going to be someone who's going to be attracted to you, no matter how you look or act.

It's my responsibility to at least try to prevent it, though.

Try as you might, you aren't going to able to control whether or not people are going to find you attractive. Some will, some won't... in varying degrees depending on how much you try to fight it.

Better to go about your business, have some confidence, and don't give anyone the impression that you're interested, and if they get that impression, make sure in no uncertain terms that you are not.

I know I can't control it, but I have to believe I can or else there's no way that I'll ever be able to feel safe.

Girls with very long legs, but that arent tall? Well, they are pretty rare, but I usually dont like them much if they are too skinny. If they have some curves, they can be quite awesome.

I know a chick in the class under me that is like that. But she has not a signle cruve on her body.

And of course, the one guy who went back in time in A DeLorean (http://media.canada.com/67bc2623-9886-4c71-9f03-edf992a0aa3a/jldreyfus_375x375.jpg?size=l)Why, I never knew the Seinfeld curse went back that far.

As for comparatively shallow/silly sexy things, tuxedos! I firmly believe that every guy looks hotter in a tux, and I know I'm far from alone in this. As a choral singer, I dearly love choirs in which the guys are expected to perform in tuxes, as there is very little more delectably ogle-able than several dozen excellent singers in tuxedos. ;)
Okay, tell me if this is weird:

I really find it hot when a guy is in the process of getting all dressed up. Like, when they've got the nice dress shirt on, and they're kind of working on the tie, but they're still in boxers and socks and are a bit un-buttoned and stuff.

I know it's normal to like seeing attractive people undressed and all, but I have this particular fondness for semi-undressed people in DRESS clothing. Don't know what that's about.

The brain.

I am a girl, and I am so glad that everyone here doesn't just think a muscled chest or a big set of boobs are sexy! You thought about the stuff below the surface too!

Congratulations! *hands out 'I Think Of Other Qualities In Humans Besides The Obvious' badges*

(I am so glad there are people like you all.)

:D Hmm. Let's see. What do I find "sexy".

Hmm. Hmm Indeed.

Well....curvyness. No stick-thinnery for me, thankyou. I need to be able to debate with a lady. If I can't argue politics, then...well...it shows how sad I am there :D Erm...they have to be more confident than me. Confidence enough for the two of us. I'm a pretty shy person myself.

The ability to play an instrument. I play Piano (badly), so it'd be nice to have someone to play with. Not in that way for the rude minded.

Erm...this is turning into a "what I find attractive" thing. Back on track, methinks, a smile helps. It really does. Doesn't really matter what you look like, a smile will result in a conversation. And from there, who knows. Literacy doesn't hurt. Well-spoken. I love that in a women. Articulacy with words. Fantastic.

I am a girl, and I am so glad that everyone here doesn't just think a muscled chest or a big set of boobs are sexy! You thought about the stuff below the surface too!

Congratulations! *hands out 'I Think Of Other Qualities In Humans Besides The Obvious' badges*

(I am so glad there are people like you all.)

You're quite welcome. We're mainly personality people here I think...

Great. If modesty is now sexy, how am I supposed to make sure that no one is ever attracted to me? I have to be modest though. So it's trap. Why can't people just accept me as unattractive. I'm modest, and I want that to help keep me safe, not to make me more unsafe.:(

I´m atracted to you already. And I´m pretty sure many people are too.

Of course, I´m in another continent and about 5000 miles away from you, which means I cant date nor stalk you lol :D

Okay, tell me if this is weird:

I really find it hot when a guy is in the process of getting all dressed up. Like, when they've got the nice dress shirt on, and they're kind of working on the tie, but they're still in boxers and socks and are a bit un-buttoned and stuff.

I know it's normal to like seeing attractive people undressed and all, but I have this particular fondness for semi-undressed people in DRESS clothing. Don't know what that's about.

Probabily you saw your father getting dressed to go to work/ceremonies while you were growing up and has an unfulfiled and bizarre Edipu´s Complex toward your fatherly figure.

Search for the closest psychiatrist and get imediate help.

I´m atracted to you already. And I´m pretty sure many people are too.

Of course, I´m in another continent and about 5000 miles away from you, which means I cant date nor stalk you lol :D

Hmm.

Ok, good. Though you couldn't date me even if we lived around the same area (since I wouldn't date anyone). But you could stalk me and that would be scary.

Hmm.

Ok, good. Though you couldn't date me even if we lived around the same area (since I wouldn't date anyone). But you could stalk me and that would be scary.

So you like strong emotions? You like to be chased, so you feel atractive and important? Ok, we can work with that fantasy.

So you like strong emotions? You like to be chased, so you feel atractive and important? Ok, we can work with that fantasy.

No...I like neither...I want to feel unattractive. I meant good that you live far away so that you can't stalk me.

No...I like neither...I want to feel unattractive. I meant good that you live far away so that you can't stalk me.

Hmm. Jump on the couch with Dr Barronia, and elaborate, if you will.

Hmm. Jump on the couch with Dr Barronia, and elaborate, if you will.

Hmm? Chandy's asexual and is at any point in time anywhere from wary to terrified of attraction, something she's never really experienced, and thus cannot understand the thought processes of someone who is. It's why most people are so afraid of insanity.

P.S. At least, that's my way of looking at it.

Hmm? Chandy's asexual and is at any point in time anywhere from wary to terrified of attraction, something she's never really experienced, and thus cannot understand the thought processes of someone who is. It's why most people are so afraid of insanity.

Thankyou Chandelier. *looks at notes* Hmm? Ah, Dinaverg. An interesting transformation...

Hey, you're good.

Hmm? Chandy's asexual and is at any point in time anywhere from wary to terrified of attraction, something she's never really experienced, and thus cannot understand the thought processes of someone who is. It's why most people are so afraid of insanity.

Yeah...thanks for explaining it for me.:)

Yeah...thanks for explaining it for me.:)

My pleasure. :D

Thankyou Chandelier. *looks at notes* Hmm? Ah, Dinaverg. An interesting transformation...

Hey, you're good.

Why....yes. Yes I am. ^_^

No...I like neither...I want to feel unattractive. I meant good that you live far away so that you can't stalk me.

Really? :(

I dont know why but I feel like playing the violin.

Really? :(

I dont know why but I feel like playing the violin.

Really. Don't take it personally, though.:) I wouldn't want anyone to stalk me. :(

Violin sounds nice. I used to play violin, and my brother does really well.

Really. Don't take it personally, though.:) I wouldn't want anyone to stalk me. :(

Violin sounds nice. I used to play violin, and my brother does really well.

Dunno, I guess I´m too old already to start it. And it takes time for you to get good at it. Not to mention it sounds like you´re killing a cat when you start playing it.

Also, some day a guy will come to you and ask you out. Please dont say "Sorry, but I´m not atracted to you and wouldnt like anyone stalking me" :D The guy will probabily go home and slit his wrists.

Really? :(

I dont know why but I feel like playing the violin.

Perhaps you are in the mood to play a good depressing piece?

Perhaps you are in the mood to play a good depressing piece?

Exactly, I´m glad someone understands me. After being rejected by Chandelier and being mistaken as a internet creepy guy, I feel miserable.

Anyway, its 10 PM here, I`m going out.

Exactly, I´m glad someone understands me. After being rejected by Chandelier and being mistaken as a internet creepy guy, I feel miserable.

Anyway, its 10 PM here, I`m going out.

Sorry...you just kind of scare me...I don't like it when people call me attractive. What did you expect me to say?

Sorry...you just kind of scare me...I don't like it when people call me attractive. What did you expect me to say?

You could take it as a compliment. Doesn't mean that it has to go any farther you know.

You could take it as a compliment. Doesn't mean that it has to go any farther you know.

I can't take it as a compliment. That would be immodest. But it's so confusing, because it's like a paradox now. The idea that modesty can be attractive messes everything up. I'm so confused.:(

I can't take it as a compliment. That would be immodest. But it's so confusing, because it's like a paradox now. The idea that modesty can be attractive messes everything up. I'm so confused.:(

Someone believing you are attractive is immodest? I can't really agree with that, it is not as if you are dressing or acting in a way that could be viewed "immodest" it is simply the belief of someone else, not under your control at all. Besides, one would have to be really pug-ugly or dressed in a burka to completely avoid such a compliment.

Someone believing you are attractive is immodest? I can't really agree with that, it is not as if you are dressing or acting in a way that could be viewed "immodest" it is simply the belief of someone else, not under your control at all. Besides, one would have to be really pug-ugly or dressed in a burka to completely avoid such a compliment.

I have to try my best to avoid it though...

I have to try my best to avoid it though...

Take whatever measures you think are needed. It you succeed I'll be surprised though. Especially from those on the internet who will do so not knowing what you look like anyway.

I can't take it as a compliment. That would be immodest. But it's so confusing, because it's like a paradox now. The idea that modesty can be attractive messes everything up. I'm so confused.:(

“Modesty is what keeps you from being an occasion of sin to others when you are young and fit, and from making a spectacle of yourself when you're not."

I think you are talking about humility, not modesty.

;)

you should say "thank you" when someone compliments you, it's okay if you don't believe them. It's not polite to do otherwise. :cool:

But they're threats. They scare me.:( I mean that if they can see any sort of attractiveness in me then it would mean that I am immodest. I have to stop them from doing that because I don't want to be immodest. I think I did mix those two up in that post. It's an hour past my bedtime...:eek:
Chandy, you have many attractive traits, you just have to work on making yourself unavailable. If you are out of their league they will leave you alone, it won't take much work, all you really need is the attitude. ;)

Take whatever measures you think are needed. It you succeed I'll be surprised though. Especially from those on the internet who will do so not knowing what you look like anyway.

I have to believe that I'm ugly. I just have to believe that. But if I do then it'll make it hard for me, and my therapist told me not to. But I need to believe this. It hurts to be told I'm attractive. It goes against what I have to believe so that I can feel safe.

“Modesty is what keeps you from being an occasion of sin to others when you are young and fit, and from making a spectacle of yourself when you're not."

I think you are talking about humility, not modesty.

;)

you should say "thank you" when someone compliments you, it's okay if you don't believe them. It's not polite to do otherwise. :cool:

But they're threats. They scare me. If I say thank you they'll think that I wanted them to say that and then they'll try to hurt me.:( I mean that if they can see any sort of attractiveness in me then it would mean that I am immodest. I have to stop them from doing that because I don't want to be immodest. I think I did mix those two up in that post. It's an hour past my bedtime...:eek:

Chandy, you have many attractive traits, you just have to work on making yourself unavailable. If you are out of their league they will leave you alone, it won't take much work, all you really need is the attitude. ;)

I've been pretty successful at school. Most of the people there probably think I'm ugly (which is true, but isn't, but I don't know. I'm so confused, because sometimes I think that I'm not ugly, but then I think that pride and vanity are bad things so I should hate myself so that I can be a good person). My hair is a lot more messed up and my back is hunched over from my backpack at school, which isn't really conveyed in any of the pictures I've posted here. So do the kids at the middle school my brothers go to. I heard some of them making fun of me, so that must mean that they think I'm ugly. But it doesn't make me feel good, but it should because I want to be ugly so I can be safe. So I don't know what to do anymore, if being ugly won't make me safe. It's probably better than them thinking I'm pretty though. But I'm so afraid, and I'm crying right now, because I don't know how I can be safe. If I can't control what other people think about me then I don't know how I can be safe and then I'll get hurt.

I used to be better at that in middle school and early in high school when people asked me out (well, I maintain that they were just pretending to ask me out, because they were either in a group and laughing or a group asked for one person, which means that they were just trying to make fun of me). I'm not as good at it anymore. I need to get better at scaring people away from me then. But that might be mean, but I have to make sure that I'm safe.

Anyway, I'm so confused right now. Nothing makes any sense.:(

dear lord why does every thread you're in have to degenerate into a discussion of your "attractiveness" issues? we get it, yo. Nobody on this forum is trying to come onto you by throwing the odd compliment your way, aiight?
real life is another issue, obviously, but you seem to have a handle on your feelings so flat-out rejection is totally feasable.

dear lord why does every thread you're in have to degenerate into a discussion of your "attractiveness" issues? we get it, yo. Nobody on this forum is trying to come onto you by throwing the odd compliment your way, aiight?
real life is another issue, obviously, but you seem to have a handle on your feelings so flat-out rejection is totally feasable.

They shouldn't compliment me though. Not about appearance. I like compliments about other things, things that are true.

Anyway, sorry to talk about myself so much. Zilam told me about this earlier, and it really scares me. And then Northern Borders scared me, too. I'm just so confused and tired, and...well, sorry. But I've talked about it a lot so people should know not to compliment me. It just makes me so afraid and I keep talking about it. Sorry.:(

I'm rather fond of a girl who is smart, quick-witted, strong willed, politically motivated, and a musician. Patience is a rather good thing too, since I'm particularly thick.

Physically, I like pale girls, I hate fake tans.They make me sick. Hair color I'm not so picky about. I prefer Light brown or red, but I'm okay with blonde or black. Tall or short doesn't really matter to me, although all the girls I end up falling for tend to be short, so I could be lying there. No huge asses either. Don't like those at all (and don't understand the male obsession with them at all).

Mostly, though, anyone who can tolerate me and is willing to be patient with me, though.

Okay, tell me if this is weird:

I really find it hot when a guy is in the process of getting all dressed up. Like, when they've got the nice dress shirt on, and they're kind of working on the tie, but they're still in boxers and socks and are a bit un-buttoned and stuff.

I know it's normal to like seeing attractive people undressed and all, but I have this particular fondness for semi-undressed people in DRESS clothing. Don't know what that's about.

Oh, that makes perfect sense to me. I couldn't possibly explain why being half-in and half-out of a tux is so very hot, but it quite definitely is. :)

Physically, I like pale girls

Yeah I prefer fairer skinned as well, though I dont mind tans. For some reason I am unable to find black women attractive. Some people have the nerve to tell me thats racist, but I have no prejudices againt black people in general, and how am I supposed to help what I'm attracted to? Personally I find Indian women to be the most attractive. Heres a picture of a popular bollywood actress Aishwariya Rai.

http://images.askmen.com/galleries/model/aishwarya-rai/pictures/aishwarya-rai-picture-2.jpg

When it comes to personality traits, I prefer them smart, able to make good conversation and have to have a good sense of humor. Oh, and they have to have an interest in staying physically fit, and look after their bodies well without becoming overly muscular. Yep, I'm as shallow as they come and have no problem with women judging my looks by their own shallow criterea for beauty. :p

Whats sexy too me? The fact you acknowledge my presence!

Superficially: To me there is *nothing* sexier than to watch a man work for me!

Especially yard work and the like. *Drools*
The perfect combination of strength and servility :D

Unfortunately, this tends to come with one of my big turn-OFFs: Brokeness. Guys doing that kind of work tend to be broke. That just won't do.

If I'm going to actually be *interested* in doing any more with him than watching him work:

In direct contradiction to my "most sexy" rating...if we're going to get anything serious going, he will need to be self-employed or independently wealthy. The employee mindset...shudder!! He needs to be able to take the risk of being in business for himself, and not be worrying about petty bullcrap like whether he's somewhere at 8:01 instead of 8 on the dot. Such worries should be beneath his dignity as a human being.

He needs to be laid back. I can't stand nitpickers, hurriers, clean-freaks, and other type-A stuff.

Intelligence. I like someone I can talk to without having to explain every darn thing.

A good attitude, good sense of humor, and the ability to have class when it's called for yet not be uptight or snooty.

Not Broke. I can't tolerate the entire "poor" mindset, or the penny-pinching, that comes from people who've come to accept longstanding brokedness. He doesn't have to be outright rich, but definitely and positively he cannot be broke. (Penny-pinching = nitpicking.) If he cares whether the bread costs $2.49 instead of $2.39 I want nothing to do with him!

Yep quite a long list. But if I'm going to put up with another human in such close quarters for any length of time at all, it sure can't be one that's going to irk me!

I do have my doubts that there is a nonirksome human on this planet... ;)

Fergi America;12565717']Superficially: To me there is *nothing* sexier than to watch a man work for me!

Especially yard work and the like. *Drools*
The perfect combination of strength and servility :D

*stops reading* No thanks...

:P

A lot of women surprise me when they think we like size 0 women. For me thats a turn off.

I don't like fat women or size 0 women. There's a nice in between, curvy without being fat, slim without being stick thin...

And yeah i like a nice ass and legs but in my opinion nice eyes and a nice smile are far more important. Because those eyes and that smile will last a lot longer then those nice legs and that hot ass.

I'm lucky though my wife physiclly is perfect in my mind. Nice body AND nice eyes/smile.

But i couldn't marry her if i was just attracted to her physiclly. The personality of a women is very important. That's another thing women think men don't care about, but we do.

I think tats are pretty damn sexy. I also like skinny boys. Larger guys (not necessarily fat, but tall and stocky) make me feel like I'm being enveloped.

http://www.foxsports.com.au/common/imagedata/0,5001,5319152,00.jpg

My ideal man! *Drools*

Fergi America;12565717']Superficially: To me there is *nothing* sexier than to watch a man work for me!

Especially yard work and the like. *Drools*
The perfect combination of strength and servility :D

Unfortunately, this tends to come with one of my big turn-OFFs: Brokeness. Guys doing that kind of work tend to be broke. That just won't do.

If I'm going to actually be *interested* in doing any more with him than watching him work:

In direct contradiction to my "most sexy" rating...if we're going to get anything serious going, he will need to be self-employed or independently wealthy. The employee mindset...shudder!! He needs to be able to take the risk of being in business for himself, and not be worrying about petty bullcrap like whether he's somewhere at 8:01 instead of 8 on the dot. Such worries should be beneath his dignity as a human being.

He needs to be laid back. I can't stand nitpickers, hurriers, clean-freaks, and other type-A stuff.

Intelligence. I like someone I can talk to without having to explain every darn thing.

A good attitude, good sense of humor, and the ability to have class when it's called for yet not be uptight or snooty.

Not Broke. I can't tolerate the entire "poor" mindset, or the penny-pinching, that comes from people who've come to accept longstanding brokedness. He doesn't have to be outright rich, but definitely and positively he cannot be broke. (Penny-pinching = nitpicking.) If he cares whether the bread costs $2.49 instead of $2.39 I want nothing to do with him!

Yep quite a long list. But if I'm going to put up with another human in such close quarters for any length of time at all, it sure can't be one that's going to irk me!

I do have my doubts that there is a nonirksome human on this planet... ;)

You're not fussy are you?

A sense of adventure tempered with enough confidence to try things and enough bashfulness to make them titillating. And a well tempered sense of humor that knows when it's a good time to laugh at ourselves.

A desire to touch, and to be touched. To be forward enough for me to know I'm what she wants and receptive to allowing me to express my desire for her.

Someone sharp enough to not let me get away with nonsense who is willing to partake in some good ol' nonsense.

Someone who I'd rather be with more than without.

She exists.

Big tits ...
And a girl with a sense of humor and some meat on her. I don't wanna have to worry about snapping her in half.

Sorry...you just kind of scare me...I don't like it when people call me attractive. What did you expect me to say?

Thanks?!

Its simple. Even if you dont believe it, or even care, when someone gives you a compliment, just say thanks.

That is not being imodest. That is being simple. And that is the kind of thing to do when you get a compliment.

Why? Because someone who is giving a compliment may feel weird already just by giving it. If you just answer with an yes, the case is solved, you have tanker her, doesnt give any opinion about what you think, and everything remains ok. Even if the person is joke, you get away free because you didnt showed a lot of emotion over it.

Being imodest is saying "Yea, I know it" or something of the like.

I've been pretty successful at school. Most of the people there probably think I'm ugly (which is true, but isn't, but I don't know. I'm so confused, because sometimes I think that I'm not ugly, but then I think that pride and vanity are bad things so I should hate myself so that I can be a good person). My hair is a lot more messed up and my back is hunched over from my backpack at school, which isn't really conveyed in any of the pictures I've posted here. So do the kids at the middle school my brothers go to. I heard some of them making fun of me, so that must mean that they think I'm ugly. But it doesn't make me feel good, but it should because I want to be ugly so I can be safe. So I don't know what to do anymore, if being ugly won't make me safe. It's probably better than them thinking I'm pretty though. But I'm so afraid, and I'm crying right now, because I don't know how I can be safe. If I can't control what other people think about me then I don't know how I can be safe and then I'll get hurt.

I used to be better at that in middle school and early in high school when people asked me out (well, I maintain that they were just pretending to ask me out, because they were either in a group and laughing or a group asked for one person, which means that they were just trying to make fun of me). I'm not as good at it anymore. I need to get better at scaring people away from me then. But that might be mean, but I have to make sure that I'm safe.

Anyway, I'm so confused right now. Nothing makes any sense.:(

Ahh Chandelier, you have so much to learn. Emotionaly, you´re still a first grader, even if you´re taking advanced college classes at 17.

Looks like your parents failed you and arent helping you at all, which is a shame. Nor your psychiatrist.

Anyway, if you feel like you´re ugly, people will think you´re ugly too. If you think youre good looking, and act like it, people will think so too. I cant remember how many ugly people I feel atracted to because they had such a warm and interesting, even beautifull, personality.

Physically, I like pale girls, I hate fake tans.They make me sick.No huge asses either. Don't like those at all (and don't understand the male obsession with them at all).


Me too, I heavily dislike fake tans. They look too orange, and very diferent from the real deal (which I really like). In fact, I hate almost everything fake a woman has. Fake hair color, fake eye color, fake boob size (not implants). If she has a fake anything, I think she looks much worst.

About butts, well, they are good. They are soft, they add curves to a woman. She gives you something to play with. So much that I rate butts over boobs: they are so much better looking. And its very hard to find a woman with nice boobs, at least here in Brazil.

Black women? I have nothing against her. In fact, right now, my favorite hot celebrity is Beyonce: DAMN, she is hot. Scarlet Johanson comes second, but she is not near as hot as Beyonce. :D

Fergi America;12565717']Superficially: To me there is *nothing* sexier than to watch a man work for me!

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I do have my doubts that there is a nonirksome human on this planet... ;)

Good luck. :p

One that's shorter than me and not a total whackjob.

Trust me, when you're 5'3 this is a VERY difficult process. :p

Ahh Chandelier, you have so much to learn. Emotionaly, you´re still a first grader, even if you´re taking advanced college classes at 17.

Looks like your parents failed you and arent helping you at all, which is a shame. Nor your psychiatrist.

Anyway, if you feel like you´re ugly, people will think you´re ugly too. If you think youre good looking, and act like it, people will think so too. I cant remember how many ugly people I feel atracted to because they had such a warm and interesting, even beautifull, personality.

Then why have you called me attractive before, if you know that I can't handle it emotionally? That's why I think that you're just trying to make me afraid, and very successfully.



Exactly. That's what I'm counting on. If I can convince myself that I'm ugly then other people with think that I'm ugly and then I'll be safe. I have to force myself to believe it so that everything will turn out ok. It usually works, but then if someone for whatever reason (insanity or mocking me or whatever) insists that I'm attractive everything gets messed up. Sometimes I can even look in a mirror now and not think that I'm ugly. It's all messed up.

Thanks?!

Its simple. Even if you dont believe it, or even care, when someone gives you a compliment, just say thanks.

That is not being imodest. That is being simple. And that is the kind of thing to do when you get a compliment.

Why? Because someone who is giving a compliment may feel weird already just by giving it. If you just answer with an yes, the case is solved, you have tanker her, doesnt give any opinion about what you think, and everything remains ok. Even if the person is joke, you get away free because you didnt showed a lot of emotion over it.

Being imodest is saying "Yea, I know it" or something of the like.

Well, I don't think I should thank people for obviously lying to me. I say thank you when people compliment me, but I perceive compliments about looks as insults because they're saying that I've failed in what I've been trying to do. So I react to them in different way then I would to something I perceive as actually being a compliment, especially if they scared me like you did before (you mentioned stalking, and that really scared me).

And if I say thanks and people are actually sincere about it then they'll think it means that I like it and keep harassing me about it because they're obviously crazy then. Well, in real life I usually would say thanks anyway because I always try to be polite anyway. But online it's too creepy and I don't know what to say.

Get Soviestan in here, this guys' turnin muslim :p

On topic, most girls will look sexy to some degree if they act sexy.

Thats my boy!

Then why have you called me attractive before, if you know that I can't handle it emotionally? That's why I think that you're just trying to make me afraid, and very successfully.



Exactly. That's what I'm counting on. If I can convince myself that I'm ugly then other people with think that I'm ugly and then I'll be safe. I have to force myself to believe it so that everything will turn out ok. It usually works, but then if someone for whatever reason (insanity or mocking me or whatever) insists that I'm attractive everything gets messed up. Sometimes I can even look in a mirror now and not think that I'm ugly. It's all messed up.



Well, I don't think I should thank people for obviously lying to me. I say thank you when people compliment me, but I perceive compliments about looks as insults because they're saying that I've failed in what I've been trying to do. So I react to them in different way then I would to something I perceive as actually being a compliment, especially if they scared me like you did before (you mentioned stalking, and that really scared me).

And if I say thanks and people are actually sincere about it then they'll think it means that I like it and keep harassing me about it because they're obviously crazy then. Well, in real life I usually would say thanks anyway because I always try to be polite anyway. But online it's too creepy and I don't know what to say.

Ok dude, I think you're only problem is that you have a low self esteem perhaps?

You need to have a more positive outlook on life. If people say something like, "You're ugly" then you have to use this as a counter-attack by saying something like, "Really? Because I think I'm pretty god damn hot!" or "Well that's too bad, because to me, you look like a complete piece of shit."

This might be easier for me though because I'm pretty impervious as to what people think of me.

Anyway, don't be polite back to these people who are harrassing you. You need to let them know that you're not a complete pushover and that you're tougher than you look. If they are being insincere, and say something along the lines of, "You look good today" or what not, then respond with a (to a dude) "Me too" or (to a girl) "So that means you want to date me right? Should I pick you up around 8:00?"

I don't know if I'm rambling or not, but I use little smart ass reponses to people who are complete assholes and it works beautifully.

I'm thinking you should do the same.

Ok dude, I think you're only problem is that you have a low self esteem perhaps?

You need to have a more positive outlook on life. If people say something like, "You're ugly" then you have to use this as a counter-attack by saying something like, "Really? Because I think I'm pretty god damn hot!" or "Well that's too bad, because to me, you look like a complete piece of shit."

This might be easier for me though because I'm pretty impervious as to what people think of me.

Anyway, don't be polite back to these people who are harrassing you. You need to let them know that you're not a complete pushover and that you're tougher than you look. If they are being insincere, and say something along the lines of, "You look good today" or what not, then respond with a (to a dude) "Me too" or (to a girl) "So that means you want to date me right? Should I pick you up around 8:00?"

I don't know if I'm rambling or not, but I use little smart ass reponses to people who are complete assholes and it works beautifully.

I'm thinking you should do the same.

I'm female, you know. And when I mean that they're harassing me, I mean that they're calling me attractive, not that they're calling me ugly. They think that they're complimenting me but really they're hurting me. I'm trying to make everyone think I'm ugly so that that won't happen.

I'm female, you know. And when I mean that they're harassing me, I mean that they're calling me attractive, not that they're calling me ugly. They think that they're complimenting me but really they're hurting me. I'm trying to make everyone think I'm ugly so that that won't happen.

Come on, Chanders. Chill. Just don't think about it. I don't think about it all, or rarely do. I just stopped. Get a hobby, like listening to music.

Ok dude, I think you're only problem is that you have a low self esteem perhaps?

I don't believe that's quite the issue. Seriously, I thought I summarized it pretty well.

Sexy to me...

Intelligence, sarcasm and wit coupled with being a person who likes dirty sex.

Jeez girl, you need a lot of help indeed.

Fortunaly college will change you. If it doesnt, you will have a very hard ride on this life.

She doesn't need help, she just needs to chill. But you're right about the second statement.

Then why have you called me attractive before, if you know that I can't handle it emotionally? That's why I think that you're just trying to make me afraid, and very successfully.


Jeez girl, you need a lot of help indeed.

Fortunaly college will change you. If it doesnt, you will have a very hard ride on this life.

I'm female, you know. And when I mean that they're harassing me, I mean that they're calling me attractive, not that they're calling me ugly. They think that they're complimenting me but really they're hurting me. I'm trying to make everyone think I'm ugly so that that won't happen.

So do what I said, and reverse the genders. :rolleyes:

Ok, so it's probably different for you since you're a girl, but you could still TRY my idea right?

As I said, the best defense is a good offence.

Come on, Chanders. Chill. Just don't think about it. I don't think about it all, or rarely do. I just stopped. Get a hobby, like listening to music.

I usually don't think about it. As long as no one expresses any attraction to me, I'm fine. So it actually is pretty rare that I think about it. It just bother me a whole lot when I do.

I also have an idea that maybe I feel like this more often around the time right before my period. I did a search and found that all of the threads I created in the past about this topic were around this time of the month. So I don't know if that contributes or if it is just a coincidence.

I usually don't think about it. As long as no one expresses any attraction to me, I'm fine. So it actually is pretty rare that I think about it. It just bother me a whole lot when I do.

I also have an idea that maybe I feel like this more often around the time right before my period. I did a search and found that all of the threads I created in the past about this topic were around this time of the month. So I don't know if that contributes or if it is just a coincidence.

Probably does. I don't know much, but that is probably what winds you up so much on these threads. I'm jsut saying get a hobby so you think about it even less. But I have an easier time of it because nobody likes me.

Probably does. I don't know much, but that is probably what winds you up so much on these threads. I'm jsut saying get a hobby so you think about it even less. But I have an easier time of it because nobody likes me.

Well... I like you. ;)










:D

Probably does. I don't know much, but that is probably what winds you up so much on these threads. I'm jsut saying get a hobby so you think about it even less. But I have an easier time of it because nobody likes me.

Ok. Going on the internet is my main hobby, along with Phantom of the Opera stuff.

So do what I said, and reverse the genders. :rolleyes:

Ok, so it's probably different for you since you're a girl, but you could still TRY my idea right?

As I said, the best defense is a good offence.

But it's different because I want them to think I'm ugly. The problem is when they don't.

Jeez girl, you need a lot of help indeed.

Fortunaly college will change you. If it doesnt, you will have a very hard ride on this life.

I think my psychiatrist has helped me a lot. I just haven't seen her in a while.

I don't believe that's quite the issue. Seriously, I thought I summarized it pretty well.

I thought you did, too.

The sound of leather.

I'm female, you know. And when I mean that they're harassing me, I mean that they're calling me attractive, not that they're calling me ugly. They think that they're complimenting me but really they're hurting me. I'm trying to make everyone think I'm ugly so that that won't happen.

Too mellodramatic for my tastes. You're not Erik. I can understand sort of, I went through this period where I identified with all of these outcast characters of tragic romance, Erik in Phantom of the Opera, Quasimodo, Frankenstein's monster. Characters that were so deformed and different that they didn't seem to even deserve love and if anyone tried it would result in the death of the 'monster.' These are noble tragic characters, the pretty people will never understand, and you do so you can't be pretty.

Well, they're works of fiction. You're not Erik, or Quasimodo, or a monster. It's not going to rob you of insight if you're not a monster. Tragic characters make good reading, not so much good living. A compliment isn't hurtful, it's a compliment. Don't be so hasty to put your upturned palm to your forehead.

Too mellodramatic for my tastes. You're not Erik. I can understand sort of, I went through this period where I identified with all of these outcast characters of tragic romance, Erik in Phantom of the Opera, Quasimodo, Frankenstein's monster. Characters that were so deformed and different that they didn't seem to even deserve love and if anyone tried it would result in the death of the 'monster.' These are noble tragic characters, the pretty people will never understand, and you do so you can't be pretty.

Well, they're works of fiction. You're not Erik, or Quasimodo, or a monster. It's not going to rob you of insight if you're not a monster. Tragic characters make good reading, not so much good living. A compliment isn't hurtful, it's a compliment. Don't be so hasty to put your upturned palm to your forehead.

I gotta agree with Cannot think of a name. But I can use three words and say the same thing: Just chill, dude.

Well... I like you. ;)

Thank you. :D

For me, it used to be shallow things, like nice legs, or a nice set of boobs. But now, I am starting to realize that I am attracted to modesty. Thats right, I find modesty sexy.

Sexy is a lot more complicated than a lot of people think.

It has to strike a fairly delicate balance between showing enough to promise passion and hiding enough to make it seem that it is worth pursuing. If not enough is offered some men will get frustrated and pursue easier game. If too much is shown, or promised, some men will loose interest. So the girl has to ask herself what kind of guy is she hoping to attract.

The need for that balance is universal among mammals, but varies as much as the need for companionship (cats just like to know they have neighbors, but don't like to share. Gazelles that like "me time" get eaten by leopards). Male Cheetahs will gang up and chase a female over many miles for several days. You might think that they'd like it if they didn't have to work so hard, but if the female can't run the males get bored and the female doesn't ovulate. Apparently not running is the cheetah equivalent of Daisy Dukes and a wet T-shirt.

Sexy is a lot more complicated than a lot of people think.

It has to strike a fairly delicate balance between showing enough to promise passion and hiding enough to make it seem that it is worth pursuing. If not enough is offered some men will get frustrated and pursue easier game. If too much is shown, or promised, some men will loose interest. So the girl has to ask herself what kind of guy is she hoping to attract.

The need for that balance is universal among mammals, but varies as much as the need for companionship (cats just like to know they have neighbors, but don't like to share. Gazelles that like "me time" get eaten by leopards). Male Cheetahs will gang up and chase a female over many miles for several days. You might think that they'd like it if they didn't have to work so hard, but if the female can't run the males get bored and the female doesn't ovulate. Apparently not running is the cheetah equivalent of Daisy Dukes and a wet T-shirt.
Another weird animal kingdom thing-

A breed of turkeys, don't know what kind, are attracted to size and will woo the largest female they can find. Researchers made a comicly large mock up of a turkey and placed it amongst the real turkeys and the male turkeys fell all over themselves to get at the large fake turkey ignoring the real female turkeys that were there as well.

Thats my boy!
:D
The sound of leather.
Leather makes a sound :confused:
Another weird animal kingdom thing-

A breed of turkeys, don't know what kind, are attracted to size and will woo the largest female they can find. Researchers made a comicly large mock up of a turkey and placed it amongst the real turkeys and the male turkeys fell all over themselves to get at the large fake turkey ignoring the real female turkeys that were there as well.

It's not the size of the turkey, it's how you carve it.

It's not the size of the turkey, it's how you carve it.

owowowowowowowowowowowowowowowowowowowowowowowowowowow...

Too mellodramatic for my tastes. You're not Erik. I can understand sort of, I went through this period where I identified with all of these outcast characters of tragic romance, Erik in Phantom of the Opera, Quasimodo, Frankenstein's monster. Characters that were so deformed and different that they didn't seem to even deserve love and if anyone tried it would result in the death of the 'monster.' These are noble tragic characters, the pretty people will never understand, and you do so you can't be pretty.

Well, they're works of fiction. You're not Erik, or Quasimodo, or a monster. It's not going to rob you of insight if you're not a monster. Tragic characters make good reading, not so much good living. A compliment isn't hurtful, it's a compliment. Don't be so hasty to put your upturned palm to your forehead.

I know I'm not Erik. But I've thought about myself like this for a long time, probably before I even knew about Erik.

I just can't help it. They seem hurtful. I can't trust that people's intentions aren't sinister when they give me compliments, even though they most likely aren't sinister.

Leather makes a sound :confused:

Yes..

I know I'm not Erik. But I've thought about myself like this for a long time, probably before I even knew about Erik.

I just can't help it. They seem hurtful. I can't trust that people's intentions aren't sinister when they give me compliments, even though they most likely aren't sinister.

Even when said compliments have nothing to do with your perceived physical attractiveness?

Another weird animal kingdom thing-

A breed of turkeys, don't know what kind, are attracted to size and will woo the largest female they can find. Researchers made a comicly large mock up of a turkey and placed it amongst the real turkeys and the male turkeys fell all over themselves to get at the large fake turkey ignoring the real female turkeys that were there as well.

Fortunately, people are a bit smarter than turkeys. Domestic ones anyway.

Even when said compliments have nothing to do with your perceived physical attractiveness?

No, other compliments are fine. It's just when they're about me possibly being attractive that they're bad.

No, other compliments are fine. It's just when they're about me possibly being attractive that they're bad.

Actually, I do know how you feel to a degree. To me, if anyone said that I was attractive, I'd dismiss it as a lie. Straight off, to me, it's a piss-take. Why that is, I'm not terribly sure. However, other comments I generally seem to take well.

Bearing that in mind, you seem like a lovely person to me, and that I most certainly hope that college changes it all for you.

Oh, and on an off-topicy note, I've read some of your writings. They're really rather good.

Actually, I do know how you feel to a degree. To me, if anyone said that I was attractive, I'd dismiss it as a lie. Straight off, to me, it's a piss-take. Why that is, I'm not terribly sure. However, other comments I generally seem to take well.

Bearing that in mind, you seem like a lovely person to me, and that I most certainly hope that college changes it all for you.

Oh, and on an off-topicy note, I've read some of your writings. They're really rather good.

Ok.

Thanks.:)

And which ones have you read?:)

Actually, I do know how you feel to a degree. To me, if anyone said that I was attractive, I'd dismiss it as a lie. Straight off, to me, it's a piss-take. Why that is, I'm not terribly sure. However, other comments I generally seem to take well.

Bearing that in mind, you seem like a lovely person to me, and that I most certainly hope that college changes it all for you.

Oh, and on an off-topicy note, I've read some of your writings. They're really rather good.

Yeah. My bro once said there was a crazy little stalker on the phone, to which I replied "I need to know who it is so I can congratulate her for being such a raving maniac!"

Ok.

Thanks.:)

And which ones have you read?:)


Well, I've read what you've so far done for The StorySeeker, which is a rather novel concept, and "Farewell, Christine", which was wonderful.

Oh, and the fact that you can write in latin - awsome.

Yeah. My bro once said there was a crazy little stalker on the phone, to which I replied "I need to know who it is so I can congratulate her for being such a raving maniac!"

lol :D The term I'm thinking is "Zing!"

Sorry...you just kind of scare me...I don't like it when people call me attractive.

When you're scared of something that poses no genuine threat, you need to get rid of that fear somehow. I'm sure you can see analogies with various other things in life that one could worry about.

Let me just re-iterate: compliments are not threats.

Here's a possible analogy: I once saw a programme on TV where someone had a phobia about bananas. They were afraid of bananas. Now, can you see how your fear about compliments is no more rational than fearing bananas?

Well, I've read what you've so far done for The StorySeeker, which is a rather novel concept, and "Farewell, Christine", which was wonderful.

Oh, and the fact that you can write in latin - awsome.


Thank you.:)

When you're scared of something that poses no genuine threat, you need to get rid of that fear somehow. I'm sure you can see analogies with various other things in life that one could worry about.

Let me just re-iterate: compliments are not threats.

Here's a possible analogy: I once saw a programme on TV where someone had a phobia about bananas. They were afraid of bananas. Now, can you see how your fear about compliments is no more rational than fearing bananas?

Yeah, I can kind of see that...it's a bit hard to get over though.

Thank you.:)

You're very much welcome my dear, however, 'tis time for me to retire. It's the witching hours here in Blighty (that is to say, 0227 in the morning), and it's really time I went to bed. I wouldn't want to be getting up this afternoon rather than later this morning. There's something about me that hates waking up post-midday.

No matter. Toodley-oodley, and goodnight one and all.

Yeah, I can kind of see that...it's a bit hard to get over though.

I know. I'm not trying to dismiss your fear, just point out its irrationality and the need to eliminate it.

Achieving great things usually requires hard work and I think that ridding yourself of this fear would be a great thing.

You're very much welcome my dear, however, 'tis time for me to retire. It's the witching hours here in Blighty (that is to say, 0227 in the morning), and it's really time I went to bed. I wouldn't want to be getting up this afternoon rather than later this morning. There's something about me that hates waking up post-midday.

No matter. Toodley-oodley, and goodnight one and all.

Thank you again.:) I was going to go to sleep shortly after that post...but it took a bit longer. Oh well, at least I got some chemistry work done.


I know. I'm not trying to dismiss your fear, just point out its irrationality and the need to eliminate it.

Achieving great things usually requires hard work and I think that ridding yourself of this fear would be a great thing.

I think so, too. I just don't know how.

Thank you again.:) I was going to go to sleep shortly after that post...but it took a bit longer. Oh well, at least I got some chemistry work done.

Hmm...chemistry. Nice of you to remind me, I must edit my coursework to match the markscheme. OCR are such suckers for coursework.

I mean, who the hell releases the markscheme for their coursework before the coursework?

Hmm...chemistry. Nice of you to remind me, I must edit my coursework to match the markscheme. OCR are such suckers for coursework.

I mean, who the hell releases the markscheme for their coursework before the coursework?

Is a markscheme like a rubric? If it is, my teachers give me a rubric beforehand for major assignments so that we know what should be included, but it might be different because I'm in high school. Plus, the work I was doing is a chemistry lab report and the rubric is always pretty much the same. (I just have to finish typing it now, since I finished the post-lab questions last night).

Is a markscheme like a rubric?


:confused:

:confused:

*is also confused* It's always called a grading rubric here, at least by my teachers. With like a list of stuff (criteria is more specific than "stuff"...) that is used to determine the grade?:confused: Or is it something completely different?

Or because you live on different sides of the atlantic ocean.

That too...

it might be different because I'm in high school.

Or because you live on different sides of the atlantic ocean.

*is also confused* It's always called a grading rubric here, at least by my teachers. With like a list of stuff (criteria is more specific than "stuff"...) that is used to determine the grade?:confused: Or is it something completely different?

Sounds about similar to ours. I'll go looking for one as an example. I have no scanner, so I'm buggared there. Give me a few minutes.

*is also confused* It's always called a grading rubric here, at least by my teachers. With like a list of stuff (criteria is more specific than "stuff"...) that is used to determine the grade?:confused: Or is it something completely different?

Well, ours are very specific. My most recent was finding finding CuSO4.XH20.

Evaluation stuff was like: Candidate must have found 2 procedural errors and suggested justified modifications to both.

To be honest, it does make the coursework a whole lot easier than it should be, even though I try not to use them.

Well, ours are very specific. My most recent was finding finding CuSO4.XH20.

Evaluation stuff was like: Candidate must have found 2 procedural errors and suggested justified modifications to both.

To be honest, it does make the coursework a whole lot easier than it should be, even though I try not to use them.

Oh. Ours aren't that specific. Just the general grading thing for every lab report, although this one is slightly different in that it's a qualitative lab and doesn't have all the usual calculations, just balancing equations instead.

It does make it a lot easier when you know how it's going to be graded.

It does make it a lot easier when you know how it's going to be graded.

Yeah, but it takes the fun away. It's just generic for us now - all the reports look the same. Well, 'sept for mine, I can use Word properly, unlike my class, but that's irrelevant. I enjoy writing in general, be it this, RP, or hell, even Chemistry coursework, but it's just no fun being told what I have to write.

Yeah, but it takes the fun away. It's just generic for us now - all the reports look the same. Well, 'sept for mine, I can use Word properly, unlike my class, but that's irrelevant. I enjoy writing in general, be it this, RP, or hell, even Chemistry coursework, but it's just no fun being told what I have to write.

Ok. Well ours is really general in some areas so there's more room. Like the conclusion doesn't really have to be anything specific, it just has to be relevant to the topic of the lab and we just need a source for our information. But in other areas, like the procedures and the data tables, we basically just have to type them in. Which is pretty easy but can take a long time.

I like writing, too.:)

Ok. Well ours is really general in some areas so there's more room. Like the conclusion doesn't really have to be anything specific, it just has to be relevant to the topic of the lab and we just need a source for our information. But in other areas, like the procedures and the data tables, we basically just have to type them in. Which is pretty easy but can take a long time.

Well, we don't have to copy procedures and suchlike, it's a case of: Take a markscheme, do the experiment, note your results, analyse, evaluate.

Doesn't always go to plan though. In the CuSO4.XH2O business, the KI solution (starch presence indicator for those who don't know), giving us results of 5cm3 where it should have been 25cm3 in a titration. Mass confusion was fantastic. Everyone panicking, wondering why we're getting X to be 50 instead of 5.

I like writing, too.:)

It shows in your writing. :)

lol :D The term I'm thinking is "Zing!"

Heh heh. Yeah. It turned out to be a prankster impersonating the former girl of my dreams.

Heh heh. Yeah. It turned out to be a prankster impersonating the former girl of my dreams.

OUCH.

OUCH.

Nah. It wasn't that bad. She's not former as in passed away, but former as in I don't really like her anymore. Besides, there's a 0.05% possibility it might be genuine.

Nah. It wasn't that bad. She's not former as in passed away, but former as in I don't really like her anymore. Besides, there's a 0.05% possibility it might be genuine.

Well, it's not so bad then...

Well, it's not so bad then...

Yeah. Besides, it's probably gonna be the best prank call I get. The next one might be an inquiry as to the well-being of my refridgerator.

It shows in your writing. :)

Yay! :)

Yeah. Besides, it's probably gonna be the best prank call I get. The next one might be an inquiry as to the well-being of my refridgerator.

Now that would be funny. Hold on a second *runs to phone*

"Yes, hello? I was wondering if your refridgerator is running..."

Oh. Why good evening Miss Chandelier! :D

Now that would be funny. Hold on a second *runs to phone*

"Yes, hello? I was wondering if your refridgerator is running..."

Oh. Why good evening Miss Chandelier! :D

"It is? Well then YA BETTER GO CATCH IT! GEHAHAHAAAA!!!"

Hey, Chanders.

:"It is? Well then YA BETTER GO CATCH IT! GEHAHAHAAAA!!!"

Reminds me of The Grinch...

Oh. Why good evening Miss Chandelier! :D

Not really good, but I feel a little better...seems like it took a long while for the pain medicine to start working. Periods are annoying...but I'm trying to be happy anyway.:)


Hey, Chanders.

Hi.:)

:

Reminds me of The Grinch...

Yeah, the prank was in that movie.

Hi.:)

What's up?

What's up?

Well, like I said in my last post I got my period today and it's kind of distracting now and was pretty painful earlier. Now I'm trying to work on some history homework. How are you?

Well, like I said in my last post I got my period today and it's kind of distracting now and was pretty painful earlier. Now I'm trying to work on some history homework. How are you?

I'm good. I finished homework, and that prankster I was talking to Barronia about gave me a real phone number. I might have left a message, but I didn't know what to say.

I'm good. I finished homework, and that prankster I was talking to Barronia about gave me a real phone number. I might have left a message, but I didn't know what to say.

Refridgerator refridgerator refridgerator refridgerator!

I'm good. I finished homework, and that prankster I was talking to Barronia about gave me a real phone number. I might have left a message, but I didn't know what to say.

Cool. I'm currently working on homework and will have to eat dinner soon.