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Well, I'm going out on a second date with a guy I really like tonight. Only I can't decide what to do. Movies are out, since we both hate sitting in packed cinemas, and he's not really the artsy sort, so plays etc. are similarly out. Any ideas, NSG? What are some good dates you've been on, or some bad ones?

A fine dinner out and an evening of erotic massage.

You could always wander around aimlessly just talking your ear off to one another.

... atleast one of you will be too tired to think about getting some.

Sounds like you both want to get laid to me, have at it!!!

Well if you're both guys, just have sex, if I was gay thats what I would be doing seeing as I know what he would want.

Anyway, what are his intrests? Just pick something that he likes to do and do it (aside from sex).

Well, that's the thing, I don't know what his interests are. And I'm a girl for future reference. I was thinking of going to a bar in the city and taking it from there...but not too sure. We both like alcohol see.

Well, that's the thing, I don't know what his interests are. And I'm a girl for future reference. I was thinking of going to a bar in the city and taking it from there...but not too sure. We both like alcohol see.

Well that sounds fairly basic then. Go out for a bite and a couple of drinks and find out what his interests are. You don't need a spectacular original plan, you just need to go out and explore the guy a bit.

Although you may want to keep the drinks to a minimum, less the 'exploring' ends up going farther than you want. Unless of course, that's exactly what you want...

Go to Fridays in the city! they are a nice place. They have music if you do want to dance and at the same time if you just want to talk they have the verandahish thing where it is a bit quieter. I think you can get food there aswell. If you get sick of that you can pretty much just walk(or bus) into the city or valley.

Go to Fridays in the city! they are a nice place. They have music if you do want to dance and at the same time if you just want to talk they have the verandahish thing where it is a bit quieter. I think you can get food there aswell. If you get sick of that you can pretty much just walk(or bus) into the city or valley.


Ah, another Brisbanite!!! And thanks for the memory jog, I totally forgot about Fridays! I was thinking of the Vic, but spew laden basins in the toilets not really my thing :rolleyes:

Ah, another Brisbanite!!! And thanks for the memory jog, I totally forgot about Fridays! I was thinking of the Vic, but spew laden basins in the toilets not really my thing :rolleyes:

Classy! :p

Classy! :p

What can I say, I'm a classy broad:p .

Well that sounds fairly basic then. Go out for a bite and a couple of drinks and find out what his interests are.

That's probably the way to do it.

And I'm a girl for future reference.

The red demon is a girl? I'll try to remember that. No promises though.

Why not just go right at it? S-e-x!


.. use a condom, of course.

I say go to the zoo failing that...planespotting?

.. use a condom, of course.

http://nermal.org/images/alex.jpg :eek:

http://nermal.org/images/alex.jpg :eek:

*tilts head*
*gasps*

Well, I'm going out on a second date with a guy I really like tonight. Only I can't decide what to do. Movies are out, since we both hate sitting in packed cinemas, and he's not really the artsy sort, so plays etc. are similarly out. Any ideas, NSG? What are some good dates you've been on, or some bad ones?

Brisbane, huh? You got Houses for Humanity down there? Nothing like helping build a home for charity together to give a date that special zing!

Well that sounds fairly basic then. Go out for a bite and a couple of drinks and find out what his interests are. You don't need a spectacular original plan, you just need to go out and explore the guy a bit.
^ That.

Since when does going out for a drink not count as a date anymore? Kids these days...

^ That.

Since when does going out for a drink not count as a date anymore? Kids these days...

Girl: "We went out, but it wasn't a 'date' date."
Boy: "What do you mean, it wasn't a 'date' date? I spent 'money' money! Didn't even get a 'kiss' kiss. . ."

^ That.

Since when does going out for a drink not count as a date anymore? Kids these days...

I don't know. It's 'Blind Date' syndrome or something. If you're not going to a pottery class, taking fencing lessons, or wrestling in rubber sumo suits, it's just not a date anymore.

Call me old fashioned, but a meal, and a little bit of alcohol to induce conversation is a good date.

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