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Wedding dress preservation?

Dempublicents1
09-04-2007, 21:45
I don't know if I've mentioned this on here before, but I have the most wonderful aunt in the world. (This story and my ultimate question will take some prefacing). Just for anyone who doesn't want to hear the story of my family and my awesome, awesome aunt, skip down to the very last two paragraphs where I ask about where to have my wedding dress cleaned and preserved. =)

My grandmother was a seamstress for part of her life, and her mother (my great-grandmother) apparently hand made just about every piece of clothing she ever wore (and everything was hand-sewn with my granny - she never used a machine.) My grandmother and my granny, with my aunt's help, made wedding gowns and veils for my mother and two of her other sisters. All of them were gorgeous. When I was younger, my grandmother lived with us for a while and she used to tell me that she would make my gown when I eventually got married. Unfortunately, she passed away while I was still in high school.

Several years later, after my aunt retired, she offered to make prom dresses for two of my younger cousins. For some reason that I cannot fathom, both of them refused - preferring to find off-the-rack dresses. But I remembered seeing her offer to do so.

Soon after I got engaged, when I was just starting to really think about wedding plans, I called my aunt and asked her if she would be willing to make my wedding gown. After a few questions to make sure I wanted her to do it for the right reasons (ie. sentimental ones, rather than monetary ones - a homemade gown can be quite expensive), she agreed. The dress is absolutely gorgeous and, with a few last minute modifications she's planning on making, will fit me like a glove. I'm so excited about this dress and incredibly grateful to my aunt.

And, to finally cut to the chase, the last thing I want is for this dress to get ruined either at my wedding, or at any cleaner. I don't know if I'll ever have a daughter/niece/granddaughter/daughter-in-law/etc. who will be as sentimental as I am and want to reuse the dress, but I want to keep it preserved nonetheless. And I really don't know who to trust to do that. Everywhere I've looked has claimed that they are super-awesome and the "other guys" just don't know how to do it right.

So, I'm hoping for recommendations. Are there any nation-wide (US) chains that are really good? Anyone know of a great place in the Atlanta (or, really, anywhere in GA) area? Anyone have personal experience with this and know what to look for?

*And, of course, talking about other wedding-related or clothing-preservation stuff is perfectly welcome too! =)
Smunkeeville
09-04-2007, 21:50
I didn't preserve my dress......I feel bad about it now. Not that it started off very great, but it's in a dry cleaning bag in my closet, looking sad. :(
Deus Malum
09-04-2007, 21:51
That's an awesome story, and an awesome aunt. I honestly have no idea about the preserving stuff, but I'm curious about something slightly related.

For those of you who were reading the Hangover thread, I was at a wedding this weekend, and the tux I rented now has a small stain on it. I've got to return it later today. Any ideas on how much the damages cost is going to be?
The_pantless_hero
09-04-2007, 21:52
That's an awesome story, and an awesome aunt. I honestly have no idea about the preserving stuff, but I'm curious about something slightly related.

For those of you who were reading the Hangover thread, I was at a wedding this weekend, and the tux I rented now has a small stain on it. I've got to return it later today. Any ideas on how much the damages cost is going to be?

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Zilam
09-04-2007, 21:54
So, I'm hoping for recommendations.


My recommendation: Don't get married :p

Seriously, Everyone I know that has gotten married has put their dress in some sort of protective casing or whatever, as far as keeping it clean at the wedding..Um...be super careful. I'd almost suggest not wearing it after the actual ceremony, like at the reception.
Zilam
09-04-2007, 21:57
That's an awesome story, and an awesome aunt. I honestly have no idea about the preserving stuff, but I'm curious about something slightly related.

For those of you who were reading the Hangover thread, I was at a wedding this weekend, and the tux I rented now has a small stain on it. I've got to return it later today. Any ideas on how much the damages cost is going to be?

Yike, prepare to pay an arm and a leg. At my dad's second wedding, I somehow lost a button off my tux. It was $200 to replace the button.. Two hundred fawking dollars to replace a button. outrageous.
Dempublicents1
09-04-2007, 22:23
Yike, prepare to pay an arm and a leg. At my dad's second wedding, I somehow lost a button off my tux. It was $200 to replace the button.. Two hundred fawking dollars to replace a button. outrageous.

Ouch! Maybe I should just wrap my husband-to-be in bubble wrap.

What do they expect when you rent a tux to eat, drink, and dance half the night away?
Dempublicents1
09-04-2007, 23:03
My recommendation: Don't get married :p

Bleh. =)

Seriously, Everyone I know that has gotten married has put their dress in some sort of protective casing or whatever, as far as keeping it clean at the wedding..Um...be super careful. I'd almost suggest not wearing it after the actual ceremony, like at the reception.

The ceremony is so relatively short, though. My aunt spent so much hard work on it - I'd like to really show it off. She even had to research how to bustle it so that we don't lose the detail on the train.

I'm not going near the chocolate fountain, of course, but I'm not going to be so worried about getting it dirty that I don't have fun. That's why I'm looking for a good cleaner and preservation. I did find this place online:
http://www.wedclean.net/services.php

They sound like they know what they're doing, but how would I know?
Philosopy
09-04-2007, 23:08
I'd almost suggest not wearing it after the actual ceremony, like at the reception.

Not wearing it for most of your wedding day would certainly keep it clean, but would kinda defeat the purpose of having it in the first place. :p
Law Abiding Criminals
10-04-2007, 21:15
Just take as many precautions as you can. On my wedding day, my wife wore her dress from the ceremony onward, and the reception dinner was an Italian buffet, which is just asking for sauce stains. She wore her napkin as a bib while she was eating, and she had no trouble. (I didn't have any such problem; my tux had a black jacket and a red vest and necktie, so very little white was exposed.)

By all means, wear it and get it preserved when you can by whatever means you choose. Don't just stuff it in a closet if you want to preserve it, though. Preserve it sometime.
Whereyouthinkyougoing
10-04-2007, 22:06
I did find this place online:
http://www.wedclean.net/services.php

They sound like they know what they're doing, but how would I know?
Oh, that place sounds really good.

My sister gave her wedding dress to her normal dry cleaners, it didn't even have any stains, just normal "wear&tear", and they still managed give it back with the seam still dirty and more than 3/4 of the little buttons on the back missing - and she only ever got back like a handful of them in a little plastic baggy.

Boy, was she mad.

So yeah, definitely go with the pros, especially when you have such a special dress.
Imperial isa
10-04-2007, 22:13
So yeah, definitely go with the pros, especially when you have such a special dress.

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