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I've had it with my family. Right now they've been pissing me of more than ever. I just have an urge to walk out of the door and not come back. Here's the situation.

Currently I'm ill with the flu so I'm sitting here feeling like crap. Even though I feel sick I've still managed to clean the house and sort out lunch for my brother and sister, then going to bed for a while. My mum comes in from shopping and the first thing she does....She complains. Why is the house a mess?! Why is this here? She just had a go at me for not putting the rubbish out correctly and then saying "Even you can't be that stupid."

I'm now actually counting down the days until I move out (roll on September) because I seriously have had it. I work as hard as my parents and pay for my own way and they complain when I do that. So when I , on the rare occurence ask to borrow some money, they moan about how I should fend for myself.

Keep me sane NSG before I actually rip someones head off.

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I've had it with my family. Right now they've been pissing me of more than ever. I just have an urge to walk out of the door and not come back. Here's the situation.

Currently I'm ill with the flu so I'm sitting here feeling like crap. Even though I feel sick I've still managed to clean the house and sort out lunch for my brother and sister, then going to bed for a while. My mum comes in from shopping and the first thing she does....She complains. Why is the house a mess?! Why is this here? She just had a go at me for not putting the rubbish out correctly and then saying "Even you can't be that stupid."

I'm now actually counting down the days until I move out (roll on September) because I seriously have had it. I work as hard as my parents and pay for my own way and they complain when I do that. So when I , on the rare occurence ask to borrow some money, they moan about how I should fend for myself.

Keep me sane NSG before I actually rip someones head off.

Deeeeep breath! Do you do your lammas?

Ok, go away and never meet them again.

When they turn old, go back home and spit on their faces, saying "I hope you die a gruesome death quite soon".

Why? Because they complained about garbage.

You'll be gone soon...although you could always go out of the way to show them what they'll lack without you around. Quit cleaning, pack no more lunches and shrug when your mom gripes at you. Give them a week or two of that, then get back to your old ways. That'll teach 'em.

How old are you?

Ok, go away and never meet them again.

When they turn old, go back home and spit on their faces, saying "I hope you die a gruesome death quite soon".

Why? Because they complained about garbage.

Thats just one point in a whole load of them. They hate everything I do and I mean everything.
"Why couldn't you get a better job?"

"Why aren't you doing this subject?"

"Why couldn't you get a better girlfriend?"

"Why aren't you like your brother?"

I want to move outta my parents house too!!!!111 :eek:

You'll be gone soon...although you could always go out of the way to show them what they'll lack without you around. Quit cleaning, pack no more lunches and shrug when your mom gripes at you. Give them a week or two of that, then get back to your old ways. That'll teach 'em.

I could do that as I do make my brothers and sisters lunches for school. I could also quit taking them to park or stop cleaning he house when they're not here.

How old are you?
18

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I've had it with my family. Right now they've been pissing me of more than ever. I just have an urge to walk out of the door and not come back. Here's the situation.

Currently I'm ill with the flu so I'm sitting here feeling like crap. Even though I feel sick I've still managed to clean the house and sort out lunch for my brother and sister, then going to bed for a while. My mum comes in from shopping and the first thing she does....She complains. Why is the house a mess?! Why is this here? She just had a go at me for not putting the rubbish out correctly and then saying "Even you can't be that stupid."

I'm now actually counting down the days until I move out (roll on September) because I seriously have had it. I work as hard as my parents and pay for my own way and they complain when I do that. So when I , on the rare occurence ask to borrow some money, they moan about how I should fend for myself.

Keep me sane NSG before I actually rip someones head off.
:fluffle: Only 5 more months to go.

:fluffle:

hey, why can't I get some of that?

hey, why can't I get some of that?Because you don't live at home with a family who doesn't appreciate you but instead keeps nagging and complaining and whatever you do is never good enough?

Seems like you should tell us that you 'are hardcore' like that Brandon Vedas fella! ;)

I'm Hardcore!:p

:fluffle: Only 5 more months to go.

:fluffle:5 months. Seriously I can't wait to get out and live life how I want to not how I'm told to.

Because you don't live at home with a family who doesn't appreciate you but instead keeps nagging and complaining and whatever you do is never good enough?

been there, done that. There's a reason my father and I don't speak.

But more to point, I have a cat with a bad attitude, does that count?

Apart from the overdosing.... Yeah!:eek: :p

18

Tell them to bugger off then.

Tell them to bugger off then.

Oh you wouldn't believe how many times I've done that or just stormed out of the house and stayed at a friends. But I can't as I'm ill :(

Oh you wouldn't believe how many times I've done that or just stormed out of the house and stayed at a friends. But I can't as I'm ill :(

So heres a question, you say that you can't wait until you move out.

You're 18, so whats the problem, why not just move out?

So heres a question, you say that you can't wait until you move out.

You're 18, so whats the problem, why not just move out?

You see lack of money. In Spetember I'm of to university far away from this place.

Keep me sane NSG before I actually rip someones head off.
:eek:

Listen here, Hoss; I'd be thinkin' one of us two has completely missed the point of NSG. If ya should feel compelled to disagree with me then, shucks, I'd be guessin' we should be a-settlin' our differences out there in the town square at high noon. Just me, you, and a six shooter each. OK, pardner?
Deeeeep breath! Do you do your lammas?
For heavens sake, it's spelled Llamas!

:p
Thats just one point in a whole load of them. They hate everything I do and I mean everything.
"Why couldn't you get a better job?"

"Why aren't you doing this subject?"

"Why couldn't you get a better girlfriend?"

"Why aren't you like your brother?"
You should ask them - "Why aren't you on NSG?!"

And not worry, it's not long before you can be moving out :)
hey, why can't I get some of that?
Aaaw, you poor thing :fluffle:

these little annoyances are natures way of preparing you to leave home without looking back.

just keep the day marked on your calendar and hope that you can keep your cool until the day you leave. try your best not to get into fights with your parents. they can escalate into fights so bad that it will cause hurt feelings for many years.

ignore everything you can ignore and just do your best to prepare yourself for the future. college will be the best time of your life (at least so far)

Aaaw, you poor thing :fluffle:

This is not as I had anticipated.

:eek:

Listen here, Hoss; I'd be thinkin' one of us two has completely missed the point of NSG. If ya should feel compelled to disagree with me then, shucks, I'd be guessin' we should be a-settlin' our differences out there in the town square at high noon. Just me, you, and a six shooter each. OK, pardner?

For heavens sake, it's spelled Llamas!

:p

You should ask them - "Why aren't you on NSG?!"

And not worry, it's not long before you can be moving out :)

Aaaw, you poor thing :fluffle:

Hmm if I showed them NSG I wonder if they would mellow or call the police :p

Well just as long as your not going to UCLAN, we have enough 18 year old loser students just let off the apron strings, getting drunk and swearing to loud in the pubs because their mother's can't hear them. Go somewhere down south - they love your type.


I wouldn't go to Lancashire full of Northerners......:p

these little annoyances are natures way of preparing you to leave home without looking back.

just keep the day marked on your calendar and hope that you can keep your cool until the day you leave. try your best not to get into fights with your parents. they can escalate into fights so bad that it will cause hurt feelings for many years.

ignore everything you can ignore and just do your best to prepare yourself for the future. college will be the best time of your life (at least so far)


I tell myself they're doing it to protect me and prepare me but they could take a break when I'm ill at least.

This is not as I had anticipated.
Your loss. Gravlen is an excellent kisser.

I feel you, Londim. My parents never thought I did anything good enough, even when it was up to, or surpassed, their standards. :rolleyes:

This is not as I had anticipated.

Oops, sorry about that...

*Tries to wipe up slobber*

*Fails*

Oops again! ;)

I tell myself they're doing it to protect me and prepare me but they could take a break when I'm ill at least.

no kidding! they seem just a TAD self centered. it doesnt sound very protective to me.

Hmm if I showed them NSG I wonder if they would mellow or call the police :p
Maybe both? :)

Your loss. Gravlen is an excellent kisser.
;) http://www.freesmileys.org/emo/love040.gif

However, it takes two to tango... I guess Arthais101 just wasn't in the mood despite the signals he was sending :p

Currently I'm ill with the flu so I'm sitting here feeling like crap. Even though I feel sick I've still managed to clean the house and sort out lunch for my brother and sister, then going to bed for a while. My mum comes in from shopping and the first thing she does....She complains. Why is the house a mess?! Why is this here? She just had a go at me for not putting the rubbish out correctly and then saying "Even you can't be that stupid".

If it's any help I always figured that if you were damned if you do, and damned if you don't, it was easier to be damned for doing nothing.

Thats just one point in a whole load of them. They hate everything I do and I mean everything.
"Why couldn't you get a better job?"

"Why aren't you doing this subject?"

"Why couldn't you get a better girlfriend?"

"Why aren't you like your brother?"

Boy, you really dont know what hate means.

Dont worry, life will teach you.

I find it so amazing that teenagers can use the word hate in such a carefree way. They know shit about hate.

Boy, you really dont know what hate means.

Dont worry, life will teach you.

I find it so amazing that teenagers can use the word hate in such a carefree way. They know shit about hate.

Yes course we all know shit about hate:rolleyes: We haven't had our experiences in life that have changed us completely like everyone else. If you've been beaten and had to be hospitalized because of your skin colour then we'll talk about hate.

Yes course we all know shit about hate:rolleyes: We haven't had our experiences in life that have changed us completely like everyone else. If you've been beaten and had to be hospitalized because of your skin colour then we'll talk about hate.

So you hate your parents as much as the guy that hit you?

just think yourself lucky they have not driven you near to the point that you want to kill them
been near that point three times

:mad:

I've had it with my family. Right now they've been pissing me of more than ever. I just have an urge to walk out of the door and not come back. Here's the situation.

Currently I'm ill with the flu so I'm sitting here feeling like crap. Even though I feel sick I've still managed to clean the house and sort out lunch for my brother and sister, then going to bed for a while. My mum comes in from shopping and the first thing she does....She complains. Why is the house a mess?! Why is this here? She just had a go at me for not putting the rubbish out correctly and then saying "Even you can't be that stupid."

I'm now actually counting down the days until I move out (roll on September) because I seriously have had it. I work as hard as my parents and pay for my own way and they complain when I do that. So when I , on the rare occurence ask to borrow some money, they moan about how I should fend for myself.

Keep me sane NSG before I actually rip someones head off.

Cheer up, emo kid.

Teenagers! Tired of being harassed by your stupid parents?
ACT NOW!
Move Out, Get a job and start paying your own bills while you still know everything.

OK, I'm a teenager so it's a tad hypocritical, but still funny :)

This seems like a simple problem to solve (as in determining the necessary steps - I'm not going to speculate on the ease of actually carrying them out). Break off contact at the earliest opportunity. If they care, they'll re-establish it, if not, you'll know you've done the right thing.

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I've had it with my family. Right now they've been pissing me of more than ever. I just have an urge to walk out of the door and not come back. Here's the situation.

Currently I'm ill with the flu so I'm sitting here feeling like crap. Even though I feel sick I've still managed to clean the house and sort out lunch for my brother and sister, then going to bed for a while. My mum comes in from shopping and the first thing she does....She complains. Why is the house a mess?! Why is this here? She just had a go at me for not putting the rubbish out correctly and then saying "Even you can't be that stupid."

I'm now actually counting down the days until I move out (roll on September) because I seriously have had it. I work as hard as my parents and pay for my own way and they complain when I do that. So when I , on the rare occurence ask to borrow some money, they moan about how I should fend for myself.

Keep me sane NSG before I actually rip someones head off.

Do you love your parents?
Do they love you?

If the answer to both of these questions is yes, then deal with it. They probably won't ever change. More than likely they're nagging because (at least in their eyes) they think it will motivate you to do better.

Oh and just to nitpick at your statement.
You say you cleaned up, yet your mum still thought the place was a mess. Maybe she thought you could have done a better job of it?
You pay your own way, yet on occasion still have to ask to borrow money. They know they won't always be there, maybe they worry about you being dependent on them and being prepared.

Or they're just sadistic SOBs.

So you hate your parents as much as the guy that hit you?

I did not say anywhere I hate my parents. I'm mad and annoyed with them yes but I don't hate them.

Cheer up, emo kid.

Yes Sir!

Teenagers! Tired of being harassed by your stupid parents?
ACT NOW!
Move Out, Get a job and start paying your own bills while you still know everything.

OK, I'm a teenager so it's a tad hypocritical, but still funny :)

Damn Hypocrites :p

And yes I do pay some of my own bills, such as phone and keep.

Do you love your parents?
Do they love you?

If the answer to both of these questions is yes, then deal with it. They probably won't ever change. More than likely they're nagging because (at least in their eyes) they think it will motivate you to do better.

Oh and just to nitpick at your statement.
You say you cleaned up, yet your mum still thought the place was a mess. Maybe she thought you could have done a better job of it?
You pay your own way, yet on occasion still have to ask to borrow money. They know they won't always be there, maybe they worry about you being dependent on them and being prepared.

Or they're just sadistic SOBs.

I haven't been that dependent on for money for a long time. Last time I borrowed money from them was last year.

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I've had it with my family. Right now they've been pissing me of more than ever. I just have an urge to walk out of the door and not come back. Here's the situation.

Currently I'm ill with the flu so I'm sitting here feeling like crap. Even though I feel sick I've still managed to clean the house and sort out lunch for my brother and sister, then going to bed for a while. My mum comes in from shopping and the first thing she does....She complains. Why is the house a mess?! Why is this here? She just had a go at me for not putting the rubbish out correctly and then saying "Even you can't be that stupid."

I'm now actually counting down the days until I move out (roll on September) because I seriously have had it. I work as hard as my parents and pay for my own way and they complain when I do that. So when I , on the rare occurence ask to borrow some money, they moan about how I should fend for myself.

Keep me sane NSG before I actually rip someones head off.

Deep breaths and patience, grasshopper. Be glad you're moving out in September, and never look back when you do.

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I've had it with my family. Right now they've been pissing me of more than ever. I just have an urge to walk out of the door and not come back. Here's the situation.

Currently I'm ill with the flu so I'm sitting here feeling like crap. Even though I feel sick I've still managed to clean the house and sort out lunch for my brother and sister, then going to bed for a while. My mum comes in from shopping and the first thing she does....She complains. Why is the house a mess?! Why is this here? She just had a go at me for not putting the rubbish out correctly and then saying "Even you can't be that stupid."

I'm now actually counting down the days until I move out (roll on September) because I seriously have had it. I work as hard as my parents and pay for my own way and they complain when I do that. So when I , on the rare occurence ask to borrow some money, they moan about how I should fend for myself.

Keep me sane NSG before I actually rip someones head off.

Chill, man. I find that thses things come and go, athough my mom is almost exactly like that.

Chill, man. I find that thses things come and go, athough my mom is almost exactly like that.

It must be nice only having to deal with it every now and then. But you see, this is a daily occurrence for some.

It must be nice only having to deal with it every now and then. But you see, this is a daily occurrence for some.

I see. I just vent my insanity in a "happy place" (i.e. my bedroom)

I see. I just vent my insanity in a "happy place" (i.e. my bedroom)

I vent my insanity on NSG. Nothing like being around other insane people to get you back to normal. Right?
...right? :mad: RIIIGHT?!

*removed in straight jacket*

I vent my insanity on NSG. Nothing like being around other insane people to get you back to normal. Right?
...right? :mad: RIIIGHT?!

*removed in straight jacket*

Right. (smiles and nods vigorously) :p