NationStates Jolt Archive


Tolerance?

Anti-Social Darwinism
14-02-2007, 08:53
http://news.yahoo.com/comics/9chickweedlane;_ylt=AvQeRzB42peyRITZkBcT4mjdcLQF

So, who do you tolerate?
Delator
14-02-2007, 09:07
http://news.yahoo.com/comics/9chickweedlane;_ylt=AvQeRzB42peyRITZkBcT4mjdcLQF

So, who do you tolerate?

I tolerate elderly drivers....but only because there is no way to counter their political influence via the AARP and revoke their licenses.

...everyone else is cool. :cool:
United Beleriand
14-02-2007, 10:28
So, who do you tolerate?No one. Either I accept something/-one or I don't.
No paradise
14-02-2007, 10:32
http://news.yahoo.com/comics/9chickweedlane;_ylt=AvQeRzB42peyRITZkBcT4mjdcLQF

So, who do you tolerate?

People who tolerate me.
Smunkeeville
14-02-2007, 15:48
I tolerate everyone......

tolerate-put up with something or somebody unpleasant;

everyone is unpleasant to me today. :(
Ifreann
14-02-2007, 15:51
I tolerate everyone......

tolerate-put up with something or somebody unpleasant;

everyone is unpleasant to me today. :(

Stop tolerating me!
*acts intolerable*
:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:
Kanabia
14-02-2007, 15:54
So, who do you tolerate?

Anyone/anything that doesn't irritate me in some way.

:p
Khadgar
14-02-2007, 15:56
I tolerate children, I tolerate bad drivers, I tolerate the stupid, I tolerate the religious fanatics because atheists aren't supposed to try to convert people.
Ifreann
14-02-2007, 15:57
I tolerate children, I tolerate bad drivers, I tolerate the stupid, I tolerate the religious fanatics because atheists aren't supposed to try to convert people.

Says who?
Smunkeeville
14-02-2007, 16:01
Anyone/anything that doesn't irritate me in some way.

:p

that's not very tolerant of you.
Cabra West
14-02-2007, 16:02
I tolerate everyone......

tolerate-put up with something or somebody unpleasant;

everyone is unpleasant to me today. :(

*offers chocolate and sex

Come on, it's not all bad. A world that has NSG can't be all bad :D
Kanabia
14-02-2007, 16:03
that's not very tolerant of you.

I didn't claim to be. ;)

(in seriousness...i'm willing to tolerate just about anything that doesn't cause harm to another...there are some exceptions, however, that simply irritate me a great deal.)
Smunkeeville
14-02-2007, 16:09
*offers chocolate and sex

Come on, it's not all bad. A world that has NSG can't be all bad :D
*accepts chocolate*

can't have any sex until later.......somebody went to work today.



I didn't claim to be. ;)

(in seriousness...i'm willing to tolerate just about anything that doesn't cause harm to another...there are some exceptions, however, that simply irritate me a great deal.)

there are a ton of people who irritate me to no end...I am legally forced to tolerate them though :(
Cabra West
14-02-2007, 16:11
*accepts chocolate*

can't have any sex until later.......somebody went to work today.


Well, kick him for not respecting your religion. And THEN have sex with him :D
Kryozerkia
14-02-2007, 16:13
I'm tolerant when it doesn't piss me off.
Ifreann
14-02-2007, 16:13
*accepts chocolate*

can't have any sex until later.......somebody went to work today.

Suprise him by showing up in his place of work in a thong and little else.


You know you've been on NS too long when: You know Mr. Smunk likes whale tail.

:(
I swear, I'm not stalking the Smunk Family
Infinite Revolution
14-02-2007, 16:14
depends what you mean by tolerate. i tolerate everyone and everything in that i don't shout at them and generally put up with unpleasantness. but then i tend to try to maintain a distance from people who smell really bad. and i don't engage in conversation with people who annoy me.
Smunkeeville
14-02-2007, 16:14
Well, kick him for not respecting your religion. And THEN have sex with him :D
kinky!:D

Suprise him by showing up in his place of work in a thong and little else.


You know you've been on NS too long when: You know Mr. Smunk likes whale tail.

:(
I swear, I'm not stalking the Smunk Family

uh.....I don't know where you got this information, but it's not true.
Dharmalaya
14-02-2007, 16:17
Stop tolerating me!
*acts intolerable*
:fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

Damn, that is intolerable! :D
Ifreann
14-02-2007, 16:17
uh.....I don't know where you got this information, but it's not true.

Maybe someone else said it, I have a shitty memory, despite being only 19.
Smunkeeville
14-02-2007, 16:23
Maybe someone else said it, I have a shitty memory, despite being only 19.

could be....
Utracia
14-02-2007, 16:25
People who make a little laugh after they ask a question.

"Can I have a little money? Hehe."




..............



Remember, Utracia. don't let the laugh irritate you. Breathe. Tolerance.
Ifreann
14-02-2007, 16:32
could be....

Chances are you posted before or after whoever said it, and my brain decided it was you.
Smunkeeville
14-02-2007, 16:32
Chances are you posted before or after whoever said it, and my brain decided it was you.

I was gonna say......I know what he likes, and it doesn't involve me being uncomfortable.
Ifreann
14-02-2007, 16:40
I was gonna say......I know what he likes, and it doesn't involve me being uncomfortable.

Whatever. My point was, show up at his place of work and sex him silly. That'll make for a good Valentines present.
Khadgar
14-02-2007, 16:46
Says who?

Because it bugs the hell out of me when they try to convert me and it'd be hypocritical to try and convert them.
Smunkeeville
14-02-2007, 16:47
Whatever. My point was, show up at his place of work and sex him silly. That'll make for a good Valentines present.

I might.....I have to finish baking his cake.
Ifreann
14-02-2007, 16:52
Because it bugs the hell out of me when they try to convert me and it'd be hypocritical to try and convert them.
Ah, very good.
I might.....I have to finish baking his cake.
Awesome, cake and sex.

I wish I had a wife :(
Cabra West
14-02-2007, 16:53
I might.....I have to finish baking his cake.

You start sounding like me now... that's slightly scary! :eek:
Kanabia
14-02-2007, 16:54
there are a ton of people who irritate me to no end...I am legally forced to tolerate them though :(

Naww. You have every right to tell them that their beliefs or actions (or possibly inactions) are wrong as long as you do it in a civilised manner. :)
Smunkeeville
14-02-2007, 16:56
Naww. You have every right to tell them that their beliefs or actions (or possibly inactions) are wrong as long as you do it in a civilised manner. :)

is calling someone a fuckface civilized?

just curious, I want to follow the rules.
Cabra West
14-02-2007, 16:57
is calling someone a fuckface civilized?

just curious, I want to follow the rules.

Depends what civilisation we're talking about :D
Kanabia
14-02-2007, 16:59
is calling someone a fuckface civilized?

just curious, I want to follow the rules.

Well...not really...but feel free! I'll probably use it one day anyway. :)

But if someone has called you a fuckface, you've got every right to an uncivilized retort. ;)
Kanabia
14-02-2007, 16:59
Depends what civilisation we're talking about :D

Hehe. :D
Ifreann
14-02-2007, 16:59
is calling someone a fuckface civilized?

just curious, I want to follow the rules.

As long as you phrase it something like: "Excuse me sir. I mean no offense, but you're quite the fuckface. "
Utracia
14-02-2007, 17:01
Well...not really...but feel free! I'll probably use it one day anyway. :)

But if someone has called you a fuckface, you've got every right to an uncivilized retort. ;)

People are calling each other fuckface? Clearly I am missing something fun. :(
Drunk commies deleted
14-02-2007, 17:02
I tolerate the continued existence of humans, though only barely.
Smunkeeville
14-02-2007, 17:05
Well...not really...but feel free! I'll probably use it one day anyway. :)

But if someone has called you a fuckface, you've got every right to an uncivilized retort. ;)

actually they did call me that.

"Listen, you fuckface whore, I am going to call the police on you for harassment, I hope you die and rot in hell, you stupid bitch"

:eek:

idiot.

I totally recorded the phone call.
Cabra West
14-02-2007, 17:07
actually they did call me that.

"Listen, you fuckface whore, I am going to call the police on you for harassment, I hope you die and rot in hell, you stupid bitch"

:eek:

idiot.

I totally recorded the phone call.

I'm curious... I want to hear the whole story behind that, please.
Celtlund
14-02-2007, 17:10
I tolerate elderly drivers....but only because there is no way to counter their political influence via the AARP and revoke their licenses.

...everyone else is cool. :cool:

I tolerate those young pup drivers who weave in and out of traffic cutting people off while speeding. :eek: Oh, and I won't join AARP because of the political party they support. They shouldn't support any political party.
Kanabia
14-02-2007, 17:11
I totally recorded the phone call.

How do you do that? Or was it an answering machine message?
Ifreann
14-02-2007, 17:12
actually they did call me that.

"Listen, you fuckface whore, I am going to call the police on you for harassment, I hope you die and rot in hell, you stupid bitch"

:eek:

idiot.

I totally recorded the phone call.

There are a lot of people who are less than fond of you. That must suck.
Kanabia
14-02-2007, 17:15
There are a lot of people who are less than fond of you. That must suck.

Hey, at least with enemies, you know where you stand. Friends, on the other hand, can turn on you. ;)
Ifreann
14-02-2007, 17:16
Hey, at least with enemies, you know where you stand. Friends, on the other hand, can turn on you. ;)

And neutrals. They disgust me with their....neutrality.
Kanabia
14-02-2007, 17:20
And neutrals. They disgust me with their....neutrality.

:D

"All I know is my gut says maybe"
Celtlund
14-02-2007, 17:20
everyone is unpleasant to me today. :(

Here, you need this...:fluffle:
Smunkeeville
14-02-2007, 17:25
I'm curious... I want to hear the whole story behind that, please.

I have a client, who did not pay their fee to me 2005, so I wrote them a letter every quarter explaining that they need to pay the bill. I sent them a bill every month, as I do everyone who has an outstanding balance. They called me yesterday and left a message (I was out) that they wanted me to do their taxes this year, I called them back and said that they were no longer clients of mine and that I would be happy to recommend another person who can do their taxes.

They said "if you want your money you have to do our taxes", and I explained to them that they owe me the money whether I do their taxes or not, and that as per my policy (that they signed) I will send any outstanding balances from 2005 to collections after the first quarter of 2007. They said that they would pay the bill in full out of their refund if I do their taxes. I explained again, that I am no longer interested in having anything to do with them, and that I would recommend someone who could do their taxes.

and they said "Listen, you fuckface whore, I am going to call the police on you for harassment, I hope you die and rot in hell, you stupid bitch"

and they hung up.

Then they called back and asked about setting up a payment plan, and I said that if they wanted to, I would meet with them and they could sign a payment plan and that as long as they had the bill paid by the end of the quarter it would not go to collections. They then threatened me again, so I called the police.

How do you do that? Or was it an answering machine message?
All of my phone calls on my business line are recorded, it runs through my computer, when you call the machine answers and says that I am currently on the line and that the call will be recorded, after that I answer, and the call is recorded. I do this because people are assholes and it's easier to trap them in their lies when I have it recorded.

There are a lot of people who are less than fond of you. That must suck.

it does. I used to think I was a nice person, but apparently I am not.
Celtlund
14-02-2007, 17:31
I have a client, who did not pay their fee to me 2005, SNIP

Contact Judge Judy and take them to court on her show. You will win the case and Judge Judy will show them what assholes they really are on national Tv. :D
Rubiconic Crossings
14-02-2007, 17:45
I have a client, who did not pay their fee to me 2005, so I wrote them a letter every quarter explaining that they need to pay the bill. I sent them a bill every month, as I do everyone who has an outstanding balance. They called me yesterday and left a message (I was out) that they wanted me to do their taxes this year, I called them back and said that they were no longer clients of mine and that I would be happy to recommend another person who can do their taxes.

They said "if you want your money you have to do our taxes", and I explained to them that they owe me the money whether I do their taxes or not, and that as per my policy (that they signed) I will send any outstanding balances from 2005 to collections after the first quarter of 2007. They said that they would pay the bill in full out of their refund if I do their taxes. I explained again, that I am no longer interested in having anything to do with them, and that I would recommend someone who could do their taxes.

and they said "Listen, you fuckface whore, I am going to call the police on you for harassment, I hope you die and rot in hell, you stupid bitch"

and they hung up.

Then they called back and asked about setting up a payment plan, and I said that if they wanted to, I would meet with them and they could sign a payment plan and that as long as they had the bill paid by the end of the quarter it would not go to collections. They then threatened me again, so I called the police.


All of my phone calls on my business line are recorded, it runs through my computer, when you call the machine answers and says that I am currently on the line and that the call will be recorded, after that I answer, and the call is recorded. I do this because people are assholes and it's easier to trap them in their lies when I have it recorded.



it does. I used to think I was a nice person, but apparently I am not.

That is disgusting. No one should tolerate people like that.

When I am consulting I have a 30 day payment term in my contract and terms and conditions. If it is not paid within the 30 days there is a 30 day extension. If I still have not received funds I start court proceedings. Never fails.

You are completely in the right here Smunkeeville. In fact I'd say you have been overly tolerant of the non-payment.

You have done the right thing in recording the message and taking it to the police. I suspect that they can charge these people with harassment and is there not a wire law regarding profanity in the US?? (can't really remember)...

Nail these people. Then have nothing to do with them. Always be professional about it (which by the sounds of things you are doing...kudos!)
Smunkeeville
14-02-2007, 17:55
That is disgusting. No one should tolerate people like that.

When I am consulting I have a 30 day payment term in my contract and terms and conditions. If it is not paid within the 30 days there is a 30 day extension. If I still have not received funds I start court proceedings. Never fails.

You are completely in the right here Smunkeeville. In fact I'd say you have been overly tolerant of the non-payment.

You have done the right thing in recording the message and taking it to the police. I suspect that they can charge these people with harassment and is there not a wire law regarding profanity in the US?? (can't really remember)...

Nail these people. Then have nothing to do with them. Always be professional about it (which by the sounds of things you are doing...kudos!)

I would be in court all day everyday. :(
Rubiconic Crossings
14-02-2007, 18:00
I would be in court all day everyday. :(

I find that just the threat of 'you will be hearing from my solicitors' enough of a threat to get paid...

Then again I don't usually have problems with non payment.

I assume you are a one person company like me...people don't realise how a non payment can really affect your business.

Still there is no excuse for these people to behave like that.

I hope it works out to you satisfaction...
Smunkeeville
14-02-2007, 18:03
I find that just the threat of 'you will be hearing from my solicitors' enough of a threat to get paid...

Then again I don't usually have problems with non payment.

I assume you are a one person company like me...people don't realise how a non payment can really affect your business.

Still there is no excuse for these people to behave like that.

I hope it works out to you satisfaction...

I am a one person business. What makes it worse, is because of the nature of my business I know who can pay and who can't. They can pay, they just don't want to. I have been trying to set up a payment plan with them for a year, if they paid just a little every month, they would have paid me off long ago.
Rubiconic Crossings
14-02-2007, 18:08
I am a one person business. What makes it worse, is because of the nature of my business I know who can pay and who can't. They can pay, they just don't want to. I have been trying to set up a payment plan with them for a year, if they paid just a little every month, they would have paid me off long ago.

Its funny...it seems that the richer people are the less they want to pay for services.

I know not all are like that but enough for this kind of crap to be noticeable.

The really annoying thing is that one cannot talk about it to others in the community as confidentiality is so important...in your and my lines of work.

Well...good luck! I hope you nail the deadbeats...
Kanabia
14-02-2007, 18:12
All of my phone calls on my business line are recorded, it runs through my computer, when you call the machine answers and says that I am currently on the line and that the call will be recorded, after that I answer, and the call is recorded. I do this because people are assholes and it's easier to trap them in their lies when I have it recorded.

Oh, I see. That's even more foolish of that person to make such a comment after they heard that they were being recorded. I don't even think that even deserves an uncivilized response in return. :P

Ahhh, customer service. I've been called some nasty things by members of the public I was actually trying to help (or at least, like in your situation, remaining civil) as well, so take heart in the fact that these people are probably pricks to everyone rather than singling you out. Don't let 'em bother you. :)
Rubiconic Crossings
14-02-2007, 18:26
Oh, I see. That's even more foolish of that person to make such a comment after they heard that they were being recorded. I don't even think that even deserves an uncivilized response in return. :P

Ahhh, customer service. I've been called some nasty things by members of the public I was actually trying to help (or at least, like in your situation, remaining civil) as well, so take heart in the fact that these people are probably pricks to everyone rather than singling you out. Don't let 'em bother you. :)

Yeah. I admit I have ranted when dealing with customer services...but not at the actual agent...never...having been there myself. I do rant at the systems that the agents have to deal with. The hoops these systems or procedures make you go through are insane...