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Let's presume you are a man in his late 40's and you are surfing the porn sites on the internet. You come upon one site, and there are pictures of your 19 year old daughter. Would that cure you from looking at porn? What would you do? What would you say to your daughter?

This happened to you, didn't it?

"Cure"? It's not a disease or any sort of situation that needs rectification.

Oh, and finding my daughter would imply I'd be looking at girls. Why the hell would I be doing that?

This requires a fairly large leap, because I'm neither 40, nor male (I think?), nor look at porn, nor have a daughter.

However, as an academic exercise, and assuming the >40-year-old paternal porn-watching male still retains my personality and beliefs:

a) She's 19 and old enough to know what she's doing, so it's really not my business.

b) As I've seen my hypothetical children naked from before birth, it wouldn't have much effect on me, so I wouldn't watch it as porn anyway. I'd continue looking at porn, just not of her, this assuming I was interested in porn at all by that age.

Of course, if I actually were to have children, my beliefs and opinions about them would doubtlessly change radically so I'm not exactly qualified to answer.

Let's presume you are a man in his late 40's and you are surfing the porn sites on the internet. You come upon one site, and there are pictures of your 19 year old daughter. Would that cure you from looking at porn? What would you do? What would you say to your daughter?

You poor man..

EDIT: At least she's legal.. :p

Oh, and finding my daughter would imply I'd be looking at girls. Why the hell would I be doing that?

follow up question - how did you wind up with a daughter anyways? did you slip once or something?

Ask her which sites you shouldn't visit when looking for porn. :D

Then again, shouldn't you be worrying about her finding your pics?

That said, this thread is useless without pictures of said daughter!

follow up question - how did you wind up with a daughter anyways? did you slip once or something?

I'm not sterile, you know, and inserting some semen into a vagina connected to a uterus isn't that monumental an accomplishment, either.

Then there's this thing called adoption where straight people give you the kids issued by their perversion they don't want to have? Neat, huh.

Would my 19 year old daughter be hot?

Is is lesbian or straight porn?

Both of these need answered before judgement can be passed ;)

I'd start asking her for rent money.

i DO have a 20 year old son...

if i found him in an online porn thing... straight or gay...


i would smack him upside the head and tell him to warn me next time.


geez who wants to see THAT?

Then there's this thing called adoption where straight people give you the kids issued by their perversion they don't want to have? Neat, huh.

:rolleyes:

i DO have a 20 year old son...
if i found him in an online porn thing... straight or gay...
i would smack him upside the head and tell him to warn me next time.


Then he'd know you watch gay porn.

i DO have a 20 year old son...

if i found him in an online porn thing... straight or gay...


i would smack him upside the head and tell him to warn me next time.


geez who wants to see THAT?


An overwhelming majority of no one.:headbang:

.....assuming I was interested in porn at all by that age.


Why wouldnt you be? 40 year olds like sex too, I imagine.

Then he'd know you watch gay porn.

and that would be HIS punishment for not warning me!

:rolleyes:

What?

Let's presume you are a man in his late 40's and you are surfing the porn sites on the internet. You come upon one site, and there are pictures of your 19 year old daughter. Would that cure you from looking at porn? What would you do? What would you say to your daughter?

... we would have a talk, a long and serious talk.

and that would be HIS punishment for not warning me!

I'd think it would be great if my mother watched gay porn, so I don't see the punishment in it. She, on the other hand, I imagine would be mortified.

i DO have a 20 year old son...

if i found him in an online porn thing... straight or gay...


i would smack him upside the head and tell him to warn me next time.


geez who wants to see THAT?I'd do the same. I mean, bloody hell.. It's not that the runt can't do porn if it wants, but there's a time & a place & all that. I'd expect the fucker to tell me where not to look in advance. Common curtesy & all that.

An overwhelming majority of no one.:headbang:

what does that mean? you think my son isnt good enough to be in online porn??

... we would have a talk, a long and serious talk.Desperate for all the latest gossip about pornstars, eh? ;)

I'd think it would be great if my mother watched gay porn, so I don't see the punishment in it. She, on the other hand, I imagine would be mortified.

my son pretends to be the ulitmate prude. just the other day he claimed to have no porn on his computer.

i just laughed.

doesnt everyone look at gay porn?

what does that mean? you think my son isnt good enough to be in online porn??

Postpix, kthnx so that I may be the judge of that.

What?

Perversion? Honestly...

Postpix, kthnx so that I may be the judge of that.I'll help. No, it's not an offer.doesnt everyone look at gay porn?Yups.

That said, this thread is useless without pictures of said daughter!

I agree. We needs moar sexy teenage daughter!

There's no such thing as a "cure" for watching pornography.
People watch porn because its something that turns them on.
So to cure ourselves of sexual feelings for the opposite/same sex is simply not possible.

Secondly, people will look at porn as long as its available. Unless you're completely obsessed with porn and its ruining your life, then theres really nothing wrong with it.

Oh, and with the daughter thing. She'd be a full-grown adult now, I can't control her anymore. I'd simply switch to another page.

Why wouldnt you be? 40 year olds like sex too, I imagine.

Yes, but when we're young we think "OMG by 40 you must be practically dead!"

Then we turn 40 and find out that we're doing even better than we were at 20... and it goes on until we get into our 70s and can sit on the rocking chairs on the patio making cynical remarks and playing the guitar and reminiscing about the good old days.

You know how it goes.

Desperate for all the latest gossip about pornstars, eh? ;)

NOT!!! yet

my son pretends to be the ulitmate prude. just the other day he claimed to have no porn on his computer.

i just laughed.

Such over-compensation. You should devise an exquisitely elaborate trap to catch him in the act. And, again, postpix.

doesnt everyone look at gay porn?

I ask myself the very same thing.

There's no such thing as a "cure" for watching pornography.
People watch porn because its something that turns them on.
So to cure ourselves of sexual feelings for the opposite/same sex is simply not possible.

Secondly, people will look at porn as long as its available. Unless you're completely obsessed with porn and its ruining your life, then theres really nothing wrong with it.

well, there are people addictied to sex...

I'd do the same. I mean, bloody hell.. It's not that the runt can't do porn if it wants, but there's a time & a place & all that. I'd expect the fucker to tell me where not to look in advance. Common curtesy & all that.

exactly.

once your kid is an adult he or she is free do to as they please. all i want is a little warning

"mom, you might want to delete that bookmark to nastygaystuff.com"

"oh mom, you might be seeing me on the evening news tonight"

"mom, i have a book coming out next week and the horrible mother in it might kinda resemble you a little bit"

Perversion? Honestly...

Yes, I was being honest. So?

my son pretends to be the ulitmate prude. just the other day he claimed to have no porn on his computer.
I don't have any porn on my computer. I never download it, I need that hard disk space for music.

Perversion? Honestly...

You mean....... men... actually have sex with... women?! and it's considered........ normal??!!?!

that's so disgusting!

Well said. I wouldn't do it if it wasn't perverted.

I don't have any porn on my computer. I never download it, I need that hard disk space for music.





qft.

Let's presume you are a man in his late 40's and you are surfing the porn sites on the internet. You come upon one site, and there are pictures of your 19 year old daughter. Would that cure you from looking at porn? What would you do? What would you say to your daughter?
I'd still look at porn. I'd probably not look at my daughters porn (I'd read erotica written by my kids) but I might just to take an interest in her work. I certainly wouldn't... uh... "you know" to my daughter's work... because that's just a little too ickey.

What would I do? Well I agree with the guy saying "charge rent". I'd probably find out her "porn star name" and make a point of avoiding her pictures on the net.

What would I say? I'd sit her down and have a frank discussion about sex, the dangers of sex and the pros and cons of sex for money. What exactly I say would be dependant on what the pictures were (sex, nudity, orientation, fetishes etc). Once I made sure she knew all the facts (because there's a hell of a lot of downsides some people don't think of, and a hell of a lot of people don't think of some of the upsides) I'd support whichever decision she made in regards to career choice.

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As two entire pages of posts were made in the time it took me to write that I have some things to add:

I also don't tend to bother downloading porn. Again, because I need the disk space for music. Stupid 60 gig harddrive.

What would I do? Well I agree with the guy saying "charge rent". I'd probably find out her "porn star name" and make a point of avoiding her pictures on the net.
what if it's just a webcast of her doing her boyfriend/Girlfriend?

so she's not being paid for it.

what if it's just a webcast of her doing her boyfriend/Girlfriend?

so she's not being paid for it.

Then we'd have to have a very, very serious talk. Really, I hope my parenting skills are better than that.

Let's presume you are a man in his late 40's and you are surfing the porn sites on the internet. You come upon one site, and there are pictures of your 19 year old daughter. Would that cure you from looking at porn? What would you do? What would you say to your daughter?

It wouldn't.
I'd try and get a chance to talk to her about it, and find out if that's what she wants to do or if she feels she has to do it for whatever reason (financial, personal, etc.)
Once I'm convinced she does it cause she wants to be doing it, I'll tell her to go on with it, but to be careful.
If she doesn't convince me, or if I find out she does it for financial reasons, I'll try and find a way to help her into another job that she really likes to do.

Let's presume you are a man in his late 40's and you are surfing the porn sites on the internet. You come upon one site, and there are pictures of your 19 year old daughter. Would that cure you from looking at porn? What would you do? What would you say to your daughter?

I'd say "Damn! She's got some nice curves!"

Unless she did not. Then I'd grimace.


As gross as that may sound, it's a part of me that I do not consider incest to be wrong (I would have sex with one or two of my sisters, a cousin, my mother, and my stepmother if the opportunity arose (lawl "rose") and they would be willing to do it), though I do think that there should be a lot of consideration with protection and pregnancy prevention and stuff because of the birth defects that babies produced by incest sometimes (often?) have. I do think it is possible to fall in love with a close relative (see Nietzsche, but then again, he was quite a crazy philosopher). I don't really know about them having kids or not, but I suppose it should be up to the two to decide.

Great, now I'm going to turn this into an incest debate. All in all, the sexual part of my politics is very strange, I guess.

Then we'd have to have a very, very serious talk. Really, I hope my parenting skills are better than that.

I just like how people assume she's being paid for it...

my son pretends to be the ulitmate prude. just the other day he claimed to have no porn on his computer.

i just laughed.

doesnt everyone look at gay porn?

Well, I definitely do. I wouldn't believe him either if I were you ;)

There's no such thing as a "cure" for watching pornography.
People watch porn because its something that turns them on.
So to cure ourselves of sexual feelings for the opposite/same sex is simply not possible.

Of course it is. You just need loads of electroshock therapy. You may have to accept a lot more of the individual's personality as collateral damage, but it is possible.

what if it's just a webcast of her doing her boyfriend/Girlfriend?

so she's not being paid for it.In that case, I'd offer to kill the guy/girl.

Then we'd have to have a very, very serious talk. Really, I hope my parenting skills are better than that.What.. People cybering/having phonesex/writing loveletters/whatever are the result of bad parenting?

Holy fuck mate.. I'm glad I wasn't raised by you. Sounds pretty fucking disturbed.

I'd say "Damn! She's got some nice curves!"

Unless she did not. Then I'd grimace.


As gross as that may sound, it's a part of me that I do not consider incest to be wrong (I would have sex with one or two of my sisters, a cousin, my mother, and my stepmother if the opportunity arose (lawl "rose") and they would be willing to do it), though I do think that there should be a lot of consideration with protection and pregnancy prevention and stuff because of the birth defects that babies produced by incest sometimes (often?) have. I do think it is possible to fall in love with a close relative (see Nietzsche, but then again, he was quite a crazy philosopher). I don't really know about them having kids or not, but I suppose it should be up to the two to decide.

Great, now I'm going to turn this into an incest debate. All in all, the sexual part of my politics is very strange, I guess.

You seriously would have sex with your mother?

I'm not sterile, you know, and inserting some semen into a vagina connected to a uterus isn't that monumental an accomplishment, either.

Then there's this thing called adoption where straight people give you the kids issued by their perversion they don't want to have? Neat, huh.

i'm just saying, you don't seem like the child-having type

I'd say "Damn! She's got some nice curves!"

Unless she did not. Then I'd grimace.


As gross as that may sound, it's a part of me that I do not consider incest to be wrong (I would have sex with one or two of my sisters, a cousin, my mother, and my stepmother if the opportunity arose (lawl "rose") and they would be willing to do it), though I do think that there should be a lot of consideration with protection and pregnancy prevention and stuff because of the birth defects that babies produced by incest sometimes (often?) have. I do think it is possible to fall in love with a close relative (see Nietzsche, but then again, he was quite a crazy philosopher). I don't really know about them having kids or not, but I suppose it should be up to the two to decide.

Great, now I'm going to turn this into an incest debate. All in all, the sexual part of my politics is very strange, I guess.

Nah, I totally agree with you Ucky. I'd get jiggy with yo momma too. ;)


Sorry, it had to be done.

Then we'd have to have a very, very serious talk. Really, I hope my parenting skills are better than that.

you mean talking about how its stupid to not charge for something like that?

Let's presume you are a man in his late 40's and you are surfing the porn sites on the internet. You come upon one site, and there are pictures of your 19 year old daughter. Would that cure you from looking at porn? What would you do? What would you say to your daughter?


Can we see these pictures? :D

What.. People cybering/having phonesex/writing loveletters/whatever are the result of bad parenting?


No, no, that's perfectly ok. I mean people making porn and not charging for it. At least get an agent if you don't want to bother with the details, geez!

Of course it is. You just need loads of electroshock therapy. You may have to accept a lot more of the individual's personality as collateral damage, but it is possible.

just becareful... the opposite result may occur.

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you mean talking about how its stupid to not charge for something like that?

If it's a hobby I guess it's alright. But chances are someone is making more than a couple of bucks down the line.

You seriously would have sex with your mother?

Who wouldn't have sex with UCK's mother? Or rather, who hasn't already? :p

You seriously would have sex with your mother?

do you really want to know the answer to that question?

Who wouldn't have sex with UCK's mother? Or rather, who hasn't already? :p

true. her legs are like a 7-11, they're open 24-7 :p

No, no, that's perfectly ok. I mean people making porn and not charging for it. At least get an agent if you don't want to bother with the details, geez!Oh! OK, on behalf of your present/future offspring, I'm much relieved :p

Still, some people get off on that sort of thing.

This happened to you, didn't it?

No. I had two boys and am 63 years old. It is a story I heard on the radio. The host was talking about porn and told the story.

I'd start asking her for rent money.

ROFLMAO. :p

Why wouldnt you be? 40 year olds like sex too, I imagine.

Well, I did at 40 and still do at 63. ;)

Of course it is. You just need loads of electroshock therapy. You may have to accept a lot more of the individual's personality as collateral damage, but it is possible.

Hmm... why can't we just use electroshock therapy for any addiction or mental problem we have then?

No. I had two boys and am 63 years old. It is a story I heard on the radio. The host was talking about porn and told the story.

You saw one of your sons in a porno, didn't you?

i'm just saying, you don't seem like the child-having type

And you don't seem a good judge of character.

well, there are people addictied to sex...

Ever see that commercial on TV that warns, "If you experience and erection for over 24 hours contact your doctor"? Contact my doctor hell. Find the nearest "house of ill repute." :D

And you don't seem a good judge of character.Not that you need my babyseal of approval, but if your online persona is anything to go by, I suspect you'd make a better parent than most.

Let's presume you are a man in his late 40's and you are surfing the porn sites on the internet. You come upon one site, and there are pictures of your 19 year old daughter. Would that cure you from looking at porn? What would you do? What would you say to your daughter?

Well, first, I'd ask her if she needs any help with finances, as I'd imagine any daughter of mine would only go into porn because she really needed money badly. If it turned out she was in it because she likes to be in the porn industry, I'd have no problem with it. I'd just ask her to please warn me what not to touch next time.

Ever see that commercial on TV that warns, "If you experience and erection for over 24 hours contact your doctor"? Contact my doctor hell. Find the nearest "house of ill repute." :D

"Doc, it's Celtlund"
"Yes?"
"The blue pill is working over time, I'm gonna need to make an appointment"
"I'm free if you want to come in now"
"No, I think it'd be better to get the STD test after the night in the brothel"
:D

Ever see that commercial on TV that warns, "If you experience and erection for over 24 hours contact your doctor"? Contact my doctor hell. Find the nearest "house of ill repute." :D

that reminds me of this story (http://www.24.com/news/?p=tsa&i=399560)...

2007-1-25 21:41Antwerp - Mozart, an iguana with an erection that has lasted for over a week, will have his inopportune organ amputated in the next couple of days.
Veterinarians at Antwerp's Aquatopia had sought to treat the animal's problem, but decided removal was the only solution because of the risk of infection.

The good news for Mozart and his mates is that male iguanas have two penises.

Mozart, sitting on the shoulders of his keeper as camera crews focused on his red, swollen erection, seemed unperturbed by the news.

"It doesn't bother him. He doesn't know what amputation means," said vet Luc Lambrecht, adding that Mozart's sexual activity should be undimmed by the operation.

"I don't think so. That's all in his head."

.... Owwwww! At least he could spare one...

Can we see these pictures? :D

http://www.nearlygood.com/smilies/sex.gif :)

that reminds me of this story (http://www.24.com/news/?p=tsa&i=399560)...



.... Owwwww! At least he could spare one...

Two penises! Awesome!


We should totaly make a hybrid of them and dolphins.

I'd say "Damn! She's got some nice curves!"

Unless she did not. Then I'd grimace.


As gross as that may sound, it's a part of me that I do not consider incest to be wrong (I would have sex with one or two of my sisters, a cousin, my mother, and my stepmother if the opportunity arose (lawl "rose") and they would be willing to do it), though I do think that there should be a lot of consideration with protection and pregnancy prevention and stuff because of the birth defects that babies produced by incest sometimes (often?) have. I do think it is possible to fall in love with a close relative (see Nietzsche, but then again, he was quite a crazy philosopher). I don't really know about them having kids or not, but I suppose it should be up to the two to decide.

Great, now I'm going to turn this into an incest debate. All in all, the sexual part of my politics is very strange, I guess.

I'd probably do the same with my daughter, but I'm not entirely sure how fucked up I am. As for the cousin thing, I'm on the same level...that's about it. I wouldn't be going for my mom or sister.

Not that you need my babyseal of approval, but if your online persona is anything to go by, I suspect you'd make a better parent than most.

And a worse parent than some. :)

"Doc, it's Celtlund"
"Yes?"
"The blue pill is working over time, I'm gonna need to make an appointment"
"I'm free if you want to come in now"
"No, I think it'd be better to get the STD test after the night in the brothel"
:D

:D

Two penises! Awesome!


We should totaly make a hybrid of them and dolphins.

I wonder if he can use the both of them at the same time.

I wonder if he can use the both of them at the same time.

I wonder if a person's brain operate with that much blood loss?

I wouldnt delete my porn. I would be proud of my adult girl. She is 19. Btw, she would be such an adult that she wouldnt need to return home and I would change the lock of the front door without telling her.

Anyway, I´m past the stage where you feel shame after jacking off and delete every porn in your pc. I´ve embraced porn like everyone should.

what if it's just a webcast of her doing her boyfriend/Girlfriend?

so she's not being paid for it.
Well then I'd seriously question my parenting skills (like the other guy).

There's nothing wrong with making home movies, but if you're going to be stupid enough to put them on the internet for free then something's gone wrong in your upbringing.

And if you're stupid enough to give the video to someone who puts it on the internet against your will, then that person needs to be castrated (or infibulated) and your parents raised you to be one stupid f***.

I'm a judgemental person. I see no problem with doing what you want to do to earn money and get by in the world. If you feel some sort of voyeristic thrill from being on the internet... then that's ok but you really need to know about all the drawbacks this has (and the part of me that's evil and greedy really wants to know why you're not making money off this...)

If someone is using you then as a parent I feel I've failed you. And I won't care if my little girl is ok with being used or betrayed or whatever - you mess with the fruit of my lions (behind my back) and you lose yours.

I wouldnt delete my porn. I would be proud of my adult girl. She is 19. Btw, she would be such an adult that she wouldnt need to return home and I would change the lock of the front door without telling her.

Anyway, I´m past the stage where you feel shame after jacking off and delete every porn in your pc. I´ve embraced porn like everyone should.

I wonder if females embrace porn the way men do?

I wonder if females embrace porn the way men do?

If they do it exactly the way we(I) do it, then they may not be women.

If they do it exactly the way we(I) do it, then they may not be women.

Traps?...

Let's presume you are a man in his late 40's and you are surfing the porn sites on the internet. You come upon one site, and there are pictures of your 19 year old daughter. Would that cure you from looking at porn? What would you do? What would you say to your daughter?
I'd hit on her. :D

Why wouldnt you be? 40 year olds like sex too, I imagine.

I'll let you know in 8 months.

Hmm... why can't we just use electroshock therapy for any addiction or mental problem we have then?

Its not green enough. These days if you want to try some disassociative therapy you have to rely on paddling someone with a wind turbine rotar, or stretching them on a solar powered rack...

I dont think there's anything that'd make me START looking at porn...

Yes, I realise that there is therefore no point in me posting in this thread. But as they say on Mastermind, I've started, so I'll finish.

I'm not sterile, you know, and inserting some semen into a vagina connected to a uterus isn't that monumental an accomplishment, either.

Then there's this thing called adoption where straight people give you the kids issued by their perversion they don't want to have? Neat, huh.

Did you just refer to heterosexuality as a perversion? Are you stupid, or what?


Christ, neither one of them is a goddamn perversion, nor is bisexuality. So both sides need to shut up and sit down.

"Cure"? It's not a disease or any sort of situation that needs rectification.

Oh, and finding my daughter would imply I'd be looking at girls. Why the hell would I be doing that?

I suppose, going with the intent of the question, that in your case, you found pictures of your son.

The OP should have phrased the question with "daughter/son" or "offspring" or "child" I suppose.

I'm not sterile, you know, and inserting some semen into a vagina connected to a uterus isn't that monumental an accomplishment, either.

Then there's this thing called adoption where straight people give you the kids issued by their perversion they don't want to have? Neat, huh.

Excuse me? Perversion?

You sound like a fucking puritan. Sex isn't a perversion. Unless of course it's non-consensual, but in that instance it's called rape.

And if you're not serious, just trying to make a point to someone who wasn't trying to be mean to you, get over yourself.

There's no such thing as a "cure" for watching pornography.
If it's an addiction, there is.

Why is porn requisite for sexuality?

Yes, I was being honest. So?
I've never used the word "heterophobia" before, but this seems like the right time. Though you're probably just trolling rather than being serious.

Not that you need my babyseal of approval, but if your online persona is anything to go by, I suspect you'd make a better parent than most.
Harsh, but fair, I imagine.

If it's an addiction, there is.


I know a guy who had a porn addiction. He's very uncomfortable around women as a result.

Not really, no.

I know a guy who had a porn addiction. He's very uncomfortable around women as a result.
Wtf? How does porn make one uncomfortable around women? :confused:

Wtf? How does porn make one uncomfortable around women? :confused:

The keyword here is addiction. He had to go to meetings and such to get over it.

Not having children, it's a tough question to answer. I don't think it would "cure" me of looking at porn, because I don't see it as a bad thing. I think I would find it very difficult to see my daughter in a very sexualised situation like that. I'm not sure what I'd do, possibly talk to her about it, but I really don't know.

How does one get addicted to porn?

And you don't seem a good judge of character.

eh, it's just how your online persona comes off to me. after a bit of a search, i found that you have in fact mentioned that you want kids on nsg before, so my bad. however, the post that i saw was actually somebody else expressing shock and surprise that that was the case - so apparently that's how it struck them too.

How does one get addicted to porn?

presumably by using it

presumably by using it

Is porn injected, chewed, smoked, or swallowed?

presumably by using itI have a much better question: can it replace my nicotine addiction, and if so, how?

Is porn injected, chewed, smoked, or swallowed?Yes.

Let's presume you are a man in his late 40's and you are surfing the porn sites on the internet. You come upon one site, and there are pictures of your 19 year old daughter. Would that cure you from looking at porn? What would you do? What would you say to your daughter?

I'd just leave it alone, and stick to other sites. I'd deal with the mental scarring on my own.

Is porn injected, chewed, smoked, or swallowed?

manhandled is probably the appropriate term

manhandled is probably the appropriate term

Oh, I've been doing it all wrong...

How does one get addicted to porn?

Dunno. He definitely "had a problem" though.

Dunno. He definitely "had a problem" though.

What, did he have to take porn on airplanes to fap to?

If it were multi-bestiality anal with a trio of twin transvestites...

I would stare at the monitor for about a good one minute and forty six seconds, mouth agape, just stunned and horrified at what I saw. I would never mention anything to her, but I would never look at her the same either. There would always be that horrific awkward feeling around her until one day I eventually kill myself. On a note next to me will be the name of the website.

Let's presume you are a man in his late 40's and you are surfing the porn sites on the internet. You come upon one site, and there are pictures of your 19 year old daughter. Would that cure you from looking at porn? What would you do? What would you say to your daughter?

My father in law is 55, he was flipping through playboy about 4 years ago, the "college" issue, when he came to a page where his 19 year old step daughter was completely nude, he got a full frontal view.......he was pretty pissed.

He called my husband to warn him, you know since seeing his sister in that way might traumatize him:p

AFAIK that was about the end of it.

(and no my husband didn't need warning, he doesn't look at porn, and before you all come out and say "he is lying" I assure you he isn't)

My father in law is 55, he was flipping through playboy about 4 years ago, the "college" issue, when he came to a page where his 19 year old step daughter was completely nude, he got a full frontal view.......he was pretty pissed.

He called my husband to warn him, you know since seeing his sister in that way might traumatize him:p See that's what I meant by common curtesy. I wouldn't wanna demand my kid pay my psychiatrist :p(and no my husband didn't need warning, he doesn't look at porn, and before you all come out and say "he is lying" I assure you he isn't)Maybe you should take him to the vet? Or buy him some porn...

Maybe you should take him to the vet? Or buy him some porn...

I am sure he would rather just have sex. ;)

I'm having a talk with any daughter I may have when she turns 18. "If you're in any porn, warn me first."

I'm having a talk with any daughter I may have when she turns 18. "If you're in any porn, warn me first."

that is a very good idea

Let's presume you are a man in his late 40's and you are surfing the porn sites on the internet. You come upon one site, and there are pictures of your 19 year old daughter. Would that cure you from looking at porn? What would you do? What would you say to your daughter?

If it was on www.lesbian_incest.com I would need to have a serious talk with both her and her mother...

I've been expecting my 19-year-old stepdaughter to show up on Girls Gone Wild any day now. If I was silly enough to pay $9.95 for monthly tittie videos, it might bother me. Then again, she's got a cute little body, and she's of legal age. What business is it of mine?

I wonder if females embrace porn the way men do?

Not the way we do. They prefer words instead of images.

I´ve heard of something called "Slash" where females write fanfics about books/movies/series they like, where two or more of the male characters have sex with each other. Yikes.

Its the equivalent of horse on women kind of male porn.

Then again, she's got a cute little body, and she's of legal age.

pix or it isn't true. :p

Let's presume you are a man in his late 40's and you are surfing the porn sites on the internet. You come upon one site, and there are pictures of your 19 year old daughter. Would that cure you from looking at porn? What would you do? What would you say to your daughter?

yeh, probably.

About the people telling Fass off:
It's called sarcasm, people.
Remember, this is the guy who won the sarcasm award and refused it sarcasticly.
(We're also talking about an atheist here, so any time he uses the word "perversion" is sarcastic.)

I would stare at the monitor for about a good one minute and forty six seconds, mouth agape, just stunned and horrified at what I saw. I would never mention anything to her, but I would never look at her the same either. There would always be that horrific awkward feeling around her until one day I eventually kill myself. On a note next to me will be the name of the website.

And how tragic would it be when her comment about the website would be "that porn star kinda looks like me".

If I discovered my daughter was doing porn, I'd watch every movie she's made, give her detailed reviews including tips and pointers ("I like what you're doing with your leg there, but that... Hold on... THAT isn't you best side"). If that doesn't scare her away from porn industry for the rest of her life, I don't know what will.

It didn't stop Dita Von Teese's dad.:p

About the people telling Fass off:
It's called sarcasm, people.
Remember, this is the guy who won the sarcasm award and refused it sarcasticly.
(We're also talking about an atheist here, so any time he uses the word "perversion" is sarcastic.)

Sometimes it's just being an ass, though, and it seems like he should get some salsa dip for that chip of his, the one on his shoulder I mean.

Remember, this is the guy who won the sarcasm award and refused it sarcasticly.
(We're also talking about an atheist here, so any time he uses the word "perversion" is sarcastic.)
There is nothing inherently religious about the term "perversion".

There is nothing inherently religious about the term "perversion".

Fass isn't religious. Thus, he is being sarcastic by using the term "perversion" to refer to a child put up for adoption.

There is nothing inherently religious about the term "perversion".

There is when you´re a believer and think all atheists hold no moral convictions and eat pupies for diner, while burning bibles and kicking old women. They think that if you dont believe in god, you cant have any morality, which means they dont believe one can be civilized without the inerent fear of god.

I think I would be disturbed by finding my young, impressionable daughter in online porno, but would never give up my own fixation with said porno......I would just have to filter out anything with my own blood line running thru it.

I would make sure she was economically secure and not exploited, coerced, or deceived, and as long as that was the case, I would not be concerned.

I would make sure she was economically secure and not exploited, coerced, or deceived, and as long as that was the case, I would not be concerned.


Same here... well, I guess I would be kinda proud if it was a prestigous site... or if someone took the time to make an ASCIIporn version of her.

Fass isn't religious. Thus, he is being sarcastic by using the term "perversion" to refer to a child put up for adoption.

Actually, he's using it to refer to heterosexuality, because so many straight social conservatives, especially religious ones, refer to homosexuality as a perversion so he's trying to show us how ridiculous it sounds.

Of course, everyone has this nasty habit of taking Fass seriously, for some reason. ._.

Sometimes it's just being an ass, though, and it seems like he should get some salsa dip for that chip of his, the one on his shoulder I mean.

Fass: You can't spell it without ass.

:D

NOTE: THIS IS NOT A FLAME. IT'S A JOKE. CALM DOWN, AND PUT AWAY THE PITCHFORKS.

There is when you´re a believer and think all atheists hold no moral convictions and eat pupies for diner, while burning bibles and kicking old women. They think that if you dont believe in god, you cant have any morality, which means they dont believe one can be civilized without the inerent fear of god.

Er...no we don't. Or at least I don't, and all my Christian friends don't. Want to stop generalising and stereotyping?

Er...no we don't. Or at least I don't, and all my Christian friends don't. Want to stop generalising and stereotyping?

Oh, I thought we were playing the irony game.

There is when you´re a believer and think all atheists hold no moral convictions and eat pupies for diner, while burning bibles and kicking old women. They think that if you dont believe in god, you cant have any morality, which means they dont believe one can be civilized without the inerent fear of god.
I don't know any believers, incl. me, who are like that.

I don't know any believers, incl. me, who are like that.

Well, good. But people like that do exist; they even turn up on NS on occasion.

OK how bout this one. What if you are the 19 year old child and you find porn of your mom or father?

OK how bout this one. What if you are the 19 year old child and you find porn of your mom or father?

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I think the question is not "would you have a problem with your kid doing porn"
but "would you be traumatized to see your kid doing porn"

I think the question is not "would you have a problem with your kid doing porn"
but "would you be traumatized to see your kid doing porn"

How about, "Would you want your kid doing porn?" Some people see it as a less than honorable profession even if they don't subscribe to the, "It will corrupt the public morals." crowd.

Of course, everyone has this nasty habit of taking Fass seriously, for some reason. ._.

I shall sig that because it is deserving and should be remembered, but I shan't attribute it to you.

I shall sig that because it is deserving and should be remembered, but I shan't attribute it to you.

.........................:(

I'm sad now. See? ^ Sad face.

qft.

I would think Muslims would have different (and more substantial, moral)reasons for not having porn on their computers.