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Hypothetical question...

Let's pretend you have a liberal, consensual relationship in that playful gestures, that would in a public be considered sexual harassment. Do you consider spanking ok as long as both of the parties involved don't mind? IE: it works both ways (a woman can slap her man on the ass and vice versa).



What? There is a thread about spanking children already! This is that other type of spanking!

Yeah of course.

Hypothetical question...

Let's pretend you have a liberal, consensual relationship in that playful gestures, that would in a public be considered sexual harassment. Do you consider spanking ok as long as both of the parties involved don't mind? IE: it works both ways (a woman can slap her man on the ass and vice versa).



What? There is a thread about spanking children already! This is that other type of spanking!

EDIT: Clarification - is randomly spanking your partner playfully accepted in your relationship, and if so, do you do it?

Let's pretend you have a liberal, consensual relationship in that playful gestures, that would in a public be considered sexual harassment. Is there some vital part of this sentence missing or am I just being thick?


And, if I understand your question correctly: Uh.... yes?!

you are asking if consensual behavior is okay?

hmmm......I have to think about that one :rolleyes: :p

you are asking if consensual behavior is okay?

hmmm......I have to think about that one :rolleyes: :p

I'm asking, assuming that the relationship is open, would you spank your partner playfully. I laid out the consensual part to make it clear that this doesn't support sexual harassment (non-consensual).

you are asking if consensual behavior is okay?

hmmm......I have to think about that one :rolleyes: :p

B&D, S&M, and many other sexual practices exsist and are legal as long as both parties are consenting adults.

"Now remember, the safe word is Banana!"

that's not my safe word :eek:


Naaaa nor mine. Mine is, Bwaahahahanonononostopittopit that tickles!

that's not my safe word :eek: err... "smorgasborg?" "sasquatch?" "Chaganooga choo-choo?" "Supercalifragilisticespaladocious?" "Ohmygodmyhusbandishomegetoutnowgogogogo?"

B&D, S&M, and many other sexual practices exsist and are legal as long as both parties are consenting adults.

"Now remember, the safe word is Banana!"

That made me laugh so hard! :D

I'm asking, assuming that the relationship is open, would you spank your partner playfully. I laid out the consensual part to make it clear that this doesn't support sexual harassment (non-consensual).
would I engage in consensual behavior with my mate?

I think so.



B&D, S&M, and many other sexual practices exsist and are legal as long as both parties are consenting adults.

"Now remember, the safe word is Banana!"

that's not my safe word :eek:

*Spanks* http://img120.imageshack.us/img120/8782/01charming0466757t7gg.jpg

Naaaa nor mine. Mine is, Bwaahahahanonononostopittopit that tickles!
that doesn't work......how do we know you aren't playing?


err... "smorgasborg?" "sasquatch?" "Chaganooga choo-choo?" "Supercalifragilisticespaladocious?" "Ohmygodmyhusbandishomegetoutnowgogogogo?"

you are so far off.....it's not even funny (yes it is)

EDIT: Clarification - is randomly spanking your partner playfully accepted in your relationship, and if so, do you do it?


Obviously. If you are not playfull in a relationship than most likely it's going to be doomed. If you can't play together, then you won't be able to be together. I see it as a sign of affection along with tickeling, play-fighting...yada yada.

that doesn't work......how do we know you aren't playing?


??? umm coz I err use the umm safety word!?:confused:

??? umm coz I err use the umm safety word!?:confused:

your safety word sucks.

that's not my safe word :eek:

Kyustendil?

Of course we should have the government regulate what kind of consensual behaviors we perform. You can have sex, yes, but two suited FCC guys must be standing over you with an airhorn making sure you don't gyrate, tongue-kiss, moan, or have any pleasure out of it whatsoever, and if the act doesn't result in pregnancy, you will be shot. That's how it must go. End of story.

Seriously, though, I don't give a fig what people do in the privacy of theor own homes. I myself am a fairly boring individual, but it's your right not to be boring.

Did this make anyone else think of Family Guy?

really do you need safe words a Dom/mme should know when its going to far and rember the subbie has the right to say No

uh.....no. I don't think I can pronounce that now, much less in a situation when I really needed my safe word.

ok... I just had a mental Pic of smunkee.... and I'll leave it at that.


I really need some sleep... and now a cold shower... Night all!

Of course we should have the government regulate what kind of consensual behaviors we perform. You can have sex, yes, but two suited FCC guys must be standing over you with an airhorn making sure you don't gyrate, tongue-kiss, moan, or have any pleasure out of it whatsoever, and if the act doesn't result in pregnancy, you will be shot. That's how it must go. End of story.

Seriously, though, I don't give a fig what people do in the privacy of theor own homes. I myself am a fairly boring individual, but it's your right not to be boring.

Kyustendil?

uh.....no. I don't think I can pronounce that now, much less in a situation when I really needed my safe word.

uh.....no. I don't think I can pronounce that now, much less in a situation when I really needed my safe word.

Porthole? グ?

Hypothetical question...

Let's pretend you have a liberal, consensual relationship in that playful gestures, that would in a public be considered sexual harassment. Do you consider spanking ok as long as both of the parties involved don't mind? IE: it works both ways (a woman can slap her man on the ass and vice versa).



What? There is a thread about spanking children already! This is that other type of spanking!

EDIT: Clarification - is randomly spanking your partner playfully accepted in your relationship, and if so, do you do it?

I'm not sure.... 'playfully' doesn't always describe spanking, done right...

If you mean - is it okay to spank partners for sexual excitement, sure - if they are into it. I personally don't like being spanked, but I've never been too uncomfortable about spanking a partner when she wanted it.

The question on all our minds now is "What is Smunkee's safety word?"

Kyustendil?

Bulgaria sucks.

I know, I've been there.

Porthole? ??

Steetji? Miasma? Nucleosis? Pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis?


... anyway, I don't think this is something people are very apt to reveal over the internet. Or even in real life. In fact, in real life you'd probably get a slap in the face for asking someone what their sexual practices are.

The question on all our minds now is "What is Smunkee's safety word?"

Her safeword is: "Oh crap, the kids are awake!"

ok... I just had a mental Pic of smunkee.... and I'll leave it at that.


I really need some sleep... and now a cold shower... Night all!
it's probably not an accurate picture if that helps any.

The question on all our minds now is "What is Smunkee's safety word?"
it's from a cartoon.

Hypothetical question...

Let's pretend you have a liberal, consensual relationship in that playful gestures, that would in a public be considered sexual harassment. Do you consider spanking ok as long as both of the parties involved don't mind? IE: it works both ways (a woman can slap her man on the ass and vice versa).

No need to pretend. Not only to I think spanking is okay in this consensual relationship, I think it's utterly fantastic. There are other activities I enjoy that would be considered outright abusive if consent were removed from the picture. I have no problem with this whatsoever...what my partner and I choose to do together is up to us. And it's not exactly play.

it's probably not an accurate picture if that helps any.


it's from a cartoon.

How vague...Whence is the cartoon, decade wise?

Her safeword is: "Oh crap, the kids are awake!"
Lol!
it's from a cartoon.

Mr. Smunk thought of it, didn't he?

What's up doc?

really do you need safe words a Dom/mme should know when its going to far and rember the subbie has the right to say No

Of course you need a safeword...because sometimes no in this context doesn't actually mean 'stop I can't take any more'. To avoid confusion...pick something else.

it's from a cartoon.

"Th-th-th-th-That's all, Folks!" http://www.freesmileys.org/emo/music024.gif

:D

not going to tell.

:)

Then I forced to use random words again. :p

Vodka? Scrunchie? Oppose? Exploit? Faculty?

How vague...Whence is the cartoon, decade wise?

not going to tell.

:)

really do you need safe words a Dom/mme should know when its going to far and rember the subbie has the right to say No

only if your no really means no, which it may not.

if it would disturb you further, my kids have safe words, for rough housing, sometimes that "OMG, stop tickling me" is really "this is fun" and "snap!" is "I am about to pee on the floor"

see?

Did this make anyone else think of Family Guy?

Where do you suppose I got the idea for the FCC guys, pray tell? I'm nowhere near that creative on my own.

it's from a cartoon.

"Eye of Thundera!"
"Castle Greyskull!"
"Go Joe!"

Or, heaven forbid...

"Crabby Patties!" :eek:

"Eye of Thundera!"
"Castle Greyskull!"
"Go Joe!"

Or, heaven forbid...

"Crabby Patties!" :eek:

Oh, those are much better than my ideas

"Nos hicimos!"?
"Autobots, transform!"
"Duck Dodgers of the twenty-fourth-and-one-half century!"?

you are marginally close with one of those........although, not really.

Olympia!

you are marginally close with one of those........although, not really.

Marginally close but not really? What does that mean?

"Thundercats, HOOO!"?
"And knowing is half the battle! *G.I.JOE*"?

"Eye of Thundera!"
"Castle Greyskull!"
"Go Joe!"

Or, heaven forbid...

"Crabby Patties!" :eek:

you are marginally close with one of those........although, not really.

you are marginally close with one of those........although, not really.

Just based on personal experience... ;)

I grew up in the 80's

I grew up in the 80's



Ohhh I bet it's summit about ...'like the stars in the sky'

What is happening to NSG when a thread on consensual, kinky spanking, languishes at the bottom of the page?

I heard on TV last week that 30% of Canadian adults like to be spanked occasionally...I find that hard to believe but now I can't help but wonder when in a room full of adults which 30% of them likes being spanked...

I heard on TV last week that 30% of Canadian adults like to be spanked occasionally...I find that hard to believe but now I can't help but wonder when in a room full of adults which 30% of them likes being spanked...

Heheh I started a job on a client site a few years back and every cubiclie had the same picture of a gimp pined up somewhere within it's bounds. After a few days I plucked up the gourage to ask, and was told that apperntly 1 out of ever 40 people in the work place is a closet (or open) gimp. There were exactly 40 people working there, and so one of them had to be the gimp.

I heard on TV last week that 30% of Canadian adults like to be spanked occasionally...I find that hard to believe but now I can't help but wonder when in a room full of adults which 30% of them likes being spanked...

Yeah, well, Canadians like poutine too. There's no accounting for taste. ;)

I heard on TV last week that 30% of Canadian adults like to be spanked occasionally...I find that hard to believe but now I can't help but wonder when in a room full of adults which 30% of them likes being spanked...

Can't hurt to ask :P

And only 30%?

Can't hurt to ask :P

And only 30%?

ya, I suspect it won't be the ones that I find the most attractive:(

ya, I suspect it won't be the ones that I find the most attractive:(

kink is equal opportunity *nod*

ya, I suspect it won't be the ones that I find the most attractive:(

That's quite an unfounded ASSumption.

That's quite an unfounded ASSumption.

I think it one of Murphy's Laws, law 101 or something...102 being "The person you speak with on the adult chat line will never be as cute as shown on TV."

I think it one of Murphy's Laws, law 101 or something...102 being "The person you speak with on the adult chat line will never be as cute as shown on TV."

Right after "Objects in mirror are closer than they appear."

What is happening to NSG when a thread on consensual, kinky spanking, languishes at the bottom of the page?

Are we getting stodgy? :eek:

Are we getting stodgy? :eek:

Seems like it.

Are we getting stodgy? :eek:

I'm still looking for an exhaustive list of cartoon phrases from the 80's

Seems like it.

Tsk. As for the question itself, I'm not averse to a bit of playful spanking, either as the giver or the receiver. I don't care that much for being tied up, I have to admit.

Heheh I started a job on a client site a few years back and every cubiclie had the same picture of a gimp pined up somewhere within it's bounds. After a few days I plucked up the gourage to ask, and was told that apperntly 1 out of ever 40 people in the work place is a closet (or open) gimp. There were exactly 40 people working there, and so one of them had to be the gimp.

there was another survey that found 17% of respondents claimed to have had some sexual activities with their pets:eek:...

Tsk. As for the question itself, I'm not averse to a bit of playful spanking, either as the giver or the receiver. I don't care that much for being tied up, I have to admit.

I like to be on the receiving end of both...I've done a bit of giving, but only to women.

I like to be on the receiving end of both...I've done a bit of giving, but only to women.

But you prefer to receive only from men, or has it been a lack of opportunity? :D

But you prefer to receive only from men, or has it been a lack of opportunity? :D

Oh no, both is wonderful:) However, it tends to be more enjoyable when a man does it.

Oh no, both is wonderful:)

If advocating a redhot lesbian spank inferno can't save the thread, nothing can.

Hmmm - that might be my new sig...

If advocating a redhot lesbian spank inferno can't save the thread, nothing can.

Hmmm - that might be my new sig...

You can't sig yourself!
*watch me*
Okay, go ahead I suppose...I'm distracted anyway

*red hot lesbian spanking continues*

You can't sig yourself!
*watch me*
Okay, go ahead I suppose...I'm distracted anyway

*red hot lesbian spanking continues&

Honestly, I despair! I mean, getting distracted over a little bit of girl-on-girl spa...

wha?

Spanking is wrong, but this bill is even worse.:headbang:

Wrong thread...no one is legislating away the right to consensual spanking.

What is happening to NSG when a thread on consensual, kinky spanking, languishes at the bottom of the page?
Nuthin'. It just came on the heels of all those kiddie spanking threads and the OP was all confusing. Don't fear. *pats*

You can't sig yourself!
*watch me*
Okay, go ahead I suppose...I'm distracted anyway

*red hot lesbian spanking continues*

Now that's the kind of fundament-alism I like! :D

Spanking is wrong, but this bill is even worse.:headbang: You got yourself the wrong thread. ;)

@Sinuhue: QED. :p

Spanking is wrong, but this bill is even worse.:headbang:

I didn't really look at the name of the thread. What a naughty thing to do! Who wants to give me what I deserve?

I'm asking, assuming that the relationship is open, would you spank your partner playfully. I laid out the consensual part to make it clear that this doesn't support sexual harassment (non-consensual).

..

Weird...I totally posted in response to the mistaken thread guy...and it didn't show up!? Look about 7 posts upthread above your post... ;p

Oh no, both is wonderful:) However, it tends to be more enjoyable when a man does it.

Socialist Pyrate-man-big hands, firm but gentle:D... is understanding of lesbian spanking sessions:cool:

Define 'real pain'. It should hurt, just not be disabling...

pain that you'd say "OWW!" to rather than "OOO!"

is randomly spanking your partner playfully accepted in your relationship, and if so, do you do it?

sure, why not? as long as it's not hard enough to cause real pain, i'm totally not into that.

Weird...I totally posted in response to the mistaken thread guy...and it didn't show up!?

:eek: i just warped a whole page behind myself. feel a bit squiffy in an inside-out sort of way now!

Sinuhue: my response is on page 5 :)

Open hand, switch, paddle, belt...all nice...

What the hell...this timewarp is getting worse!

Open hand, switch, paddle, belt...all nice...

What the hell...this timewarp is getting worse!

Not seeing the difference here...:p

LOL, well i'd probably draw the line after open hand. but what's a switch? surely not a blade? a switch card? they're not too painful.

pain that you'd say "OWW!" to rather than "OOO!"

Not seeing the difference here...:p

LOL, well i'd probably draw the line after open hand. but what's a switch? surely not a blade? a switch card? they're not too painful.

Like a little whip, or even a riding crop.

ah, not for me then ;)

Fair enough:) I'm not sure I could do it to someone else. *considers* Well...

Like a little whip, or even a riding crop.

I had a nice leather riding crop:) but Mrs Pyrate hid it somewhere:mad:

Like a little whip, or even a riding crop.

ah, not for me then ;)

pain that you'd say "OWW!" to rather than "OOO!"

"OOW" is just "WOO" spelled backwards, y'know. :p

Dear, oh dear, the Somali civil war gets more attention than a nice spanking thread? What has the world come to? :(

you are asking if consensual behavior is okay?

hmmm......I have to think about that one :rolleyes: :p

You're right. I thought about it and decided that consent was simply unacceptable.

No need to pretend. Not only to I think spanking is okay in this consensual relationship, I think it's utterly fantastic. There are other activities I enjoy that would be considered outright abusive if consent were removed from the picture. I have no problem with this whatsoever...what my partner and I choose to do together is up to us. And it's not exactly play.

Ditto. In my relationship we have had consensual sexual encounters envolving bondage, stranglation, spanking & more. As long as both parties are entirely willing during the whole experience, I think it's okay.

I find that hard to believe but now I can't help but wonder when in a room full of adults which 30% of them likes being spanked...

I snickered at that... Even more fun when there's only three people in the room. Which of those other two is it?

The question on all our minds now is "What is Smunkee's safety word?"

안전?

безопасность?

安全?

Or has this been answered and I've missed it?

Hypothetical question...

Let's pretend you have a liberal, consensual relationship in that playful gestures, that would in a public be considered sexual harassment. Do you consider spanking ok as long as both of the parties involved don't mind? IE: it works both ways (a woman can slap her man on the ass and vice versa).



What? There is a thread about spanking children already! This is that other type of spanking!

EDIT: Clarification - is randomly spanking your partner playfully accepted in your relationship, and if so, do you do it?


Sure it's ok... I happen to quite like it actually. Why would it be unacceptable? :confused:

Why would it be unacceptable? :confused:

Because some people are squeamish about it. Some people might think it's wrong. I'll tell you what's wrong - intimacy without any spirit. And if spanking gets the sexual juices flowing, then it's a good thing.

I snickered at that... Even more fun when there's only three people in the room. Which of those other two is it?



안전?

безопасность?

安全?

Or has this been answered and I've missed it?

Given the way Jolt's been acting, it could have ended up posted in some other thread entirely.

if its in public then I don't want to see it, haven't heard the old saying "oh get a room" before? I just don't see anything from a man or woman slapping their counterparts on the ass, seriously, I just don't get it but if they enjoy it and it keeps their relationship going on and on and on and on, "right on" :D

if its in public then I don't want to see it, haven't heard the old saying "oh get a room" before? I just don't see anything from a man or woman slapping their counterparts on the ass, seriously, I just don't get it but if they enjoy it and it keeps their relationship going on and on and on and on, "right on" :D

Everyone, over to Greater Somalia's house for a spank-fest! :D

Everyone, over to Greater Somalia's house for a spank-fest! :D

Okay, maybe not.

I'm asking, assuming that the relationship is open, would you spank your partner playfully. I laid out the consensual part to make it clear that this doesn't support sexual harassment (non-consensual).

I've spanked partners a whole lot more than playfully.

What consenting adults do in their privacy is not the concern of anyone else.

Like a little whip, or even a riding crop.

no, a switch is a rod, typically long and thin, traditionally wooden (like a tree branch).

Different than a whip or crop.

no, a switch is a rod, typically long and thin, traditionally wooden (like a tree branch).

Different than a whip or crop.

Never having experienced either a whip, crop or a switch, I can't say if I would rule out any of them. I suppose if applied by the right person ...

Never having experienced either a whip, crop or a switch, I can't say if I would rule out any of them. I suppose if applied by the right person ...

generally it comes to 5 basic principles:

crop
whip
switch
flogger
paddle

and of course bare hand, which has its own tactile advantages and disadvantages.

Hypothetical question...

Let's pretend you have a liberal, consensual relationship in that playful gestures, that would in a public be considered sexual harassment. Do you consider spanking ok as long as both of the parties involved don't mind? IE: it works both ways (a woman can slap her man on the ass and vice versa).



What? There is a thread about spanking children already! This is that other type of spanking!

EDIT: Clarification - is randomly spanking your partner playfully accepted in your relationship, and if so, do you do it?

Why wouldn't it be ok? I'd be fairly surprised to find anyone who had a problem with it.

What consenting adults do in their privacy is not the concern of anyone else.

For once, we agree completely.

For once, we agree completely.

what is interesting is that the very liberal, and the very conservative, tend to converge on this point.

I'm convinced the left right "line" of politics is perhaps more of a circle, where at some points you're far away from each other, and others very close together.

no, a switch is a rod, typically long and thin, traditionally wooden (like a tree branch).

Different than a whip or crop.

I got to bring my dressage whip to class in 9th grade for career day. I had dreams of becoming a world-famous dressage horse trainer. You can't imagine the looks my friends and teachers gave me when I walked into class...priceless... :D

I got to bring my dressage whip to class in 9th grade for career day. I had dreams of becoming a world-famous dressage horse trainer. You can't imagine the looks my friends and teachers gave me when I walked into class...priceless... :D

in 9th grade that's rather disturbing.

And if you want to talk shocking, my ex girlfriend had a habit of walking around in public wearing a.....well ya know what, probably best if we didn't go down that line.

I got to bring my dressage whip to class in 9th grade for career day. I had dreams of becoming a world-famous dressage horse trainer. You can't imagine the looks my friends and teachers gave me when I walked into class...priceless... :D

Oh, yes I can. :D

although if we want to be technical, a spanking is by definition only delivered with an open hand.

although if we want to be technical, a spanking is by definition only delivered with an open hand.

Don't be such a ... lawyer. ;)

in 9th grade that's rather disturbing.

And if you want to talk shocking, my ex girlfriend had a habit of walking around in public wearing a.....well ya know what, probably best if we didn't go down that line.

:eek: The imagination is a wonderful, wonderful thing...


anyway, I'm all for spanking, adult style. Muah.

Don't be such a ... lawyer. ;)

sorry darlin' tis in my blood.

:eek: The imagination is a wonderful, wonderful thing...

Ha, you have NO idea...

what is interesting is that the very liberal, and the very conservative, tend to converge on this point.

I'm convinced the left right "line" of politics is perhaps more of a circle, where at some points you're far away from each other, and others very close together.

yup, it's generally called 'libertarianism'

in 9th grade that's rather disturbing.

And if you want to talk shocking, my ex girlfriend had a habit of walking around in public wearing a.....well ya know what, probably best if we didn't go down that line.

You brought it up; now inquiring minds want to know.

Thats only when its low levels of microwave energy, higher levels heat up metal. Hence why America has tested microwave energy to damage the shell of missiles to destroy them.

:eek: I draw the line at being spanked by intercontinental ballistic missiles!

Thats only when its low levels of microwave energy, higher levels heat up metal. Hence why America has tested microwave energy to damage the shell of missiles to destroy them.

Thats only when its low levels of microwave energy, higher levels heat up metal. Hence why America has tested microwave energy to damage the shell of missiles to destroy them.

Whoa. That's not spanking, that's hardcore.

*thinks people should accidentaly post in wrong thread more often*

lol, How on earth did that happen?? I was on another thread?? Hit reply and my reply ended up on a spanking thread.....WEIRD lol :D

the gods of kink are trying to tell you something.

Thats only when its low levels of microwave energy, higher levels heat up metal. Hence why America has tested microwave energy to damage the shell of missiles to destroy them.

you know, that's a very interesting spanking technique.

That or you're in the wrong thread.

lol, How on earth did that happen?? I was on another thread?? Hit reply and my reply ended up on a spanking thread.....WEIRD lol :D

Now you're in, whether you like it or not. You are now required to continue discussion or you will face the consequences.

(whoa, timewarp. It's just a jump to the left...)

You brought it up; now inquiring minds want to know.

leather collar is the end of that sentence.

leather collar is the end of that sentence.

Ah. Just for the hell of it, I suppose. Though I think it would be hot to be with a woman who wore a leather collar in public...and cuffs...and maybe boots.

in 9th grade that's rather disturbing.

And if you want to talk shocking, my ex girlfriend had a habit of walking around in public wearing a.....well ya know what, probably best if we didn't go down that line.

Oh, but I think we should...

lol, How on earth did that happen?? I was on another thread?? Hit reply and my reply ended up on a spanking thread.....WEIRD lol :D

leather collar is the end of that sentence.

Awww...that's not shocking at all...thousands of goths do it every day!

lol, How on earth did that happen?? I was on another thread?? Hit reply and my reply ended up on a spanking thread.....WEIRD lol :D

Weird but fantastic!
Jolt is right out to lunch now...

lol, How on earth did that happen?? I was on another threat?? Hit reply and my reply ended up on a spanking thread.....WEIRD lol :D

All your replies are belonging to us! or if you like the Russian Reversal, in America, you reply to thread posting. In Soviet Russia, thread posting replies to you! :D

Weird but fantastic!
Jolt is right out to lunch now...

And I haven't seen any Mods around lately, either ... :D

I snickered at that... Even more fun when there's only three people in the room. Which of those other two is it?



Hey, does that mean that if your the one of the three who like it, the other two probably dont?? No fun!!

No...no not just for the hell of it.

Really. I assume she told you a bit more about why she wore it. And I assume she was in high school at the time...maybe not...and wore it everywhere. Did it have anything inscribed on it?

Really. I assume she told you a bit more about why she wore it. And I assume she was in high school at the time...maybe not...and wore it everywhere. Did it have anything inscribed on it?

no, this was in college actually. and I think you're interpreting this differently than the reality of that situation.

It's even hotter when she's wearing it because you told her she has to.

that is perhaps a bit more accurate, though I did tell her she didn't need to wear it out...

no, this was in college actually. and I think you're interpreting this differently than the reality of that situation.

Well, i guess I understand if she was in college...people do all kinds of cracy things in college. And I don't understnad what I am interpreting differently...

Ah. Just for the hell of it, I suppose.

No...no not just for the hell of it.

It's even hotter when she's wearing it because you told her she has to.

I like the way you think...

It's even hotter when she's wearing it because you told her she has to.

And if there's a nice leash attached to said collar.

Ah. Just for the hell of it, I suppose. Though I think it would be hot to be with a woman who wore a leather collar in public...and cuffs...and maybe boots.

It's even hotter when she's wearing it because you told her she has to.

Well, i guess I understand if she was in college...people do all kinds of cracy things in college. And I don't understnad what I am interpreting differently...

alright, lemme explain a bit more explicitly.

She wore it 'cause I put it there, capiche?

alright, lemme explain a bit more explicitly.

She wore it 'cause I put it there, capiche?

Okie dokie. Good enough for me. **Note to self: Try the same thing on the wife.**

It's even hotter when she's wearing it because you told her she has to.

alright, lemme explain a bit more explicitly.

She wore it 'cause I put it there, capiche?
Sounds like an interesting woman, though being the dominant one can get tiresome if you aren't prepared for it. I myself haven't collared anyone - on-line, I mean - but I have had a couple of women wear an ankle ribbon, like a falcon's jess. That seems to work nicely.

Okie dokie. Good enough for me. **Note to self: Try the same thing on the wife.**

You'll want to approach that carefully, methinks.

what is interesting is that the very liberal, and the very conservative, tend to converge on this point.

I'm convinced the left right "line" of politics is perhaps more of a circle, where at some points you're far away from each other, and others very close together.

You know... I think you're absolutely right.

And on the topic of the leather collar... hottest of all is when she wears a collar with your name on it.

On a contract I once worked on I overheard two of my (female) co-workers discussing what was the sexiest thing a guy could wear. You can probably imagine the usual opinions.. cowboy gear, etc. One of them, with whom I was on good terms, turned to me and asked what I thought was the sexiest thing a lady could wear. I was a little timid about saying it out loud because, well you know... professional environment and all that, so she came over and gave me her ear, into which I whispered "a collar and nothing else."

After that I think my mild-mannered quiet guy at work image died.

that is perhaps a bit more accurate, though I did tell her she didn't need to wear it out...

But you admit you had some power in the decision making, and simply invited her to make her own choice this time? Interesting that she chose to wear it out...I wonder what motivated her...

Mmm, spankings. This thread makes me lonely...

Okie dokie. Good enough for me. **Note to self: Try the same thing on the wife.**

I would generaly advise against that, it's one of those things where you either should know by now it's going to work, or it probably won't.

Mmm, spankings. This thread makes me lonely...

It's a bit difficult, but I'm sure you could manage on your own.

But you admit you had some power in the decision making, and simply invited her to make her own choice this time?

Again I suppose that this is fairly accurate

Interesting that she chose to wear it out...I wonder what motivated her...

In her case? extreme sexual liberation

In her case? extreme sexual liberation

Liberation through restraint? Interesting...tell me more...

Liberation through restraint? Interesting...tell me more...

I can see it. Submission - complete submission - to another can be very liberating. You no longer have gray areas, no longer have unknowns, everything is laid out for you. You give yourself up to the other so completely, you trust that person so much, you are willing to do anything. I'm deeply in love with my Lady but I've never given myself up like a true submissive. I think it takes a special sort of emotional make-up.

Sounds like an interesting woman, though being the dominant one can get tiresome if you aren't prepared for it.

Quite.

I myself haven't collared anyone - on-line, I mean - but I have had a couple of women wear an ankle ribbon, like a falcon's jess. That seems to work nicely.


Online? I dated this woman for over a year and a half, we went to college together.

You'll want to approach that carefully, methinks.

ooooh yeah.

Quite.

Online? I dated this woman for over a year and a half, we went to college together.

ooooh yeah.

Oh, I'm not doubting you.

I can see it. Submission - complete submission - to another can be very liberating. You no longer have gray areas, no longer have unknowns, everything is laid out for you. You give yourself up to the other so completely, you trust that person so much, you are willing to do anything. I'm deeply in love with my Lady but I've never given myself up like a true submissive. I think it takes a special sort of emotional make-up.

I'ma just gonna keep my mouth shut.

Oh, I'm not doubting you.

fair enough, it just seemed like kind of a non sequitor.

I can see it. Submission - complete submission - to another can be very liberating. You no longer have gray areas, no longer have unknowns, everything is laid out for you. You give yourself up to the other so completely, you trust that person so much, you are willing to do anything. I'm deeply in love with my Lady but I've never given myself up like a true submissive. I think it takes a special sort of emotional make-up.

This is just all too new to me *wide innocent eyes*

This is just all too new to me *wide innocent eyes*

I play at it with people I know on-line, I've never indulged in real life. Dominance and submission are both very seductive to me. There are many people for whom it is a lifestyle, and they are very serious about it. It need not involve the costumes one thinks of, either, all the leather and whips and masks and such.

This is just all too new to me *wide innocent eyes*

Well, of course it is...I mean, would any of us know anything about that? Maybe the flip side of it, sure...

I play at it with people I know on-line, I've never indulged in real life. Dominance and submission are both very seductive to me. There are many people for whom it is a lifestyle, and they are very serious about it. It need not involve the costumes one thinks of, either, all the leather and whips and masks and such.

personally I have a strong distaste for costumes and other overly dramatic flair.

Well, of course it is...I mean, would any of us know anything about that? Maybe the flip side of it, sure...

about what? submission or dom/sub relationships in general?

It's a bit difficult, but I'm sure you could manage on your own.

Heh. Yeah, but it just wouldn't quite be the same. :p

I can see it. Submission - complete submission - to another can be very liberating. You no longer have gray areas, no longer have unknowns, everything is laid out for you. You give yourself up to the other so completely, you trust that person so much, you are willing to do anything.

Exactly. It's wonderful how free you feel when you've given up all control of yourself to someone else...

I play at it with people I know on-line, I've never indulged in real life. Dominance and submission are both very seductive to me. There are many people for whom it is a lifestyle, and they are very serious about it. It need not involve the costumes one thinks of, either, all the leather and whips and masks and such.

Oh stop, you carry on so! How could one possibly be serious about wearing a collar because someone told them to? [/irony]

Oh stop, you carry on so! How could one possibly be serious about wearing a collar because someone told them to? [/irony]

*fingering something nice and stylish, a slim band of well-tanned leather* I know, silly me, I do go on at times. ;)

about what? submission or dom/sub relationships in general?

Both. And again, I was being sarcastic. Clearly, a few people in this thread seem to know a bit about them, myself included...

*fingering something nice and stylish, a slim band of well-tanned leather* I know, silly me, I do go on at times. ;)

I knew I liked you....

personally I have a strong distaste for costumes and other overly dramatic flair.

Then again, sometimes costumes can be fun. Though I tend to be prejudiced on this issue towards females...for men? Only gay men can pull off extreme leather.

Then again, sometimes costumes can be fun. Though I tend to be prejudiced on this issue towards females...for men? Only gay men can pull off extreme leather.

feh, who needs? I've been told I have a smile that can inspire fear ;)

Oh, I don't know about that (http://www.spacerockheaters.com/fotos/imgs14/diana_rigg002.jpg).

I excluded women from that caveat previously.

I excluded women from that caveat previously.

And I used to be so much better at reading comprehension. :(

Then again, sometimes costumes can be fun. Though I tend to be prejudiced on this issue towards females...for men? Only gay men can pull off extreme leather.

Oh, I don't know about that (http://www.spacerockheaters.com/fotos/imgs14/diana_rigg002.jpg).

Ah, I see, the usual gang is at it again. :p

I want it noted that I had NOTHING to do with the creation of this thread and didn't even participate for a day or so.

But hell as long as you're here, join in.

Ah, I see, the usual gang is at it again. :p

Ah, I see, the usual gang is at it again. :p

Now that you're here, that's true:)

I want it noted that I had NOTHING to do with the creation of this thread and didn't even participate for a day or so.

But hell as long as you're here, join in.

I'd like it noted that the most plausible explanation for that is a lack of recent NSG posting in general, and not in fact, as has been insinuated, an exercise in personal restraint.

I'd like it noted that the most plausible explanation for that is a lack of recent NSG posting in general, and not in fact, as has been insinuated, an exercise in personal restraint.

Restraint? :D

These time warps are getting increasingly annoying. There's software available, probably for very little money, that will keep servers synched up. I'm tempted to demand my money back from Jolt!

Restraint? :D

Oh, should I have said restraints? Except I suspect he applies, not submits to.

Restraint? :D

These time warps are getting increasingly annoying. There's software available, probably for very little money, that will keep servers synched up. I'm tempted to demand my money back from Jolt!

The joke's on you if you shelled out money in the first place.

I'd like it noted that the most plausible explanation for that is a lack of recent NSG posting in general, and not in fact, as has been insinuated, an exercise in personal restraint.
I'd like it noted that this is definitely the more plausible explanation. :p

I'd like it noted that this is definitely the more plausible explanation. :p

I'm feeling a tad ganged up upon.

The joke's on you if you shelled out money in the first place.
Wait, you mean ... :eek:

I'm feeling a tad ganged up upon.
Well, if you'd rather not be ...

There was a post somewhere a couple pages back speculating on what Smunkee's safe word would be. Interesting thought.

Well, if you'd rather not be ...

While normally being ganged up on by 3 women would be quite fun, in present circumstances one is married, one is in europe and one is a lesbian, making it not quite as much fun as it could be.

While normally being ganged up on by 3 women would be quite fun, in present circumstances one is married, one is in europe and one is a lesbian, making it not quite as much fun as it could be.

I suppose that's true, but still, if you're inspired in any way by our little "three graces" dance, I for one am happy.

I suppose that's true, but still, if you're inspired in any way by our little "three graces" dance, I for one am happy.

I had you pegged for a bloke.

*is ashamed*

Hypothetical question...

Let's pretend you have a liberal, consensual relationship in that playful gestures, that would in a public be considered sexual harassment. Do you consider spanking ok as long as both of the parties involved don't mind? IE: it works both ways (a woman can slap her man on the ass and vice versa).



What? There is a thread about spanking children already! This is that other type of spanking!

EDIT: Clarification - is randomly spanking your partner playfully accepted in your relationship, and if so, do you do it?


Is it appropriate in public, in my opinion? No. Should it be allowed if both parties are consensual about the gesture? Yes.

Is it appropriate in public, in my opinion? No. Should it be allowed if both parties are consensual about the gesture? Yes.

You're killin' the mood here, man.

Killin' the mood.

Her safeword is: "Oh crap, the kids are awake!"
^WINS^

Awww...that's not shocking at all...thousands of goths do it every day!

I used to. And the leather bondage cuffs, a latex skirt over buckled PVC skintight pants, and PVC bondage shirt with restraint straps... long hair, in hundreds of little braids, and my goth makeup, of course.

6'4", 200 lbs. I admit I really turned heads.

you are marginally close with one of those........although, not really.

I have the POOOOOOOWER! (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yY5tZwxBOB4)

I had you pegged for a bloke.

*is ashamed*

Nah, it's okay, Neesika. I tend to react to women the way a guy would, sometimes, and I guess you missed some of the "gay marriage" threads last fall.

Nah, it's okay, Neesika. I tend to react to women the way a guy would, sometimes, and I guess you missed some of the "gay marriage" threads last fall.

Actually is has more to do with the fact that I tend to assume all posters are white males from the US here. The only exception was when I assumed Santa Barbara (now Trostia) was a woman with long black hair and a very aggressive voice. Hehehehe. My assumption is so ingrained that I actually thought Occidio Multus was a blond Italian man:p She set me wise...*wishes she'd come back*

Actually is has more to do with the fact that I tend to assume all posters are white males from the US here. The only exception was when I assumed Santa Barbara (now Trostia) was a woman with long black hair and a very aggressive voice. Hehehehe. My assumption is so ingrained that I actually thought Occidio Multus was a blond Italian man:p She set me wise...*wishes she'd come back*

I find I assign gender based on whether the poster's name "feels" either masculine or feminine to me. And no, I can't say how the feeling goes one way or the other.

I like to be spanked. Will somebody please spank me? :D

No. Get back in your corner.

"A true sadist tells a masochist 'No!'" :D

No. Get back in your corner.

Pfft, you can't handle all this anyways... -snaps fingers like laquisha-

I like to be spanked. Will somebody please spank me? :D

No. Get back in your corner.

No. Get back in your corner.

And no spanking yourself either! ;)

EDIT: *evil smile* I like where this has gone!

I find I assign gender based on whether the poster's name "feels" either masculine or feminine to me. And no, I can't say how the feeling goes one way or the other.

Yeah, I used to do that too...but I've gone so terribly wrong on that, so I've stopped:)

"A true sadist tells a masochist 'No!'" :D

Well that is up for debate. Is it more sadistic to deny the masochist the pain he or she so totally craves? Or is it more sadistic to mete out that pain? Tough call, I can see that going either way.

Well that is up for debate. Is it more sadistic to deny the masochist the pain he or she so totally craves? Or is it more sadistic to mete out that pain? Tough call, I can see that going either way.

Yeah, it could. I started a long-winded "this or that" reply and ended up inflicting pain on myself.

While normally being ganged up on by 3 women would be quite fun, in present circumstances one is married, one is in europe and one is a lesbian, making it not quite as much fun as it could be.
Damn. Could have been four if I had better timing.

Hypothetical question...

Let's pretend you have a liberal, consensual relationship in that playful gestures, that would in a public be considered sexual harassment. Do you consider spanking ok as long as both of the parties involved don't mind? IE: it works both ways (a woman can slap her man on the ass and vice versa).



What? There is a thread about spanking children already! This is that other type of spanking!

EDIT: Clarification - is randomly spanking your partner playfully accepted in your relationship, and if so, do you do it?

My lady and I give each other's hindquarters playful swats all the time.