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*dons flameproof suit*

Ok, I was reading this blog
http://www.violentacres.com/archives/51/how-feminism-ruined-my-sex-life
and got a fair chuckle out of it.

This forum seems to have a number of threads that consist of:

"I'm a nice guy, why do women dump/ignore/step on me?"
"Rape is evil and so is anyone who even says the word."
"You're an evil feminazi! - no, I'm just a woman who knows how to say no."

So - a few questions after you read it (and it doesn't matter to me if the article offends or doesn't offend).

1. For the women - are you really wanting (if you're hetero that is) the man to have at least some level of aggression/backbone/balls? How much is too much?
2. For the men - how aggro are you? Be honest. Does it work for you and (if you're hetero) your woman?
3. Does it work the other way around?

2. For the men - how aggro are you?

I am as aggressive as a paralyzed sheep.

Does it work for you

I apparently have the sex appeal of a dentist's drill.

*2. For the men - how aggro are you? Be honest. Does it work for you and (if you're hetero) your woman?
3. Does it work the other way around?
dunno, I consider myself a wimp when it comes to women.

guess it really doesn't work since I have no girlfriend... of course the fact that I am probably shy to the point of being near chronic about it may also have a reason for that.

I am as aggressive as a paralyzed sheep.at least you can be said to stand your ground. :p

Wow..

I'm not touching this one.

1. For the women - are you really wanting (if you're hetero that is) the man to have at least some level of aggression/backbone/balls? How much is too much?
Of course.

After having a spineless jelly fish for an ex-boyfriend, my current boyfriend (of more than three years) has the kind of backbone I like. Guys, at least for me, need fucking balls because I'm not a high-maintenance chick. I like a guy who won't whine if I body check him, and does it back to me.

I also find it sexy when my boyfriend says "no" to me when I want something... (usually involving him getting up to get me something to drink) It makes my life fun.

Plus it means he won't put up with my shit unless he knows I'm playing around. It's no fun when I guy just takes my shit and doesn't dish it back.

Having backbone/balls, etc. is not the same as being aggressive.

Of course.

After having a spineless jelly fish for an ex-boyfriend, my current boyfriend (of more than three years) has the kind of backbone I like. Guys, at least for me, need fucking balls because I'm not a high-maintenance chick. I like a guy who won't whine if I body check him, and does it back to me.

I also find it sexy when my boyfriend says "no" to me when I want something... (usually involving him getting up to get me something to drink) It makes my life fun.

Plus it means he won't put up with my shit unless he knows I'm playing around. It's no fun when I guy just takes my shit and doesn't dish it back.

Translation:

I do one thing and mean another.

Translation:

I do one thing and mean another.
Translation: guys with no backbone are boring.

Having backbone/balls, etc. is not the same as being aggressive.

It can involve being aggressive during sex.

Translation: guys with no backbone are boring.

If you don't want a guy to get you a soda, why the hell do you ask him to do so?

Anything that is not me.
I feel so lonely sometimes.:(

If you don't want a guy to get you a soda, why the hell do you ask him to do so?
Because I'm a power-hungry bitch.

2. I have a back bone, I won't back down or compromise on my morals and political issuses. I also will not do anything to get a date, I would rather be single than be on a terrible date. I also stand up for what's right and is willing to do anything and I mean anything to protect the one that I love and care about, and yes, that does include picking up a gun.

3. It seems to work so far, I do have a wonderful girlfriend. :D

Because I'm a power-hungry bitch.

You are a power hungry bitch who wants a guy who doesn't take power hungry bitchism.

See? This is the reason that I will never have a girlfriend. This is more difficult than rocket science.

If you don't want a guy to get you a soda, why the hell do you ask him to do so?

She doesn't want the guy to get her a soda, she wants a soda and is trying to get the guy to get it for her. However, she'd like it better if the guy at least put up a fight (or got lost on his way to get the soda so she had to get up and see what the hell is taking so long and then he can ambush her :) )

She doesn't want the guy to get her a soda, she wants a soda and is trying to get the guy to get it for her. However, she'd like it better if the guy at least put up a fight (or got lost on his way to get the soda so she had to get up and see what the hell is taking so long and then he can ambush her :) )

Does she or does she not want a soda? :confused:

You are a power hungry bitch who wants a guy who doesn't take power hungry bitchism.

See? This is the reason that I will never have a girlfriend. This is more difficult than rocket science.

Oh stop being a pussy and be a man. Stand up to women for Gods sake. They're not porcelain dolls, they can take a little roughness. The truth is, women do want men to be men, and not pussies.

*dons flameproof suit*

Ok, I was reading this blog
http://www.violentacres.com/archives/51/how-feminism-ruined-my-sex-life
and got a fair chuckle out of it.

This forum seems to have a number of threads that consist of:

"I'm a nice guy, why do women dump/ignore/step on me?"
"Rape is evil and so is anyone who even says the word."
"You're an evil feminazi! - no, I'm just a woman who knows how to say no."

So - a few questions after you read it (and it doesn't matter to me if the article offends or doesn't offend).

1. For the women - are you really wanting (if you're hetero that is) the man to have at least some level of aggression/backbone/balls? How much is too much?
2. For the men - how aggro are you? Be honest. Does it work for you and (if you're hetero) your woman?
3. Does it work the other way around?

Back in what I like to refer to as "my bad old days" I found that there certainly was a type of woman who was very impressed by having the ability to fight other blokes and generally act like a neanderthal. Nowadays, I find I wouldn't touch those type of women with a bargepole.

It can involve being aggressive during sex.

Depends what you mean by that. Some force is ok, but without trying to hurt or being too violent. It's ultimately up to each couple, though.

1. For the women - are you really wanting (if you're hetero that is) the man to have at least some level of aggression/backbone/balls? How much is too much?
2. For the men - how aggro are you? Be honest. Does it work for you and (if you're hetero) your woman?
3. Does it work the other way around?

2. In daily life, I'm very non-agressive unless there is a threat to me or someone I care about, and even then I can go great lenghts to avoid violence or anything like that. That does not mean I don't stand up for myself or others, just that I try to avoid physical fights.
In the bedroom I'm definitly dominant, not like screaming "slut!" at my fiancee though, a good hump is enough :cool:

3. Nah, I like being the dominant one...

Does she or does she not want a soda? :confused:

She wants the soda, she doesn't necessarily want the guy bringing it to her.

money

The last one I asked said "candy", which only supports my premise that all women want... different things.

She wants the soda, she doesn't necessarily want the guy bringing it to her.

Then why doesn't she just get it herself? The way you are making it seem, she wants a soda, but is doing everything possible to delay getting the soda.

Leah and I like to have little play arguments, and I do not back down baby, I just keep on firing back, and she loves it! So do I because I get to prove that I have balls. :D.

Because I'm a power-hungry bitch.

Sir, I want to divorce my husband.
Oh what grounds ma'am?
He worships the ground I walk on.
And why is that a problem ma'am?
Simple, I walk all over him.

Then why doesn't she just get it herself? The way you are making it seem, she wants a soda, but is doing everything possible to delay getting the soda.

Ok.

1. Girl A wants Guy A to get a soda
2. However Girl A doesn't want guy A to be her doormat.
3. So Guy A puts up a fight because hey theres's a good game on.
4. Girl A gets a little excitement in her life because she has to put a little bit more effort into getting her guy to do what she wants him to do.
5. Guy A gets lucky that night.

1. Girl A wants Guy A to get a soda
2. However Girl A doesn't want guy A to be her doormat.
3. So Guy A puts up a fight because hey theres's a good game on.
4. Girl A gets a little excitement in her life because she has to put a little bit more effort into getting her guy to do what she wants him to do.
5. Guy A gets lucky that night.

That's just friggen confusing.

*dons flameproof suit*

Ok, I was reading this blog
http://www.violentacres.com/archives/51/how-feminism-ruined-my-sex-life
and got a fair chuckle out of it.

This forum seems to have a number of threads that consist of:

"I'm a nice guy, why do women dump/ignore/step on me?"
"Rape is evil and so is anyone who even says the word."
"You're an evil feminazi! - no, I'm just a woman who knows how to say no."

So - a few questions after you read it (and it doesn't matter to me if the article offends or doesn't offend).

1. For the women - are you really wanting (if you're hetero that is) the man to have at least some level of aggression/backbone/balls? How much is too much?
2. For the men - how aggro are you? Be honest. Does it work for you and (if you're hetero) your woman?
3. Does it work the other way around?

I wouldn't want to be around an aggressive man. I expect my man to have self control, be assertive, and above all treat me like he would want to be treated.

Ok.

1. Girl A wants Guy A to get a soda
2. However Girl A doesn't want guy A to be her doormat.
3. So Guy A puts up a fight because hey theres's a good game on.
4. Girl A gets a little excitement in her life because she has to put a little bit more effort into getting her guy to do what she wants him to do.
5. Guy A gets lucky that night.

Your using words with more than one syllable........

Then why doesn't she just get it herself? The way you are making it seem, she wants a soda, but is doing everything possible to delay getting the soda.

She's not going to die of thirst and she wants to get something more. What that would be is up to you, but she'd rather it is something interesting and fun.

That's just friggen confusing.

Ok, which steps confused you?

I wouldn't want to be around an aggressive man. I expect my man to have self control, be assertive, and above all treat me like he would want to be treated.

Assertiveness is a degree of aggression in this case. I'm wondering if women want a man who is completely subservient and spineless. Or, alternatively, what degree of "aggression" they see as healthy.

I wouldn't want to be around an aggressive man. I expect my man to have self control, be assertive, and above all treat me like he would want to be treated.

Yea, but what about in the bedroom huh?

Ok, which steps confused you?

Why doesn't she just get the soda herself, and then jump into bed after the game, without the added difficulty?

Then why doesn't she just get it herself? The way you are making it seem, she wants a soda, but is doing everything possible to delay getting the soda.

You have a lot to learn young padawan. And the end of the day it all comes to one thing....


























SEX.

And yes I have a backbone. I'm no invertebrate

Assertiveness is a degree of aggression in this case. I'm wondering if women want a man who is completely subservient and spineless. Or, alternatively, what degree of "aggression" they see as healthy.

I think the key is being assertive without being threatening or violent.

I love to be dominated! trouble is, most guys dont seem to like doing it. very annoying.

Assertiveness is a degree of aggression in this case. I'm wondering if women want a man who is completely subservient and spineless. Or, alternatively, what degree of "aggression" they see as healthy.

Let's face it, spinless and subservient gets boring after awhile, women like guys who are aggressive (by how much varies from women to women) because it adds in more fun, more excitement.

Why doesn't she just get the soda herself, and then jump into bed after the game, without the added difficulty?

Because the game is part of the fun, you dolt.

I think the key is being assertive without being threatening or violent.

Yet I would bet that there are some women who want someone spineless (there have to be a few who want them that way).

and above all treat me like he would want to be treated.

You want a guy that gives you a "Girls gone wild" video for your birthday?

Why doesn't she just get the soda herself, and then jump into bed after the game, without the added difficulty?

Because she wants something that'll get her motor going, and having her guy act like a man instead of a spineless wimp might do it.

Assertiveness is a degree of aggression in this case. I'm wondering if women want a man who is completely subservient and spineless. Or, alternatively, what degree of "aggression" they see as healthy.
I don't see any form of aggression as healthy.

Yea, but what about in the bedroom huh?

He treats me like he would like to be treated.

You want a guy that gives you a "Girls gone wild" video for your birthday?

No, he would give her a "Guys Gone Wild" video...

You want a guy that gives you a "Girls gone wild" video for your birthday?

I didn't pick a guy who enjoys watching drunk girls pressured into things they wouldn't do sober.

Yet I would bet that there are some women who want someone spineless (there have to be a few who want them that way).

Yea, but those usually want to use the guys.

Because she wants something that'll get her motor going, and having her guy act like a man instead of a spineless wimp might do it.

I despise the opposite sex. :mad:

I despise the opposite sex. :mad:

So your a homophobe who despise the opposite sex? Think I see a pattern forming here................

So your a homophobe who despise the opposite sex? Think I see a pattern forming here................

Hmmm, we may be looking at a young Fred Phelps.

So your a homophobe who despise the opposite sex? Think I see a pattern forming here................

Yeah, I don't like much of anyone. I ain't attracted to guys, and I just don't understand girls.

I despise the opposite sex. :mad:

Three words, Be A Man. That's all you need to know.

Yeah, I don't like much of anyone. I ain't attracted to guys, and I just don't understand girls.

Whatever you say, I'm not here to judge..............

Three words, Be A Man. That's all you need to know.

hmm........and how does one "Be a man" exactly?

I didn't pick a guy who enjoys watching drunk girls pressured into things they wouldn't do sober.

What about sober girls doing things on their own volition?

What about sober girls doing things on their own volition?

he has little intrest in porn in general.

I'm a guy, and the only time I am aggressive is when I'm playing sports or when I feel something is very, very unfair. I guess strictly from a "romantic" relationship with women standpoint it has worked for me, I've been asked out by, iirc, three different girls and have a pretty ok number of girls hit on me. I don't believe that my last relationship ended because I wasn't aggresive enough, the girl was afraid of almost any aggression that I almost showed. I've been single since the summer by choice. In my opinion women want different things, depending on the what kind of person she is. All women do not want one thing.

I despise the opposite sex. :mad:

You despise many things it seems... except organized religion, which, in turn, many people here on NSG despise. Tough luck :)

hmm........and how does one "Be a man" exactly?

I used to be the nice guy, you know I would bend over backwards for women, I would worship the ground they walk on, etc. Hell I even would date any woman that I could get. However that system sucked because women just saw me as weak, and a wimp and easy to use. In fact one of my ex's took advantage of it. So I sat down, decided what my morals and values were, and decided to not deviate from them at any cost. I also wrote down what I think is right and righteous, and decided not to deviate from them at any cost either. Finally I've decided that a man is someone who provides for his family, for his love ones, a man who doesn't allow his balls to be kicked around and be used as a doormat. As I re-evaluate the image I want to present to the opposite sex, I've begin turning down women who really weren't my type. A man isn't a spineless wimp who bends over backwards for women, but he isn't an abusive asshole who rapes her either. You have to find that balance.

he has little intrest in porn in general.

I bet he has a stash somewhere! :D

I bet he has a stash somewhere! :D

All guys do! :D

I bet he has a stash somewhere! :D

We all do!

I bet he has a stash somewhere! :D

All guys do! :D

mine doesn't.

mine doesn't.

Maybe not in the physical sense, on paper....;)

mine doesn't.

Its a secret stash! Believe us he will have one.....

Its a secret stash! Believe us he will have one.....

Who knows: maybe he doesn't. Maybe she is such a nymphomaniac that he doesn't have the chance to masturbate.

Its a secret stash! Believe us he will have one.....

Why would smunkee's husband want porn?

;)

Who knows: maybe he doesn't. Maybe she is such a nymphomaniac that he doesn't have the chance to masturbate.

Having read some of Smunkee's posts on this forum this is a distinct possibility!!

Who knows: maybe he doesn't. Maybe she is such a nymphomaniac that he doesn't have the chance to masturbate.

Why would smunkee's husband want porn?

;)

Having read some of Smunkee's posts on this forum this is a distinct possibility!!

:p

:p

HA! I knew it.

Where the hell are all the single girls like you in my area? :mad:

HA! I knew it.

Where the hell are all the single girls like you in my area? :mad:

why do guys keep asking me that? :confused: :D

HA! I knew it.

Where the hell are all the single girls like you in my area? :mad:

Thats the reason they're not single

1. Girl A wants Guy A to get a soda
2. However Girl A doesn't want guy A to be her doormat.
3. So Guy A puts up a fight because hey theres's a good game on.
4. Girl A gets a little excitement in her life because she has to put a little bit more effort into getting her guy to do what she wants him to do.
5. Guy A gets lucky that night.

So guys get sex for being lazy? Bargain!

HA! I knew it.

Where the hell are all the single girls like you in my area? :mad:

There's a reason they're not single.

Thats the reason they're not single

Good point. AAAAAARG! :headbang:

Interesting piece... the rest of the site also has some interesting things...

http://www.bristollair.com/inner-game/nature-and-reality/the-truth-about-women.htmlthat article is total horseshit. this guy blames women for not knowing what they like, and then complaining that guys like him fuck them and dump them. then, he goes and complains that women have no integrity. maybe it has something to do with the women he happens to be able to convice to sleep with him.

The last one I asked said "candy", which only supports my premise that all women want... different things.
Exactly. Women are different. Men are different. There's no standard type of sex that women want. It doesn't work that way. I know the girls that are into agressive stuff; I also know that a lot of them like to be the agressive ones... Then there are other girls that would run screaming, maybe even laugh at an agressive guy. If you're in a relationship with a girl like that, tone it down, and maybe slowly crank up the volume.

The woman who wrote that article is evidently a feminist hater. I know women who are all for equal rights but are as liberal as they like in their own relationships. Some women like to be completely dominated. Some don't. But women do not want to be raped; and if they say they do, then they probably never have been raped. Raping implies that it is forced; if a woman wants to be 'raped' then it no longer can be defined as rape, it's just sex.

But, yes, the average woman does not want a wuss. She wants to be respected; but doesn't want a man so feeble that he worships the ground she walks on. That's what the whole getting the soda thing is about. She wants him to care enough to do something for her, but she doesn't want a butler to wait upon her hand and foot. A little annoyance shows that the guy has his own opinions. If he does get her what she wants, though, she'll probably reward him.

There's a reason they're not single.

I know a few...

I am as aggressive as a paralyzed sheep.



I apparently have the sex appeal of a dentist's drill.

I'm betting the drill has been in more women's mouths . . .

I'm betting the drill has been in more women's mouths . . .

You are ebil. You are sooo ebil. You know that, right? :(

*dons flameproof suit*

Ok, I was reading this blog
http://www.violentacres.com/archives/51/how-feminism-ruined-my-sex-life
and got a fair chuckle out of it.

This forum seems to have a number of threads that consist of:

"I'm a nice guy, why do women dump/ignore/step on me?"
"Rape is evil and so is anyone who even says the word."
"You're an evil feminazi! - no, I'm just a woman who knows how to say no."

So - a few questions after you read it (and it doesn't matter to me if the article offends or doesn't offend).

1. For the women - are you really wanting (if you're hetero that is) the man to have at least some level of aggression/backbone/balls? How much is too much?
2. For the men - how aggro are you? Be honest. Does it work for you and (if you're hetero) your woman?
3. Does it work the other way around?


i read the article

its kinda useless isnt it?

"you can get laid if when you get laid you do it rough. because all women like rough sex."

thats just stupid. different women like different things at different times.

no i dont want a man who will treat me like my desires are irrelevant to him in bed. i dont want a man who will leave me bruised every time we have sex.

All guys do! :D
We all do!
Thats the reason they're not single
There's a reason they're not single.
Strange. You two could be the same person!

Strange. You two could be the same person!

What can I say? Great minds must think alike :p

Interesting piece... the rest of the site also has some interesting things...

http://www.bristollair.com/inner-game/nature-and-reality/the-truth-about-women.html
This guy is a total jerk! I don't know what kind of neighbourhood he hangs around with but most women aren't like that! Granted, there's a healthy portion of women like the ones he seems to 'get lucky' with (say 1/4 of women of that age bracket?) but he can't make such blaring generalisations. Also, if he thinks he's a 'sex god' now, well he'll be seriously disappointed in maybe 10 years time and might have to resort to the horrible older ones that he mentions.

Here's a few quotes that I found amusing.
But once my skills got good, I could fuck just about anyone's wife or girlfriend.[quote]Would you like to know this guy? Do you think he'd leave your girlfriend/wife alone, even if they weren't interested?
[quote]Look, would you leave your dog alone with a steak? You can't hate the dog for doing what's in its nature. You can't trust a dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE a dog. Some men are disloyal... but I could *never* trust a woman to be loyal. Some men are bad presidents...but I could *never* vote for a woman to be president.This one is interesting. I'm almost certain that the dog and steak argument came up in a religious somewhere on NS general not too long ago. Could this be the same guy? Or perhaps a fan picked that argument up. Well either the same guy or a devoted fan who called themselves 'Hawt' posted almost the exact same words (except the president bit) on another forum. That guy listed 'Van Wilder' and 'Harold and Kumar' among his favourite films, so maybe.
Women want the top man...so the top man fucks lots of women. Would you want to sleep with this guy knowing that he's been with, as he says, 200 women? I'd be afraid of what I'd catch from him.

She will suck your toes and take it in the ass if she thinks you don't view her poorly for it (and she knows her friends won't find out.)

To get a woman attracted / emotionally vulnerable, give her lots of emotions and feelings.

That's right...women lose interest if you take them seriously!!!
Whatever you say, man. You obviously know women better than they know themselves...

Having backbone/balls, etc. is not the same as being aggressive.

You're right. One is standing up for yourself and/or others (which is defence), while the other puts you on the offence.

1. For the women - are you really wanting (if you're hetero that is) the man to have at least some level of aggression/backbone/balls? How much is too much?


Aggression - none
Backbone - a strong one
Balls - two, please. In the right place.

Besides the universal appeal of confidence, you can't really define "what women want" since they're all different and want different things.

dunno, I consider myself a wimp when it comes to women.


In light of your other thread maybe you should get some exercise. I'm not talking about building muscles, I'm talking about the happiness and confidence that physical activity gives.

What can I say? Great minds must think alike :p

Either that or perverted minds. :p

This guy is a total jerk! I don't know what kind of neighbourhood he hangs around with but most women aren't like that! Granted, there's a healthy portion of women like the ones he seems to 'get lucky' with (say 1/4 of women of that age bracket?) but he can't make such blaring generalisations. Also, if he thinks he's a 'sex god' now, well he'll be seriously disappointed in maybe 10 years time and might have to resort to the horrible older ones that he mentions.

...

i feel sorry for any mild-mannered young man who takes his advice.

I love to be dominated! trouble is, most guys dont seem to like doing it. very annoying.
Be like Naomi Wolf, and blame feminism!

That's just friggen confusing.
It's not really logical but it's fun so why not?
How old are you?

Ok.

1. Girl A wants Guy A to get a soda
2. However Girl A doesn't want guy A to be her doormat.
3. So Guy A puts up a fight because hey theres's a good game on.
4. Girl A gets a little excitement in her life because she has to put a little bit more effort into getting her guy to do what she wants him to do.
5. Guy A gets lucky that night.
I, prince of logic, shall divide out all A's from this post.

I, prince of logic, shall divide out all A's from this post.I'd factor'em. that way you keep the original value.

Women want New Xero Seven, of course. ;)

It's not really logical but it's fun so why not?

Because I can't seem to get a gal. :(

How old are you?

18. Le sigh.

All guys do! :D
No, we don't.

that article is total horseshit.
I agree, it's obvious fiction.

They want less periods, of course.

They want less periods, of course.

They actually can have less periods. All they have to do is bear children and nurse longer. As long as a woman is nursing, she more or less is incapable of getting pregnant and having periods.

They want less periods, of course.

Indeed! :p

They actually can have less periods. All they have to do is bear children and nurse longer. As long as a woman is nursing, she more or less is incapable of getting pregnant and having periods.

whoever told you that lied.

just thought you should know before you get into trouble with that "knowledge"

Because I can't seem to get a gal. :(

18. Le sigh.
Relax. Don't worry. You will have a long life.

i feel sorry for any mild-mannered young man who takes his advice.
Me too. Problem is that many will.

They want me, obviously....;)

I don't have a clue in truth. Out of a relationship? I assume "companionship", some form of shared interest, and a physical attraction/

In a friendship? Homosexuality perhaps?

According to the article I suppose I'm one of those 'perfect men' albeit a bit short tempered.

They actually can have less periods. All they have to do is bear children and nurse longer. As long as a woman is nursing, she more or less is incapable of getting pregnant and having periods.
They could use birth control, which, in their commercials, promise to not let periods happen. Or something.
Indeed! :p
Quite!

whoever told you that lied.

Except, of course, that you are wrong. It is a fact that many tribal African women only have a third of the number of periods as European women. Why? Because they are pregnant more often, and they nurse more often.

That said, I think you are referring to women not getting pregnant while lactating. There is proof. One moment.


http://www.kellymom.com/bf/normal/fertility.html

The Exclusive Breastfeeding method of birth control is also called the Lactational Amenorrhea Method of birth control, or LAM. Lactational amenorrhea refers to the natural postpartum infertility that occurs when a woman is not menstruating due to breastfeeding. Many mothers receive conflicting information on the subject of breastfeeding and fertility.

Exclusive breastfeeding has in fact been shown to be an excellent form of birth control, but there are certain criteria that must be met for breastfeeding to be used effectively.

Exclusive breastfeeding (by itself) is 98-99.5% effective in preventing pregnancy as long as all of the following conditions are met:

Your baby is less than six months old
Your menstrual periods have not yet returned
Baby is breastfeeding on cue (both day & night), and gets nothing but breastmilk or only token amounts of other foods.

*dons flameproof suit*
1. For the women - are you really wanting (if you're hetero that is) the man to have at least some level of aggression/backbone/balls? How much is too much?


I'd like a guy with some balls, you know. I don't want a guy who's overly aggressive or a guy who is just a complete wuss. I like guys who know how to treat women right and yet aren't afraid to kick my butt when playing tackle football in my/his back yard.

And I'd appreciate it if he asked me out entirely on his own and didn't break up with me on the internet (or "nonverbally" :rolleyes:)

Except, of course, that you are wrong. It is a fact that many tribal African women only have a third of the number of periods as European women. Why? Because they are pregnant more often, and they nurse more often.

That said, I think you are referring to women not getting pregnant while lactating. There is proof. One moment.


http://www.kellymom.com/bf/normal/fertility.html

http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/8148/tandem.html

I know about 20 women who tandem nurse, you can get pregnant when you are nursing, it's not rare, and it's certainly not impossible.

When I was nursing my own child, I was urged by doctors (both my OBGYN and the Pediatrician) to get on birthcontrol so that I did not get pregnant again and told by both of them, plus numerous baby books and websites that nursing a baby /=/ birth control.

When I was nursing my own child, I was urged by doctors (both my OBGYN and the Pediatrician) to get on birthcontrol so that I did not get pregnant again and told by both of them, plus numerous baby books and websites that nursing a baby /=/ birth control.

Well, the site did say that certain conditions had to be met.

Well, the site did say that certain conditions had to be met.

if you don't get pregnant the first 6 months after having a baby it's because you aren't dropping eggs and that has nothing to do with breastfeeding, I have friends who did not nurse and didn't have a period until 7 months postpartum.

I am just saying, you should always assume that a woman can get pregnant and take care of your own stuff if you don't want a kid running around.

They could use birth control, which, in their commercials, promise to not let periods happen. Or something.Yes, but bodies aren't stupid. It's not advised to use birth control without taking breaks. I mean, your body will eventually cop on that you haven't been pregnant for 2 years; and that's when things start to get messy...

Yes, but bodies aren't stupid. It's not advised to use birth control without taking breaks. I mean, your body will eventually cop on that you haven't been pregnant for 2 years; and that's when things start to get messy...Could you be more specific? I havent heard any studies saying that long-term use of birth control affects your fertility afterwards. The only thing I heard is that high estrogen might increase risk of cancer.

Yes, but bodies aren't stupid. It's not advised to use birth control without taking breaks. I mean, your body will eventually cop on that you haven't been pregnant for 2 years; and that's when things start to get messy...

it's 3 months on and one month off.

it's not like you get away without any, you just put them off for a while.

it's 3 months on and one month off.

it's not like you get away without any, you just put them off for a while.
What's 3 months on and 1 off?

What's 3 months on and 1 off?

The birth control that Ruffy referred to.

You know how BC has the 3 weeks of active pills and the one week of nothing pills?

you just take active for 3 months and then on the third month you stop for a week, then you go back on the active.

That's just friggen confusing.

Life, my friend, is rather confusing.

Indeed.

You know, to understand teh evil women I'd say to first improve yourself, as in having more confidence. Then it all will flow naturally :)

I'd say that confidence but not arrogance is the surest way to figure out what a woman wants.

Walk up and just talk to her.

Not that I should be giving relationship advice since I just got out of a two-year relationship with an evil, life-sucking succubus.

Like, for serious, I've visibly aged quite a bit from 19-21 and she owes so many people money. It boosted my confidence in the end because now I'm not afraid I'm going to have to explain to people why she isn't going to pay the bills she owes them anymore. I can just relax.

God my eye is twitching again!