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What the title said. I know a hot girl and I wanna ask her out. We're both 13 and we go to the same school. We are in different groups as well. I figure you guys could help me decide. So help me if you can, and all you who do get fluffles if you're female. Everybody else gets cookies. (Poll coming, if somebody can tell me how to make one.)

What the title said. I know a hot girl and I wanna ask her out. We're both 13 and we go to the same school. We are in different cliques as well. I figure you guys could help me decide. So help me if you can, and all you who do get fluffles if you're female. Everybody else gets cookies. (Poll coming, if somebody can tell me how to make one.)

Cliques aren't cool. If you're talking about groups, that's okay, but no cliques. There are many differences, friend.

But I say go for it. The worst she can do is say no, giggle, and treat you like an icky sea slug.

Pancake, can ya tell me how to get a poll in this thread?

My advice is to give it a go. Go
Go Johnny go
Go
Go Johnny go
Go
Go Johnny go
Go
Go Johnny go
Go
Johnny B. Goode

Thread tools.

And we've been over this, so my input is obvious.

Hold out.

Sure she's hot, but that means squat.

Pancake, can ya tell me how to get a poll in this thread?

Go to "thread options" and click "add poll" or whatever.

My advice is to give it a go. Go
Go Johnny go
Go
Go Johnny go
Go
Go Johnny go
Go
Go Johnny go
Go
Johnny B. Goode

Yeah!

That's my song, Krosi. I named all my screennames after it. :)

Go to "thread options" and click "add poll" or whatever.

Hate to sound like a total batshit, but where are the thread options? :confused:

Hold out.

Sure she's hot, but that means squat.

ack! Rhymes! Teh ebil rhymes!!! :eek: :mp5:

And Johnny, I'm waiting for my fluffle. *waits for fluffle*

ack! Rhymes! Teh ebil rhymes!!! :eek: :mp5:

And Johnny, I'm waiting for my fluffle. *waits for fluffle*

Oh, yeah. Sorry about that. :fluffle:

In the words of Quagmire;

"Gigidy gididy goo-goo-goo!"

In the words of Quagmire;

"Gigidy gididy goo-goo-goo!"

I second this Quagmire related post.

In the words of Quagmire;

"Gigidy gididy goo-goo-goo!"

I would not touch this Quagmire-related post with a 39.5 foot pole or prodding device.

However, I agree with it's message. That is all.

Yeah!

That's my song, Krosi. I named all my screennames after it. :)



Hate to sound like a total batshit, but where are the thread options? :confused:

ack, sorry, thread tools. It's right above your post.

I would not touch this Quagmire-related post with a 39.5 foot pole or prodding device.

However, I agree with it's message. That is all.

I second this Quagmire related post.

Lol, thanks guys. Thats what Quagmire and I are here for.;)

Alright, to help, I need to first explain social groups.

First, there is the "Popular" crowd, Abercrombie and Fitch wearing, high maintenance type. These are characterized by wearing Abercrombie and Fitch attire, American Eagle, nice polos of all colors, gelled hair, OR baby-t's, short skirts, lots of make up etc. Generally, their "friends" will talk endless with each other over how "uncool" others are, and in the same breath stab that person in the back, and talk behind the other persons back. Conversation is only seen as how things affect their life, and thus is devoid of any greater meaning.

Second-Jocks. Into sports, very similar to Populars, but different in that Populars often do not participate in sports, as it would mean dirtying themselves. Characterized by similar, albiet more dull, speak as to that of the Populars, often along the lines of "How we won that game!", "How we will win that game!" "The other team are pussys!", "That is so gay!", or "Man, were you at that party?!"

Third-Normals, average in everyway whatsoever, tend to do well, but not to well, in school, care somewhat about the world around them more than how it affects themselves, but not to greatly.

Politiks-Care greatly about the political surroundings of the Nation, talk excessively about politics and similar topics. Wear very nice clothes, well dressed, well groomed. Often believe they are "better" than others.

Stoner-The name says it all. Wears worn out clothes, doesn't care about appearance, talks about weed and other drugs most of the time. Most of the time, they can be found in the basement, getting high.

Nerd- Highly knowledgeably in academic fields, does homework on saturdays and other similar activities. Spends freetime going over technical knowledge.

Geek-Similar to nerd, except in the fact that one spends most of the time playing video games, Dungeons and Dragons(Or similar games), or Magic the Gathering(Or similar games). Talks about said activities most of the time, and has dire hatred for top of pyramid.

Goth-Believes that conformity is bad, and believes themselves to be nonconformist. However, it must be noted that they themselves are conforming to what they considering as being nonconformist.

Emo-The bottom. Believe everybody hates them, the world hates them, they are worthless, and that they are smarter, and better, than everyone else for realizing this. Also, they believe that the smallest little problem is much larger than it really is, and threatens to kill themselves repeatedly. However, it must be noted that they, infact, will not do so, as they only care about attention they receive from it, and how they can call everyone else "Chavs".

Alright, so the Pyramid goes thusly:

1.Populars
2.Jocks
3.Normals
4.Politiks
5.Stoners
6.Nerd
7.Geek
8.Goth
9.Emo

Now to explain the system. Now, in order to have a decent chance when asking another out, it goes one way or the other. A Jock can ask out a Popular or a Normal, and have a decent chance of Acceptance, due to closeness of relation. They have a Chance with asking out a Nerd, however not as much so with a Normal or Popular. Also, it is unlikely a Jock will ask out a Nerd, as it would greatly affect his/her social standing, and knock them down a rank. There is almost no chance of a Jock being accepted by either a Goth or an Emo, as he/she represents almost all that they are against.

So, the question that must now be asked is what social group do you fit in, and which does she, and after figuring that, figure the odds of acceptance. If only 1-2 ranks, the chances are high, especially if you are in a group higher than she is. If 3-4, it is unlikely. Anything more, and it is nigh impossible.

In all seriousness, though, just ask her out. Don't live in regret. If she says no, you'll be humiliated for what? A few days, at most. Then, if people talk about it, they'll forget very quickly, and it will be old news. I've been turned down before, and it changes absolutely nothing, at all, as we remained friends for quite some time afterwards(And due to me going off to school, and her being a year older than I, and going off to school, our friendship has rather fallen apart over the years).

I'm not even going to go into how much highschool relationships are pointless, as it would be very depressing, and wouldn't really help.

Lol, thanks guys. Thats what Quagmire and I are here for.;)

Quagmire?

Is he on Family Guy?

I don't watch Family Guy. It sucks.

Quagmire?

Is he on Family Guy?

I don't watch Family Guy. It sucks.
Do you hate all that is good on this green earth? :(

Quagmire?
Yes.
Is he on Family Guy?
Yes.
I don't watch Family Guy. It sucks.
Die.

Quagmire?

Is he on Family Guy?

I don't watch Family Guy. It sucks.

:eek: :eek: :eek:
How.......could you!?

Alright, to help, I need to first explain social groups.

First, there is the "Popular" crowd, Abercrombie and Fitch wearing, high maintenance type. These are characterized by wearing Abercrombie and Fitch attire, American Eagle, nice polos of all colors, gelled hair, OR baby-t's, short skirts, lots of make up etc. Generally, their "friends" will talk endless with each other over how "uncool" others are, and in the same breath stab that person in the back, and talk behind the other persons back. Conversation is only seen as how things affect their life, and thus is devoid of any greater meaning.

Second-Jocks. Into sports, very similar to Populars, but different in that Populars often do not participate in sports, as it would mean dirtying themselves. Characterized by similar, albiet more dull, speak as to that of the Populars, often along the lines of "How we won that game!", "How we will win that game!" "The other team are pussys!", "That is so gay!", or "Man, were you at that party?!"

Third-Normals, average in everyway whatsoever, tend to do well, but not to well, in school, care somewhat about the world around them more than how it affects themselves, but not to greatly.

Politiks-Care greatly about the political surroundings of the Nation, talk excessively about politics and similar topics. Wear very nice clothes, well dressed, well groomed. Often believe they are "better" than others.

Stoner-The name says it all. Wears worn out clothes, doesn't care about appearance, talks about weed and other drugs most of the time. Most of the time, they can be found in the basement, getting high.

Nerd- Highly knowledgeably in academic fields, does homework on saturdays and other similar activities. Spends freetime going over technical knowledge.

Geek-Similar to nerd, except in the fact that one spends most of the time playing video games, Dungeons and Dragons(Or similar games), or Magic the Gathering(Or similar games). Talks about said activities most of the time, and has dire hatred for top of pyramid.

Goth-Believes that conformity is bad, and believes themselves to be nonconformist. However, it must be noted that they themselves are conforming to what they considering as being nonconformist.

Emo-The bottom. Believe everybody hates them, the world hates them, they are worthless, and that they are smarter, and better, than everyone else for realizing this. Also, they believe that the smallest little problem is much larger than it really is, and threatens to kill themselves repeatedly. However, it must be noted that they, infact, will not do so, as they only care about attention they receive from it, and how they can call everyone else "Chavs".

Alright, so the Pyramid goes thusly:

1.Populars
2.Jocks
3.Normals
4.Politiks
5.Stoners
6.Nerd
7.Geek
8.Goth
9.Emo

Now to explain the system. Now, in order to have a decent chance when asking another out, it goes one way or the other. A Jock can ask out a Popular or a Normal, and have a decent chance of Acceptance, due to closeness of relation. They have a Chance with asking out a Nerd, however not as much so with a Normal or Popular. Also, it is unlikely a Jock will ask out a Nerd, as it would greatly affect his/her social standing, and knock them down a rank. There is almost no chance of a Jock being accepted by either a Goth or an Emo, as he/she represents almost all that they are against.

So, the question that must now be asked is what social group do you fit in, and which does she, and after figuring that, figure the odds of acceptance. If only 1-2 ranks, the chances are high, especially if you are in a group higher than she is. If 3-4, it is unlikely. Anything more, and it is nigh impossible.

In all seriousness, though, just ask her out. Don't live in regret. If she says no, you'll be humiliated for what? A few days, at most. Then, if people talk about it, they'll forget very quickly, and it will be old news. I've been turned down before, and it changes absolutely nothing, at all, as we remained friends for quite some time afterwards(And due to me going off to school, and her being a year older than I, and going off to school, our friendship has rather fallen apart over the years).

I'm not even going to go into how much highschool relationships are pointless, as it would be very depressing, and wouldn't really help.

This guy is in middle school. Here's how it works:

1) Populars: A+F, AE, like the populars in your post.
2) Jocks: Athletic Populars.
3) Normals: Hang around everyone.
4) Geeks/Nerds/Dorks: Talk about online games or politics, anything the first three couldn't care less about. Emos are in this category.

Being a loner in middle school helped me a lot. I didn't move up to 3 unti 8th grade. :(

Do you hate all that is good on this green earth? :( The earth is blue. Does the "water planet" mean anything to you?

Die. :(

:eek: :eek: :eek:
How.......could you!?

I'm a South Park kinda girl. ;)

I just don't get Family Guy at all.

This guy is in middle school. Here's how it works:

1) Populars: A+F, AE, like the populars in your post.
2) Jocks: Athletic Populars.
3) Normals: Hang around everyone.
4) Geeks/Nerds/Dorks: Talk about online games or politics, anything the first three couldn't care less about. Emos are in this category.

Being a loner in middle school helped me a lot. I didn't move up to 3 unti 8th grade. :(

Ah, I didn't take into consideration the middle school contract, which greatly abridges the categories.

Through out the most of school, I was in the Geek category. Moved my way up to Politik/Normal(albiet dressed and groomed like shit) hybrid, maintaining Geek tendencies. Of course, the girls I was "into" tended to be in Popular type status, and as I'm learning now some of them were quite "in to" me(GREAT to know now!). So, there are exceptions to the groups, as always there are, but it is usually how the system breaks down.

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That's the way it must be at nearly all-white schools...

Here, it goes something like this:

1. Blacks
2. Spanish people/white people who could be considered Spanish
3. Wiggers who have black friends/white athletes other than hockey players
4. Stoners/punks/metalheads
5. Scumfuck kids (emos, goths and the like)

Most Asians fall outside the above list, because they're in the magnet program. Those that do fall under the category of spanish people.
Also, the blacks and the spanish people tie for top spot. Levels 3 and 4 tie for third spot. The levels are pretty much sorted by which group would win in a brawl.

Now, in this ladder, no one can date each other if from a different race and level, and this is, AFAIK, non-negotiable.

I don't watch Family Guy. It sucks.
That's been true for a long time...

That's the way it must be at nearly all-white schools...

Here, it goes something like this:

1. Blacks
2. Spanish people/white people who could be considered Spanish
3. Wiggers who have black friends/white athletes other than hockey players
4. Stoners/punks/metalheads
5. Scumfuck kids (emos, goths and the like)

Most Asians fall outside the above list, because they're in the magnet program. Those that do fall under the category of spanish people.
Also, the blacks and the spanish people tie for top spot. Levels 3 and 4 tie for third spot. The levels are pretty much sorted by which group would win in a brawl.

Now, in this ladder, no one can date each other if from a different race and level, and this is, AFAIK, non-negotiable.


That's been true for a long time...

Meh. Blacks/Hispanics normally fall somehwere on the list in the white-majority schools.

The first thing you need to ask yourself is

The first thing you need to ask yourself is

:confused:

The first thing you need to ask yourself is
*hangs in suspense*

*hangs in suspense*
Rawr. *waits impatiently*

Meh. Blacks/Hispanics normally fall somehwere on the list in the white-majority schools.
At my high school, Blacks were either in the "Jock" group (the athletes), or the "nigga" group, for the niggs. These were the ones that didnt talk to white kids, gave you mean looks, and generally walked around with headphones on and not listening to the teacher.

The Hispanics are either in the "Hispanics" clique, or the "jock" clique, for soccer and baseball and such.

At my high school, Blacks were either in the "Jock" group (the athletes), or the "nigga" group, for the niggs. These were the ones that didnt talk to white kids, gave you mean looks, and generally walked around with headphones on and not listening to the teacher.

The Hispanics are either in the "Hispanics" clique, or the "jock" clique, for soccer and baseball and such.

Yeah, same at my high school.

In high school, it's different. In middle school it's cliques of non-whites, in high school it becomes groups.

At my high school, Blacks were either in the "Jock" group (the athletes), or the "nigga" group, for the niggs. These were the ones that didnt talk to white kids, gave you mean looks, and generally walked around with headphones on and not listening to the teacher.

The Hispanics are either in the "Hispanics" clique, or the "jock" clique, for soccer and baseball and such.
My, what a profound sociological analysis! :eek:

Alright, to help, I need to first explain social groups.*SNIP*
I was a mix of 1. 2. 3. 4. :cool:

I was a mix of 1. 2. 3. 4. :cool:

In high school?

What were you in middle school, eh?

I was a mix of 1. 2. 3. 4. :cool:
Hmm, for me it's 4 and partially 7 and 8. Can't really say I fit into any category exclusively, especially not the sheep-like 1-3's.

Nowadays, I'm one of my 4s (punks/metalheads), and I was one of Darknovae's 4s in middle school (I was a bit of a geek and a bit of an emo)

Nowadays, I'm one of my 4s (punks/metalheads), and I was one of Darknovae's 4s in middle school (I was a bit of a geek and a bit of an emo)
You were subhuman! :D

At my school:
1) Popular people.
2) Normal people
3) Geeks/goths/emos etc that have some redeeming qualities that allow them to be accepted into #2
4) Geeks/goths/emos etc
5) That/those weird kid/s who unsettles everyone

You were subhuman! :D

Meh. I was emo before it became an epidemic.;)

Meh. I was emo before it became an epidemic.;)

Right now I'm 4, 7, amd 8.

Right now I'm 4, 7, amd 8.
Wow, same as me. :fluffle:

In high school?

What were you in middle school, eh?
Maybe 2. I was really into sports and played water-polo/basketball/soccer/flag footabll (it was middle school).

I wasnt into politics yet, and wasnt very nice to kids I didnt like. :D

Probably straight 2 in middle school. Then 1234 in high school.

BUMP...because I'm wondering why you wanted to know.....:P

You could do what I do. Attempt to get courage to ask her out, but then curl up in a ball and weep. I don't recommend that though.

I'm in my own group. The psycho-threaten to kill everyone-talks about Pink Floyd group.

Get to know her first.

Ask her to a movie.

If all goes well, ask her out when you're there.

Get to know her first.

Ask her to a movie.

If all goes well, ask her out when you're there.

Isn't that asking her out? :confused:

What the title said. I know a hot girl and I wanna ask her out. We're both 13 and we go to the same school. We are in different groups as well. I figure you guys could help me decide. So help me if you can, and all you who do get fluffles if you're female. Everybody else gets cookies. (Poll coming, if somebody can tell me how to make one.)

Fluffling random females, probably not a good way to get her to go out with you.

*Then again I don't know how, so, maybe it would*

Get to know her first.

Ask her to a movie.

If all goes well, ask her out when you're there.

I'd do the reverse... if I were a guy.

Isn't that asking her out? :confused:

Exactly. It's a retro-active asking out.

I'd do the reverse... if I were a guy.

Would you say yes if guy-you did that?

Would you say yes if guy-you did that?

Most likely.

Fluffling random females, probably not a good way to get her to go out with you.

*Then again I don't know how, so, maybe it would*

Well, she doesn't know, does she?

Right now I'm 4, 7, amd 8.

Huzzah for Ireland not having a social hierarchy in primary and secondary school. Also, huzzah for me not being in either of them any more!

Well, she doesn't know, does she?

It's NS. She may never find out.

Either that or if she ever does come on NS and messes around few times, she won't care. :p

And you never gave me my fluffle. :mad:

Well, she doesn't know, does she?
Famous last words. :p

It's NS. She may never find out.

Either that or if she ever does come on NS and messes around few times, she won't care. :p

And you never gave me my fluffle. :mad:

Here ya go.

:fluffle:

Famous last words. :p

Yeah, right. Like she's on NSG. (Snorts sarcastically)

Huzzah for Ireland not having a social hierarchy in primary and secondary school. Also, huzzah for me not being in either of them any more!
I don't even know if English schools had a social hierarchy or not. Though judging from Seangoli's list, I'd have been a geekish-normal-jock with nerdish tendencies...

But yes, huzzah for not being in school anymore. :)

Cliques aren't cool. If you're talking about groups, that's okay, but no cliques. There are many differences, friend.

But I say go for it. The worst she can do is say no, giggle, and treat you like an icky sea slug.

Wow, I've never heard that used before.

Here ya go.

:fluffle:



Yeah, right. Like she's on NSG. (Snorts sarcastically)
*pulls off rubber mask*

I don't even know if English schools had a social hierarchy or not. Though judging from Seangoli's list, I'd have been a geekish-normal-jock with nerdish tendencies...

But yes, huzzah for not being in school anymore. :)

Well there are different groups, but they're not as any kind of hierarchy. It's not like "John Doe is in Group A, and as such is cooler/more popular than Anony Mous, who is in Group C". That and the groups are just groups of friends rather than all the "jocks" or all the stoners or whatever.

*pulls off rubber mask*

Ahahaha ahaha aha....No.

Not funny.

Well there are different groups, but they're not as any kind of hierarchy. It's not like "John Doe is in Group A, and as such is cooler/more popular than Anony Mous, who is in Group C". That and the groups are just groups of friends rather than all the "jocks" or all the stoners or whatever.

"I'm Glad that I'm a Beta," --- Aldous Huxley Brave New World

Well there are different groups, but they're not as any kind of hierarchy. It's not like "John Doe is in Group A, and as such is cooler/more popular than Anony Mous, who is in Group C". That and the groups are just groups of friends rather than all the "jocks" or all the stoners or whatever.

Lucky Irish bastard... :p

"I'm Glad that I'm a Beta," --- Aldous Huxley Brave New World
Hey, Wanderjar, long time no see. :D

Wow, I've never heard that used before.

Heard what used before? :confused:

Lucky English bastards...

Irish you fool.

Irish you fool.

:eek:
...My mistake *scurries off to change it*

Heard what used before? :confused:

"icky sea slug"


Never seen anyone treated like a sea slug. Never seen a sea slug either :p


LNI!!! LNI! My #1 G and ally! (w00t! That rhymes!)


How ya doin?

"icky sea slug"


Never seen anyone treated like a sea slug. Never seen a sea slug either :p


:p

"icky sea slug"


Never seen anyone treated like a sea slug. Never seen a sea slug either :p
...I thought you were being highly sarcasmic.

LNI!!! LNI! My #1 G and ally! (w00t! That rhymes!)


How ya doin?

Pretty good. Well, not bad... I mean, uh *bursts into tears* :(:(:(:D

Just kidding. How's it going?

...I thought you were being highly sarcasmic.



Pretty good. Well, not bad... I mean, uh *bursts into tears* :(:(:(:D

Just kidding. How's it going?

Not a thing has changed. Just existing man. Keeping my little cousins entertained through the weekened while my Aunt goes shopping has been a bit hard at times, but not too bad (My 7 year old cousin is fucking awsome dude, he knows more about football and hockey than I do!)

But yeah, nothin to complain about. Hows your buddy doin?

Not a thing has changed. Just existing man. Keeping my little cousins entertained through the weekened while my Aunt goes shopping has been a bit hard at times, but not too bad (My 7 year old cousin is fucking awsome dude, he knows more about football and hockey than I do!)

But yeah, nothin to complain about. Hows your buddy doin?

The side of his face is kinda bruised and he has some hemmorhaging in his eye, but he's back and has a good sense of humor about the whole thing (he said the video of him getting his ass kicked was hilarious). The kid who did it was expelled. :D

sarcasmic


orgasmic + sarcasm = sarcasmic?

Anybody there?

Hello?

Hello?

If you like her, and she seems to like you, go for it. You're only 13, now is the time to take risks! ;) :fluffle:

Anybody there?

Hello?

Hello?

So I guess your parents will be driving you and your girlfiend to a Romantic dinner?

I never understood how dating worked without a set of wheels.

So I guess your parents will be driving you and your girlfiend to a Romantic dinner?

I never understood how dating worked without a set of wheels.

Go somewhere within walking distance presumably.

So I guess your parents will be driving you and your girlfiend to a Romantic dinner?

I never understood how dating worked without a set of wheels.

Well, I'm gonna start small. A movie or something.

Only your shyness or non-confidence is getting in the way of a juicy date with that hot girl.

I think you should ask the Internet for advice.

You're 13? Okaaay. Just to warn yoi that this relationship won't go far, but it'll be good from an educatuonal point of view. Ask her out; only if she isn't the type to laugh at you or to make fun of you if she refuses. If she's not horrible then you can't really lose anything out in trying, I suppose.

You're 13? Okaaay. Just to warn yoi that this relationship won't go far, but it'll be good from an educatuonal point of view. Ask her out; only if she isn't the type to laugh at you or to make fun of you if she refuses. If she's not horrible then you can't really lose anything out in trying, I suppose.

Thanks for the advice, man. I didn't expect to get too far anyway, but hopefully I'll get some kissing done, yeah.

Some threads just refuse to die.
Anyway.
Ask her out.If she says no,you'll get over it.If she says yes,good for you.Get on with it.

Some threads just refuse to die.
Anyway.
Ask her out.If she says no,you'll get over it.If she says yes,good for you.Get on with it.

I hope so. The last time I got rejected, I went suicidal, and beat my self-esteem to death with a shovel. Of course I was 10, and a stupid little shit at that.

I hope so. The last time I got rejected, I went suicidal, and beat my self-esteem to death with a shovel. Of course I was 10, and a stupid little shit at that.

You'll look back on your being 13 with the same kind of attitude. I assure you; I've been there. Man, was I stupid at 13...

Johnny, my man. Here's my two cents:


I never dated until my senior year. Yeah... I'm a loser, and proud of it. Anyways, there was this girl I really liked - pretty, nice, smart, the whole deal. But she was my best friend's ex. Dang...

My first girlfriend was pretty much pushed on me. A mutual friend told me this girl liked me, and asked if I liked her back, whereupon a 'kinda' was forced out of me. To cut out the boring part, it was long, messy and really depressing. The worst part was the fallout, as mutual friends all bailed on me and took her side. *sigh*

Anyways, after that I pretty much said, "Screw you all, I'm gonna do what *I* want". I asked my best friend's ex to our senior prom, and that was the best decision in my life. Just over seven months, and we're still doing great.



The moral of the story, and life lesson number one: "Go for it."

What the title said. I know a hot girl and I wanna ask her out. We're both 13 and we go to the same school. We are in different groups as well. I figure you guys could help me decide. So help me if you can, and all you who do get fluffles if you're female. Everybody else gets cookies. (Poll coming, if somebody can tell me how to make one.)

If it doesn't work out for you now, you have plenty of time.

Avoid her like the plague. Relationships bring nothing but heartbreak.

Avoid her like the plague. Relationships bring nothing but heartbreak.

Way to crush the kid's hope for the future.

I'm not even going to go into how much highschool relationships are pointless, as it would be very depressing, and wouldn't really help.they're 13...doesn't that make them middleschoolers?

I've seen this so many times it's not even funny. Guys decide to ask some hot chick out and they get crushed. Smashed. Shattered into a thousand tiny little pieces like a RingPop thrown on the ground. Don't do it.

Way to crush the kid's hope for the future.

I'm doing the kid a favor. I'm just telling it like it is.

Do it, otherwise you'll regret it.

I know I did.

So did you ask her out?

EDIT: I was a mix of 1, 2, 3, 4, 6 and 7 in high school. We didn't really have cliques.

I'm doing the kid a favor. I'm just telling it like it is.

Well, as there are few certainties in life. Relationships = Heartbreak, may not be one of them.
Possible though.

Well, as there are few certainties in life. Relationships = Heartbreak, may not be one of them.
Possible though.

In my case it's a certainty. Relationships bring me nothing but heartbreak. They're more painful than having one's nails plucked out or genitals ripped off.

I voted ( a long time ago) to ask her out.

This made me think of that chic that had a big thread going here a long time ago .. I wonder if that was the same chic that went on to having that cult following/hatred at You Tube.

I've seen this so many times it's not even funny. Guys decide to ask some hot chick out and they get crushed. Smashed. Shattered into a thousand tiny little pieces like a RingPop thrown on the ground. Don't do it.

^ What he said. ^

Um actually, we share an age, and I'd like to say, that it might not be a very good idea, but if you think that you can make it, go for it. But idk, whatever you're comfortable with.

Do it.

Do it.

why did you dig this up?

why did you dig this up?

On gabbly, Johnny kept telling everyone to go there, and I figured I'd post to have him content, but I didn't realize how old it was :(