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If yall recall, I went out on one date with a fundie, who didn't like me because I'm Catholic. Well recently she's been bugging me, and wanting a second date because she wanted me to "redeem" myself *heh*. Redeem myself of what you say, well apparently to her, when we got into my car to cruise around town, I turned into a "rapist" which is bull. All we did was hold hand and she held my hand back, so she got nothing to care about. Oh it gets better, now she's saying she wants a second date because she's giving me a chance to prove myself to her. Apparently I have to prove that I am a "nice" guy, etc. Yea, well you know what, I know what kind of person I am, people on here, my family, friends, people at the airports, my fellow students at college, and my professors know what kind of person I am. I have nothing to prove to her, and I refuse to do so. She needs to get her head out of her ass.

You don't need to prove shit to her. Tell her to make like the wind and blow...

You don't need to prove shit to her. Tell her to make like the wind and blow...

Now now, she's a fundie, I doubt I'll get her to blow me. LOL!

I would say "no" just because she's being stupid. Ignoring her religious views entirely.

Whether she think holding hands is wrong or not, she didn't say "no." Or at least, you didn't say she said "no."

And why you would ever go on a date so that someone can prove themself is beyond my comprehension.

You would do well to steer clear of fundamentalists -- they may become violent when upset.

just ignore her, she's clearly unstable and any further contact cannot go well.

Look her in the eye, and tell her this. "I would say 'Fuck you' but that's really not an attractive prospect.'.".

You would do well to steer clear of fundamentalists -- they may become violent when upset.

WARNING: Contents may preach under pressure.

I would say "no" just because she's being stupid. Ignoring her religious views entirely.

Whether she think holding hands is wrong or not, she didn't say "no." Or at least, you didn't say she said "no."

And why you would ever go on a date so that someone can prove themself is beyond my comprehension.

She never said no or did anything to show that she was uncomfortable with it. In fact she held back. Her wordings was "When we got into a car, you changed into a completely diffrent person."

Yea.... I'm Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.

Yea.... I'm Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.

Well, you exhibited some impure thoughts. Hand holding?! That should wait until after marriage!

Well, you exhibited some impure thoughts. Hand holding?! That should wait until after marriage!

Wow... no shot-gun marriage for that?!

Well, you exhibited some impure thoughts. Hand holding?! That should wait until after marriage!

Well, time for her to go back to her time in the 1600's. I may be Conservative, but even I'm not this strict, jeez.

She never said no or did anything to show that she was uncomfortable with it. In fact she held back. Her wordings was "When we got into a car, you changed into a completely diffrent person."

Yea.... I'm Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.

I would tell her that you would be happy to go on a date with her once she figures out what her expectations are. Then, once she says she has figured them out, ask what they are. If you can't fill them, tell her so and say that you don't think you two should go on any more dates.

I don't understand how (if she's a Fundamentalist as you say) she will date you because she must be ignoring equal yoking, seeing how she obviously thinks you are less spiritually mature than she.

If you havin' girl problems I feel bad for you son. I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one....

Agree. Then offer to meet her at the most innocuously-named strip club in town.

Well, you exhibited some impure thoughts. Hand holding?! That should wait until after marriage!

I like you. Will you marry me?

Agree. Then offer to meet her at the most innocuously-named strip club in town.

LOL, and I should show up with two hookers, drinking, and smoking a cigar. :)

If you havin' girl problems I feel bad for you son. I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one....

OMG, I haven't heard that for ages. Well done. :D

OP: The only reason you should go on a second date is if you feel if missed something on the first one or if you think you like her. You can't go on one just so she 'let' you try again, you've already made up your mind.

If yall recall, I went out on one date with a fundie, who didn't like me because I'm Catholic. Well recently she's been bugging me, and wanting a second date because she wanted me to "redeem" myself *heh*. Redeem myself of what you say, well apparently to her, when we got into my car to cruise around town, I turned into a "rapist" which is bull. All we did was hold hand and she held my hand back, so she got nothing to care about. Oh it gets better, now she's saying she wants a second date because she's giving me a chance to prove myself to her. Apparently I have to prove that I am a "nice" guy, etc. Yea, well you know what, I know what kind of person I am, people on here, my family, friends, people at the airports, my fellow students at college, and my professors know what kind of person I am. I have nothing to prove to her, and I refuse to do so. She needs to get her head out of her ass.

The exact same thing happened to me, ovoid her, she wants to brainwash you. She'll screw you over like that one lefty fundy bitch screwed me over! Dump her, don't tell her anything at all and if she pries tell realistic lies! Don't look her in the eyes because fundies are kinda good at staring one down. And remind her that the Catholic church was the first Christian church ordained by Christ's followers and that she's being a heathen. And if anyone calls you a "Rapist" or anything related smack them so hard that their head painfully FLIES OUT OF THEIR ASS!!!!!!!! :mad:

OMG, I haven't heard that for ages. Well done. :D


Why thank you:fluffle:

Agree to the date. Then show up naked and covered it mud.

She's accusing you for a horrid crime and threatening to destroy everything just because your not part of her fundy cult! This is a declaration of social war, barricade yourself in!! :mp5: If she wants war she has it! I urge you to take the advice I posted earlier.

She's accusing you for a horrid crime and threatening to destroy everything just because your not part of her fundy cult! This is a declaration of social war, barricade yourself in!! :mp5: If she wants war she has it! I urge you to take the advice I posted earlier.

I wonder if Father Gray will agree to perform an exorcism on her. I think the spirit of The 700 Club has gotten into her. :p

LOL :p

I wonder if Father Gray will agree to perform an exorcism on her. I think the spirit of The 700 Club has gotten into her. :p

ROFL

Call her up and tell her she sucks. Best way to get a fundie is BAM in the face. :sniper: :p

Get as much info on her without letting her get info on you ;) Then use it against her. Most effective way of getting fundies that are socially armed and dangerous:gundge: