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Hey guys,

Random question(for girls)

What do you do if you like two different men who have the same feelings for you? :confused: Note that I am only looking for the answer that would give the best results.

Set a fancy dinner date with them at the same restaurant on the same night simultaneously, then cleverly move back and forth between their tables unseen, giving them both the impression that you're merely leaving to "powder your nose" -- a lot.

Absolutely nothing can go wrong in that scenario.

Hey guys,

Random question(for girls)

What do you do if you like two different men who have the same feelings for you? :confused: Note that I am only looking for the answer that would give the best results.Fuck them both and take the one with the most skills?

Fuck them both and take the one with the most skills?
I thought it was the one with the most money or better gifts?


Ok, I've been reading Wai Wai waaaaaaaaaaaaay too much.

Pretty good...does anyone else have suggestions?

Since I like to say for girls what most of them won't admit...

They will choose the one they like most, or neither, if they dont particularly like either. This will come down to looks, presentation, and money mainly.

Main thing here: Don't let her know your feelings. Be around her, but don't give any hint that you "have feelings" for her. Just try to hang out with her fairly often, and let her chase you.

One must be better than the other in some respect. Seriously. You need to sort of which one you are more attracted to. Which one would you rescue from a burning building? Which one do you dream about? Don't try to put logic into the situation. Go with your "heart," not your "brain." If you really can't decide right now, spend time casually with both and see which relationship starts to get more heated. The one thing I don't reccomend is trying to have a relationship with them both. If, three years from now, you still like them both equally, then it's time to move on. From both of them. Whoever you pick, you need to be one hundred percent committed to. Don't think that if you screw up with one, you can go running back to the other. Love doesn't generally work that way. And, remember, if things don't work out with either, it's not the end of the world. Romantic love is only a very small fraction of what the earth and life really is.

You are going to ask yourself the question of who you like the best. Think long; think hard. Then be prepared to break someone's heart.

18 rounds of bareknuckle boxing.

Hey guys,

Random question(for girls)

What do you do if you like two different men who have the same feelings for you? :confused: Note that I am only looking for the answer that would give the best results.

It would depend entirely on what feelings I had for THEM. Assuming I was more interested in one than the other, I would probably choose that one. If I didn't know them well enough to make a choice, I would get to know them both better and then choose.

If I had the same feelings for both of them, I would choose them both. And tell them both. And we would form a very happy threesome.

Maintain a platonic relationship for a time and hope something happens that will point you in the right direction?

I would guess the one that stuck around the longest despite your noncommital would be the one for you. I don't know how well you know them, but perhaps you could find a way to hang out with both separately without offending the other...

But, this is coming from a former uber-introvert who is single and loving it.

A bottle of Wild Turkey 101 will sort this out. Pour out the drinks and take the man who remains standing home. Make sure to give the loser a marker mustache.

threesome.

send me pictures.

In my other existance as a super fashion model, I would kick them both in the head, take the loot, and run off with demented hamsters. That not being the case however, I wish you the best of luck, because decisions like these suck.

Fuck them both and take the one with the most skills?

A man after my own heart ;)

Hey guys,

Random question(for girls)

What do you do if you like two different men who have the same feelings for you? :confused: Note that I am only looking for the answer that would give the best results.

Write threatening letters to your governor saying that you'll suicide bomb the 14 yo hes dating on the interweb if he does not legalize polygamy.

The answer is simple: Thunderdome. :)

Ask them both if they would stay with you if you got cancer. Dump the ones that say yes. If they are going to BS in a question like this, how do you trust them.

Hey guys,

Random question(for girls)

What do you do if you like two different men who have the same feelings for you? :confused: Note that I am only looking for the answer that would give the best results.

I'm a guy, but I'm experienced enough to know what the correct answer is:

1. String them both along with the unspoken promise of romantic/sexual satisfaction, but only give them enough hints and/or inticements to keep them coming after you.
2. Play them against each other, by telling each one that the other is a potential boyfriend for you that you sorta like, but you like the one you're talking to right now more. This makes them feel really special.
3. When you've decided which one you want to have first, go for it, but keep it a secret and/or lie to the other. That way you can switch back and forth as it suits you.
4. When you're finished, dispose of them both in whatever way is most expedient and cruel.

Every one else seems to have assumed that the "same feelings" felt by the two men in question are positive, lovey-dovey ones. I see nothing in the original question to actually confirm that, true as it may be.

Presuming that this is a case of someone feeling amourous toward two men who reciprocate with a deathwish, this is my advice: Sneak around a bit to see why these fellows hate you. If it is something that you can rectify, do so. Failing that, you will simply have to hatch a diabolical plan to reverse their hate. Try unleashing some aphrodesiac on them or something. In any case, once all that is done and they both like you, pick whichever one is shortest and date him. Tall guys get uproportionally more romance than shorter ones, after all.

Good luck!

Since I like to say for girls what most of them won't admit...

They will choose the one they like most, or neither, if they dont particularly like either. This will come down to looks, presentation, and money mainly.

Main thing here: Don't let her know your feelings. Be around her, but don't give any hint that you "have feelings" for her. Just try to hang out with her fairly often, and let her chase you.



i don't agree. or at least not personally, cause i can't speak for everyone else. i go for compatibility. i'd really prefer if the guy has a good job and a car, but it boils down to how well you get along with them. and as for being aloof that can confuse people a lot. i think it's better to be upfront, without being pushy or creepy.

let them fight it out.

or pick the one who is wittier and funnier.

let them fight it out.

or pick the one who is wittier and funnier.

I like the fight idea. Better yet, though, duel. Pistols at dawn, 10 paces. May the better shot win.

i don't agree. or at least not personally, cause i can't speak for everyone else. i go for compatibility. i'd really prefer if the guy has a good job and a car, but it boils down to how well you get along with them. and as for being aloof that can confuse people a lot. i think it's better to be upfront, without being pushy or creepy.

I once thought as you do, but have several failed relationships because I chose women with whom I had a mental and spiritual connection, rather than women with nice bodies that I could treat like pieces of meat for my own satisfaction. I dont want it to be, but physical attraction always ends up being the most important element in a relationship.

Just go with the best looking guy, otherwise even if the other one is much nicer, youl always know you could have done better. If theyre equally attractive, have the one with the biggest cock.

If theyre equally attractive, have the one with the biggest cock.

i would start a poll on this, but it would be probably closed.

whcih is more important:
big cock or good in bed?

make them fight for you then go out with the least injured.

Why cant you keep both?

In my other existance as a super fashion model, I would kick them both in the head, take the loot, and run off with demented hamsters. That not being the case however, I wish you the best of luck, because decisions like these suck.
Yay! someone fancies me!

wait...you are a chick, right?

I'm a guy, but I'm experienced enough to know what the correct answer is:

1. String them both along with the unspoken promise of romantic/sexual satisfaction, but only give them enough hints and/or inticements to keep them coming after you.
2. Play them against each other, by telling each one that the other is a potential boyfriend for you that you sorta like, but you like the one you're talking to right now more. This makes them feel really special.
3. When you've decided which one you want to have first, go for it, but keep it a secret and/or lie to the other. That way you can switch back and forth as it suits you.
4. When you're finished, dispose of them both in whatever way is most expedient and cruel.
So YOU were the 'other' guy!!
I should have known.

date them both and tell them later to watch them brawl one another for your amusement

18 rounds of bareknuckle boxing.

That would certainly solve the dilemma. And you'd be picking the tougher guy. Alternatively... say no to both and take the one that begs. He wants it more.

big cock or good in bed?

It's not the size of the wave, it's the motion in the ocean. :p

Hey guys,

Random question(for girls)

What do you do if you like two different men who have the same feelings for you? :confused: Note that I am only looking for the answer that would give the best results.

A threesome.

you teach me how to get ONE guy interested, much less two.

Life is so unfair :(

Hey guys,

Random question(for girls)

What do you do if you like two different men who have the same feelings for you? :confused: Note that I am only looking for the answer that would give the best results.

You flip a coin, and crush one of their hearts with your stilletto heel.

Hey guys,

Random question(for girls)

What do you do if you like two different men who have the same feelings for you? :confused: Note that I am only looking for the answer that would give the best results.

Actually you could be the one being set up to get hurt. I would only date someone if I felt that person could possibly be "the one" for me. Since you have "the two" I would take that as a sign I'm not ready to date either of them until I felt there was a "the one." And the thing about sleeping with both of them and stuff like that is awful advice. You have no idea which one you would rather date and you would accept the possible consequences of getting pregnant by one of them at this stage? That would not be fair to you, the other guy, nor the child that could come out of that. Just think this through with some common sense and know that if NEITHER of them was the guy for you that means there's someone out there made just for you that is better. Don't settle girl. Too many of my friends have done that and messed up their lives.

The answer is simple: Thunderdome. :)

Nice! I can remember watching that crappy movie that Dane Cook was in a few years ago where he said "Welcome to the the Thunderdome, bitch!", and I laughed so hard. The only time I've ever laughed at Dane Cook.

i would start a poll on this, but it would be probably closed.

whcih is more important:
big cock or good in bed?

what is the POINT of a big cock if a man isnt any good in bed? its not like you can do anything else with it.

if a man can get the job done with a 3 inch erection he is worth way more than the man with 9 inches of uselessness.



but back to the original question....

id go with the man with the better car.

Fuck them both and take the one with the most skills?

Indeed! :)

Well, in all seriousness, I'll tell you what I told one of my ex-girlfriends, but in a less cynical way. If you have two guys you like alot, you obviously don't like either one of them enough to give all your love to, so you should probably just move on. There's plenty of other good men.

Hey guys,

Random question(for girls)

What do you do if you like two different men who have the same feelings for you? :confused: Note that I am only looking for the answer that would give the best results.

send them to a deserted island last man alive wins!

oh, really I don't know, I have tons of guys that like me, but only one was worthy of my time.

Ummm...I'm not the girl in the situation (in fact I'm male) I just imagined what it would be like to have two crushes as a girl, and being equally interested to both who seem to be equally interested in you, thus compelling me to ask the question.

As I stated in the first post its a random question.

Well, in all seriousness, I'll tell you what I told one of my ex-girlfriends, but in a less cynical way. If you have two guys you like alot, you obviously don't like either one of them enough to give all your love to, so you should probably just move on. There's plenty of other good men.

*applauds* good answer!

I'm going to have to go with the threesome option. Foolproof.

Yay! someone fancies me!

wait...you are a chick, right?

No, I'm not. But I'm not gay either. You just happened to be the post right above me.