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Seriously, sheesh. Hasn't that message penetrated deep enough yet?
Why on earth would somebody seriously ask a girl he's never even met yet, but who he would like to meet for a one night stand, if it would be ok to go for it without condom? Even after she told him she's not on the pill? Are some people born without brains? :mad:

Oh no, they have brains. They're just mostly non-functioning.

Ignorance
Alcohol
Drugs
Stupidity
Belief in ones own invincibility (not uncommon amoung teenagers)
"It wont happen to me"
"I know we're both clean"
Just don't care.

"I can get a kid and be off scott free!"?

Ignorance
Alcohol
Drugs
Stupidity
Belief in ones own invincibility (not uncommon amoung teenagers)
"It wont happen to me"
"I know we're both clean"
Just don't care.

Well, I'll rule out alcohol and drugs, and teenager isnt' applicable either. Willful blindness, possibly. I just can't believe how someone could possibly be this blind and stupid...

Belief in ones own invincibility (not uncommon amoung teenagers)

Yes, I am invincible!
*gets frozen by some manner of coolant*
*dies*
*is proven wrong*

Are some people born without brains? :mad:
You just answered your own question. :p

Mainly I think it has to do with the hindbrain, the "Ooo ooo ooo, Me want sex, no wait, now now now! Drungstore take too long. Sex! Now! Ooo!" part.

Well, I'll rule out alcohol and drugs, and teenager isnt' applicable either. Willful blindness, possibly. I just can't believe how someone could possibly be this blind and stupid...

I'm guessing you're refering to a specific scenario - not a general case thingey.

Give us the juicy details :D

You just answered your own question. :p

Mainly I think it has to do with the hindbrain, the "Ooo ooo ooo, Me want sex, no wait, now now now! Drungstore take too long. Sex! Now! Ooo!" part.

Don't forget the 'Condom no fun, free willy better' lobe

Don't forget the 'Condom no fun, free willy better' lobe

I guess that's closer to the point, considering that I would have no problem whatsoever providing the condoms...

I'm guessing you're refering to a specific scenario - not a general case thingey.

Give us the juicy details :D

The details? Oh, wouldn't you like to know. But think of the children! :eek:

Don't forget the 'Condom no fun, free willy better' lobe
I compleatly forgot about that, and you're quite right.






Of course now I have Born Free stuck in my head. :D

Seriously, sheesh. Hasn't that message penetrated deep enough yet?

*giggles*

NERVUN had it right though...right down to the language.

Most people, sadly, aren't bothering to use their brains when in such a situation.

I would be more worried about STDs than pregnancy in such a situation...but clearly there are people who don't even consider the possibility. :(

The details? Oh, wouldn't you like to know. But think of the children! :eek:

<Issues the children with blindfolds>

Taken care off ! ;)

I guess that's closer to the point, considering that I would have no problem whatsoever providing the condoms...
Start throwing condoms at this guy everytime you see him. And explain to everyone nearby why. And avoid Copper Faced Jacks ;)

I compleatly forgot about that, and you're quite right.






Of course now I have Born Free stuck in my head. :D

Born free to follow your......eh

*giggles*

NERVUN had it right though...right down to the language.

Most people, sadly, aren't bothering to use their brains when in such a situation.

I would be more worried about STDs than pregnancy in such a situation...but clearly there are people who don't even consider the possibility. :(

Well, I'd worry about both. But a little more about pregnancy, simply because the odds are higher than for STDs. Either way, it's dumb beyond description knowing about all that and still asking the girl over and over if she wouldn't like it without condom....

Oh.

Hell.

No.

Well, I'd worry about both. But a little more about pregnancy, simply because the odds are higher than for STDs. Either way, it's dumb beyond description knowing about all that and still asking the girl over and over if she wouldn't like it without condom....
Unfortunately, intelligence is not a prerequisite to breed or have sex.

Well, I'd worry about both. But a little more about pregnancy, simply because the odds are higher than for STDs. Either way, it's dumb beyond description knowing about all that and still asking the girl over and over if she wouldn't like it without condom....

The odds of pregnancy are higher, but I for one would much rather try to raise a child than contract HIV...

Protect yourself

http://www.sxc.hu/pic/m/d/dk/dkg/332690_stop_aids_-_use_condoms_3.jpg


Whether you're a boy or a girl...
- It's YOUR responsibility.

The odds of pregnancy are higher, but I for one would much rather try to raise a child than contract HIV...

It's not cureable, but treatable. And I'd rather avoid both... I don't think I'll be meeting this idiot.

Seriously, sheesh. Hasn't that message penetrated deep enough yet?
Why on earth would somebody seriously ask a girl he's never even met yet, but who he would like to meet for a one night stand, if it would be ok to go for it without condom? Even after she told him she's not on the pill? Are some people born without brains? :mad:

You're not a guy, you wouldn't understand. There's a different brain at work when it's time to put on the condom.

You're not a guy, you wouldn't understand. There's a different brain at work when it's time to put on the condom.

But we weren't anywhere near that point yet... it was basically still all arrangements and that.

But we weren't anywhere near that point yet... it was basically still all arrangements and that.

Apparently his 'little brain' takes over a little early.

I always wear a condom. Got one on right now. :)

I always wear a condom. Got one on right now. :)

Do I even want to know where you wear it right now?

One cold winter morning I walked out of my dorm freshman year to discover that someone had, oddly enough, put condoms on all of the bikes outside of the building. That means on the seats and the handlebars.

I was confused.

Seriously, sheesh. Hasn't that message penetrated deep enough yet?
Why on earth would somebody seriously ask a girl he's never even met yet, but who he would like to meet for a one night stand, if it would be ok to go for it without condom? Even after she told him she's not on the pill? Are some people born without brains? :mad:

You'd be foolish for sleeping with anyone when not on the pill, even with a condom. They fail far too frequently to rely on completely.

Protect yourself

http://www.sxc.hu/pic/m/d/dk/dkg/332690_stop_aids_-_use_condoms_3.jpg


Whether you're a boy or a girl...
- It's YOUR responsibility.

That girl disturbs me, almost as much as if Hardgay was holding up the condom.

You'd be foolish for sleeping with anyone when not on the pill, even with a condom. They fail far too frequently to rely on completely.
Even inanimate objects like bicycles know to use protection when getting a good ride.

That girl disturbs me, almost as much as if Hardgay was holding up the condom.

Consider yourself warned then:
Practice Safe Sex, or that girl (or perhaps Hardgay) will show up at YOUR home!

And then you'll be plenty disturbed :D

http://www.sxc.hu/pic/m/d/dk/dkg/332690_stop_aids_-_use_condoms_3.jpg
*Takes condom*
*Wears condom*
*Has wicked way*

What?

Do I even want to know where you wear it right now?

That is a question only you can answer. :)

That is a question only you can answer. :)

I'd be impressed if you were wearing it everywhere, i.e. if you were inside an enormous condom.

because they are

a) wreckless and idiotic

b) uncaring

c) stupid

d) all of the above

pick one, and then run far far away.

I'd be impressed if you were wearing it everywhere, i.e. if you were inside an enormous condom.

Impressed, yes. Surprised, ... no.

Seriously, sheesh. Hasn't that message penetrated deep enough yet?
Why on earth would somebody seriously ask a girl he's never even met yet, but who he would like to meet for a one night stand, if it would be ok to go for it without condom? Even after she told him she's not on the pill? Are some people born without brains? :mad:No, some people grow up in places where common sense isn't ingrained at the appropriate age. Or they're guys.

I'd be impressed if you were wearing it everywhere, i.e. if you were inside an enormous condom.I've been accused of that before...:D
Ah, summer camp...

Seriously, sheesh. Hasn't that message penetrated deep enough yet?
Why on earth would somebody seriously ask a girl he's never even met yet, but who he would like to meet for a one night stand, if it would be ok to go for it without condom? Even after she told him she's not on the pill? Are some people born without brains? :mad:
A lot of boys and men are taught that contraception is woman's business.

Our society often portrays men as sex-crazed beasts who cannot control their male urges, and we make excuses for men who are sexually irresponsible by saying things like "boys will be boys" or "it's just how men are!"

Women, on the otherhand, only have sex in order to please men. It's not like they actually enjoy it or are driven to have sex the way men are. Therefore, since women have such cool heads, it's up to them to worry about the messy details like contraception. Men can't possibly be expected to think with their brains while their "other head" is engorged with blood!

[Which is all really funny when you realize that WOMEN are the only ones who have a body part that is completely and exclusively devoted to sexual pleasure. Yet, for some reason, WOMEN are the ones who aren't meant to enjoy sex.]

All of which is clearly bullshit, of course, and is a great example of how sexism hurts men. We teach men that it's okay for them to be irresponsible and to expect other people to always clean up their messes, which results in lots of men taking stupid risks and getting themselves (or somebody else) hurt.

It's rather simple really.

They think they can pull out in time. The thought of STD's never crosses their minds.

because they are

a) wreckless and idiotic

b) uncaring

c) stupid

d) all of the above

pick one, and then run far far away.

Which is bascially what I'm going to do ;)
He's cute, but he's not worth that kind of hassle.

It's rather simple really.

They think they can pull out in time. The thought of STD's never crosses their minds.

Probably not... all the more reason to stay clear of him.

I'd be impressed if you were wearing it everywhere, i.e. if you were inside an enormous condom.

We call that a trashbag. :p

the last person i had a one night stand with refused to use a condom, apparently she's never ever used contraceptives other than the pill and has a list of sexual partners in high double figures. i would have just said no way but i was utterly wasted and don't actually remember having sex with her although she assures me we did. i think she might be mental. anyway that's my anecdote to show that even well informed, educated and highly intelligent people such as this girl still for some reason refuse to use condoms. oh, and she's not allergic to latex or anything it's just a matter of choice for her. i have yet to go for an STI checkup but i will before i have the prospect of any more sex just in case.

"I can get a kid and be off scott free!"?

For a second there, I thought you said "I can get off a kid and be scott free"...it raised some real questions, not all of them pleasant.

Seriously, sheesh. Hasn't that message penetrated deep enough yet?
Why on earth would somebody seriously ask a girl he's never even met yet, but who he would like to meet for a one night stand, if it would be ok to go for it without condom? Even after she told him she's not on the pill? Are some people born without brains? :mad:

Not enough blood to keep both heads working properly ;)

Not enough blood to keep both heads working properly ;)

Couldn't have said it better. :D

Seriously, sheesh. Hasn't that message penetrated deep enough yet?
Why on earth would somebody seriously ask a girl he's never even met yet, but who he would like to meet for a one night stand, if it would be ok to go for it without condom? Even after she told him she's not on the pill? Are some people born without brains? :mad:

I think maybe the thought process was impaired due to arousal.

I wouldnt-I dont want any unplanned kids or herpes, etc....

I guess sex is just so great it seems worth it. Unless you get Adez or herpes its not so bad anyway.

Seriously, the guy is dangerous... OK, he will get sex. So far so good... And then he wants to do it without protection? :eek:

http://www.bpaul.com/xoops/modules/weblog/images/stupidity.jpg

Do like Forrest - Run, girl, RUN!

I know some people who haven't had a good talk with their parents or sexual health nurse and don't know that that is how you get pregnant. There are also some who don't know that condoms will prevent pregnancy. Believe it or not.

penetrated deep

lol condom*snickers*

I know some people who haven't had a good talk with their parents or sexual health nurse and don't know that that is how you get pregnant. There are also some who don't know that condoms will prevent pregnancy. Believe it or not.

Yes, but a 30 year old guy??? And there's people on this forum claiming that teenagers act irresponsibly...

Seriously, sheesh. Hasn't that message penetrated deep enough yet?
Why on earth would somebody seriously ask a girl he's never even met yet, but who he would like to meet for a one night stand, if it would be ok to go for it without condom? Even after she told him she's not on the pill? Are some people born without brains? :mad:

Perhaps he changed his mind about desiring casual sex with her and this was his way of expressing it?

Perhaps he changed his mind about desiring casual sex with her and this was his way of expressing it?

*lol
Romantic guess, but no. No way. ;)

We call that a trashbag. :p

condom: wimpy, wimpy, wimpy

trashbag: HEFTY, HEFTY, HEFTY!