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I'm wondering what the average age is for virgniity loss. Please state your age in your post along with your age when you lost your virginity.

I lost mine when I was 15 and I'm 15 right now. July 15, 2006.

I lost mine when I was 9 to the child molester next door. I'm over twice your age.

That's easy... April 19, 2003. I was 23 at the time. It also happens to be my wedding anniversary, and I've been married what, 3 1/2 years now? I don't think either of our parents believed it, but it's the truth, and there you have it.

I havn't yet, but I'm only 16.

when I was 4. I was such a slut back then

I lost mine when I was 9 to the child molester next door. I'm over twice your age.

Sorry about that. I managed to not actually get raped while being molested at about the same age. Perverts. I hope he's either dead or in jail now...

14 such a stupid mistake :(

I lost mine late.... too late. I missed a lot.

when I was 4. I was such a slut back then :eek: I'm hoping you forgot a '1' infront of that '4'...

I lost mine when I was 9 to the child molester next door. I'm over twice your age.
hope they rot!

36...


and haven't lost mine yet...



any takers?

36...


and haven't lost mine yet...



any takers?

If there wasn't half a world between us... ;) :fluffle:

36...

and haven't lost mine yet...

any takers?

:eek: are you just saying that because someone will feel sorry and have sex with you?

because its working...

With a guy, 15. With a girl, 18.

Sorry about that. I managed to not actually get raped while being molested at about the same age. Perverts. I hope he's either dead or in jail now...

I didn't tell anyone until many years later. Though the likelyhood that he continued such behavior makes it possible he didn't get away scot free.

:eek: I'm hoping you forgot a '1' infront of that '4'...

it was joke


36...


and haven't lost mine yet...



any takers?
Why are you still a virgin if you dont mind my asking.

With a guy, 15. With a girl, 18.

I didn't know you were like that:eek:

I was 13, it was a one night stand with some guy at a camp-site I was at.

:eek: I'm hoping you forgot a '1' infront of that '4'...

Personally, I was hoping it was a 2 in front of the 4 that was missing... :D

If there wasn't half a world between us... ;) :fluffle: :fluffle:

:eek: are you just saying that because someone will feel sorry and have sex with you?

because its working...

it was joke*whew*

Why are you still a virgin if you dont mind my asking.never found the right person... so far.

to me, it's an intimate offering, thus, my first time should be with someone I really care for.

non-consentual under 5

consentual 18

I only count consentual sex though.

never found the right person... so far.

to me, it's an intimate offering, thus, my first time should be with someone I really care for.

good for you. ;)

non-consentual under 5

Seriously? That really blows.

never found the right person... so far.

to me, it's an intimate offering, thus, my first time should be with someone I really care for.
Thats definitely respectable.

I lost mine when I was 9 to the child molester next door. I'm over twice your age.

non-consentual under 5

consentual 18

whenever I hear of this shit... I feel like grabbing my Katana and short sword and opening a can of whoop ass on those assholes... :mad:

Seriously? That really blows.
yeah, I hated everyone for a long time. I still hate people occaisionally.

I was seventeen. I'd only just met the guy as well, but no regrets. We actually ended up together for nearly half a year.

yeah, I hated everyone for a long time. I still hate people occaisionally.

I hate a lot of people too, but i've never had that happen to me. I guess a little hatred now and then is okay. How did you cope with it?

whenever I hear of this shit... I feel like grabbing my Katana and short sword and opening a can of whoop ass on those assholes... :mad:

Yeah... except I was abused by a martial arts instructor... the guy who TEACHES Katana and short swords... what would you do THEN?

I was seventeen. I'd only just met the guy as well, but no regrets. We actually ended up together for nearly half a year.

??? on a side note... do you consider 6 months a "long relationship"?

I didn't know you were like that:eek:

Really? Huh ... well I guess it's not something I really talk about a whole lot in casual conversation, but I am quite bi.

Yeah... except I was abused by a martial arts instructor... the guy who TEACHES Katana and short swords... what would you do THEN?

"the World's best fighter fears not the second best, but the worst."

The first blow little Manny struck
it hurt Lord Arnold sore
the second blow Lord Arnold struck
little Manny stood no more

Lord Arnold felt about himself
to see where he'd been cut
he looked and found to his surpise
he lost his "You know what"

and he said
[rising to a high pitched voice] "Ooooohhhhh shit!"

from "Like a Lamb to the Slaughter"

Yeah... except I was abused by a martial arts instructor... the guy who TEACHES Katana and short swords... what would you do THEN?

Oww, that's harsh. I guess then they have a Highlander style duel and shout "There can be only one!"

whenever I hear of this shit... I feel like grabbing my Katana and short sword and opening a can of whoop ass on those assholes... :mad:

I'd support you with that. Just hearing stuff like that upsets me, I can only imagine what these children and their familiys have to go through. :(

Yeah... except I was abused by a martial arts instructor... the guy who TEACHES Katana and short swords... what would you do THEN?

Get him drunk ... grab balls ... twist and twist and twist ... they do eventually come off.

Yeah... except I was abused by a martial arts instructor... the guy who TEACHES Katana and short swords... what would you do THEN?

Strike him with a blunt instrument. Like maybe a bus. You don't get much more blunt than a bus. :)

Get him drunk ... grab balls ... twist and twist and twist ... they do eventually come off.

:(

Strike him with a blunt instrument. Like maybe a bus. You don't get much more blunt than a bus. :)

A train is, but they only go on rails. A whale too, but they aren't terribly mobile.

??? on a side note... do you consider 6 months a "long relationship"?

For me yes. I'm starting to leave a trail of ex-boyfriends behind me. I just haven't met anyone who I'd consider spending the rest of my life with. :(

It's fun looking though. ;)

Get him drunk ... grab balls ... twist and twist and twist ... they do eventually come off.
:(

the key word being... EVENTUALLY... :D

(three days of twisting later)
WTF! are yours attached via EYE hook?

??? on a side note... do you consider 6 months a "long relationship"?meh. it aint bad for highschool.
I'd prefer a six month relationship to still being a virgin at 36

(oh, I was 18)

the key word being... EVENTUALLY... :D

(three days of twisting later)
WTF! are yours attached via EYE hook?

carbon nanotubes. :)

meh. it aint bad for highschool.
I'd prefer a six month relationship to still being a virgin at 36

(oh, I was 18)

ahhh... but how would you know... ;)

and you'll never know now.... :D

meh. it aint bad for highschool.

Yeah it was great. He worked in the pub near my sixth-form college, and would serve me knowing I was too young. Booze and sex is good. :D

I hate a lot of people too, but i've never had that happen to me. I guess a little hatred now and then is okay. How did you cope with it?

I did a lot of drugs to live through it until I moved out at 15 and then I did a lot of drugs and got drunk a lot because at that point I was addicted. I got put in court ordered rehab at 17 and quit everything and didn't ever go back, I met my husband when I was 18 and lost my "real virginity" with him (not that there was anything "real" about it other than emotional)

I did a lot of drugs to live through it until I moved out at 15 and then I did a lot of drugs and got drunk a lot because at that point I was addicted. I got put in court ordered rehab at 17 and quit everything and didn't ever go back, I met my husband when I was 18 and lost my "real virginity" with him (not that there was anything "real" about it other than emotional)

Well, at least there was a light at the end of the tunnel.

Well, at least there was a light at the end of the tunnel.

oh yeah, things are great now. :D

I did a lot of drugs to live through it until I moved out at 15 and then I did a lot of drugs and got drunk a lot because at that point I was addicted. I got put in court ordered rehab at 17 and quit everything and didn't ever go back, I met my husband when I was 18 and lost my "real virginity" with him (not that there was anything "real" about it other than emotional)

*standing ovation* :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle: :fluffle:

For me yes. I'm starting to leave a trail of ex-boyfriends behind me. I just haven't met anyone who I'd consider spending the rest of my life with. :(

It's fun looking though. ;)
Yeah, that's right. You haven't met the right person yet ;)

Yeah it was great. He worked in the pub near my sixth-form college, and would serve me knowing I was too young. Booze and sex is good. :D

Not really... Or not always. Nah, I'd rather have sober sex, to be honest. But that's just me :)

I did a lot of drugs to live through it until I moved out at 15 and then I did a lot of drugs and got drunk a lot because at that point I was addicted. I got put in court ordered rehab at 17 and quit everything and didn't ever go back, I met my husband when I was 18 and lost my "real virginity" with him (not that there was anything "real" about it other than emotional)

Isn't that what really matters? :)

Isn't that what really matters? :)

it really is.

*standing ovation*
:cool:

Yeah, that's right. You haven't met the right person yet ;)

Whatever. I suppose I could make it work with someone, but then again I don't really want to settle down any time soon.

Not really... Or not always. Nah, I'd rather have sober sex, to be honest. But that's just me :)

Me too, I didn't mean both at once. I'd just hang around in the pub during free periods, and he'd be working at that time as well. I just meant that it was great having a boyfriend who'd give me booze. All people who are too young to buy alcohol should have a relationship with someone who works in a bar, especially Americans. They can't get served until they're twenty-one! :eek:

Strike him with a blunt instrument. Like maybe a bus. You don't get much more blunt than a bus. :)Hm... reminds me of the time I sliced open my foot on a shoe, and I'm sure that shoe is a lot blunter than any bus you can find...

When I was 19, I went on a trip to Paris, France.

Great place.

Went to Moulin Rouge, drank way too much wine, met one of the ladies that was in the show, had sex with her in the bathroom.

ahhh... but how would you know... ;)

extrapolation - since i started having sex i have had a few multi-month stretches without, and they suck.

extrapolation - since i started having sex i have had a few multi-month stretches without, and they suck.

ah, but those.. pauses... are not the same as abstaining. ;)

I still have my virginity.

-L-

ah, but those.. pauses... are not the same as abstaining. ;)

yeah - they allow a person to answer the question from a position of knowledge

I did a lot of drugs to live through it until I moved out at 15 and then I did a lot of drugs and got drunk a lot because at that point I was addicted. I got put in court ordered rehab at 17 and quit everything and didn't ever go back, I met my husband when I was 18 and lost my "real virginity" with him (not that there was anything "real" about it other than emotional)
Anyone who has to cope with such a terrible thing happening to them is deserving of respect, especially if they still come out of it as a strong person. I'm sorry it caused you a lot of problems for many years (and I'm guessing it's still difficult for you, despite being confident enough to talk about it), but I'm glad that things have improved and you now lead a happy life. :)

yeah - they allow a person to answer the question from a position of knowledge

not really, because the POV is tainted the only true way is to stop altogether, abstain for at least 1 year per act. then after that required time, a true comparason can be made. a couple of monts doesn't measure up to a couple of years.

I was 13 and she was an older woman of 15, and a friend of my sister.

17. I'm 33 now.

When I was 19, I went on a trip to Paris, France.

Great place.

Went to Moulin Rouge, drank way too much wine, met one of the ladies that was in the show, had sex with her in the bathroom.
I love you, Ruffy. :) (http://assets.jolt.co.uk/forums/images/smilies/tongue.gif)

I love you, Ruffy. :) (http://assets.jolt.co.uk/forums/images/smilies/tongue.gif)

:p

I'd prefer a six month relationship to still being a virgin at 36I can't say I'd disagree. But not because I think still being a virgin at 36 would be some horrible fate, it's just that I don't see advantages to it either. Having a relationship of any length on the other hands sounds like it might be enjoyable.

As for me, I'm among the (apparantly, currently) 40% virgins here..

I still have it.

not really, because the POV is tainted the only true way is to stop altogether, abstain for at least 1 year per act. then after that required time, a true comparason can be made. a couple of monts doesn't measure up to a couple of years.

yeah, after a year you might adjust your baseline norm to your shitty circumstances. humans are quite good at this, actually. but it would still be objectively worse - you'd just have forgotten how bad.

not because I think still being a virgin at 36 would be some horrible fate

i don't see how it isn't one. it means missing out on a vital part of human existence.

I can't say I'd disagree. But not because I think still being a virgin at 36 would be some horrible fate, it's just that I don't see advantages to it either.

Terrible fate, no. But personally, I seriously regret to have waited as long as I did... I only now begin to realise how much I missed out of fear and distrust.

I lost my virginity when I was thirteen.

yeah, after a year you might adjust your baseline norm to your shitty circumstances. humans are quite good at this, actually. but it would still be objectively worse - you'd just have forgotten how bad.The only 'shitty' thing is having an unfullfilled desire. Life is not objectively worse just for not having sex. Not that there is really an objective measure for quality of life (though, feel free to try and specify one; there's always room for more tests on the internet).

i don't see how it isn't one. it means missing out on a vital part of human existence.Meh.. There's so many things people call a "vital part of human existence". I have other things to worry about atm.
It'll happen when it does, and I'm not going to frustrate myself over it.

The only 'shitty' thing is having an unfullfilled desire.

the sex drive is slightly more fundamental than mere desire.

and then, of course, there are the social and political aspects of sex...

almost exactly 11 months ago when i was 21 still wearing most of my halloween costume.

almost exactly 11 months ago when i was 21 still wearing most of my halloween costume.

Tell us what you were dressed up as, some people might want to take notes. :D

I haven't ever had sex, and I really don't want to ever have sex. (I'm 16 right now)

I haven't ever had sex, and I really don't want to ever have sex. (I'm 16 right now)

Maybe you'll change your mind some day. Give it time and take small steps, and get past your little problem that you've talked about in another thread first.

Good luck :)

Tell us what you were dressed up as, some people might want to take notes. :D

lol, maybe not:
http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h211/infiniterevolution/PA310127.jpg
http://i65.photobucket.com/albums/h211/infiniterevolution/PA310117.jpg

it's a wonder i pulled at all in that get-up, let alone got laid. and in case you're wondering, the costume was supposed to be a zombie that had died from a gang-land drowning, i had concrete boots too which are just visible in the second pic. the party had a gangster theme.

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You did a great job with that costume, it scared me a little (although I do have zombiephobia). I think the girl who had sex with you dressed like that must of been crazy. A zombie! *Shudders*


...It does make me wonder what she was dressed up as. :eek:

At sixteen.

Could have lost it at 19, and again at 20 last spring, but did not due to my own conscious choice. Since then I've just been doing work, and not faced with any further opportunities.

You did a great job with that costume, it scared me a little (although I do have zombiephobia). Thanks, and i did the makeup all myself :D I think the girl who had sex with you dressed like that must of been crazy. A zombie! *Shudders*


...It does make me wonder what she was dressed up as. :eek:

that time it was a boy, and he was a cowboy. his outfit was rubbish tho.

I lost mine to another girl when I was seventeen. Huge, huge mistake. Sleeping with friends? Definitely not my smartest move. :headbang:

I've never had sex with a guy. Not sure I ever will.

Thanks, and i did the makeup all myself :D

that time it was a boy, and he was a cowboy. his outfit was rubbish tho.

When is the next halloween? I want to have sex with a creepy looking person in costume. Hmmm...what should I dress up as?

I'm wondering what the average age is for virgniity loss. Please state your age in your post along with your age when you lost your virginity.

when i was 21. i'm 21 still. it was in April or May i think.

I lost mine to another girl when I was seventeen. Huge, huge mistake. Sleeping with friends? Definitely not my smartest move. :headbang:

I've never had sex with a guy. Not sure I ever will.

yeh, sleeping with friends is rubbish. i pretty much only fancy my friends as well. that's even more rubbish.

I like to think of it as misplaced not lost .

when i was 21. i'm 21 still. it was in April or May i think.

But... but... that means... :eek:

You DAWG! :D

:p

I always get stuck becoming friends with the girls I fancy. Usually because I'm attracted to them on a personal level as well, but I have a lot of attractive female friends.

Friends! Argh. As for my virginity? I still have it, but I'm sixteen. I'm not gonna freak out about it yet.

When is the next halloween? I want to have sex with a creepy looking person in costume. Hmmm...what should I dress up as?

only a month away, best outfit i saw last year was my flatmate's ex dressed up as spongebob square-pants, he made it all himself with papiermache and stuff. different party that was tho.

yeh, sleeping with friends is rubbish. i pretty much only fancy my friends as well. that's even more rubbish.

Exactly! After I went on about how I am "never again!" having sex with a friend, I find myself ridiculously attracted to one of my best friends, the one whom I know is at least mildly interested in me. It's the only thing that is keeping me from asking her out. :(

Not that a relationship needs to lead to sex, but because there's always the possibility and I really don't want to wreck things between us.

only a month away, best outfit i saw last year was my flatmate's ex dressed up as spongebob square-pants, he made it all himself with papiermache and stuff. different party that was tho.

Spongebob Square-Pants? That's not very sexy is it? Although I do want creepy halloween sex. Maybe I'll think on it a little more...

I lost it when I was 19 and I'm 27 now.

Sadly though, it was not what one would call an enjoyable experiance and led to about a year of being depressed due to a very, VERY screwed up situation.

But... but... that means... :eek:

You DAWG! :D

:p

what? got some action this evening too ;) (twice) :p


*shiftyeyes* :p

Spongebob Square-Pants? That's not very sexy is it? Although I do want creepy halloween sex. Maybe I'll think on it a little more...

how about dressing up as a vampire? not like one from buffy but a slinky sexy one, cuz that's both creepy and sexy

how about dressing up as a vampire? not like one from buffy but a slinky sexy one, cuz that's both creepy and sexy

Yeah, I still have a few black/red dresses from when I used to go to alternative clubs. I can manage that costume easily, Vampyre it is. :)

...although when you mentioned Buffy I though of dressing as a hot lesbian witch. *thinks some more*

22 and still a virgin. I'm not losing any sleep over it however.

Exactly! After I went on about how I am "never again!" having sex with a friend, I find myself ridiculously attracted to one of my best friends, the one whom I know is at least mildly interested in me. It's the only thing that is keeping me from asking her out. :(

Not that a relationship needs to lead to sex, but because there's always the possibility and I really don't want to wreck things between us.

doesn't have to ruin things tho. i had a one night stand with one of my friends and i've never even fancied her. i think it was comfort sex or something. but we're still friends just as much as before. i think... haven't seen her in a while.

the one person that i really fancy now is one of my best friends, so much that we (plus another) have each said that we're more like 3 siblings we're that close, which means fancying her feels really wrong. plus i couldn't bear being her boyfriend cuz she's an absolute nightmare girlfriend but i know she doesn't like the idea of 'fuck-buddies'.

Yeah, I still have a few black/red dresses from when I used to go to alternative clubs. I can manage that costume easily, Vampyre it is. :)

...although when you mentioned Buffy I though of dressing as a hot lesbian witch. *thinks some more*

awesome, we'll need pictures of course ;)

I was 13, in a bunker of a golf course. Romantic, non?

Maybe you'll change your mind some day. Give it time and take small steps, and get past your little problem that you've talked about in another thread first.

Good luck :)

Thanks for the good luck.:)

If I got past my problems, I guess it could happen someday, if I were to get married, which would be a long time from now. So I have no reason to worry about it now.

carbon nanotubes. :)

I have no idea when I lost my virginity,:confused:

I had far better things to do at the moment than checking what time it was.:D

Thanks for the good luck.:)

If I got past my problems, I guess it could happen someday, if I were to get married, which would be a long time from now. So I have no reason to worry about it now.

It's nothing to worry about anyway. Either it happens or it doesn't. What will be will be, and all that jazz :)

It's nothing to worry about anyway. Either it happens or it doesn't. What will be will be, and all that jazz :)

That's true.:) I'm not worried.

I was 14.

Well, I'm 16 and I'm still a Virgin.

It has never been on my top priority list. I mean, I lust and I would fuck someone in a moment's notice if I were in the mood. But I don't really care. I'm not uneducated, I'd say I'm pretty well educated just with no experience to back it. And it is not as if I can't get a girl, I honestly chose not to. I think most relationships are pretty fucking stupid. I'd rather have a million friends than a single Girl Friend and no body else that I really like because she thinks 'He watches too much TV, he is going to be a bad influence. Stop talking to him, now!'.

Also, this is odd but I have to bring it up. I'm joining the Military directly out of Highschool. I've accepted the fact of death, infact I'm not really scared of it. And a fact I've been accepting lately is the fact that I may die a Virgin. I think it is sort of funny, but yea. And I don't, honestly, really care about having sex.

I think most non-Virgins lost it because of peer pressure, I think I've kept mine for the same reason. Everyone was told it was cool, and everyone said I was uncool. Infact, because of the social abuse I think that is why I lost so much care and am so apathetic about this and well lots of other things as well.

Anyways, I'm a weird being in that sense. Well, not weird but different. Then again, what is wrong with being different?

Haven't lost it yet.

If there wasn't half a world between us... ;) :fluffle: If I thought that youd be gentle on him and that Juni would be as willing in person Id be damned near willing and probably actually willing to chip in at least the 1st 100 dollars towards your airfare so this hurdle could be cleared.

It'd only be right from my side to contribute, expecially if Karma is real, cuz if it is then Ive got a substantial debt to pay from something with more than a passing resemblance to this.

what? got some action this evening too ;) (twice) :p


*shiftyeyes* :p

Eh, I got some last night. Twice as well,

Ain't life grand!? :D

I'm still a virgin. I actually haven't even been kissed yet.

I'm still a virgin. I actually haven't even been kissed yet.

i didn't get kissed til a few days after my 16th birthday and even then it was a really drunk girl who was throwing herself at everyone and i couldn't escape.

When I was 15.

If I thought that youd be gentle on him and that Juni would be as willing in person Id be damned near willing and probably actually willing to chip in at least the 1st 100 dollars towards your airfare so this hurdle could be cleared.

It'd only be right from my side to contribute, expecially if Karma is real, cuz if it is then Ive got a substantial debt to pay from something with more than a passing resemblance to this.

Course I would be gentle...

That sounds like an ineresting story. Would you like to share it?

Looking at what other people have said, it makes me feel like my experience of being "deflowered" at 13 by a 30 year old during a one-night stand wasn't that unusual.

Just to avoid confusion, I'm a guy and so was he.

With a girl, I lost mine in april of 2005, when I was 14. I'm 16 now. I don't really regret it. I mean, it had to happen at some point. I haven't done more than making out with a guy. A good gay/bi guy is hard to come by around here.

Edit: Although I am bi, anal sex freaks me out a bit.

I'm still a virgin. I actually haven't even been kissed yet.

*stuck wondering whether to high five or simply declare same*

*stuck wondering whether to high five or simply declare same*

Wow, there seem to be a lot more of us than I thought.

Meh.

what? got some action this evening too ;) (twice) :p


*shiftyeyes* :pwith Glitzy I assume...

Wow, there seem to be a lot more of us than I thought.

Meh.
*tackle hugs Ladame* hi

I didn't! I've never been kissed, either. I'm starting to worry that, at very-nearly-seventeen, that's going to pose a problem. Future boyfriends may be scared off by my lack of experience if I tell them, or shocked at my inability to kiss well after all the years if I don't. But that shouldn't be a problem, since the only guys who find me attractive are the internet types (though one guy sort of called me hot the other day....well, actually, called his friend hot, but said I looked like her....)

though one guy sort of called me hot the other day....well, actually, called his friend hot, but said I looked like her....

transitive hotness!

*tackle hugs Ladame* hi

Hiya. How was life treating you over the summer?

I didn't! I've never been kissed, either. I'm starting to worry that, at very-nearly-seventeen, that's going to pose a problem. Future boyfriends may be scared off by my lack of experience if I tell them, or shocked at my inability to kiss well after all the years if I don't. But that shouldn't be a problem, since the only guys who find me attractive are the internet types (though one guy sort of called me hot the other day....well, actually, called his friend hot, but said I looked like her....)

Don't worry about it. I'm not sweating over it and I'm 18 in 2 months. It's no big deal. If a guy is scared off by your inexperience, then he deserves to be dumped. He wouldn't care about your kissing skills if he really cares about you.

since the only guys who find me attractive are the internet types

Damn it! :p

I didn't! I've never been kissed, either. I'm starting to worry that, at very-nearly-seventeen, that's going to pose a problem. Future boyfriends may be scared off by my lack of experience if I tell them, or shocked at my inability to kiss well after all the years if I don't. But that shouldn't be a problem, since the only guys who find me attractive are the internet types (though one guy sort of called me hot the other day....well, actually, called his friend hot, but said I looked like her....)If it makes you feel better, Eut, the old man that has plenty of sex, lost his virginity at age 22, if memory serves.

If it makes you feel better, Eut, the old man that has plenty of sex, lost his virginity at age 22, if memory serves.

yeah, but look what it did to him

yeah, but look what it did to himI'm sure that anything that was done to him had nothing to do with losing his virginity at whatever age and anything else was there before ;)

I'm sure that anything that was done to him had nothing to do with losing his virginity at whatever age and anything else was there before ;)

Well, you can tell when he's gone a while. He gets grumpy :p

Wow, there seem to be a lot more of us than I thought.

Meh.

But you're so hawt! :fluffle:

(I think. I hope you're the pic I'm thinking of right now . . . . :p )

*something about your hair and there were photos? i'm hazy ;) *

Damn it! :p

Damn what?

But you're so hawt! :fluffle:

(I think. I hope you're the pic I'm thinking of right now . . . . :p )

*something about your hair and there were photos? i'm hazy ;) *

I have no clue what picture you're thinking of and I'm not sure I want to know.

Thank you for the compliment, but I know what you're thinking and it ain't happening.

Thank you for the compliment, but I know what you're thinking and it ain't happening.

Not like it would in any case. So I'll just trot off into my den of loneliness and return to my ways of hermitdom.

w00t! depression made fun! :)

Wow, there seem to be a lot more of us than I thought.

Meh.

I bet it is cause you are a treesexual.

I have no clue what picture you're thinking of and I'm not sure I want to know.

Probably the one where you have three eyes. That's the most famous.

I bet it is cause you are a treesexual.

No, dendrilphilia-ism isn't as appealing as it sounds. I think it's because I scare all the boys away. *nods sagely*

Probably the one where you have three eyes. That's the most famous.

teehee, I love that picture...I wonder if Ruffy will change my hair into a bunch of snakes so I'll actually look like Medusa...*ponders*

iam 17, a virgin and have yet to even be kissed.

No, dendrilphilia-ism isn't as appealing as it sounds. I think it's because I scare all the boys away. *nods sagely*
Someone actually took the time to make that a word? What about something useful, like the white part of bread? and we shouldn't just bastardise the French word for it.

teehee, I love that picture...I wonder if Ruffy will change my hair into a bunch of snakes so I'll actually look like Medusa...*ponders*
*tries to imagine picture*

...

*reflects on Il Ruffino's previous works*

...

Did he use the circle tool to drawa white elipse on your forehead?

Course I would be gentle...

That sounds like an ineresting story. Would you like to share it?

Sure I can share, Im just debating whether I should share it open forum or telegram.

Someone actually took the time to make that a word? What about something useful, like the white part of bread? and we shouldn't just bastardise the French word for it.

It's the English language. We have a word for everything. They may be bastardized and stolen from other languages, but they're still there, trying to fit in with the rest of the English words...

*tries to imagine picture*

...

*reflects on Il Ruffino's previous works*

...

Did he use the circle tool to drawa white elipse on your forehead?

Don't ask me, ask him. I have no clue what he did, but I think he used Copy and Paste

Don't ask me, ask him. I have no clue what he did, but I think he used Copy and Paste
It would also help if I had any idea what you looked like. meh.

It would also help if I had any idea what you looked like. meh.

I'm sure there are random pictures floating around this place somewhere. *shrug*

I'm sure there are random pictures floating around this place somewhere. *shrug*
They'll find me eventually. I should be cool enough in a week or so for someone to dig them up for me. Only issue is, will I care in a week?

18... A few weeks ago.

I only really did it to get rid of the label, I've never really been that interested in sex. At parties I'm usually the one laughin with mates than trying to pick up.

I was 17. January 21, 2006, around 5 o'clock. :)

Anyone else think it's weird that <14 is one of the most popular options? :eek:

Anyone else think it's weird that <14 is one of the most popular options? :eek:Well...lots of people answering the poll are talking about nonconsentual sex...

Which bothers me a great deal, really. I mean, I know intellectually that rape, molestation and other, less clearly defined forms of non-consentual sex occur. But I'm not frequently confronted with the idea that people whom I almost-kinda-maybe know have experienced it. Wow.

Which bothers me a great deal, really. I mean, I know intellectually that rape, molestation and other, less clearly defined forms of non-consentual sex occur. But I'm not frequently confronted with the idea that people whom I almost-kinda-maybe know have experienced it. Wow.
I was raped by two gays, a lesbian, and a llama.

You know, I'd be really interested to see how these statistics would break down by nationality.

For example, in Britain, I know the minimum age is 16, and it seemed (when I was there) that most people had done it earlier than that. (Or at least they were trying to convey that impression for several reasons. 1: It was the Brittish equivalent of a high school, and they may have been bragging (though it was mostly the women doing this). 2: They wanted to scare me; I'm a Californian nerd, and I had a rather nasty tenancy to blush horribly whenever anyone told me anything about their "social relations." 3: It was a small town far enough away from any major international economic cities that they had never seen an American before. Despite the fact that I frequently get asked whether or not I used to live in the U.K. (I have a strange international hybrid of an accent), the people in Britain actually said I had a "strong American accent," and I was also described once as an "exotic foreigner." My point is that it seemed that a lot of the girls there were trying to flirt with me (Mind you, I had no problem with this.), and so they may have been just faking all of these "statistics" to get to me or something. I can't beleive I digressed that far...

Back to my point, in America, the people are probably the most prudish of any society in the Western World. Thus, the average age is probably far over the age of consent (which is 18). I'd be curious to see how this breaks down country by country.

What was the year you did (or did not), and what country are you from?

What was the year you did (or did not), and what country are you from?Well, for some of us, you can see which country we're from, though you do raise an interesting point.

iam 17, a virgin and have yet to even be kissed.

(If you are a girl)..Depending on where you live, I can be your first, to either the former, the latter, or both.

Well, for some of us, you can see which country we're from, though you do raise an interesting point.

Thanks. While public opinion in America seems to think that most high-schoolers (by the time they graduate) have already done things like that, I know exactly two people who have (in the U.S.- I know way more in Britain). While one of them is a good friend of mine, the other is a bad student, a goof-off, and the male euqivalent of a slut. So, what about you? What country, and if so, what age? (Though only if you're comfortable answering.)

(If you are a girl)..Depending on where you live, I can be your first, to either the former, the latter, or both.

Someone's an opratunist... ;)

(If you are a girl)..Depending on where you live, I can be your first, to either the former, the latter, or both.

yep iam a girl, but i live a long way away from you and the fact that i'v never been kissed ect. does not really bother me:)

I'm still a virgin. I actually haven't even been kissed yet.

Neither.

I was raped by two gays, a lesbian, and a llama.

I told you, I'm not a llama.

And anyway, it's not lost, I still have it in a jar on the bookshelf.

yep iam a girl, but i live a long way away from you and the fact that i'v never been kissed ect. does not really bother me:)
SHUT DOWN!

I told you, I'm not a llama.

And anyway, it's not lost, I still have it in a jar on the bookshelf.

I'd be curious (for the sake of this whole survey thing) to find out at what age *erm* this happened, and what country you're from.

SHUT DOWN!

You said you're Candian; at what age did it happen to you (if it did at all)?

I told you, I'm not a llama.

And anyway, it's not lost, I still have it in a jar on the bookshelf.

I never said it was lost. I said I was raped.

But you were in a llama costum. Good enough for me.

Back to my point, in America, the people are probably the most prudish of any society in the Western World. Thus, the average age is probably far over the age of consent (which is 18).

the average is actually 17ish

Someone's an opratunist... ;)
He hits on everyone.

You said you're Candian; at what age did it happen to you (if it did at all)?
I'm much too shy.

If it weren't for work, I'd probably still sweat when talking to girls.

I never said it was lost. I said I was raped.

But you were in a llama costum. Good enough for me.

Do you know how difficult it was getting in that suit? And the thing that really hurts is that you only ever call the other guys.

SHUT DOWN!

now i feel sorta mean:(

the average is actually 17ish

Really? Where's your data from? :eek: Is that national or for a specific state? The reason I said that is, because you led me to wonder whether the average age would be higher in rediculously boring upper middle class areas. In other words, I'm wondering if my data could be tainted.

I'd be curious (for the sake of this whole survey thing) to find out at what age *erm* this happened, and what country you're from.

The llama thing? I'm not sure, one loses track of time inside a llama suit. It was in Peru, though, otherwise there'd be no reason to be in a llama suit.

Do you know how difficult it was getting in that suit? And the thing that really hurts is that you only ever call the other guys.
I told you, I threw yournumber away because I didn't thik you'd lose that weight!

now i feel sorta mean:(
Don't, I'n the one being a jackass.

The llama thing? I'm not sure, one loses track of time inside a llama suit. It was in Peru, though, otherwise there'd be no reason to be in a llama suit.

Same thing happened to me- only Julius Caesar was riding th llama, and King Ludwig II was standing on his head eating pasta through his four mouths- but other than that, same thing!

Thanks. While public opinion in America seems to think that most high-schoolers (by the time they graduate) have already done things like that, I know exactly two people who have (in the U.S.- I know way more in Britain). While one of them is a good friend of mine, the other is a bad student, a goof-off, and the male euqivalent of a slut. So, what about you? What country, and if so, what age? (Though only if you're comfortable answering.)I was 15, and I'm from the U.S.

I told you, I threw yournumber away because I didn't thik you'd lose that weight!

It was the suit, I swear! Llama hide makes me look fat.

I was 15, and I'm from the U.S.

Huh, you're proving me wrong. Is this usual in your area? What state are you from? By the way, since I'm begining to get too technical and have not yet divulged any information about myself, I will finally say that I have never done anything and probably won't for a long while, because a bear an uncanny resemblance to Dracula. I don't have widow's peaks, but I do actually have remarkably sharp canines, dark hair, and skin so pale that it's gone past white and turned pink. Okay... maybe I'm more like a Teletubbie version of Dracula.

Huh, you're proving me wrong. Is this usual in your area? What state are you from? By the way, since I'm begining to get too technical and have not yet divulged any information about myself, I will finally say that I have never done anything and probably won't for a long while, because a bear an uncanny resemblance to Dracula. I don't have widow's peaks, but I do actually have remarkably sharp canines, dark hair, and skin so pale that it's gone past white and turned pink. Alright, maybe I'm more like a Teletubbie version of Dracula.

<.<

>.>

*waits for a picture*

It was the suit, I swear! Llama hide makes me look fat.
But the scale said otherwise!

Huh, you're proving me wrong. Is this usual in your area? What state are you from? By the way, since I'm begining to get too technical and have not yet divulged any information about myself, I will finally say that I have never done anything and probably won't for a long while, because a bear an uncanny resemblance to Dracula. I don't have widow's peaks, but I do actually have remarkably sharp canines, dark hair, and skin so pale that it's gone past white and turned pink. Alright, maybe I'm more like a Teletubbie version of Dracula.Most people are older than I, but it's not unusual for my area. I'm from PA.
I second Antikythera's idea, by the way.

Most people are older than I, but it's not unusual for my area. I'm from PA.
I second Antikythera's idea, by the way.

Close to Ohio, NY, WV or Delaware?

Most people are older than I, but it's not unusual for my area. I'm from PA.
I second Antikythera's idea, by the way.

What was the theory?

Close to Ohio, NY, WV or Delaware?Pittsburgh - close to Ohio and WV and MD.

What was the theory?Not a theory. :) Antikythera asked for a picture of you.

Not a theory. :) Antikythera asked for a picture of you.

Nah, not unless she realy likes horror movies.

Nah, not unless she realy likes horror movies.

:p

But the scale said otherwise!

That scale has had it in for me for ages. It keeps complaining about back pain.

Someone's an opratunist... ;)
Hey, when life hands you apples, you eat them! :p
yep iam a girl, but i live a long way away from you and the fact that i'v never been kissed ect. does not really bother me:) Oh, I would never dream of pushing you out of your apathey, but rather you should do it just because the opportunity presents itself.

Where do you live anyway that is just sOoOoOo far away from Florida, in this day of instant communication and mass-travel?:p

That scale has had it in for me for ages. It keeps complaining about back pain.
Scales are honest folk. Certainly more honest than your type.

He hits on everyone.

Not everyone, just those special someones. ;)

Really? Where's your data from? :eek: Is that national or for a specific state? The reason I said that is, because you led me to wonder whether the average age would be higher in rediculously boring upper middle class areas. In other words, I'm wondering if my data could be tainted.

http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/figures/s505a1t44.gif
http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/ss5505a1.htm

not the best layout of it that i've seen, but what i came across first on the internets

Hey, when life hands you apples, you eat them! :p
Too bad you prefer tacos.
Where do you live anyway that is just sOoOoOo far away from Florida, in this day of instant communication and mass-travel?:p
I'll bet France or Mexico.:p

http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/figures/s505a1t44.gif
http://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/preview/mmwrhtml/ss5505a1.htm

not the best layout of it that i've seen, but what i came across first on the internets

Thanks! I'll check it out. :)

Hey, when life hands you apples, you eat them! :p
Oh, I would never dream of pushing you out of your apathey, but rather you should do it just because the opportunity presents itself.

Where do you live anyway that is just sOoOoOo far away from Florida, in this day of instant communication and mass-travel?:p
far enough....its hard to pinpoint the location of some servers;)

Not everyone, just those special someones. ;)

i dont know if this is a good thing or a bad thing:(

edit: oh, look at the spiffy message that jolt hjust gave me..
Thank you for posting! You will now be taken to your post. If you opted to post a poll, you will now be allowed to do so.

Nah, not unless she realy likes horror movies.She may.
Anyway, which area(s) of the US were do these people live in? Perhaps they live in conservative areas?

She may.
Anyway, which area(s) of the US were do these people live in? Perhaps they live in conservative areas?

Which people? People who look like Dracula? Oh, they live all over; I've got connections. :D

Which people? People who look like Dracula? Oh, they live all over; I've got connections. :DLol. No, I mean the people in the US who supplied you with data to compare to your British data.

She may.
Anyway, which area(s) of the US were do these people live in? Perhaps they live in conservative areas?

So are you referring to people who don't *do things* until they're over 18? I really don't know. While I would agree that your level of religiosity would probably discourage you from taking part in such things (such as may happen to conservatives, if I interpretted you correctly), I would say it would have much more to do with economic standing (such as how the poor or downtrodden tend to partake in crime and other such things much much more). I would also suspect it could have something to do with population density. (Those in major cities are probably more exposed to the aspects of the raw, undoluted world (including such aspect as sex) than are people, say, born on a farm.) As for my area, I think it has not so much to do with conservatism (It's a very liberal area) as it does with general nerdiness. (I actually come from the location the is irrefutably deemed the nerd capital of the world- so much so that they actually named a mental disorder after the place.) Nerds tend to be more prudish and less capable of talking to women (Also less deisrable, but, in the interest of the preservation of my own sanity (very little of which is left, anyway), I'll not go on.).

Too bad you prefer tacos.
You're sick, Chubbs....but you're my kind of sick. :p
I'll bet France or Mexico.:p
Although this may be aimed at my politics...I'll answer it anway: :p
Mexico: Meh...few are hotties, some are naughty, but most are just not attractive to me.
France:...Could be hot...if she looks and acts like Alizee, the lolita. :D

i dont know if this is a good thing or a bad thing:(
Well, I suppose that depends on you, but for all intents and purposes, lets take it as a good thing.;)

So, where are you actually located? Was Posi right, France, Mexico?

Lol. No, I mean the people in the US who supplied you with data to compare to your British data.

Hmm... Those would mostly just be people from my area, which, granted, as I stated in the last post, is also the nerd capital of the world. Add that to being smoggy upper middle-class suburbia, and I suppose my statistics are skewed.

You're sick, Chubbs....but you're my kind of sick. :p

Although this may be aimed at my politics...I'll answer it anway: :p
Mexico: Meh...few are hotties, some are naughty, but most are just not attractive to me.
France:...Could be hot...if she looks and acts like Alizee, the lolita. :D

Well, I suppose that depends on you, but for all intents and purposes, lets take it as a good thing.;)

So, where are you actually located? Was Posi right, France, Mexico?

nope he was not right.

and iam not all that adverse to horrior movies

You're sick, Chubbs....but you're my kind of sick. :p
Chubbs? Who said I was fat?

Although this may be aimed at my politics...I'll answer it anway: :p
Mexico: Meh...few are hotties, some are naughty, but most are just not attractive to me.
France:...Could be hot...if she looks and acts like Alizee, the lolita. :D
It was.

And Alizee is damn sexy. I hope she bathes.

So are you referring to people who don't *do things* until they're over 18? I really don't know. While I would agree that your level of religiosity would probably discourage you from taking part in such things (such as may happen to conservatives, if I interpretted you correctly), I would say it would have much more to do with economic standing (such as how the poor or downtrodden tend to partake in crime and other such things much much more). I would also suspect it could have something to do with population density. (Those in major cities are probably more exposed to the aspects of the raw, undoluted world (including such aspect as sex) than are people, say, born on a farm.) As for my area, I think it has not so much to do with conservatism (It's a very liberal area) as it does with general nerdiness. (I actually come from the location the is irrefutably deemed the nerd capital of the world- so much so that they actually named a mental disorder after the place.) Nerds tend to be more prudish and less capable of talking to women (Also less deisrable, but, in the interest of the preservation of my own sanity (very little of which is left, anyway), I'll not go on.).

Hmm... Those would mostly just be people from my area, which, granted, as I stated in the last post, is also the nerd capital of the world. Add that to being smoggy upper middle-class suburbia, and I suppose my statistics are skewed.By nerdy, do you mean somewhat socially awkward? Otherwise, I don't see why nerds would be less likely to have sex than the general population.

Spam?!

By nerdy, do you mean somewhat socially awkward? Otherwise, I don't see why nerds would be less likely to have sex than the general population.

as a life-long nerd, i can attest to the fact that it is entirely possible for nerds to have sex at around the same time as everybody else.

and while i wasn't nerdy enough by high school to feel the full social exclusion visited upon the rest of the kids in ap classes, i happen to know that a lot of them just got it on with each other

Chubbs? Who said I was fat?
LOL, its from Happy Gilmore.


It was.I know you all too well. ;)
And Alizee is damn sexy. I hope she bathes.
I honestly dont care. I'd put it in her regardless...shes fucking amazing and her sex appeal is through the roof.

Wow, there seem to be a lot more of us than I thought.

I'm not the sort that hits on random Interwebz chicks, but you remind me of a girl I went to high school with. She was a rather attractive young lady, but she was also quite lonely (as I found out later when I dated one of her friends) because most of the guys thought she was well out of their league and were afraid to talk to her. Perhaps that's your problem. I vaguely remember seeing your picture, and I think that's the most plausible explanation. This girl I knew in high school arrived at our 5 year reunion and had 4 beers before she'd talk to anyone. Don't be that girl. You seem quite cool and I'd hate for that to happen, even if you are Albertan (I've spent a lot of time in Northern Ontario).

Anyway, I lost mine at 19 with a random bar girl named Leena in Frankfurt, Germany. The more meaningful was in Michigan with a girl I went to high school with, when I was 19 as well. Oddly enough, I'm still very good friends with that girl, but haven't seen that German girl for 5 years.

By nerdy, do you mean somewhat socially awkward? Otherwise, I don't see why nerds would be less likely to have sex than the general population.

Yes, but also many nerds tend to be somewhat prudish and moralistic.

If only I'd gotten over that before I went to Britain! :headbang:

Though, I won't deny that, by comparison to most people, I am still somewhat prudish. I would like to get over it, though. It's just that, while I still have the unbelievably sick mind of your average male, I do try to be as gentlemanly as possible.

LOL, its from Happy Gilmore.
I vaguely remember histerical laughter and a babe in lingerie.

I know you all too well. ;)
Really, what's my opinion on communism? immigrants?

I honestly dont care. I'd put it in her regardless...shes fucking amazing and her sex appeal is through the roof.
Lol, yeah. But it would be nice.

I'm not the sort that hits on random Interwebz chicks, but you remind me of a girl I went to high school with. She was a rather attractive young lady, but she was also quite lonely (as I found out later when I dated one of her friends) because most of the guys thought she was well out of their league and were afraid to talk to her. Perhaps that's your problem. I vaguely remember seeing your picture, and I think that's the most plausible explanation. This girl I knew in high school arrived at our 5 year reunion and had 4 beers before she'd talk to anyone. Don't be that girl. You seem quite cool and I'd hate for that to happen, even if you are Albertan (I've spent a lot of time in Northern Ontario).

Anyway, I lost mine at 19 with a random bar girl named Leena in Frankfurt, Germany. The more meaningful was in Michigan with a girl I went to high school with, when I was 19 as well. Oddly enough, I'm still very good friends with that girl, but haven't seen that German girl for 5 years.

BCer. At least you didn't call her an Ontarian.

BCer. At least you didn't call her an Ontarian.

Yeah, I've figured out that calling someone an Ontarian who isn't one is an automatic knife fight in the parking lot. Even those Northern Ontarians I hung out with would be quite insulted if I grouped them with TO. Which I did at every available oppurtunity. Of course, they'd group me with Detroit, which is roughly equivalent, even though I'll defend Detroit when they won't defend TO.

Yeah, I've figured out that calling someone an Ontarian who isn't one is an automatic knife fight in the parking lot. Even those Northern Ontarians I hung out with would be quite insulted if I grouped them with TO. Which I did at every available oppurtunity. Of course, they'd group me with Detroit, which is roughly equivalent, even though I'll defend Detroit when they won't defend TO.
It's facinating isn't it.

as a life-long nerd, i can attest to the fact that it is entirely possible for nerds to have sex at around the same time as everybody else.

and while i wasn't nerdy enough by high school to feel the full social exclusion visited upon the rest of the kids in ap classes, i happen to know that a lot of them just got it on with each other

Maybe, perhaps I'm just a hardcore nerd. I was with a friend at an art museum recently and, while I commented on the beautiful way the cannonfire in a certain painting lit up the night sky, he commented on the accuracy of the exposed breast of one of the characters. When I tried to explain to him that this happens in art, and you just have to ignore it, he replied that he supports appreciating artistic masterpieces for both their asthetic appeal and erotic aspects. He then asked me, in the typically technical manner of any propoer nerd, "Isn't that a nice tit? It's really accurate; it's very well done." Naturally, this echoed throughout the entire gallery in the museum. Sorry, I've gone off on another tangent. My point is that, some nerds are more sexually open than others, and maybe I'm one of the more prudish ones. As for my group of "hardcore nerds" that I described, none of us have ever been able to talk to women. In fact, (and thankfully someone told me what a horrible idea this was) when I used to try to engage women in conversation (when, of course, you want the conversation to be interesting), I would generally bring up something that I knew everyone had opinions about. So I would talk about politics. Now do you see whay nerds don't tend to get into sex? Or rather, let me rephrase that, why no one gets into sex with nerds?

as a life-long nerd, i can attest to the fact that it is entirely possible for nerds to have sex at around the same time as everybody else.

and while i wasn't nerdy enough by high school to feel the full social exclusion visited upon the rest of the kids in ap classes, i happen to know that a lot of them just got it on with each otherYeah, that's what I was thinking, too. If such a nerd group existed in my school, I was in it.

Yes, but also many nerds tend to be somewhat prudish and moralistic.

If only I'd gotten over that before I went to Britain! :headbang:

Though, I won't deny that, by comparison to most people, I am still somewhat prudish. I would like to get over it, though. It's just that while I still have the unbelievably sick mind of your average male, I do try to be as gentlemanly as possible.It's entirely possible to ask someone if they want to have sex in a gentlemanly manner. :)

It's entirely possible to ask someone if they want to have sex in a gentlemanly manner. :)

Oh, and how?

Oh, and how?Would you do me the honor of having sex with me?

It's facinating isn't it.

Very much so. I can relate to some of the more extreme seperatist groups, being a separtist myself. I had an interesting discussion (in French, no less) with a Quebecois in my French class about seperatism. He was rather surprised to find seperatists in Michigan. He's from Montréal, so he's not seperatist. When I lived on the border with Northern Ontario I'd surprise my friends with my distaste for Washington, which was often greater than their distaste of Ottawa.


Anyway, Canada is an extremely interesting place that I don't spend remotely enough time in. I'm really craving poutine right now.

Oh, and how?

:p
i'v had some one ask me...mind you i was laughing so hard that i dont remeber how he asked. but it can be done

Would you do me the honor of having sex with me?

No, no, no. Too blunt. "Would you care to retire to my bedchambers avec moi, my dear?"

Would you do me the honor of having sex with me?

Oh... Nice one.

Let's see, what would happen next? Let me give you a diagram: :sniper:

No, no, no. Too blunt. "Would you care to retire to my bedchambers avec moi, my dear?"Ooh let's combine them. "Darling, would you do me the honor of retiring to my bedchambers avec moi, my dear?"

Oh... Nice one.

Let's see, what would happen next? Let me give you a diagram: :sniper:Lol. Naturally, it wouldn't be the first thing you say.

Anyway, were there no nerdy women who liked to talk politics in your peer group?

Yes, but also many nerds tend to be somewhat prudish and moralistic.

Since when?

None of the "nerds" I associated with were "prudish and moralistic"; quite the opposite, in fact.

Now, me... "moralistic" might qualify, but "prudish", still most definitely not.

Ooh let's combine them. "Darling, would you do me the honor of retiring to my bedchambers avec moi, my dear?"


Perfect!

Very much so. I can relate to some of the more extreme seperatist groups, being a separtist myself. I had an interesting discussion (in French, no less) with a Quebecois in my French class about seperatism. He was rather surprised to find seperatists in Michigan. He's from Montréal, so he's not seperatist. When I lived on the border with Northern Ontario I'd surprise my friends with my distaste for Washington, which was often greater than their distaste of Ottawa.


Anyway, Canada is an extremely interesting place that I don't spend remotely enough time in. I'm really craving poutine right now.
I don't like poutine. Probably doesn't help that I cannot taste gravy.

BC and Alberta have same sepratist too. I hope for the sake of all that is good in the unlverse they keep their yaps shut.not that I have any big qualms with seperating, but it would bring the attention of Ottawa, which will surely screw things up.

Perfect!Try it and see if it works. :)

Oh... Nice one.

Let's see, what would happen next? Let me give you a diagram: :sniper:

you never know most girls arnt as evil as iam if you get to know them a bit and find a creative way to ask they might

In fact, (and thankfully someone told me what a horrible idea this was) when I used to try to engage women in conversation (when, of course, you want the conversation to be interesting), I would generally bring up something that I knew everyone had opinions about. So I would talk about politics. Now do you see whay nerds don't tend to get into sex? Or rather, let me rephrase that, why no one gets into sex with nerds?

If someone had tried to seduce me with a conversation about politics, they would have met with much success.

Assuming we agreed, at least. Which, in my area, was fairly assured.

But I suppose it would not be generally effective, no; my interest in politics, among other things, pretty solidly confined me to the "loser among losers" position.

Lol. Naturally, it wouldn't be the first thing you say.

Anyway, were there no nerdy women who liked to talk politics in your peer group?

I guess, perhaps one of the problems with nerds in my area is that they all form little cliques. It's not they are antisocial (Though they do tend to take a very long while to bond with people they don't know.), it's just that tehy were all so isolated in elementary and middle schools, that they tend to "accumulate" friends that very simply add up over time into little groups. These groups tend to have less than (or equal to) six or so people and don't tend to interact with one another. Additionally, my group has no women in it. There is a somewhat connected group that does, but I like them as friends and woudn't want that to change. For a nerd, a good friend is hard to come by, and it's something keep. And no, I know of no women who like to talk about politics.

Try it and see if it works. :)

I'm not high-class enough to pull it off, I don't think. :p

I guess, perhaps one of the problems with nerds in my area is that they all form little cliques. It's not they are antisocial (Though they do tend to take a very long while to bond with people they don't know.), it's just that tehy were all so isolated in elementary and middle schools, that they tend to "accumulate" friends that very simply add up over time into little groups. These groups tend to have less than (or equal to) six or so people and don't tend to interact with one another. Additionally, my group has no women in it. There is a somewhat connected group that does, but I like them as friends and woudn't want that to change. For a nerd, a good friend is hard to come by, and it's something keep. And no, I know of no women who like to talk about politics.

:eek: :eek:

I don't like poutine. Probably doesn't help that I cannot taste gravy.

That's probably the saddest thing I've ever heard. Gravy makes everything better. I go to New York Fries everytime I go to Sault Sainte Marie.

BC and Alberta have same sepratist too. I hope for the sake of all that is good in the unlverse they keep their yaps shut.not that I have any big qualms with seperating, but it would bring the attention of Ottawa, which will surely screw things up.

That reminds me of a saying I use quote often. "Uncle Sam has a reverse Midas touch. Everything he touches turns to shit." I think the same probaly applies to Ottawa.

But I suppose it would not be generally effective, no; my interest in politics, among other things, pretty solidly confined me to the "loser among losers" position.

Yo tambien. :rolleyes:

Ooh let's combine them. "Darling, would you do me the honor of retiring to my bedchambers avec moi, my dear?"

The worst pick-up line was aslo something I heard on NationStates recently. Someone actually said to another member, "Hey baby, let's play house. You be the door, and I'll slam you."

Out of curiosity, if, say, in a bar, someone said that to you (and actually meant it), what exactly would you do to him?

That's probably the saddest thing I've ever heard. Gravy makes everything better. I go to New York Fries everytime I go to Sault Sainte Marie.
Its cause my sense of smell is very bad. Its odd though that I cannot taste gravy. I tend be good at tasting liquids.

That reminds me of a saying I use quote often. "Uncle Sam has a reverse Midas touch. Everything he touches turns to shit." I think the same probaly applies to Ottawa.
They can do things well, but if you had the choice of the Fed's treating you as any other state, or completely ignoring you (excopt for giving out checks), which would you choose.

The worst pick-up line was aslo something I heard on NationStates recently. Someone actually said to another member, "Hey baby, let's play house. You be the door, and I'll slam you."

Out of curiosity, if, say, in a bar, someone said that to you (and actually meant it), what exactly would you do to him?

i would fall over laughing..tell him no way that he should rethink what he says or pehaps just keep his mouth shut then walk away

i would fall over laughing..tell him no way that he should rethink what he says or pehaps just keep his mouth shut then walk away

Hmm... No drinks thrown in faces? No bar fights? No unexplained zeplin explosions? (Sorry, wrong century...) I'm almost a little dissapointed. Go on... Blow up a zeplin. Go on... Yeah, if I were a woman, I'd probably do the same. Though, as a rather unattractive man, I would probably assume she meant she was litterally going to slam me with something and get seriously concerned she's going to hit me with a piece of wood.

Hmm... No drinks thrown in faces? No bar fights? No unexplained zeplin explosions? (Sorry, wrong century...) I'm almost a little dissapointed. Go on... Blow up a zeplin. Go on... Yeah, if I were a woman, I'd probably do the same. Though, as a rather unattractive man, I would probably assume she meant she was litterally going to slam me with something and get seriously concerned she's going to hit me with a piece of wood.
I'll slam you with my piece of wood.;)

Hmm... No drinks thrown in faces? No bar fights? No unexplained zeplin explosions? (Sorry, wrong century...) I'm almost a little dissapointed. Go on... Blow up a zeplin. Go on... Yeah, if I were a woman, I'd probably do the same. Though, as a rather unattractive man, I would probably assume she meant she was litterally going to slam me with something and get seriously concerned she's going to hit me with a piece of wood.

only if he touched me in any way shape or form would i more or less attack him.
if he touched me in a sugustive way then i would deffinantly start a fight over it

I'll slam you with my piece of wood.;)

:eek:

It's surprising that most people haven't lost it yet, according to the poll. What's the average age in here?
I lost mine at fourteen, and I don't consider it a mistake. We only did the deed twice, and it wasn't even that great. I didn't have consensual sex again until I was fifteen, with my boyfriend who was a virgin at seventeen. I don't think age really matters when it comes to losing your virginity. It's more important that you're safe and comfortable.

Scales are honest folk. Certainly more honest than your type.

That still leaves a lot of room for dishonesty.

When I was 17. It was the perfect age for me and I have no regrets. :)

About two weeks ago :D And no, just because I am 14 doesnt mean I did it with some slutty person or anything. We've been having a relationship for over 6 months and it's not uncommon over here in the netherlands.

Gay: 14
Straight: 16

14 such a stupid mistake :(

why a mistake? I was 18, though given the chance I would have probably lost it at 12 or 13. shame I was such a goddamn nerd.

I was 13,with a guy. 16 with a girl and we ened up in a rather long relationship. I'm 26 now (27 in 2 months). I'm married now(sort of) and have two kids.

I was 18, nearly 19 and had been dating the boy for 7 months.

I ain't lost it yet. I'm 15 and will be 16 in a couple months.


Been offered by several beautiful girls, but ain't found the right one yet.

I'm not the sort that hits on random Interwebz chicks, but you remind me of a girl I went to high school with. She was a rather attractive young lady, but she was also quite lonely (as I found out later when I dated one of her friends) because most of the guys thought she was well out of their league and were afraid to talk to her. Perhaps that's your problem. I vaguely remember seeing your picture, and I think that's the most plausible explanation. This girl I knew in high school arrived at our 5 year reunion and had 4 beers before she'd talk to anyone. Don't be that girl. You seem quite cool and I'd hate for that to happen, even if you are Albertan (I've spent a lot of time in Northern Ontario).

Thanks for the advice, but I really can't help it if 90% of the boys I know are scared of me for various reasons. After a while, you kind of make a game out of it to see how many you can scare in one day...*shifty eyes*

PS. I'M NOT ALBERTAN!!!!!!!!!! I'd never join their rank of hicks. I live in Victoria, BC, where pot is easier to get than alcohol.

BCer. At least you didn't call her an Ontarian.
No, Alberta's worse than Ontario.
Yeah, I've figured out that calling someone an Ontarian who isn't one is an automatic knife fight in the parking lot. Even those Northern Ontarians I hung out with would be quite insulted if I grouped them with TO. Which I did at every available oppurtunity. Of course, they'd group me with Detroit, which is roughly equivalent, even though I'll defend Detroit when they won't defend TO.
Yeah, but if you live in southern Ontario, chances are your town/city will be swallowed by Greater Ontario one day anyway.
Very much so. I can relate to some of the more extreme seperatist groups, being a separtist myself. I had an interesting discussion (in French, no less) with a Quebecois in my French class about seperatism. He was rather surprised to find seperatists in Michigan. He's from Montréal, so he's not seperatist. When I lived on the border with Northern Ontario I'd surprise my friends with my distaste for Washington, which was often greater than their distaste of Ottawa.


Anyway, Canada is an extremely interesting place that I don't spend remotely enough time in. I'm really craving poutine right now.
My French teacher, who I swear is a closet seperatist, has taught me some very interesting ideas about quebec seperatism. I can completely understand why they would want to do it, but still, it's a stupid idea for them. What country with any brain cells would agree to the terms they want? Yes, we want to be an independent nation, but you still have to give us money...I think Michigan should seperate and join Canada. You guys belong here, not with the hicks in central US.

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...poutine..................
I don't like poutine. Probably doesn't help that I cannot taste gravy.

BC and Alberta have same sepratist too. I hope for the sake of all that is good in the unlverse they keep their yaps shut.not that I have any big qualms with seperating, but it would bring the attention of Ottawa, which will surely screw things up.
:eek: You are officially cast out from the ranks of Canadian-ism.

Yay for Western Block! :rolleyes: Idiots.
That's probably the saddest thing I've ever heard. Gravy makes everything better. I go to New York Fries everytime I go to Sault Sainte Marie.



That reminds me of a saying I use quote often. "Uncle Sam has a reverse Midas touch. Everything he touches turns to shit." I think the same probaly applies to Ottawa.
Good job. *thumbs up*

teehee, sigged. :D

I'm not high-class enough to pull it off, I don't think. :pLol. Too bad. Perhaps you can be a gentleman with actions, and not with words?

I guess, perhaps one of the problems with nerds in my area is that they all form little cliques. It's not they are antisocial (Though they do tend to take a very long while to bond with people they don't know.), it's just that tehy were all so isolated in elementary and middle schools, that they tend to "accumulate" friends that very simply add up over time into little groups. These groups tend to have less than (or equal to) six or so people and don't tend to interact with one another. Additionally, my group has no women in it. There is a somewhat connected group that does, but I like them as friends and woudn't want that to change. For a nerd, a good friend is hard to come by, and it's something keep. And no, I know of no women who like to talk about politics.Ah, I see, that's too bad. Perhaps you could join a political group at your school, if you're in one, or a political group in your city?

The worst pick-up line was aslo something I heard on NationStates recently. Someone actually said to another member, "Hey baby, let's play house. You be the door, and I'll slam you."

Out of curiosity, if, say, in a bar, someone said that to you (and actually meant it), what exactly would you do to him?Lol. Well, I certainly wouldn't be angry unless he wouldn't take no for an answer (assuming I was to refuse), however I'm not a woman, so I'm not necessarily the best person to ask.

whenever I hear of this shit... I feel like grabbing my Katana and short sword and opening a can of whoop ass on those assholes... :mad:

Me too! Although I'd use a Viking Longsword. Off with their heads! :mad:

P.S. I as 15 when I lost mine.

Yeah, I still have a few black/red dresses from when I used to go to alternative clubs. I can manage that costume easily, Vampyre it is. :)

...although when you mentioned Buffy I though of dressing as a hot lesbian witch. *thinks some more*

Ooh, either of those sounds great! Any chance of pictures of you in costume?:D

Ooh, either of those sounds great! Any chance of pictures of you in costume?:D

i already asked (well, suggested) and got ignored :( ;)

what? got some action this evening too ;) (twice) :p


*shiftyeyes* :p

with Glitzy I assume...

:eek: I'm hoping he's joking... :(







hehe, no, it's me who's joking..... don't worry guys :P



Oh, and for me, I was 16 (not a regret in my mind :)) - and still am 16.

Oh, and for me, I was 16 (not a regret in my mind :)) - and still am 16.

It good that you don't. I regret losing mine to the person I did. Although it didn't seem much at the time, in hindsight it was a bad bad thing to do.

:eek: I'm hoping he's joking... :(

hehe, no, it's me who's joking..... don't worry guys :P

whew...
although the image I had was the joke with the punchline... "Is it in yet?"
:p
I'M JOKING PM! REALLY AND TRUELY IT WAS A JOKE!!!
:D

I was 17.

I was 24.

Do you think there's any link between the fact that this thread is on NS General and the fact that 38.89% of the votes are for "still waiting". :confused:

*delurking simply because it's always fun to talk about sex*

I lost my virginity at 19 (I'm 22 now), to a married man with two children, no less! It turned into a six month affair. Certainly among my proudest moments.