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Earlier today, outside my apartment, I heard a couple arguing. It went on for awhile, and got pretty loud. Why they had to do that in the breeze way of the building, I don't know, but they did. I'm sick today, but I got off my couch to look out the door peephole and see what was up. I did not see, but heard an extremely loud bang against the wall, that literally shook the building. I am almost certain he threw her against the wall.


I walked out there, not to start trouble but hoping my presence would make this guy not want to be see attacking his girlfriend.


I'm 5 foot 10, 220 lbs, I was wearing a Marine Corps. T-Shirt and probably look pretty ragged since I haven't cut my hair in weeks nor shaved a in a few days. The dude, I swear to god, backed his ass as close to the wall on the other side of the breezeway as he could and just stared at me in fear. He knew I knew what had happened. I didn't say anything to him but I put on my best disciplined look as I could and marched down stairs. As soon as I did that, the guy left.


First of all, do you all think I did the right thing?

Second, how could a guy do that to his girlfriend? What kind of sick person does that!?!?

Did you check this woman was ok?

Well done ,young man. You were wearing a USMC T-shirt, but are you actually semper fidelis? You don't read like the jarheads I know.:)

Violence against women by men is unacceptable unless the woman is:

a)armed with an offensive weapon and about to inflict serious injury against an innocent person

b)commiting a serious crime

c)literally requesting it (for foreplay or such)

I do hope you reported it.

Did you check this woman was ok?


I made eye contact with her as I walked by, she looked scared, but seemed fine. She left immediately after, and from a distance, I made sure the guy didn't follow.

Definitely the right thing by the sounds of it, no question.

You should have threw him against the wall to see how he liked it. Abusive guys like that need to be knocked into place

I do hope you reported it.

I'm not sure, my Dad's girlfriend had the phone to call the cops on standby, while I walked outside. If she did or not, I don't know.

You should have threw him against the wall to see how he liked it. Abusive guys like that need to be knocked into place

I usually could have, especially because this guy was relatively small in stature. But I'm sick today... :(


That, and I don't want to go to jail.

You should have threw him against the wall to see how he liked it. Abusive guys like that need to be knocked into place

Yeah, we civilised society is crying out for people to commit assault in the name of justice. :rolleyes:

Nice. I would've done it a wee bit differently, though, since I'm the same height but so much lighter.

I would've headed straight for the guy and gotten in his face. The only thing I'd do is give him the coldest stare possible. And I'm talking all but an inch from his face. No words, nothing. Just a stare.

I'm sure it'd be very unnerving for a very skinny guy to do that.

A first class loser ( that would be the guy that attcked her)

i would have asked if she was ok

Nice. I would've done it a wee bit differently, though, since I'm the same height but so much lighter.

I would've headed straight for the guy and gotten in his face. The only thing I'd do is give him the coldest stare possible. And I'm talking all but an inch from his face. No words, nothing. Just a stare.

I'm sure it'd be very unnerving for a very skinny guy to do that.

lol! I think he was afraid of that Marine Corps. T-Shirt. I look the part, everyone who knows me says it. And I can act it very well, even down to the parade ground-eske movements. And as soon as he saw that Golden Eagle Globe and Anchor on my shirt, he backed off really quickly lol

I'm not sure, my Dad's girlfriend had the phone to call the cops on standby, while I walked outside. If she did or not, I don't know.

If not, all you did was stick your finger in a leaky dyke.

If not, all you did was stick your finger in a leaky dyke.

True, but the woman didn't live with the guy. I think she just....."Stayed the Night". The woman left in a hurry. I highly doubt she's coming back. lol

lol! I think he was afraid of that Marine Corps. T-Shirt. I look the part, everyone who knows me says it. And I can act it very well, even down to the parade ground-eske movements. And as soon as he saw that Golden Eagle Globe and Anchor on my shirt, he backed off really quickly lol

Yeah, seems likely. But that guy definitely would've been afraid of me, if not just from the actions I described.

If not, all you did was stick your finger in a leaky dyke.

When I first read that, I honestly wasn't sure what to think. But then I got it.
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I honestly don't often make off colour jokes in conversations about beating women, but... I felt driven. In other news, Go Wanderjar!

Yeah, seems likely. But that guy definitely would've been afraid of me, if not just from the actions I described.

That would be very intimidating.

True, but the woman didn't live with the guy. I think she just....."Stayed the Night". The woman left in a hurry. I highly doubt she's coming back. lol

Had the authorities been contacted, that could have been ascertained and the woman's fate been less Schrödinger-esque.

bah shit happens you did the right thing really though you should of got yourself involved and scared the guy shitless maybe you should of asked why the woman was with a guy like that.

Maybe you should go over to the woman apartment and ask if she’s alright maybe bring a pie or something:D

That would be very intimidating.

Yeah, my fear of strangers kind of died after being bawled out, screamed at, and threatened by my dad so many times. I honestly wouldn't have any trouble doing what I described.

Has the authorities been contacted, that could have been ascertained and the woman's fate been less Schrödinger-esque.

Wow, good reference that.

Good job, WJ.

I, personally, would have fought the guy, but that's probably 'cause I'm 5'9" and 140 pounds, i.e. not intimidating. And also 'cause I hate wifebeaters.

Violence against women is one of the most severe cases of human rights abuse in the world today, mainly because it is so widespread. Here in the west we human rights advocates are making progress to eliminate it. Organisations like V-Day are helping to stem it worldwide with programmes like their sanctuaries for women at risk of violence.

Meath street, thanks for bringing the feminist politics into this. I was wondering when theyd show up. Even if you are right....


LNI im about the same stock as you, we may not be intimdating at first glance.....so u make them intimdated,.......by throwing them through a plate glass window for instance.... I still dont know how i didnt get charged for assault for that one.....oh yeah the parents of the dude refused to press charges, cause i taught their son a valuable lesson.. Dudewas like fully beating his Girl in public....people were just like standing there like "Oh my god someone do something." i was the only one man enough to do so.....love the 37 stiches i got. And had to pay damages to the Italian bakery.......but it was cool.


Anyway....guys who hit girls......are just the scum of the earth. I already told my fiance. that if she has friends who husbands/boyfriends beat them......dont tell me..cause ill be going to jail for murder....

I just cant fuckin stand it. I was brought up to know better. Women arent all princesses...but you still treat them like they are. The guy who gave "Situations" where its acceptable is right......Life or death....or what ever your fetishes are......not however.......to discipline an unruley spouse....

Wanderjar.......i salute u.....now fricken get back to the Blackcrusade thread....lol

Meath street, thanks for bringing the feminist politics into this. I was wondering when theyd show up. Even if you are right....


LNI im about the same stock as you, we may not be intimdating at first glance.....so u make them intimdated,.......by throwing them through a plate glass window for instance.... I still dont know how i didnt get charged for assault for that one.....oh yeah the parents of the dude refused to press charges, cause i taught their son a valuable lesson.. Dudewas like fully beating his Girl in public....people were just like standing there like "Oh my god someone do something." i was the only one man enough to do so.....love the 37 stiches i got. And had to pay damages to the Italian bakery.......but it was cool.


Anyway....guys who hit girls......are just the scum of the earth. I already told my fiance. that if she has friends who husbands/boyfriends beat them......dont tell me..cause ill be going to jail for murder....

I just cant fuckin stand it. I was brought up to know better. Women arent all princesses...but you still treat them like they are. The guy who gave "Situations" where its acceptable is right......Life or death....or what ever your fetishes are......not however.......to discipline an unruley spouse....

Wanderjar.......i salute u.....now fricken get back to the Blackcrusade thread....lol



lol, imagine that, me being a good guy in real life, yet RPing a monster who's trying to wipe out humanity......;)

Good job, WJ.

I, personally, would have fought the guy, but that's probably 'cause I'm 5'9" and 140 pounds, i.e. not intimidating. And also 'cause I hate wifebeaters.


Thanks bro! I hate woman beaters too. But I'd rather not go to jail for assault. And besides, I achieved the same end anyway, I scared the piss out of him, and he ran off like the cockroach he was.

u know actually....if you tell the cops what happened.....unless you get the silverspoon up his ass cop.....they let it go as defense.

ps this is Anarion.....wanderjar knows but just for the rest of u

u know actually....if you tell the cops what happened.....unless you get the silverspoon up his ass cop.....they let it go as defense.


Hmmm....*remembers for future reference*

Earlier today, outside my apartment, I heard a couple arguing. It went on for awhile, and got pretty loud. Why they had to do that in the breeze way of the building, I don't know, but they did. I'm sick today, but I got off my couch to look out the door peephole and see what was up. I did not see, but heard an extremely loud bang against the wall, that literally shook the building. I am almost certain he threw her against the wall.


I walked out there, not to start trouble but hoping my presence would make this guy not want to be see attacking his girlfriend.


I'm 5 foot 10, 220 lbs, I was wearing a Marine Corps. T-Shirt and probably look pretty ragged since I haven't cut my hair in weeks nor shaved a in a few days. The dude, I swear to god, backed his ass as close to the wall on the other side of the breezeway as he could and just stared at me in fear. He knew I knew what had happened. I didn't say anything to him but I put on my best disciplined look as I could and marched down stairs. As soon as I did that, the guy left.


First of all, do you all think I did the right thing?

Second, how could a guy do that to his girlfriend? What kind of sick person does that!?!?

Oh. :(

I thought someone invented cholesterol-free women. :(

I think you handled that fairly well considering. Kneeing the prick in the groin would've been a plus. :)

First of all, do you all think I did the right thing?

Second, how could a guy do that to his girlfriend? What kind of sick person does that!?!?
yeh, i would haveprobably just had a go and then lost my temper when the guy didn't back down and got arrested. maybe would have been better if you'd properly checked if the woman was ok.

an insecure retard with anger management issues.

First of all, do you all think I did the right thing?

Second, how could a guy do that to his girlfriend? What kind of sick person does that!?!?


You absolutely did the right thing.

It takes a special kind of shithead to strike a woman, and every attempt to let that sort of person know just how shit-like they are is noble.

how about this cindy, im not an adult yet, and legally i am property, but my mum REEEEEALLY lets me know it. do u want to live a slave? and please take into account i have been thrown against several peices of furniture and hung by my legs and nearly choked.

womens lib., bullshit, u cant have equality with only the good parts because thats not equality. if u saw 2 guys arguing would u have done anything? how do you know he didnt hit her because she was pickpocketing him, or that she called him a ****** or something?

in short stop being so goddamn biased

if he was being pickpocketed, why would he run away

if he was being pickpocketed, why would he run away

Maybe he ran away cos his girlfriend just beat him up and he was scared.

I usually could have, especially because this guy was relatively small in stature. But I'm sick today... :(


That, and I don't want to go to jail.
Yea, we always want to show them how it feels. Honestly, I think its more fair to the guy to kick his ass than to put him in jail. What does more damage?

You absolutely did the right thing.

It takes a special kind of shithead to strike a woman, and every attempt to let that sort of person know just how shit-like they are is noble.

Exactly.. unless they're drunk and spouting hippy New-Age filth at you, or coked-up and making obscene accusations. That's my policy at least.

womens lib., bullshit, u cant have equality with only the good parts because thats not equality. if u saw 2 guys arguing would u have done anything? how do you know he didnt hit her because she was pickpocketing him, or that she called him a ****** or something?

in short stop being so goddamn biased

I don't actually see how Wanderjar's behaviour was biased. This is a generalisation, I know, but women are generally physically weaker and therefore less able to defend themselves against a usually physically stronger without some kind of equaliser. If a man is beating a woman, it is fairly obvious who started the violence, and just as obvious who is going to come off worse. If she had been pickpocketing him or something he would restrain her, not knock her around until he got bored.

Using an example of two guys arguing is different. For starters, they are just arguing, there is no physical violence involved. Case in point: I'm arguing with you right now, but I'm not beating you with a two-by-four, nor do I feel any urge to. In a fight between two men, it is very hard to tell who started it, and often hard to tell who will win.


And Wanderjar, dude, you did exactly the right thing. Maximum impact, minimum force. You got the woman out of danger without putting yourself at risk of injury or incarceration. I salute you.

Disciplining your woman is like disciplining your child: there's a line between acceptable and abusive. It's a shame this kind of thing happens in a society like ours. I think it's because no one is raised to have respect for women anymore.

Disciplining your woman is like disciplining your child: there's a line between acceptable and abusive. It's a shame this kind of thing happens in a society like ours. I think it's because no one is raised to have respect for women anymore.
Hypocrisy out the wazoo.

Hypocrisy out the wazoo.
That was pretty funny.... :headbang:

That was pretty funny.... :headbang:
Exactly.

Well done, Wanderjar.

Hypocrisy out the wazoo.

I don't see it... Just because you respect someone doesn't mean she doesn't need a spanking now and then.

I don't see it... Just because you respect someone doesn't mean she doesn't need a spanking now and then.

I'll keep that in mind the next time you misbehave. :)

A LOT of women deserve worse than being thrown against a wall, yet that does not mean that you should do it. I think you handled things well. I have a neighbor who has a husband that beat her up and she got a protection from abuse order against him. I have heard comotion over there on two separate times. Once I loaded some guns and kept them behind my door and went out to ivestigate unarmeed but with the guns handy. The other time I went out unarmed and investigated and then called the police.

Anybody know any good woman beating jokes?

Anybody know any good woman beating jokes?

Only one, but it's really not appropriate.

Anybody know any good woman beating jokes?

lol, anyother time, I'd say go for it. Not appropriate on this thread though :p

womens lib., bullshit, u cant have equality with only the good parts because thats not equality. if u saw 2 guys arguing would u have done anything? how do you know he didnt hit her because she was pickpocketing him, or that she called him a ****** or something?

in short stop being so goddamn biased


First, the guy was white. Second, because the woman was shouting "Give me back my car keys!".


Care to rethink that now?

I was in the same situation awhile back. My neighbor was beating his GF, so I called 911, then went out to stop him. He and I were about the same size, but he made himself scarce before I got there. I stayed with the woman until the cops got there.

The sad thing is, she stayed with him, and there were several more incidents before she finally left him.

Disciplining your woman is like disciplining your child: there's a line between acceptable and abusive. It's a shame this kind of thing happens in a society like ours. I think it's because no one is raised to have respect for women anymore.


You shouldn't have to discipline your woman. She is her own person! Shes an adult too, and doesn't need disciplining. Saying anything different is messed up.

Disciplining your woman is like disciplining your child: there's a line between acceptable and abusive. It's a shame this kind of thing happens in a society like ours. I think it's because no one is raised to have respect for women anymore.

I don't see it... Just because you respect someone doesn't mean she doesn't need a spanking now and then.

Holy fuck, I can't believe there are actually people around who think like that.

"Respect for women"? You talk about "disciplining your woman" and "acceptable" and "needs a spanking now and then" - and you dare even mention "respect for women"?

You make me sick.

Holy fuck, I can't believe there are actually people around who think like that.

"Respect for women"? You talk about "disciplining your woman" and "acceptable" and "needs a spanking now and then" - and you dare even talk about "respect for women"?

You make me sick.

Thank you. You put it in far better words than I did.


And thanks to everyone else for telling me I was in the right to get involved.

Holy fuck, I can't believe there are actually people around who think like that.

"Respect for women"? You talk about "disciplining your woman" and "acceptable" and "needs a spanking now and then" - and you dare even mention "respect for women"?

You make me sick.

It's fun to mess with people on the internet, huh? Don't get too worked up over what people say on web forums...

By the way, what do you think about beating children? The lifes' universal teacher is pain, no?

By the way, what do you think about beating children? The lifes' universal teacher is pain, no?

Pfft, bullshit. Life's universal teacher is life.

It's fun to mess with people on the internet, huh? Don't get too worked up over what people say on web forums...

By the way, what do you think about beating children? The lifes' universal teacher is pain, no?

Now, I am certain you are kidding about that, but regardless, it is inappropriate.

Holy fuck, I can't believe there are actually people around who think like that.

"Respect for women"? You talk about "disciplining your woman" and "acceptable" and "needs a spanking now and then" - and you dare even mention "respect for women"?

You make me sick.

Discipline him. *removes belt and hands it to you*