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In response to the kissing quiz.. Describe what you belive to be the perfect kiss.. whether you had it or not

The perfect one? No such animal.

I'd say my favorite one is right in the morning when I kiss my sleepy fiancee awake, it's just a small, simple kiss but it's one that says we're still together, still sharing our lives, and that we love each other.

Personally it doesn't get better than that.

The perfect kiss has to do with who not how.

Though i havn't yet bothered to go in for a kiss.. i think if i did, my perfect one might be.. to get in real close (body wise) go 90% of the way and wait... once she starts the kiss give a hand on the side of her neck or cheek, a little bit of lip,a little bit of tounge.. and quickly end it with a smile.

playful .. passionate... maybe even a little old fashioned.

In response to the kissing quiz.. Describe what you belive to be the perfect kiss.. whether you had it or not
Me sticking my tongue down her throat.
Stupid quiz had me as a doorknob. HA!!!

The perfect kiss has to do with who not how.
Absolutely. And you'll know it when it happens. :D

It'd involve me and Jessica Alba! :D

The perfect kiss has to do with who not how.

I agree.

Close. It starts out slow. You lean in until you are sharing each others' breath. Your lips touch and part slightly. Hands roam freely. As it becomes more intense, you press harder until someone slips their tongue out and just caresses the other one's lip. Then the tongues meet, mouths open, passions flare, time is lost. Hmmmmm....

This thread is hawt.

It'd involve me and Jessica Alba! :D

No, no, no...Eliza Dushku.

No, no, no...Eliza Dushku.

Me and Eliza? Nah that'd never work :p

The perfect kiss is indescribable.

Well, that would depend on the situation, wouldn't it?

An intense, breathless situation calls for an intense, breathless kiss - deep, and passionate, and wildly erotic.

A tender situation calls for a tender kiss - sweet, and soft, and slow, with his hands cupping my face and our lips touching lightly, and lingering...

Mmmhhhh....

Well, that would depend on the situation, wouldn't it?

An intense, breathless situation calls for an intense, breathless kiss - deep, and passionate, and wildly erotic.

A tender situation calls for a tender kiss - sweet, and soft, and slow, with his hands cupping my face and our lips touching lightly, and lingering...

Mmmhhhh....

I'm shivering right now... *blush*

I'm shivering right now... *blush*
Aw. ;)

Starting out light and tender, slowly getting mire and more passionate until our tongues are down each other's throats...now I really miss my boyfriend.

I'll answer that once I feel a bit better again. And I'll answer it in detail ;)

My first kiss with my ex was perfect. Our entire relationship was long distance. Him in Devon me in Bristol. This is before we got together...He'd driven up to see me...and I had to work, so he waited around while I was at work, finished about 10pm. He managed to convince me that he wanted to take me to the beach. So we drove to Devon, got there about 12.30am. This is England in September time. That time of night bloody freezing. Blankets and coats and close hugging lying on the beach looking at the stars. Amazingly clear night sky, sea lapping. We lay there talking for hours. He looked into my eyes, lifted up my chin with his finger and kissed me and it was amazing. We fell asleep hugging one another, woke up freezing and had to get in the car. Eventually got home at 7am...he had to drive another hour and a half from mine. Later on when we actually got together I found out that he'd fallen asleep in the service station car park for a few hours after he dropped me off lol

Sorry if I've made some of you gag....

Thats why some guy is gonna have to do something mega special to impress me now.

Describe what you belive to be the perfect kiss..

Open mouth, on my penis, just as I'm waking up in the morning.

With tongue.

Open mouth, on my penis, just as I'm waking up in the morning.

With tongue.
:p

Open mouth, on my penis, just as I'm waking up in the morning.

With tongue.
:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

I'm shivering right now... *blush*
Aw!

:eek: :eek: :eek: :eek: :eek:

Something like that, yep.

My first kiss with my ex was perfect. Our entire relationship was long distance. Him in Devon me in Bristol. This is before we got together...He'd driven up to see me...and I had to work, so he waited around while I was at work, finished about 10pm. He managed to convince me that he wanted to take me to the beach. So we drove to Devon, got there about 12.30am. This is England in September time. That time of night bloody freezing. Blankets and coats and close hugging lying on the beach looking at the stars. Amazingly clear night sky, sea lapping. We lay there talking for hours. He looked into my eyes, lifted up my chin with his finger and kissed me and it was amazing. We fell asleep hugging one another, woke up freezing and had to get in the car. Eventually got home at 7am...he had to drive another hour and a half from mine. Later on when we actually got together I found out that he'd fallen asleep in the service station car park for a few hours after he dropped me off lol

Sorry if I've made some of you gag....

Thats why some guy is gonna have to do something mega special to impress me now.

Honestly, he would have had me at lifting up my chin with his finger. Irresistible. Do that, and you don't have to bother about impressing me with anything else. Mmmmhhhhhhh.....

Something like that, yep.
LMFAO

Honestly, he would have had me at lifting up my chin with his finger. Irresistible. Do that, and you don't have to bother about impressing me with anything else. Mmmmhhhhhhh.....

*takes notes*

Honestly, he would have had me at lifting up my chin with his finger. Irresistible. Do that, and you don't have to bother about impressing me with anything else. Mmmmhhhhhhh.....
Tell me about it...why is that move so irresistable. Think its the whole smooth and in control feel maybe...

*takes notes*
*tells Ilie*

Tell me about it...why is that move so irresistable. Think its the whole smooth and in control feel maybe...
Uh-huh..... *swoons*

Tell me about it...why is that move so irresistable. Think its the whole smooth and in control feel maybe...

A bit. It definitely says "I know what I'm doing", but at the same time it's so gentle and tender... carefully touching someone's face is always something special. And to touch it, just with a finger under the chin to move your face up, so the kiss will be just perfect.....

*melts with longing...

Open mouth, on my penis, just as I'm waking up in the morning.

With tongue.
You really scare me sometimes.

Honestly, he would have had me at lifting up my chin with his finger. Irresistible. Do that, and you don't have to bother about impressing me with anything else. Mmmmhhhhhhh.....


Good to know. ;)

This thread makes me feel like...I don't know. I feel happy though. :fluffle:

A bit. It definitely says "I know what I'm doing", but at the same time it's so gentle and tender... carefully touching someone's face is always something special. And to touch it, just with a finger under the chin to move your face up, so the kiss will be just perfect.....

*melts with longing...Oh, yes, absolutely correct....

*joins Cabra in melting

I'm throwing my lot in with the 'who not how' crowd here, and unfortunately I feel at the moment that I'll never have that perfect kiss again - the girl I love doesn't love me, so yeah, that's me kinda shafted I guess *shrug*.

Still, at least I've had it, and for that I'm thankful :)

I'm throwing my lot in with the 'who not how' crowd here, and unfortunately I feel at the moment that I'll never have that perfect kiss again - the girl I love doesn't love me, so yeah, that's me kinda shafted I guess *shrug*.

Still, at least I've had it, and for that I'm thankful :)
I love the word shafted lol

:( does make me a little sad that it didn't last, but I'm glad I have the memories.

Oh, yes, absolutely correct....

*joins Cabra in melting

Although the "who not how" factor does play an important part, too. No matter how good they are at the finger-under-chin act, there has to be more than that for a kiss to be perfect.














*sigh

Although the "who not how" factor does play an important part, too. No matter how good they are at the finger-under-chin act, there has to be more than that for a kiss to be perfect.


*sigh
*nod*
He was good!
Want a new one! Although I kinda don't. I'm happy single at the moment!

A bit. It definitely says "I know what I'm doing", but at the same time it's so gentle and tender... carefully touching someone's face is always something special. And to touch it, just with a finger under the chin to move your face up, so the kiss will be just perfect.....

*melts with longing...

see, now is it hotter to start with the lifting of the chin and ignore the 90% rule.. (moving in 90% and waiting for them to go the extra 10%) or.. is it hotter to use that rule followed by a cupped hand on the cheek or neck.

see, now is it hotter to start with the lifting of the chin and ignore the 90% rule.. (moving in 90% and waiting for them to go the extra 10%) or.. is it hotter to use that rule followed by a cupped hand on the cheek or neck.
the latter...OMG, the latter!

see, now is it hotter to start with the lifting of the chin and ignore the 90% rule.. (moving in 90% and waiting for them to go the extra 10%) or.. is it hotter to use that rule followed by a cupped hand on the cheek or neck.
I just feel its important for the guy to make the move. Call that unfair, I dont care, I wanna feel special :) As long as the guy takes control and you get those butterflies then its a good kiss!!

see, now is it hotter to start with the lifting of the chin and ignore the 90% rule.. (moving in 90% and waiting for them to go the extra 10%) or.. is it hotter to use that rule followed by a cupped hand on the cheek or neck.

I like the "fake left and lick them in the eye" maneuver, myself.

*takes notes*

that could be one reason i started this thread too ~.^ always good to have ideas :D

see, now is it hotter to start with the lifting of the chin and ignore the 90% rule.. (moving in 90% and waiting for them to go the extra 10%) or.. is it hotter to use that rule followed by a cupped hand on the cheek or neck. Lol, I've never even heard about that rule. It's a kiss, for crying out loud, not maths. Forget any silly rules, just do what feels right. Kids today.... :rolleyes: ;)

I like the "fake left and lick them in the eye" maneuver, myself.
I like to lick also...not the best kissing style. Depending on how I'm feeling and the situation I also bite. Little nibble of the bottom lip :)

Lol, I've never even heard about that rule. It's a kiss, for crying out loud, not maths. Forget any silly rules, just do what feels right. Kids today.... :rolleyes: ;)

Thank you! Enjoy it... don't analyse it ... have fun with it!

I just feel its important for the guy to make the move. Call that unfair, I dont care, I wanna feel special :) As long as the guy takes control and you get those butterflies then its a good kiss!!
My guy and I kissed with "You and I Collide playing in the back ground...*sigh* He's awesome.

I like to lick also...not the best kissing style. Depending on how I'm feeling and the situation I also bite. Little nibble of the bottom lip :)

Oh I'm all about the nibbling.

Lol, I've never even heard about that rule. It's a kiss, for crying out loud, not maths. Forget any silly rules, just do what feels right. Kids today.... :rolleyes: ;)
*nods*

Thank you! Enjoy it... don't analyse it ... have fun with it!
Amen to that, brother!

Lol, I've never even heard about that rule. It's a kiss, for crying out loud, not maths. Forget any silly rules, just do what feels right. Kids today.... :rolleyes: ;)

but its such a sound strategy.. makes it seem like the guy is taking control.. yet leaves the door open to be sure the girl wants it to happen... so you know if your not being too forward ~.^

I love the word shafted lol

:( does make me a little sad that it didn't last, but I'm glad I have the memories.

It is a rather good word isn't it :D

You have my memories of her too? Brain-draining! ZOMG! :p

You know the worst thing? I was so sure I was over her and then wouldn't you know it, ten days in her company and 8 months of hard work go down the tubes.

see, now is it hotter to start with the lifting of the chin and ignore the 90% rule.. (moving in 90% and waiting for them to go the extra 10%) or.. is it hotter to use that rule followed by a cupped hand on the cheek or neck.

Start with lifting the chin, then move your face closer, wait for a second once you reach the 90 %, and then just gently brush your lips over hers...

It is a rather good word isn't it :D

You have my memories of her too? Brain-draining! ZOMG! :p

You know the worst thing? I was so sure I was over her and then wouldn't you know it, ten days in her company and 8 months of hard work go down the tubes.
Why did you spend 10 days in her company? Holiday? Theres no way I could do that with my ex at this present time!

I like to lick also...not the best kissing style. Depending on how I'm feeling and the situation I also bite. Little nibble of the bottom lip :)

mmm... licking's good, provided you don't just lick all over the other's face.

Start with lifting the chin, then move your face closer, wait for a second once you reach the 90 %, and then just gently brush your lips over hers...
I WANNA KISS....SOMEONE KISS MEEEEE

Start with lifting the chin, then move your face closer, wait for a second once you reach the 90 %, and then just gently brush your lips over hers...

hmmm and then move your hand and cup her cheek or neck (once you start to kiss).. that actually sounds better then my orginal perfect kiss

Why did you spend 10 days in her company? Holiday? Theres no way I could do that with my ex at this present time!

CYFA camp - same one that I met her on lol (only a few years on obviously). So it was exclusively in her company, but it might as well have been for all the eyes I had for any other women. *Sigh* Damn women creatures and their befuddling ways.

I WANNA KISS....SOMEONE KISS MEEEEE

*sigh

Same here. But I feel it would be pathetic to lick the screen now. If I'm just a little lucky, I might get kisses soon, though...

*sigh

Same here. But I feel it would be pathetic to lick the screen now. If I'm just a little lucky, I might get kisses soon, though...
oooooh whooo???

hmmm and then move your hand and cup her cheek or neck (once you start to kiss).. that actually sounds better then my orginal perfect kiss

Neck, I would say. So you can stroke her gently behind the ear with your thumb. That's another sure way to make me melt....

oooooh whooo???

If I'm lucky. I don't want to jinx it :D
Some guy I met on a dating page... maybe I'll meet him this weekend.

If I'm lucky. I don't want to jinx it :D
Some guy I met on a dating page... maybe I'll meet him this weekend.
:eek: awesome!!! Let me know how it goes!!!!!!

Drool everywhere.

Drool everywhere.
*hands bucket*

:eek: awesome!!! Let me know how it goes!!!!!!

I will. Fingers crossed... ;)

*hands bucket*

Oh, trust me. Its hawter without the bucket.

*sigh* Gee, thanks, ladies, it's hard enough having to be in this silly office listening to the person across the aisle who never friggin' shuts up all day long without having to think about kisses. Somehow this is worse than having a song running through my head endlessly. :rolleyes:

Is my girlfriend gonna be taken aback when I get home! ;)

*sigh* Gee, thanks, ladies, it's hard enough having to be in this silly office listening to the person across the aisle who never friggin' shuts up all day long without having to think about kisses. Somehow this is worse than having a song running through my head endlessly. :rolleyes:

Is my girlfriend gonna be taken aback when I get home! ;)

AH but now u have new material to test ^.^ u should tell how it goes (how much she mealts)

AH but now u have new material to test ^.^ u should tell how it goes (how much she mealts)
I should print this off and give it to my bf...although anything he does makes me melt anyway. ;)

Close. It starts out slow. You lean in until you are sharing each others' breath. *snip*
This rules out first thing in the morning, then. :p

This rules out first thing in the morning, then. :p
If you're just wanting kisses, it doesn't. If you're looking for that perfect kiss, I think it has more to do with the mood and the connection.Being relaxed and focused. So...yeah.

I like the surprise ones... my best first kiss with a guy was when he was walking me home, we were holding hands and talking when all of a sudden, he stopped, pulled me towards him and planted one on me.