NationStates Jolt Archive


Does size REALLY matter?

Ghost of Zion
14-07-2006, 07:57
Yes..."That" size..Im just wondering if its the size that does it for you, or is it the way that a guy uses it?

Personally I think the way they use it is more important. I mean just because you are well endowed doesn't mean you can make your partner climax... Poll to come!
Posi
14-07-2006, 08:00
Penis size matters to the girls as much as breast size matters to the men. *nod*
Mstreeted
14-07-2006, 08:02
... it all depends on the size of it's destination really....

to an extent.. yes... it does matter.. though I voted virgin eyes :D
IL Ruffino
14-07-2006, 08:03
I'm a lesbian, so no.
Saipea
14-07-2006, 08:03
It's been said/proven that it's girth, not length, that matters.
Beyond that, there's a mild to moderate amount of "wiggle room". Hehe.
Ghost of Zion
14-07-2006, 08:06
It's been said/proven that it's girth, not length, that matters.
Beyond that, there's a mild to moderate amount of "wiggle room". Hehe.


girth? -looks down- well thats a plus! :P
Dinaverg
14-07-2006, 08:07
Penis size matters to the girls as much as breast size matters to the men. *nod*

...Anything more than a handful then?
Rotovia-
14-07-2006, 08:07
Yes, it damn well does. Without going into too much detail, I'm black where it counts, which is actually annoying because my girlfriend is well...small...down there. So for us, sex is usually around two hours of foreplay before I'm even coming close to fitting inside. All of that aside, given my group of friends speaks very openly about sex, a larger penis, when properly used, seems to be capable of inducing an orgasm faster.
Dinaverg
14-07-2006, 08:08
I'm a lesbian, so no.

...You're a male drunk with foil on his teeth in PA.
Ghost of Zion
14-07-2006, 08:09
I'm a lesbian, so no.


Oh come here my sweet ruffy..we'll have hott lesbian sex!!
Posi
14-07-2006, 08:11
...Anything more than a handful then?
But not too big... then it looks like you got inplants
Posi
14-07-2006, 08:12
Oh come here my sweet ruffy..we'll have hott lesbian sex!!
I never would have thought that lesbian sex could be so gay.
Dinaverg
14-07-2006, 08:12
But not too big... then it looks like you got inplants

...Hmmm...I wonder...
Posi
14-07-2006, 08:13
...Hmmm...I wonder...
Yes, it's real.
IL Ruffino
14-07-2006, 08:15
...You're a male drunk with foil on his teeth in PA.
Omg! Easter!

I remember! Kinda..
IL Ruffino
14-07-2006, 08:16
Oh come here my sweet ruffy..we'll have hott lesbian sex!!*comes on*

:eek: :eek: :eek:
Hobovillia
14-07-2006, 08:20
Penis size matters to the girls as much as breast size matters to the men. *nod*
Family Guy...:p

"OH NO!":p
Dinaverg
14-07-2006, 08:20
*comes on*

:eek: :eek: :eek:

On who?
Shenaynia
14-07-2006, 08:21
i was having this very discussion with my mate yesterday and the conslusion was that it does depend on the size of the girl as well. If she is a tight fit then size doesn't matter as much as if say she has had sex with 150 men in which case it might be beneficial for both parties if the guy had a larger member.

In my opinion it is definietely girth that makes the difference...and in fact angles...so if he has got a smaller one..just mix it up a little to make it work.;)
Helioterra
14-07-2006, 08:25
Wel, just think about it

4 men
-large penis, knows the tricks
-large penis, doesn't have a clue (you can teach)
-small penis, knows the tricks
-small penis, doesn't have a clue

Quite obvious really.
But I doubt that noone's going to marry someone because he has a large dick.
Dinaverg
14-07-2006, 08:27
noone's

No one. Actually, I think you mean anyone.
Dinaverg
14-07-2006, 08:27
You know what really matters? How symmetrical the guy is.
Johnsilvania
14-07-2006, 08:32
length means nothing... gurth just makes it easier... women climax through clitoral stimulation, it's really more a matter of stamina and simply knowing where to go than anything else.
Saipea
14-07-2006, 08:36
No one. Actually, I think you mean anyone.

I used to do that. Too much time spent with AOL dwellers.
Pepe Dominguez
14-07-2006, 08:40
I think some here are neglecting to mention the most important factor..

*cough$$$cough*

:p
Helioterra
14-07-2006, 08:40
No one. Actually, I think you mean anyone.
I noticed even before I submitted it but then my phone rang and I thought that if I don't submit it rigth away, my brilliant ( ;) ) post would disappear.
The Mindset
14-07-2006, 08:47
Frankly, yes. Too small (5'' or less) gives no feeling. Too large (8'' or more) hurts like fuck.

Oh, I'm gay. That might have something to do with it.
Ellanesse
14-07-2006, 08:54
as it's been said, girth is just as important as length, and there's also the thought of not being too large. if you're too long you're gonna whack into the cervex which can be very painful, if you're too wide good luck getting it in in the first place. lubricant can help, that part of the female anatomy is flexible enough to get a baby through after all, but that's not exactly a comfortable fit!

the size of the girl is also very important... i think size doesn't matter, what does matter is that your body parts match and are compatible. a large (in that area) woman is going to need a large (in that area) man. the rest of the body doesn't seem to make much of a difference, very petite women can have huge parts and very large women can be a tight fit. it depends on genetics, experience, and how well they take care of themselves.

also, if a woman practices her 'exercises' she can... admit? accept? more sizes comfortably than a woman who doesn't. flex, hold, release, just like any other effort to train the muscles, only these can be done while you're reading nationstates!
Saipea
14-07-2006, 09:17
Frankly, yes. Too small (5'' or less) gives no feeling. Too large (8'' or more) hurts like fuck.

Oh, I'm gay. That might have something to do with it.

Yes, I do believe that we're talking about two different orifices...
Both of which are just mysterious pits to me.
Shenaynia
15-07-2006, 13:16
Yes, I do believe that we're talking about two different orifices...
Both of which are just mysterious pits to me.

mysterious pits??? How big do you think they are...or have you encountered somme very disturbing ones lol.

Yep very different orifices indeed. one is really not designed to take anything at all let alone 8 inches...so i guess that's why it hurts more. Pity though...such fun!!!:p :p
Harlesburg
15-07-2006, 13:21
Yes..."That" size..Im just wondering if its the size that does it for you, or is it the way that a guy uses it?

Personally I think the way they use it is more important. I mean just because you are well endowed doesn't mean you can make your partner climax... Poll to come!
Is that a pun?:eek: :D

I imagine/figure/assume having a 8 inch+ wang and using it poorly would to some extent still give a better impression than i guy with a 5incher who uses it fairly well, simply because the woman gets a negative impression when she sees it.
Crazed monkies
15-07-2006, 13:39
I thought knowing a few tricks would compensate to some extent, but you can only compensate so much. Just my theory

And here's a thought, why do people say penis with relative ease, but choke up and end up saying "down there" or some other equivalent instead of vagina?
Keruvalia
15-07-2006, 13:53
So ... when is this going to turn into a "Men of NS General, whip it out and take pic!" thread.

Honestly, if you even think about size, then it does matter. I've found it generally only matters to insecure men.

I have a penis. That's about it. I don't measure it and I don't ask for it to be compared to other men's penises. It does what it does and I've never had a complaint. My penis is only one aspect of my love making.
Helioterra
15-07-2006, 13:56
So ... when is this going to turn into a "Men of NS General, whip it out and take pic!" thread.

Honestly, if you even think about size, then it does matter. I've found it generally only matters to insecure men.

I have a penis. That's about it. I don't measure it and I don't ask for it to be compared to other men's penises. It does what it does and I've never had a complaint. My penis is only one aspect of my love making.
Now, that's a lie. I'm 100% sure that you have measured your penis.

edit
äsch. You didn't say I've never measured...I can believe (very easily) that you haven't measured it for a looooooong time.
Lunatic Goofballs
15-07-2006, 13:59
Now, that's a lie. I'm 100% sure that you have measured your penis.

edit
äsch. You didn't say I've never measured...I can believe (very easily) that you haven't measured it for a looooooong time.

Hidden camera? :)
Keruvalia
15-07-2006, 13:59
Now, that's a lie. I'm 100% sure that you have measured your penis.

No, really ... it's true. I have never once, ever measured my penis. I've met only one other man who hasn't.

It often astounds me how obsessed men are with size.
Harlesburg
15-07-2006, 14:01
I thought knowing a few tricks would compensate to some extent, but you can only compensate so much. Just my theory

And here's a thought, why do people say penis with relative ease, but choke up and end up saying "down there" or some other equivalent instead of vagina?
Because women are decent folk that shouldn't be spoken of poorly. *shifty eyes*
Helioterra
15-07-2006, 14:02
No, really ... it's true. I have never once, ever measured my penis. I've met only one other man who hasn't.

It often astounds me how obsessed men are with size.
I don't think it's always obsession. Curiosity. I have measured my fingers, wrists, nose, everything there is to measure. I don't think I'm obsessed about the length of my fingers.
Keruvalia
15-07-2006, 14:03
Hidden camera? :)

The plaster mold cast I made of it was only to be used as a party favor, I swear!

>.>
<.<

*runs*
Helioterra
15-07-2006, 14:03
Hidden camera? :)
I wish.
Keruvalia
15-07-2006, 14:04
I don't think I'm obsessed about the length of my fingers.

You don't think you are, but we're watching you! We know!

Heh ... I think the only thing I've measured on me is my leg length when making myself a pair of pants. I have very long legs.
Helioterra
15-07-2006, 14:22
You don't think you are, but we're watching you! We know!

Heh ... I think the only thing I've measured on me is my leg length when making myself a pair of pants. I have very long legs.
You made a pair of pants yourself? Cool. It annoys me when my friends ask me to make clothes for them. I usually just answer why wouldn't you make it yourself because it's really not that difficult. Men seem to have a similar allergic reaction to sewing machines as women have to fixing cars, or almost anything.

ok, I might be obsesses to measuring :p
Keruvalia
15-07-2006, 14:23
You made a pair of pants yourself?

Many! Also shirts and other things. I love to sew. :)
Smunkeeville
15-07-2006, 14:39
So ... when is this going to turn into a "Men of NS General, whip it out and take pic!" thread.

Honestly, if you even think about size, then it does matter. I've found it generally only matters to insecure men.

I have a penis. That's about it. I don't measure it and I don't ask for it to be compared to other men's penises. It does what it does and I've never had a complaint. My penis is only one aspect of my love making.
yeah, that's pretty much what I was going to say in a female perspective, he has what he has, it works for me, I don't compare, there is no reason, it's not a competition, but if it was.... he might just win LOL

Really if your penis size is the extent of your "skills" you got more problems than we can address here. ;)
Harlesburg
15-07-2006, 15:12
Many! Also shirts and other things. I love to sew. :)
Where as most Americans love to sue!
Murples
16-07-2006, 01:43
yup bigger is better stimulation, but really its about how much you turn me on :) in wich case being bigger also helps teehee.