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The shame of Big Brother

The Spurious Squirrel
22-05-2006, 22:21
I have just seen an episode of Big Brother and I have to say, it's plumbed new depths in causing pain and humilation in the contestants.

Specifically there are two housemates; one Pete, I think his name is has Tourette's syndrome. While he seems a really lovely guy, his disability has him saying expletives and whistling involuntarily. If there was a valid programme to explore and become aware of Tourette's syndrome that would be fine. However, this show is making him seem a figure of ridicule. It seems that, at least, most of the other Housemates accept him for who he is, I don't think Endemol are being at all responsible in how he is viewed.

The more serious concern however, is Shabaz, a gay Pakistani, who refers to himself as a Paki poof. He has manged to alienate himself from the rest of the Housemates. They for their part appear to delight in alienating him from the group, seem to take pleasure in responding to his need to cause extreme friction and now have decided "the collective" will no longer recognise him as a person in their midst.

I believe Shabaz probably has mental health issues, exhibits a great deal of bullying to some of the other Housemates. He seems also to prefer to see himself as a "victim" and sad to say, the other Housemates are only too willing to make him a victim.

The dynamics of this group are questionable, while he clearly is a bully, the others delight in being the group that bullys him. he has now hidden all the food in the house because they are no longer prepared to talk to him. His reasoning is they will now be forced to talk to him if they want their food.

How far does a show like Big Brother think it has to go, in order to have the viewing public "entertained". As I am writing this, I have a sick feelling because by viewing it, I have contributed to this.

This is not public entertainment, this is an excercise in humilation, shame, contempt, mental and emotional duress.

I don't think I am over reacting but I would be interested in what others might feel?
Hydesland
22-05-2006, 22:24
Just out of interest, is it against the teachings of islam to be homosexual?

Sorry for the highjack. Also, entertainment is entertainment:D
Kzord
22-05-2006, 22:27
Entertainment is entertainment and Big Brother is snoresville.

I'd rather watch a documentary about the idea of "Big Brother" in the Orwellian sense.
The Spurious Squirrel
22-05-2006, 22:42
Just out of interest, is it against the teachings of islam to be homosexual?

Sorry for the highjack. Also, entertainment is entertainment:D
Yes, I believe Islam, like Christianity teaches that Homosexuality is wrong.

I don't agree that "entertainment is entertainment" applies here because this does not seem like entertainment to me. Instead, it seems like, a cynically chosen group of individiuals to interact with each other in ways that would not be acceptable in the real world.
Heron-Marked Warriors
22-05-2006, 22:50
Instead, it seems like, a cynically chosen group of individiuals to interact with each other in ways that would not be acceptable in the real world.

May I be the first to say "duh"? The whole thing is designed to cause controversy on the outside and conflict on the inside. And people watch it for precisely those reasons.
Ifreann
22-05-2006, 23:07
I have just seen an episode of Big Brother and I have to say, it's plumbed new depths in causing pain and humilation in the contestants.

Specifically there are two housemates; one Pete, I think his name is has Tourette's syndrome. While he seems a really lovely guy, his disability has him saying expletives and whistling involuntarily. If there was a valid programme to explore and become aware of Tourette's syndrome that would be fine. However, this show is making him seem a figure of ridicule. It seems that, at least, most of the other Housemates accept him for who he is, I don't think Endemol are being at all responsible in how he is viewed.

The more serious concern however, is Shabaz, a gay Pakistani, who refers to himself as a Paki poof. He has manged to alienate himself from the rest of the Housemates. They for their part appear to delight in alienating him from the group, seem to take pleasure in responding to his need to cause extreme friction and now have decided "the collective" will no longer recognise him as a person in their midst.

I believe Shabaz probably has mental health issues, exhibits a great deal of bullying to some of the other Housemates. He seems also to prefer to see himself as a "victim" and sad to say, the other Housemates are only too willing to make him a victim.

The dynamics of this group are questionable, while he clearly is a bully, the others delight in being the group that bullys him. he has now hidden all the food in the house because they are no longer prepared to talk to him. His reasoning is they will now be forced to talk to him if they want their food.

How far does a show like Big Brother think it has to go, in order to have the viewing public "entertained". As I am writing this, I have a sick feelling because by viewing it, I have contributed to this.

This is not public entertainment, this is an excercise in humilation, shame, contempt, mental and emotional duress.

I don't think I am over reacting but I would be interested in what others might feel?
I wouldn't go so far as to say Shabaz has mental health problems. Just that he's playing up for the camera. Yesterday he got very upset that nobody reacted well to his 'acting'(I think he was mess fighting with Imogen or Nikki) and threatened to leave, even going so far as to demand Big Brother let him leave.
Also he's been very handsy with the men there, apart from the other gay man, Richard I think. He wasn't too happy that Richard showed no interest in him.
Commie Catholics
22-05-2006, 23:11
People still watch Big Brother?:confused:
Ifreann
22-05-2006, 23:11
May I be the first to say "duh"? The whole thing is designed to cause controversy on the outside and conflict on the inside. And people watch it for precisely those reasons.
Indeed. Shabaz is a hyper gay man and one of the other men hates hyper gay men. The essecence of drama is conflict.
Undelia
22-05-2006, 23:11
Don't they get the Tourette's syndrome guy drunk because it makes his symptoms worse?
Ifreann
22-05-2006, 23:12
People still watch Big Brother?:confused:
In Soviet Russia, Big Brother watches you!












Hang on.....
Szanth
22-05-2006, 23:14
Reality TV as a whole is a large disgrace.
Ladamesansmerci
22-05-2006, 23:16
Reality TV as a whole is a large disgrace.
Hey, where else are you going to find egoistical horny attention whores to make fun of? ...wait...
Commie Catholics
22-05-2006, 23:17
In Soviet Russia, Big Brother watches you!












Hang on.....

:D
The Spurious Squirrel
22-05-2006, 23:26
May I be the first to say "duh"? The whole thing is designed to cause controversy on the outside and conflict on the inside. And people watch it for precisely those reasons.You are missing the point. This isn't about controversy. It's about a distasteful excercise in manipulating people and their "issues".
Ifreann
22-05-2006, 23:45
You are missing the point. This isn't about controversy. It's about a distasteful excercise in manipulating people and their "issues".
And therein lies the controversy.
Sadwillowe
23-05-2006, 00:12
Indeed. Shabaz is a hyper gay man and one of the other men hates hyper gay men. The essecence of drama is conflict.

Dramatic conflict should matter. Even the people in these things don't care about the outcome of their conflict. It's just BS posturing to be on TV. If you don't like it, don't watch it. I sure as hell don't.
Nadkor
23-05-2006, 00:15
I can't help but think that Shazam is probably a plant...create controversy etc.