NationStates Jolt Archive


Yeah, it is pretty sad, isn't it?

The Mindset
29-04-2006, 01:40
Two months, fifteen days after I broke up with my boyfriend because he told me he had never loved me and no longer felt attracted to me, and I still think about him most days and still miss him. I'm not sure if I still love him, I certainly did until recently, but now it's more of a dull ache and longing whenever I see something that reminds me of him.

After the break up (on Valentines day, no less), he said he would like to remain friends, but I think he was only saying that to lessen the blow. In fact, be became quite spiteful and engaged in petty attacks (for example, deciding to go to one of my various online profiles and rate me negatively - when I confronted him, he said his 'computer had crashed' This is of course nonsense.) I was very hurt by that, naturally, because I really did feel something for him.

Anyway, heartbroken NSers, unite! Tell your stories of woe and console each other in typical emo fashion, wot wot!
Dude111
29-04-2006, 01:42
it sure is.


*goes to bathroom, and overdoses on heroin*
Ashmoria
29-04-2006, 01:55
its not that bad. sometimes it takes a while to get past it. its not pathetic until you are a character from a rascal flats song (that one where the guy is still crying every morning when its been years since theyve been together)

besides, summer is coming soon it will be time for a summer fling. that will make you forget all about him.
Amarenthe
29-04-2006, 01:59
... I happen to love that song...

"I wake up, and tear drops, they fall down like rain... I head off to my job, guess not much has changed. Punch the clock, head for home, check the phone - just in case - go to bed, dream of you... that's what I'm doing, these days..."

*is listening to it as we speak* :p

It really will get better, though - especially once you find someone new to focus on. And honey, if he "never loved you", he ain't worth getting hung up over. You deserve someone who'll love you like there's no other way to live. Everyone does.