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why do women with their wily ways infiltrate my safe little world?

i went out to dinner...reluctantly with some guys from work,and some girl came along...my friend(super yupppie) was hitting on her,pathetic display if i say so,and she blew him off and started talking to me?
of coarse he is mad at me for "jamming him up" which i had zero intention of doing.

to be clear,i am old...kinda,act like a kid i guess,but these kids are half my age.

now i have all these goffy warm feelings which are alien to me,and my friiend is pissed.

i want to tell him to screw off,but at the same time,i dont want no girl...big fucking headache to me.

yet,she mesmorises me...but i know me,i'll just be a shit and piss her off.


sometimes i hate life!

i should be happy that a really nice cool girl likes me for once,yet i am so stuck in my ways,i will just be a jerk...and maybe she is better off with some teenybopper?

my selfish side says,she's a big girl,have fun,but she seems nice and i dont want to be that guy.

sometimes life is truly a bitch.

Meh. I wouldn't know what to do. I've never actually loved, so I wouldn't know what to do. So yes, essentially, this post is just for post count purposes. And to let you know I won't be helping.

Your friend's life is more of a bitch than yours, I'd say. Enjoy.

why do women with their wily ways infiltrate my safe little world?

i went out to dinner...reluctantly with some guys from work,and some girl came along...my friend(super yupppie) was hitting on her,pathetic display if i say so,and she blew him off and started talking to me?
of coarse he is mad at me for "jamming him up" which i had zero intention of doing.

to be clear,i am old...kinda,act like a kid i guess,but these kids are half my age.

now i have all these goffy warm feelings which are alien to me,and my friiend is pissed.

i want to tell him to screw off,but at the same time,i dont want no girl...big fucking headache to me.

yet,she mesmorises me...but i know me,i'll just be a shit and piss her off.


sometimes i hate life!

i should be happy that a really nice cool girl likes me for once,yet i am so stuck in my ways,i will just be a jerk...and maybe she is better off with some teenybopper?

my selfish side says,she's a big girl,have fun,but she seems nice and i dont want to be that guy.

sometimes life is truly a bitch.

Yeah, it sucks when that happens. It's flattering, but probably more trouble than it's worth to either of you.

I know it's new feelings and it's uncomfortable, but give it a chance. I blew off a guy who told me he loved me because I was scared. I cut him off and ran away, but sometimes I often wonder what would've happened if I took the chance. The thoughts come back quite infuriatingly often. I don't know if this applies to you at all, but strange feelings don't equal bad feelings. Oh, and your friend was being a HUGE ass...

If you really like this girl, but don't want too serious of a relationship, then just be friends with her. That way, you won't get involved in an unwanted loving relationship, your friend won't get too jealous, and you made a new friend. Everybody wins.

Friends with benefits FTW.

Thwart her wily ways with a slight rise of the upper lip and a swift tongue lashing.

Oh, and Ilie, I'm outpimping you. Take a good look at my pimp cane! *twirls it around and thumps Ilie's ass with it before driving off in his pimpmobile*

Friends with benefits FTW.
Didn't you say that in my thread?

Your friend's life is more of a bitch than yours, I'd say. Enjoy.

wow...more cynical then me...have a cigar!

seriously though,he' s a young buck and i am older,and i aint getting into the respect your elders thing...but i want to bang the hell outta this lovely girl,but i will feel like shit if i dont develope a relationship..which i despise.

girls like that stuff,and i aint one for leading on people,but i want to have sex with her,then go back to my little insane world.

she is scary to me..nice enough to accomodate my illness,and hot,but i know she will try to control me sooner or later...which i hate.

why do women with their wily ways infiltrate my safe little world?

i went out to dinner...reluctantly with some guys from work,and some girl came along...my friend(super yupppie) was hitting on her,pathetic display if i say so,and she blew him off and started talking to me?
of coarse he is mad at me for "jamming him up" which i had zero intention of doing.

to be clear,i am old...kinda,act like a kid i guess,but these kids are half my age.

now i have all these goffy warm feelings which are alien to me,and my friiend is pissed.

i want to tell him to screw off,but at the same time,i dont want no girl...big fucking headache to me.

yet,she mesmorises me...but i know me,i'll just be a shit and piss her off.


sometimes i hate life!

i should be happy that a really nice cool girl likes me for once,yet i am so stuck in my ways,i will just be a jerk...and maybe she is better off with some teenybopper?

my selfish side says,she's a big girl,have fun,but she seems nice and i dont want to be that guy.

sometimes life is truly a bitch.

how old are you?

you arent in love with someone you barely know. you are infatuated. it might lead to love if you persue it. sounds like you dont want to persue it

so either jump in with both feet or forget it. no sense going half way.

Well, I haven't had a date in two years, and women barely acknowledge me as human. Wanna trade problems?

why do women with their wily ways infiltrate my safe little world?

i went out to dinner...reluctantly with some guys from work,and some girl came along...my friend(super yupppie) was hitting on her,pathetic display if i say so,and she blew him off and started talking to me?
of coarse he is mad at me for "jamming him up" which i had zero intention of doing.

to be clear,i am old...kinda,act like a kid i guess,but these kids are half my age.

now i have all these goffy warm feelings which are alien to me,and my friiend is pissed.

i want to tell him to screw off,but at the same time,i dont want no girl...big fucking headache to me.

yet,she mesmorises me...but i know me,i'll just be a shit and piss her off.


sometimes i hate life!

i should be happy that a really nice cool girl likes me for once,yet i am so stuck in my ways,i will just be a jerk...and maybe she is better off with some teenybopper?

my selfish side says,she's a big girl,have fun,but she seems nice and i dont want to be that guy.

sometimes life is truly a bitch.



Not trying to be overly cynical, but how much have you talked to this girl since then? Is she still behaving like she is interested in you, or is it possible that on that evening, you were just a nice, safe person for her to talk to while your friend was making her uncomfortable by hitting on her?

Past that, if she is interested in you, good for you! Yes, relationships can be a challenge, but the rewards are often worth while.