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Picture or no picture?

Ilie
04-04-2006, 04:04
Okay, I'm feeling pretty conflicted over this. Several people have expressed their distain for people who are popular on here because of their looks. Others don't seem to care and still others have asked everybody for pictures. Since we were talking about popularity today (or yesterday, whatever your time zone is) I was just wondering if I should show people on here what I look like or not. Keep it personality only, or give an idea of the whole person? It is a dilemma.

I'll put up a poll about it and then I will go to bed for the night. Depending on what you guys think (and who thinks what) I will either put up a link to what I look like or I'll keep myself blissfully cerebral on NS.

P.S. I think I am pretty good-looking, or I wouldn't even consider it. I don't know if this influences anybody.
[NS]Simonist
04-04-2006, 04:07
Okay, I'm feeling pretty conflicted over this. Several people have expressed their distain for people who are popular on here because of their looks. Others don't seem to care and still others have asked everybody for pictures. Since we were talking about popularity today (or yesterday, whatever your time zone is) I was just wondering if I should show people on here what I look like or not. Keep it personality only, or give an idea of the whole person? It is a dilemma.

I'll put up a poll about it and then I will go to bed for the night. Depending on what you guys think (and who thinks what) I will either put up a link to what I look like or I'll keep myself blissfully cerebral on NS.

P.S. I think I am pretty good-looking, or I wouldn't even consider it. I don't know if this influences anybody.
You know, this is something that's really gotten to me since I put up my picture, so I'm glad you're giving it due consideration. I removed my photobucket from my signature because though some people chose to mention, from time to time, that they like the way I look (though I don't think it's all that important on an online forum), there were a TON of female posters, many of which seem to have disappeared in short order, who would find reasons to call me a slut or an attention whore simply because I had pictures of myself available. I did it originally so I could easily point to the link and say "No, seriously, I'm a girl, there's lots of pictures", rather than the attention I unintentionally gathered from it, but women....they're fucking vicious. Even me.

I'd say, if you really want to share it, go ahead and do so. Nothing should really hold you back from it. In fact, as soon as I get my newer rounds of photos uploaded, I'll probably add more to my NS Player Info string. But don't be totally surprised if some people hold it against you as "attention whoring".
Ilie
04-04-2006, 04:10
Simonist'] women....they're fucking vicious. Even me.

I'd say, if you really want to share it, go ahead and do so....But don't be totally surprised if some people hold it against you as "attention whoring".

Yes, yes they are.

Hopefully nobody can say I'm being an attention whore if I gave everybody the option of whether or not I should show my picture. If you're against it, let me know, and let me know why! It seems like this is an actual issue.
Peechland
04-04-2006, 04:13
Damn Simon....I had no idea posters had treated you that way. I hope you told them to fuck off. They must be gone now because I cant think of any of the females on here currently that would say such things.


As far as pics go, I suppose human nature gets the best of us with curiosity and all that. We are visual creatures and are stimulated by seeing people we interact with. However, there are members of NS whom I have never seen photos of and if I never saw a photo, I'd like/appreciate them just the same. For me, it's all about personality. If I get to match a face with a name, thats wonderful. It certainly wont change the way I interact with them or how I feel about them. Do what you are comfortable with :)
M3rcenaries
04-04-2006, 04:14
I thought about it too but decided agianst it.
[NS]Simonist
04-04-2006, 04:15
Yes, yes they are.

Hopefully nobody can say I'm being an attention whore if I gave everybody the option of whether or not I should show my picture. If you're against it, let me know, and let me know why! It seems like this is an actual issue.
I'm not against it in the least. I think if you wanna do it, you should do it. I just don't want you going into what could possibly be the same situation I unknowingly got into, without a little bit of warning. I'm fond of you and I don't know why, 'cause I haven't seen you around very long. *shrug* Maybe you just haven't hit my buttons yet.
Upper Botswavia
04-04-2006, 04:15
To be perfectly honest, I, for one, don't care what anybody looks like around here. One of the good things is that I find out what people THINK like, and looks don't matter in the least.

I don't even form a picture in my mind about all of you. No need. I read your words and am either impressed or not, and react accordingly.

That being said, if you feel like posting a pic, if it makes you happy for folks to know what you look like, and if you feel comfortable with it, go right ahead! Unless, however, you specifically ask me to look at it for some reason I probably will go on as I have, not knowing what you look like, and not caring either.
Megaloria
04-04-2006, 04:15
I'll step forward foolishly for all the guys on here and say what most of them are thinking. "If you don't look at least cute, we probably won't comment anyway."

Thouhgh personally I'm more interested in the colour of your eyes. That's not even a line, I just like looking at eyes. And hands.
Kreitzmoorland
04-04-2006, 04:17
Well, to me it certainly isn't relevant to how I interact with the person on the forum (unless to make a comment on a particular picture posted). Like Btswavia, I respond to the writing of the person than anything else. This is a written medium, after all.

I guess I like pictures because I'm just curious, and it feels like I know people better if I know what their face looks like. It should be irrelevant on the internet, but given our normal depndancy on facial expression and concrete bodies to interact with, I think it's a legitimate curiosity.
Anarchuslavia
04-04-2006, 04:19
go for it
its only a few people with negative opinions right?
if you want to, it'll be so other people can get an idea of you as a whole person, not because you're looking for the attention
Ashmoria
04-04-2006, 04:23
sure, post a nice picture of yourself. what can it hurt? its not like anyone is going to figure out what town you live in and hunt you down (unless you live in a town the size of socorro, then it would be pretty easy to hunt you down)

make it a NICE picture but not a "glamor shot".

no looking up at the webcam perched on top of your monitor and smiling. your face will have a deathly blue hue and your nose will be the size of a toaster.

no going down to the mall and having some stranger put an inch of makeup on your face, dress you in someone elses clothing, stick you in front of a picture of downtown paris and take your picture

just a nice shot of what you might look like on an average good day.
[NS]Simonist
04-04-2006, 04:24
Damn Simon....I had no idea posters had treated you that way. I hope you told them to fuck off. They must be gone now because I cant think of any of the females on here currently that would say such things.
I actually briefly considered just ditching the forums altogether because of them, really. I guess it's because of the way I was raised and the entire culture of my work and everything, but I am just completely unable to take negative comments in stride, especially when people are making insinuations like that based only off of my pictures. And unfortunately, one or two of them are still around, but I've long since tried to put that behind me. I've got too many people on here that I respect and enjoy speaking with to let some other chicks get to me.
Peechland
04-04-2006, 04:27
Simonist']I actually briefly considered just ditching the forums altogether because of them, really. I guess it's because of the way I was raised and the entire culture of my work and everything, but I am just completely unable to take negative comments in stride, especially when people are making insinuations like that based only off of my pictures. And unfortunately, one or two of them are still around, but I've long since tried to put that behind me. I've got too many people on here that I respect and enjoy speaking with to let some other chicks get to me.

Well I'm damn glad you didnt ditch NS. Youre a great addition. We dont have enough females on here anyway! Usually people behave that way out of jealousy you know.
Carisbrooke
04-04-2006, 10:17
I wouldnt even know HOW to put up a picture anyway....so it kind of meant that i had to vote that its not something I would do...because I am not putting up a picture because I don't know HOW lol. but if you want to and know how to do it, then go right ahead, I like to look at the face of the person that I am 'talking' to.

*nod*
Jello Biafra
04-04-2006, 11:51
If you have a picture that you like, you should post it. When I get pictures that I like of myself, I plan to post mine.
Ilie
04-04-2006, 13:17
Well, I'm glad this thread didn't die while I was sleeping. Now I will reply to some of these...replies.
Ilie
04-04-2006, 13:19
Simonist']I'm not against it in the least. I think if you wanna do it, you should do it. I just don't want you going into what could possibly be the same situation I unknowingly got into, without a little bit of warning. I'm fond of you and I don't know why, 'cause I haven't seen you around very long. *shrug* Maybe you just haven't hit my buttons yet.

Hey, thanks! I like your name. It reminds me of that show with the song, "Well you know my name is Si-mon, and I like to do draw-ings!" ...or something like that. Maybe I dreamt it?
Ilie
04-04-2006, 13:21
It should be irrelevant on the internet, but given our normal depndancy on facial expression and concrete bodies to interact with, I think it's a legitimate curiosity.

That does make sense...that's how we're wired, after all.
Ilie
04-04-2006, 13:22
no looking up at the webcam perched on top of your monitor and smiling. your face will have a deathly blue hue and your nose will be the size of a toaster.

no going down to the mall and having some stranger put an inch of makeup on your face, dress you in someone elses clothing, stick you in front of a picture of downtown paris and take your picture.

Good lord, why does anybody do that?
Ilie
04-04-2006, 13:24
I wouldnt even know HOW to put up a picture anyway....so it kind of meant that i had to vote that its not something I would do...because I am not putting up a picture because I don't know HOW lol. but if you want to and know how to do it, then go right ahead, I like to look at the face of the person that I am 'talking' to.

*nod*

I've heard things about "photobucket" or whatever...I know there are websites that you can upload pictures to so other people can see them without making your own website. I do have my own website but that would be TOO much information for this place.
Carisbrooke
04-04-2006, 13:25
Good lord, why does anybody do that?


I do it every morning...it's what I live for...going to the shops and getting overmade up airheads to slap gunk on my face in a random manner before jetting of to paris for a photo shoot is my usual morning pre NS activity

And hello Ilie *waves*
Dinaverg
04-04-2006, 13:26
I've heard things about "photobucket" or whatever...I know there are websites that you can upload pictures to so other people can see them without making your own website. I do have my own website but that would be TOO much information for this place.

Yay photobucket! http://s4.photobucket.com/albums/y138/Dragonkirby/
Kanabia
04-04-2006, 13:27
Just post it. It's not like showing what you actually look like is going to destroy people's perception of your personality. I for one don't check everyone's picture everytime I read one of their posts.
Cluichstan
04-04-2006, 13:32
Hey, thanks! I like your name. It reminds me of that show with the song, "Well you know my name is Si-mon, and I like to do draw-ings!" ...or something like that. Maybe I dreamt it?

You didn't dream it. That's from a cartoon that was shown on the old Kaptain Kangaroo show. I'm glad someone else remembers it. :)
Peisandros
04-04-2006, 13:32
After putting my pic up on here, a few people commented and said I was hot or good-looking. However, one guy said I was fucking ugly so that put me off putting my pic up again.
Whereyouthinkyougoing
04-04-2006, 13:34
After putting my pic up on here, a few people commented and said I was hot or good-looking. However, one guy said I was fucking ugly so that put me off putting my pic up again.
Aw, he was just envious. :p
Hemmer
04-04-2006, 13:36
I think posting pictures of yourself sets a standard that not everyone wants to live up to. Like if ONLY absolutely gorgeous people put pictures up, then us plain people are going to resent the whole forum, because from what we see, it's only got "pretty" people in it. Or if someone posts a picture that's not gorgeous, then the non-pic people will be able to tear them to shreds while pretending they're much better looking.

The way I see it, either pictures should be mandatory - everyone has to post one, so no one's allowed to judge anyone else - or not at all, so no one's judged on looks anyway.
Jello Biafra
04-04-2006, 13:40
Aw, he was just envious. :pSeconded.
Peisandros
04-04-2006, 13:40
Aw, he was just envious. :p
Heh.. I don't know. I tend to just take notice of the negative comments. So, OP'er, if you're like me it's probably best not too put your picture up for fear of even the slightest attack on your looks hehe :p
Whereyouthinkyougoing
04-04-2006, 13:49
Heh.. I don't know. I tend to just take notice of the negative comments. So, OP'er, if you're like me it's probably best not too put your picture up for fear of even the slightest attack on your looks hehe :p Well, yeah, I can certainly see that. The negative ones are probably the ones one remembers best.
Peisandros
04-04-2006, 14:18
Well, yeah, I can certainly see that. The negative ones are probably the ones one remembers best.
Indeed. Tis always the way for me.
Hamilay
04-04-2006, 14:22
Not something I would do, but that's because I'm 13 and highly paranoid. I try not to post pictures and stuff since I automatically assume you're all serial killers/pedophiles/CIA agents/:sniper:/terrorists etcetera etcetera. Nothing personal, y'understand. It's fun to look at pictures of other people though, so go ahead and post :D
Whereyouthinkyougoing
04-04-2006, 14:23
Indeed. Tis always the way for me.
Yeah, same here. :rolleyes:
Peisandros
04-04-2006, 14:24
Yeah, same here. :rolleyes:
Hmm. Talking of pictures.. I wonder if mine is still around somewhere. Meh lol.
Laerod
04-04-2006, 14:26
Yeah, same here. :rolleyes:Ditto... Not even Cabra remembered my good pictures :(
Whereyouthinkyougoing
04-04-2006, 14:31
Hmm. Talking of pictures.. I wonder if mine is still around somewhere. Meh lol.
What - first you make me feel all sorry for you and commiserate and now you're off to fish for more compliments?

@Laerod: I don't think I ever saw a pic of you.
Laerod
04-04-2006, 14:34
@Laerod: I don't think I ever saw a pic of you.Could well be. I don't remember posting any in a long time.

Here you go (http://board.erm.tu-cottbus.de/typo3temp/45663fec8b.jpg).
Peisandros
04-04-2006, 14:34
What - first you make me feel all sorry for you and commiserate and now you're off to fish for more compliments?
Definatly not. I was merely curious if my picture was still around on the site. I'm not to sure if it's in the profiles or if it's just in some old dead threads. Sorry, didn't mean to sound like I was fishing at all.
Carnivorous Lickers
04-04-2006, 14:38
Okay, I'm feeling pretty conflicted over this. Several people have expressed their distain for people who are popular on here because of their looks. Others don't seem to care and still others have asked everybody for pictures. Since we were talking about popularity today (or yesterday, whatever your time zone is) I was just wondering if I should show people on here what I look like or not. Keep it personality only, or give an idea of the whole person? It is a dilemma.

I'll put up a poll about it and then I will go to bed for the night. Depending on what you guys think (and who thinks what) I will either put up a link to what I look like or I'll keep myself blissfully cerebral on NS.

P.S. I think I am pretty good-looking, or I wouldn't even consider it. I don't know if this influences anybody.


So-Lets see a picture. I'm interested. If you get any flak, then take it down.

Your confidence in your own looks so far is more attractive than most can hope to be.

And would you really care what people in here say about you? Aside from me, of course.
Peepelonia
04-04-2006, 14:40
Or you could try one O these here cartoon things!

http://static.flickr.com/41/120688588_b0251de7c0.jpg?v=0
Cabra West
04-04-2006, 14:41
Ditto... Not even Cabra remembered my good pictures :(

Did, too. I did remember one with you in a scout uniform, only that seemed to be a bit outdated... :p
Carnivorous Lickers
04-04-2006, 14:43
Simonist']You know, this is something that's really gotten to me since I put up my picture, so I'm glad you're giving it due consideration. I removed my photobucket from my signature because though some people chose to mention, from time to time, that they like the way I look (though I don't think it's all that important on an online forum), there were a TON of female posters, many of which seem to have disappeared in short order, who would find reasons to call me a slut or an attention whore simply because I had pictures of myself available. I did it originally so I could easily point to the link and say "No, seriously, I'm a girl, there's lots of pictures", rather than the attention I unintentionally gathered from it, but women....they're fucking vicious. Even me.

I'd say, if you really want to share it, go ahead and do so. Nothing should really hold you back from it. In fact, as soon as I get my newer rounds of photos uploaded, I'll probably add more to my NS Player Info string. But don't be totally surprised if some people hold it against you as "attention whoring".

Simonist- I dont know if I've been able to see your pic. Hook me up.
You're never going to hear me call you a slut or attention whore.

If you think about it, most people on NS could be categorized as attention whores.
Carnivorous Lickers
04-04-2006, 14:44
Did, too. I did remember one with you in a scout uniform, only that seemed to be a bit outdated... :p


I thought I remembered Laerod in uniform too.

Good pic, Laerod.

And Cabra- could use a new one of you too.
Carnivorous Lickers
04-04-2006, 14:46
Well I'm damn glad you didnt ditch NS. Youre a great addition. We dont have enough females on here anyway! Usually people behave that way out of jealousy you know.


I totally agree....never enough females..

Peech-any new pics yet?
Carnivorous Lickers
04-04-2006, 14:48
Hey, thanks! I like your name. It reminds me of that show with the song, "Well you know my name is Si-mon, and I like to do draw-ings!" ...or something like that. Maybe I dreamt it?


I remember that- Michael Myers in the bathtub...one was with Danny Devito-"Mommy says sometimes even Santa needs to get whacked".
Laerod
04-04-2006, 14:49
Did, too. I did remember one with you in a scout uniform, only that seemed to be a bit outdated... :pWhat about the one that you forgot about that you had to crane your neck to look at? :p
Cabra West
04-04-2006, 14:50
I thought I remembered Laerod in uniform too.

Good pic, Laerod.

And Cabra- could use a new one of you too.

Heh... who told you about my new hairstyle, then? ;)
Laerod
04-04-2006, 14:50
Good pic, Laerod. :p
I deserve no credit; I didn't take it.
Cabra West
04-04-2006, 14:51
What about the one that you forgot about that you had to crane your neck to look at? :p

I told you, old age.... my memory isn't what it used to be....

*takes out dentures and puts them in a flower pot

Now, you just wait a second, young man, until I watered my shoes...
Whereyouthinkyougoing
04-04-2006, 14:53
Definatly not. I was merely curious if my picture was still around on the site. I'm not to sure if it's in the profiles or if it's just in some old dead threads. Sorry, didn't mean to sound like I was fishing at all.
Eh, I was just messing with you. :p
Evil little boys
04-04-2006, 15:00
Or you could try one O these here cartoon things!

http://static.flickr.com/41/120688588_b0251de7c0.jpg?v=0

cool, what's the site to make 'em?
UpwardThrust
04-04-2006, 15:08
Simonist']You know, this is something that's really gotten to me since I put up my picture, so I'm glad you're giving it due consideration. I removed my photobucket from my signature because though some people chose to mention, from time to time, that they like the way I look (though I don't think it's all that important on an online forum), there were a TON of female posters, many of which seem to have disappeared in short order, who would find reasons to call me a slut or an attention whore simply because I had pictures of myself available. I did it originally so I could easily point to the link and say "No, seriously, I'm a girl, there's lots of pictures", rather than the attention I unintentionally gathered from it, but women....they're fucking vicious. Even me.

I'd say, if you really want to share it, go ahead and do so. Nothing should really hold you back from it. In fact, as soon as I get my newer rounds of photos uploaded, I'll probably add more to my NS Player Info string. But don't be totally surprised if some people hold it against you as "attention whoring".
I never did get that ... how women seem to be the the bigest users of sexual history as a weapon against eachother (or precieved sexuality)

I just find it intresting the differences ... Lol quite a few guys I know would LOVE to have a varied sexual history :) or at least precived as such
UpwardThrust
04-04-2006, 15:18
Simonist']You know, this is something that's really gotten to me since I put up my picture, so I'm glad you're giving it due consideration. I removed my photobucket from my signature because though some people chose to mention, from time to time, that they like the way I look (though I don't think it's all that important on an online forum), there were a TON of female posters, many of which seem to have disappeared in short order, who would find reasons to call me a slut or an attention whore simply because I had pictures of myself available. I did it originally so I could easily point to the link and say "No, seriously, I'm a girl, there's lots of pictures", rather than the attention I unintentionally gathered from it, but women....they're fucking vicious. Even me.

I'd say, if you really want to share it, go ahead and do so. Nothing should really hold you back from it. In fact, as soon as I get my newer rounds of photos uploaded, I'll probably add more to my NS Player Info string. But don't be totally surprised if some people hold it against you as "attention whoring".
As far as showing your pic

Do as you wish ... you are an honest debater and actually put your mind to arguments, ya really don't have to worry about what people will think. The only reason those others get picked on so much is cause they were pure “social” chatters in places like paradise beach and such ... their popularity was gained through what I personally would call spam. That did not help lol
Smunkeeville
04-04-2006, 15:29
I probably never will post my pic up here again, I did once. It was terrible. I will however TG a link to people who are worthy, if they ask.

I get about 10 TG's a day for my pic, but most of them aren't from anyone I know, and a lot of them go like

"can you please please please send me a pic? I just want to see, I am not a stalker or anything, please please please please? are you hot? I heard you were hot? please?"

I ignore most of them.
Carnivorous Lickers
04-04-2006, 15:30
Heh... who told you about my new hairstyle, then? ;)

No one yet-But,I'm eager to see it.
Still red,I hope?
Carnivorous Lickers
04-04-2006, 15:31
:p
I deserve no credit; I didn't take it.


You know what I ,mean- you're a good looking man.

The last pic I saw of you left me with the image of a much younger boy or teen.
Carnivorous Lickers
04-04-2006, 15:33
I probably never will post my pic up here again, I did once. It was terrible. I will however TG a link to people who are worthy, if they ask.

I get about 10 TG's a day for my pic, but most of them aren't from anyone I know, and a lot of them go like

"can you please please please send me a pic? I just want to see, I am not a stalker or anything, please please please please? are you hot? I heard you were hot? please?"

I ignore most of them.

I remember a pic and I dont remember it being terrible.

I'm not the slightest bit worthy, but I'll take the TG with the link anyway.
Smunkeeville
04-04-2006, 15:34
I remember a pic and I dont remember it being terrible.
I got rude TG's about it. :(

I'm not the slightest bit worthy, but I'll take the TG with the link anyway.
it's the same pic as before, I might take a new one tonight after my new haircut, if so I will TG you that one. ;)
Laerod
04-04-2006, 15:36
You know what I ,mean- you're a good looking man.

The last pic I saw of you left me with the image of a much younger boy or teen.That could well be. There's a few years difference between the one's I posted before and this one. It's relatively recent.
Whereyouthinkyougoing
04-04-2006, 15:38
I got rude TG's about it. :(
Okay, I was already logged out (I was thinking about posting something like "I don't remember anything terrible, I remember people saying "You're cute!", to your post above, but I figured enough other people would post that anyway ;)), but you WHAT???

I can't believe that! Honestly, that's about the worst thing I ever heard since I'm here on NS. Holy fuck, what a bunch of assholes. :mad:
Compulsive Depression
04-04-2006, 15:45
I got rude TG's about it. :(
It's very easy to insult people you'll never meet over an anonymous forum. Ignore the cowards that do it.

I remember Simonist's photos being rather attractive. I must've missed Smunkee's.
Carnivorous Lickers
04-04-2006, 15:47
I got rude TG's about it. :(


it's the same pic as before, I might take a new one tonight after my new haircut, if so I will TG you that one. ;)


Sorry to hear about that. I'm thinking of the mentality of the person that feels the need to negatively comment on a pic like that.

Sounds good-Thanks! :D
Carnivorous Lickers
04-04-2006, 15:48
Okay, I was already logged out (I was thinking about posting something like "I don't remember anything terrible, I remember people saying "You're cute!", to your post above, but I figured enough other people would post that anyway ;)), but you WHAT???

I can't believe that! Honestly, that's about the worst thing I ever heard since I'm here on NS. Holy fuck, what a bunch of assholes. :mad:


I remember people saying she was cute too- and surprised she was that young-or something like that?
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:10
More replies forthcoming. Is it sad that I have to do these in chunks?
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:11
I do it every morning...it's what I live for...going to the shops and getting overmade up airheads to slap gunk on my face in a random manner before jetting of to paris for a photo shoot is my usual morning pre NS activity

And hello Ilie *waves*

Hello Carisbrook! From one "almost-popular" to another! w00p
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:12
You didn't dream it. That's from a cartoon that was shown on the old Kaptain Kangaroo show. I'm glad someone else remembers it. :)

Thank goodness...after I wrote that, I looked at and thought, "Ah, I've finally succumbed to schizophrenia."
Cluichstan
04-04-2006, 16:14
I had photos of myself on another forum when I was just a member there. Then I was made a mod and was able to see how many times they'd been downloaded. It was more than a little disturbing, so I stripped 'em all off the site and haven't posted pics anywhere since.
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:16
I think posting pictures of yourself sets a standard that not everyone wants to live up to. Like if ONLY absolutely gorgeous people put pictures up, then us plain people are going to resent the whole forum, because from what we see, it's only got "pretty" people in it. Or if someone posts a picture that's not gorgeous, then the non-pic people will be able to tear them to shreds while pretending they're much better looking.

The way I see it, either pictures should be mandatory - everyone has to post one, so no one's allowed to judge anyone else - or not at all, so no one's judged on looks anyway.

Yeah, I was thinking about that too. People wondering why one person put up a picture and not another person...so if you didn't, would you be considered ugly or more attractive than you actually are? And what would it say about your personality? Secretive, or "above all that looks stuff"?

They say that if you don't know what a person really looks or acts like in real life, you tend to endow them with the qualities you want them to have. So everybody is hotter, wittier, more compassionate online than in real life...or more ugly, cruel, and stupid than in real life if you've decided you don't like them. Funny how that works.
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:17
Could well be. I don't remember posting any in a long time.

Here you go (http://board.erm.tu-cottbus.de/typo3temp/45663fec8b.jpg).

Laerod, this picture is of a man. However, under your name it says "uber spamgirl." What?
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:18
Or you could try one O these here cartoon things!

http://static.flickr.com/41/120688588_b0251de7c0.jpg?v=0

I have considered putting up a picture of my Sims 2 character that I tried to make look like me. ...then I realized that I am a huge nerd.
Potarius
04-04-2006, 16:19
Laerod, this picture is of a man. However, under your name it says "uber spamgirl." What?

The same post count titles are given out to everyone.
Laerod
04-04-2006, 16:19
Laerod, this picture is of a man. However, under your name it says "uber spamgirl." What?You don't get to choose the name underneath. It's postcount dependent ;)
Potarius
04-04-2006, 16:19
You don't get to choose the name underneath. It's postcount dependent ;)

Hahahahaha! Beat you to it. *points to post above yours*
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:20
I remember that- Michael Myers in the bathtub...one was with Danny Devito-"Mommy says sometimes even Santa needs to get whacked".

I guess that was a parody of the original cartoon. I remember seeing that too! More evidence that I haven't lost my mind. Keep it coming, I need all the reassurance I can get. I'm always asking people, "Did you hear that sound? Tell me it wasn't just me."
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:21
I never did get that ... how women seem to be the the bigest users of sexual history as a weapon against eachother (or precieved sexuality)

I just find it intresting the differences ... Lol quite a few guys I know would LOVE to have a varied sexual history :) or at least precived as such

Yes, it's a double standard. Can we all agree that there is a double standard?
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:21
As far as showing your pic

Do as you wish ... you are an honest debater and actually put your mind to arguments, ya really don't have to worry about what people will think. The only reason those others get picked on so much is cause they were pure “social” chatters in places like paradise beach and such ... their popularity was gained through what I personally would call spam. That did not help lol

Are you talking about me or Simonist?
Peepelonia
04-04-2006, 16:22
cool, what's the site to make 'em?

Ohh yeah it's

http://www.planearium2.de/flash/spstudio.html
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:22
I get about 10 TG's a day for my pic, but most of them aren't from anyone I know, and a lot of them go like

"can you please please please send me a pic? I just want to see, I am not a stalker or anything, please please please please? are you hot? I heard you were hot? please?"

So, are you hot?
Potarius
04-04-2006, 16:22
Hey, if you post a picture, good. But, if you happen to look good, beware of Eutrusca.

:p
Laerod
04-04-2006, 16:24
Hahahahaha! Beat you to it. *points to post above yours*
Ha! Here's a cookie :p
Smunkeeville
04-04-2006, 16:24
So, are you hot?
by whose standards?

my husband thinks I am. LOL



I am probably not hot, in a traditional sense, more like "hey she would be cute, but........." (and then they finish the rest of the sentence with things that I won't repeat here)
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:25
I had photos of myself on another forum when I was just a member there. Then I was made a mod and was able to see how many times they'd been downloaded. It was more than a little disturbing, so I stripped 'em all off the site and haven't posted pics anywhere since.

Yeah, that is freaky. You never know what people are doing with your picture. They could put my head on somebody else's picture and say I'm the father of their child or something. ...well, that sounds far-fetched, but...they could say I did something with Monica Lewinsky and impeach me from the presidency!
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:26
The same post count titles are given out to everyone.

Oh, what are the post count titles and what number of counts for each one? I'm sure there's a list somewhere that somebody will show me the link to and say something like "Duh, look at the FAQs!"
Evil little boys
04-04-2006, 16:27
Yes, it's a double standard. Can we all agree that there is a double standard?

ok, it is, can you please post your pic now, I got curious ;)
Potarius
04-04-2006, 16:27
Oh, what are the post count titles and what number of counts for each one? I'm sure there's a list somewhere that somebody will show me the link to and say something like "Duh, look at the FAQs!"

All I know's that at 10,000, you become "Honorary Spam Forum Owner", and that's the "highest" title.
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:27
Hey, if you post a picture, good. But, if you happen to look good, beware of Eutrusca.

:p

Will Eutrusca try to enlist me in the military? That would be my worst nightmare.
Potarius
04-04-2006, 16:28
Will Eutrusca try to enlist me in the military? That would be my worst nightmare.

No, no... It's something much more sinister...

...Something that will make you sick to your stomach. Let's just say he's the reason we can't make poster appreciation threads anymore. :p
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:28
All I know's that at 10,000, you become "Honorary Spam Forum Owner", and that's the "highest" title.

I like your current title best. That's what I'm shooting for.
Potarius
04-04-2006, 16:29
I like your current title best. That's what I'm shooting for.

Eh, this is the second time I've had it. I had over 10,000 before I got deleted.
Madnestan
04-04-2006, 16:31
Dammit, Ilie! I think I talk for many when I say CUT THE BULLSHIT AND POST THE GODDAMN' PIC ALREADY!
Jello Biafra
04-04-2006, 16:33
Laerod, this picture is of a man. However, under your name it says "uber spamgirl." What?Laerod's just really really butch, that's all. ;)
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:34
No, no... It's something much more sinister...

...Something that will make you sick to your stomach. Let's just say he's the reason we can't make poster appreciation threads anymore. :p

I don't know...once I had a dream that I was in the military and I almost barfed when I woke up. (I was being hit with socks full of bars of soap. :D )
Cluichstan
04-04-2006, 16:35
Dammit, Ilie! I think I talk for many when I say CUT THE BULLSHIT AND POST THE GODDAMN' PIC ALREADY!

*passes Madnestan a valium*
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:35
Laerod's just really really butch, that's all. ;)

hahahahahaha

If Laerod's a butch lady, then I know some girls that would call themselves lesbians after seeing that picture.
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:37
Dammit, Ilie! I think I talk for many when I say CUT THE BULLSHIT AND POST THE GODDAMN' PIC ALREADY!

Dude, if I do post it, I can't do it until I get off work. That will be in...4 hours. Will you still be alive by then or is the anticipation going to send you to the hospital?
Laerod
04-04-2006, 16:37
Yeah, that is freaky. You never know what people are doing with your picture. They could put my head on somebody else's picture and say I'm the father of their child or something. ...well, that sounds far-fetched, but...they could say I did something with Monica Lewinsky and impeach me from the presidency!I don't worry about that. If there's a digital copy of a picture, it's invalid to be used as evidence in a German court.
Cluichstan
04-04-2006, 16:40
Yeah, that is freaky. You never know what people are doing with your picture. They could put my head on somebody else's picture and say I'm the father of their child or something. ...well, that sounds far-fetched, but...they could say I did something with Monica Lewinsky and impeach me from the presidency!

Precisely. If someone's masturbating to my picture, I wanna know who it is. :p
Infinite Revolution
04-04-2006, 16:41
well id say putting up a picture is a good thing. i like to see the face of someone i'm talking to - it makes conversations just that little bit more personal and therefore easier, even if it is just an inanimate still of them. when i can't see someone's face i feel uncomfortable talking to them but i think thats just me - i don't like using the phone for the same reason and everyone thinks i'm weird *shrugs*.
Laerod
04-04-2006, 16:42
hahahahahaha

If Laerod's a butch lady, then I know some girls that would call themselves lesbians after seeing that picture.:p
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:43
well id say putting up a picture is a good thing. i like to see the face of someone i'm talking to - it makes conversations just that little bit more personal and therefore easier, even if it is just an inanimate still of them. when i can't see someone's face i feel uncomfortable talking to them but i think thats just me - i don't like using the phone for the same reason and everyone thinks i'm weird *shrugs*.

I don't like using the phone either...you can't erase what you said, and time lapses in the conversation are very obvious. I was born to be an internet conversationalist.
Potarius
04-04-2006, 16:43
I don't know...once I had a dream that I was in the military and I almost barfed when I woke up. (I was being hit with socks full of bars of soap. :D )

Hahaha. Full Metal Jacket rocks, man.
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:44
Precisely. If someone's masturbating to my picture, I wanna know who it is. :p

Yeah! Too bad you can't do that like a public poll...anybody who masturbates to your picture would have to respond to a poll like, "Did you just masturbate to my picture?" and you could see who it was. That would be great.
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:45
Hahaha. Full Metal Jacket rocks, man.

Yeah, I thought that guy was pretty wimpy until I got somebody to hit me with a soap-filled sock. At first it just squished...then we tried BAR soap and that hurt like a @*#&!
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:46
I don't worry about that. If there's a digital copy of a picture, it's invalid to be used as evidence in a German court.

The National Enquirer never seems to worry whether the pictures they run on the front page would be admissible as evidence in a German court. ...I think.
Potarius
04-04-2006, 16:48
Yeah, I thought that guy was pretty wimpy until I got somebody to hit me with a soap-filled sock. At first it just squished...then we tried BAR soap and that hurt like a @*#&!

Hurt like a... Bitch? Shit? Don't worry, profanity isn't unwelcome here.
Madnestan
04-04-2006, 16:49
*passes Madnestan a valium*
RRRRRRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHH!!!! *stucks the valium in his left ear*
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:51
RRRRRRAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHH!!!! *stucks the valium in his left ear*

Alright, somebody call 911, I'll get the restraints. It's gonna be okay.
Cluichstan
04-04-2006, 16:51
Yeah! Too bad you can't do that like a public poll...anybody who masturbates to your picture would have to respond to a poll like, "Did you just masturbate to my picture?" and you could see who it was. That would be great.

Might also induce vomiting.
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:51
Hurt like a... Bitch? Shit? Don't worry, profanity isn't unwelcome here.

It hurt like a fuck.
Potarius
04-04-2006, 16:52
It hurt like a fuck.

Ah. I knew I was forgetting one.
Cluichstan
04-04-2006, 16:54
It hurt like a fuck.

If a fuck hurts, you're doing something wrong. :p
Laerod
04-04-2006, 16:54
The National Enquirer never seems to worry whether the pictures they run on the front page would be admissible as evidence in a German court. ...I think.Perhaps. But the NE has been sued successfully before for pulling off stunts like that.
Ilie
04-04-2006, 16:56
Might also induce vomiting.

Cheaper than a stomach pump!
Potarius
04-04-2006, 17:04
Ouch.
Ilie
04-04-2006, 17:09
Ouch.

Why did I even say that? I think I will delete it. That is pretty gross.
Potarius
04-04-2006, 17:11
Why did I even say that? I think I will delete it. That is pretty gross.

Well, sicker stuff's been said before. :p
Ilie
04-04-2006, 17:11
Hey lurkers, what do you think about this (the original poll, not the spamming on here)? I know some of you are reading this. Even if it's been said, say it anyway.
[NS]Simonist
04-04-2006, 17:17
Simonist- I dont know if I've been able to see your pic. Hook me up.
You're never going to hear me call you a slut or attention whore.

If you think about it, most people on NS could be categorized as attention whores.
Aha! For the record, it was requested!
http://s17.photobucket.com/albums/b65/theatrefunk/photos%20of%20me/?action=view&current=img3.jpg

That's my current favourite, it was completely by chance that this particular self-portrait turned out. But I haven't yet uploaded my ABSOLUTE coolest shot to date, so.....no luck. (And it's from photobucket, so you can scan through if you want, I don't really care)
The Beautiful Darkness
04-04-2006, 17:18
I'm not a lurker, but I reply to you anyway:
Put your pic up, I want to see!
I like to put faces to names...
If you do, i will too! :D
Hiberniae
04-04-2006, 17:21
Go for it. There is not enough info on this site for anyone to be able to stalk you from it and if some people start calling you an attention whore or anything of the likes, we'll know who the ugly people are. You might pick a few adoring fans but they'd be harmless.
Rameria
04-04-2006, 17:30
Sure, put up a pic. It's nice to have a face to put to a name.
Mirchaz
04-04-2006, 18:00
*continues to lurk, waiting patiently for a pic*


wow, didn't know i caught up so quickly in the thread..... and yes, i remember the Simon song. Didn't know it was part of kaptain kangaroo tho, thought it was it's own show. My twin bro thinks i'm nuts for remembering it.
Ilie
04-04-2006, 18:23
I'm not a lurker, but I reply to you anyway:
Put your pic up, I want to see!
I like to put faces to names...
If you do, i will too! :D

I'm holding you to that!
Ilie
04-04-2006, 18:25
*continues to lurk, waiting patiently for a pic*


wow, didn't know i caught up so quickly in the thread..... and yes, i remember the Simon song. Didn't know it was part of kaptain kangaroo tho, thought it was it's own show. My twin bro thinks i'm nuts for remembering it.

Ooh, I bagged a real lurker! And it's a big one, too! Thanks for weighing in. If you do see my picture, I expect some comment from you before you go back to the shadows of NS General. (Don't worry, I won't summon you too often...I wouldn't want to open some kind of portal.)
Carnivorous Lickers
04-04-2006, 18:28
If a fuck hurts, you're doing something wrong. :p


sometimes,it hurts really good...
Ilie
04-04-2006, 18:29
This thread took a wrong turn somewhere.
Cluichstan
04-04-2006, 18:30
This thread took a wrong turn somewhere.

They usually do when I chime in. ;)
Potarius
04-04-2006, 18:30
This thread took a wrong turn somewhere.

Every thread on NS General takes a wrong turn at least once.
Carnivorous Lickers
04-04-2006, 18:33
Simonist']Aha! For the record, it was requested!
http://s17.photobucket.com/albums/b65/theatrefunk/photos%20of%20me/?action=view&current=img3.jpg

That's my current favourite, it was completely by chance that this particular self-portrait turned out. But I haven't yet uploaded my ABSOLUTE coolest shot to date, so.....no luck. (And it's from photobucket, so you can scan through if you want, I don't really care)

I scanned, I'm liking. No urge to say "slut" or "attention whore". I like the sorta candid shots best. :D
Carnivorous Lickers
04-04-2006, 18:34
They usually do when I chime in. ;)


you beat me too it.
Ilie
04-04-2006, 18:40
I suppose that's the sign of a successful thread...wrong turns.

And yes, I like your picture. Very nice! You give me courage, like watching your friend say, "See? It's fine!" after jumping off the highest diving board and you are standing up there quaking and wondering if you should just climb back down the ladder.
Saxnot
04-04-2006, 18:54
Odd. I've just put down "It's not something I would do..." as my natural reaction, but I actually have. :p:rolleyes:
Krakozha
04-04-2006, 19:03
Simonist]
Aha! For the record, it was requested!
http://s17.photobucket.com/albums/b6...rrent=img3.jpg

That's my current favourite, it was completely by chance that this particular self-portrait turned out. But I haven't yet uploaded my ABSOLUTE coolest shot to date, so.....no luck. (And it's from photobucket, so you can scan through if you want, I don't really care)

It's cool, you look so different in every pic!
[NS]Simonist
04-04-2006, 19:12
I scanned, I'm liking. No urge to say "slut" or "attention whore". I like the sorta candid shots best. :D
Candid is usually better, yeah....for all the years I've been involved in various aspects of photography and modelling, I still can't pose for shit :p

It's cool, you look so different in every pic!
That's due in part to two things: first of all, I have the absolute inability to commit to any look whatsoever for a very long amount of time; second, my face and body haven't actually changed much in the past 4 years. There are actually two pictures on the string that are that old, too.

C'mon, Ilie, when are we gonna see yours? I took the plunge all over again, and it was scary, and now I feel entitled to see yours.
Potarius
04-04-2006, 19:13
Simonist']C'mon, Ilie, when are we gonna see yours? I took the plunge all over again, and it was scary, and now I feel entitled to see yours.

So do I. I mean, I'd post a picture, but my fucking cheap digicam doesn't work.
Krakozha
04-04-2006, 19:19
Simonist']
That's due in part to two things: first of all, I have the absolute inability to commit to any look whatsoever for a very long amount of time; second, my face and body haven't actually changed much in the past 4 years. There are actually two pictures on the string that are that old, too.


It's not just the look, it's everything - even the shape of your face looks different from pic to pic. Neat!
Mirchaz
04-04-2006, 20:28
Ooh, I bagged a real lurker! And it's a big one, too! Thanks for weighing in. If you do see my picture, I expect some comment from you before you go back to the shadows of NS General. (Don't worry, I won't summon you too often...I wouldn't want to open some kind of portal.)

who says you didn't already open 'some kind' of portal? :P
Ilie
04-04-2006, 20:38
Simonist']
C'mon, Ilie, when are we gonna see yours? I took the plunge all over again, and it was scary, and now I feel entitled to see yours.

Alright, you vultures! I'm home from work and I will begin the process of putting pictures on Photobucket. Give me 15 minutes.
Mirchaz
04-04-2006, 21:04
Alright, you vultures! I'm home from work and I will begin the process of putting pictures on Photobucket. Give me 15 minutes.


it's been 15 :P
Ilie
04-04-2006, 21:06
http://s63.photobucket.com/albums/h153/IlieNS/

I guess I cannot deny that I am a lady anymore.
Krakozha
04-04-2006, 21:19
http://s63.photobucket.com/albums/h153/IlieNS/

I guess I cannot deny that I am a lady anymore.

You are very pretty.

No bitching, promise!!! :D
Ilie
04-04-2006, 21:24
You are very pretty.

No bitching, promise!!! :D

Thanks.


...well, that was anticlimactic. :cool:
Carnivorous Lickers
04-04-2006, 21:30
http://s63.photobucket.com/albums/h153/IlieNS/

I guess I cannot deny that I am a lady anymore.


You damned Attention Whore !!!! :p

I'm only kidding-you're adorable. Thanks for sharing.
Mirchaz
04-04-2006, 21:38
http://s63.photobucket.com/albums/h153/IlieNS/

I guess I cannot deny that I am a lady anymore.

*catcalls at Ilie, whistles once, and then returns to the shadows*



:P

nice photos. technically it's still possible for you to deny you're a lady... coulda posted pics of your sister or friend :p
Mirchaz
04-04-2006, 21:39
woulda been sooner in my reply... but was on the phone w/ a customer.
Ilie
04-04-2006, 21:40
You damned Attention Whore !!!! :p

I'm only kidding-you're adorable. Thanks for sharing.

Thank you. Your opinion is really the only one that mattered anyway. ;)
Ilie
04-04-2006, 21:40
*catcalls at Ilie, whistles once, and then returns to the shadows*



:P

nice photos. technically it's still possible for you to deny you're a lady... coulda posted pics of your sister or friend :p

Now what would be the point of that?
[NS]Simonist
04-04-2006, 21:41
Thanks.


...well, that was anticlimactic. :cool:
Sorry, I had to run off and take a nap then go to Starbucks. 'Tis my job as MonoGirl.

You look a lot like a girl I used to go to school with, she's up in NYC on a music scholarship that I insist to this day that she robbed from me, 'cause I'm usually much better, she's just cooler at auditions. But no worries.

I love your hair.
Mirchaz
04-04-2006, 21:46
Thank you. Your opinion is really the only one that mattered anyway. ;)

damn, i guess i'll just retract my opinion then... :P

the point? i dunno... some ppl out there are.... sick. ;)
Ilie
04-04-2006, 21:49
Simonist']Sorry, I had to run off and take a nap then go to Starbucks. 'Tis my job as MonoGirl.

You look a lot like a girl I used to go to school with, she's up in NYC on a music scholarship that I insist to this day that she robbed from me, 'cause I'm usually much better, she's just cooler at auditions. But no worries.

I love your hair.

Thanx0rs. Wait...which the heck hair are you talking about?
Ilie
04-04-2006, 21:50
damn, i guess i'll just retract my opinion then... :P

the point? i dunno... some ppl out there are.... sick. ;)

I was just kidding, thank you. Yes, some people are sick. We have threads about them all the time!
Mirchaz
04-04-2006, 21:54
I was just kidding, thank you. Yes, some people are sick. We have threads about them all the time!
nodnod....

i'm glad the one about me is long gone and buried. :sighs in relief:
Ilie
04-04-2006, 21:56
nodnod....

i'm glad the one about me is long gone and buried. :sighs in relief:

Ha! If there ever really was one about you, I guarantee somebody has it meticulously archived away.
Mirchaz
04-04-2006, 22:05
Ha! If there ever really was one about you, I guarantee somebody has it meticulously archived away.

heck no, i'm the guy no one remembers.... i'm like the gray men in the WoT series. ;) but alas you're right. i have no sordid details listed on this forum. i only have 700+ posts to go through for anyone inclined to look. Most of those took place in the babe thread a long time ago. They deleted it or removed it somehow... so that makes me wonder if my post count took a hit because of that....


:ponders:
[NS]Simonist
04-04-2006, 22:05
Thanx0rs. Wait...which the heck hair are you talking about?
The short haircut, the way the curls kinda lay around, especially the front part that would be bangs were your hair longer. I tried that haircut once, but unless my hair is straightened, it's way too thick to do stuff like that. C'est la vie.
Carnivorous Lickers
04-04-2006, 22:22
Thank you. Your opinion is really the only one that mattered anyway. ;)


I'm flattered, my sweet. ;)

I dont expect you'll be getting any negative comments...
Harlesburg
07-04-2006, 14:05
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