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Since i broke up with my ex ive been different.

Im drinking lots more, i have a vodka bottle here right now.
Ive also turned into a real slut apparently, snogging anyone that offers. (4 tonight)

But good things
Im humming merry tunes and im happy when im drunk.

When i get sober i remember suzanne and im like "..." and i start thinking so what it boils down to is im even gonna pickle my liver and be happy or not and probobly end up lynching myself.

Suggestions?

Whatever makes you happy. You seem to understand that it’s bad for your health, so you’ve made an informed decision.

Im 15.
Does that change your opinion?

Well moping isn't goin to make anything any better!

Since i broke up with my ex ive been different.

Im drinking lots more, i have a vodka bottle here right now.
Ive also turned into a real slut apparently, snogging anyone that offers. (4 tonight)

But good things
Im humming merry tunes and im happy when im drunk.

When i get sober i remember suzanne and im like "..." and i start thinking so what it boils down to is im even gonna pickle my liver and be happy or not and probobly end up lynching myself.

Suggestions?
Try to control your drinking for now. Eventually, you'll forget your ex. The "snogging" is, however, another matter entirely. You stand to loose your self-respect and/or contract some loathsome disease. Please get help.

Im 15.
Does that change your opinion?

15 with vodka? Are you Russian or what?

Go to a counsellor. You're depressed because of your breakup. And STOP DRINKING! I don't care if you're 15, 21, or 105-- it's bad for your health.

I have no self-respect.
I am worthless :D

Anyway, as long as im happy i should keep doing it right?
I mean its like sleeping, i just dont wanna wake up.

ps, im bringing alcohol to school and my studies are only going from A to B so its not effectng it much

Go to a counsellor. You're depressed because of your breakup. And STOP DRINKING! I don't care if you're 15, 21, or 105-- it's bad for your health.

well, in moderation, it can significantly enhance one's quality of life...

Since i broke up with my ex ive been different.

Im drinking lots more, i have a vodka bottle here right now.
Ive also turned into a real slut apparently, snogging anyone that offers. (4 tonight)
Yes, this is not healthy especially at 15. You need to talk to your parents, siblings or trusted friends about your feelings.

I think you already believe that you do. Otherwise you wouldn't be posting. All that this will get you is ambiguous answers (like this one), and people hurling their personal morality at you. Neither is particularly helpful. We all have nasty breakups. I suggest you think about whether your's was so much worst than the rest of ours' that its worth letting your life change. Particularly whether how you handle it will follow you later in life.

15 with vodka? Are you Russian or what?

Welsh.
A girl i know went on holiday to russia and came back with crates of the shit cos her dads an ambassador or something.

I have no self-respect.
I am worthless :D

Anyway, as long as im happy i should keep doing it right?
I mean its like sleeping, i just dont wanna wake up.

ps, im bringing alcohol to school and my studies are only going from A to B so its not effectng it much
You still have self-respect; it's just taking a sabbatical. You are not worthless, because you're just like the rest of us, human.

Just because something makes you happy right now does not mean that you will be happy about it later.

I have no self-respect.
I am worthless :D

Anyway, as long as im happy i should keep doing it right?
I mean its like sleeping, i just dont wanna wake up.

ps, im bringing alcohol to school and my studies are only going from A to B so its not effectng it much

No, hapiness should not come at the price of well-being. And stop drinking! At your age, no benifits come from it othr than a short-term high. And besides, you'd rather have an A, no? It'll get worse should you continue.

And very few peopl on this planet are worthless. Very few. Maybe two or three. And those people make serial killers look like angels. You haven't done anything THAT dispicable, have you?

I think you already believe that you do. Otherwise you wouldn't be posting. All that this will get you is ambiguous answers (like this one), and people hurling their personal morality at you. Neither is particularly helpful. We all have nasty breakups. I suggest you think about whether your's was so much worst than the rest of ours' that its worth letting your life change. Particularly whether how you handle it will follow you later in life.

I have to sit next to her new bf in 3 of my classes cos of alphabetical order.
Her brother was a real good mate of mine and now he feels uncomfortable.

I cant hang around my best friend cos his Gf is her best mate and they always go around together.

Plus she hates me, she said so.

Well I don't know about other countries, but it's an unfortunate fact that MANY people under 18 (the legal age in U.K.) in Britain drink alcohol.

Europa alpha, seriously, it's not a great idea to drink when you're feeling low. It's one of the things that can lead to becoming an alcoholic. If you really feel you have to drink, find some way to be happy first, even if it's just thinking of a happy memory. But you could also try doing things instead of drinking to make yourself feel better - like maybe go ice skating or join a Martial Arts club (there are plenty that are NOT aggressive and are nice to men AND women) or another sports club. Or get a skateboard or rollerblades and use it/them a lot.

No, hapiness should not come at the price of well-being. And stop drinking! At your age, no benifits come from it othr than a short-term high. And besides, you'd rather have an A, no? It'll get worse should you continue.

And very few peopl on this planet are worthless. Very few. Maybe two or three. And those people make serial killers look like angels. You haven't done anything THAT dispicable, have you?

I must have to make her hate me so much.

Well I don't know about other countries, but it's an unfortunate fact that MANY people under 18 (the legal age in U.K.)

Wrongo.

Legal age for purchase is 18
Over here your allowed to drink from the age of 4.
Wacky laws left over from victorians.

I must have to make her hate me so much.

No. The people I'm talking about are people like Jack the Ripper. Worse than him. Worse than Hitler.

I don't care how much she hates you, Hitler did worse. Look at Stalin and Mao.

You, sir, are not worthless. Not in the least bit.

Try to control your drinking for now. Eventually, you'll forget your ex. The "snogging" is, however, another matter entirely. You stand to loose your self-respect and/or contract some loathsome disease. Please get help.

I noticed you put snogging in speech marks... just wondering, are you American and thus confusing snogging with shagging? (PS for anyone who doesn't know, snogging is just proper kissing)

I have to sit next to her new bf in 3 of my classes cos of alphabetical order.
Her brother was a real good mate of mine and now he feels uncomfortable.

I cant hang around my best friend cos his Gf is her best mate and they always go around together.

Plus she hates me, she said so.

Please. Stop sympathy begging. My girl left me for my best friend. You're 15. You've barely started dealing with mature emotions. If you'd like to take your first bad experience and use it as an excuse to start pickling your internal organs and breaking down your brain before its even completed its development, by all means, go ahead. But you won't convince anyone that you have it worse than the rest of the world. Because you don't. Wherever you're living, I gaurantee you're a helluva lot better off than the vast majority of the world's population. You can afford the alcohol with which to slowly poison yourself, and have the free time to complain about it to people you don't know over your convenient internet connection on your computer.

Please. Stop sympathy begging. My girl left me for my best friend. You're 15. You've barely started dealing with mature emotions. If you'd like to take your first bad experience and use it as an excuse to start pickling your internal organs and breaking down your brain before its even completed its development, by all means, go ahead. But you won't convince anyone that you have it worse than the rest of the world. Because you don't. Wherever you're living, I gaurantee you're a helluva lot better off than the vast majority of the world's population. You can afford the alcohol with which to slowly poison yourself, and have the free time to complain about it to people you don't know over your convenient internet connection on your computer.

HEY, don't be mean here. He has a problem.

Join the local rugby team. It'll get some of the aggression out, and you'll get some new drinking buddies!:p

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B-side whore
Hooker, Wing, and Scrumhalf.

You should probably just start cutting yourself because a failed relationship at age 15 is obviously a clear indication that the rest of your life will consist of nothing but endless misery and woe.

:(

Please. Stop sympathy begging. My girl left me for my best friend. You're 15. You've barely started dealing with mature emotions. If you'd like to take your first bad experience and use it as an excuse to start pickling your internal organs and breaking down your brain before its even completed its development, by all means, go ahead. But you won't convince anyone that you have it worse than the rest of the world. Because you don't. Wherever you're living, I gaurantee you're a helluva lot better off than the vast majority of the world's population. You can afford the alcohol with which to slowly poison yourself, and have the free time to complain about it to people you don't know over your convenient internet connection on your computer.

I know im not worse off. Im pretty damn good.

Im only here cos my friend spent like 3 hours saying "Shape the fuck up" to me and i need neutral opinions.

Wrongo.

Legal age for purchase is 18
Over here your allowed to drink from the age of 4.
Wacky laws left over from victorians.

Not quite right. Legal age for purchase is 18 yes. Legal age for drinking DEPENDS on the circumstances. For example, if you're 14, you can drink in a pub legally but only with a meal (and of course it depends on the pub's rules). And there's something about you can give a child of a certain age alcohol in private if you are their parent, BUT it's illegal to buy alcohol for a person who is under 18 - which means the law about being allowed to let kids drink is contradicted by the law about not being allow to buy alcohol for them. Plus that victorian law you speak of may have been overruled by another law, even if it wasn't actually repealed.

Please. Stop sympathy begging. My girl left me for my best friend. You're 15. You've barely started dealing with mature emotions. If you'd like to take your first bad experience and use it as an excuse to start pickling your internal organs and breaking down your brain before its even completed its development, by all means, go ahead. But you won't convince anyone that you have it worse than the rest of the world. Because you don't. Wherever you're living, I gaurantee you're a helluva lot better off than the vast majority of the world's population. You can afford the alcohol with which to slowly poison yourself, and have the free time to complain about it to people you don't know over your convenient internet connection on your computer.

That kind os comment is the kinda stuff that makes kids feel even worse. Of course kids can experience "adult" emotions. They can suffer trauma, they can feel isolated, they can feel depressed. So before you make silly assumptions again, at least do some research. The "you're lucky" speech doesn't work when someone doesn't feel lucky, unless they're either really spiritual (or/and religious) or a hippy.

You should probably just start cutting yourself because a failed relationship at age 15 is obviously a clear indication that the rest of your life will consist of nothing but endless misery and woe.

:(

Why did you write that? Are you alright? I'm at memewowme [at] hotmail [dot] com if you wanna chat. But I'm logging off in a minute. It's also my e-mail. Same goes to Europa alpha.

You should probably just start cutting yourself because a failed relationship at age 15 is obviously a clear indication that the rest of your life will consist of nothing but endless misery and woe.

:(

Yes, I believe you need help as well. You may TG me if you wsh to talk. I will help.

I know im not worse off. Im pretty damn good.

Im only here cos my friend spent like 3 hours saying "Shape the fuck up" to me and i need neutral opinions.

Okay, so here's my concise, neutral opinion: Your breakup will have roughly no long term consequences. Negative or positive. On the other hand, letting yourself go drinking could potentially have serious, permanent, long-term, negative consequences. Especially hard liquor and ESPECIALLY at your age. Overall, its a terrible way to deal with emotional stress.
Things that help: finding someone you know to talk to about it on a regular basis, sports, a hobby that deal with your emotions (as an example - I draw, some of my friends write).

Guys i think he was taking the piss.

I must have to make her hate me so much.

She might not hate you. She may have simply fallen out of love with you, or think it's not going to work any more. I'm willing to bet money that she doesn't hate you. If you really think she does, why not ask her?

Have you tried talking to her? It might be difficult, but it's one of the best ways to deal with something. If you can't face talking, maybe you could try a letter or an e-mail?

I cant hang around my best friend cos his Gf is her best mate and they always go around together.
If he is your best friend he will have time for you, whether his girlfriend has a problem with it or not.

BTW, folks, I think Ebri was throwing out some heavy sarcasm.

She might not hate you. She may have simply fallen out of love with you, or think it's not going to work any more. I'm willing to bet money that she doesn't hate you. If you really think she does, why not ask her?

Have you tried talking to her? It might be difficult, but it's one of the best ways to deal with something. If you can't face talking, maybe you could try a letter or an e-mail?

Blocked me, deleted my number, deletes my emails, physically leaves the room when i enter, and said for me to "Go away."
...

I must have to make her hate me so much.
What did you do? And she has a new boyfriend already? When did you break up?

I've just had a go at Golgan for what he wrote earlier. So hopefully it's obvious I'm not a friend of his so I'm not saying this because of being a friend. But I agree with this (written by Golgan):

Okay, so here's my concise, neutral opinion: Your breakup will have roughly no long term consequences. Negative or positive. On the other hand, letting yourself go drinking could potentially have serious, permanent, long-term, negative consequences. Especially hard liquor and ESPECIALLY at your age. Overall, its a terrible way to deal with emotional stress.
Things that help: finding someone you know to talk to about it on a regular basis, sports, a hobby that deal with your emotions (as an example - I draw, some of my friends write).

Blocked me, deleted my number, deletes my emails, physically leaves the room when i enter, and said for me to "Go away."
...

If someone will do that, then they are not the person you should love. I suggest you find someone else, and talk to your parents.

What did you do? And she has a new boyfriend already? When did you break up?

I dunno what i did i think i might have been too clingy
A week ago
She dumped me by text when she was in the cinema with him.

I dunno what i did i think i might have been too clingy
A week ago
She dumped me by text when she was in the cinema with him.

Then she REALLY isn't someone you should love. You should find someone else.

Oh yeh and drawing or writing poems really does help a LOT of people (I speak to a lot of people who needa chat about stuff).

If you do feel like you got nobody you can really talk to, and for some reason my e-mail gets deleted, send me a telegram (click my name to see the option to send me a telegram). I won't judge you or think you're being silly and I won't mention any details to anyone else.

I dunno what i did i think i might have been too clingy
A week ago
She dumped me by text when she was in the cinema with him.
Too clingy? That's not worth hating someone over.
If it's a week ago then it's no surprise that you still feel bad.
Dumping by text? Cheating on you?

It may not be apparent now but she is a bitch, forget her. I really can't fathom how people can treat other humans like this.

Well I don't know about other countries, but it's an unfortunate fact that MANY people under 18 (the legal age in U.K.) in Britain drink alcohol.

Europa alpha, seriously, it's not a great idea to drink when you're feeling low. It's one of the things that can lead to becoming an alcoholic. If you really feel you have to drink, find some way to be happy first, even if it's just thinking of a happy memory. But you could also try doing things instead of drinking to make yourself feel better - like maybe go ice skating or join a Martial Arts club (there are plenty that are NOT aggressive and are nice to men AND women) or another sports club. Or get a skateboard or rollerblades and use it/them a lot.
Good advice. :)

I'm a great adovcate of physical activity. Not only does it relieve stress, it helps your general health and well-being in a multitide of other ways.

Try it! You'll like it! :)

I dunno what i did i think i might have been too clingy
A week ago
She dumped me by text when she was in the cinema with him.
OMG! PLEASE tell me you weren't married to her! :(

Since i broke up with my ex ive been different.

Im drinking lots more, i have a vodka bottle here right now.
Ive also turned into a real slut apparently, snogging anyone that offers. (4 tonight)

But good things
Im humming merry tunes and im happy when im drunk.

When i get sober i remember suzanne and im like "..." and i start thinking so what it boils down to is im even gonna pickle my liver and be happy or not and probobly end up lynching myself.

Suggestions?

"It was a woman who drove me to drinking. I didn't even have the decency to thank her." -W.C. Fields.

"It was a woman who drove me to drinking. I didn't even have the decency to thank her." -W.C. Fields.

Drinking isn't a good thing.

OMG! PLEASE tell me you weren't married to her! :(

Cult married.
We all did it as a joke once.
But we said we were gonna marry cos we figured out which uni's we were going to and where we wanted to live.

Drinking isn't a good thing.

Anything in moderation is a good thing. Except self-amputation.

Anything in excess is a bad thing.

Anything in moderation is a good thing. Except self-amputation.


And possibly cyanide.

Anything in moderation is a good thing. Except self-amputation.

Anything in excess is a bad thing.

Not at 15.

Anything in moderation is a good thing?

That's one of the silliest statements I've ever heard.

Anything in moderation is a good thing?

That's one of the silliest statements I've ever heard.

I'm going to have to agree with you on that.