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What is the best/easiest way that somone can seduce you ?

What is the best/easiest way that somone can seduce you ?

Depends completely on the person.

Depends completely on the person.
not on the action?
i know i cannot write here what i want. but falling on the knees in front of me is a good strategy in my opinion, regardless who it is..

for a second i though you were talking about the song by pornland. the video clip for it has same pretty good way of doing it, though

for a second i though you were talking about the song by pornland. the video clip for it has same pretty good way of doing it, though
you can maybe TG me a link ;)

not on the action?
i know i cannot write here what i want. but falling on the knees in front of me is a good strategy in my opinion, regardless who it is..

Nothing new ;)

No, it depends entirely on the person for me. I've found that one and the same strategy will turn me on beyond belief coming from one person, and completely disgusts me coming from another.

you can maybe TG me a link ;)
i'm not sure if i can, the band has split up. i'll have a look, though
EDIT: can't seem to find it. they're an australian band

I don't need to be seduced, just like I don't need to be "lead" into temptation. I'll have sex without having to be persuaded into it, and I'll skip on over to Gomorrah by my own devices.

The ability to blush and look sheepish is helpful.

The ability to blush and look sheepish is helpful.

Yes, that's good. And the thing women do with their eyelashes too.

I don't need to be seduced, just like I don't need to be "lead" into temptation. I'll have sex without having to be persuaded into it, and I'll skip on over to Gomorrah by my own devices.
Why do you find evewryone attractive and/or are you always in the mood for sex?

Why do you find evewryone attractive and/or are you always in the mood for sex?

Attraction has nothing to do with seduction. Just looking good does not qualify as being seductive. Seduction is a lame excuse used by those with poorly developed sense of responsibility and that thus need someone else to "seduce" them to make them have sex with them, making it less their own "fault."

And if I'm always in the mood for sex? Seeing as I'm a guy, pretty much. Unless I'm really, really sleepy, or really, really hungry, but even those are negotiable.

Attraction has nothing to do with seduction. Just looking good does not qualify as being seductive. Seduction is a lame excuse used by those with poorly developed sense of responsibility and that thus need someone else to "seduce" them to make them have sex with them, making it less their own "fault."I can see how some people would view being seduced that way. Personally, I almost always want them to work for it, which is why I like being seduced.

I can see how some people would view being seduced that way. Personally, I almost always want them to work for it, which is why I like being seduced.

You don't like being seduced. You like playing games. Either you want to have sex with someone, or you don't. Playing silly games and making them "work" for it is just a waste of time, IMO. And what does it say about you if you are persuaded to have sex with someone? If you need persuasion, you shouldn't be having sex with them in the first place.

I'll have sex without having to be persuaded into it, and I'll skip on over to Gomorrah by my own devices.

Pick up a peperoni pizza on your way back.


Anyway... with the topic...
She has to do 2 things to "seduce" me. And be one thing.
She has to do:
1) Talk to me.
2) Be interested in me.
She has to be:
1) Interesting to me.

Oddly.. women I'm interested in is pretty limiting.

You don't like being seduced. You like playing games. Either you want to have sex with someone, or you don't. Playing silly games and making them "work" for it is just a waste of time, IMO. And what does it say about you if you are persuaded to have sex with someone? If you need persuasion, you shouldn't be having sex with them in the first place.Well, I do like playing games, but not in this instance. It's not that I'm being persuaded to do it, I'd do it without the seduction, but I do enjoy being seduced, as well. I agree that if I was being persuaded, then I shouldn't be having sex with them in the first place.

You don't like being seduced. You like playing games. Either you want to have sex with someone, or you don't. Playing silly games and making them "work" for it is just a waste of time, IMO. And what does it say about you if you are persuaded to have sex with someone? If you need persuasion, you shouldn't be having sex with them in the first place.

The knowledge that someone wants to have sex with you and would go to some length to see you aroused is a strong aphrodisiac in itself.
Somebody trying to seduce you is sending signals that he wants just that. That's what makes seduction so great.

You don't like being seduced. You like playing games. Either you want to have sex with someone, or you don't. Playing silly games and making them "work" for it is just a waste of time, IMO. And what does it say about you if you are persuaded to have sex with someone? If you need persuasion, you shouldn't be having sex with them in the first place.

I don't think anybody here is in a position to tell anybody else what they should and should not do with their sex lives.

The knowledge that someone wants to have sex with you and would go to some length to see you aroused is a strong aphrodisiac in itself.
Somebody trying to seduce you is sending signals that he wants just that. That's what makes seduction so great.Exactly. Dammit, I'm worth making an effort for.

Exactly. Dammit, I'm worth making an effort for.

*lol
I'm not, it would seem sometimes. ;)

You don't like being seduced. You like playing games. Either you want to have sex with someone, or you don't. Playing silly games and making them "work" for it is just a waste of time, IMO. And what does it say about you if you are persuaded to have sex with someone? If you need persuasion, you shouldn't be having sex with them in the first place.You miss the point.

It isn't about pursuading someone, it's about pleasing the seduced party. Like a sort of foreplay. And it's perfectly enjoyable for both, if done right.

You're missing out.

What is the best/easiest way that somone can seduce you ?

Understand the art of the headshot in Unreal Tournament, be female, be cultured, and actually be a decent looing redhead.

You will notice that I have described a human being that cannot exist.

I don't think anybody here is in a position to tell anybody else what they should and should not do with their sex lives.

I wasn't aware I was. Or are you one of those people who think that just because I voice an opinion, that means I want everyone to do my bidding? I'm not religious, you know.

You miss the point.

It isn't about pursuading someone, it's about pleasing the seduced party. Like a sort of foreplay. And it's perfectly enjoyable for both, if done right.

You're missing out.

I spend that time actually having foreplay, so, no, I miss out on nothing. More precisely, I have time for more.

Any woman who will Counter Strike in the nude would have seduced me instantly :D

*lol
I'm not, it would seem sometimes. ;)I bet Hullepupp would make quite an effort for you.

I wasn't aware I was. Or are you one of those people who think that just because I voice an opinion, that means I want everyone to do my bidding? I'm not religious, you know.

If you need persuasion, you shouldn't be having sex with them in the first place.

If you don't want that to be misinterpreted you should have put: If I needed persuasion, I wouldn't be having sex with them in the first place.

If you don't want that to be misinterpreted you should have put: If I needed persuasion, I wouldn't be having sex with them in the first place.

It's an opinion. It's not an edict. If you're one of those people who have sex when really not wanting to, fine by me. I just think it's a mistake, but it's yours to make. If you don't want opinions, you're really in the wrong place.

It's an opinion. It's not an edict. If you're one of those people who have sex when really not wanting to, fine by me. I just think it's a mistake, but it's yours to make. If you don't want opinions, you're really in the wrong place.

No I'm not one of those types. It just could have been worded so that it didn't sound like you were judging the person.

I spend that time actually having foreplay, so, no, I miss out on nothing. More precisely, I have time for more.I you dislike people attempting to make you feel appreciated, then you're probably not missing out.

But saying you have more time for sex, because you skip the seduction doesn't sound plausible. Not unless you & the lucky guy instantly jump eachother, regardless of the setting.

No I'm not one of those types. It just could have been worded so that it didn't sound like you were judging the person.

If I rephrase it like this: I don't care about your misconstruing opinion as to my wording. There. Settled.

I you dislike people attempting to make you feel appreciated, then you're probably not missing out.

I feel appreciated when being fucked. I don't need silly games to make me feel better about myself.

But saying you have more time for sex, because you skip the seduction doesn't sound plausible. Not unless you & the lucky guy instantly jump eachother, regardless of the setting.

Well, we tend to. I live very close to my favourite hangouts.

Unfortunately, it isn't simple with women. They crave seduction and you aren't going to get any if you can't seduce them.

Now a man to need seduction is a bit more unusual, but still understandable.

Therefore, we're stuck to seduction because of them.

Unfortunately, it isn't simple with women. They crave seduction and you aren't going to get any if you can't seduce them.

That whore-like behaviour is one of the reasons I'm so glad not to have to deal with women.

What is the best/easiest way that somone can seduce you ?
Turn up naked with pizza.

Turn up naked with pizza.
I think near nakedness/suggestive clothing is much more sexy than just being naked.

I'll take the pizza though!:p

I find that women crave appreciation much more strongly than "seduction". I'm with Fass. Silly games.

I think near nakedness/suggestive clothing is much more sexy than just being naked.

I'll take the pizza though!:p
You're right. She should be wearing heels.

I bet Hullepupp would make quite an effort for you.
you will loose the bet

That whore-like behaviour is one of the reasons I'm so glad not to have to deal with women.
Let's not start with "women = whores". It's not true, and neither was the statement you're responding to.

The knowledge that someone wants to have sex with you and would go to some length to see you aroused is a strong aphrodisiac in itself.
Somebody trying to seduce you is sending signals that he wants just that. That's what makes seduction so great.
I agree 100%.

Let's not start with "women = whores".

People who exchange goods and services and money for sex are whores.

"I need flowers, and dinner, and drinks, and attention, and diamonds to do it with a guy." Why don't you just ask for the money outright?

People who exchange goods and services and money for sex are whores.

"I need flowers, and dinner, and drinks, and attention, and diamonds to do it with a guy." Why don't you just ask for the money outright?
http://www.wolfgangkiel.de/magicflowers.gif

is this a good first step ? :D :D :D

http://www.wolfgangkiel.de/magicflowers.gif

is this a good first step ? :D :D :D

You would have saved yourself time by just grabbing me by the balls. :P

You would have saved yourself time by just grabbing me by the balls. :P
i would if you be seducted then..... :D :D

People who exchange goods and services and money for sex are whores.

"I need flowers, and dinner, and drinks, and attention, and diamonds to do it with a guy." Why don't you just ask for the money outright?
Reminds me of a letter I read in a humour mag:
"Last friday I took a woman out for dinner, movie and drinks. It cost me over £50 and all I got was a kiss on the cheek. Meanwhile my mate got a blowjob for £15 behind the pub. Where's the justice?"

Reminds me of a letter I read in a humour mag:
"Last friday I took a woman out for dinner, movie and drinks. It cost me over £50 and all I got was a kiss on the cheek. Meanwhile my mate got a blowjob for £15 behind the pub. Where's the justice?"

thats really a fact...:D

i would if you be seducted then..... :D :D

Not really, but I'd screw you anyway. If you're a guy.

Not really, but I'd screw you anyway. If you're a guy.
it doesn´t matter what YOU are ... my peni has no eyes..:D

I feel appreciated when being fucked. I don't need silly games to make me feel better about myself.I do, on occation. I'm not a woman though.Well, we tend to. I live very close to my favourite hangouts.I envy you...

it doesn´t matter what YOU are ... my peni has no eyes..:D

I have a brown one that doesn't like that kind of lip.

I do, on occation. I'm not a woman though.

Why?

I envy you...

That's one of the reasons I got the place, to make all the people I know jealous. :)

That whore-like behaviour is one of the reasons I'm so glad not to have to deal with women.
whores don't need seduction. i doubt they appreciate it since they work by the job not by the hour.

Why?Hmm.. Because it's gratifying & makes me feel special?

I think perhaps you understand seduction as something mandatory & a prerequisite for sex. I don't, but I'd agree it'd be both pointless & whorish.

If I let a guy seduce me, it's because I want to fuck. The seduction bit is just an added bonus that makes me feel good, and hopefully makes him feel good too. You're right about it being a silly game though. But then again, in my experience, most enjoyable things in life are silly games. The only execptions I can think of are alcohol & loud music.That's one of the reasons I got the place, to make all the people I know jealous. :)Nice bit of foresight there. I wish I'd done the same. Oh well.. Next time. I'm not planning on staying here anyway.

apparently you just have to get me drunk

*punches self in face*

F*** S*** A** C*** S*** W**** B****

EDIT: I really did punch myself... and it hurts

I bet Hullepupp would make quite an effort for you.

I wouldn't hold my breath ;)

An absence of effort. If you have to do something to seduce someone, it's cheap. The best seductions are passive.

An absence of effort. If you have to do something to seduce someone, it's cheap. The best seductions are passive.You're quite sure you're not a Taliban guy?

My biggest turn OFF is when a guy tries to seduce me.

It seems so dishonest and manipulative.

My biggest turn ON is when a guy enjoys me with our clothes on. If we don't get along out of bed, i am not interested in getting into bed. If its just about the sexual satisfaction, I'd rather masturbate and not risk pregnancy, disease, or crazy jealous ex-girlfriends, thank you very much.

Speaking of which. Vasectomies are sexy ;)

i like it when my girlfriend undresses in front of me and we masturbate each other.

Be well-groomed and clean. Treat me with respect. Treat the world with respect. Treat yourself with respect.

A girl who can sing just eases my burning heart. Whenever I hear such a siren's voice I could just melt.

What is the best/easiest way that somone can seduce you ?

Thinking Cabra West could pretty much seduce me any way she is willing to. She has an open invite to seduce away.:fluffle:

Undress.

Be well-groomed and clean. Treat me with respect. Treat the world with respect. Treat yourself with respect.


That seduces you? :confused: If I get 'so... fancy a quickie?' I'm there...:rolleyes:

Thinking Cabra West could pretty much seduce me any way she is willing to. She has an open invite to seduce away.:fluffle:

Only if I get seduced in return...

Only if I get seduced in return...
but of course.. This is turning in to quite an intriguing discussion. Why are there not more pic of you on here??? You are simply yummy. Perhaps you will send more in private?

but of course.. This is turning in to quite an intriguing discussion. Why are there not more pic of you on here??? You are simply yummy. Perhaps you will send more in private?

You're one to talk... there's 5 pics of me and none of you. Let's see one of yourself? :fluffle:

You're one to talk... there's 5 pics of me and none of you. Let's see one of yourself? :fluffle:
all is negotiable friend, all is negotiable.

What are you offering? :fluffle:

Cabra , if you wanna see more of me please tell me ... No ifs and buts...I know the price is it worth..;)

Cabra , if you wanna see more of me please tell me ... No ifs and buts...I know the price is it worth..;)

I wanna see all of you... from every angle. :fluffle:

all is negotiable friend, all is negotiable.

What are you offering? :fluffle:

I'm already offering 5 pics... but let's see. I've got a newer one.... for one pic of you?

People who exchange goods and services and money for sex are whores.

"I need flowers, and dinner, and drinks, and attention, and diamonds to do it with a guy." Why don't you just ask for the money outright?
Nice generalisation. I agree that women who exchange sex for gifts are whores, and I think even less of the men who behave like this than I do of prostitutes' clients. But I don't believe that most women are like that.

Reminds me of a letter I read in a humour mag:
"Last friday I took a woman out for dinner, movie and drinks. It cost me over £50 and all I got was a kiss on the cheek. Meanwhile my mate got a blowjob for £15 behind the pub. Where's the justice?"
Pfft... and all over the world there are men and women getting sex without any financial involvement because the sex is freely given. As it should be.

I'm already offering 5 pics... but let's see. I've got a newer one.... for one pic of you?
hmmm, I want to see everything there is too see.......

:fluffle:

a blowjob...that about does it for me. I am a slut though...so seduction really isn't needed.

I can't honestly say I know..

And even aside from that, surely it depends on what she's trying to seduce me into.

FASS: If you are still here, eager to know your thoughts, see link below

http://forums.jolt.co.uk/showthread.php?p=10532888&posted=1#post10532888