NationStates Jolt Archive


Woman or Womyn?

Lt_Cody
15-02-2006, 19:01
Which spelling do you use, or want to see other people use?

(poll coming)
Dododecapod
15-02-2006, 19:03
Woman. It is a traditional form, and is not insulting, save to those people who seem to find the existence of the male gender insulting.
Drunk commies deleted
15-02-2006, 19:03
Chick. Broad is acceptable too.
Sebytania
15-02-2006, 19:05
Either lady or madam.
Kreitzmoorland
15-02-2006, 19:06
I prefer "Your Highness"
Ad Pontes
15-02-2006, 19:06
Where's my sandwich?
Pure Metal
15-02-2006, 19:08
I prefer "Your Highness"
"mistress" is also good ;)
Megaloria
15-02-2006, 19:08
Any woman who thinks that a different spelling of the word will guarantee respect, empowerment or strength is fooling herself, and Probably only contributing further to the demonisation and ridicule of feminism.
Smunkeeville
15-02-2006, 19:10
Is there something offensive about the traditional spelling of woman that I don't know?


oh, and I would stick to the traditional because there are too many words that are so messed up in the way they are spelled now, it's hard to teach a kid to read, when everything isn't spelled phonetically. ;)
Syniks
15-02-2006, 19:10
A Waiter or Waitress is now a "Waitron"...

So does that make Trinidad Trinitron?
Scipii
15-02-2006, 19:11
What idiots use Womyn?:confused:
Drunk commies deleted
15-02-2006, 19:12
What idiots use Womyn?:confused:
The ones who object to the word men in women.
Dunerat
15-02-2006, 19:13
What idiots use Womyn?:confused:
Quoted for Great Justice!

Seriously, as several others have mentioned, changing the spelling is a ridiculous idea, serving no purpose whatsoever.

That said, woman.

--dunerat
Nadkor
15-02-2006, 19:13
What idiots use Womyn?:confused:
HerPower ;)
Green wombat
15-02-2006, 19:13
i'll have roast beef on toasted rye, with pickles, mayo, Gulden's Mustard(tm), banana peppers and cut into 4 pieces diagonally.
Scipii
15-02-2006, 19:14
What about Human? I mean WTF? I assume this is some daft shit from the USA right?
New Isabelle
15-02-2006, 19:14
A Waiter or Waitress is now a "Waitron"...

So does that make Trinidad Trinitron?

We use the asexual "server"
Nostravia
15-02-2006, 19:15
"mistress" is also good ;)

Yes, if you happen to be a dominatrix...not that I have any objections to that, of course! :D
Nostravia
15-02-2006, 19:17
What about Human? I mean WTF? I assume this is some daft shit from the USA right?

I dunno...I thought we got most of the crazy militant fems in GB? Burning bras on the common and all that.
Luporum
15-02-2006, 19:18
Call yourself what you like, but if you think you're important enough to suddenly change hundreds of years worth of use just over the suffix of a word then I'll call you a self-centered bitch.
Sdaeriji
15-02-2006, 19:20
Chick. Broad is acceptable too.

I prefer dame. Or Hey You.
Letila
15-02-2006, 19:24
Well, the word "woman" itself is etymologically derived from "wife-man" so changing the spelling is more or less pointless if you ask me.
King Jean-Claude
15-02-2006, 19:24
I think you mean: Woman or Feminist Dyke
Nadkor
15-02-2006, 19:27
Well, the word "woman" itself is etymologically derived from "wife-man" so changing the spelling is more or less pointless if you ask me.
And it comes from when "man" could be used to refer to either sex. Same with mankind etc.
Seathorn
15-02-2006, 19:31
I vote woman. Or lady. Or madam. Or miss. Do you ever call any of your teachers "hey woman!"? I have to call all my irish teachers "miss ..." (because none of them are married for some reason... or at least, they pretend not to be).

Bah, I prefer just calling people by their first name. None of my non-english teachers ever mind :D

I dunno...I thought we got most of the crazy militant fems in GB? Burning bras on the common and all that.

Did you know bras were actually good for women? Especially sports bras (if they're doing sports). Otherwise, they risk serious skin and breast injury. BBC had some news on that.
Sinuhue
15-02-2006, 20:00
HerPower ;)
I'm amazed she made such a powerful impact in just two short days...oh, I wish the mods would let HerPower return...her and her groom-to-be, Jesussaves...
Nadkor
15-02-2006, 20:03
I'm amazed she made such a powerful impact in just two short days...oh, I wish the mods would let HerPower return...her and her groom-to-be, Jesussaves...
Aye, if the mods had let them stay this place would have been alot more fun.
Lt_Cody
15-02-2006, 20:05
Alright, who voted for Womyn? :D
HeyRelax
15-02-2006, 20:12
It just seems to me like feminists have bigger fish to fry than the spelling of the word 'woman'.

Women who are equally qualified as men are being kept out of top-level positions and paid less when they're let in. This is a real issue. Given the real problems for women out there, making noise about spelling it 'Womyn' seems to me like just action for action's sake -- maybe an attention-getting ploy.
Sinuhue
15-02-2006, 20:22
It just seems to me like feminists have bigger fish to fry than the spelling of the word 'woman'.

Women who are equally qualified as men are being kept out of top-level positions and paid less when they're let in. This is a real issue. Given the real problems for women out there, making noise about spelling it 'Womyn' seems to me like just action for action's sake -- maybe an attention-getting ploy.Yes. A ploy by anti-feminists who like to pretend that all feminists are radical man-hating lesbians. A ploy intended to show feminism as pointless and silly, and deflect attention away from the deeper issues that feminism addresses.
Linthiopia
15-02-2006, 20:44
Womyn? Oh, please. I really hope this is a joke. Seriously, I'm 100% for equality, but the only person who could support "Womyn" would have to be a radical lesbian sexist. Down with men? After all, the only thing we're good for is mating, and womyn are still better for that. :rolleyes:
H N Fiddlebottoms VIII
15-02-2006, 20:50
What about Human? I mean WTF? I assume this is some daft shit from the USA right?
No, it is some daft shit from the Interweb.
And, as for my language choice, you're either a "Woman" or "Yo, bitch", take your pick.
Qwystyria
15-02-2006, 20:53
Alright, who voted for Womyn? :D

Yeah. This definitely should've been an open poll. Womyn nothing... it would make me feel like a Wyrm.
WC Imperial Court
15-02-2006, 20:56
Down with men? After all, the only thing we're good for is mating

Womyn is stupid. Down with men, in the mating sense, sounds like a good idea, though!

Seriously. Bigger issues in the world for feminists.
New Genoa
15-02-2006, 20:57
I just say "whore" or "bitch"

Now I await to be pelted.:)
Evil little boys
15-02-2006, 20:58
Why the question?
Nadkor
15-02-2006, 20:59
After all, the only thing we're good for is mating, and womyn are still better for that. :rolleyes:
And don't forget it! :p
Biotopia
15-02-2006, 20:59
I think woman because the original derivation of the "man" was less to do with the subjugation of man over woman and more to do with linguistic norms a thousand years ago in England. Then again why not use "man" as the neutral term and create a new name for the male? After all it was men who assumed the universalised term 'man' that had wo attached to differentiate
Szanth
15-02-2006, 21:03
Did you know bras were actually good for women? Especially sports bras (if they're doing sports). Otherwise, they risk serious skin and breast injury. BBC had some news on that.

Yeah, burning bras didn't make a lot of sense. Guys were happy about it because boobs were bouncy, and girls weren't happy about it because they had no chest support. Absolutely no point. "But it was symbolic!" - And they were idiots who couldn't find something better to symbolize it.
Frangland
15-02-2006, 21:03
woman
New Genoa
15-02-2006, 21:03
I think woman because the original derivation of the "man" was less to do with the subjugation of man over woman and more to do with linguistic norms a thousand years ago in England. Then again why not use "man" as the neutral term and create a new name for the male? After all it was men who assumed the universalised term 'man' that had wo attached to differentiate

A new term for man should be "Master" and woman should just be chick. How about that?
New Genoa
15-02-2006, 21:04
Yeah, burning bras didn't make a lot of sense. Guys were happy about it because boobs were bouncy, and girls weren't happy about it because they had no chest support. Absolutely no point. "But it was symbolic!" - And they were idiots who couldn't find something better to symbolize it.

But if they're feminists doesn't that mean they look like butch dudes anyway? >_>
The Nuke Testgrounds
15-02-2006, 21:20
I only have female slaves in my kitchen :p .
Chercheurs de linconn
15-02-2006, 21:39
Womyn
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Womyn is the best-known one of a number of alternate spellings which some feminists promote as a way to degender the English word women and as female empowerment. Other variants include wimmin (plural), wom!n, womban and womon (singular), while femal (from female) and humyn (human) apply the principle elsewhere. All are pronounced the same as the conventional terms.

Go Wikipedia it actually had it in there. Who knew :D theres more

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Womyn

point if it sounds the same what is the point
The Lightning Star
15-02-2006, 21:41
Woman. It is a traditional form, and is not insulting, save to those people who seem to find the existence of the male gender insulting.

My thoughts exactly.
London Zoo
15-02-2006, 21:42
The ones who object to the word men in women.

I am a staunch feminist, but that's like objecting to being called 'human'! i.e. it's ridiculous!!!
Syniks
15-02-2006, 21:53
Womyn
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Womyn is the best-known one of a number of alternate spellings which some feminists promote as a way to degender the English word women and as female empowerment. Other variants include wimmin (plural), wom!n, womban and womon (singular), while femal (from female) and humyn (human) apply the principle elsewhere. All are pronounced the same as the conventional terms.
I've always wondered what UberFems have to say about languages with REAL genders, like French or German.

Oh, wait, UberFeminisim is not about things like gender in languages, it's about hating the US.

Never mind.
Gravlen
15-02-2006, 22:00
http://uncyclopedia.org/images/thumb/f/f9/WOMAN.jpg/400px-WOMAN.jpg

http://uncyclopedia.org/images/0/03/Women_evil.jpg
Iztatepopotla
15-02-2006, 22:06
What about wombat? Is that taken?
Skinny87
15-02-2006, 22:07
What about wombat? Is that taken?

Heh...

"I am wombat, hear me roar!"
Kevlanakia
15-02-2006, 22:14
Why not just start calling men wermen? Sounds much more neat. Plus, hardcore feminists will be able to make puns about groups of more than one werman.
New Genoa
15-02-2006, 22:20
Yes. A ploy by anti-feminists who like to pretend that all feminists are radical man-hating lesbians. A ploy intended to show feminism as pointless and silly, and deflect attention away from the deeper issues that feminism addresses.

Like cheaper abortion prices and sex changes. >_>
Preebs
15-02-2006, 23:02
Any woman who thinks that a different spelling of the word will guarantee respect, empowerment or strength is fooling herself, and Probably only contributing further to the demonisation and ridicule of feminism.
No-one is saying that this spelling will guarantee respect. As a radical feminist I can say that people use this spelling (which I use sometimes, but mostly not- depends on the audience) as a consciousness-raising tool, to make people think about the place women have in society, particularly in relation to men. And it's got nothing to do with "man-hating."

Fuck it, I'm tired of having to defend feminism on these boards...
Sinuhue
15-02-2006, 23:04
Fuck it, I'm tired of having to defend feminism on these boards...
No shit. I think we should just have a file of the stock defences so we can copy and paste rather than waste the time and effort on people who really, really just want to hate feminism anyway.
Sinuhue
15-02-2006, 23:06
Like cheaper abortion prices and sex changes. >_>
Yes. That's absolutely the entire focus of global feminism. Your summation is breathtaking in its accuracy. <_<
Terecia
15-02-2006, 23:19
So what will they do for male and female? Femail? Femayle?

EDIT: This is just a question, don't jump me. I'm all for fair wages and employing women for a professional reason instead of...well...ya know.
Nietzschens
15-02-2006, 23:28
i'll have roast beef on toasted rye, with pickles, mayo, Gulden's Mustard(tm), banana peppers and cut into 4 pieces diagonally.

i agree this thread made me hungry womyn indeed...
Syniks
15-02-2006, 23:29
So what will they do for male and female? Femail? Femayle?
And why do they only attack English (particularly the American variant) for its "sexisim" when we have an essentially linguistically gender neutral language?

(Hint - it's all about Politics, not Equality)
Nenula Lakkenpera
15-02-2006, 23:32
No-one is saying that this spelling will guarantee respect. As a radical feminist I can say that people use this spelling (which I use sometimes, but mostly not- depends on the audience) as a consciousness-raising tool, to make people think about the place women have in society, particularly in relation to men. And it's got nothing to do with "man-hating."

Fuck it, I'm tired of having to defend feminism on these boards...

Kinda makes sense in that context, but I prefer to use the traditional spelling, personally.
There's something similar going on among Wiccans and other magic practitioners, where some people spell what they do 'magick' to differentiate between what they do and the more conventional views of magic. Again, I choose to spell it the traditional way; there's no difference in pronunciation anyway, and if I wish to be more specific I can simply capitalize the word when I write. But I'm getting off-topic.
Yeah, burning bras is just a dumb thing to do. If you're going to be symbolic, I would suggest corsets (mind you, corsets are really expensive and now barely used outside the bedroom) or perhaps aprons. I really don't know, though; symbolism isn't my forte, and I think that many of these demonstrations don't accomplish much except generate more garbage. I think a more productive thing would be creating artwork, writing, maybe a parade or two. I may be stating the obvious, but people are more likely to respond positively if they think you aren't nuts and unable to think about the consequences of your actions.
Terecia
15-02-2006, 23:35
(Hint - it's all about Politics, not Equality)

Something tells me they might get rather stirred if Hiliary runs for the presidency.
Preebs
15-02-2006, 23:37
And why do they only attack English (particularly the American variant) for its "sexisim" when we have an essentially linguistically gender neutral language?

(Hint - it's all about Politics, not Equality)
So our nouns aren't masculine or feminine, big deal. The way language is used does however tend to favour the male. For example, masculinity is an assumed norm- see the internet as an example.

And how the fuck can you separate politics and equality? Political tools are used to fight for equality. And don't tell me we're already equal because that's a load of horseshite.
Syniks
15-02-2006, 23:38
Something tells me they might get rather stirred if Hiliary runs for the presidency.
That's why I want Condi to run too. Elections are muddy. That one would be a Cat Fight.

Mmmmm Mudwrestling Wimmin! ;)
Preebs
15-02-2006, 23:39
Something tells me they might get rather stirred if Hiliary runs for the presidency.
WTF? I'm an anarchist. I don't give a fuck who runs for the presidency, we'll still get the same shit.
Syniks
15-02-2006, 23:40
So our nouns aren't masculine or feminine, big deal. The way language is used does however tend to favour the male. For example, masculinity is an assumed norm- see the internet as an example.

And how the fuck can you separate politics and equality? Political tools are used to fight for equality. And don't tell me we're already equal because that's a load of horseshite.
I tend to think women are better, but that's just the chilvarous reactionary in me.
Keruvalia
15-02-2006, 23:40
I spell it with 3 Rs, 2 silent Qs, and 7 Us.
Preebs
15-02-2006, 23:42
I spell it with 3 Rs, 2 silent Qs, and 7 Us.
A true revolutionary. *tips hat*
:p
The Similized world
15-02-2006, 23:42
Kinda makes sense in that context, but I prefer to use the traditional spelling, personally.
There's something similar going on among Wiccans and other magic practitioners, where some people spell what they do 'magick' to differentiate between what they do and the more conventional views of magic. Again, I choose to spell it the traditional way; there's no difference in pronunciation anyway, and if I wish I can simply capitalize the word when I write.
It is a bit odd though, at least if my limited knowledge of linguistics is correct.

Didn't people invent the words "woman" & "women" to differentiate between the genders in the first place? - I was under the impression everyone - regardless of sex - used to be called men.
Terecia
15-02-2006, 23:42
WTF? I'm an anarchist. I don't give a fuck who runs for the presidency, we'll still get the same shit.

I said "they". I was making a sweeping generalization, read my op.
Preebs
15-02-2006, 23:43
I tend to think women are better, but that's just the chilvarous reactionary in me.
Chivalry? Pfft- chivalry = paternalism. We just want to be recognised as people...
Preebs
15-02-2006, 23:45
It is a bit odd though, at least if my limited knowledge of linguistics is correct.

Didn't people invent the words "woman" & "women" to differentiate between the genders in the first place? - I was under the impression everyone - regardless of sex - used to be called men.
Yeah, people have posted about that. I contend that the way feminists are changing the word is in reaction to current usages and circumstances, to arguing about etymology is useless. *shrugs*
Dakini
15-02-2006, 23:47
I am a feminist (yes, I believe that I deserve to be treated equally and no, I do not hate men) and I use women/woman. It's pretty fucking stupid to change the word.
Nietzschens
15-02-2006, 23:50
if women get to be called a Womyn can i be a He-man

just like the kiddie show :D
Randomlittleisland
15-02-2006, 23:51
What about wombat? Is that taken?

Or womble?
Sinuhue
15-02-2006, 23:53
Yeah, people have posted about that. I contend that the way feminists are changing the word is in reaction to current usages and circumstances, to arguing about etymology is useless. *shrugs*
It's amusing that people who so object to the English language being 'changed', don't bother to rail against the evil encroachment of pop culture vocabulary into every day speech, or the appropriation of foreign words (rather than inventing our own). So...is it only words that are introduced with purpose that they object to? If we can now have a word like 'santorum', why the hell not, 'womyn'?
Nietzschens
15-02-2006, 23:53
the wombles of wimbledon common are we....

heh heh thay do live in a park :rolleyes:
Nenula Lakkenpera
15-02-2006, 23:53
It is a bit odd though, at least if my limited knowledge of linguistics is correct.

Didn't people invent the words "woman" & "women" to differentiate between the genders in the first place? - I was under the impression everyone - regardless of sex - used to be called men.

Sounds like what happened. For a long time I think that there was only one singular third person for people of either gender. In fact, Finnish still only has one (hän) that refers to both 'he' and 'she', making it difficult to know whether they're talking about a man or a woman when they talk. It does clear up the 'his/her/their' question, and it's interesting to note the Finns were the first to give women the right to vote.
Sinuhue
15-02-2006, 23:54
I am a feminist (yes, I believe that I deserve to be treated equally and no, I do not hate men) and I use women/woman. It's pretty fucking stupid to change the word.
I too am a feminist and I use women/woman. I don't care if someone else wants to spell it womyn. I can still figure out what they are referring to, and it doesn't offend me in any way.
L-rouge
15-02-2006, 23:55
I know Preebs said not to argue etymology, but...

In ancient English (or should that be Anglish...) Man meant brain, so the species referred to as man just meant that we differenciated ourselves from other animals by the increased size of our brains. Wo-man was a later addition in order to take into account the natural differences in men and women (namely, women give birth, men don't). So the extension wo-man was taken from wombed-man, or life giving brain. It was because of this that women were reveared in ancient society and it wasn't until more modern times that wo-man become synonomous with wife-man.

Seriously though, the spelling is woman. Like it or lump it, it just is and as has been mentioned, guaranteeing equality of the sexes is more important than changing the spelling of the word.
Sinuhue
15-02-2006, 23:56
Seriously though, the spelling woman. Like it or lump it, it just is and as has been mentioned, guaranteeing equality of the sexes is more important than chnaging the spelling of the word.
Why would anyone assume that these two actions are mutually exclusive? Does anyone really think that femenists are so going to tire themselves out championing the alternate spelling that they won't have time for anything else????:D

"Hmmm, I have to choose between getting people to spell it womyn, or guaranteeing equality between the sexes. Damn...I guess I'll go with the spelling. Equality will just have to wait."
K1tt3nnKyl3
15-02-2006, 23:57
I can understand that women may feel that they are being seen as less superior to men, but my god. Must we go so far as to change teh spelling of a word, just to make ourselves stand out? I think not.:D
L-rouge
15-02-2006, 23:58
Why would anyone assume that these two actions are mutually exclusive? Does anyone really think that femenists are so going to tire themselves out championing the alternate spelling that they won't have time for anything else????:D
Not at all, but you've got to admit, it's a rather useless change.
Nietzschens
15-02-2006, 23:58
Why would anyone assume that these two actions are mutually exclusive? Does anyone really think that femenists are so going to tire themselves out championing the alternate spelling that they won't have time for anything else????:D


if we put up enough of a fight for long enough then answer is yes its a war of attrition you see :mp5:
Jacques Derrida
15-02-2006, 23:59
Not at all, but you've got to admit, it's a rather useless change.

Haven't the brits adopted the -ise ending in preference to the more correct -ize from to make themselves feel more 'continental' and less 'american' though?
Sinuhue
16-02-2006, 00:00
I can understand that women may feel that they are being seen as less superior to men, but my god. Must we go so far as to change teh spelling of a word, just to make ourselves stand out? I think not.:D
Why not? We change language all the time. We no longer automatically use words like fireman, policeman or stewardess, but instead choose to use more inclusive terms...that may seem like PC bullshit to some, but isn't it better to say firefighter, police officer and flight attendant rather than, "female fireman, female police officer, male stewardess" so that people don't keep assuming your gender when your job title is brought up?
Preebs
16-02-2006, 00:00
Seriously though, the spelling is woman. Like it or lump it, it just is and as has been mentioned, guaranteeing equality of the sexes is more important than changing the spelling of the word.
We fully recognise that there are more larger, broader issues at stake, and that changing the way language is used is in fact a means to an end rather than the end itself. So in that way, by changing people's consciousness, we hope to bring about broader change. Also, we always end up talking about this because, as Sin said, people just can't get over it. I think they want to find any reason to put feminism and feminists down, and this is an obvious one.
Sinuhue
16-02-2006, 00:02
Not at all, but you've got to admit, it's a rather useless change.
It's important to some. And it's generally used in very specific settings anyway...a kind of rebellion by some, or a regular thing for others. I haven't really seen anyone who wants to go through all our literature and revise it to reflect the new spelling. If someone wants to spell it womyn, so bloody what? I'm not about to get worked up about it. Damn...especially not when there are more important things to get worked up about. Like sex and cheesecake!
Sinuhue
16-02-2006, 00:03
if we put up enough of a fight for long enough then answer is yes its a war of attrition you see :mp5:
I KNEW IT! The whole 'womyn' issue....in fact the whole 'femenism=man-hating' argument is devised by anti-femenists who want to sap our strength! It shant work!
Sinuhue
16-02-2006, 00:05
Haven't the brits adopted the -ise ending in preference to the more correct -ize from to make themselves feel more 'continental' and less 'american' though?
Adopted? I simply thought that was how they spelled things to begin with. I'm a sticker for the -ise ending...you'll notice I rarely, if ever use -ize. Generally, as long as you stick with your spelling rule, you're fine (colour instead of color, neighbour instead of neighbor and realise instead of realize). It's when you go all wonky and switch it up that your profs tend to want to beat you with bamboo.
Nietzschens
16-02-2006, 00:07
I KNEW IT! The whole 'womyn' issue....in fact the whole 'femenism=man-hating' argument is devised by anti-femenists who want to sap our strength! It shant work!

to quote morpheus "welcome to the real world"

actualy i dont agree i just felt someone had to stand defend the sexists with all the bashing going on :D
Jacques Derrida
16-02-2006, 00:09
Why not? We change language all the time. We no longer automatically use words like fireman, policeman or stewardess, but instead choose to use more inclusive terms...that may seem like PC bullshit to some, but isn't it better to say firefighter, police officer and flight attendant rather than, "female fireman, female police officer, male stewardess" so that people don't keep assuming your gender when your job title is brought up?

Well I think a male stewardess is a steward.

But you raise an interesting point, I've noticed that the trend has not been so much to drive for inclusive terms, per se, but rather elminate the letter combination M-A-N, usually. For example chairman has become chairperson, however, no-one has suggested - that I know of - of eliminating actress, executrix, and so forth. (And of course woman -> womyn)

I wonder if inclusiveness is really the goal?
L-rouge
16-02-2006, 00:11
Haven't the brits adopted the -ise ending in preference to the more correct -ize from to make themselves feel more 'continental' and less 'american' though?
Could be argued that it's the other way around, with the Americans changing it to -ize instead of the correct -ise, the language is English afterall. However, neither would be completely correct as during the period of the colonies, and the subsequent split with America, single spelling was not in common use.
Jacques Derrida
16-02-2006, 00:11
Adopted? I simply thought that was how they spelled things to begin with. I'm a sticker for the -ise ending...you'll notice I rarely, if ever use -ize. Generally, as long as you stick with your spelling rule, you're fine (colour instead of color, neighbour instead of neighbor and realise instead of realize). It's when you go all wonky and switch it up that your profs tend to want to beat you with bamboo.

No. The ize form is older, and according to the oxford style manual, more correct (in most cases). -ise is a continentalism I presume.

I'll see if I can find a link.
Preebs
16-02-2006, 00:13
Well I think a male stewardess is a steward.

But you raise an interesting point, I've noticed that the trend has not been so much to drive for inclusive terms, per se, but rather elminate the letter combination M-A-N, usually. For example chairman has become chairperson, however, no-one has suggested - that I know of - of eliminating actress, executrix, and so forth. (And of course woman -> womyn)

I wonder if inclusiveness is really the goal?
Not true. In Australia it has become commonplace for people to say "actor" regardless of the gender of the person. And executrix? Never heard that word before in my life. We'd just say executor... And all the words you listed have a male and female alternative, so nobody is really excluded, although the male form is often used as a default- the assumption of maleness.
Jacques Derrida
16-02-2006, 00:14
Here's a link that 'splains the -ise v. -ize thing.

linkie (http://www.worldwidewords.org/qa/qa-ise1.htm)
Irijatli Feliryha
16-02-2006, 00:15
Woman.

Even if it is only a radical section of feminism, or a group loosely associated with feminism, these kinds of issues cast a bad light on the feminist movement as a whole. People readily generalize an instance's views into a group's views. (Someone brought that up in another poll on a possible War with Islam)

Consider, for example, that I allow students and younger children to call me by my first name instead of saying "Mister" in front of it. If they show respect, they deserve that privilege; if they don't, then forcing them to say "Mister" will not make them respect me.

Semantics and spelling have little (if not counterproductive) effect on the issue of equality and respect; using a slur does not necessarily imply inequality and disrespect, nor does politically-correct language imply equality and respect.
Sinuhue
16-02-2006, 00:17
however, no-one has suggested - that I know of - of eliminating actress, executrix, and so forth. (And of course woman -> womyn)

I wonder if inclusiveness is really the goal?
I think actress hasn't been changed simply because modern society is so taken with it 'stars', and gender really matters. If you are told you're going to get a glimpse of the naughty bits of an actor, your reaction may be different than if you were to be told the same about an actress. Some words are already neutral...doctor, for example. But nurse is still a rather 'feminine' word...it's changing, and people don't automatically assume gender, but the word itself doesn't need to be changed, just the attitude surrounding certain professions. You don't have words being introduced like 'weldress' ...and executrix? That's the first time I've ever seen that word! I can think of many, many examples of words that were very gender-biased that have been changed to be gender neutral...but for examples of words that have continued being gender-specific, actor and actress are about all I can come up with. So yes, I think inclusiveness IS the goal.
Preebs
16-02-2006, 00:18
Woman.

Even if it is only a radical section of feminism, or a group loosely associated with feminism, these kinds of issues cast a bad light on the feminist movement as a whole.
Only if you
a) automatically assume that anything radical is bad.
and
b) don't understand the issue at all.

:)
Moonock
16-02-2006, 00:18
i'll have roast beef on toasted rye, with pickles, mayo, Gulden's Mustard(tm), banana peppers and cut into 4 pieces diagonally.
WTF!!! YOU DONT TALK TO A LADIE LIKE THT!!!
Sinuhue
16-02-2006, 00:19
Here's a link that 'splains the -ise v. -ize thing.

linkie (http://www.worldwidewords.org/qa/qa-ise1.htm)
Well, I've been spelling with -ise my whole life...I'm not about to switch:) I don't really care if it's British or USian or some other third thing.
Nietzschens
16-02-2006, 00:21
WTF!!! YOU DONT TALK TO A LADIE LIKE THT!!!

do so!!!!!!111!1

if she a waitress :D
Luporum
16-02-2006, 00:21
I prefer to call them penis lackers. Much more official and less offending.
Sinuhue
16-02-2006, 00:22
Woman.

Even if it is only a radical section of feminism, or a group loosely associated with feminism, these kinds of issues cast a bad light on the feminist movement as a whole. People readily generalize an instance's views into a group's views. (Someone brought that up in another poll on a possible War with Islam)Like that's not going to happen anyway. Blaming issues like the spelling of 'womyn' for the 'bad rep' feminism has is erroneous. That bad rep is created in the minds of those who either deliberately misinterpret the goals of feminism, or outright oppose those goals. Feminists could be squeaky clean, never raise their voices, never challenge...and people would still be threatened by them. But wait...if they did all those things, they wouldn't be very effective, now would they? If a bad rep comes with getting results, I think we're willing to weather it.
Jacques Derrida
16-02-2006, 00:22
Not true. In Australia it has become commonplace for people to say "actor" regardless of the gender of the person. And executrix? Never heard that word before in my life. We'd just say executor... And all the words you listed have a male and female alternative, so nobody is really excluded, although the male form is often used as a default- the assumption of maleness.

Interesting about that in australia. That hasn't been the case here - in general. Executrix is a female executor. It's still widely used. (Though prosecutrix seems to have fallen out of fashion. Maybe with the decline in private prosecutions, and the assumption that the state is always male perhaps).

For you point about inclusiveness, I dissagree, insofar as words having a male and female alternative. Chairman always had Chairwoman, as did policman/policewoman. If inclusiveness is really the goal, then why are they not acceptable?
Sinuhue
16-02-2006, 00:23
I prefer to call them penis lackers. Much more official and less offending.
Only if you become uterus-challenged.
Preebs
16-02-2006, 00:23
Well, I've been spelling with -ise my whole life...I'm not about to switch:) I don't really care if it's British or USian or some other third thing.
I'm going to strike preemptively here. I know someone is gonig to use this as a reason to not use the word womyn. So,I'll just say that that's fine, radfems aren't trying to make everyone use the word, but the people who do use it want you to think about gender issues.

There. *phew, crisis averted*
Luporum
16-02-2006, 00:24
Only if you become uterus-challenged.

Add Meatbag Chests and we have a deal.
Sinuhue
16-02-2006, 00:25
For you point about inclusiveness, I dissagree, insofar as words having a male and female alternative. Chairman always had Chairwoman, as did policman/policewoman. If inclusiveness is really the goal, then why are they not acceptable?
Because gender shouldn't matter. Why should it matter that your chairperson is male or female? Why shout it out to the world? Why should the default be male anyway? Why NOT a word that simply tells you what the person does, and leave their genitalia out of it? Having two different words based on your reproductive organs is divisive, not inclusive.
Nietzschens
16-02-2006, 00:25
I prefer to call them penis lackers. Much more official and less offending.

what do u call shemales :confused:
Nenula Lakkenpera
16-02-2006, 00:25
the wombles of wimbledon common are we....

heh heh thay do live in a park :rolleyes:

LOL! I've heard that song before, though I'm not sure where. So catchy.

Personally, I wouldn't mind being called wombat, unless it were a reference to excessive body hair :p

Seriously though, the spelling woman. Like it or lump it, it just is and as has been mentioned, guaranteeing equality of the sexes is more important than changing the spelling of the word.

Well put! It's a part of the English language, and has been for a long time.


It's amusing that people who so object to the English language being 'changed', don't bother to rail against the evil encroachment of pop culture vocabulary into every day speech, or the appropriation of foreign words (rather than inventing our own). So...is it only words that are introduced with purpose that they object to? If we can now have a word like 'santorum', why the hell not, 'womyn'?

I have nothing against new vocabulary words; although some terms annoy me, most are just fads that will be forgotten in a couple decades. And as for introducing foreign words into our vocabulary, that's essentially what the English language is! We're always borrowing words from other languages until we have a hard time telling which ones are 'ours' and which aren't.
Oh dear, this discussion is gravitating more towards etymology than feminism. Well, both subjects are interesting.
I think true feminism is about equality of the genders, and it's only a few radical people who give them a bad name.
Sinuhue
16-02-2006, 00:26
I'm going to strike preemptively here. I know someone is gonig to use this as a reason to not use the word womyn. So,I'll just say that that's fine, radfems aren't trying to make everyone use the word, but the people who do use it want you to think about gender issues.

There. *phew, crisis averted*
I already tried that...but people want to believe the worst about the issue. Just let them. It makes them feel better.
Preebs
16-02-2006, 00:27
For you point about inclusiveness, I dissagree, insofar as words having a male and female alternative. Chairman always had Chairwoman, as did policman/policewoman. If inclusiveness is really the goal, then why are they not acceptable?
I think there are a few reasons why a chairperson is preferable to a chairman/woman. Firstly, value judgements will be passed (by some people) on the quality of the person and their work based on gender, so by removing that identifier you're making that position more gender neutral. Also, if the ender of a chairperson (or anyone else obviously, this is jsut an example) is not known, they have always been referred to as the chairman. There's that sssumption of maleness that I was talking about. I think using a wholly gender neutral term avoids that.
Luporum
16-02-2006, 00:28
what do u call shemales :confused:

Penis Reformers?

It's a very gray area.
Nietzschens
16-02-2006, 00:29
Penis Reformers?

It's a very gray area.

i like "chiks with dicks" but if u say it in public you get stared at :eek:
Nietzschens
16-02-2006, 00:31
thread hi-jacking in progress pls change the subject please.....
Luporum
16-02-2006, 00:32
i like "chiks with dicks" but if u say it in public you get stared at :eek:

I just address a cross gendered person by the gender they're attempting to look like. Less conflict, confusion, and guilt.
Nietzschens
16-02-2006, 00:35
cross gendered how pc but what if he/she/it doesnt want to be there dominant sex ?
Nietzschens
16-02-2006, 00:38
alot of women like to wear mens clothes anyway so how are u suposed to tell?
Irijatli Feliryha
16-02-2006, 00:41
Only if you
a) automatically assume that anything radical is bad.
and
b) don't understand the issue at all.

:)

Unfortunately, most people choose irrationality. Life is simpler when one avoids weighing evidence, verifying premises, making judgments, and forming arguments. Generalizing a small group into a large one is much easier than thinking, especially if all the information at one's disposal is only that on the six o'clock news or in the morning paper.

The resistance to change, especially radical change, is also understandable: if it works well enough, why should anything change?

Does this mean radical change is wrong? No. I am a radical myself (of a peculiar breed, too!). But the resistance to change is understandable; after all, we monkey folk have survived for millenia fearing what is different.

As for me, I admit I fail to understand these issues in their entirety. I can't say I play any role in this gender battle. I'm just self-interested: I don't care about who someone is as long as that someone can perform competently. If a woman, or someone who is normally inherently considered inferior, untouchable, or repressed, can do the job better than the 'traditional' candidate, then I am hurting myself by hiring someone less able.

Not many people think of it that way, though.
Luporum
16-02-2006, 00:41
cross gendered how pc but what if he/she/it doesnt want to be there dominant sex ?

I actually just prefer saying cross gendered but if they don't want to be called what they look like then they aren't trying hard enough to escape their previous gender and I would think that after getting such a surgery one would go to extra lengths to secure their new identity. But whatever.

Back on Subject: Woman looks better than Womyn, I'd prefer just lady or femal...err femyle.
Dinaverg
16-02-2006, 00:45
I think there are a few reasons why a chairperson is preferable to a chairman/woman. Firstly, value judgements will be passed (by some people) on the quality of the person and their work based on gender, so by removing that identifier you're making that position more gender neutral. Also, if the ender of a chairperson (or anyone else obviously, this is jsut an example) is not known, they have always been referred to as the chairman. There's that sssumption of maleness that I was talking about. I think using a wholly gender neutral term avoids that.

I don't know about other people but hearing words that now end in "person" just makes me think of the difference more. And if you don't like the default, take your troubles up with the Spanish speaking countries, a group of 1 male and five females is still refered to in a plural male form, learn spanish and start trying to "fix" that language. What has the assumption of maleness done?
Nietzschens
16-02-2006, 00:47
Woman looks better than Womyn, I'd prefer just lady or femal...err femyle.

u mean shething right
Eutrusca
16-02-2006, 00:49
"Woman or Womyn?"

Huh? WTF, over?? :confused:
Nadkor
16-02-2006, 00:51
"Woman or Womyn?"

Huh? WTF, over?? :confused:
If you had bothered to read the thread...;)
Eutrusca
16-02-2006, 00:52
If you had bothered to read the thread...;)
[ trout-slap ] :p
Nadkor
16-02-2006, 00:52
cross gendered how pc but what if he/she/it doesnt want to be there dominant sex ?
As a general rule, just ask. Then refer to them as whatever they reply. If they say as female then refer to them as female, if they say as male then refer to them as male. It's polite, making sure you get it right, and what harm can asking do?
Nietzschens
16-02-2006, 00:53
annoy them?
Nadkor
16-02-2006, 00:55
[ trout-slap ] :p
:D
Jacques Derrida
16-02-2006, 00:55
There's that sssumption of maleness that I was talking about. I think using a wholly gender neutral term avoids that.

Which goes back to my point, that it's really about removing M-A-N, and not creating a gender neutral language per se.

Not that there is anything wrong with that.
Nadkor
16-02-2006, 00:56
annoy them?
Nope. Very unlikely.
Irijatli Feliryha
16-02-2006, 01:15
Like that's not going to happen anyway. Blaming issues like the spelling of 'womyn' for the 'bad rep' feminism has is erroneous. That bad rep is created in the minds of those who either deliberately misinterpret the goals of feminism, or outright oppose those goals.

I'm a tad bit confused here, Sinuhue: are you saying that this spelling of 'womyn' is something that should be done? Or are you simply stating that you're going to get a bad reputation no matter what you do?

If the latter, I agree :) and sympathize; I've already gotten a bad reputation because of what I stand for.

If the former, I don't think a spelling change will help you. I said earlier that, despite the fact that certain words are all but illegal, there are still intolerant people around.

While feminism's opponents may be the origin of feminism's bad reputation, if factions of feminism champion something as petty as this spelling issue, it hinders feminism from getting the support it needs to facilitate the changes it wants. If normal people feel like their lives are going to change too much, then they will not align with feminism. People need to see what they seek to gain, what they have in common.

Feminists could be squeaky clean, never raise their voices, never challenge...and people would still be threatened by them.

Of course, that is true with any change and any idea. But that wasn't what I was saying you should do. :)

But wait...if they did all those things, they wouldn't be very effective, now would they? If a bad rep comes with getting results, I think we're willing to weather it.

Goals worth pursing might require costs like that, no arguments there. Ojectivists and libertarians weather criticism about Ayn Rand's personal life and being uncaring self-centered egomaniacs, and that does not deter them. Communists continue to believe in the face of the collapse of the USSR and Chinese human rights issues.

I guess what I am trying to say is: it is best not to incur a cost too high (get a bad reputation) over something relatively trivial. Better to be hated because the issues you champion further your cause, than hated because the issues you choose to champion are pointless.

Note that I am not saying feminism is pointless; I am saying that changing the spelling of woman to 'womyn' is pointless.
Lyinar
16-02-2006, 01:26
I use "Woman", because I make it a policy never to write a word I can't pronounce. And I've never heard "Womyn" spoken (unless it's pronounced identically to "Woman", in which case it's pretty useless beyond written slogans/posters in creating awareness, etc.), so I don't know how it's (officially) pronounced ... hence, "Woman".
Sheni
16-02-2006, 02:07
*snip* take your troubles up with the Spanish speaking countries, a group of 1 male and five females is still refered to in a plural male form, learn spanish and start trying to "fix" that language. What has the assumption of maleness done?
A lot of languages, actually. Hebrew, for one.
Tryssina
16-02-2006, 02:41
And executrix? Never heard that word before in my life. We'd just say executor...

Oi.... I've never heard of Executrix OR executor.... (Except the pokemon exeggutor...)

I thought it was "executive".
Nadkor
16-02-2006, 02:49
Oi.... I've never heard of Executrix OR executor.... (Except the pokemon exeggutor...)

I thought it was "executive".
An executor (male)/executrix (female) is somebody who carries something out. Like the executor of a Will.
Unogal
16-02-2006, 02:54
I like how thourout this thread people have incorrectly used 'gender' and 'sex' interchangebly as if they were synomomous.

being a boy, i'm probably ignorant, but what does the spelling of woman/womyn have to do with feminism?
Irijatli Feliryha
16-02-2006, 03:13
I like how thourout this thread people have incorrectly used 'gender' and 'sex' interchangebly as if they were synomomous.

That is curious. Please elaborate; I was not aware there was a difference.

... what does the spelling of woman/womyn have to do with feminism?

This is an extremely worthwhile question. Someone correct me if I am wrong (because that is likely!), but the other spelling, 'womyn', is supposedly less sexist than the original, 'woman'. The idea championed by some is that the spelling should be changed in order to help correct the inequality between women and men.

That, as I understand it, is the issue as objectively as I can state it. As for what it has to do with feminism... well, you'd have to ask them. I don't know enough to comment about it. :)
Chercheur
16-02-2006, 03:18
I didn't have a clue there was another way to spell it until the other day.

Suffice to say, I really don't care. Dwelling on the difference is probably just more likely to give credence to inequality.
Sel Appa
16-02-2006, 03:33
who the hell spells womyn?

Google Fight (http://www.googlefight.com/index.php?lang=en_GB&word1=woman&word2=womyn)-
woman-541M
womyn-1.27M
(541:1.27...426:1)
Syniks
16-02-2006, 05:07
I like how thourout this thread people have incorrectly used 'gender' and 'sex' interchangebly as if they were synomomous.
I don't believe I have, because I have largely mentioned linguistics. But you are correct in your irritation.

Gender is a linguistic category/case, "sex" is a genetic trait. Only words can have 'gender'.

Obviously, This misunderstanding comes from not taking enough Latin, French or German.
Korrithor
16-02-2006, 05:32
Womyn looks like the name of some ancient Celtic demon or something.
PasturePastry
16-02-2006, 05:46
I think the only people that use "womyn" are feminazis that are so full of misandry that the mere thought of man anything causes them to break out in hives. These are people that overcome penis envy by behaving like total pricks.
The Isle of Skye
16-02-2006, 05:48
And fuck women.

We're not responsible for the wound in your crotch. You owe us a rib.

/plagairism
Propgandhi
16-02-2006, 05:56
its called phallus envy first of all, if your gonna quote freud do it well. owe us a rib? ahhh so your one of those religious types that think that everyone is equal but some are equaler? well you all disgust me, if Mcdonalds can protest having McJob put in t dictionary, we can protest woman being there too.
PasturePastry
16-02-2006, 06:02
its called phallus envy first of all, if your gonna quote freud do it well. owe us a rib? ahhh so your one of those religious types that think that everyone is equal but some are equaler? well you all disgust me, if Mcdonalds can protest having McJob put in t dictionary, we can protest woman being there too.

I rest my case.
Ga-halek
16-02-2006, 06:59
Is "womyn" plural, singular, or interchangable? Are there similar variants?
The idea behind the change to womyn from women is that it makes them "independent" from men. With "men" as the base word it makes man as the standard; but "women" is made an alteration of men. So essentially, in the minds of some feminists, men are considered the standard of all things wheras women are mesured and thought of in how they differ from men; women are viewed as the "outsider." The change in name is supposed to seperate themselves and make them think of themselves as their own standards; this will lead to increased self-images and beliefs of empowerment. To me this seems like an example of people believing that if they feel better about themselves it will actually mean something in relation to social conditions.
Peechland
16-02-2006, 07:03
I am a woman and I think "womyn" is silly as hell.
Propgandhi
16-02-2006, 08:04
so what do you get out of keeping it the same? is that one differant letter too hard to remember? if so just change your spell check.
and womyn is interchangeable
Myotisinia
16-02-2006, 08:12
I'll be happy to call that pretentious, condescending and self-centered female humynoid type a womyn just as soon as they quit calling those damned things in the streets "manhole" covers.

George Carlin is going to have a field day with this.........
Jacques Derrida
16-02-2006, 08:15
Is "womyn" plural, singular, or interchangable? Are there similar variants?
The idea behind the change to womyn from women is that it makes them "independent" from men. With "men" as the base word it makes man as the standard; but "women" is made an alteration of men. So essentially, in the minds of some feminists, men are considered the standard of all things wheras women are mesured and thought of in how they differ from men; women are viewed as the "outsider." The change in name is supposed to seperate themselves and make them think of themselves as their own standards; this will lead to increased self-images and beliefs of empowerment. To me this seems like an example of people believing that if they feel better about themselves it will actually mean something in relation to social conditions.

I believe that the womyn is the plural, and womon is the singular. Also, it's not female, but femal, herstory for history, and humyn.

It's an attempt to better huwomynty.

(I suppose by rights Herpes should become Hispes too).
Of the council of clan
16-02-2006, 08:18
"Bitch fix me a sandwich" works too:-p
Propgandhi
16-02-2006, 08:38
I believe that the womyn is the plural, and womon is the singular. Also, it's not female, but femal, herstory for history, and humyn.

It's an attempt to better huwomynty.

(I suppose by rights Herpes should become Hispes too).

im guessing your chrystian white male, probably american and voted for either dumb or dumber...
So you take a serious issue, exagerate in an attempt to make it sound far fetched. So jealous of a womyn's movement... a little bit insecure or just plain dumb
Chechle
16-02-2006, 08:54
Forgive me for being off-topic, but after reading all these posts, I am reminded of Eric Idle's (MAY be the wrong cast member, think it's right though) Rant on how he wants to have babies. "It's my right as a man!" "Where will the fetus gestate? In a box?!"
Cute Dangerous Animals
16-02-2006, 09:49
Womyn
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Womyn is the best-known one of a number of alternate spellings which some feminists promote as a way to degender the English word women and as female empowerment. Other variants include wimmin (plural), wom!n, womban and womon (singular), while femal (from female) and humyn (human) apply the principle elsewhere. All are pronounced the same as the conventional terms.

Go Wikipedia it actually had it in there. Who knew :D theres more

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Womyn

point if it sounds the same what is the point


How about 'moron'?
Andaras Prime
16-02-2006, 09:52
The ones who object to the word men in women.
Oh I never noticed that...:rolleyes:
Cute Dangerous Animals
16-02-2006, 09:52
I tend to think women are better, but that's just the chilvarous reactionary in me.

Ahhhhh - a TRAITOR :D
Cute Dangerous Animals
16-02-2006, 09:54
It's amusing that people who so object to the English language being 'changed', don't bother to rail against the evil encroachment of pop culture vocabulary into every day speech, or the appropriation of foreign words (rather than inventing our own). So...is it only words that are introduced with purpose that they object to? If we can now have a word like 'santorum', why the hell not, 'womyn'?

Because it's stupid.
Upper Botswavia
16-02-2006, 09:56
Womyn? Well, I have heard this, yes... and while I do understand the concern raised by proponents of the odd spelling, personally, I prefer to substitute person if there is any debate.
Andaras Prime
16-02-2006, 09:58
Don't make me get out my bible and read genesis...
Preebs
16-02-2006, 23:07
I think the only people that use "womyn" are feminazis that are so full of misandry that the mere thought of man anything causes them to break out in hives. These are people that overcome penis envy by behaving like total pricks.
Good morning to you too.


Wanker.
Sinuhue
16-02-2006, 23:13
Good morning to you too.


Wanker.
Don't mind him. He's the one who asserted that women are to blame for being raped.
Preebs
16-02-2006, 23:15
Don't mind him. He's the one who asserted that women are to blame for being raped.
Oh, one of those. So my assessment was correct.
Kzord
16-02-2006, 23:37
Even worse than "womyn" is complaining about the word "manage" - it is derived from the latin "manus" (meaning "hand"), it has nothing to do with men!

Instead of trying to fuck up the English language, they should just put in the extra effort and make their own language.
Saige Dragon
17-02-2006, 00:10
Shebeast.

Wait that contains "he"...so does her. Female. Human. Sweet jesus, we're going to have to change a lot to satisfy the shebeast.
Swilatia
17-02-2006, 00:48
polish word for it.